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With the recent publicized extramarital affairs of Tiger Woods — Jackie Christie, wife of NBA player Doug Christie can hold her head up high and say, “that will never be my husband!”

(From bloomberg.com)

They poked fun at Doug Christie. Oh, how they laughed. They whispered and snickered in the locker room, even his own, which is supposed to be a safe haven. They mocked. They mimicked.

They called him names. Heck, Bryant Gumbel once labeled the former National Basketball Association player “whipped” on national television.

Ignorant and mean. Much of the venom was directed at Christie’s wife, Jackie, who was deemed controlling. And that was the nice stuff. There were threats made by telephone and e- mail.

“Pure evil,” Jackie said over the telephone the other day from Bellevue, Washington, where the Christies are settling into their new loft-style home.

Christie was a professional athlete who dared to be different. He willingly brought his wife on road trips. He took his marriage vows seriously, especially the part about forsaking all others. Christie actually enjoyed having Jackie around, even if her presence meant no strip clubs or groupies at the hotel lobby bar. Even if teammates didn’t get it. Imagine that.

Christie loved his wife. And, what’s more, he wanted her to know it, even while he worked. So the husband made up a signal, which he’d flash during games. On the court. On the bench. Didn’t matter. Christie would raise his left fist, and extend his index finger and pinkie.

It was the husband’s way of reminding the wife that he was thinking about her. Only her. The single-game record was 72 gestures. Different, yes. But so what?

Get this: Some of the athletes who once snickered at the Christies are now seeking their advice. Neither of the Christies would name names, except to say that Woods isn’t among the athletes who asked for help.

“I wish he would’ve reached out,” Jackie says. “I think we’ve stopped a lot of affairs.” Read More…

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/The0therKnight/ The0therKnight

    I think this guy clearly knows one thing: if he EVER cheats and she finds out about it…He’s a DEAD MAN. no, seriously, she will kill him.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sunshyne_defined/ Sunshyne_defined

    i see absolutely nothing wrong with him being faithful to the woman whom he loves. i doubt its that she’d kill him, c’mon. i think its that, although he recognizes that he is a man, and men are prone to stray, his strength of character is enough to keep him from following the trend, or chasing the next skirt he sees. He loves her, and thats more commendable than anything else.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stephanie7777/ stephanie7777

    More Men need to act this way

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/24kglo_H2/ 24kglo_H2

    She’s a smart woman i remember hearing about them how he got teased in the locker room now the sorry asses is asking them how to save their marriage. Go Jackie keep the love alive!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    GO jackie!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Annunaki40/ Annunaki40

    Yeah, man thats how it is suppose to be, have never had this to happen to me, but I look forward to this with my future better half. She told it just like it was and is. It has nothing to do with killing any one it has to do with trust. I remember being stationed in South East Asia as a Teenager in the early 70′s and my then girlfriend was brave enough to tell me that she cheated on me, well I am still alive, I did not eat my full metal jacket and I am very cautious. Oh, by the way, I love life and it is precious to me,yet being a single Father I have always taught the precocious Daughters who I am raising by myself the admiration an respect to look for in a Man, Of course I have their Grandmother (my Cherokee mother), to assist and guide them also. GO JaCKIE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Motown_Lovely1/ Motown_Lovely1

    Wow contrary to popular belief some men really do love being in relationships. And get this, some men actually have integrity and self control. The trick for women is finding a man who possesses both attributes.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaikai7/ kaikai7

    I think that it’s wonderful that this NBA player has chosen to remain faithful to his wife and actually taken his marital vows seriously. I must say that when I first heard about their relationship I thought that her insecurity and lack of trust took her own the road with him!~If you really trust a man you trust him and should not have to follow him around for fear that he might cheat!You will trust him even if he’s not around you 24/7. It seemed that her working formular was “if I’m around him all the time than he won’t have the space and opportunity to cheat” . Whatever works for them!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

    You go lady if thats the way to keep him from the skanks of this world and his dic k from slippin Im all with it. When I find that mr. someone man you can bet I’m doing that too and I’m putting it in writting so he’ll know whats up.

    (Don’t try pleading the fifth after you did your dirty deed honey aint having it lol…)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kuchicruckngdnglng/ kuchicruckngdnglng

    That is so great… I remembered when I got married I said I do then in front of the whole place I unzipped my zipper, reached into my boxers, gave a nice hard yank and handed my new bride my nuts. Honestly I can see going on the road as not being a problem but a signal all the time. I remember that day I asked for my nuts back, I still have the scar and the nightmares… Then again I did adopt my own signal everytime I see my ex guess which finger she gets…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/The0therKnight/ The0therKnight

    Sunshine_defined…you apparently don’t know how this lady behaves when it come to Doug Christie. If you did, then you would know that she most certainly WOULD kill him if she caught him cheating. Its cool that they are giving off the image of faithfulness, but I’d like to see a story of REASONABLE acting couple of this caliber, not a dog-in-chain type relationship.
    Oh, by the way…this is the same woman who (allegedly) got into an altercation with a woman who attempted to give her husband Doug the heimlech maneuver when he was choking on a piece of food. So um, yeah…

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/catgirlTX/ catgirlTX

    I have always loved this couple for several reasons,one I love the fact they are serious about being faithful to each other and for two, I see alot of myself in Jackie and three,they are a beautiful couple together. Jackie is no dummy she is very smart . Never let your guard down. There are so many women and men who are vultures who have low self esteem and feel they must prove something by destroying others. I’m happy her husband is not a weak minded brother nothing is more sexier than a black man that is truely honest and faithful to his wife he is super sexy, so she is doing the right thing!!!!!!!!!!!!! I think perhaps they have found something that works and untill women and men start respecting others homes it is neccessary!!! Stay Blessed Doug and Jackie!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crlbrazil/ crlbrazil

    Is R Kelly still married?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/crlbrazil/ crlbrazil

    Gary Coleman? Who is Shannon Price? Were they serious? Yep, because I seent em’. on Divorce Court. I thought it was all a fluke. Ha Ha Ha

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Dopegurlmagic17/ Dopegurlmagic17

    dats awesome that they r successful in their marriage and i bet it’s because they put God 1st!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sunshyne_defined/ Sunshyne_defined

    Doubt that she could do anything if he decided he was tired, and divorced her. A woman can only really do what the man allows, i mean, he’s a basketball player, at least a head taller than her, and in shape. What could she really do? Thats love on his part, he loves her as she is, never asked her to change, and is willing to put up w/her bull. I’m sure if he had a problem w/it, there’d be SOMEONE who leaked it to the press by now. SO, they’re union is good, in my book, and i applaud them for having that type of relationship.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BreBuffalo/ BreBuffalo

    I think they went too far with her on road trips which is his work. I think the signals at the games was much when he was at work and needed 100 %concentration at work adn the ref,coaches,players signals.
    It takes two to a make a marriage/relationship work.if he wanted to leave, he could have.

    HOWEVER,I respect and likethat they made theirswork. I wish they would say they theirs was up and down, normals, and they both made an effort to communicate and realized it took two to make it work. I don’t agree she was a whipper and he was whipped,and that stuff. Theirs is realmarraige by two people who wanted to make it work and saw the futrue. They could separate real life from the fame. They ,esp., he could see that after the basketball days are over, he would have a real life and on he could trust . It was better to make this one work that he wanted and she did too rather than leave this and he give her millions and then he goes off with baby mam drama from another one,and the usual stuff.Sad.
    I admire them. They both were smart. Now, they have it all; health, happiness, order in life,wealth.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shoot4damoon/ shoot4damoon

    yup the people that think things strange have the most problems. Christie and his wife is how I believe relationships should be, but, hey. People like to talk about having seperate lives and then wonder why the man cheats with the people who are around him more.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shiletta/ shiletta

    As I look at all of the comments that have been posted, I find most of them to be great and my sentiments exactly! It’s just jacked up that so many of them come from women while most men gag at the mere thought of being faithful. From the rich and famous to the basic everyday “Brokey”, it is being looked at as pathetic to try to keep what’s yours yours. What’s really pathetic is that such extreme measures as what the Christies have taken have to be practiced in the first place. I do agree that one person cannot stop another from doing whatever they want to do if they want to do it badly enough, but where is self-control in this? Regardless of gender, people in relationships need to keep their pants up and skirts down when it comes to outsiders. I know that there are good men in this world, but I would bet any amount of money that the number of women who will strive for faithfulness and monogamy far outweigh the number of men who would strive for the same. In the meantime, what are the women supposed to do, wait for the men to be all f**ked out from sleeping around so much? Wait until the man has made more babies than he ever thought he could, now there is no room for her to have a family with him? Wait until he is scared into monogamy due to either the contraction of AIDS or a close call? Get busted, then conveniently blame it on a new and sudden diagnosis of Sexual Addiction to save his marriage and/or his money? Someone feel free shed some light on this.

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