Are you looking for love, but find yourself bored by all the typical dates featuring dinner and a movie, bowling, long walks and other cliche activities? And are you adventurous, always seeking the next adrenaline rush? Then this site, TheLeagueOfAdventurousSingles.com is for you! It’s less of a dating site and more of a community of thrill-seekers who want to break out of their comfort zone and meet other amazing singles.
Imagine the impact of living in complete joy of a thrilling moment and looking over to see the smile of a beautiful man who’s also carpe dieming. (I know that’s not the word). The connection and the genuine joy is the perfect formula for a joyful and loving relationship to develop and blossom.
From the site:
“The league is about kicking fear to the curb and getting passionate about life! Doing what you love. Trying new things. Having a sh*t-ton of fun. And surrounding yourself with amazing people who are doing the same thing. Because when people get out of their comfort zone they become happier and more confident. The happier, the more confident and more outgoing you are, the more amazing people are attracted to you!”
So here’s how it works. Once you sign up for the site ($35/a month for three months or $25/a month for six months), you’re given the group privileges, which are:
Genius calls: Once a month chats, where the site’s owner, Kira Sabin, chats with amazing life coaches who give advice on kicking fear to the curb.
Secret Society: Access to the member Facebook page, where you can share photos of your experience and see how others have embraced the challenges.
Q&A with Kira: A monthly call with Kira on various topics that are plaguing your life.
Challenges & Inspirations: Texts with challenges that push you and questions to make you think and self-reflect.
Scavenger Hunts: A monthly four-day hunt that will challenge you out of your comfort zone. There are ridiculous prizes and a chance to compete against other members, but share in outrageous experiences.
Online & Offline Events: There’s online dinner and movie dates, champagne chats and a lost of offline hunts and meetups.
Trapper Keeper: Bi-weekly emails filled with pep talks, madlibs, downloads, videos, playlists and more to help lift you up.
Surprises & Giveaways: Just wait and see what Kira has up her sleeves for you!
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Computer Love: A Single Girl's Guide To Flirting Online
1. We Found Love In A Digital Place
Online dating is now the second-most common way couples meet! 30 to 40 percent of singles are out here in these streets trying out 1,500 + dating sites and apps. So if you're single and don't want to be, stop shunning digital dating! But to avoid spending all your time clicking aimlessly, you need a game plan. And guess who's got your back? I do!
2. Keep Things Light
Flirting or dating, you're not getting married. Keep things light and not-so-serious. Don’t talk about anything that could lead to a serious discussion, unless you’re willing to curb your flirting to talk about the debt ceiling, rape culture or the new #BeBossy campaign. Flirt and have fun.
3. Be The Prize
If a guy posts pics of himself that are obviously trying to turn you on, do the opposite of every thirst bucket that tells them they're hot and bust his chops, but in a cute way. Say something like, "So I guess you're hoping to get a few more emails to boost your ego from that new pic, huh?" Oh and use a smiley. You're automatically in a different category, you're witty and interesting. Winning!
4. Don't Be Lovey Dovey
We all know you're online looking for love. You don't have to broadcast it. This could end flirting pretty quickly if the other person thinks you're moving too fast into love-filled language. Avoid blurting out "I love you" on the basis of several emails and one profile pic. Keep your warm fuzzies in check. It's okay to tell them you think they're lovely, fascinating and beautiful, but avoid the "L" word.
5. Be Yourself
Flirting isn’t any fun when you’re struggling to maintain a made-up persona, so do yourself a favor and just be yourself! The whole purpose is to take this relationship offline and into the real world. Flirting online grants you the time to be able to plan your responses--don't do that. You don't want the other person to fall in love with an idea of you.
6. Avoid M-Words Like...
"Motherhood," "Marriage" and "Monogamy." Listen, while all these things are wonderful, you don't want to scare your potential mate away by bringing up subjects that require a greater level of commitment than online dating and flirting requires. These are flirt-killing words! Remember you're online--you still have to find out if he's a "Catfish" or nah!
7. Stand Out From The Crowd
Look for ways to set yourself apart from every other person looking for love online. Think carefully about how you summarize yourself in the profile and with your photos. Pull out the most interesting and true things about yourself to put on your profile. I love seeing lists of random things people like: 1. I skip on Saturdays 2. I only eat the cream in Oreos 3. I never miss an episode of "Scandal." Try that!
8. Don't Snap
Men will be men and they will take things way too far. It's ok to be upset with them when they do so, but don't go off on the poor fool. You may want to tell him that he's crossed the line, but avoid cursing him out, using every profanity you've ever learned, caps and exclamation points.