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Hey Cupcakes,

It’s Sexy Temptation Tuesday… Sip your green tea slowly; you don’t wanna miss this!

Question: My single goddesses in the big cities – do you ever feel like you and your girls keep dating the same 10 men on rotation? Me too! New York City can feel man rich and man poor at the same time. There is strength in numbers so I grabbed one of my favorite divas, blogger Twanna Hines AKA The Funky Brown Chick. Then we hit the streets of Manhattan in search of male gold. We had only one question on our Lip Glassed lips: where are the men!? Check out Part 1 of our adventure here.

Oh — And don’t leave me by my lonesome- leave me a COMMENT.

This has been a broadcast from Harlem where I live in solo sin with the gorgeous Anabelle Kitty Kat. Some people won’t like you no matter what so just be your crazy, cool, weird self & give the haters something to talk about!

Thanks for hanging with me– your girl Abiola. You know me as Abiola Abrams, Miss Picky on VH1’s Tough Love, the host of The Best Shorts on BET J, the author of Dare, and the host of The Planet Abiola Show online. Join me on Hello Beautiful for my Music Mondays, Sexy Temptation Tuesdays, What-the-Wednesdays, Think About It Thursdays and For the Win Fridays.

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