Dear Gay Best Friend, I’ve read one of your comments on, “My Husband Baby Mother Is Getting On My Nerves.” Loved, loved, loved your insight and honesty, therefore I have a question. My husband’s family, particularly a female cousin, is bothering me. It seems like she wants her cousin in some kind of incest, or something. […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I am writing you this letter because I respect your honesty. I got involved with a guy in November of last year, seven months after leaving my physically abusive ex of twelve years. He invited me over, and we spent time together several times without having any sexual contact. Two months […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I read your responses to the various letters weekly and love the advice you give, but now I have a question for you. I am in a situation where the love of my life is not of my religious faith but has no problems with my choice in religion. However, my […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I am a 26-year old female who is about to give birth to my very first child. Although my child is a blessing the circumstances in which she will be born are a nightmare for me. I planned a child with a man who is now nowhere to be found after […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, Please help!  I’ve been going with my “fiancé” for nearly four years.  His ex divorced him five years ago (we met a year after his divorce), after they were married for 15 years. He has a now-17-year-old son with her. There were a lot of issues in his marriage and admits he was […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, My fiancé and I have been together for going on five years. We had a very rough start, but he came around. After a year or so being together we moved in together. He asked me to marry him after a huge fight and me wanting to move out. I love […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I need help with one of my best friends who introduced me to your site. He is a good friend and my daughter’s godfather. He just doesn’t make the best decisions, especially when it comes to women. We attended college together and worked together for three years, and about six months […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, Your articles have me in tear laughing. I’m a fan! LOL Anywho, I have been dating my new boyfriend for almost 6 months and we recently told each other that we’re in love. He is so sweet to me, has bomb ass sex, and treats me like a queen. My birthday […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I met this guy “Robert” at a bar on a Friday. We exchanged numbers and planned to hang out the next day because I was headed off to another place to meet up with friends. However (and probably unfortunately) I ended up seeing him after the bars closed as I was […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I have been dating this guy for two months now and I’m not sure if I should continue dating him. He is a very nice guy. I mean my whole family likes him but, behind closed doors it’s a different story. Like, when were alone we have a tendency to argue a lot […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I am 20 years old. My husband is 29 years old. I want to start by saying I love him very much. My question to you is: He has this friend, LOL, I sound horrible already! I am very, very attracted to this friend. This friend is very attracted to me […]

Dear Gay Best Friend, I met this guy online after I decided to get on Myspace for the first time in over a year. He left comments on my photos a while back and I decided to email him and see how he was doing. He moved up north and he asked me to text […]