Lipstick Wisdom

I’ve written about the woes of having to compete with small-waist ample bottomed sisters for a millisecond of attention- boohoo. It made the brothers chuckle at our shenanigans and foolery. They know we’re beautiful and cannot simply understand why we find fault so easily. After that article some of us learned to focus on improving […]

In my journey to happy healthy relationship land I’ve had to make a few commitments to myself in order get “into the space” and really manifest my intentions. Each time I’ve made a commitment to myself to do better, a test will come along. If it was easy to set an intention and stick to […]

What happens in my bedroom usually stays there. I’ve never had to deal with a leaked sex tape or being the topic of a “she has been around the block” conversation. Wait, I have a sex tape?! No one would care anyway girl let’s keep it moving. My somewhat squeaky clean reputation doesn’t make me […]

I’m a member of the late twenties bombshell crew and one thing I’ve noticed is that many of us are slowing down and coupling up….no really?! It’s around this age that we start thinking ahead and getting focused on what we want in life- true story. It’s common for women to want to start families, […]

If you regularly subscribe to my shenanigans on my personal site Goddess Intellect you know the one thing I loathe are too many rules. I’m the last person to tell you when to jump the broom, sleep with the enemy or use the bathroom; it’s mainly because I’m too busy trying to figure out my […]

One topic that I spent a lot of time discussing with peers in the past was Nice Guys Finishing Last. If you’re new to my world, you need to find time to listen to this old episode of my Blogtalkradio show “Menage A Talks” called, “Do Nice Guys Finish Last?” It was such an eye […]

I have a confession to make. Some time ago I had a friend of the opposite sex who was really sweet to me, took me out, made me laugh and was such great company but …but he was romantically interested in me. *reader looks around from side to side*what’s the  problem? Drumroll please…I did not […]

I came across an article that my girl Ronnette of Per Diem Newyork shared on Facebook entitled, “Are you dating a man or a Boy?” So of course I read it and shared it on my FB page because of the dopeness factor. I was then challenged to write a rebuttal, a mini manual let’s […]

I remember going through a, “girl I need to get out and have a few drinks to get this off my mind for a minute,” phase in a previous relationship. I spent a lot of time discussing my issues with a friend and now that I think back to our chop up sessions, I realize […]

Having your heart broken sucks, having your heart thrown out at sea to navigate through deep and troubled waters on the verge of the end of a relationship also sucks. A breakup can leave one so exasperated that your emotions begin to take precedence over your physical state. I recall being called out on weight […]

I’ve never had a problem ushering folks out of my life who somehow managed to upset the daily balance. In fact at times it’s a lot easier for me to say good bye and later with that, than it is for me to put the pieces back together. When trust is broken, the path to […]

I came across a video from one of favorite video bloggers Africano Boi. If you are not used to his videos, you will think he’s crazy. Every facial expression exaggerated, dialogue twangy live and in color, the drag with a mustache and misplaced wig swag- madness. I happen to like crazy; I take crazy for […]