You look great on paper but for some reason your background relationship check suggests otherwise. Why would a God-fearing, attractive, educated, popular woman with a good head on her shoulders and a natural scent of long stemmed roses ever spend a Saturday night alone? Everyone seems to be clueless as to what the issue is including you. It’s come to the point where you could care less about your love life so you cheerlead for others and accept the friends with benefit scenario I mean it’s effortless right? Or maybe you indulge in work and reality TV with a vengeance, they don’t give you as much headaches as dating does.
Shoot, let’s be honest with ourselves for one quick sec. There is nothing wrong with you, there really isn’t but some of your actions may be telling others that your perfect package is a lie. Instead of caring and warm you may be projecting, emotionally unavailable and judgmental. Instead of intelligent and witty you may be projecting cold and clingy.
We’re here in our current relationship status whether single, multiple partner lovin‘, complicated (which is BS btw) or attached to do one thing- LEARN. Just because you’ve snagged the man or woman of dreams does not mean the learning and effort stops, it never ends nor should it.
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Here’s a quick video I put together for the ladies (but of course I love when men chime in) on three ways you could be repelling men without realizing it:
Oh and ummm please excuse my disco inferno dance move at the beginning…I had too much sugar.
If you know you struggle with being open in your relationships, being too damn nice all the time or expecting others to be your everything when they cannot be, I want you to be apart of my upcoming 8-Week Relationship Vision Group Workshop. Check out all the things you get by visiting this link.
As always if you need to get at me with any relationship questions, I’m here for you! Email: email@example.com.
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Celebs Tweet Their Thoughts About #JusticeForSandraBland
1. Jesse Williams
#SandraBland's treatment while attempting to travel freely on HER public roadways has been acknowledged as unlawful. She is already dead.
2. Taraji P. Henson
"SAY HER NAME #SandraBland"
3. Ava DuVernay
"'Why are you arresting me?' Because you know your rights. Because I can. Because no one'll believe you. #SandraBland"
4. Kim Kardashian
#WhatHappenedToSandraBland We need answers!!!! This is NOT ok! This is all shady! They need to own up to this & tell the truth!
5. Jussie Smollet
"A loss 4 words. #SandraBlandMatters #BlackLivesMatter 👈🏿tell me this should change once the nation shows that we do. "
6. Snoop Dogg
🙏🌹. Sandra. Rip. 🌹🌹
7. K. Michelle
R.I.P to this queen. This could've been any of us. My prayers go out to her family. #sandrabland https://instagram.com/p/5fvlO_AhCf/
8. Gabrielle Union
SAY HER NAME!!! #SandraBland #SandraBland #SandraBland #SayHerName
"We must get to the cause of #sandrabland death because this CANNOT happen again #deathorfreedom"
10. David Banner
"When will we fight back. A man's duty on earth is to protect women and children. Where are the gangsters? Preachers? We need you. Please."
11. Nicki Minaj
"Rest In Peace #SandraBland"
12. Talib Kweli
"We the people ask @LorettaLynch to investigate #SandraBland #KimberleeRandleKing RETWEET "
Signs. Signs. Signs all around us. The Message is Here. #SandraBland
14. Missy Elliot
"When I look at the #SandraBland traffic video it brings so many emotions😳😢😡😡😤!"
15. Jessie J
"God bless your soul Sandra | #sandrabland | Change needs to come |Justice needs to be served | Heart… https://instagram.com/p/5fV79mQ0aw/ "
16. Jackee Harry
"It's time y'all, it's time.." #SandraBland #BlackLivesMatter
"In memory of #SandraBland these things don't make no kinda sense "
18. Holly Robinson Peete
I really don't look forward to having ANOTHER difficult conversation w my kids tonight...but here we go again😧💔 #SandraBland #SayHerName 😢
19. Jeffrey White
Sadly, doesn't matter by whose hand she died. Unjustified arrested set the outcome in motion. The state murdered her. #JusticeForSandraBland
Sandra could have been your mother, sister, aunt, friend or if she wasn't killed the community outreach advisor A&M. #SandraBland
21. Joan Smalls
"My heart is broken. Sending my deepest condolence to her family and friends. May you find Strength, Peace and Justice. When will this stop? #EqualityForAll #RIP #Why #SayHerName
22. Gladys Knight
Sandra Bland.... #SayHerName #SandraBland
23. Cara Delevigne
Things need to change NOW #SANDRABLAND #Justice #Equality
24. Meek Mill
"Rip to that young lady that lost her life about a traffic stop! 🙏 ima make sure I pray for her and her family! 🙏😄😄😄"