It’s only not cool if you make it not cool by trying to make it something it’s not.& History is good to know so things don’t repeat but at some point we just have to live. there’s enough worries & drama without making more that’s uneccesary.like kids killing kids black on black violence…its disgusting how black women till this day b***h about if a black mans dating a white woman…WHO REALLY CARES…CMON SON…THERES SO MANY OTHER THINGS TO WORRY ABOUT…SOMEONE DATING OUTSIDE OF THERE RACE IS NOT IMPORTANT TO ANYBODY IT’S THERE LIFE LET THEM LIVE IT…YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE SO MAKE IT A GOOD ONE YOU ONLY GET ONE YOU’LL REGRET SITTING THERE HATING ON AN INTERRACIAL COUPLE JUST SHOWS HOW MISERABLE YOUR OWN LIFE IS

Look, I know everyone is tried of this issue. It is an issue but it’s not an issue for the rest of the world to solve. It’s a black thing, black women and black men have to deal with it together. I don’t like/or need other races input on it because it’s not their problem, it’s between a black woman and a black man. We are the ones who have to up hold our community. We are doing a f**ked up job of it. So, when black women and men get that long over due conversation, then we can have that long over due conversation with the rest of the world. The solution begins with us…….

i agree with TMAC…im sick of this topic…blah blah blah…..how many times can we argue the same points.

I HAVE BEEN TOLD BY BLACK MEN THAT THE REASON THEY DATE OUTSIDE THE RACE IS BECAUSE BLACK WOMEN TALK TO MUCH AND THAT WHITE WOMEN TREAT THERE ME REALLY GOOD. I REALLY DON’T UNDERSTAND THIS STATEMENT BECAUSE MOST OF THE BLACK WOMEN I NO TREAT THERE MEN AS GOOD AS GOLD AND STILL DONT GET RESPECT. THEY BEAR THERE CHILDREN AND GET NO WEDDING RING. THE WORK HARD TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE TO COME HOME TO “MEN’ SITTING ON THE COUCH. I AM A WOMEN WHO TRULY KNOWS HOW TO TREAT HER MAN LIKE A MAN. HOW TO LOVE HIM AND RESPECT HIM AS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY AND AS A TRUE KING OF OUR NATION. YET WITH ALL THAT I PUT IN TO A RELATIONSHIP WITH A BLACK MAN I NEVER GET HALF OF IT BACK. YES A LOT OF BLACK WOMEN ARE ANGRY BUT BLACK MEN YOU MADE US THIS WAY SINCE BIRTH. FOR EVERY BLACK MAN WHO HAS LEFT HIS LITTLE BLACK DAUGHTER YOU HAVE CREATED A ANGY BLACK WOMEN. FOR EVERY BLACK MAN WHO HAS LET HIS FAMILY DOWN AND LEFT THE WOMEN OF THE FAMILY TO PICK UP THE PEICES YOU ARE CREATING ANGY BLACK WOMEN. WHAT DO WE HAVE TO BE SO HAPPY ABOUT WHEN OUR OWN MEN HAVE LEFT US FOR DEAD?

This is such a tired issue.

Nefertiti313! BRAVO & CLAP’S to you! I agree with you 110%!

Yes, sometimes Black women can be pretty angry, but perhaps, they have good reason to be angry. Whenever I get to stay home from work, and catch an episode of some of the trash shows on television like Maury and Judge Mathis, I see why Black women are angry; and even more importantly, I see that White, Asian and Latino women are starting to get real angry too. On the judge shows, there is one case after the other of Black men with bad credit using their women to get cell phones, electric, gas, and rent. Some of them even have the audacity to have their women pay child support while they hang out on the couch, scratching their testicles. On Maury, I saw one Black man being accused of getting four different women pregnant, and he already had 12 children by 5 different women. 90% of the cases that I saw involved women of other races and ethnic groups other than Black. I laughed until tears literally rolled down my face. Now, the Caucasian, Asian, Middle-Eastern and Latino women who think Black men are such a great catch are getting a taste of what the Black woman has experienced for centuries. They are learning that while Black men might very well be good lovers, the consequence of that good loving (children) are often left unprovided for, and when you complain about them getting a job, the result is often a swift kick in your behind, and for good measure, they might just cheat on you with your best friend, or even worse — a relative. And you wonder why African-American women might be angry?

I know I have painted this picture with a broad brush because I know that not all Black men are like this, but not all Black women are angry either. My husband is a wonderful Black man, who loves, adores and provides for his children excellently. My father was equally as wonderful, but in the case of both Black men and Black women, there are the few who display their bad behavior prominently that leave the bad impression. Black men like to use the excuse of Black women’s anger for going outside of the race, but this breed of Black man is better off with their white and brown women. Let them make them miserable for a while. The Black woman has sustained and provided for the family for way too long. My sistahs, it is time that you explore men of other colors. The loyalty that you have had to Black men is not necessarily deserved. Go where you will be appreciated, and not disrespected. In the meantime, curb your instinct to be angry, and just SMILE, my sistahs, JUST SMILE.

The 97% I’d came across in my life! Most are now 36 year old, or older Man/Child(s) who’s never experienced the joy(s) of the 1st graduation from any school, that 1st bad job, 1st good job, 1st bank account, 1st place of their own, 1st car of their own or their 1st anything for that matter & they ONLY know how to survive on the backs of 1 of the 3 Mommy’s (Grand/Birth/Baby(s) & what blows it out the water is ENTER the White Women; She feels he, “Black Male,” is a Birth Right/Entitlement Now that she is in the picture this man (Black Male) will become everything he refuses to be, can’t be with a black women, etc. based on her overall existence! I say Black Women hold on, do you, your child(ren) let them have the ones who chooses to be destroyers of lives who walk on two-legs, or the ones who believes, “they were born to $buy$ love, ho’s & white women,” let them be STAR’s and you be content, live in peace and be in the front seat watching how the White Women suck the life out of them, all his brothers, son’s & friend’s! They are GREEDY believe me when it comes to a black man(s) D**k. For the hooker’s who is a Stripper, 90 lbs to 350 lbs or simply has nothing to offer but the fact of, “they are non-black,” let them fools keep on making reality shows out of there dumb a**’s! I say, they are thinning the heard & leaving the men who are decent to themselves and lovers within their own race! ANGRY? What is their to be mad about? As long as you DO YOU? You’ll be fine!!!

well me personally feel like if that’s what a man prefer than hey let him have the woman of his choice we as black women shouldn’t feel infurior to white women come on ladies we do tend to slack in certain areas when our men are concern not saying that they dont (white women) but we know we will go all off in public and a muther f**ker cant tell us s**t when we are angry white is more understanding i guess and they rather talk their s**t out back at home i mean this is not to put us black women down but ladies u guys know it’s some truth to what i’m saying i mean over the years i’ve learned to deal with my problems with more intellegence and class i’m too classy of a woman to let a brother have me looking crazy and stupid in public i’m a country girl not ghetto also ladies step up your sex game at home so there’s no reason he has to cheat and if he does that’s because he wanted too then the blame is on him but me personally and this is just me i do it all in bed and i cook clean and do what a woman supposed to do for her man so all that nigga can say is damn i got me a five star b***h my man will never feel neglected by any means i might get upset with him from time to time but i will make sure that end the end we listen to eachother and maybe work out our problems if not end things on a good note so am i offended by a black guy dating a white woman i’m most certainly not it’s a free country let him choose what he thinks may be better for him and his lifestyle.p.s. sorry if i offended anyone it was not intentional…..