Our beloved Jordan is officially grown up in “The Best Man Holiday.” She got her dream career with a handsome man attached to her hip. To our surprise that handsome arm piece isn’t a chocolate thunderous man. Jordan is officially down with the swirl. Who knew! Actress, Nia Long believes every woman working in a […]
Before I get into this post I have to thank those who have trusted me with the details of their love lives thus far. I’ve formed some great client-coach relationships with folks by simply answering a letter and in the process I also learn more about myself. I receive a lot of letters, and I […]
When I thought of the man I would one day settle down with, I imagined someone who was like an action star–think Bruce Willis, The Rock, Tom Cruise, free Wesley Snipes–macho, slick talking and strong with a big heart. He also had to be a man who was fearless and would go to the ends […]
Before you jump to conclusions because of my post title- HALT! Before your mind goes assuming please allow me to clear something up. The following post does not apply to anyone in a committed relationship…you can breathe now. This is for my people who are still swimming upstream in the dating world, the ones who […]
It’s rare and to some, non-existent, to come across friends of the opposite sex that add real value to our lives without any pressure to hook up, which is sad. I feel that although physical attraction is what it is, we should all have people in our circle of the opposite sex who are attraction- […]
Many summers ago I recall spending a lot of time at the YMCA. My boyfriend at the time splurged on a membership and was obsessed with physical fitness so I made it a point to go when I could. It was the coolest place on earth because it had a pool, sauna and towel service. […]
I was asked by a friend to write about where to meet new people. The topic instantly took me back to my Twitter rant (@goddess_I) this past weekend on networking. I can’t tell you how many networking events I’ve been to in my young life, but I have yet to leave one not feeling like […]
I had the pleasure of being a guest on the R & B Podcast hosted by Lincoln Anthony Blades of the popular This Is Your Conscience blog. We had a really interesting laid back conversation (as always) chopping it up about everything from event planning to my thoughts on threesomes (your cue to check it […]
Ladies the pickings are allegedly slim, and there are fewer truly available men, emphasis on black, to go around. Why is this? I mean we can pull out article after article on what’s wrong with the men and women of today, hold a 10 day conference and the rhetoric will remain the same: “These men […]
A few weeks ago I attended an event called The Conversation Party hosted by a fellow Torontonian friend and shy people advocate *fist pump* Fiana Andrews of Approach2Link. We discussed tips on approaching and being approached by the opposite sex, an seemingly elementary topic for a seasoned dater. Guests from a plethora of relationship stages […]
Women often find themselves dressing for mens’ pleasure and trying to make sure they capture their attention with their looks. However, it’s been proven…by men…that they love more than our physical appearance. Check out the other nine things that men find attractive about women. Confidence A universal winner, but it’s not just about what you […]
