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Dear Gay Best Friend,

I am a 30-year old single woman who has been out of the dating game for a year due to a very bad break up.

I have always been the faithful type and I don’t make a habit of sleeping around. Last year around this time I found myself awaiting the return of my fiancé who was serving in Iraq. For 18-months I kept to myself and just counted the days until my man was to come back home.  Well, I got a special surprise one day when I answered the door and it was my boo. He was back a whole week earlier.

To make a long story short, he took me right then and there. The sex was off the chain. About three weeks after that I started having some female issues, so I went to my Gynecologist and I found out I had herpes and gonorrhea. I know I could have only gotten it from him because for the past four years he has been the only partner I have been with. When I confronted him about it he was not angry or surprised by it until I broke up with him.

Now, a whole year later I have been flirting with a guy in my office who has asked me out so many times it’s not even funny. I finally said yes and we have been going out and having fun for about three months now. We have not had any sexual contact yet, but I want to so bad. I have all the information about protection and how not to spread herpes, but my question is how do I even bring up the subject without him automatically thinking I am a skank or something?  I don’t know too many black men that are willing to date someone who they know has an STD. – Stuck With A Disease

“I’m Married, But My Ex-Girlfriend Won’t Leave Me Alone!”

Dear Stuck With A Disease,

Damn! Damn! Damn! (In my Florida Evans voice). Now this is some ole’ low-down, dirty, trifling, bull-ish right here.

Here you are being the dutiful girlfriend who stuck by her man’s side while he went off to war to fight for our country. You did the upright and admirable thing and held down the home front. I bet any amount of money that you supported him emotionally while he was away. You sent letters, cards, and care packages to him for the entire eighteen months he was in Iraq. You didn’t even stray outside of your relationship. You remained faithful. Yet, this disease infested negro is having sex with lord knows who, and what, and comes back home and brings you a special package. One you can’t get rid of it.

This should be a lesson for all women out there. If your man is out of your life for a period of time, i.e., overseas, prison, or wherever, and he comes back into your life, girl, until you’ve both been tested for all diseases and have gotten a clean bill of health from your doctor,  use condoms!!

Okay, Ms. Thing, back to you. So, you want to know about the guy in the office who you’ve recently started dating and you haven’t had sex with yet, but you want to. You want to know how to bring up the subject matter without him thinking you’re a skank or something. But, what I am reading and interpreting from your questions is, if you should tell him about your herpes, or if you should take precautions and don’t say anything?

So, let me ask you this. The fact that your ex didn’t say anything to you and gave you herpes and gonorrhea, how do you feel about that? Didn’t you feel betrayed? Didn’t you feel deceived?  I’m sure you were hurt, angry, bitter, and probably asked, “Why me?” So then, why would you do the same thing to someone else? Why would you not tell someone about the risks and potential harm you are putting them in? It’s called being selfish. It’s called being self-righteous, and arrogant. You don’t care about anyone else except you and what you are getting out of the situation. You are willing to put someone else’s health and life at risk because you want some sex to satisfy your own selfish pleasures. Girl, miss me, and don’t call me, and don’t write.

You want to know when to tell him, Ms. Honey, it’s time you tell him now. Today. Right now. This very moment. It’s been three months and you’ve been avoiding it because you’re afraid of what he is going to think. He deserves to know. He has a right to know. I am certain he wants to have sex with you, but I am clear, and very clear, that it is you who is putting him off because you’re afraid of how he will respond to your situation.

Ms. Thing, don’t you dare wait until you have sex with him, and while he’s laid up next to you then you decide you want to become Ms. Truthful and Honest and tell him, “I have herpes, but it’s all good because we used condoms and I know all about the precautions.” Don’t be surprised if he jumps out of the bed, leaves you lying there, and never speaks to you again.

You have to tell him because it’s the right thing to do. You can’t worry about how he is going to respond or what he is going to think. You can explain to him what happened, how it happened, and that you are treating your herpes. However, it is up to him if he decides to stay in the relationship, or if he decides he wants to sleep with you. If you’re honest and tell him the truth, and educate him on the precautions to take, you never know how he’s going to respond.

But, you know what? I’ve heard about people who get STD’s and they develop an “I don’t care” mentality and, “I’m going to infect others because I got infected” attitude. So, they intentionally go out and infect others. They don’t tell their sexual partners about the STD they have. WOW! That’s some scary –ish right there. And, you know what? They are your friends, family members, and possible sexual partners. You just don’t know it. Some folks can be trifling and evil.

So, Ms. Thing, I’m sorry about what happened to you, but, Ms. Stuck With A Disease, don’t go around manipulating and deceiving others because you feel no one will love, or date you because you don’t want to disclose the fact that you have a disease that is infectious. That is trifling and low-down. Be a woman and be upfront about your situation. Don’t mislead others for your own selfish pleasures. In being honest and truthful you never know how your mate will respond. Respect, love, truth, and honesty goes a long way baby – Straight From Your Gay Best Friend

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aleonarussia/ aleonarussia

    YOU S**TTTING ME WITH THIS CRAP OR WHAT.

    LAWWWWWWD HAVE MERCY!!! NEXT ARTICLE IS GONNA BE I JUST TOOK A S**T, CAN HE EAT MY ASS? DAMN DAMN DAMN LAWD HAVE MERCY!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TRIPLETHREAT718/ TRIPLETHREAT718

    Im telling you OMG u cant trust anybodyyyyy …smfh … i dont care if yall been married 5, 10, 20 or 50 years go get his dick checked ..SMFH … s**t is crazy out here…lmao

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/snookiboo/ snookiboo

    OMG. thats why u never trust a man. never. wrap it up. She needs 2 tell him the truth before they go any further

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Delicious7774/ Delicious7774

    I agree Terrance…you on point on all that you said to this woman….terrible that love bites you in this kind of way.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/madammidwest/ madammidwest

    Sad…but the truth is, you can find a man with herpes that wouldn’t mind sexing you down…I guess. I know a couple they both have HIV…they happy together…the only other thing I would suggest is, don’t have sex,or get a blow up doll and give it a penial implant, or go to church and let the elders lay hands on you, and ask the Christ to heal you and if you plan on waiting for your husband, I believe God will do it, but not for the sake of fornication. True that. I’ve seen God work miracles but your faith and heart…your motives have to be right.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stylemaker2020/ stylemaker2020

    NEVER TRUST A MAN?? Y’all folks is STOOOPID! FIRST OFF, IT’S AN UNFORTUNATE SITUATION, BUT THIS IS THE REASON WHY, THIS MAN, DOES NOT SEX AROUND WITH ALL THESE NASTY HUSSIES OUT HERE RUNNING AROUND HOT,NASTY, AND INFECTED. WHAT AM I ON? I AM ON THIS! WE BOTH GO AND GET THAT CHECK UP AT THE CLINIC, I KNOW THIS D.ICK IS KOSHER, AND I AM MAKING SURE THE V****A IS TOO. KISSING IS ANOTHER WAY TO CONTRACT HERPES TOO, SO ALL THESE WOMEN OUT HERE RUNNING THEIR MOUTHS LIKE A VIRGIN MARY BLAMING THE MAN ALL THE TIME, SHOULD TRY BEING QUIET, LOOKING INTO THE MIRROR, THEN THINK ABOUT ALL THE NASTY STUFF YOU ALREADY DONE THAT COULD HAVE YOU WALKING AROUND AS A SILENT CARRIER.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/stylemaker2020/ stylemaker2020

    Oh yeah, let me add, a Condom does not protect you from Herpes, Meningitis, Tuberculosis, or Hepatitis strains. Their is a long list of other infectious skin diseases leading to puss sores and blisters, so to the young ladies before me, You Wrap It Up With a Condom is NOT gonna save you!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/INCOGNITO_30/ INCOGNITO_30

    afican americans think ok? everybody today is nasty…women are no longer women. men are no longer men, we have become more and more ignorant about diseases, when there is so much information out here today….just nasty, ignorant, bunch….and its all disgraceful. until we learn to stop giving these men free reign we will die when a nasty man or women is just not work dyin for kcid….you do the math….and for what!…so little self esteem….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aleonarussia/ aleonarussia

    LAWWWWD HAVE MERCY. THIS IS A DOO DOO ARTICLE

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SexyMoneyMaker/ SexyMoneyMaker

    So true and totally agree @TRIPLETHREAT718

    Even worse…IF your lucky enough to have one you can trust, just how long will that last? If all men are dogs…all dogs do stay from home eventually. Like they say safe sex = no sex at all…more people should learn to curve those urges.

    watch who u sex! be safe everybody

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/smiley392/ smiley392

    well….may i sugest a good collection of porn thats the safest form of sex i know lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/XxWarriorGoddessxX/ XxWarriorGoddessxX

    And my exes get mad at me for telling them to use condoms, this is why us females gotta tell the men to use protection, we can’t depend on the man to do it themselves now-a-days. So sad that this woman is infected for life, we just gotta be careful not to get burned like her.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GIRL-LIBRA42/ GIRL-LIBRA42

    First I would like to say, the truth will set U free, 2nd. Girl U need to pray for closure on what ur X did to U and learn some forgiveness, so U r able to move on in life without the bitterness and anger, and hatred for this NUT, and 3rd. formost, with all the diseases out here today, the safe way is no sex, but if U must, take a trip to a free clinic and get tested for all communical diseases, the both of U, no harm, no foul, and still inturn WRAP IT UP! Sex doesn’t have to b a death sentence. God Bless U girl and always remember to stay prayed up!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GIRL-LIBRA42/ GIRL-LIBRA42

    oh yeah @ aleonarussia, U would b the first one to catch somethin or the one to give something to someone else, with stupidity, Ur comment is not funny or cute infact it sounds like ur ignorant and can’t comprehend on a intellegent level, go get a book and read and learn somethin.. start off with DICK AND JANE PLAYED WITH THE BALL, see if U can comprehend that…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cmoore_78/ Cmoore_78

    Unfornately, she is not the only one. I know a 15 year male who initially found out he had syphillis and later learned he was also HIV+. He decided he didn’t care anymore and didn’t want to give the names of people that he’d been with sexually. Now people get frustrated but he is 15, he was not ready for sex nor was he ready to hear that he has HIV.

    All this talk about “Wrap It UP” well that sounds good but you can still get stds WITH condom use. So how about going to the clinic TOGETHER and exchanging that information AND using a condom. Again, this is not 100% safe because many diseases have an incubation period.

    HPV, herpes, syphillis, cancroid can all be contracted WITH condom use. Many of these are in the skin beyond the area covered by a condom. Is sex really worth the burning, itching, oozing, death…apparently it is so many are so eager to get it and we don’t have music today without sexually references.

    It is a beautiful thing that God created, however man has perverted it so much…sex is an act when God created it for pleasure and to bring life. Satan uses it to destroy, hurt and kill. Wow, it is amazing.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cmoore_78/ Cmoore_78

    “I don’t know” or “I didn’t know she/he had an std” is NOT protection. Your life, health and well being is your responsibility and NO ONE elses.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    men are just so nasty! they go up in anything and everybody without even caring about what they are doing to themselves or anybody else. this is why I will remain celibate. i cares about mines and I refuse to be amongst those that don’t.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Well…I must say the fa66ot gave some good advice this time…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/misskiss4512/ misskiss4512

    HEY ALEONARUSSIA.

    I HEARD YOU A MAN!!! CROSS DRESSER…..BAH HAH AH AAHA

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/koolaidbree/ koolaidbree

    Men nor women can be trusted these days. Some folks sleep around just to get an orgasm. It’s just stupid. Folks have lost all their morals and values. Protect yourself with condoms or abstinence! I can go on forever on this subject.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    You can treated for SOME of those diseaes and still can have a NORMAL sex life…only INSIST they use protection or no INERTION of ANY kind…forget what the fruit rollup said….get it treated before you date, tell them and hope they would understand and be patient…..but if it’s gonnorrea, or that one that singer had, you dating days are OVER or S.O.L……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Thisworldiscrazy/ Thisworldiscrazy

    I am also in the situation but my situation is a bit different of how I contracted it. Him and I were checked and cleared but he later decided to cheat (all on my profile). Anyway, she needs to tell him does’t matter how she tells him but tell him because he does have a right to know and god forbid if oral sex was involved because the test for herpes will only show that you have HSV 2 or 1 but for HSV 2 (genital) it does not tell you where you have it (ponder on that for a minute, so people don’t kiss on no one until yall are checked).
    In addition, condoms do not protect 100%, one can still contract herpes even though someone is wearing a condom, ex: if the outbreak is outside of the condom area on both parties and believe it or not an outbreak is not even needed to pass the virus.

    Lastly, if she does not tell him and she passes it to him he can actually file a law suit against her and then her hidden issue can become public knowledge. So, people (men, women, black, white or other) trust no one when it comes to sex I don’t care if you are married. Many many people have this virus with no symptoms, so for some why get checked? Protect yourself cause no one is going to love you more than you.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mzsctr49/ Mzsctr49

    I SAY….SUE HIS ASS!!! THAT’S SOME MESSED UP B.S. DONE BROUGHT BACK SOME OF DAT’ IRAQI S**T!! SEE…NOW WE’S GOT TO SHO’ NUFF WATCH n PROTECT OURSELVES FROM THESE LAME-ASS DON’T GIVE A DAMN-FOOLS…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sooooodamsexy/ sooooodamsexy

    if condoms didnt work, we would all be dead from something, the condoms would not be made!! go out of business !would be no need to SELL, CONDOMS DO WORK, IF USED RIGHT!!!AND EVERY TIME!! I WANT TO SEE REAL PROOF !!NOT JUST TALK, PROOF THAT PEOPLE USED CONDOMS AND STILL CAUGHT LIKE AIDES!HERPES, ECT… LOT OF FOLKS USE THEM AFTER THE SEX ACT,OR NOT AT ALL.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/source125/ source125

    The Devil is hard at work. Prayer is needed each and every minute, everyday. Look at all the rascism, the hatred, the judging ( on tv reality shows ). So many ways to go down in this world. Why wake up to it ?? To deal with all these things out here. Who would want to bring a child into this world now. WOW.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Thisworldiscrazy/ Thisworldiscrazy

    With condoms my point is this: Latex condoms are not 100% effective the makers of condoms even say this on their product. Condoms do not cover the whole genital area, which is quite obvious. The parts that are exposed is how one can catch it. So, without being too graphic bodily fluids can travel over the condom which can possibly get into the condom or on the person, sores can be in the hair area, on the testicles… (and lets not talk about the hands wandering before or after the condom). Wearing a condom is more effective than no condom but herpes can still be transmitted to another whether we like it or not.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nikiip30/ nikiip30

    When it comes to making your partner aware of your condition “Communication is the best policy”. Therefore, if he doesn’t want to protect himself it’s obvious that he is a risk taker and doesn’t care. So that being said, he may be funky and maybe she needs to take extra precaution of herself for an oncoming disease that she can’t get rid of. :(

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/D_Passion/ D_Passion

    Doctors are so ignorant. You ask them a question and they have zero knowledge about it. Thank god for the internet, I have learned more about STDS reading online that i could ever learn from a school or doctors. Every time I ask them a question they never give me the correct anwser. Just last week I told the nurse, HERPES IS SPREAD Even though people use condoms, the b**** claimed it was false, but I know better.
    Anyway…Its true that condoms are not 100% safe, nothing is safe nowadays.
    Thousands of people walk around spreading these evil STDS.
    Life is not fair.
    What the idiot did to the woman in the letter is sad, they should put people in Jail for spreading STDS.
    Herpes is the next worst thing after HIV.
    No matter how many tests you take with your man, he can still go out and cheat the next day and infect you. Its russian rulette, best thing is to avoid sex and have a miserable life but be healthy.
    I hope they find a cure for it but even if they do, they will poison people with these drugs.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/franc29/ franc29

    Condoms don’t protect you against genital herpes. The only safe way to avoid contracting or giving any STD from/to anyone is to abstain from sex. That’s one reason why God commands us to abstain from any sexual activity that is not in the context of marriage. Those who follow God’s word are safe. Ignore God’s word at your own peril.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/digg_it_up/ digg_it_up

    how bout you worry about your health instead of worrying about dating and see your doc and ask what are your limits when it comes to dating….gotta ask your doc that question not us….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/motortongue/ motortongue

    I forget who said all men are dogs..But I was just with a lady that tried something stupid with me and caught her, is all women dogs?? NO its just the one you PICK!! Those that think all men are dogs are MAD at there own decisions. Like me I kept meeting sickos after sickos until I finally said to myself, interview these women for now on and when I started my interview, I started kicking some of these women out of my life. So don’t going around with this all men are dogs because there are some dog ass women out there to that don’t give a f$$k about us to. Put that in your pipe and smoke IT!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tha_nu_me2010/ tha_nu_me2010

    really and truly both are right on this subject and there own way meaning the males and females , but and another way no one is to blame and some cases if you don’t know if you are a carrier and it is that way sometimes . half of you that are talking and speaking on it may have something that you don’t know that you have just because you might have that mind sit that it will never happen to me or no never me and you end up being the mine ones packing it . the symtoms don’t always show trust me i know . and as one person said and she was so right on point about it . if you let go and let god trust and god believe in god he will make a way , along with that you have to make some changes in ur life .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tha_nu_me2010/ tha_nu_me2010

    one other thing just because our god wants us to love everybody that doesn’t mean that he wants us to make love to everybody no no no he more likes means to respect not judge lift up and not put down . he is the head judge of all judges and thats something that he won’t do so why should we . i ask you?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SexyMoneyMaker/ SexyMoneyMaker

    always got to worry about catching something from somebody

    catch feelings
    catch them lying
    catch a cold
    catch her/him cheating
    catch a STD
    catch them stealing

    smh…I dont wanna catch nothing

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    OMG I’m glad HB finally makes these women have to think about their common issues today!!!! I’ve had 3 women, back to back, go above and beyond to try to get me to fall in love, and I mean they’d be trying to come clean and cook, and do all this shiite they’d never normally do. So when chicks, today, go all out like that, I KNOW some trickery is unfolding here- and I know better than to bed any chick quick anyway. These women try to get you to fall in love with them, and then when the time is right, they drop some bullshiite like (crying) “I’ve a {insert your favorite STD here}. I was hoping you wouldn’t judge me, I love you and that’s why I’m telling you this”. So with that tactic, they trying to guilt you into exposing yourself to their nastiness, while at the same time, trying to not get you to go ape shiite on them, for passing all that time with them, but they decided a month later to let you know they’re infected. So when you say “I appreciate that but I can’t bone you!” they go on a rampage on your ass, for real! Beware of that shiite dudes, these chicks are nasty! They come back at you like “see you judged me!” or “I thought you were falling for me!” or the classic “I could have done you like a hoe and not told you”, and try to make it look like they did you a favor by TELLING you. lol Man… chicks are trash today, enact the PAPERS PLEASE act on them, get the updated results/printouts of their STD tests!!! My ex works in a doctor’s office and she says and overload of women are coming in with all kinds of STDs at alarming rates, today. Condoms alone don’t just help dudes, women can infect you in any other area that the condom is NOT covering!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cake171/ Cake171

    Damn! First I would have thrown some flamin grits on that brotha. Ugh get papers people. Current papers, and wrap that thang up!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BPDon72/ BPDon72

    Wwomen really got their nerve saying these things about men. Everyone knows a woman can lie the best, look you right in your face, dont crack a smile or anything. I have even played with a woman (down there) while she was on the phone with her husband. The most cheatenest creatures on the planet, dont trust them as far as I can throw them, like a semi-auto gun – They can and will jam/A woman can and will let you down! Now about sex -ALWAY WEAR CONDOMS! No ifs ands or butts! No condom must be married.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Swayvo_/ Swayvo_

    Yeah well, sh!t is messed up. Almost the same story except I had recently gotten a divorce and after a few months I decided that I needed some p*ssy so like a dumb a$$ I got with a female I met on one of these lil social sites and sure enough after I confronted her about some “suspicious activity” she comes clean about f*ckin ballers for money and all of that sh!t. So I talked her into to getting tested and she came back positive for herpes. Crazy part about is I didn’t. Then about a month after that here comes this lil suspect on my piece so I went back and I’ll be damned I had the herp. I’m so up front about it because I’m thinking about the dating game and I personally don’t want to have to go through the motions of meeting a woman, dating, wanting to bone but can’t, telling her about it and then once she gets the h*ll up out of dodge having to do it all over again with the next chic that winks her eye at me. So I leave it to all of the haters to spread the word. Let as many chics know as possible so i want have to. That way I’ll know that after hearing this and a woman approaches me she has the herp too. Or maybe worse! But just cause I got caught slippin don’t mean I’m gonna go out like a sucker. Not at all. I still a good man to a deserving woman and I still have high standards. Now I just have to except a woman with flaws like me…. Moral of the story, safe sex, for real! Peace…… Oh, and this all just happened to me this week so it’s funny that this blog popped up… But aint sh!t funny about having a big d!ck but not being able to just whip it out like I used to. What a waste….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mj1973/ mj1973

    This type of thing happens on a everyday…women and men i say that you need to stay monogamous and protected at all times…we as people have to be careful…it’s not about who did who…it’s about who got what!!! PROTECT YOURSELVES!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Shauty-Sexiey/ Shauty-Sexiey

    I relate with you all too well. My ex of 2 yrs gave it to me, plus chlamydia. He used to whoop my ass daily and after that he felt this was a way to keep me. Matter of fact he layed in bed with me and told me he had it after the first time we had unprotected sex. He said no one would ever want me again and I could never leave him now. We lived together and I was a kid. It is very hard to deal with, but I do. The thing is I tell men the very first time I meet them so that they don’t feel as if I withheld anything from this. It never gets easier, but I was 18 at the time that it happened to me and I am now 27…9 long years. I always prepare myself that the man may not accept this about me, so thats why I do it early so that no one gets attached, but I hope that me as a person is enough for someone to accept, but I am 27 and unmarried…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Supremelydyvuh29/ Supremelydyvuh29

    That has to be a hard one. Really Hard. My sympathies are with you. Its unfortunate when a person you place trust and heart in disappoints and decieves you.

    I won’t take the road of bashing men or women. it suffices to say that the moral meter of the current generation is relatively low. And that meter covers everything from honesty in relationships to sex to general lifestyles.

    Men and women are so quick to say the opposite sex is lying and triffling. Truth of the matter is PEOPLE, male or female, black or white, rich or poor, are more triffling than previous generations.

    There is a lack of morale which has led to an increase in the spread of disease. Perhaps if people in general would go back to old school morals and perserving sex for marital relationships these things wouldn’t happen so commonly.

    if it were about one sex being more triffling than it would stand to reason that sex would be primarily diseased over the other. But both sexes seem to be cropping up in both sexes commonly, not in disproportion.

    Stop blaming and be responsible! PERIOD!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    OH GOOD GRIEF@ odoggz!

    Damn man you STAY in these forums bytchin and complainin’! You gone mess around and make me throw a tampon at yo ass for real! I mean shyt, if you gone do all this finger pointing and waitin to exhale the LEAST you could do is crack a joke, make a mofo laugh while you PMS-in!

    IM JUSS SAYIN!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    odoggz, You said your ex works at a doctors office and there is an overload of chicks with STD’s??? WHO ARE THEY GETTIN THEM FROM? Sorry, but vibrators and dildo’s don’t come out the packaging with crabs, chlamydia or HIV, BUT MEN DO! LOL

    STOP COMPLAININ! Imma start callin’ you Kesha! You act like one of those hoodrats that stand outside with her baby on her hip and complain all day cuz she cant get food stamps..and her baby daddy only holla at her when he feels like makin another baby

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neva1betta/ neva1betta

    LMFA(COMPLETELY)O @ CALI’ oooooooooshyt lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dcb514/ dcb514

    Why is there a question on the table? That is what is wrong with the world today. People want what they want without taking into consideration the others they put at risk. Is sex so important that you would consider infecting someone else? I guarantee not. The problem is is that you are so programmed that sex is an action of “Love”. Will he love you if you give him herpes? H – E – L – L – 0 2the NO!. And with the latest cases in court (criminal and civil) he can sue you for withholding the information. Go and find a man with HERPES and you can get your groove on without any backlash. You’ll either need to join a SUPPORT GROUP for people with herpes or be up front and wait until you get the response “SO do I!”. Keep it to yourself until you find someone who it cannot affect.
    Sorry , it’s not pretty but it’s life so do the right thing and while you are at it DO THE RIGHT THING!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/So-soft-in-TX/ So-soft-in-TX

    Before I got divorced, a friend told me that herpes can be in places that condoms don’t cover. I was done after that. I am so paranoid to encounter someone who doesn’t know or doesn’t care that they have herpes.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @CaliFemme23
    geeze you are acting like it’s ME who gave you the crabs you have! And just like herpes, you’re back to irk people! Bath yourself in some ointment, and go back down, please! :) You just don’t want the fellas to be aware of you chicks, when we see you coming. I see your approach, you want it so you can keep blaming dudes, divert attention away from dirty ass broads, and hate when these articles ask women to take personal responsibility.

    You ladies have even managed to give OYSTERS herpes, I see –>
    http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2010/08/100806-oyster-herpes-global-warming-climate-change-science/

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @@CaliFemme23
    so just ease up, I know you thought your military feck buddy said he brought back PTSD, only to have your doctor confirm that was he was really saying was STD, but I’m not him, I’m a nice guy.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @KESHA A.K.A. odoggz, Come on son. I know you can do better than that. Why did you have to throw lame insults? Did you really THINK you ‘got me’ by saying I have crabs? For real? *rolling eyes*

    See the difference between your post and mine is I’m telling the truth. You are in fact hella bytchy, can we say ‘bitter much’??..You even went so far as to post a link about women giving oysters herpes? Really? Go head girlfriend, whoever that sorry man is making you bitter, let him GO! And if the women with STD’s are approaching you, Then you might wanna check that cologne you wearing…Cause it’s gotta be YOU!

    I’m disappointed in you Kesha, I thought I was going to get a grand laugh from you, *Sigh*, ah well, guess I have to stick to just looking at your main photo for that..

    *Throws tampon at Kesha-doggz, pats the fro, drops the mic, walks away…*

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/neeniebeanie18/ neeniebeanie18

    This is just awful. I feel so bad for her and that was real low down of him to do that. However, I’m not like “condoms don’t protect” talk, etc. No, they don’t protect 100%, but they sure as hell protect 90 something % of the time which is way better than not using anything at all. Just get tested regularly and realize it’s better to be safe than sorry, even if your partner objects to using protection.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sub-Negro/ Sub-Negro

    Dear Gay Best Friend,

    That is all I need to see before I read any further.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dymond4u2c/ dymond4u2c

    Ugh..people and the ignorance they suffer from. As a college graduate who took many health classes, I had to learn about all STD’s…people should do their homework. Herpes is a virus..it can be oral or genital. Chicken Pox is a form of Herpes..believe it or not. You can get herpes from touching, kissing, intercourse, oral sex etc. You can have herpes on your thigh, stomach, etc…lol (not funny, just ridiculus how little people educate themselves) If you have it on your thigh and it is touched it can be passed. You don’t have to show symptoms in order to spread herpes. Condoms cannot fully protect you. Cold sores are a form of herpes (some of the ignorant people thing cold sores come from oral sex) lol..at times but mostly it doesn’t. As for the lady in the article, there are men and women who date people who are infected with all kinds of things, they are just knowledgeable about what they are dealing with and the precautions that need to be taken to avoid contracting the disease. Your love life is not over. If he cares for you he will educate himself and you guys will work through it. Herpes has no face, age limit, sex…you cannot always tell if a person has herpes. Educate yourself people and take precautions. Be blessed!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/HOTLICKA323/ HOTLICKA323

    CaliFemme is fcukin hilarious! “Throws tampon at kesha-doggz, pats the fro, drops the mic and walks away*…LOL!

    I think A LOT of you need to stop droppin your own business on here like this. Sharing your STD experiences, talking about your men who beat on you, then turn right around and want to meet people? Newsflash to my queens, no man wants to know that kind of information off the cuff, he will pre-judge you as a woman who has baggage or issues. I’m not saying it’s right, but it is what it is….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @CaliFemme23
    Wait, YOU trying to insult someone’s looks.. desperate, just like your pics suggest. You trying to talk shiite just because your face is a natural deterrent that makes dudes automatically double bag it (1 for their d1cks, 1 for your head). You’re the last one to dis someone’s looks, check a mirror. You fingering your nose is considered bestiality. Seriously, I know you are not trying to go in on people’s looks. I’m expecting your next main pic to be of you WAY down the avenue. You still can’t escape that mug, no matter how you try to picaso yourself.

    First, you started with the insults, check yourself, but that’s what you always do in these forums, then run with your drop the mic bullshiite as a cop out. You’ve played yourself one too many times with that line, with way too many people you couldn’t spit ‘facts’ at. Your shiite is stale and played, get a new line. Come on now, califemme, I thought you were better than that. And bitter? YOU calling someone bitter? We can revisit any of your posts and say that, seriously.
    Seriously, I like your style because every time you take a man picture, it gets further and further away or your head is aimed at the ground. It’s a good look for you, so go take another main pic, but make yourself even, further away from the camera than you already are. Makes your more bearable, and your words seem like they have more weight too.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    @kesha-doggz, There you go! You made momma proud!

    But you still bytch, whine, moan and complain like no woman ever has…Be more respectable and stop droppin lame links about women who give herpes to oysters! No need to talk about your white women like that…

    luv ya!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Blu_Lyrik/ Blu_Lyrik

    Just a quick question…do the people that argue on these forums (meant for opinions of all) even know each other personally? If not, why care about what someone else thinks? IJS…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shybyme91/ shybyme91

    I not in that position but u need to tell him cause herpes is a skin fungi he can caught it if his skin rub against you …I hate that happen to u girl he knew he had that s**t he came back just to f**k u life up with his mistake know u see he never love u from the beginning cause he would of thought about the out come and use protection not to bring it back home to u..

    BUT I SORRY TO SAY THIS INSTEAD OF U MOVING ON WHY DID YOU JUST STAY WITH HIM>> U BOTH ALREADY KNOW WHATS UP KNOW U LEFT HIM TO INFECT SOMEONE ELSE LIFE UP AND U ARE ABOUT TO DO THE SAME.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sub-Negro/ Sub-Negro

    Good lord the comments on here sh!t I overlooked them. We got everything goin in on here seriously its like an episode of Def Comedy Jam up in here.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/RENEGADE_BRITTANY/ RENEGADE_BRITTANY

    Lol welp she had to learn the hard way not to make the sexy time without getting tested or a damn condom……..tested is better.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TrilldaOfficial/ TrilldaOfficial

    B***h you want to sleep wit a n*gga even though you got herpies? GURL STOP! You doin’ the same s**t you left your nigga for but WORSE! Trying to give this innocent man some spoiled p*ssy lol… I hope this ain’t one of dem “nice” but “thirsty” patnas, cause if I even got a hint dat a female got herpes I’ma tell shawti ass to buy a dildo while I’m ON TO DA NEXT ONE!!!! I GOT A MILLION WAYS TO GET IT CUZ!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CamuiMS/ CamuiMS

    Dear TrilldaOfficial and Gay Best Friend,

    I am guessing your reading comprehension is on a 4th grade level. Or maybe that’s insulting fourth graders. The woman who sent this in NEVER said she was trying to sneak and not tell the man, she was asking how to tell him without him making assumptions about her character. But you, TrilldaOfficial, I’ll be blunt- you’re worse than dog crap and I hope your stuff falls off. I can’t stand men who want to talk about women’s bodies like objects and call her the b-word. You read her story, she was in what she thought was a monogamous relationship- it was because of her s.o.b. boyfriend (who should be jailed) that she was infected. I bet he was a real classy dude, just like yourself ‘TrilldaOfficial’. Ughh

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Mrbrmann225/ Mrbrmann225

    I’m pretty sure no one will listen to me on this but here goes.

    To Ms. Stuck with a disease, you’re not really stuck with that disease, there is a cure for herpes, and not some trickery you have to do, there is a REAL cure for that disease and many others, just look at Doctor by the Name of Dr. Sebi and he can help you to rid yourself of your problem.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Dopegurlmagic17/ Dopegurlmagic17

    damn @ odoggz
    u went extra HAM but some people u gotta tell dat too especially uber judgmental people

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/angelwings_1962/ angelwings_1962

    I can’t understand for the life of me … why can’t folks just don’t do the right thing … its AIDS/HIV and others STD’s and unknown diseases out HERE!! … why folks are so willing to trust a person they just met so quickly it takes time to trust a person … if you are not going to be faith to just one person and you know this is true okay PROTECT YOURSELF!! by ANY mean NECESSARY!! … males and females …

    for females we have to use more than just one birth methods…. the PILLS,,,CONDOMS (the female only are the best its covers everything ) VIGINAL SPONGE. or TIES your TUBES UP!! …. whatever makes you comfortable its 7,000 to CHOSE!! from take advantage of it … and if you are in a long time relationship and don’t want any kids this is great for you all too!! … for the males just keep a damn JIMMY!! on dude!!!! …

    I have a male son and I taught him from the age of five years old and then at twelve yrs … USE CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS!! … cause its in all SIZES that WILL fix .. and no KISSING!! …. and if you don’t have one use a SAFEWAY BAG!! … cause these gals are nasty cause they are mess with nasty men … and ladies these guys are nasty cause they are mess with nasty women …

    don’t get yourself all caught up with the GAME that you LOSE yourself … cause Jesus don’t give folks disease OUR weakness and careless DOES!! … I had lost all my friends from AIDS in the early 80′s … I was the only one in the group who really worship the word PROTECTION and use condoms faithfully … well they all laugh at me and now I here and I miss them soooo much … that’s why I say young folks and other folks too …

    its better safe than sorry … and if a person do have a STD’s don’t spread the ignorance still protect yourself … just because you trust a person that faithful night and the act on ignorance YOU don’t HAVE to BE!! ….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jbettaoffpaid/ Jbettaoffpaid

    well… from what i know herpes actually isnt that easy to pass on…mostly you have to have an outbreak…and from what iv read a lot of people have oral herpes…ever heard of cold sores?…yep herpes…although its not that big a deal…i am happy to say i havent gotten any of that…i dated a girl that i slept with used protection…after she told me…i was pissed going thru a million emotions….after getting tested like 4 times with in a year im good…but that stuck with me….tell him/her b4 you sleep please!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @CaliFemme23
    There was no pride in talking like that, for me. I didn’t even want to get at you like that, but you came at me PERSONALLY, and all I do is speak in general, which suggests you’re the one with issues. I didn’t appreciate that. Besides, I was being funny. That oyster link has absolutely NOTHING TO DO WITH WOMEN PASSING IT TO OYSTERS, that fecking impossible, but you, being who you are for drama, took it like I was serious. Come on now, is that not taking this a little too seriously or what?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/OneMethodMan/ OneMethodMan

    Dont just give you body away. It is about you getting you life in balance, in that you spirit, soul, and body. I think that females are smarter than men-you have a God-given talent and senses that we dont have…USE THEM! For the sake of love you get caught up in meaningless words from men that do not care about you nor for you.
    Whats more important is your personal relationship with God-He is the only one that can heal, deliver and set-free a broken, wounded heart (SOUL).

    P.S. keep ya legs closed until marriage and be safe

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TrilldaOfficial/ TrilldaOfficial

    “I am guessing your reading comprehension is on a 4th grade level. Or maybe that’s insulting fourth graders. The woman who sent this in NEVER said she was trying to sneak and not tell the man, she was asking how to tell him without him making assumptions about her character. But you, TrilldaOfficial, I’ll be blunt- you’re worse than dog crap and I hope your stuff falls off. I can’t stand men who want to talk about women’s bodies like objects and call her the b-word. You read her story, she was in what she thought was a monogamous relationship- it was because of her s.o.b. boyfriend (who should be jailed) that she was infected. I bet he was a real classy dude, just like yourself ‘TrilldaOfficial’. Ughh”

    You can type the most beautiful post trying to defend this woman, but Herpes is real, and it doesn’t go away.”I finally said yes and we have been going out and having fun for about three months now. We have not had any sexual contact yet, but I want to so bad”, did you NOT see through that? Can you NOT see that a person with a STD who hasn’t had ANY sexual contact in a while will say ANYTHING to get that person to sleep with them regardless of their “problem”. She don’t need to talk about sex until he talks about MARRAGE! All she did was ran the ultimate game on this man by NOT telling him in the first place, ALLOWING herself to like this man and vice-verse. Lets say he decides to sleep with her anyway regardless of the STD because he likes her so much, for the moment. They go out for a min. but they decide it doesn’t work out and split. He ends up so lonely that he decides to pursue other partners, and it spreads. Matter of fact, replace Herpes with HIV or any other STD and that’s basically what happens when diseases spread. The more it spreads the more people, yes there are other people that exist outside of these two somewhat love-birds, are put at risk. I don’t know about you “CamuiMS”, but I don’t want or need Herpes in my life.

    To be honest, I don’t even believe the story of how she contracted the disease, if it’s true, I apologize, but I just don’t. If you loved him before and you both have Herpes, why didn’t you stay with him? Don’t even talk to me about comprehension because I’ve read,observed,experienced more than you even think you know…

    P.S. My previous post you responded to was typed, jokingly.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/franc29/ franc29

    Condoms don’t protect you against genital herpes. The only safe way to avoid contracting or giving any STD from/to anyone is to abstain from sex. That’s one reason why God commands us to abstain from any sexual activity that is not in the contest of marriage. Those who follow God’s word are safe. Ignore God’s word at your own perils.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2Paclookinmofo/ 2Paclookinmofo

    yep some of yall need to take Sex Ed classes most def

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blackbizman2008/ blackbizman2008

    the SWAD girl should seek out others who have STDs. i’m sure there must be a website dedicated to hooking up STD men and women (they have dating sites for every possible pairing of people these days). but to allow a dating situation to become a 3 month relationship is irresponsible. the longer she waits, the more angry he is likely to become that she withheld such important info.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Leticia39/ Leticia39

    “My Ex Infected Me – I Want To Date But I’m Afraid Of Rejection!” BLAH BLAH BLAH Stop complaining you dumb Trick! How the hell can you be rejected if the other person doesn’t know!!!!!!!!!???????? Don’t tell them!! Duh!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/misskiss4512/ misskiss4512

    @Leticia39

    Wow !!! Really Letcia39?? Sooo…If you had a disease that couldn’t be cured you wouldn’t be honest about it?? That’s just nasty !!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    she would have slept w/ him sooner than these 3 months if not for her nasty koochie

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MrRyanDee/ MrRyanDee

    Just tell him…. a lot of dudes don’t care anyway. She’ll find one of them.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mackhary2/ mackhary2

    If, you send me $19.99, I can heal you, from all your diseases. For this $19.99, you will get a pack of WTF. WTF, I’m in the military and work in the healthcare field. 1st, that brother had been back in town awhile and he just got some from another chick before he saw you. Last, your man was gone for 18months, and this other guy didn’t try to tap dat azz, B4. Now, all of a sudden the, “Office guy,” is trying to get some???BS, BS, BS

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Leticia39/ Leticia39

    misskiss4512
    Well she should use condoms! There should never be unprotected sex in the first place unless you are married and both of yall had been to the doc to check that you are clean. :) When was the last time you got checked misskiss?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaikai7/ kaikai7

    Quit with all the self righteous bullish ! I actually feel bad for this young lady because she was in what she believed to be a committed relationship with a military man.It only takes one time to catch a disease and most sexually active people have had unprotected sex at least once. I’m not condoning it or co signing to it, but truth is truth. Your just fortunate that you didn’t catch something. You don’t have to be sexually promiscous or a wh*re to contract a disease. All you have to do is sleep with one wrong person who has something without protection, and sometimes even protection doesn’t prevent everything.This man more than likely knew that he was infected and he made a choice to infect her.I’d sue the shyt out of him(yes you can do that) and report his azz to the Health Dept in his town.I’d even put up random posters if I had to. It’s not defamation “if its true”. She now has to tell all future partners that she has herpes!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/misskiss4512/ misskiss4512

    Hey LETICIA39,

    I get checked once a year and EVEERYONE SHOULD ANYWAYS INCLUDING YOUR DAMN SELF, but I wear condoms also, so speak for yourself, atleast I aint a stripper with STD’s…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/terran78/ terran78

    LMAO !!! @MISSKISS4512

    I LIKE YOUR THINKING !!! I THOUGHT THAT WAZ HILARIOUS!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Empress_Unique/ Empress_Unique

    Wow.. Outside of having a std that she is stuck with for life… She is dating someone she works with. When and if she decides to tell him, she has to cross her fingers that he keeps it to himself. He may get upset, dump her and start the rumors because he’s pissed and she strung him along for months.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/devine0722/ devine0722

    wow, that is just terrible.. that son of a b***h.. i’d cut it off and feed it to him.. it doesn’t matter if she uses condoms – herpes is spread thru skin to skin contact..

    it’s unfortunate but she needs to keep it 100 w/any man she is interested in and if he is not the 1 for her than she can’t blame him.. there’s no cure for herpes and i doubt that i am willingly going to date some1 who has it.. even if they are honest in telling me about it.. she’ll have flares and break outs and will have to be on meds..

    she should check one of those sites where all the ppl on there have herpes.. that way she will be w/some1 who has the std already..

    Good luck

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blazinPotPie37/ blazinPotPie37

    Wow this is a very interesting topic. If he had been gone that long and she has not been with him she should have used a condom but that is much easier said than done when she felt like she was in a relationship where both parties were being faithful. In this time and age you simply can’t take chances with your life. It is no different than you riding down the street without wearing a seat belt knowing that with it and you crash you can loose your life. I definitely feel pity for this sister but again we have to love ourselves more than we love the person who we think loves us. If you can’t see what is going on you should always use precaution. This is a another lesson that is being presented to men and women who don’t take things serious until something happens to them. As far as her telling the new guy I think that she should because more than likely he will have more respect for her than her not telling him and he find out the wrong way.I know that it may sound like that is a difficult thing to do but to write someone and ask for advice at least give a look into what type of character this woman possess. Reading a topic such as this can only make you say WOW

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Finding4Ever/ Finding4Ever

    Why should the new guy be angry? This is not information for everyone. In fact, I would tell him I am not interested to avoid the possibility of him telling others if he turns out to be a jack@ss. If you feel like telling him, you should make sure he knows why you had to wait and how much you would appreciate his understanding.

    Personally, I wouldn’t chance it. With everything else you are dealing with, job drama is the last thing you need in a recession.

    I’m sorry for what happened to you, but this situation is life-altering and you will have less problems if you consider that when making choices.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Leticia39/ Leticia39

    misskiss4512 – Oh so 4 more months til doc pokes you again! Do you get male or female docs to give you paps?

    terran78 – When was the last time you got checked sir?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/aintitfunny2/ aintitfunny2

    to hell with laying this s**t on soft cause she a female garbage y’all doing …this b***h got dirty fiya p***y and she better tell him. Some dudes dont play that and she will risk the chance of loosin her life one way or the other if she gave the wrong dude that stuff. The fact she even writing this story and contemplating not tellin him even tho she want to hit tell me she a triflin ho. Boy, Now days you aint even gotta worry about negroes with guns kiilin you. Its females and p***y

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/georgejansen/ georgejansen

    JUST KEEP YOUR FXXXXXX MOUTH CLOSE AND BANG OLD DUDE…I’M MEAN SXXX…A NXXXX’ WILL FXXX JUST ABOUT ANYTHING….AND TRUST ME, WHILE HE’S WAITING ON YOU FOR 3 MONTHS, OH HE’S DIGGING OUT THE NEXT GIRL…AND A NXXXX WILL BANG JUST ABOUT ANY KIND OF COOCH’…LOOK AT HOW MANY NXXXX’S BEEN UP IN KIM KAR-TRASHIAN’S ASS…AND NOT CALL HERPES…IT CALLED “THE LUGGAGE” AND ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/niecy_shygirl/ niecy_shygirl

    thats unfortunate that it happened, but jus like you did appreciate your man SUPRISING you, you don’t need to be suprising him. I think you should date him a little bit (NO SEX) and then one day explain the situation.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/niecy_shygirl/ niecy_shygirl

    i meant didn’t

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ValaidaSnow/ ValaidaSnow

    You shouldn’t s— where you sleep. If she doesn’t want her business spread at work, don’t mess with the guy and just say you would much rather keep it professional and not date coworkers.

    I did volunteer work in my community and I have heard the disheartening stories like hers. She should use this time to better herself. The last thing she needs to be doing is looking for sex as a coping mechanism. If she feels uncomfortable dating others, there are plenty of dating websites specific to her herpes infection including a support forum on Blackplanet.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blessed491/ blessed491

    If you really like him, then take a chance in telling him but know that if he does not accept it it’s possible your career is in trouble. If he does not accept it then be prepared to find another job or have employees talk about you. I am so sorry that you are going through this, but know that you are not the only one. I myself was infected with herpes and found out I got it from a jerk. When I started dating someone else we had no sexual contact. I was also in your situation and was afraid to tell him, but I told myself if it was meant to be then by the grace of God it shall be and I told him. Sure he had alot of questions and was shocked but he is a good man. He proposed after only four months of dating and now we have two children together. There are some good men out there, you just have to take a chance and know everything will be fine because there is someone for everyone out there. Be Blessed!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tishreni/ tishreni

    A really short answer would be is just to date other people with herpes.They have all kinnds of dating websites on the net for things like that.They even have one for H.I.V dating.

    They have these types of sites because people are scared of being rejected and feel they have no way out but to infect other people than tell the truth.Thats where i would start if i had some terrible lifelong disease that wouldnt be explainable to 95% of the population.Of course the remaining 5% might see differently but thats like finding a needle in a haystack!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nashan/ nashan

    I think before you go on any further you should let the guy know. who knows his reaction to the situation he might be ok with or not but you owe him that much.. Tell him the truth before it’s too late.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/yepthatsme/ yepthatsme

    wait…did dude a couple posts down say screw him anyway and don’t tell him? wow. anywho, it’s sad that she ended up in this situation just by being faithful to and trusting her man. what a reward! although it’s best to be upfront with any future partners, probably not a good idea to get involved with dude from work anyway. last thing she needs, on top of all this, is her work life flung to hell as well.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jmb3330/ jmb3330

    1st of all shes datin a guy at her job and if this blows up in her face she might have to quit her job depending how he reacts .2nd if this is true i feel bad for her,but i have a feelin she might not b tellin the whole story some people like playin the victim when in fact they them selves r the the guilty 1′s ..bottom line if this dude is anything like me when she tells him what she has he’s more then likely gonna split.

  • http://qa.kysdc.com/221/dev/my-ex-man-was-into-transsexuals/ “My Ex-Man Was Into Transsexuals!” | qa.kysdc.com

    [...] “My Ex Infected Me – I Want To Date But I’m Afraid Of Rejection!” [...]

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Dayton00/ Dayton00

    Thats a f**ked out situation, but the fact that she is leading dude on is telling me one thing…she f**ked him already and is trying to justify not telling him and telling him now…Weak…Just like a b***h…Wanna keep s**t to herself and not speak the f**k up…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LadyOrion333/ LadyOrion333

    Like you’re some sort of EXPERT, Dayton00?!? Your post doesn’t even make ANY sense! And how is SHE the “b*tch” when it was done to HERE?!? I’m not saying it’s okay to “lead someone on,” but it’s not like she’s DOING IT ON PURPOSE. This was some BS that guy did, and she should’ve gotten some retribution on HIS a*s. Honey, I’m sorry!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius162/ A-Real-Genius162

    THE ONLY WAY THAT A GAY MAN CAN CONTRACT HERPES IS TO SLEEP AROUND WITH YOU FILTHY WOMEN THAT HAS IT BECAUSE YOU WOMEN ARE THE MAIN ONES THAT CARRY AND PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THOSE BLACK MEN….THOSE BLACK MEN ONLY HAVE THOSE VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY MIGHT HAVE BECAUSE YOU WOMEN CARRY THEM….SO,YOU WANT TO START DATING IN 2011 BUT,YOU HAVE A DISEASE? WELL THE THING TO DO IS MAYBE FIND ONE BLACK MAN THAT HAS THE SAME DISEASE THAT YOU HAVE AND WHEN HAVING SEX TOGETHER TRY AND KEEP IT AS CLEAN AND SAFE AS YA’LL POSSIBLY CAN BUT,DO NOT DATE THOSE WHITE MEN OR THOSE FOREIGN MEN THAT HAS HERPES BECAUSE YOU THEN WILL PROBABLY HAVE WAY MORE BREAK OUTS THEN YOU WILL USUALLY HAVE….THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE MORE SICKLY AND WEAKLY WHEN THEY HAVE THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES (in other words their immune system breaks down much quicker then you black people do because their immune system is weak by being unhealthy) THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE NOT SEXUALLY HEALTHY ENOUGH FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE SO,STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM.

    SO,JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A INFECTIOUS DISEASE DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO SLEEP AROUND WITH A WHITE/FOREIGN PERSON WHO HAS THE SAME EXACT INFECTIOUS DISEASE AS YOURS BECAUSE OF THOSE OTHER CONTAGIOUS AND INFECTIOUS DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY MIGHT KILL YOU QUICKER THEN IF YOU JUST SLEEPING AROUND WITH ANOTHER BLACK PERSON INSTEAD.

    LQQK

    TRICHOMONIASIS
    CHLAMYDIA
    BACTERIAL VAGINOSIS (BV)
    GONORRHEA
    HERPES
    PELVIC INFLAMMATORY DISEASE (PID)
    CANDIDIASIS
    SYPHILIS
    HEPATTIS B
    GENITAL WARTS (HPV)

    AND LET ALONE THAT HIV/AIDS INFECTIOUS SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE.

    THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN PEOPLE CARRY MANY OF OTHER VARIOUS INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES UNLIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO….JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE INFECTED WITH SOME KIND OF INFECTIOUS DISEASE DOESN’T NECESSARILY MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO GO OUT AND KILL YOURSELF BY TRYING TO SLEEP AROUND WITH EVERY DOG THAT YOU SEE (meaning your life is not over yet).

    LYME DISEASE
    SWINE DEADLY FLU
    MENINGITIS
    LARYNGITIS
    PARASITES
    CHOLERA
    ANTHRAX
    LISTERIOSIS
    TURBERCULOSIS
    LEPROSY
    LEPTOSPIROSIS
    IMPETIGO
    MALARIA
    TOXOCARIASIS
    TOXOPLASMOSIS
    SCHISTOSOMIASIS etc…..

    Those Filthy White/foreign Women Will Give Their Rotted Out P*ssy To Any Body That Wants It Because It Ain’t No Good.

    THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT IT AIN’T NO GOOD (think) IF THEIR P*SSY WAS ANY GOOD THEN THEY WOULDN’T BE GIVING IT AWAY TO EVERYBODY.THOSE BLACK WOMEN CAN CONDUCT THEMSELVES MUCH BETTER THEN THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS CAN WHEN IT COMES TO SEX BECAUSE THEY DO NOT GIVE THEMSELVES TO EVERY RACE OF MEN LIKE THOSE FILTHY MANGE DOG SMELLING WHITE WOMEN WILL DO (in other words those white women are animals of some sort of kind) JUST LOOK AT THEIR HAIR AND THEN THINK ABOUT THOSE BUGS THAT THEY SAY WILL GROW IN IT AND THEN THINK ABOUT THE DOG ODOR OF THEIR WET AND SWEATY BODY….THEY ARE OF ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS WHITE.

    another thing is those white people really do love those cats and dogs don’t they? maybe because those cats and dogs are apart of their family tree.

    WHITE MAN=WHITE WOMAN
    FOREIGN MAN=FOREIGN WOMAN
    BLACK MAN=BLACK WOMAN

    THOSE BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHERS ONLY FLOCK TOGETHER

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius162/ A-Real-Genius162

    7 Reasons Why Marriage IS Beneficial To Men

    ONE OF THEM SHOULD BE BECAUSE OF ALL OF THOSE SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED AND PHYSICAL DISEASES THAT ARE OUT THERE THAT YA’LL CAN CATCH FROM THOSE INFECTIOUS DOGS.

    LAZ ALONZO IS DEFINITELY MARRIED TO A INFECTIOUS PIECE OF SH!T.

    Half Of U.S. Men Affected By HPV [Study]

    IF THAT IS TRUE THEY PROBABLY HAVE IT BECAUSE OF THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING UNHEALTHY NO GOOD BODY TRIFLING FISH AND RACCOON AND DEAD SKUNK,SEWER HOLE AND GARBAGE SMELLING HOES FROM PASSING THOSE DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY TO THEM….ALL OF YOU DUMB HOES ARE NOTHING BUT,SOME NASTY AZZ DOGS.

    Oral Sex Is Leading Cause Of Increasing U.S. Cancer Rates

    I WAS TRYING TO TELL YOU BLACK MEN THAT THOSE DOGS….WHITE,BLACK,MIXED AND FOREIGN CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES WHICH SITS DORMANT INSIDE OF THEIR UNHEALTHY NO GOOD BODY UNTIL THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE READY TO ATTACK.

    Lessons Every Mother Should Teach Their Sons

    I KNOW THAT THE MOST VERY IMPORTANT LESSON THAT THESE BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TEACH THEIR BLACK SONS AND THAT IS TO STAY AWAY FROM THOSE FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN….I NOTICED THAT WHEN YOU BLACK MEN HAVE SLEPT WITH A WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN THEN YA’LL WILL SLEEP WITH MOST ANYTHING AND THE NEXT THING THAT YOU KNOW YA’LL HAVE A DOG SMELLING BODY ODOR JUST LIKE THOSE FILTHY UNCLEAN HOES DO.

    THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS A ODOR OF A DOG (meaning that those other race of people are born half dog and half human).

    THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN PEOPLE CARRY MANY OF OTHER VARIOUS INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES UNLIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO….JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE INFECTED WITH SOME KIND OF INFECTIOUS DISEASE DOESN’T NECESSARILY MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO GO OUT AND KILL YOURSELF BY TRYING TO SLEEP AROUND WITH EVERY DOG THAT YOU SEE (meaning your life is not over yet).

    LYME DISEASE
    SWINE DEADLY FLU
    MENINGITIS
    LARYNGITIS
    PARASITES
    CHOLERA
    ANTHRAX
    LISTERIOSIS
    TURBERCULOSIS
    LEPROSY
    LEPTOSPIROSIS
    IMPETIGO
    MALARIA
    TOXOCARIASIS
    TOXOPLASMOSIS
    SCHISTOSOMIASIS etc…..

    Those Filthy White/foreign Women Will Give Their Rotted Out P*ssy To Any Body That Wants It Because It Ain’t No Good.

    Lessons Every Mother Should Teach Their Sons

    I KNOW THAT THE MOST VERY IMPORTANT LESSON THAT THESE BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TEACH THEIR BLACK SONS AND THAT IS TO STAY AWAY FROM THOSE FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN….I NOTICED THAT WHEN YOU BLACK MEN HAVE SLEPT WITH A WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN THEN YA’LL WILL SLEEP WITH MOST ANYTHING AND THE NEXT THING THAT YOU KNOW YA’LL HAVE A DOG SMELLING BODY ODOR JUST LIKE THOSE FILTHY UNCLEAN HOES DO.

    THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS A ODOR OF A DOG (meaning that those other race of people are born half dog and half human).

    THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL SETTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT.

    WE AS BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO COME TOGETHER WITH YOU FILTHY RACIST STUPID TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE HEATHENS BECAUSE ALL THAT YOU WHITE PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO DO TO US AS BLACK PEOPLE IS TRY AND MAKE FOOLS OUT OF US BY TRYING TO TURN US AGAINST EACH OTHER FOR YA’LL….YOU WHITE PEOPLE AND YOU FOREIGN PEOPLE LIKE FOR US BLACK PEOPLE TO GO AROUND HATING ON EACH OTHER.

    YOU FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE WOMEN BE TRICKING THESE BLACK MEN INTO GIVING YA’LL THEIR MONEY INSTEAD OF THEM SHARING THEIR MONEY WITH THOSE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WANT TO TRY AND GET RICH OFF OF THIS BLACK MEN WHO HAS MONEY SO,TO KEEP YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

    YOU FILTHY FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THESE BLACK MEN TO TREAT YA’LL BETTER AND RESPECT YA’LL BETTER THEN THEY WILL DO THEIR OWN BLACK WOMEN….YOU BIG D!CK LOOKING AROUND FOR DOG SMELLING LYING WHITE WOMEN JUST WANTED TO COME BETWEEN THOSE BLACK MEN AND THEIR BLACK WOMEN SO,TO CAUSE THEM PROBLEMS IN THEIR RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

    YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE HAVING THOSE BABIES BY THOSE BLACK MEN AND WAS TRYING TO TRICK THOSE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT THOSE BABIES WERE BLACK BABIES BUT,THEY WEREN’T THEY ARE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” BECAUSE ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK….YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE TRYING TO CHANGE THE ORIGINAL BLACK MAN AND THE ORIGINAL BLACK WOMAN BY TRYING TO CALL YA’LLS MIXED/BIRACIAL BLACK KIDS WHEN ALL OF THE TIME THEY WERE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” AND NOT BLACK.

    YOU WHITE WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN JEALOUS OF THESE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE OF THEIR DARK SKIN COMPLEXION (in other words you white women wanted to be those black women but,ya’ll couldn’t so,therefore ya’lls low down and trickish behinds started getting pregnant by those black men to try and make ya’ll some black babies but,ya’ll couldn’t because only black can make black) YA’LLS BABIES ARE WHITE

    YOU STUPID LYING WHITE WOMEN WERE ALSO TRYING TO TRICK THESE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT YA’LL WERE NOT ANY GOLD DIGGERS LIKE THOSE BLACK WOMEN WERE BUT,YA’LL ARE GOLD DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN JUST AS WELL AS YA’LL ARE GRAVE DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN.

    YOU STUPID FILTHY WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THOSE BLACK MEN TO LEAVE YA’LL MONEY JUST IN CASE THEY HAD HAPPEN TO PASS AWAY SO,THAT YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WON’T EVER GO BROKE.

    YOU STUPID RACIST LYING WHITE PEOPLE WILL TRICK THESE BLACK MEN OUT THEIR RICHES/MILLIONS JUST TO KEEP YA’LLS WHITE RACE OF PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

    YOU WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOTHING BUT,A BUNCH OF BLACK RACE HATING ON LYING HEATHENS.

    usfg

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/A-Real-Genius162/ A-Real-Genius162

    OPINION: Africans Are As Much To Blame For Slavery As Anyone

    THESE BLACK PEOPLE WAS NOT EVER PUT INTO SLAVERY STUPID WHITE DUMMY.

    THEY ONLY HAD TO GO THROUGH SEGREGATION WITH YOU STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE.

    THESE BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO BE SEGREGATED AWAY FROM YOU STUPID RACIST FILTHY CONTAMINATED BLOOD WHITE PEOPLE AGAIN SINCE YA’LL BE TRYING TO THEM THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YA’LL CARRYING AS THOSE ANIMALS THAT YA’LL ARE.

    THE WHITE WOMAN AND THE FOREIGN WOMAN TO THE BLACK MAN (why don’t you date outside of your race of black women,are you racist or prejudice)?

    THE BLACK MAN TO THE WHITE WOMAN AND TO THE FOREIGN WOMAN (no i am not racist or prejudice it’s just that i do not sleep around with filthy dogs).

    Survey Finds: Women More Likely To Cheat Than Men

    IF THAT IS TRUE IT’S ONLY BECAUSE OF THAT FILTHY DUMB LYING AZZ SNEAKY AND TRICKY HOE THAT RESIDES INSIDE OF THEM THAT PASS AND SPREAD THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY WHICH SITS DORMANT INSIDE OF THEIR UNHEALTHY NO GOOD BODY TO THOSE BLACK MEN.

    White Writer Has “I Got The Fever” Book On Interracial Dating

    I WOULD RATHER HAVE A ROACH INSIDE MY APARTMENT THEN HAVING A WHITE MAN OR A FOREIGN MAN LAYING IN MY BED UP UNDER MY BLANKET.

    THIS IS TO YOU BLACK MEN SPECIFICALLY~THOSE WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE BLACK GIRLS/WOMEN DON’T CARRY.

    THAT IS HOW ALL OF THOSE MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE GETTING PASSED THROUGHOUT THOSE BLACK COMMUNITIES.

    FROM THE LOOKS OF THEIR HAIR WITH THOSE BUGS THAT GROW INSIDE OF IT,THE ODOR OF THEIR DOG SMELLING BODY AND THOSE DISEASES LIKE HIV/AIDS,LYME,SWINE,LARYNGITIS,MENINGITIS,SYPHILIS etc…THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD TELL YOU BLACK PEOPLE THAT THEY ARE OF SOME KIND OF HUMAN ANIMAL.

    THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG

    THOSE DOGS AND CATS ARE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ANCESTORS (meaning that those white people and those foreign people are born half dog and half human).

    Are Segregated Classrooms Better For Black Student Performance?

    I TRULY BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE BECAUSE THEN THOSE BLACK CHILDREN CAN BETTER FOCUS ON WHAT THEY ARE TRYING TO DO THAT IS SUPPOSE TO BE DONE RATHER THEN HAVING TO LOOK AROUND THE CLASS ROOM AT THOSE IGNORANT BEING TAUGHT TO BE RACIST STUPID WHITE KIDS THAT MAMMIES AND PAPPIES HAVE TOLD THEM BY LYING TO THEM THAT THEY ARE MUCH SMARTER THEN THOSE BLACK KIDS (thats called teaching your kids to lie and be racist).

    Study Shows Mixed Women Are Seen As Most Attractive

    DON’T BELIEVE THAT BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE JUST AS FILTHY AND DOG SMELLING AS THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE….THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN JUST LIKE THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE.

    Should Only Dark-Skinned People Be Considered “Black”?

    ALL BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD BE CONSIDERED BLACK REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEIR SKIN COMPLEXION IS JUST AS LONG AS THEY HAVE A BLACK MOTHER AND A BLACK FATHER….THOSE MIXED PEOPLE ARE TRULY NOT CONSIDERED BLACK PEOPLE (in other words ) MS.O’BRIEN IS NOT CONSIDERED A BLACK WOMEN SHE IS ANOTHER RACE OF WOMAN WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” MEANING DIRTY (in other words she is mixed or biracial) BUT,NOT EVER A BLACK WOMAN.

    Top 6 “The Black Guy Did It” Excuses By White Criminals

    IS THAT FILTHY WHITE HOE LYING ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN TO HER FACE WHEN SHE SAY THAT ACID HAD BEEN THROWN ON IT? OR IS SHE REALLY HAVING SOME KIND OF OUTBREAK OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY ALL CARRY AS BEING WHITE PEOPLE AND FOREIGN PEOPLE? I BELIEVE THAT THIS FILTHY WHITE HOE IS HAVING SOME KIND OF OUTBREAK OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY AND THEN TRY AND SPREAD/PASS AROUND TO OTHERS.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE CONTAGIOUS AND INFECTIOUS AND YOU BLACK PEOPLE REALLY DO NEED TO STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM….THEY ARE ANIMALS

    Death Rate For NJ Black Babies In First Year Twice As High As Whites

    DON’T LISTEN TO THAT BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AFRAID OF GOING BROKE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE BE KILLING THEIR LIVE BORN KIDS WAY BORN THEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE BE GETTING THOSE ABORTIONS (those mentally disturbed white people be killing their living kids for the life insurance policy/money) SO,THEREFORE DON’T LET THEM BOTHER WITH YA’LLS HEAD.

    CHECK THIS OUT THOUGH

    LQQK

    Pardon Me, But Can A Black Man Protect His Family?

    YEAH OF COURSE A BLACK MAN CAN PROTECT HIS FAMILY JUST READ THIS SO,TO GET THE RIGHTEOUS HELP THAT YOU POSSIBLY NEED.

    2 Men Accused Of Hate Crime For Beating White Teen For ?Enslaving Our People?

    It was flat out wrong for them to do what they did. Two wrongs don?t make a right. It wasn?t like the boy did something to them to provoke this. It?s a damn shame that two dumb asses go out there and attack someone for no damn reason. You want to whip somebody?s %#&@$! go out there and jump on the KKK. Try beating the hell out of one them. Dumb asses like them make it harder on the real black people out there trying to make it. I hope they throw them under the jail and that they get the hell beat out of them while they?re in there. As a matter of fact I think that a group of black people should go inside the jail and beat the hell out of them for making us look bad.

    SHAME ON YOU BLACK MAN FOR SAYING THAT ABOUT THOSE TWO SPECIAL BLACK BOYS LIKE THAT….ZIP IT UP

    DAMN THEY F*CKED THAT YOUNG STUPID RACIST WHITE PIECE OF SH!T UP DIDN’T THEY BLACK PEOPLE?

    THOSE ARE TWO BLACK ANGELS THAT WAS F*CKING UP A STUPID WICKED RACIST WHITE DEVIL AND GOD AND I BOTH KNOW THAT IT IS TRUE.

    YOU WHITE PEOPLE THINK THAT YA’LLS WHITE KIDS ARE SPECIAL RIGHT? WELL GUESS WHAT WE KNOW THAT OUR BLACK KIDS ARE MORE SPECIALER.

    WHERE MY BLACK PEOPLE AT?

    YOU BLACK PEOPLE AIN’T STUPID ENOUGH TO BE RACIST LIKE THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE.

    ALL OF THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE SAME AS BEING RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE RATHER IF THEY ARE THE KKK,OR EVEN RECEIVING A BLACK MANS D!CK INSIDE OF THEIR MOUTH FOR THEM TO PISS IN OR EVEN IF THEY ARE A WHITE MAN PRESIDENT.

    THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE WILL RAISE THEIR WHITE KIDS AS CHILDREN TO BE RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

    THEY WOULD LOVE FOR THEIR WHITE KIDS TO HIT ON OUR BLACK KIDS OR EITHER BEAT DOWN ON OUR BLACK KIDS BUT,WHEN OUR BLACK KIDS START KICKING THOSE STUPID WHITE KIDS BEHINDS THEIR WHITE MAMMIES AND THEIR WHITE PAPPIES CAN NOT HANDLE IT.

    CNN Asks:?Are White People Racially Oppressed?

    THATS WHAT YOU CALL BRINGING DOWN WHITEY.

    THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE DOGS ARE NOT YOU BLACK PEOPLE SUPERIORS.

    THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE HAD YOU BLACK PEOPLE THINKING THAT THEY WERE THE MASTERS OF THE GOT DARN UNIVERSE WHEN ALL THAT THEY WERE WAS SOME BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED IGNORANT RACIST WHITE DUMMIES.

    THOSE IGNORANT BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WHITE PEOPLE HAD TRIED TO TELL THE WHOLE WIDE THAT THEY WERE THE MOST INTELLIGENT ONES BECAUSE THEY WENT TO COLLEGE BUT,THEY WASN’T BECAUSE THEY ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST PEOPLE THAT WALKS THE FACE OF THIS PLANET EARTH BECAUSE THEY ALL ARE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AND RAISED TO BE RACIST.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DON’T WANT FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO EVER ACTUALLY COME OUT TO BEING WAY MORE SMARTER THEN THEY ARE AFTER THEM TAKING THEIR STUPID DON’T KNOW NOTHING BAD AT COMPREHENSION RACIST WHITE BEHINDS TO COLLEGE.

    LISTEN UP SCHOOL AND COLLEGE AIN’T FOR ALL BLACK PEOPLE OR OTHER WISE WE COULDN’T MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD.

    THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE PEOPLE HAD THE GOT DARN NERVE TO BE TRYING TO JUDGE YOU BLACK PEOPLE IN THIS BLACK PLANET WEBSITE NEWS ROOM THAT BELONGS TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE LIKE THEY WERE GOD OR JESUS BUT,THEY ARE NOT….THEY ARE DEVILS.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE SOME BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED BACKWARDS THINKING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING STUPID RACIST LYING IGNORANT DEVILS THAT WANT TO CONTROL THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD OF PEOPLE.

    WHEN THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE ARE IN THE WRONG DON’T BE AFRAID TO LET THEM KNOW THAT BY SPEAKING UP AND TELLING THEM THAT THEY ARE WRONG BECAUSE THEY DO NOT OWN OR CONTROL YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

    THOSE IGNORANT WHITE DUMB DEVILS BE BUILDING THOSE MENTAL HEALTH HOSPITALS AND MENTAL HEALTH CLINICS SO THAT THEY CAN HELP EACH OTHER WHEN THEY FALL INTO SOME KIND OF MENTAL ILLNESS FROM THEM BEING BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED.

    WHEN YOU BLACK MEN BE DATING THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN YA’LL WERE HAVING THOSE OTHER BLACK PEOPLE THINKING THAT YA’LL HAD SOMETHING GOOD BUT,YA’LL DIDN’T HAVE ANYTHING BUT,A PIECE OF EVIL AND WICKED FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING WHITE DOG.

    YOU IGNORANT BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED RACIST WHITE PEOPLE DO NOT OWN US BLACK PEOPLE OR ANY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE SO,THEREFORE YA’LL REALLY NEED TO CALM YA’LLS IGNORANT RACIST STUPID WHITE BEHINDS THE HELL DOWN?.YOU BUNCH OF LOW DOWN AND DIRTY WHITE RACIST DEVILS

    WE AS BEING BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT BOTHER WITH YA’LL IN THE WRONG WAY SO,THEREFORE WE DO NOT EXPECT FOR YA’LLS IGNORANT TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WANT TO TRY AND TAKE CONTROL OVER EVERYBODY WHITE RACIST BEHINDS TO BOTHER WITH US IN THE GOT DARN WRONG WAY EITHER?.IF YOU WHITE PEOPLE FEEL LIKE HURTING SOMEBODY THEN TAKE YA’LLS MENTALLY DISTURBED BEHINDS SOMEWHERE AND JUST HURT EACH OTHER.

    I HAD ALWAYS WONDERED WHY WOULD A BUNCH OF IGNORANT BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WICKED LYING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE DUMMIES THINK THAT THEY CAN TAKE CONTROL OVER THE WHOLE ENTIRE HUMAN RACE OF PEOPLE? THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE ARE DEFINITELY BORN WITH THOSE MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF MENTAL DISORDERS.

    YOU BLACK PEOPLE WILL SAY THOSE SLAVERY DAYS BUT,I WILL SAY THOSE SEGREGATION DAYS?.ANYWAY THEY WILL JUST HANG US FROM THOSE TREES BY OUR NECK SO,THAT WE CAN STRANGLE TO GOT DARN DEATH RIGHT? WELL AS I CAN REMEMBER FROM THOSE RACIST WHITE SEGREGATION DAYS ARE TO HANG THEIR WHITE FILTHY BEHINDS BY THEIR BOOTY HOLE ON THOSE GOT DARN TREES BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES THAT HAD BROUGHT THAT HIV/AIDS DISEASE HERE AND STARTED SPREADING IT AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE LIKE THOSE FILTHY WHITE SON OF A DIRTY DOGS THAT THEY TRULY ARE? PAYBACK IS A MF AIN’T IT?

    ISSAC HAYES
    RICHARD PRYOR
    RICK JAMES
    JOHNNIE COCHRAN
    HAROLD WASHINGTON
    MALCOLM X
    DR.MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.
    CORETTA SCOTT KING
    RODNEY KING
    OSCAR GRANT
    DJ HENRY
    TUPAC SHAKUR
    MICHAEL JACKSON (this is it)
    SEAN BELL AND WHO KNOWS WHO THE HELL ELSE etc..

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL TRY AND GET RID OF YOU BLACK MEN LEADERS AND SPEAKERS BECAUSE THEY WILL TEND TO STAND VERY STRONG FOR THEIR OWN BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE PEOPLE OR THOSE IGNORANT RACIST FOREIGN PEOPLE….THOSE IGNORANT WHITE PEOPLE ARE VERY RACIST AND WICKED TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE….DO NOT BE FOOLED BY THE DEVIL OR RATHER DO NOT WALK IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF STUPIDITY AND IGNORANCE.

    THOSE STUPID RACIST BACKWARDS THINKING WHITE PEOPLE BE TRYING TO TELL OTHER PEOPLE HOW TO STAY IN CONTROL OF THINGS WHEN IT COMES TO THIS MOTHER F*CKING COUNTRY BUT,THEIR IGNORANT WHITE DON?T KNOW SH!T BEHINDS BE THE MAIN GOT DARN ONES OUT OF CONTROL BECAUSE THEY LOVE GOING AROUND BOTHERING WITH EVERY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE IN THE WRONG GOT DARN WAY JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE WHITE PEOPLE AND GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE FROM LEARNING THE LOW DOWN DIRT THAT THOSE COLLEGE TEXT BOOKS TAUGHT THEM?.

    HAVE YALL EVERY WONDERED WHO PRINTED THOSE TEXT BOOKS FOR THOSE WHITE PEOPLE THAT THEY BE READING IN COLLEGE FROM BECAUSE IT HAS THESE WHITE PEOPLE HEAD ALL F*CKED UP AND SCREWED UP BY BEING BACKWARDS WHEN THEY TRY AND THINK (the wicked white devil must have something to do with printing them).

    THOSE COLLEGE TEXT BOOKS HAVE THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE PEOPLE VERY BAD AT COMPREHENSION BECAUSE THEY DON?T UNDERSTAND SH!T WHEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE BE TRYING TO TELL THEM SOMETHING THAT IS RIGHT.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL DO WAY MORE WRONG THEN ANY OTHER HUMAN RACE OF PEOPLE BUT,THEY HAVE THE MOTHER F*CKING GOT DAMN NERVE TO TRY AND CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE BY TRYING TO TELL THEM WHAT THE HELL TO DO WHEN THEY KNOW THAT IT IS WRONG FOR YA?LL TO DO IT OR RATHER HOW THE HELL YA?LL SHOULD LIVE YA’LLS LIFE AND THEY DON?T EVER DO SH!T RIGHT THEMSELVES.

    THOSE RACIST WHITE PEOPLE ARE SOME BACKWARDS THINKING STUPID WHITE DUMMIES AND BECAUSE OF IT SHOULDN’T ANY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE HAVE TO LISTEN TO THEM BECAUSE THEY LIE A LOT AND THEY ARE TROUBLE MAKERS AND PROBLEM CAUSERS AND FULL OF JEALOUSY AND HATRED TOWARDS THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE.

    BESIDES HOW IN THE HELL ARE A BUNCH OF RACIST WHITE TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING BACKWARDS THINKING WHITE DEVILS GOING TO HAVE THE GOT DAMN RIGHT TO TELL ANY BODY ELSE WHAT TO DO WHEN ALL THAT THEY EVER DO IS WRONG….THEY ARE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED SO,THEREFORE THEY CAN NOT THINK RIGHT FOR THE REASON OF THEM TURNING OUT TO BE WRONG ALL OF THE TIME.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE HAVE MANY KIND OF MENTAL PROBLEMS/DISORDERS SO,THEREFORE THEY SHOULD NOT BE IN CONTROL OF ANYTHING OR RATHER ANYBODY BUT,THEIR OWN SELVES EVEN THOUGH THEY LIKE TO COMMIT SUICIDE….SH!T,IT’S MUCH BETTER FOR THEM TO KILL THEMSELVES THEN FOR THEM TO KEEP ON TRYING TO KILL UP THESE AMERICAN BLACK PEOPLE….MEANING IF THEY WANT TO KILL SOMEBODY THEN LET THEM CONTINUE TO KILL UP EACH OTHER AND KILL THEMSELVES BY COMMITTING SUICIDE….THEY ARE ALL BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED ANYWAY.

    YOU BLACK PEOPLE DIDN’T KNOW THAT THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WERE THAT,IGNORANT,WICKED AND EVIL DID YA’LL? THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE WORSE DEVILS THAT ?SATAN? CREATED THAT ARE LIVING ON THIS PLANET EARTH OF GOD?S BECAUSE FOR ONE THEY WILL KILL/MURDER AND LIE ON INNOCENT KIDS/PEOPLE WAY MORE THEN ANY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WILL DO RATHER THEN KILLING THOSE ANIMALS LIKE GOD DID.

    THESE RACIST BACKWARDS THINKING WICKED LYING WHITE PEOPLE DON?T EVER WANT FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO HAVE A BLACK LEADER/ACTIVIST OR SPEAKER IN LIFE BECAUSE THEY WANT TO ALWAYS BE ABLE TO CONTINUE TO STEER YA’LL OR RATHER LEAD YA’LL IN THE WRONG DIRECTION OF LIFE OR RATHER LEAD YA’LL TO A DEAD END….THEY WANT TO ALWAYS BE ABLE TO CONTROL YOU BLACK PEOPLE AND TELL YA’LL WHAT TO DO LIKE THEY WERE DOING YA’LL BACK IN THOSE RACIST AND WICKED SEGREGATION DAYS….THEY ARE SOME RACIST WICKED DEVILS BLACK PEOPLE.

    TO WISH DEATH ON A LOW DOWN AND DIRTY WICKED DEVIL IS NOT A SIN BUT,BEING IGNORANT IS.

    ALL OF THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE SAME AS BEING RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE RATHER IF THEY ARE THE KKK,OR RECEIVING A BLACK MANS D!CK INSIDE OF THEIR MOUTH TO PISS IN OR EVEN IF THEY ARE A WHITE MAN PRESIDENT.

    THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE WILL RAISE THEIR WHITE KIDS AS CHILDREN TO BE RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

    THEY WOULD LOVE FOR THEIR WHITE KIDS TO HIT ON OUR BLACK KIDS OR EITHER BEAT DOWN ON OUR BLACK KIDS BUT,WHEN OUR BLACK KIDS START KICKING THEIR STUPID WHITE KIDS BEHINDS THEIR WHITE MAMMIES AND THEIR WHITE PAPPIES CAN NOT HANDLE IT.

    SH!T F*CK THOSE STUPID WICKED RACIST WHITE DEVILS UP IF YA’LL HAVE TO.

    CRAIG MCIVER IS MY BLACK MAN B!TCH

    THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE BE TRYING TO TELL US TO TELL OUR BLACK SONS TO PULL THEIR PANTS UP BUT,I TRULY DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THEIR PANTS BEING WORE BELOW THE BELT BUT,I DO HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE FLEA BITTEN MENINGITIS,HERPES,SYPHILIS,LARYNGITIS,HIV/AIDS AND PARASITE CARRYING AND PASSING FILTHY WHITE DAUGHTERS WHEN THEY WILL SOLICIT OUR BLACK SONS INTO TRYING TO PULL THEIR PANTS ALL THE WAY DOWN SO,TO TRY TO GET EM’ IN THE BED WITH THEM.

    SOLICITATION IS ANOTHER FORM OR PROSTITUTION.

    THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN/GIRLS ARE CONSIDERED AS HOES AND PROSTITUTES TO OUR BLACK MEN RACE OF PEOPLE.

    THOSE BOTH ARE CONSIDERED AS SEXUAL ACTS OF CRIME.

    THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DAUGHTERS BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH ANY/MANY KIND OF D!CKS AND REGARDLESS OF WHAT COLOR THEY ARE JUST AS LONG AS THEY CAN PUT IT IN THEIR BLISTERY MOUTH,WORMY DOG BOOTY AND DOG SMELLING VAG!NA….YOU BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO TEACH YA’LLS DAUGHTERS NOT TO FOLLOW UP BEHIND THOSE STUPID FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS THAT WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH ANYBODY OR RATHER ANYTHING WITH A D!CK SO,TO BE RAMMED AND BANGED UP HARD IN THEIR CONTAMINATED AND INFECTIOUS BLOODY BODY HOLES.

    THIS IS TO YOU BLACK MEN SPECIFICALLY~THOSE WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE BLACK GIRLS/WOMEN DON’T CARRY.

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