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When a woman is in a relationship, she almost always gains weight. You and your man spend more time together and less time at the gym – eating out more, and sharing bottles of wine and dessert. And if your guy is eating more and more often, you can end up munching when you’re not even hungry. Before you know it, you’re taking in 500 extra calories a day and gaining one pound a week!

Following are some ways your significant other is unknowingly undermining your diet, and how you can balance that tipping scale from blackdoctor.org:

You Constantly Eat Out

When you’re single, you tend to prepare healthy foods at home. But once you’re in a relationship, it’s decadent dinner dates followed by caloric brunches. That’s bad news for your waistline: A recent analysis of 24 national chains revealed that the average entree at a sit-down restaurant contains 867 calories. And that doesn’t include apps, sides, and dessert.

The fix: Eat in. Instead, cook together. It can be intimate and food is very sensual, especially when you take turns tasting it. Plus, of course, you can control the fat and calories by using healthy recipes and ingredients that are low in fat. When you do dine out, eat a healthy snack that contains protein and fiber a few hours before your meal. Nonfat yogurt and a piece of fruit or a small bowl of cereal with low fat milk are smart choices.

7 “Bad” Foods That Are Secretly Good for You

You’re Constantly in Bed

Or on the couch. Or anywhere but the gym. Research shows that couples who live together for two or more years are less likely to be physically active, and the women are more likely to become obese. Relationships can be great and positive, but they can also affect your normal routine – You schedule more couple’s activities and have less time to yourself.

The fix: Get him involved. Women who exercise with a partner tend to lose more weight than those who sweat solo. Doing it together, makes it more likely for you to stick with it. So sign up together for a 5-K, go for a bike ride instead of watching a movie, or join the same gym. When you don’t feel like going, he’ll drag you there, and you’ll do the same for him.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    lol OOOOH BROTHER!!! You don’t start eating out more when you’re dating, most of these chicks can’t even cook and eat out way before you meet them. What happens is they get lazy, and feel they don’t need to keep it tight and locked for you, because they figure you won’t go anywhere else, as they get comfortable and sloppy on you. That’s what happens, they don’t know how to KEEP you, after they get you, nor keep themselves in order.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shaime17/ shaime17

    @odoggz: I’m gonna assume that the “chicks” you’re referring to are the lazy, sloppy bustdowns YOU are used to seeing and possibly dealing with, sir.

    Now as far as the whole article: This is asinine. So I guess the next theory is going to be”Is your man to blame for you having vitalago?” COME ON NOW!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/differentcloth/ differentcloth

    wooo ODogg, It seems as if they just won’t leave you alone will they? I have to agree with you in that aspect. I mean damn, I have come across soooo many women that can not cook. What the hell is happening? And before the smart ass comments come about maybe we’re only dealing with “ghetto” or whatever labels you want to give em, think about this; the so called “ghetto” ones would more likely have kids , in which, they have to feed. You see where I’m going with this? So this is one subject in which they can actually be excluded from(not 100%, but a good number). People easily become complacent, and from my experience, especially women. Besides, if he isn’t gaining weight, then how can it be his fault? Seems like yet another way to place the blame on the men. Yeah I said it, Y’all want to blame men for everything. “Y the woman broke, y she got all them babies, y she hate men, y she gay, y she a prostitute, y she not married.” When will the ONE’S that feel this way ever except responsibility for there own actions? I’m ridn wit cha ODogg…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Bleubutterfly83/ Bleubutterfly83

    It’s called happy weight lol, it’s not always necessarily because the woman is lazy, but in my case (for instance) I had been doing my workout videos tues, and thurs, and running at the park mon, wed and fri…but as soon as my husband came home for his 2 week R&R from Afghanistan I stopped because I was afraid I would lose some time I could have spent with him while he was here (corny but true) I cooked for him the whole time he was here (I always have!), except for the times he took me out….After he left I found out I had gained 4.5lbs smh but I can only blame myself and get back to my routine!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/differentcloth/ differentcloth

    Girl, 4.5 lbs???? That was only gas. We are talking about “change of appearance” type weight. You’re good, do ya thang, and congratulations…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CynamynQueen82/ CynamynQueen82

    Your man is not responsible for your weight gain. YOU ARE!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Have to disagree with you odoggz…I’m not in horrible shape, but my dude is in the Marines and he’s definitely not going for me being crazy out of shape, sloppy or obese!

    If he keeps it tight for me, then I damn sure have to do it for him….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    these reasons are true. definitely makes getting in shape and maintaining a shape a constant struggle. i remember when hubby and i were first married and when people saw us a few months later they said we’d put on ‘happy weight’ lol. fat and happy lol

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/slimjim1967/ slimjim1967

    All of the women i have dated gain weight ……I love to cook. They like to eat and I get blamed. All things are good in moderation

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/new112/ new112

    OMG! This article is so on-point! I too can honestly say that I have gained weight after being in a 7-year relationship. 50lbs within the first 4 years, to be exact. While the title is a bit misleading (my man definitely did not hold a gun to my head & force food in my mouth! LOL) But all of the reasons mentioned in the article, spending more time together (hence, less time at the gym), eating out more, etc. were all true for us. Plus he loves to cook, and I love to eat! I finally realized how big I had got after a trip to the doctor a few years ago. Since then I got myself back in the gym (which I had always done 5x a week before I met my man), and started eating healthier and have successfully lost 30 lbs! Still working on shedding the last 20 tho…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @shaime17
    I’m speaking in general. You guys don’t feel you need to do anything, after you sleep with the guy and just go to shiite.

    @differentcloth
    lol you know you just talk in general, and people get defensive, and try to make it look personal. So that’s all they do when they attack me, however, you confirmed the same thing, and many others will also confirm it. These people don’t like hearing about their own actions, they just like dishing out the criticism on men. Good point about the chicks who have kids and don’t know how to cook or provide basic nutrition to their offspring. That’s why they take them to McDonalds and the kids have hypertension, high blood sugar, diabetes by 12 years of age. Laziness carries to all aspects of their lives, not just dating. That’s why I analyze this behavior before dating a chick, to know how she’ll turn out with me.

    @CaliFemme23
    what historically happens for guys who don’t pig out and like to workout, play ball, futbol, whatever, is your chick starts complaining that you’re not around anymore, when really, it’s an excuse for you to get sloppy like she is, so no other chicks will want you. If you’re in the gym, she assumes you’re looking at chicks and flirting with female trainers, and she is jealous automatically. So if a man is in shape, but the woman gets sloppy, surely low self esteem issues start creeping in with her. Next thing you know, she’s hiding out with binoculars, in the TWIN DONUT across the street from your gym, trying to catch you with a chick. THAT is why women need to get on their game and stop thinking that men are the only ones who have to please you women. You’ve to come correct TOO.

    I will note, if you have a nice ass (not a huge sloppy one), and it’s seemingly unaffected by your weight gain (meaning your belly isn’t flapping over your panties in muffin top fashion), dudes wont even mind. We’re not talking 4-5lbs, we’re talking 15-30+lbs that cause us men alarm. But if you have a nice ass, and can cook, you really won’t hear many complaints from me, personally. lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/digg_it_up/ digg_it_up

    there is a saying…..take a look at her mother and you will know what she go look like in a few years….on the real tho a woman need to take her skin to the gym and stop blaming us. ease up off mickie D’s and Bugger King and give the microwave a break and cook real food with substance that sticks to your ribs.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aleonarussia/ aleonarussia

    bulls**t. my esteem comes first before any man. no matter what. its retonto how u girld get ur life wrapped around HIM not YOU. DID I SAY RETONTO ALREADY?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/The_7th_Letter/ The_7th_Letter

    Women cant blame their men if they decide to eat everything in sight and get out of shape after they get comfortable in a relationship. Its simply the truth about what happens. If you were a certain way when you met you should stay that way and grow old and lazy together not watch your man stay in shape and then blame him because you feel you do not have to because you got a good one. Women should take initiative and stop putting their own faults on men….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/daniela83/ daniela83

    lol funny

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Loyal_T11/ Loyal_T11

    this is ridiculous…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GodPrincezz81/ GodPrincezz81

    Ok now, I like this topic

    Digg-em, I don’t agree with your statement. A girl doesn’t ALWAYS look like her ma. sometimes she can be fatter or thinner.

    Let me ask you a question, if a man looking at my own mom and judging that I will look like in future…why not date HER ALREADY and leave me alone?

    Anyway let is getting on my story… when I first date my ex back in 2001 or later, I was in 5size pant . He liked that kind thin looking. I was in love that I munched on everything he cooked and ate with him if I ordered something for him to eat. I gain 5 pounds , I asked him a question “will you still love me if I fat?”

    Yea….LIAR! I thought it was just because I gained weight since I in love, he dragged me down street telling me a story about a girl used to be thin like I was. Now she is 20 lbs gained, I went “UH? so what is the point?” He said nothing. Later I gained more , I got what he was saying. When we broke up. I lose over 30 lbs myself.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/afroDEESyak/ afroDEESyak

    @digg – there’s always an exception to the rule cause i seen SOME mamas lookin better than their daughters and vice versa. But yeah you def right about needing to give up the fast food and eat better

    I like this article because I can see how it would be true for some people. When you’re in love, you want to spend time with that person, bond & connect. Everything is a lovley experience with the one you love.. but the one thing I’m learning is NOTHING in excess, EVERYTHING in moderation. Too much of a good thing can turn to bad quickly. This includes spending too much time. You start to get on eachothers nerves! lol

    My situation is opposite though. My man and I live together now but I was actually much HEAVIER when we first started dating. I was probably about 40lbs bigger than now. But I’m lucky to be with someone who is so good to me. He makes me strive to be better! Better at everything. He compliments me all the time, he treats me sooo good, and I’m so appreciated for him. I am deeply, madly in love with my man, i love spending time with him but I also love spending time by myself.

    Being with him has not stopped me from working on my goals. I was bout it before I was with him and will continue to do so the rest of my life. Improving my health and overall fitness is a lifetime journey for ME. I want to look good, I want to feel good – for myself. And even though he doesnt say much, I know hes proud of me for sticking to my goals and going after something I want. He tells me I look good as I am but he understands my reasons for wanting to be fit and healthy. He’s seen me at my worst and my best he said he thinks I’m perfect just the way I am. Awww <3 yeah I already know. :)

    On the otherhand HE has GAINED like 30lbs lol but my baby is sexier than ever to me. He used to be real, real CUT but skinny when we first started dating so its nice to see him fill out a little.. i love his tiny lil belly now hehe :)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Paneiro1/ Paneiro1

    This just in men are responsible for breast cancer, be careful.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    This article is stupid! Only that person gaining the weight is responsible. No man can force a woman to stay in a bed, he cant force her out to dinner, and he damn sure cant stop her from working out…I swear HB has about the dumbest damn staff to date! Ya’ll fckin with my I.Q. just readin this shyt!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    man im sorry this is BULLS**T..real talk! i wish like hell a woman would say some dumb ish like that….no1 can make u do a damn thing, especially eat yourself out of frame LMFAO..gthoh

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MZ_KNIGHTOWL/ MZ_KNIGHTOWL

    LMAO,,,I GAINED ALOT OF WEIGHT WHEN I WAS WITH MY EX,,,HE USED TO WORK AT A BAR FROM 8 TO 2AM, WED – SAT, AND I USED TO GO ALMOST EVERY DAY HE WORKED WHERE THE BARTENDERS USED TO GIVE ME FREE DRINKS, THEN WE’D HEAD HOME AND WE WOULD EAT, THEN GO TO SLEEP,,SOMETIMES WE WOULD DECIDE,,SHOULD WE EAT OR HAVE SEX,,LOL,,,THE ONLY THING THAT WOULD SAVE US WAS US CHOOSING SEX FIRST, CUZ THEN WE’D BE TOO TIRED TOO EAT,,,LOL,,,

    ANYWHO,,,I GAINED WEIGHT LIKE A MF WHEN I WAS WITH HIM,,,BUT I DIDNT BLAME HIM FOR MY FATASSNESS,,LOL,,,DRINKING AND EATING LATE IS NEVER A GOOD THING,,,IT WAS FUN THO,,,LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Icon-2010/ Icon-2010

    Only if he’s the one forcing cheese burgers down ya throat..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sarcasm9710/ sarcasm9710

    well good sex makes you lose weight, so shouldn’t it cancel out?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EddieFrancisNOLA/ EddieFrancisNOLA

    Nice article for women, but men gain weight, too.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WatchMeSucceed/ WatchMeSucceed

    LAWD! Here we go again…Now we’re gonna blame black men for all the fat chicks running rampant in the ‘hood. Is it possible…or has it ever occured to anyone that maybe…juuuust maybe…a woman can be responsible for the results in her own life? If you’re supposed to be so ‘independent’ and ‘strong’, be strong enough to own up to the fact that you’re fat, and you’re to blame for it.

    Nice try on passing the buck though!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WatchMeSucceed/ WatchMeSucceed

    Co-sign with OdoggZ to the fullest!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/vteresa/ vteresa

    Yeah – This is some dumb s**t. You can’t blame everything on a man. Your ass is fat because your ass is fat. Period!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ambitious_balla/ ambitious_balla

    Man, get the F**K outta here with THIS bulls**t!

    You’re fat because your fat ass doesn’t know when to put the hot wings down AND you dont bother getting your fat ass up to go work out! PERIOD!

    I can’t believe people are actually SUPPORTING this claim instead of accepting responsibility for their swollen ass.

    I’m a Marine with a combat-based job and my schedule is ALWAYS 100% more hectic than that of the women I’ve dated. So to “counter” that, I get my ass up 0430 in the morning and either go run or hit the gym to make sure I “keep my physique up.” If you’re “too lazy” to get up earlier, then work on being too lazy to go out to eat all the damn time.

    Wow…the audacity of some of these articles!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ValenciaFaust/ ValenciaFaust

    For all the man who believe there girlfriends are putting on excess weight should be of encouragement to them. Go walking or to the gym with them. If you really care for this person you want them to be healthy. Yes men it may not be your fault she is gainig weight but you can provide support in getting and keeping the weight off.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Southern_Swagger82/ Southern_Swagger82

    Its the woman’s fault not the man’s. First of all no one is holding a gun to women head’s force feeding them food. Second of all we men have to think about a woman’s emotions 24/7 365 So if we as men are the ones living a healthy lifestyle in the relationship and we ask our woman to come and workout with us then the first thing comes out of their mouth is “Are you saying I’m too fat?” See now you have an argument. Me I don’t give no damn I will tell my woman that she need to start taking care of herself better because health is important. I just no how to say it without her feeling bad.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/angelwings_1962/ angelwings_1962

    Well ….I think this is a coincidence, but I don’t know? … but when I decide to leave my EX cause I was just sick and tired of his BULLSH!T!!! … and I deserve to be HAPPY! … so this August pass I left his butt … I LOSE 20 pounds!!!! in THREE MONTHS!! …

    and when I was with him sorry butt … I was trying to losing, and after three months of eating right, and exercise going to the gym, and some more sh!t, I was NOT losing NOTHING!! … so I say fu@k it … and I put on MORE weight gain …

    but three months ago ( in August) … I’M LOSING AND FEELING GOOD!!! … this maybe fact or just plain coincidence, but even so, I’m loving me and being very careful in whom I meet.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Leticia39/ Leticia39

    Good article! I love your headlines – hilarious! Its true your man makes you gain weight and the same goes for him he gains weight too.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Opportunist_1/ Opportunist_1

    This is 1 of your more funnier articles, at some point in time we have to be accountable for our selves in all aspects of life. Trust me & I’m sure this goes both ways, that a guy wants you the way he met you, you do get waiver for giving birth but the bon bons overload is all on you! (LMBAO)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CUZSHEFLOWLYKDAT/ CUZSHEFLOWLYKDAT

    FUNNY THING IS WHEN I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP I LOVE TO COOK AND EVERY MAN I EVER DATED (NO-MATTER HOW ATHLETIC) GAINED ON AVERAGE 30-40 POUNDS.LOL.

    WE TEND TO GET COMFORTABLE.

    AND I’M A BIG GIRL CONTRARY TO POPULAR BELIEF…. AND WHEN I START TO LOSE MY BOYFRIENDS (ALL) SAY, “DON’T LOSE TOO MUCH WEIGHT”. NEVER FAILS. WHICH MAKES ME EVEN MORE COMFORTABLE BEING A THICKY.
    HOWEVER THIS YEAR I MADE A LIFE CHANGE AND DID NOT CARE WHAT ANYONE THOUGHT.

    MAYBE THE LOSERS I ATTRACTED WITH THE WEIGHT WILL DISAPPEAR WITH THE WEIGHT. AND MAYBE THE SLIM ME WILL BRING IN SOME FRESHWATER FISH! LOL.

    *LADIES CHOOSE HEALTH OVER LOOKS. IF YA MAN LIKES YOU A LIL PLUMP SO BE IT. BUT LIVING LONGER IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN HOW FAT YA AZZ IS IN THOSE JEANS!* LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chinky-iis/ chinky-iis

    I think that many people tend to be “emotional eaters”, and when they are in relationships they gain that “happy weight”. It’s not the mans fault because ultimately in the end it all comes down to what you put in your mouth. If he likes to eat out a lot, you choose what you want on that menu and when you cook for him you choose your portions.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/candybbg88/ candybbg88

    i’ve been told both gain weight wit all that laying around and cuddling.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stylemaker2020/ stylemaker2020

    I guess I am a hypocrite on this one. Lmao

    I love to cook and I cook a large variety of cuisines. I have no offense against Fat women, but I am not sexually attracted to them.

    Hence me stating, I cook all the food my lady would desire. The cheese sauces, lasagna, and scampi. I WOULD NOT EVEN THINK OF EATING IT, lol, but hey, that is what the female wants. If she does not work it out/work it off, that’s her business. i am not forcing anyone to exercise and eat right.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    ONly a lazy piece of shiite would blame a man for HERSELF becoming a fat slob. If you had a man, and wanted to please him, you’d get in shape to please him. If you loved yourself, and cared about your health, you’d get in shape to please yourself and to stay alive. Either way you cut it, you have multiple reasons for getting in shape, and keeping the pounds off. So if you don’t do it for HIM, you have to do it for yourself. If you’re doing neither, you’re just a lazy loser.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MarkAntney/ MarkAntney

    When I was young in the Game women didn’t care (or say) as much but as I started coming up and dated a FEW Older Ladies,…

    They INSIST that a Man (one that represents like a Senator) Eats Out, eats out often,… #amn near better be able to Eat her Out of House and Home!!!

    If, If he can Represent.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    i can’t hold it down like him! my man can EAT

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @Kashi101
    you mean your poon is fat, and he likes to eat that so you keep it like that?, or you mean he’s fat? The former is better.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mimibelle023/ Mimibelle023

    I don’t gain weight when I’m with men.

    For some reason, I get more active. I work out more…everything. I guess, because I like to keep up appearances. I like to look good, in general, but when I’m with someone – I like to look good for them.

    My ex? Well – he liked to work out. He was up every damn morning at 4 am running around the track on base (he was a marine).
    After awhile, I just started running with him.
    Of course, once we got to the track – he’d eventually leave my a** behind b/c I couldn’t jog as fast as him…but it was fun. *laugh*

    But – women do tend to gain weight…I think it has to do with the fact that they’re inactive and pick a partner with a similar approach to fitness.
    Then…they could both be active and gradually just stop working out. This occured with a friend of mine.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Truth-Is-Told2u/ Truth-Is-Told2u

    Could Your Man Be Responsible For Your Weight Gain?

    YES,IT COULD BE POSSIBLE SOMETHING LIKE THAT CAN HAPPEN WHEN YOU ARE HAVING CERTAIN KIND OF RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS WITH YOUR MATE…..IT DIDN’T EVER HAPPEN TO ME THOUGH BUT,YES IT COULD ACTUALLY BE POSSIBLE BECAUSE YOUR MATE COULD DRIVE YOU TO NOT ONLY GAIN WEIGHT BUT,TO START DRINKING MORE,TO START ASKING THEM MORE QUESTIONS,TO START SLEEPING WITH ONE EYE OPEN,TO START WANTING TO GO INSIDE OF THEIR PURSE/WALLET,TO START WANTING TO LISTEN ON THEIR PHONE CALLS,TO START WANTING TO CHECK THEIR CELL PHONE NUMBERS,TO START WANTING THE CODE TO THEIR CODE # TO THEIR VOICE MAIL,ANSWER THEIR CELL PHONE WHEN IT RINGS,AND LET ALONE TO START WANTING YOU TO PEEP OUT OF THE WINDOW WHEN THEY ARE LEAVING SO,TO TRY AND CATCH THEM DOING SOMETHING THAT IS WRONG (like cheating by talking with the opposite sex,while you are wondering why).

    IN OTHER WORDS A MATE COULD DRIVE YOU TO DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING JUST TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHAT THAT MOTHER F*CKER IS DOING THAT YOU ARE FEELING THAT COULD BE WRONG.

    SO,DON’T EVER THINK THAT YOU ARE JUST GOING CRAZY/BIPOLAR OR RATHER JUST TRIPPING OUT ON SOMETHING THAT MIGHT NOT BE TRUE BUT,COULD BE POSSIBLE.

    MY SUGGESTION TO YOU IS TO JUST GET UP OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP BEFORE YOUR MATE JUST START BOTHERING WITH YOUR HEAD MENTALLY AND YOU WOUND UP TAKING SOME KIND OF MEDICATIONS BY PRESCRIPTION.

    PEOPLE WILL SNEAK AND LIE ALL OF THE TIME.

    IN OTHER WORDS LEARN TO CONTROL YOUR OWN BRAIN BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE DOES.

    I AM NOT A DUMMY!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kmr72/ kmr72

    Yes, men and women sometimes gain weight when they are in a STABLE marriage. It’s no one’s fault.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Daimond55/ Daimond55

    Happy Pounds Lol but you can work them off togather thats the fun part,people gain and lose weight all the time.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MATTAVIOUS_111MARTIN/ MATTAVIOUS_111MARTIN

    i stuff my girl every day we eat at my house alot and eatout and cuddle to much

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soultry-soul/ soultry-soul

    Hello Beautiful…what, ya’ll running out of shyt to blame men for?

    You recycling your articles to stir up more controversy.

    Go to journalism school and research your creativity!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blackpearl1968/ blackpearl1968

    ditto soultry_soul..something new to blame on men. Dang you gain weight if your fat but eats and dont exercise and man or woman has nothing to do with it. Some of these articles are getting real stupid real fast.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blackpearl1968/ blackpearl1968

    whoops..typing too fast again…meant to say “if your fat butt eat and don’t exercise”…dont want the grammar police after me or that’ll be something else for HB to write about “Is it your man’s fault that you can’t spell cause he wont massage your head???” (lol)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/digg_it_up/ digg_it_up

    bullshyt….its lack of excercise and proper diet due to the fact that women store more carbs than men. also whatever fat you gain actually stays with you. you can tone it or whatever but its still there….stretch marks, fanny packs and and love handles are testament to this…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/digg_it_up/ digg_it_up

    plus when a woman gets older her metabolism slows down…hence weight gain

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SimplyComplex_87/ SimplyComplex_87

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cc88/ Cc88

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CARA-MELLO/ CARA-MELLO

    oh hell no, alot of these females are OVERWEIGHT before getting into relationships. but anything to let females think it’s always someone elses fault I guess.

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    Nah, you can’t pin this on us.  Ultimately, you’re responsible for your own weight gain.  I’ve put on weight before while in a relationship with someone who loved to cook, but ultimately that was on me since she didn’t force the food on me.  I chose to eat it.

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