Whatever!

why does HB love contraversy?why even post this mess?its not like you have not posted something like this before…you’lL NEED SPIRITUAL HEALING!

why does HB love controversy?why even post this mess?its not like you have not posted something like this before…you’ll are in dire need of SPIRITUAL HEALING!smh

those black men dont represent Black Men

I just don’t understand how people still think interracial dating is an issue! Are you jealous? Do you have insecurities about yourself? Were you taught to believe that white women were prettier than black women and now that you’re an adult you do everything you can to convince yourself that it isn’t true? And often that means resorting to racism disguised as some form of empowerment. That’s the ONLY reason you would even care if a black man dated a white woman.

“The white woman looks different, acts different, SMELLS DIFFERENT…” WHAT?!!!

And you use the TIger Woods incident as some sort of thinly veiled way of pointing your finger and saying ‘see what you get messing around with those white women’

smh!

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Geez here we go again! Black women really need to get over this idea that any man of any one race is designated only for them. Stop selling yourself short, there are so many different personalities and beauty in so many different people around the world. Black men have just come to this realization before black women have. Instead of blaming your failed relationships on skin pigmentation and ending up lonely for the rest of your life, you should wise up and copy their example. To be perfectly honest the best relationships I’ve been in have been with an Irish guy and an Italian guy. Personally…read that again P-E-R-S-O-N-A-L-L-Y (meaning my own experience so don’t jump down my throat lol) I’ve found white men to be more endearing and attentive. There was no motive behind their love or kindness. Again that was a PERSONAL experience. I’m not putting black men down, I’m only saying just be open to other types of love.

So before you go white girl hunting think about this ladies: You should be thanking some white women. Those very white girls you’re mad at saved a black woman from a crazy (maybe pedophile) Michael Jackson, a cheating (maybe rapist) Kobe Bryant and apparently Tiger Woods, and a convicted felon (maybe murderer……um yea he killed her) O.J. Simpson.

O.K. I’m spent. lol

WTF what world am i living in do i really smell different THIS IS SHI* my daughter is bi racial and i only date black men thats dose not make me any different from a black woman white woman or Asian woman god this makes me sick

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IN 2009 WITH A BIRACIAL PRESIDENT, WE’RE STILL TALKING ABOUT THIS CRAP…..WHO CARES IF A BLACK MAN WANTS TO DATE A WHITE WOMAN OR A BLACK WOMAN WANTS TO DATE A WHITE MAN.

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READ THE COMMENTS HERE AND THIS IS WHY!

no1pinkprincess is so ignorant, I ususally dont justify ignorant comments I let idiots bask in their ignorance, but MJ was not a pedophile, that was all a lie, there is no maybe to it, and Kobe, though he may be an adulter, he wasnt a rapist, and for you to say something so ignorant especially since both claims were unfounded and never proven, only further goes to show how ignorant you are. I could give a s**t less about who you date and your motives for doing so, but you failed to mention robert blake, charles manson, that dude from the reality shows that cut up his girlfriend and then went to canada and killed himself, jude law sexing his nanny…I could go on, the point is there are a list of white men confirmed crazy so why should black women be thanking white women for anything? Trust me baby those white men that were sexing you were probably doing it out curiosity so dont flatter yourself and think you are the hottest thing going by any stretch….I digress….the point is that race has less to do with love and happiness, its 2009 and we still are dwelling on this…..at the end of the day folks, if you find a green person that makes you happy, I say go for it, life is too short to be unhappy and we never know how much sand we have in our hourglass.

I think people should date/marry who they want to date/marry; however, when black men earn millions of dollars (almost exclusively) from the African-American community, and then, elect to marry white women, it is depriving the Black Community of the opportunity to an escalated economical landscape. It’s almost like Robin Hood in reverse: robbing from the POOR to give to the already RICH. Men like Russell Simmons, Don Cornelius, and Dr. Dre earned their millions by peddling apparel, music and television programs to the black community. Without the patronage of the black community, they would not have success or wealth. If these black men elect to marry white, they should have the wherewithal and decency to make it a priority to give to charitable organizations that benefit the African American community – particularly since their money came from the AA community in the first place, and without blacks’ consumption of their products or services, they would not be wealthy. And, guess what, there would be no discussion because without wealth, these white women would not give them a second glance.
Again, I have don’t have a problem with interracial dating (except the opinion noted above. I think Seal and Heidi exemplify the wonderment of LOVE. It does not matter that they are from different races, they are absolutely beautiful together. Their love is contagious to the world.
I will scale the highest mountain top to reiterate the message to African American women to broaden their horizon. Don’t be so loyal to the black man. Explore other ethnic groups, and you might find that you will no longer be among the highest percentage of HIV victims; that you might have your children loved and provided for; that you might be loved gently, and that you very well might have a relationship based on honest communication and sincere love. I am not saying to exclude Black men from your roster of prospects, I am simply saying venture out and taste the sweet nectar of white and brown men – add variety to your menu. You just might like it

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We all know how this discussion is going to go…brothers will speak their opinions, and sisters will bash us for being “weak,” “trying to validate our opinions,” and/or accuse us of “not being able to handle a strong ‘black woman!’” The truth is that sisters evidently cannot or will not engage in introspection…if you are single or brothers are continually passing you up for white women, you only have to go as far as your nearest mirror to find out why. No one wants a mouthy, perpetually angry, attitudinal-for-no-reason, issue-ridden black woman. As for myself, white women aren’t my bag, but I can see why other brothers choose them…sisters are overly judgmental while white women are more intellectually and culturally open of people like myself.

what a sorry lack of perspectiv article, the only reason famous interracial couples get shown more is because people look at them more. not because people like it, but because people like to look. There are more black men with black women famous or otherwise. Its just that hello beautiful doesnt care.

People can date who they want but why do you have to put someone down in the process example, the notion that all black women are mouthy, angry, and stay with attitudes and that white women are more intellectually and culturally incline is a bunch of bull just like you have ghetto black women you have white trash. Its that kind of thinking that keeps the negative going you like what you like at the end of the day who cares. But dont put others down at that expense…

FYI…For sisters like myself who have traveled the world and has 2 degree’s my own place and car i have found that most black mind find that to be intimadating and they tell me im too independant and too strong which is what im suppose to be!

Does this topic even matter anymore? Hell, if I was to date ever again, I’m definitely dating out of my race. So really who cares? My reason would simply be bcuz I’m TIRED and EXHAUSTED of black men. Maybe that’s the reason why black men go to white women. Now, just bcuz I said I would date out of my race doesn’t mean I will necessarily go to a white man. I kinda like latinos (puerto ricans, cuban, dominican, brazilians, maybe mexicans, but they will be the least of the bunch). I met this fine cuban baseball player that played on the Atlanta Braves that was so fine and we were flirting with each other, but I didn’t pursue it. I had other things on my mind, but I sure wouldn’t have mind getting with that! Too bad I’m not dating right now and won’t be until the Creator sends me whomever He decides to send in my life.

WHY? EASY, Easy & easy and they are females who are WILLING to lay down, stay down & be stood on, as the life is used, abused & sucked out of them (They like sucking OTHER THINGS also rumor has it) but I’d NEVER go out of my race HOWEVER I’ve learned to live WITHOUT! So it’s great to hold 99% of my livelyhood & power in the palm of my hands. I yeah, a lot of the brother’s are P**sed at me because Like the Claked Face Ho’s lay down almost instantly allowing destroyers of lives to walk right on top of their dumb A**’s, I’M NOT HAVING IT, so for me, it’s a great show to watch. I feel sorry for the kid’s born into those union’s because more times than not, the Male is a Bad Version of what a Real Black Man is & can be & the Females is most of the time a version so vile that a man of her own race would not look at her A**’s twice, but those two together, creates a miserable, confused & abused child(ren). Believe me I know, because before the males within my family started getting involved with those, “Proclaimed Pale Saviors of the Black Males,” we NEVER had children within our family go to Foster Homes/The System before the fact of! The males within my family who does cross those lines are men, a sane, smart, educated, classy black women would not/should not GIVE THE TIME OF DAY ANYWAY. So I say, “They Deserve Each Other.”

P.S.: Colored Man Tiger is ONLY visually, on paper & looked upon as Married/Committed. Tiger is PLAYING the game of life as written by the rules of a society which consistantly CONTRADICTS IT-SELF! Tiger is a man who is ENTRAPPED WITHIN HIS OWN SKIN & I know it P***’s him off it’s dark! Being a trick like he is, will continue to go on TRUST & BELEIVE THAT!!! A Chalked Face Ho Will be Nothing More Than She Is BY NATURE!!!

Black men don’t all of a sudden jump up and say “I want a white woman” when they get rich. They already didn’t give a s**t about no punk ass skin color. It’s just skin. It does nothing for anyone. Like Taye Diggs said on the George Lopez show last night. “In this day and age you just gotta say F**k It”. And I agree with him. People always gonna have something to say no matter what race you date. F**k who got problem with it. If you don’t like black men dating white women, don’t pay it no mind. They damn sure not thinkin about you. But all this s**t about they can’t handle a “strong black woman”… First of all who said all black woman are strong? I’m not bashin, but white women, and any other race of women can do anything black women can do just as good. If they couldn’t, why would niggas date em? So kill that noise.

Come on now, people. Does anyone here really want to sit up on a vacation with flabby old Russell Simmons, looking like somebody tried to shave Yoda? Who among you wants to roll over in bed to look at Seal face, looking like some chewed up bubblegum? Do you want to sit on the sofa and just tongue kiss Don Cornelius slowly and romantically for hours? And I didn’t know Dre wife was white, but who wants him either? I saw a reality segment where he came from the bathroom and announced “Now I didn’t wash my hands, lets see how many people shake my hand” And proceeded to greet and shake hands with his many fans. I don’t know what his point was, but who the hell wants a nasty azz n!99a like that?

come on now! i love you HB but this topic is unnecessary and small minded. you act like they are traders or something. i mean our ancestors have fought, died, had their private parts chopped off for freedom and equality in every prospect. if people including myself have to go outside my race to find love and happiness then let it be! it is what it is! im not looking for a specific complexion. my thing is like my grandma said, “just dont forget where you come from.”
“…. one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.” — Martin Luther King from I Have A Dream.

To many black women are not loyal enough for brothers to commit to nowadays we as black men our parsationly

We are to blame for the lack of respect so many of our women have for us, and most of all themselves.

this topic doesn’t fit russel.it should be why rich older men easily get away dating younger woman and dating different race goes vice versa,this happen mainly if your accustomly around caucasian until its comfortable to getaway with it ,its like if you steal once for your needs you might do it again specailly if its a new xprience and you should know some women are very daring,

people like what they like. if it’s not you’re cup of tea, then you don’t have to date interracial. Other than that, it’s not really anybody’s business. Because 2′s a party and three’s a crown. Albeit, i do feel pity for the people who do it because they aren’t comfy/satisfied in the own skin.

ps: err isn’t wayne brady’s wife ASIAN? Asian as in not caucasian…

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Oh Jmarquezstl … lol are your feelings really that hurt? Isn’t this where you post your opinions on the actual topic at hand and not jump down the throat of the commenters? I had hoped that readers would be wise enough to know the name dropping was a result of my sick humor. Apparently not, sooooo “C’est la vie”. As I said in my statement I was not putting down black men or trying to upset anyone, only giving my experience and opinion. Didn’t know I was going up against the president of all things “BLACK” lol. But it’s expected… just like there are many black women who feel a certain way about white women, I guess there are just as many black men who are strongly affected by the appeal of white men. Again please don’t let my dating white men (or any race for that matter) get to you so much that you contradict yourself and give a false opinion of why my previous boyfriends dated me.

Buuuut I’ll make my previous point more simple just for you Jmarquezstl. As I said in my comment, try going outside of your comfort zone and experience love from other types of people.

Don’t hate, ELEVATE. (lol that rhymed…cool)

um well first of all half of those wifes werent even white…

No in the least, you obviously didnt read the entire post only again reinforcing my previous statement but it doesnt matter. What you said wasnt funny, it was in bad taste and unfounded, if youre going to attempt to be cynical at least be cleaver and you were just wrong and ignorant period. It doesnt matter what you say, you just were. But its your post, your life, your opinion and the great thing about this country is youre entitled to it. work on the sick humor because to be classified as humor I thought it had to actually be funny. But I shouldnt jump down your throat, you do you.

I would LOVE to be with a woman with content of character, wheather Black or White….I prefer Black woman, but growing up they dogged me , never said I was worthy enough, good looking enough, etc…but I don’t wear my pants down my ass, drink. smoke. do drugs, or have a criminal record or made any babies….I do have a degree in Graphic and a job(but still pursuing my carttoning career). yet still not eligible to be with the sister because I don’t have the green, movie star looks, but got a lot of CHARACTER good for any woman……

BP focused on the Black men-White women phenon, but it goes unnoticed about the Black women dating the White men(Pear Bailey, Lena Horne, Diana Ross, Halle Berry, etc)…can you say BIASED???? I know you could……

Black women got themselves to blame.
Typical example…we get talking in a club

‘What you do? ‘
‘I’m a baby mama – i’m a biaatch! You? ‘
I try not so say this cos I know her reaction…but I have to
‘I am an engineer’
‘What!’
‘Yeah, got a PhD’
Immediately she turns off…scuttles to her other friends and they point fingers at me like I’m from mars…hehehehe…
Most times, they good for laying. I tell them I’m a music producer and they believe me…easiest way to get laid
I tell a white girl I’m an engineer and I got a PhD…she sees a good future with a responsible black male who will respect her. Our sistahs don’t see that.
i think they got their priorities warped. Their models are the guys with huge tatoos, rocking the mike, partying and doing drugs….

Ok for the record, just because someone dates or marries out of their race, it doesn’t mean they hate themselves or their own people. It isn’t about a deficiency in their logic , nor is it a lapse of moral judgment.
It is about expanding your available dating pool. Don’t get me wrong, I love beautiful brown people , but I can’t eliminate 86% of the female population (black women rep 14% of America’s population, US census) based on the fact their hair isn’t kinky or their skin isn’t brown enough. I am 35 with no children and find it very difficult to meet compatible women (with no children). I just can’t do it. I can’t give up on darn near 90% of women because of skin color. No attacks on any single mothers either. I was raised by one.
Now getting back to the article. I have heard this discussion come up way to many times in BP discussion boards. Black women only complain when they see successful, rich popular, wealthy black men with white women. They don’t complain when they see “Tyrone” with “Becky” at the bus stop. That’s code language for it’s all about the Benjamin’s Baby!
There are black who do date and marry outside their race but this is only a small percentage of total black men who marry. Guess what that number is only 7-8% of all black men who marry. It’s funny how black women complain about 8% of who date of their race. Now of that 7-8 % I would venture to say only 1% or less of black men refuses to black women. Now I have do a problem with these brothers. I feel like they given up on black women. We can never give up on each other. I think that is the value of FAITH. Don’t worry about them, you still have 92% of eligible black men to pick from.
I do understand your plight sistah’s though. So many images of Euro-American standards of beauty that you will never measure up to. I get it. I so get it. But you must strength and think your selves as beautiful , because “who” controls the media., Main stream Euro-America. They are never going to say Jennifer Hudson is prettier than Scarlett Johansson.
This may sound like strange advice coming from a brother, but I would encourage black women to not limit themselves to the 14% of the American black male population. Don’t exclude black , but open you mind up to the possibly of someone outside your race. You never know, you just might get a ring. “Something New” isn’t just a movie, its reality too. I only say this because I love you. Yall are my mother, my grandmother, my cousins, my nieces, my sisters, and my aunts. When yall are happy it is a beautiful thing, and if “Tad” makes you happy, I am all game for it. I would rather see “Tad” and Shaquita walking hand in hand smiling, laughing, glowing in love than Shaquita and Tyrone fighting all the darn time. Real genuine love shouldn’t make anyone else miserable. It should inspire them.
Remember folks OMBAMA’S MOMMY WAS WHITE AS SNOW. Black women don’t attack him. Actually they think he is the ideal Blackman. How many times since he came to office have I heard “Why can’t you be like Obama?” Black women tend to forget he is biracial, not black. Not attacking any siatah’s just pointing that out.

PEACE and LOVE

Black men love WOMEN period. To say they love white women, as though they alone are special is just dumb on your part. I love a woman that grew up with both parents. A woman that grew up with a father knows how to treat a man through her experiences. Many black women have grown up in single parent homes (with mothers, bitter ones at that). Its not their fault no more than it is a mans fault for growing up in a home with that same motherly type. Men want to be treated well, looked after, and adored. If ANY woman does that, she has a chance to be with the most envied man on the planet. So its not about color, its about treatment, disposition and ease of relationship. Its easy to blame it on color, because that way you don’t have to look at yourself or your own issues that keep you from being with that much sought after black male. Simple fact is that black women are gonna have to get their own crap in order and compete for the prize they want… In the last 35 years things have changed, black men didn’t have a choice of women, it was black or nothing. Now they have choices, and black women now have to compete, when they never did before… Change is tough, are black women up to the challenge?

the real question is y “hood” normal black guys(some not really classified as men) dates or likes big white women, but bashes a plus sized black female? I could care less about the celebrities, but what about non celebrities lol i know i am a good thing, but i had an “ex” (consider everything tht happen was fake and based on lies) leave me 4 a big ugly white girl, younger than me, was not really doing nothing with her life. She cheated on him and all his friends bluntly let him know that, he left me and went right back 2 her, which is nasty because i know he was back 2 having sex with her, they was not even gettin themselves checked out in the little amount of time, I dont play those types of games, and he really aint know who she was dealing with while he was so called with me.
I go to school, work, and have my own transportation, and it made me feel like what do i have that she don’t?? It was a really messed up and hurtful situation…and i even asked about oral lol he said she didnt even do it??? so wtf is there else? I know she aint toppin me, no shape form or fashion. I straight had genuine feelings 4 dude, just 2 be put in a situation tht he could not really make up his mind @ 1st, but 2 downgrade and go back 2 tht?

Years ago this article would had bother me. Now I can’t understand why we even talking about the subject. I know each on of these men have more reasons they are dating or married to those women then their skin color. Get over it.

I’m surprised Montel Williams didn’t show up in that list. lol

As a black man, I don’t “love” nor hate white women. I am pretty neutral, however I don’t pursue them. Just not enough melanin for me. There are too many prerequisites they must fill before I could be even attracted to them and those prerequisites are common in women of color. I will say this about white women, they have a better overall disposition than black women and they will pay a brotha a compliment with the slightest of ease without no hesitation more so than black women. White women are almost complimenting me on some physical attribute I have while it’s less among black women. Perhaps that could be a reason why brothas go for the “other white meat”, is that they feel more appreciated by them. And white women tie up their hair into a pony tail, say f*ck it and will take their asses to the gym without regard for sweating out their hair or some hair contraption.

The man who put this topic here has brought some light to some problems. Well I think our black sisters are making mistakes. Sisters have taken their pride too far that brothers find it very difficult to even date them not to talk about marriage. Closed observations have shown that if you are not a member of the show bis community you are not worth a man to a black woman. This seem very funny because they always talk about very responsible guys where as the most irresponsible men are not even the jobless men but those very affluent men in the entertainment industry. I believe if black women should throw their pride down they would certainly have brothers who are very ready to live forever with them. They too much believe in affluence men but there is nothing glittering without its dark side. The white woman is very ready to undergo any condition when a relationship is concern. Like in Africa we have white ladies who got married to Africans and the men died but they still live in Africa. How many African American women can face that challenge by still living in Africa after the deaths of their husband? It is without doubt the African American community has the highest divorce rate due to the fact that women do not want to see the man as the head of the family and there will never be two captains in a ship. So ladies copy the life style of the white ladies and you will see things flowing

to me it seems easier to meet a white woman that acts like a lady then it is to meet a black woman who acts like a lady.

HB: Please find something else to talk about.

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WHY NOT ? I AM WHITE MYSELF ,I ONLY DATE BROTHERS (USA)
I NEVER DATED MY OWN RACE, I LOVE SISTERS TOO (NO LEZZY)
I THINK SISTERS ARE BEAUTIFUL! I WOULD NEVER DATE A WHITE DUDE,
NEVER EVER. I THINK EVERYBODY SHOULD DO AS THEY PLEASE… FOR ME IT WILL
BE A BROTHER NOW AND ALWAYS *WINK*

I don’t see any problem with a black man, or woman dating or marrying, someone outside their race. Times have changed, so if that’s what someone wants, that will make them happy, go for it. I respect and admire all female races,but I prefer ladies with Color. Something about the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice thing. I like dark stuff. Whole wheat bread, chocolate cake, Hershey’s with almonds, dark chicken meat, dark clothes, red wine, and so on.

holly sh*t wayne brady is black!!!!!

The majority of celebrities are white given their dominance, so it is not surprising that the people a “celebrity” would come across often will be white. Others who are more enthralled by bikini models than other women are just dirty minded, and obviously deserve a dirty partner wether they be black or white.

sisters dont act right or dont want to talk unless you looking like money

If anyone would take in consideration to read a Book called Nature Knows No Color Line this book and other like it will explain that black men and white woman relation always existed it just that it never was told since the day of slavery.Candy man the movie was true to a certain point about a black man who had a white man daughter heart and she died for him.

I get so sicked and tired of this same question….The Black Man Dating The White Woman story. This is question is getting pretty damn old. It is the 21st century. People can date whomever they choose. Where I am from, I don’t see a lot of black men dating white women. Us as black folks, got a little bit of everything in our blood, thanks to “SLAVERY”. It wasn’t the black man who started race mixing, it was the white man. Lets be real about this. You have black women who only date white men, but I don’t ever see this question raised. It’s all about the brother’s, what we aren’t doing, why we are neglecting our sista’s. The same old same old. People can date, who they want to date, long as that person makes them feel good, and treats them nice. Then it shouldn’t matter what race they are. It’s only a problem when the black man does it, but never was a problem when the White slaveowner did it for hundreds of years

For most black men…a white woman reperesents a social arriving of sorts. White women (just like SOME! Black women) can posses great social graces. On the filp side of that…there are white women that I personally would not deal with. For the most part…white women aren’t as drama-driven as black women. I’m inclined to agree with CAOTIC8 when he says, “If you don’t look like money…no haps!”

On yet another note…the trade off is this: White women want to be driven sexually….Black women wanna shop for s**t they don’t really need! Most white women already have the means, they just want someone to share it with or blow it on. Black women on the other hand want the wallet, so you’ll find that some of them now are dating or marrying white men!

Same tired topic. I have an answer for you. Why do black men love white women? Because they godd*mn feel like it. Freedom of choice. People can date or marry whomever they want, and owe no explanation or justification for why.

I get sick of both the “why do people date outside their race” whining as well as the blame game people play in trying to justify doing so. People date who they date because that’s what they want to do. Period. Stop turning a personal choice into a political issue.

Personally I love women, period. What happened to liking someone for who they are? I don’t pursue a women because of her race, and i don’t avoid a women because of her race. We are all human and most of us need to get over this race notion that makes it seem as though we are different species from one another. I like women for who they are, i like women who likes me for who i am. I adore women who aren’t so materialistic and superficial. Women who show capacity to understand the human condition, women who i can have genuine fun and laughter with. I like to think that these qualities exist in all races of women..

Typical example; The other night I walk into a club with friends (Bernie Worell from “Parliment” was performing live) I couldn’ help but dance. but would you believe at first i was the only one moving. anyhow 2 whitewomen just came up and joined me, it was annoying at first because i was really jamming.One of them said this is my mother and she finds you attractive. it doesn’t take much. Sugar is sweet but not neccessarily good for you. Now all of a sudden the sistas started walkin by me rolling their eyes at us. I have never been with a white woman but they seem to be more interested in me than sistas do on a level playing field.

there is always something when one looks at another … it need not be the color of their skin ..it only needs to be a spark, a smile, yes a smell, why one man or woman will date someone of a different race, color, background,etc….. LIFE brings to us may pathways to walk… it is our journey in LIFE that has us making the choice of how is , or what is what our own hearts desire… finding beauty in a WOMAN… not of color, not of a race,,, a WOMAN.. like it is said .. BEAUTY is in the eye of the beholder… what lives within the soul, the heart, there are no sure things in LIFE… we enter into a relationship with the hope it will be forever… but then .. THE PLAYER and those that KNOW HOW TO PLAY.. another group and topic altogether… LOVE knows no color , it has no boundary , if it is real it can live forever….

if a woman is all about ATT- I – TUDE … the mem , me me and I want .. and I said, why would a MAN .. what to be around that, … if its all about the money … and you get played ,,, hello, it was not he did you wrong… you jumped for something you knew going in was all wrong… KEEP it REAL.. be honest about what you want , who you want .. and NO, you can not CHANGE HIM, if he is a dog, he is a dog , today, tomorrow, DOG.

the whole idea is .. i hope ,,, Desire and passion, love and caring .. if given and shared with openness and honesty the can find both living a life full of happiness ,,, MCSLIM

lol…do some black men really think that because they date a white woman or any other woman we are intimidated? I think that the “DL” issue is a little too much for us, we have been sacrificing, nurturing, comforting, molding and supporting, black men so they can date outside their race. Black men who say that sista’s only want a man who has money..nigga please, white girls chase that dollar bill too, half of the stars that have white women wouldnt get a second glance unless they had money, I think my issue is that black men represent these white women as trophies as prizes and thats a insult to us, who are we to them? As badly as you would like to think that all sistas are gold diggers, ignorant, loud etc..(thanks for the labels) there is far more who would work with your broke ass, support your broke ass and feed your broke ass, so please by all means date the white girl.

I think each situation is different for each couple. I have dated black, latina and white woman.. Right now i am with a white woman who is super fit, driven work ethic and she does some modeling.. Well, I am in great shape a hard worker and like to workout too.. We met at the gym. Common interests brought us together. Sily topic of black and white when it is what is attractive. I recognize stunning woman who are black, latina, asian and white.. The one I am with now just so happens to be white.. :)

Ben E-mail me if you have a question.. Musclestudi@hotmail.com

I don’t read many Black Planet Articles, but this one caught my attention. I can believe people are still writing about interracial couples like its some new. People date each other for many reasons. If a black man dates a white woman because of or solely for her race, thats stupid. One should date someone because their attracted to them, wants to get to know their personality and enjoy each others company. As for me, my husband is white and I’m black. I love him because he treated me like a lady from jump. He’s funny, smart and got some annoying habits but who doesn’t. I haven’t nothing against black men. I still think some black men are the finest things on this planet. I just happened to fall in love with a white man and have 3 healthy children with him. It hasn’t because of so many ignorant people in this world. Like someone else stated, KILL THIS NOISE. This is 2009 going on 2010. The world is full of kinds of people.

I think the reason people are still talking about this is because it seems like an “epidemic” to see black men with white women. That’s all you see where I’m from. I can’t say that I have a problem with interracial relationships b/c my dad’s mixed. I do have a problem with anyone who only dates a particular race, yours or any other. As a black women I get so tired of men saying that it’s our fault that the brothers have “gone to the white women” (like they were ours to begin with). I don’t disrespect or try to imasculate men, I don’t walk around with an attitude, I don’t wh*re myself out by sleeping around, I’m nobody’s “baby mama” nor do I intend to be, I have a good job and don’t go after a man b/c of his money. I treat Bill the banker the same as Tyrone the janitor. But I guess I’m just paying for the mistakes thay my sisters have made, and let’s face facts, white men don’t love us as much as black men love white women. Black men get mad at black women when they generalize them based on previous experiences, but isn’t that what you do with us by saying that “we” are all baby mama’s, uneducated, uncivilized, loose golddiggers?

I am with a stunning white woman now. She is a fitness model. We met at the gym. Just kinda happened.. I have also been with latina and black woman. Not really the color, but the sexiness and attractiveness and personnality each one had.

E-mail me if you have questions..
musclestudi@hotmail.com

Ben

it’s what they like….. that why i like what like me

Do black & white women actually smell different?I never heard anything like this before…

Even though I am not longer fighting this battle, I get irritated with this topic for several reasons. First, let me begin by saying I abhor some of the stereotypes black men have about black women. I am not a “baby momma.” I was not raised in the hood. I am an engineer and I am currently pursuing a master’s degree. I am not a gold digger and guess what I go to the gym (surprise, surprise) So from those statements, most black men are intimidated by the credentials and assume that I fit that “I-don’t-need-a-man” attitude without attempting to get to know me or understand where I come from. There are attractive, talented black women who do not fit this stereotype. Why is it acceptable for a black man to be confident, while a confident black female is called out of her name? Why must I mask my intelligence to massage your ego? Why can’t we both respect each other? During my time in the club scene, black men asked the same questions black women do and I met gold-digging black men too. I hate hearing “can you help a brotha out? I know you paid?” Is it so wrong that I want someone that stands on his own two feet without my support? That’s what you expect of us, right? Black men on here talk about how white women compliment them and make them feel good. When was the last time that you gave an honest compliment to a sister that was not sexual? A compliment that focuses on the uniqueness of her beauty?
I much rather the black men (and I respect the ones that do) on this blog to say I love women of all colors or “I like what I like” rather than “it’s black women fault, we don’t want them.” Do you know how ignorant that sounds to people who don’t fit into this stereotyped box that black women are trapped in? Quit assuming that you know and understand everything that is going on with black women and just ask us. I can tell you why many of us get enraged when this topic surfaces. Believe me, it has nothing to do with white women. I have friends of all ethnicities. Race is not the issue. It is the result of how we are treated. If we hold our standards high, we are placed last on the list. I do not oppose interracial dating because love has no color boundaries, but I do oppose reasons why black women are overlooked.

I don’t know all about getting a white woman after becoming successful, but I guess I have not learned my lesson. Im in my second marriage with a white woman and the curiousity part I thought I was well over that feature. My first marriage was just that, me being extremly curious and marrying for curiousity,ease, and so called appeal. The so called appeal of having a white woman, sporting one, and feeling she is so easy to get along with. Well the curiousity ran out, and the shine of the appeal was lost. A quick divorce and all was well again in life for me. At least I thought it was. Now Im married again to yet another white woman who I felt we were different from to opposite worlds. I grew up in the city, and she grew up on a farm. This was great. A new easy going shine and appeal of a different type of white woman. Yet Im finding that we are so different that it is tarring us apart. Im the so called tough inner city kid with a nose for the street. While I thought she was the sweet shy country farm girl who could make a meal out of anything. Boy was I wrong. Here I am and still I find white women to be fasinating and am so attracted to them.

It doesn’t matter here, I’m with who I am with because of who she is as a person. It’s absurd to limit yourself to one ethnic group or exclude an ethnic group. As long as estrogen is involved then insanity will eventually rear it’s head, no matter the color of the complexion, and if it’s healthy it’s all pink anyway! It’s sad that as long as this site has existed there isn’t anything better to discuss. And besides that some of those women shown wouldn’t exactly fit the definition of a “white woman” and the guys that they are with for the most part met them after acquiring fame and fortune. You’d have to question the motives no matter if they are black, white, olive, brown , yellow or a combination. If it was joe schmoe from down the street then it would be so suspect. And besides that this site is always praising Paula Patton, Halle Berry, and J-Lo’s non singing arse! Hello pitiful needs to chill with the double standards!

Damn, I didn’t know this was still a problem with people. Do you think the other races have this problem? NO!!!!!! So, why the blacks and whites? Time has changed and the people need to change with time. This isn’t the 1900′s anymore so get over it. Its a new time in life. You can’t help who you fall in LOVE with. That’s what’s so exciting about LOVE. Black or white whatever the race is. I’m a single woman and I date any race it doesn’t matter. But, I rather date a black man over a white man. Why you might ask. B/c you get treated different. But, I never heard of smelling different. That’s a new one for me. I hope everyone can see we are all the same inside and on the outside some of use just might have a different skin tone. But, in the end we are the same in every way. That’s if you can get passed the skin tone of people.

Here we go again with this lame topic. To each, it’s own. Everyone has a preference. It’s 2009, for God sakes. Love is colorblind. People can choose & date/marry anyone they want.

But I’ll say this…..I’m so sick of Black men that put down Black women based on the “bad apples” they picked. The same for Black women who put down Black men based on their bad choices. I’ve dated out of my race and I was married to an Arab man for 5 yrs/happily divorced for 10 yrs. And I have dated my bruthas as well. Jackasses come in all colors…..OKAY?????? And quality people come in all colors. But still my number one preference is my Black man because we are cut from the same cloth. I’ll have it no other way. And I have a beautiful relationship with an amazing brutha and we are very happy.

I don’t have a problem with seeing people in interracial relationships, just as long as they are with that person for their character, and not just for the package they are in. If someone (regardless of race) has the qualities they seek in a person, shouldn’t that be all that matters?

It must be “LOVE” OH PLEASE! give me a break from this already. you should’ve figured this one out already. As a black male, only a black woman can relate to me on a cultural level. The only thing I have in common with a white woman is that more than likely, her ancestors owned mine back in the day.Black men tend to cross over more often when they become successful. It’s ironic that the interacial dating statistics tend to increase when a black man goes from nothing to “something” while before their success, they are constantly bombarded with the premiscuous blond haired, blue eyed pin up girl in magazines and TV. This often becomes a black mans fantasy, to want that which he cannot have while broke, busted, and discusted, overlooking the fact that a black woman who truly love a black man will be down no matter what. A true sista that is! A black man who claim that it’s love that brought him to his caucassian soulmate is about as full of ish as uncle toms cabin. If you think this is true, then i would challenge you to test your true “love” Tell her that you lost all your savings in a bad investment deal, and you are about to loose your job. If she stay with yo broka #$% then you might have found you a white woman with the soul of a sista, other than that,she is not culturally capable of loving you simply because you are a black man, but if you are a “successful” black man, then you are considered assimilated ,and closely related to her own culture, and therefore you are safe for her to date,and her own family will more than likely accept you… Go Russell! Go Reggie! Go lakers, it’s ya birthday! lol!

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Oh for the love of God man! I have a question . . . Why does Black Planet and Hello Beautiful continue to perpetuate racism with these asinine and absurd topics? Almost every topic posted on this site has been one to discredit, dysfuntionalize, demean, and destroy the image of black men and black women. This site takes no accountability for providing a more positively constructive and practical outlook on black folk. And so now, a question that is so archaic, outdated, and over-rated is still being uprooted and asked? If you still have to ask that question in 2009, then you’re an idiot! It’s ridiculous! What’s disturbing to me is that the writer says and I quote; “With the recent Tiger Woods drama with his white jumpoff’s, it got us thinking.” End quote. Got us thinking? Thinking about what? As if the thought is a new epiphany, some new conundrum, as if they just “discovered” the missing link. It got us thinking! Then he says white women look different. EVERYONE looks different. Blacks look different, Asians look different, whites look different. Blacks look different from one another, I look different from the black men on this page, my mother looks different from the black lady down the street.

What unintelligent, idiotic, imbecilic moron wrote this article?

Do you think Esquire.com, Cosmopolitan.com, PeopleMagazine.com, Vogue.com, are over there writing articles about why white men date black women, or how white women date Asian men? Do you think TMZ is asking people why black men date white women? Why do black people focus on this issue so much? Is it really an epidemic? Is it really? Perhaps if black people did their statistical RESEARCH before writing articles, they would realize that:

Only 6.6% of married Black men have White spouses. Black men have married 3,965,000 black woman compared to only 286,000 white women. This is from the Statistical Abstract as well as the U.S. Department of Education. So black men (successful or not) are not running in droves to white women.

So I will say to Black Planet, check your resources and to Hello Beautiful – do your damn homework before writing another ridiculous article!

No, we do not need to kill this “noise.” This topic is as relevant today as it ever was.

As a Black man who knows and interacts with Black men, I can tell you that many of them prefer white or lighter women because they are self-hating. They do not like their dark features and dark features on others so they actively pursue those who they deem to be opposite.

This subject is far more complex than “it’s 2009; people like what they like; this shouldn’t be an issue anymore.” That reasoning is both dumbfounding and dangerous. We must get at the root of this issue to really uncover how society shapes the tastes and preferences of Black men. Socialization is the culprit, and I’m afraid we are losing the battle.

And besides that, If you are a black woman with the following items: colored contacts, straightened extensions, or even wearing european style clothing or are obsessed with overpriced labels. Then you are buying into the vision of “Europena beauty” anyway. So when you think about it you are pretty much like the other women in Amerikkka, just a shade darker. And for the record, there was a period where the “sisters” wouldn’t look my way because I wasn’t a d-boy that was balling out of control. So it was about there that I decided to further expand my options…..

“European”

black men dont just date white women, black men love all women, its just that white women have a special place in the mind of sisters, thats why you always hear sisters say “thats all i see when i go out”, thats all you want to see because its not as prevalient as you think, you are quick to notice something that you either dislike or like, I go out all the time and i never see hordes of black men with white women like a damn marathon. people are exagerating

sister need to open up their dating pool and stop being stuck up on looks, they asked sisters would they be open to dating asian men and many sisters said no, and it was because of looks, now thats superficial, black men arent like that, we are more about disposition and attitude.

get those dum stereotypes out your head about black men can have sex and are bigger, thats immature stereotypes, time to grow up and get a mate that loves you, and that you can depend on.
I will say though that many and not all sisters need to start hitting that gym and trim up, all that fat is not appealing to men when they successful.

Black woman I treat like a Goddess or White Woman who treats me Like God?

A woman who is going 2 act like Im the God of the world and treat me so, because Im rich and famous, and simply A Black Man
or
A woman who still expects me to treat her like she is My God because she is black and has a nice ass and Im Rich and famous and A Black man?
Yez thats a hard decision right there..lol
Wisdom: The slowest zibra is Lion’s food!
Divine allah aka prinze aka chief

There use to be a time when inter-racial dating bothered me but i have evolved and have enough of my own problems to deal with rather than worrying about black dudes who dig white women or black chicks who dig white cats. I for one have never dated outside my race and I am not sure I would if the opportunity presented itself. I’m sure people have their reasons for dating whoever. Anyway I just want to be happy in my own life so I really don’t give a damm anymore about who dates or marries who.

Oh my what self-hatred the black man has. They feel no way but continue to portray themselves as ‘victims’ of the ‘no-good’ black woman.
The same woman who carried them, wiped their asses, probably was their baby momma before they hit the big time and stuck with them through all the s**t.
So they marry someone who doesn’t care if they rape young women (I see you Kobe) in a hotel.
Well I for one have no qualms about ditching the no good black man-I’m not going to settle. See this article

http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/says-the-single-girl/are-you-settling-for-a-black-man/

I have a question. Why do black women (especially successful ones) struggle with dating outside their race, while black men have ABSOLUTELY NO QUALMS?
Think about it for a second. Is it that we women understand loyalty, and the strength of the black family?

This topic is such a waste of time, yet I can’t look away…

@Kingof88 – what exactly do you feel is the “root” of the problem? Perhaps it’s socialization in a European society? Perhaps it’s some “magical” spell of wanting what we can’t have? Perhaps it’s some deep – hidden – subliminal – subconscious desire to “love” our oppressor? I’d be interested to hear what YOU think the underline root of the problem is. It’s interesting that people in here say, “the black men I know – the black men I talk to.” That does not speak for the 20 million + black men in this country and with a marriage rate to white women at 6.6% and a percentage of 42.7% of black women never marrying – we know two thing for sure – 1. your theory that interracial dating is relevant today is relative to only 6% of black men and 2. the reason almost half of black women are not married has nothing to do with white women.

It’s not a complex issue my man. We have made it a complex issue and we have made it a paradigm. It’s easy for us to say, “Oh it’s self hate, it’s psychological, it’s subconscious” and a list of other ridiculous esoteric explanations. Black men are quite capable of loving white women because black people on a whole are a loving, caring, forgiving race of people. The German’s and Jews are still hating each other but black folk, we have the spirit of forgiveness in us because we have the spirit of God in us. And when we make statements like “black people hate themselves if they date white women” that’s saying 1. we hate the God in us, and 2. we are incapable of loving anyone unless their skin color is the same as ours. And if you don’t think so,

How do you explain societies like Denmark where there is no historical racial divide among blacks and white, yet there is a significant black and white interracial community? How do you explain Australia that has no dominant history that parallels to that here in the U.S. and yet there is a high percentage of interracial couples? How do you explain Iceland where black men and white women are now marrying at a relatively noticeable rate? We tend to view only the U.S. as the universe of all social constructs and that’s not the case. Blacks and whites have existed in social environments for centuries in Spain, in Africa, in Europe prior to the slave trade. It wasn’t until we were used as commodities in THIS country did the problem arise.

On one hand you should be able to date and marry whoever you choose because in the grand scheme of things, skin color is not that important; however, as a Black women I can’t help but to be annoyed at Black men for dating and marring outside the race especially when I see so many Black women as single mothers and good Black women without good Black men.

I guess I can say I am scared for the Black family. Hell, I am scared for my own family. I am scared for the Black culture, and I am sadden that Black men don’t see Black women as a prize or something of value.

But it’s not just “white” ( meaning not Black, encompassing a plethora of races) women that are “stealing” Black men away. It’s other Black men too since almost everyone is gay these days. So in addition to losing Black men to the streets, drugs, violence, and jail, we also have to contend with homosexuality in the Black community and “white” women.

And you wonder why Black women have attitudes and are hard to get along with. We have to take care of everything because Black men are not stepping up and when you ask them to, they step out because “it’s too hard”. You know what? “white” women can keep them. I for one will not be satisfied with mediocrity from Black men. So if you are looking for pity and understanding while you do a half a$$ job being a man and taking care of your responsibilities then I guess “white” is your best bet. (keep in mind I am generalizing. I’m well aware that not all Black men are “white” women loving drug abusing homos)

Change is evident in any culture. Across this beautiful planet we have a host of many cultures that until recently that have come to front. Remember what your grandma told ya when she says, ” kiss it baby! ” Keep it simple st*pid. Variety is a constant in the circle of life. Mind your business and your life! Stop being so critical of others and stop watching so much television. It’s time to stop pointing fingers and fooling ourselves. We are a brutal society when it comes to one another. The war is hear is America not in Afghanistan! We need to take care of home. Inventory yourself! That’s where you start, it’s not black and white anymore it’s life! Your life! Will you live and love ? Move with change because it is evident through time. I love you. And will see ya later.

How is anyone in the position to decide who someone should be with, except the individuals involved? If its not black and white, its rich and poor, he’s not handsome enough for her… she’s not pretty enough for him… Most people base their acceptance of anything around them on their own personal biases… opinions, experiernces or personal tastes. This kind of question exposes someone’s ignorance. We are all human beings, but we all have a different histories and personal experiences. It is completely impossible to say a black person is with a white person for — reason… unless you ask them. If someone were to tell me I was with a person of a particular race, because (name your reason)… without speaking to me personally, I would say, “Your ignorance is showing.” You can’t generalize, quantify or rationalize why someone is with one person or another that way. There is no formula for it, there is no all encompassing reason.

It might just be “fascinating” for them to date Caucasian women or anyone outside their race for that matter. A lot of ppl say Italians are crazy about Black women, go figure. Bottom line is this: no one is going to tell me who I can/can’t be with. If you choose to look down on interracials couples, YOU ARE WRONG. And who cares if Black men want to be with Caucasian women? Black men aren’t the only male race on the planet, ok? I mean I LOVE Black guys, but I would date David Beckham or Robin Thicke any day lol Skin color means NOTHING when it comes to love. Period.

Why is this an on going issue? I thought we finally got beyond this! Anyway, growing up my brothers and I were told by our parents “I do not care who you date or marry, but do not bring into my home a street worm or hoochie”. Now, that can be any girl no matter what color she is. We were always thought, “you are judged by the company you keep; have some pride in yourself and never let anyone belittle you because of the color of your skin”. We did not grow up in the projects or the hood. My parents worked their butts off to keep us in a descent home, neighborhood and a good school system. We have had friends of all ethnic groups and I have dated girls from all ethnic groups as well. What I have found is these girls had more in common with me due to the environment we grew up in. So, it is not just a question of race, but also the environment one is exposed to.

Ok, first of all, I take offense to the comments posted by the majority of men commenting on this article. I’m sorry your experience has been with gold-diggers, baby-mammas and overall unsophisticated and uncivilized black women. I for one, am not any of those things. I was raised in a balanced home with both parents, have no children, God-fearing, college educated and not in the least bit interested in “your” money but in your well-adjusted sense of self and benevolence to those in need. Maybe women like me are few and far between but don’t give up hope finding us and learn to understand why many black women are the way they are. If you never consider how the breakdown of the family has affected the black home, you will spend more time complaining about the symptoms you see (gold-digging, superficial preoccupation, having children out of wedlock, over-the-top attitudes and drama) than what major events contributed to that behavior.

So, instead of throwing the baby out with the bath water, seek to understand and learn to be apart of the healing process for the black family instead of running and complaining. We will never heal our ills that way.

As much drama as I’ve had to endure from black men, I am still your biggest champion. I will always date a black man, no one else on the planet will understand me like a black man. I’ve dated white before and enjoyed it but had to leave him because he had the nerve to insult my “black man”. He prided himself in dating black women for over 20 years because he said he loved the confidence level black women have and said his white female counterparts were so insecure it was sickening and tiring to deal with. But, as I got to know him better, he had a disdain for black men and would talk about them in my presence. Jealousy I guess, which was uncalled for and unacceptable and I wouldn’t put up with it. I mean if you want to date another race, do it cause you’re attracted to them, not out of jealousy of the other race.

Dating is tough enough, why limit your dating pool? Not only that, who actually dates another race do to the “fascination?” That’s some made up b.s. People date because their attracted to each other, mentally, physically, etc. I personally can’t date a white, WHITE, girl. She has to have a little flavor or she wouldn’t survive in my family. Also, there are a lot of female celebrities that are married to white men, I wonder why that’s not talked about?

Okay let me get something straight for a second. Its really not about race, its about quality within the Woman. The Bible says that when u find a woman u are to find his blessing, But is that really the case these days when it comes to the black woman? I am a black man and i can tell u why some of us date white women. First of all Most white women come from good family back grounds and have good developed relationships with men. Therefore they know how to love and treat their men. White women are very submissive and know how to love their men. Being from a European standard white women are able to educate and teach a man about the upperclass standards in todays society. Secondly they are nurturing to their men, something that most black women aren’t. Maybe its because of the upbringing that most black women are brought up today to learn how to get over on a man rather than to love him and learn how to take care of him as well as jus simply being his help mate. In todays world most men are brought up being loved rather than nurtured and raised responsibly. White women have a high solid quality about themselves when it comes to how they treat their men. They understand what it takes to run a household and know how to be a mans backbone. White women are not about all the games and nonsense that a lot of our black women are about today.their standards are much higher and they are very knowledgeable on how to live and obtain prosperity in todays America.

Now i am not downing my sistas cause they are some that are of good and high quality but lets get real for a second………. they are either already in a bad marriage or in a relationship in which they are willing to remain loyal. Our black women have forgotten their place when it comes to their men. When some of us men look at our sistas we dont see the blessings. Most sistas are all about themselves and a dolla. We live in a world to where the black women today are nothing like the black women of yesterday. The women of yesterday were loyal and stood proudly next to their black men. Today the only thing you can find a black woman standing proudly next to is anything that is gonna pay the bills and give her money to go shopping. (A lot of women might disagree with that statement but im pretty sure the men know what i am talking about)
Black women dont have love for themselves so they dont know how to love and treat a good black man.

The article makes sense, I suspected that was one of the main reasons for their interests.

Lol @ SweetCaliTea. I see where you’re coming from. I guess some Black women are frustrated with the Black men that they’ve dealt with. (Not all men are the same) but at the end of the day, we’re grown. They (Black men) are gonna be with who ever the hell they want to be with, just like sistas like you and I are going to be with whoever the hell we want to be with. And it’s unfortunate that we have so many single Black mothers out here b/c Black men don’t want to man up, but you know what? There are single Caucasian mothers out there too. Scrubs come in all colors lol I’ve never heard of a dead beat mom. So I understand where you’re coming from, just don’t put all Black men in one box.

im going to break it down lol! first of all, white women are very submissive, loyal, usually cheerful of their interest, mixture of both golde diggers and non gold diggers. open minded, usually do not have standards when it comes to men, depending on the type. some are just appreciative that they have a man and do not care if they are not doing anything with their lives. some are high maintenance, just with the guy for social status, money, power, greed and tigers wife is a prime example. black men want to call black women gold diggers. its clear gold diggers are not color blind. she just renew the pre nup frm 5million to 55million. of course, why not give her an excuse…oh she was cheated on, lol! uh huh, lol! i know white women, because thats all my girls consist of and i love them to, lol. i think its great black men date white or whatever and i am all for it. they are quick to hyper ventilate if a black woman does the same. trust me i know and i hear it all the time. i prefer interracial for myself and recommend it for everyone. i think it balances life out. you may be submissive, but your partner is the opposite vice versa. i recommended it for my brother although he chose one with no class and she is bisexual forever cheating on him. they are good at hiding cheating and kissing up for a cover up whether its financially or affectionately. then you get some white women that are great women, loyal, respectful, career driven, honest and so forth. i dont understand the hype or see what is wrong with dating a white woman. i do understand why black men like to date outside, because there are a lot of hostile black women, but there are few great black women as well. im just honest take it or leave. im great of course, wink lol! any who, true love is not color, race or culture driven and it is all about qualities and compatibility. i say that with cautious lol. i like all people, but as far as dating i prefer interracial, because i tend to be more compatible with men outside my race. everyones preference isnt the same and this is solely my opinion. with thus said dont get emotional or take it offensively.

At 100th_Monkey:

I hope I understand you correctly. First, I never asserted that “black people hate themselves if they date white women.” However, I do assert that some of this preference of some Black men is solely based on the physical features.

You present an argument about Europe and Australia that I am not certain I follow. Racial tensions always existed – that’s human nature. Also, I have done race relation studies in Europe and Australia and there tends to be more blatant racism there than in America. So I am not sure if I understand your point. The Civil Rights movement at least afforded Blacks in America a platform to air their grievances, which does not exist in the EU.

While it is true that my experiences and positioning cannot be generalized to ALL Black men, my unique vantage point is relevant. The only times I have ever been called n****r was when I lived in the EU, and many of the Black men I know (working, educated professional Black men) will let it slip about how they do not find dark skin as attractive as lighter skin. Those two points may seem random when combined, but you took it there. Not me.

Again, you make several arguments and I am not certain if I flushed through all of them. However, you cannot negate what I say as a whole because it is rooted in history, fact and personal perspective.

gbin04: How will you have love for yourself if your other half (Black men) is telling you are not good enough? How can you nurture a man who is not taking care of you? Who wouldn’t learn to get over on a man if all they see in a man is a burden and not a blessing? Why wouldn’t you learn to get what you can get when the Black men of yesterday took from Black women and then left them alone. Of course you will try to get yours before you can get gotten.

I agree with you on one thing, white women have had a different upbringing: they aren’t plagued by a past of disappointing and absent Black men. So guess Black men killed the spirits of Black women and now that Black women are damaged, they’ll move on? Sounds like a parasite to me.

Tsk, tsk, tsk. The lack of insight, understanding, and the lowly’ness of conciousness within people never ceases to amaze me. I wonder what many would think if they took the time to acknowledge that all matter is comprised of sub-atomic particles (sub-atomic particles are the construct of of all RNA, DNA, Cellular structures) which means broken down to it’s finest compound we are all nothing more than energy beings. So what the hell race has to do with anything???? No doubt, when it comes to interacting with other beings what we have is a correspondence between wavelengths (meeting of minds) and the degree’s of attraction is determined by our level of understanding. Yes, black women and white women tend to differ slightly in their world view, however both (just as all men and women) have a capacity for evil, which means neither is greater or lesser than the other. It boils down to what makes you feel good and happy within. We all belong to God and remain forever in His Dominion. I say do you, and when you find that one that makes you feel good about being you and loving them, hold on to them and never let go. Who gives a dam about what some simple minded fool thinks who think you belong to them because of the color of your skin. Peace.

Let me start by saying that, gbino04 is dead wrong when he said,”First of all Most white women come from good family back grounds and have good developed relationships with men”. that statement is not an accurate statement at all. there are just as many black families with “good family backgrounds”as there are in the white community. the attraction is no different than when we see pretty black women. when we see a pretty white girl we don’t know a d–n thang about her upbringing, we just know she ‘s attractive to us. The common thing i see is that white women will go the extra mile/out-of-their-way to please were as lots of black women, ” I HAVE DATED”, tend to get comfortable rather quickly! Not making this indicative of all black women, just noting that a lot of black men i have talked to on the issue have expressed the same view.
For the most part, this issue is not a big problem for a lot of people. The small group that have a problem with this is regulated to the disgruntled black women, who 9 times out of 10, has a hard time keeping the man she attracts. for every woman that takes issue with this, there are some black men that will tell you that these women are hell on two legs,LOL.

I must admit… I used to really really get uptight about seeing a mixed couple BUT, I am ok with it now…. I woke up. These white woman ARE doing me a favor. They take that man off of my hands and OMG!..Thank you!….That man was not for me and a lot of the time…he really ISN’T for him either but she is just too desperate to know it….

OMG! This is addressing “TAIPANXX” post below..THAT”S STRAIGHT BULLSHI**!!!!! A black woman who respects herself FIRST…knows a RESPECTFUL man (black)..when she comes in contact with him…as well she knows what RESPECT is… and what it looks like. A good black woman also knows just THAT well when men like you are lurking about and trying to SMELL on her, and TRUST me, she is not upset at all when another (white) woman takes you off of her hands. Ha! You ARE funny though…Some men ARE really TRULY stuck on themselves and real realllll FULL too.
Now I think I will go ahead and read the article and the post. Good grief!

I am so tired of this topic. I’m a black woman and quite frankly I DON’T CARE WHO BLACK MEN DATE. If they want to date a white, purple, pink or blue person it does not concern me because I have my OWN relationship to worry about. I do get annoyed however when I hear black men saying they don’t date black women because …[insert long list of excuses and stereotypes]. When men say things like this it is disrespectful to ALL WOMEN because you are neglecting to judge your mate on a personal, individual level. You are reducing all of us to stereotypes.

I love my Sistas but when it comes to Good Quality as a woman u can not find that in many of today’s black women. Today’s black woman is all about herself and what a man can do for her. She is full of double standards and always setting standards for someone else to meet rather than her first meeting the standards she has set. The Black Women now today are all about low grading and insulting there black man. Rather than jus love him when he is down, they rather mistreat and insult. That is something i had grown tired of in my many relationships with Black women. A lot of them have Mental and emotional issues and think that its kool for a man to deal with that. I think that our Black WOmen need to learn about what it means to b reponsible and accountable for their choices, decisions, and actions when it comes to who they settle down with and have kids with. I am so tired of our women claiming to independant but using the government for childsupport and welfare and foodstamps. To me that is not being independent. Some of u dont even realize that the bad choices yall make is starting to become a vicious cycle in the black community. I wanna elaborate a minute on the fact of black women taking custody and raising black males…………. Its apparent that Black Women are doing more harm raising black males that helping. I say this because U got boys playing the role of the man in the house rather than jus simply jus being the kids. To me that is not kool and it shows in the criminal system and the jails.

To be continued…………………….

Its not that Black men love white women its just that most and I did say most not all black women are not the same as before you know like dude said before most of them have this picture in thier heads of what their true love is suppose to be you know tall dark or light skined with green eyes and a body like a greek god and mo money than Jay Z but in the real world most black men dont fit this image and so they become mean and to good for regular black guys and end up missing out on something that could have been beautiful because in their heads they are looking for something that is not going to happen and its the same with black dudes we are looking for a video diva and most girl are not just big ass and tities you know I mean thier are some women out there that and dime pices but most black girl reach this stage in there late twenties and early thirties so instead of taking all the bulls**t from these new generations of black women they choose a white or spanish girl whom are just looking for someone to treat them right and love them and most of them are not looking for the tall dark and handsome or the light skined green eyed guy with the sixteen pack they just want a cutie guy that will love them and thats why most black guy these days are looking else where for love

Man, a lot of folks are generalizing.

I think brothers who come out the gate with a preference to date outside of their race has some personal issues. I believe you can’t put love in a box when there are beautiful women of all races and cultures as well. But from a personal experience as a currently single black male being divorced from a black woman, I feel that sometimes our sistas are pushing us out there, and once we experience something different,we’re like “hmmmm, let’s see what’s on the other side.” I can recall in the 90′s dating a white woman, then I became socially conscious and for the love and loyalty to my race I broke up with her to
pursue my sistas. I met my ex wife and we dated for three years before we married and divorced 8 years later. With respect to her I will not air out her dirty laundry. Let’s just say I did every thing that you would expect of a husband, and stepfather, and above and beyond and a divorce was the best thing
that happened to me in years. When I started dating again I came across a few white females and it felt a whole lot different. Now I love my black sistas and I will marry another one but sometimes it feels like being a good man is a flaw in our culture.
One a side note, I was raised in a multicultural neighborhood so I wasn’t on a date outside the race preference in the 90′s.

I will say from MY personal exeriences, that white women went ABOVE AND BEYOND to please their man, are VERY open-minded in the bedroom(YES, BLACK WOMEN, WE WANT A WOMAN THAT SWALLOWS!!), generally DON’T have kids when you meet them, and are less argumentative, and confrontational. A LOT of black women have attitude problems and can’t keep a man because of that, so it’s a mixture of things. I am not against dating anyone of ANY race, it just depends on the individual. For black women, they date outside the race because they have dollar signs in their eyes, and are never truly happy because of it.

btw, for those who seem to have the same negative results with every man/woman they meet (whether interatcial or not), stop blaming others, it is obvious the problem lies within you. The soul gravitates to what is his/hers (whatever is subconciously going on within shall manifest without) and nothing can change that but the master of that soul (you). Clean out that garbage within your own psyche and maybe your circ**stances will change. Until then, I promise you you will continue to have the same negative results and it is all due from your own stinking thinking. It is true, what a man thinketh so shall it be. Think love, be love, and you shall have love. If you cannot learn to forgive then you shall harbor that evil within and it shall engulf you from within thus eventually manifesting itself without in all of your personal relationships. People will be people and none of us is perfect. Just as you have made mistakes and desired for others to have mercy upon you, then have mercy upon others. Learn to understand human nature and this will allow you to grow in compassion and understanding and this will make you a better communicator of your desires and fears thus ultimately building better relations with the opposite sex. Peace be upon to you all.

You know it is soooo funny to me how I have always heard men say that white woman are submissive. THAT is sooooooo untrue! White woman are demanding, sneeky and some are even pretty LOUD! I talked to some white woman in Phoenix and they are too funny and more Black than I was…I saw a lot of them in the japanese wig store this past week buying weave and wigs just like I saw the sista’s going NATURAL now more than ever before.
Just FYI fellas who DO love the other color (white)… black woman are really not caring anymore. And with that, a lot of black men are not going to be able to have a black woman again (when they decide they want ANOTHER ) change. That’s real. Me? I just ant a black man who knows how to love himself FIRST so I can give him ALL of my love and make his life double in our love for one another. Black woman are faithful and don’t walk out on their men. I have seen a lot of white woman walk when the materials are gone. If a black man wants a headache, he (in my opinion) knows how to go find one, keep one and treat one. Brotha’s go ahead and do your thang, ok! Based on one of my favorite songs…”I will be ok, I will be ok, I’ll survive, I’ll get by, I will cry ..no way!”- M. Crissette.

Kingof88

My apologies if my response wasn’t coherent enough. Part of your post stated and I quote; “As a Black man who knows and interacts with Black men, I can tell you that many of them prefer white or lighter women because they are self-hating.”

The operative word that you used is, “because.” So while you now state that you never said that black men hate themselves if they date white women, your previous post provides a contradiction, i.e., “because they hate themselves.” Now we can get into semantics if need be but it is obvious that you indeed, ‘DID’ say that. Perhaps it was a Freudian slip, in which case – no harm done.

First of all, the term “racial tension” is misleading. People who use that term refer to, “racial tension” as a phenomena in the United States after the colonization of Europeans. Racial tension is NOT a universal term that can be applied to all of human beings, much less human nature. It is NOT true that racial tension has always existed in human beings and I can give you historical examples. Miscegenation has existed way beyond racial charge. Latins and Europeans, West Africans and Arabs, the Chinese and Nomadic people of Mongolia, the Egyptians and the Romans, The Hyksos and the Syrians, East Africans and Portuguese, and these races co-existed for hundreds, some thousands of years without any “racial tension.”

What you think is more blatant racism in Europe and Australia is relative. Institutionalized racism, perhaps but individualized racism, absolutely! No one is denying that racism exist and I think you are veering off the path a bit. My response to you was to question this supposed, “root of the problem” which can not successfully be argued that it’s an issue of self hate or any other psychological disease that black folks dream up in order to justify an already dysfunctional community.

Finding dark skin less attractive than lighter skin is personal preference. Is that mind set influenced by some mythical historical standardization of European beauty? Perhaps, but it’s still a personal preference is it not? I’m not discrediting anything you’re saying but we just have to be careful when we psycho analyze black men. Not every historical black issue is a science project.

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@ Gbino04…how are we (Black females) harming our young Black men just by raising them? Who else is going to raise them? Instead of pawning your kids of to relatives, I take my hat off to ANY woman raising HER kid(s) on her own. And maybe if the father was apart of the kid(s) life (and this is not directed towards all men) then maybe you wouldn’t say things like, “it shows in the criminal system.” A lot of celebrities and successful Black men were, in fact raised by a single mother. And childsupport is something that is owed to the CHILD. Not to be owed to the mother from the father and vis versa. And a lot of guys on here make Black women look like money-hungry maneaters. It’s called stereotyping and not all Black women are like that. If we (Black people) just step our game up in all areas of our lives, we won’t have to have these debates. Regardless of color.

This is the exception to the rule, everyone. Black men are still overwhelmingly marrying and dating Black women. Keep in mind that 54% of Black people in the US are female. You have to think of factors like women just living longer regardless of race, an unfortunately higher Black male homicide rate(which isn’t as high as many will make you think) and women in general are just moving up faster than men of all races now.

Here are some stats that really put this topic into proper perspective: http://www.blackdemographics.com/population.html#anchor_401 You will see that only 6.6% of married Black males are married to White women and only 8.4% are married outside of their race. Then, you have to factor in that roughly about 40% of Black men and women, give or take, have never been married, it might be that Black people in general need to think and talk about marriage more instead of having “jumpoffs”, baby mamas/daddies and so on.

I like gbino04′s post. I have been married to a beautiful black sister for 30 years now. We have two sons and two daughters that we have raised to respect all peoples and all cultures, and to jude people on their character, not their color, race, creed, religion, or socio-economic background. I wass initially attracted to her because she was beautiful, incredibly beautiful, and a great athlete. As I got to know her, I found all those other qualities that men generally look for in a woman. She is intelligent, articulate, street smart, has great passion about the issues this country faces, has ambition (her Five Year Plans). She is warm, caring, and compassionate, great with kids. After all these years I still love waking up next to her and smelling the scent of her perfume on the sheets and the pillows. I have looked at other women over the years, I still appreciate beauty where I find it, however I have never had any desire for anyone else. I can’t see any circ**stances under which I would be unfaithful to her. I can’t bear the thought of ever hurting her that way, or any other way.
Why did I marry a black woman? A basketball playing “white boy” from the backwoods? I have spent most of my life associating with people of color (Black, Hispanic, Asian, Native American), since the age of 12. I stopped seeing color as an issue a very long time before I met her. I do see color of course, but it’s a part of who a woman is that enhances her beauty. I just don’t ID color to racial stereotypes. This didn’t just happen. I made conscious choices in my life to walk the path I’ve walked. I have no regrets. But, it has made me appreciate that the numbers of openly interracial relationships and marriages has increased on a geometric scale since the 1970s when my wife and I married. Back then there weren’t many people around like me, and not many such marriages as ours. Less than 100,000 marriages of all interracial types. Even in the Army where we both began as privates, made sergeant and via paths, became officers, there were no white men married to black women. Especially by the time I became a colonel and brigade commander. People never said anything, but the stares were always there. Today, people stare, because of the celeb status of some men, and check out the woman for the obvious reasons. But no one seems to pay it much attention beyond that. I hated the public scrutiny while in the Army, but I could have resigned anytime, as could my wife. We stayed. The problem today is young folks have been raised that staying in a relationship or a marriage isn’t necessary, they can walk out whenever. Few try to make it work or understand why things happened. This business with Tiger, assuming the worst, is not wholly his fault. It takes two to tango. But his character should have told him that stepping out wasn’t the answer. Even (and I fairly sure on this) if she had done him wrong the same way, stepping out would still be wrong. I wish them the best. I wish everyone in an interracial relationship the best, because it’s still hard, even in 2009. Prejudice still thrives and folks do have issues. But I wouldn’t trade the life I’ve had for anything. Sanita has helped shape me into the man I am through her love and support over the years. I never believed I’d find anyone until she popped up.

It is that old slave mentality of thinking that they have a prize. I get so sick of all these Uncle Tom azz negroes that can’t deal with a black woman. Alot of us as black people are still so filled with self hatred that we don’t even realize that it is manifested in our actions. So I don’t care if you are a celebrity or just a regular everyday person. If you are a brother or sister that date white people you are sorry as hell and a disgrace to us as a people. Your azz is not in love you are just in lust with the slavemasters children. And I don’t give a damn about all of you who will comment about how much in love your parents are/were. It is just that same old Mandingo sh-t from back in the day. I give 2 f-cks about a white person, let alone trying to sleep with one of their nasty azzez. They are getting ready to show Tiger Woods with his cablanasian azz that he is still a N. And for all of you who will say GOD said love everyone, you are a liar. It is nowhere in the Bible and I have read it from cover to cover.

The writer of this article must simply be out of fresh material to write and decided to go to “the old tired bag of tricks”. I happen to be a Black man married to a woman who is not Black (Italian & Hispanic) and there simply are not many people that would call me a sellout (definitely not to my face)and I still love Black women, so what’s the problem? I have been all around the world and have seen beautiful women and some of the most strangest places. I have seen beautiful Black women from Uganda, fine women from the Mediterranean area, beautiful women in the Middle East with eyes that make your heart skip a beat. I have also seen some fine Black sisters that looked so good when they walked in a restaurant that everyone stopped and looked (young and old, male and female). Even though outer beauty or looks may catch your attention what will really get you “sprung” or whipped is when you can really talk to a woman on “that” level because beauty fades with time and you really don’t understand that until you mature and we all know that that age varies for everyone.

Another thing that I find amusing is how people want to totally ignore the fact that many people the consider “black” are actually biracial and if they don’t act a certain way or date within a certain ethnic class they are selling out. A person cannot simply ignore the fact that they are not only Black but are just is much White, Hispanic, Asian, etc.

The whole bunch of bullsh*t about other women being submissive is simply that bullsh*t all women have their “issues” just like men have their “issues”. Hood Rats and gold diggers come in all colors, shapes and sizes so a lot of that is nothing but myths and stereotypes. When my wife married me I was broke as hell but she believed in me even when I had doubts about things and now that I am making a good salary we enjoy it together since it was a joint effort.

Something else to be considered is when it comes to which women make the best “freaks” in bed you reap what you sough…if you want your woman to swallow you better devote some attention to that sweet thing that flows that sweet nectar.

The epidemic of single mothers is something that spans all races and yes it does take two to lay down together to make a child (unless you use the medical/scientific methods) but brothers (men of all races) need to start taking care of business when they create a child. What really trips me out is so many “men” will lay with a woman that has kids but not even fathom establishing a real relationship with that same woman…that’s some weak azz s**t!

I got sons and a daughter, my sons are of the dating age and they date young ladies of all different races and backgrounds and the main concern me and my wife have is don’t date a tramp and make sure you treat them as good as you want them to treat you. My daughter is too young to date but when that time comes my concerns are the same and as long as they treat her like a young lady they can keep breathing air…ha ha.

If me and my wife divorce after more than two decades of marriage, a military career (including numerous combat tours) I will be with a woman that makes me happy as much as I make her happy, the color she happens to be really want matter.

I guess after all this article did at least start some communication flowing, even though some of it is quite skewed.

drkchokolate_10 u the real uncle tom i bet if one of these snow bunnies put it in your face you’ll take it so dont get on here and front like you wouldn’t this is 2009 bout to be 2010 things have changed people dont think like that you do you the one stuck with that slave mentality and from your pic you look like a bean pie seller i bet someone in your family has crossed over to the white side before and i know you done took a look at a couple of snow bunnies too every black man has just like black women have looked a white man before be with who makes you happy black,white,yellow,it dont bother me what if everyone was blind how could we tell on that note give me 2 bean pies and a paper peace out

drkchokolate_10 , your comment is infested with ignorance. but the sad part is, you also have the audacity to say you read the bible cover to cover……LMAO!!!!!!!!!! let me guess……….you skipped over the part that ways “love thy neighbor”

LOL its 2009 and topics like these are still getting brought up. amazing.

This list of black man that love white woman was not at all surprising, the only one that shocked me was Taye Diggs…Damn I think I speak for black women around the world when I say ….DAMN that was one brother I’m sad to have lost to the other side!!!

You really can’t be serious…I mean what year is it? I date white men ,brown, as well as black men… If these men want to date or marry a white woman or any other woman outside of there race it is there choice… If you don’t like it then don’t date outside of your race and keep it moving..

So you screw everybody regardless of creed or color. I applaud you and your liberal views on dating. You are a credit to our race.

dbaby143
12-4-2009 1:03 pm
You really can’t be serious…I mean what year is it? I date white men ,brown, as well as black men… If these men want to date or marry a white woman or any other woman outside of there race it is there choice… If you don’t like it then don’t date outside of your race and keep it moving..

I think when it comes to this subject we aren’t really thinking about it just letting our emotion rule. I’m well traveled I’ve been to many countries and continents. First of all in America and the rest of the world, the vast majority I’m talking 90% + date and marry their own race(look it up for yourself the net is a pull medium, what u see on TV is pushed on you!). The media is very selective to show what you see, the majority of NFL/NBA/entertainers that are black are with black women. The media never misses to a chance to show when a high profile black athlete or celeb is with a white woman. Brian Urlacher of the Chicago Bears is white, very high profile at the time and was involved with a black women who had has child. When they were together you never knew, you only heard of her when the child support and custody battle started, and nobody talked of race. It’s not accurate to look at handful of men, elite men who have the means to act upon just about anything they wish, to say that this is what the majority of black men do…bananas!

drchocolate’s comment is infected with ignorance you say?
You must be kidding. Your screen name is “I Like Thugz” — now THAT’S ignorant.

The contents of this article have been discussed since slaves got here and will continue as long as there are Black folks in the world. It’s topical and always will be.

Huh! lets see black men like white girls because they have a p***y for one, just as the same reason why whites like asians, black girls like white guys, hispanics like black girls, asian dudes like blacks visa versa, who gives a s**t. Its America! you f**k who you like! If your educated or wealthy then most likely you get with someone educated and wealthy. Blackplanet is like that ugly little fat b***h in the back of the classroom always starting s**t! and drkchokolate_10 I bet the black girls still don’t get s**t from you, you lool like you like blackdudes bro! I am just saying though.

I think when it comes to this subject we aren’t really thinking about it just letting our emotion rule. I’m well traveled I’ve been to many countries and continents. First of all in America and the rest of the world, the vast majority I’m talking 90% + date and marry their own race(look it up for yourself the net is a pull medium, what u see on TV is pushed on you!). The media is very selective to show what you see, the majority of athlete/entertainers that are black are with black women. The media never misses to a chance to show when a high profile black celeb/athlete is with a white woman. Brian Urlacher of the Chicago Bears is white, very high profile at the time and was involved with a black women who had has child. When they were together you never knew, you only heard of her when the child support and custody battle started, and nobody talked of race. It’s not accurate to look at handful of men, elite men who have the means to act upon just about anything they wish, to say that this is what the majority of black men do…bananas!

Choosylover3, you’re an idiot. Just because you don’t like the sistas doesn’t mean you have to spit out those old ass stereotypes. You probably can’t find a decent black woman because of your f**ked up attitude, and I bet you’ve never even been with a decent white woman either…SMH

Lmao @ drkchokolate_10. You have lost it. You don’t even realize how stupid your mentality is. I dated a guy who was half White half Black and met his parents too. And if you would of said that to us, you would’ve got your a** beat.

I bet the woman on some of those photos would be real pissed off if they saw it right now because, some of them are not even white! Anyways in my opinion, black men who refuse to date black women are scary and caint handle a strong woman, who has a say so in how she’s treated! To paraphrase my statement, Black men wanna pursue white women full time because, most of them are simple and more submissive.

drkchokolate_10 is interesting. Especially considering that his page is littered with high yellow and red bone women including the several “Latinas” that are on his friend’s list not to mention a baby that looks damn near white himself. Since we are all adults and this is real talk, let’s call it what it is. Now I usually don’t knock anyone for only have a high school diploma but when your racist rambling and mumbo mouth babbling reflects that then I have somewhat think that continuous education would curtail that sick ignorance, even if it was on a mere conscious level.

And let me tell you who an Uncle Tom is. If you bothered to read Uncle Tom’s Cabin you would understand that Uncle Tom is Christian martyr, morally superior to his white owners. Not a bad thing to be. Even with a high school diploma you should be able to figure that much out. So if you truly believe that you’re no Uncle Tom, I agree with you! You’re that minstrel caricature that runs his mouth about white people and how much he hates white people but will dip your little cookie in a glass of milk soon as you get the chance.

You’re not fooling me or anyone else in here brother. I’ve dealt with so-called, “Pro Black” idiots like you before. You got your little red-black and green African medallion, your Final Call Newsletter, your episodes of BET and somehow you think that actually makes you more black than everyone else. I bet you also think that being articulate is trying to be white? Maybe getting an education is being an Uncle Tom?

“We’sa no geetin’ no edumakasion like we’s hea masa. No that’s a masa white man ways. We’sa stay black cuz we’sa stay black and eats sa fried chicken and colla’ greens.”

Brother, you’re weak and you’re tired but mostly weak. You’re an idiot, an uneducated one and you are in no moral position to say anything about anyone at anytime. There’s sharing your opinion and then there is perpetuating hate and you are perpetuating hate. People like you are the reason why racism and this article was even written in the first place. There is no difference between you and a white person saying the same thing to white people about us. Even if this is your true feelings, I am shocked and saddened that you even have the audacity to share your ignorance with us. I may not agree with everyone else and their opinions but at least they have the maturity come in here and present their opinions and themselves with some tact. I am really disappointed.

Well, after reading some of these predictable replies (example, “You just can’t handle a strong black woman”), I thought it was time to heard from someone with firsthand experiences. It’s black women who simply cannot handle ME. I am not “typical” for a black man…I love science fiction, I love history, all kinds of music (except Southern Rap), love current events/politics, I don’t drink/smoke/do drugs, and I am agnostic (look it up)! I find women of other ethnicities far more open (and less judgmental) to allowing me to be me (like Sly & The Family Stone sang, “Thank you for lettin’ me be myself!”). I would love to find a sister who will accept me for who I am, but its simply not the case…I cannot be who YOU want me to be…I have to be who I am, and its probably a safe bet that those black male from the article who have white women don’t have to hear crap like, “You’re boring,” “You’re weird,” etc. And given how so many sisters are dying their hair blonde trying to be “cute,” they are in no position to question why black men date white women!

drkchokolate_10 o yeah i forgot to say, its not quite wise to call people uncle toms and saying they have a slave mentality when your worshiping a white mans religion stupid!……and you still look gay!

Lets get this perfectly clear right now it has nothing to do with not being familiar with the race of Caucasian women,it has to do with the fact that black women especially college educated women think they are better or above the black man who does not have a college education,Just because he may be a sanitation worker, hard working every day that is not good enough for the black woman it is below her standards just because he does not have that sheep skin.Were as the average white woman appreciates the fact that the man goes out here every day to make a living for his family,and does not give a damn if he has a sheep skin or not that is the big difference between the black woman and the Caucasian woman.That is exactly what I am writing here the person who wrote this crape thinks the black man does not know nothing about the white race and that is the farthest from the truth,the black woman does not know crape about the black man simple as that because if she did she Would not think she is above board and better than her black counterpart the black man OK!I know how black women treat the black man from my own personal experience as a black man and it is not good so if the black man wants to get involved with a Caucasian woman that is his damn right just like the black man is involved with Asian women but you don’t here anything about that now do you! but yet all of a sudden someone wants to start some crape about a black man with a white woman why?If you treat the black man better maybe you would not have this problem with black man,white woman issue that has the black womans panties all in knots now would you! Do you ever hear a big roar about a black woman with a white man? hell No!! But everyone wants to make a race issue when it comes to black man,white woman especially a black woman give it a rest already you should be saying look how far we have come in race relations but no there always has to be conflict with it comes to this topic.Grow up and move on if I want to spend my life with a Caucasian woman that is my damn right and I do not need permission from a black woman or black society to do that so get over it and move on,and as for a lot of you black women get off your pedestal and come down Earth,and maybe just maybe you would not have the problem with black men and white women,but until that mind set changes in black women don’t expect it to change .

I think that people are over analyzing this issue. I believe that most Black men who are successful end up with White woman because of class issues. These are men who have a lot of money or a lot to offer and tend to be around White people in most of their social settings. White women are generally in their class and social status and they tend to be surrounded by white people most of the time. When a single person becomes successful I don’t think that they go out and say that I want a White woman simply because shes White. There has to be some sort of commonality and trust in order for relationships to work. Although women of all races tend to be self-centered and opportunistic, it may seem to become too apparent for Black Men in their own kind once they become successful. That’s where the trust and class issue comes into the scene. Its so easy right now for a woman to steal a mans net worth simply because he cheated or did something that she didn’t like. Many men are worried because they have so much to lose, when they may feel that they cant trust anyone. Personally I can never become “bored” with Black women regardless of how much money I make or how successful I become. But for the many men who seem to have it all I believe that those factors I stated are the issues that keep coming into play. Also for the most part, many of these men aren’t as recognized by Black Women until they actually become successful, which, honestly, is the case for all of us.

Hello beautiful ur sooo lame & tired for bringing this again. When are people gonna stop?! U can’t pit a whole demographic of people in one box bcuz of what one or even 200 of us do! 1st off,y the hell wouldn’t a celebrity like woods have a white girl? How many blk women do u think roll in his circle? He’s a half blk golfer for Christ sake! Secondly I don’t care what the status of a man is no one gets rich & says I’m gonna date this race of people! Ignorance if u think that. Poor or rich a man will take what’s in front of him if it’s attractive. Y does it always have to b them & us when it comes to dating..& not economic reform,or education. No … This is the bigger issue. Cuz Kim Kardahian likes bush or watever. Ya’ll stay acting like it’s taboo! Where ya’ll from 1950? Life is too short 4 this bs blk people. Yea we should love each other but not be drawn to insecurity of that love every time someone finds watever lik happiness they get with a different face. As the white man married to the blk woman shows it’s not just US. So snap out of it! Realize anyman who denies a beautiful women cuz of race is insane. Same of women. If u see colors,b4 u see beauty or any other personality well, ur a racist. Sorry to break it to u. I love all women blk,white,Spanish even ones I never date like asian. (but I would if I found the right one) that’s all Tiger was doing. Takng what was there. Sistas rolling on PGA tour I imagine ain’t that deep. & if theyvwere does tiger have to find them appealing? I live in the bx,where Hispanic women dominate mostly every attractive thing a man wants. Dress,hair,looks & even sexuality. Not cuz blk women aren’t the s**t to me. Just that they don’t bother trying to attract me. It’s always sweatpants,headrags, and attitude out here. I meet better sisters in the city. But the point is u take what makes itself available when ur a single man. As long as it’s attractive & cares to be that way for you. If blk girls tell me that how they drss & look is unfair to attack,then they’re wrong & need to stop makin excuses themselves cuz I honestly hate seeing the women outdone by women half their age. What’s wrong with makeup & combing ur hair? Why can’t u try to get a blk man instead of acting stank when u walk down the street. How about love a man for a man not for his status & Tiger wouldn’t b an issue to you. Cuz it’s obviously only an issue when a brotha is loaded. Bot saying all my women are like this. Just the ones I see around me. & I’m not rich…yet.

@ ivory-wanted…if you choose to date outside your race, that is totally your decision. But I think its kind of sad that you think no Black woman will except you for who you are. Don’t make the mistake of thinking we’re all the same. The things that you “think” Black women find weird about you, actually seem interesting. And do you really think dying our haor blonde means we’re trying to be something we’re not? Please. It’s OUR hair and we can do whatever we want to it. Just like you can listen to you whatever music you want, watch science fiction, play Yu-Gi-Oh or whatever. Just don’t come on here acting like no one understands you ’cause that’s weak!

At Ivory-Wanted

I read your reply and I wanted to stand up and give you an ovation. I have experienced the same issues as you have. You have your typical brothers and then you have your more, shall I say – “abstract” brothers. I too love history, ancient religions, quantum physics, I read everything I get my hands on. Many black women are intimidated because of my profession, they think I’m a health nut that eats tofu and protein shakes. I’m educated, outspoken, sometimes harsh, and I can hold a conversation about almost anything from bipartisan resolution to foie gras. I’ve never done drugs, never smoked a blunt, weed, or anything else. I don’t sleep around and I wear grown man clothes. Yet, yet . . . I’ve always been looked over for the “thug” brother with the swagger, the criminal record, the sagging pants, the long white t-shirts, and the WuTang attitude. That’s not me and because it’s not me, some black women just can’t do me. Now, that’s not why I have dated white women in the past but it is why some black women have not dated me in the past, at least that’s what I think, lol. It could be that they think I’m lame, in which case – fair enough. Why don’t someone ask white women why they date black men? Let’s get their opinion. And I promise you it will be something that some black women either took for granted or don’t even recognize all together.

ummm black men like white women, black women, asian women, purple women, green women….etc…. this article is stupid but on some real stuff they like white women cuz they easy to control…

drkchocolate_10 i’m still waiting on my bean pies and paper

There are Eskimos and Nordics and… people all over the world. Ask yourselves “how big in scope, is your world(?), and, hope that it is larger than your brain.

I have only ten things to say about this.

1. Alfre Woodard
2. Hallie Berry
3. Grace Jones
4. Woopie Goldberg
5. Donna Summer
6. Dianna Ross
7. Kerry Washington
8. Lynn Whitfield
9.Garcelle Beauvais-Nilon
10. Sanaa Lathan

why does it matter who is dating who as long as it’s not you crossing over to the white side or any other side let that person deal with it me myself i loves me some black women big,tall,thick,skinny,long as they black so on that note ladies holla 5’9 brown skin 175lbs hard working black male no kids dont smoke,drink,or do drugs so what up

This is a really ridiculous topic, mainly because if you open your eyes, interracial partnerships are a VERY small % of relationships….period. Just because this website shows ten pics of high-profile Black men dating outside their race, is that supposed to suggest a trend among all Black men? I’d suggest everyone go to their local mall, look around, and get the real stats. Blacks are primarily married or dating other Blacks…Whites, Asians…the same.

Saying that, I believe that it is about what two people have in common that makes a relationship, and that commonality should not start with Race as it often does. There are occasions where all you have in common with someone is race. Does that mean they should be a better prospect over someone of a different race who shares more common interests?

Pursue and date who it feels right with regardless of race is how I see it.

I totally agree with – TroyGilmore Jr. on comment page-1. Black woman, come of that high horse, that -I’m so much better then my counterpart- the black man. Your so-called, high standards. It took a black man to physically fight against white society- MLK, Malcom X, Larry hoover, and Mandela. Black men from all around the world have fought for the right to be consider (HUMAN), So we will not let you be-little us, just because you got a degree. Yes, we do know you bare our children, and sometimes get mistreated by that black man in your life, but if you chose a thug, then be ready to fall on that sword and die. There are alot of good black man out here, but the good ones are not thugs. But if you cant respect us- degree or not, then a white woman will, Love it or hate it, that just how it is. And believe it or not, without the black man-(the muscle), you woman would probably be back scrubbing floors. You cant fight them, physically nor legally. Love your black man and work with him,and then you’ll never have to worry about him being with that white woman. Think about it. (And I don’t want to hear from no woman loving woman- “I’m superwoman chic”, thats whats wrong with society now. You want to be a man, sorry it wont happen.)

Hello Beautiful always keeping up shyt. lol!!!! Stop worrying about those few Black men who choose White women and focus more on the Black men who still desire or prefer Black women. Black women never bore me, because all Black women aren’t the same at all. White women don’t have anything I want and I’m not attracted to them neither. Overall, Black men still marry or date Black women mostly. Black women stop believing these divide aqnd conquer tatics that media is giving y’all. They don’t wanna see a Black couple together because that means strength. Look at President Obama and Michelle. White people don’t wanna see them together and succeed. Also I want me a beautiful brown skin sista with beauty and brains.

Me personally i love my black women but i’m not gonna knock nobody because they chose to date outside their race. Its different strokes for different folks, some like pepsi some like coke. To the chick that said no disrespect to blackmen and then turn around and say black women should think the white girls for dating black men cause she saved you from havin a Mj, Kobe, or Oj in your house. If you aint know< white people commit the same crimes like Roman Paulanski, Bill Clinton, Robert Blake. How can you say no disrespect but say something disrespectful?

Peace and in general I don’t love white women. Some of them look fine and are cool in general.
But overall,a black woman or Afrikan woman is getting my love.
Some of these white women when they get mad at the brother,they like to call the white man
police on the brother. So they go back to playing their racist race card.
So in general I leave white women alone.
It’s like hi and by,especially when they look at me like some type of criminal since I am safe
tv type,will smith or llcooljay type safe negrow.

gbino04 Black women would not have to raise Black men, whether they help or hurt, if Black men would stick around and take care of their children….O but I forgot Black women are running lack men away because we get an attitude when they sit up in our house all day and don’t pay a bill. Notice that even the submissive “white” chicks get Black men with paper. No women, green purple white or black wants to deal with a no good nigg@

I can’t think of any faster way to get a negative rise out of a black women than to mention black men-white women in the same breath. I am personally soooo tired of that “You all just can’t stand a strong black woman” crap..its predictable, and jaded, not to mention a a made-up excuse that sister employ to save themselves from looking inward. The reality is that for many black men like myself–who are not “typical” (don’t drink/smoke/do drugs, have interests outside “the club,” and can actually think abstractly), it’s black women who can’t stand US. I would love a black woman, but instead of acceptance, some brothers have to hear judgments…”You’re boring,” “You’re weird,” “You need Jesus” (because I don’t go to church and question religion) and other such small-minded ignorance. True, some black men have a “trophy-mate” mentality, but for some of us, its because sisters can’t accept who WE are. Live and let live!!

This is for flyfisher20750. If you been married to your wife for 30 years than why are you even a member of black planet?

I was just reading these comments and I have to say “WHAT A DAMN SHAME! “. Now this is why I don’t ‘date black men they always have some s**t to say. Always complaing about these so called sterotypes about black women. Some black men say that black women are fake by wearing weaves and fake nails.

Well let me tell u something u have white women out there trying to look like a black women. White women trying to have plastic surgery trying to have fuller lips, bigger asses, s**t and tanning there damn self to a fry so they can get our color. But were fake because we are just trying to look good. S**tt even white girls wear weaves. Phuck black men just reading these post just make me want to hate them more.

White women can just the same as black women color shouldn’t determine ur characterisics.I really don’t care about interracial dating, I am all for it date who ever u want to date. But I hate when black men just bash black women like they are a piece of s**t.I am all natural baby no weave, fake nails or none of that s**tt. All me !

And if a black man don’t want this and think that they r to good for us, then fine I am to good for them. I am not waiting for any black men there r more fish in the damn sea! Some black men want us to compliment them! Please when was the last time a black man compliment me. Some black men always want something out of a relationship, but some r unwilling to put in the effort to an relationship.

Wow I knew all you cracker lovers would go to my page.LMAO I repeat I do not sleep with the enemy and I am proud of it. And that baby on my page is my niece unfortunately I can’t tell my nephew who to sleep with. But to 100th monkey big deal you have a degree from the white man’s institution of learning, do you want a f-cking cookie? Thats just means he owns your azz. You are the one that wants approval from them not me. I don’t watch BET b/c it is degrading to black people. I knew some of you negroes would go to my page hoping to find a white woman on my friends list. hahahaha LET ME MAKE THIS MORE PLAIN I DON’T CARE IF WHITE PEOPLE DON’T LIKE ME OR US AS A PEOPLE. I AM NOT SEEKING THE SLAVEMASTERS CHILDRENS APPROVAL ON ANYTHING!!!!!! Some white trick sent me a group invite to some group about white women and brothers and I promptly declined that sh-t. Stop making excuses for being in love with the slavemasters children. And for MrLosa why are you on blackplanet anyway? Just proof again that black people can’t have sh-t without you crackers invading it with your perverted opinions. And I am not a so-called Christian so therefore I am not worshipping the white man’s religion. That sh-t they feed in the church is exactly why our people are in the condition we are in. And looking for some beneficent white man to come save us. Give me a freaking break. AND AGAIN 1OOTH MONKEY JUST B/C YOU LIKE F-CKING THOSE SHE DEVILS THAT DOESN’T MEAN ANYBODY ELSE DOES!!!!! As for the rest of you toodelicious,moneygrip34,I-like-thugz,elle2010, you all are the sad ones you should just change T-Pains lyrics from I’m in love with a stripper to I’m in with a devil.lol You will soon see what your love for the enemy gets you.

Thank you Ivory-Wanted and ktingram, black women seem to have selective memories when it comes to the things THEY do wrong in relationships, but have a neverending list of things WE do wrong. And that’s the real problem, notice how it was mentioned that we sit in “their” house and not pay a bill, excuse me but the only house i pay bills at is “MY” house. I agree that there are a lot of brothers who shirk their parental responsibilities and SHOULD be called out on it at every opportunity, but that does not justify black women’s obvious senses of entitlement where we are concerned, we have to take care of our children, we DON’T or should not be expected to take care of YOU. Especially when you go searchin for and attach yourself to the “G” the one who couldn’t put together a complete sentence if his life depended on it, the one who can afford the latest clothes and shoes, but couldn’t scrape together enuff money for a damn belt to keep his ass from showing when he walks the streets. The fool who has a car that he obviously couldn’t pay for, but parks it on the street with the radio blasting for women to crowd around, then if he actually wanted to go somewhere he can’t because the battery is dead from trying to impress (and succeeding) the hood. Don’t hate us because you have been indoctrinated with all the “pay me to lay me” lyrics of lil kim, foxy brown, trina, and every other “hoodrat” female rappers that spew that garbage, where if you have a regular job , doing what you can with what you have, they aint interested in you cause you can’t “keep them laced in tha illest snakes”. We shouldn’t, all that nonsense about “you don’t need a man” we heard you, don’t be mad because we listened, and decided….WE DON’T NEED YOU EITHER!!!! yeah i said it

So almost every comment I have read on here states, basically, that the reason why black men date white women os because of how black women treat them and how black women act. Grow up!!!!! Color has nothing to do with being attracted to someone. If the attraction is there weither it be phsyical or mental, then thats all that should matter. Ladies, if you so upset that a black man is white a white woman you have issues within yourself………. Date a white man..

This all is stupid!! We in America are all mixed no one is pure. So that means all the people claiming they are only black or only white are fooling themselves. The pic above with black men with white Women is also wrong. Most of these women are of the Hispanic or Asian race. Which last time I checked didn’t make you Caucasian/white.I need to stop reading these dumb ass articles anyway.Please people get it together.

everything is a damn stereotype when it comes to black people relationships, black women are loud with attitudes and gold digers, black men love white women, white women are submissive and easy to control, black women wont perform felatio, black men are good in bed with big d**ks, white women worship black men,

ALL THESE ARE HARMFUL STEREOTYPES, BUT BLACK PEOPLE STARTED THESE STEREOTYPES THEMSELVES.

THE QUESTION SHOULD BE WHY DO BLACK PEOPLE ALWAYS JUDGE EACH OTHER?

Speaking as a black woman, I love all men no matter the color!! And for the record white women wants all the money and fancy wardrobes too. So please don’t just lay that on black women. If you choose to be with someone base on their color and not just because you find them attractive and interesting to be with, then that’s make you stupid and lost. I don’t have a bitter bone in my body on who black men date. Since I have dated whoever I wanted and have a loving white husband right now of almost 12 yrs. Date and love who you want just make sure it’s for all the right reason!!

J-Smooth I feel you homie, and deshawn you’re just missing the point and also uninformed if you ask me. To say we created those stereotypes IMO is unprovable. Where is it stated that we started them, the encyclopedia? I didn’t think it was. Back to topic, j-Smooth said it all, but I’ll bounce after I say this. the one thing that really gets me, is when you date a white woman “ONE” time (and I have only once), thats all you like. “Ahh he like those white girls!”, thats all you’ll hear, but I only been there once so I’m not in the Tiger mold. More power to him though if thats what he wants, and if I ever get to run across one and she seems like the right type then I’ll see what it is too. Who’s to say you can only like one flavor of Ice Cream ;p

Brothers and sisters, we must break through of these same thoughts and practices that have plagued us for centuries. Why do black men do this? Why do black women do that? All of this is complete bulls**t. You never hear any other race talk negatively about their own people as much as black people. We need to be a more proud race – period. First, if we do not begin to protect each other, our entire race will be wiped out eventually. What do I mean by protect each other? We fall victim to the stereotypes that have been cast upon us ages ago, and we continue them to the day. Raising our children to believe these stereotypes and pointing the finger at each other. This is a prime example of how our spirit was broken in slavery, where we were divided and bred to hate one another so that we could not rise as a people together. Wake up and realize that the black family in America has not been ripped to shreds by itself. Black women have become the highest carriers of the HIV virus by themselves? Black families have the highest percentage of single families of any race. From slavery, to the “Man in the house” rule to other systematic anomalies, we truly need to start taking pride not only in our personal blackness but each other and recognize that our current state as a race is not due to black people having self hatred or being ignorant. How can such an ignorant race have so much influence on society? Yes some of our brothers and sisters need work, but if we abandon each other just like everyone else has, where will we be? WE hold the keys to our future and our children’s future. It’s time we act responsible for and LOVE one another. Peace

people like what they like . that;s that

Dudes sayin that the dont smoke, do drugs and dont sagg their pants, and sayin yal cant find no black female bcause yal dont do these things. Yal must be trying to get with a hood chick, instead of finding a black female at your caliber, because all black females are not alike. I am a black man that smoke cigs, smoke weed, sagg my jeans, and i got dreads but do i label myself a thug? No i dont because i’m comfortable with myself. Its black womwn out there that dont go for my type but im not gone go bashing all my sistaz because of type of dude she attrached to. Every black woman aint the way you puttin her to be, and everyy white girl aint no goodie to shoes either. I know my sentences mite be not be complete but hey i only graduated high school, which was 13yrs ago but i dont need book sense to speak on this, because i got experiance. Black Queens keep ya head up, its more black men like me that wouldnt trade you in for the world.

Plain and simple, White women are usually more docile then Black women, Black women have more attitude then the white counterparts.

No Real Bumbledot…we are not “trying to find a hood chick.” We are saying these things because to some extent, many black women ARE the same. Unless you are a club/bar hopper, watch BET/VH-1 religiously, go to church and spout Biblical dogma, drink (to “relax” of course), smoke something, or act like a “typical black man,” they simply are not interested (BTW…just because someone can hold down a job, pay bills responsibly and still drink/smoke/party “like a rock star” doesnt mean they are not addicted..you can be a functional addict–still out of control and lacking self-discipline). My point is that there is diversity in personalities and interests among black people, just like all people. The only problem is that MOST sisters do not appreciate that diversity. Unless I adopt their religion, think/act like THEY want me to, I/we are simply not wanted. As far as I am concerned, that’s THEY problem, not mine. I’m just here to shine the mirror, not point the finger. ;)

I have a better question: why in the hell are we even asking this question in 2009? My response to this is “so f-ing what!” White women are beautiful…as are black women, and Latinas and those from southeast Asia (Chinese, Japanese, Korean, etc…). I’ve dated women of different races. Yes, the majority of them have been white, but so what. I don’t look at the skin color of the woman I’m dating. To me, dating a white woman is no different than dating a black woman. Every woman is different. And one more thing, to me, there is no such thing as a “typical white woman”, nor is there any such thing as a “typical black woman”. We need to stop looking for the stereotypes and labels others use as a crutch for their own insecurities. Be free to love who you choose to love.

Good Afternoon, BP Family.
Please hear my thought on this matter. This statement is not to offend anyone but to (hopefully) enlighten and form a better understanding of eachother as black men and women. First let me say I love everyone because we are all created in the image of God and God loves us all and is No Respector of Person thus Neither should I/we that believe in God Be. With this knowledge I cannot judge a WHOLE Race of Men/Women based on the negative experiences that Ive had with only SOME. Therefore as an educated, respectful, caring black women involved in the black community working to build up my community along side other educated, respectful, caring black women and men: the various negative comments, in particular, against black women as a whole, mostly from black men I feel are disturbing, limited, and mis-representive of Black Women as a Whole. While it is true their are some Black women with negative behavior, It is also true that thier are some Black Men with negative behavior. This statement is also true about White Women/Men, as well as other HUMAN races, why you may ask? Because were all human and Capable of both good and bad behavior. The fact that were ALL Human Alone allows me and those within my realm of influence not to Agree with or Partake in the various Negative views and opinions about Black Women as a whole stated here on BP. It is important that I make note that these women/men in My social realm of influence are of ALL nationalities including WHITE women, and More interestingly White Men to their credit who I’ve personally wittnessed appreiciate and nuture the Value and Importance of the Black Women in society, and NOT STEREOTYPE all Black Women as Negative, inspite of the various Misrepresenations of Black women, sometimes saddly promoted by some Black Men/women within our own community. Personally I appreciate the value and worth of ALL women in society but especially Black women because these are the women, including my Mother that sacraficed their own well being to help Make me and others Ive known become a better person inspite of lifes hardships. I owe the upmost honor and Respect to my Single Black Mother who sacrificed her very youth to do her best and raise myself and younger sister without the help of our Father. I also give respect and appreciation to the Black Women in my community including my Aunts and Cousins inspite of their own responsibilities and limited resources took the time to take part in my development as well as the development of countless other young Black Men and Women in the Community. These Black Women were/ARE some of the most LOVING, COURAGIOUS and GENOROUS women I/You can ever meet. With All that said, it saddens me to see so many negative views and opinions about the Black women in Your lives that have (Probably-think deeply) loved, helped and encouraged to Their credit many of the very Men who feel it necessary to put down sadly, some of their own Spouses, Mothers, Sisters, Aunts, and Friends. Which is why I dont understand where the Hate, Unforgiveness and Anomosity comes from. It is very crucial to the BLACK COMMUNITYS Well Being that we NOT STEREOTYPE, and GENERALIZE all Black Women/Men, and Women/Men in General. NOT ALL Black Women, are Angry/Negative, Power Hungry and Money Hungry just like NOT ALL Black Men are Dead Beat Dads and Womanizers. The Same can Be Said that NOT ALL White Women/Men are Docile/Understanding /Accepting or are Racist/Users. These Characters come in ALL women/men and its NOT based on the color of Ones Skin, but the Content of Ones Character. Again, I know these statements to be true based on my personal life experience being educated and raised in a muliticultural enviornment. One very important lesson ive learned is that their are both Caring/Kind/Beautiful PEOPLE and UnCaring/Evil/Ugly PEOPLE In EVERY Race. We all should love eachother not because of the color of our skin but because of who we are as PEOPLE. Take Care.

The major reasons why most black men date, have children, or even marry white women is because THEY LOVE THEM AND IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE FACT THAT SHE IS DOCILE.

There are crazy white women out here like any other kind of women out here.

One thing is for sure when it comes to the sexual side of black women vs. white women. White women are breeded from birth to put more value on the oral gratification rather then the v****al gratification. Black women are vice versa.

If most black women knew that, that would save them a lot of heart and headaches

Hello My Sistas and Brothas….

My thought on the Black Man/White Woman thang? It doesn’t bother me as to a brotha datin a white woman.. My thought is that historically, Black men have been “curious” of what it’s like to be with a White woman! Mind you, I love bein wit my BROTHAS! I have no “curiosity” about a man outside my race! I enjoy the company of a BROTHA, regardless of what othas have to say negatively about my BLACK MAN! I am Very much IN LOVE wit a BROTHA who is intelligent, has a convo that can OUTBUST another man outside our race with MAGNITUDE! He is educated, even though we get called everything but the Children of God, and he loves UNCONDITIONALLY!
I STAND BESIDE MY MAN 110% ! We support each otha in every way… It can BE DONE! Even tho
there are sceptics out there! Regardless of RACE! :)
I don’t think it’s about comfortability that has a Black man run to a White woman other than him being “curious” and has some shyte about himself that he doesn’t feel “comfortable” with!
Men that date white women may have some insecurities about HIMSELF that he knos A SISTA
WOULDN’T DEAL OR PUT UP WITH! That’s my perspective on this subject! If he wants a white
woman, then go fo it! I’ll STICK WIT MY BROTHAS, TY VERY MUCH! MMUUUUAAAHH! :)

i just read drkchocolate_10 comments this brotha is in need of some serious help how long you been locked up cause all that you preaching sounds like those wanna be muslim or whatever you call them jail talk you became a muslim to keep from getting your azz bumrushed just come out and admit you at one time was a snow bunny lover and the way you talking about the white man/woman do you work cause 9 out 10 you working for the white man selling bean pies on the corner dont count as a real job get a life people are going to date,marry,sex what ever race they want you should take a good look at yourself cause you look real gay in that pic got your easter siut on and we in december where are my bean pies

I’m not pointing fingers, there’s three more pointin at me! :) My point is this:
People can love, date, marry whomever they choose… I don’t care about the race thang!

I prefer BLACK MEN! It’s my choice, and I don’t think that anyone should stand in the way of
whatever choices you make of who you want to be with! :)
It’s true that SOCIETY has it to who you love or want to love! It’s not us who made that rule!
SOCIETY RULES! Until we, AS PEOPLE CHANGE THIS SOCIETY, then it’s fair to say that the looks,
the stares, and the SAME RACE RULES!
DATE, SEX, MARRY WHO U WANT TO! Ultimately, the CHOICE IS YOURS! :)
Regardless ofWHO LIKES IT or DON’T! :)

I read the blog this morning on black men white women. I did not like some of the things that was said about black women. We work hard enough trying to keep things together to keep our men with us. There’s just no time for drama. But as a black woman who has a son I think I do it quite well. If you take a look at your history, and your family back ground. Black woman all ways took there kids to church to keep them grounded and rooted in the word. Black woman were the ones that were more victimized by their white masters while there white counters parts just looked pretty everyday to the assistance of a sister. If it was not for a strong black woman that was tired from working all day. Rosa Parks our brothers would still have us on the back of the bus. We have always been mistreated by our brothers and other people of other races. We are last to vote, last to get a drivers licenses. & there were a time when a black woman couldn’t purchase a home unless she was married. We don’t want food stamps but we just know how to survive in a stiff economy. We don’t make babies by ourselves, its just our black sperm donors that don’t know how to be dads. We don’t have attitudes, we just haven’t forgotten the first day of school when we were spit on calling us black and ugly during desegregation. All we just ask if our brothers would treat us the same as they do the white woman. Be seen with us in public. Hold our hand while we are on a date. Open and close the door for us. And lastly please come straight home after a heard day’s work so we can catch up on today’s events. And o yah we can be a little freaky. We just don’t put it out there.If anyone havent noticed tha majority of your black athalets are rasied by single black women.I just think when some fine sucess they don’t know how to act.But don’t get me wrong,love who you love.Just don’t put the sisters down.Lift us up.Help us to.White women are in a place to meet most of these men.Most Black women are holding it down at their homes working hard.So if we are out trying to find a good man.they are to worried that we are out to get them. Be blessed my brothers. Stay true to your sisters.

LMAO at moneygrip34 just because you have jungle fever that doesn’t mean other brothers do. I have actually never been to jail. I don’t do drugs,don’t drink,don’t go the club, and I don’t f-ck white women. DEAL WITH IT!!! And I don’t like gay people either, God states in several different areas in the Bible and Holy Quran that homosexuality is an abomination. Just in case you don’t know what that means, it means he hates it. And he proved it by killing everyone like that who wouldn’t change when he gave them the chance to. Why are you going to my page looking at my pic anyway N are you gay?lol I see your azz is so ugly you won’t even put a pic up so that anyone can see how you look. Smells like a coward to me. When I go to someone’s page I don’t block it out, hell I want people to know I visited their page. Cowards hide and that goes for anybody who is running to my page but have the portion that shows visits blocked. Oh and just in case you can’t read Negro its states at the top of my page that I sell cars fool. But I understand I hurt your feelings b/c you are a Becky lover like Tiger Woods, Charles Barkley, Taye Diggs and all the rest of those fools who are too weak to deal with a sister.

Well my sista this is gonna sting a bit but you want to know. Every other race of women on the planet knows what it takes to get and keep their man. And they do it everyday. You are the only ones on the planet that has a problem because you have been lead astray with bad information and you are lost and off course. The sad part about it is the other races of women know how to get you on track but they won’t tell you because they want your man.

Black men will be with whomever wants to be with him. You got it backwards.

Think about this everything thats black on the earth is rare and exotic and highly sought after. Stop tripping and get on your game.

I have a black women for 25 years. For the record

so ignorant. . . get off the race thing

TO EACH HIS OWN, PEOPLE SHOULD BE ABLE TO MARRY WHO THEY WANT, THAT IS IF IT IS LOVE, IF NOT THAT THEN THERE MAYBE SOME PROBLEMS DOESN’T MATTER WHAT RACE YOU ARE. NOW LET’S GET REAL, THE MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN ARE STILL ATTRACTED TO BLACK WOMEN AND MARRY THEM, WHEN YOU ARE HIGH PROFILE ALL EYES ARE ON YOU. I LOVE MYSELF SOME BLACK SUGAR.

Final someone has actually got the point correct, in my opinion what the article states is the same thing that my friends tell me that have dated white woman, it really has nothing to do with them being easy as said, its just that some brothers get bored and want something different and there’s nothing wrong with that

OMG! I cannot believe this bafoonish comment of one individual..Not in these exact words, but you value white women because they give great hE#$d? YOU. ARE .A .SICK .PUPPY! How about, well the white woman you are with compliments you, and you have a lot in common, like soccer. This only shows that your interest is merely sexual deviance, and infatuation. Just take a look at Mr. Tyger Woods. His infatuation is going to cost him millions of dollars, because at the end of the day, it’s all about the benjamins baby as i said before. Get you a white woman while you broke and on your $%%, and if she sticks with you until you hit the lottery then you might have something genuine, Otherwise 95% of black/white relationships are superficial. In closing, if any of you brothers here who are so dearly in love with white women, O.J. as well as M.J. are prime examples of how you can never be completely socialized into white culture. when the well runs dry, they say goodbye.”if it doesn’t fit, you must equit” lol! So you fools keep telling yourself “she loves me”! and soon enough reality will set in, and you’ll be right back on 2300 crenshaw when she break yo a%%$ for trying to live up to the standards of socialite culture. make it rain baby!

what worthless comments…you’ll that love “only white women” can go and kill yo selves if not,your white master will certainly kill you slowly…eventually.CONTINUE BEING A SLAVE TO YOUR MASTER…DUMB NEGRO’S

lmmfao. i knew from the title that this was gonna start a fight. I thought god meant for a man to love a woman. so what if that woman happens to be white, brown, black, red, whatever. i’m happy for that n—a. but ya’ll need to stop using the white woman being easy to control as an excuse because i’ve met alot that are way harder-headed than sistas. But real talk submission is an aspect of femininity desireable by most males, so if u sistas don’t wanna show it, then some brothas will follow the well known stereotype to go find it. it’s that simple. And i have noticed that there is a difference in the way a woman of any color listens to the man shes with if that woman grew up in a household lead by a dominant male rather than a female. maybe that has something to do with it…

After reading SOME (not all) of these ridiculous replies, it’s abundantly clear why some blacks would want to date outside of their race. No one wants to deal with anger that is fuelled by racist and archaic ignorance! What a drag! And those men that may have an aversion to it usually are the ones that would bang a white chick and try and keep it hush hush, they just don’t want to admit so that they can look good and possibly hook up with the “sisters” on this site. Some of y’all need to save the rhetoric for those that are gullible enough to fall for it….

drkchokolate_10

You’re ridiculous dude! You truly are. Let me ask you a question, if you hate white people so much and you hate white education and you hate white society and everything white, why are you here? What’s stopping you from making a wooden raft and paddling back to Africa? Have you even traveled outside of the United States? Have you been to Europe, Asia, Africa? Have you even been out of your own city? Who indoctrinated you? I have to say that it probably wasn’t too hard on such a feeble uneducated mind. You say I have a degree from the, “white man’s” institution. So that’s it huh? I’m educated so that automatically makes me the enemy? Where’s your degree from ANY institution? I can’t even begin to express how stupid you sound to look down on higher learning. The old crab in a bucket syndrome. So if I’m educated that means the white man “owns” me? Does that also mean that because you’re a moron you’re somehow free?

I didn’t go to your page to find white women because I could care less who you date, I went to your page to see who you are before I addressed you. It’s only fair I not make any snap judgements on people without first checking them out. However, you saved me the trouble because you do a great job making a fool of yourself, without much help from any of us. I’m not here to reason with you or change your mind about anything. You’re a racist (a bad one at that) and you can’t reason with racist. However, what I am disgusted with is your campaign against educated black people. Sometimes . . . sometimes people educate themselves, not to always land that high paying job, not to get that 1.5 million dollar home, not to purchase that $70,000.00 automobile, not even to date a white woman, but sometimes cupcake; black people educate themselves because we have the right and the opportunity to do so. For us to sit back and not take advantage of higher learning because it’s the “white man’s” way is not only absurd but self defeating and self destructive. There is not one person in here who doesn’t want to elevate mentally, with the exception of you of course. If don’t go to college, that’s fine. If you chose to date white woman or just black women, that’s fine. The topic wasn’t that black men “SHOULD NOT” date black women, the topic was “WHY” black men date white women. You chose to ignore the topic and use this forum for your personal racist ideologies.

So, you can sputter all the insults and name calling and racial rants you want on here at people, at the end of the day – you are just another yappidy yapp yapp goofy Negro blaming white and gay people for your shortcomings and mishaps in life. You don’t have to agree to date white women, you don’t even have to like it, (it’s a personal preference) but you are a fool if you continue to perpetuate a lowly existence for black folk by trying to keep us uneducated, simple, and negro-ized. My advice to you is to log off this site, go pick up a book (not XXL) and educate yourself. Just read a magazine article at least. I can’t do this anymore, I can’t believe I’ve wasted this much time on this goofy lame dude. Ignorance is still alive and well.

Once again everyone seems to be getting it wrong. We have a history of treating or responding to the “effect” rather than treating or responding to the “cause”. If you know anything or understand our history then you would know that Black men and White women (toghether) is inherent and there’s really nothing we can do about it unless we change the course of history. Just as the teachings of Willie Lynch are still present in our culture today the psychological effect of the Black man’s attraction to White women is present. Let me refresh your memory, during the days of slavery white women were a source of mystery and entrigue for Black men. Black men consciously and subconsciously desired white women mostly because of the fact that there were untouchable and very different from Black women. This obsession has manifested itsself through out our history from generation to generation. Black men still to this day look upon White (subconsciously) just as their fathers and forefathers did during the days of slavery. The Black male ego has always been the most defining characteristic of a Black man. It is this ego that drives his dessire to be with White women (or anyone other than a Black woman). Successful Black men gravitate to white women because they somehow (because of his ego) feel that it fulfills himself as a man and restores his masculinity that was stripped from him during slavery, and is still being stripped from him today. I could go on and on but I think you are beginning to get the message. By the same token, Black women have the same psychological issues when it comes to White men. The same principles I’ve just mentioned about Black men can be applied to Black women. Black women who were were raped or chose to be with White men during that period have the same inherent characteristics. Successful Black women gravitate to White men because of the same psychological and ego issues. Once successful they feel that Black men are beneath them and thus not worthy. So the bottomline is that the attraction of Black men to White women and vice versa is “in the genes”. White women’s attraction to Black men is also in the genes and once again the same principles apply. Black men are a source of strength and masculinity for White women just as they were during the days of slavery, something they desired but denied. If you want to solve the mystery (which will never happen) start treating the “cause” instead of the “effect”.

LMAO at cestleon everytime one of you negroes defend sleeping with the enemy you show who you really are. I would rather be dead than sleep with the enemy. But again to be redundant just b/c you and the rest of these so called brothers will f-ck them don’t mean we all will. Everyone of you answer with an excuse to why you do it b/c you are to coward to admit it is just because it makes you feel better inside. In your small mind you think you are conquering the white man by sleeping with his woman. They look at you fools and laugh and just charge it to the game. They don’t want anything to do with the women that sleep with you or the men that sleep with the sisters either. They know that they still own you and your mind. But again the day will come when Allah(God) is going to show you all who they really are. You are like sheep being led to slaughter.lol

oh lord…..here we go.

I CHOOSE to have future children and have a beautiful BLACK family.

As a YOUNG black woman (19 yrs) who has many accomplishments that people who are over 30 haven’t even accomplished–is sick and tired of continuously getting compared to a white woman and degraded by black men. The fact that you believe that you can find happiness in another person due to race and not because of the TYPE of person–then that clearly shows your ignorance. Also as a black woman I am sick and tired of my fellow sistas degrading my sexy chocolate brothas. I don’t know why sistas are complaining because I’m only 19 and I’ve dated and are still in good company with black men who are doctors, lawyers, business owners, high degree “getters”. So ladies if you are complaining, its not because you are a BLACK WOMAN its because you are silly period.

The fact that so many black MEN & WOMEN are willing to put down each other clearly shows how STUPID and EASILY influenced we are as a whole. People say “most black women are like this” “most black men are like that”. How do you know? Have you dated EVERY dam black man/woman in America? OR are you acting just like ***those*** that see us in the media and assumes the worst and create stereotypes?

Blacks as a WHOLE men/women are at the bottom. If it was just ONE SIDED we all wouldn’t be f**ked up.

Amazing….

the point is this as stated before, some and let me repeat some brothers date white women for the wrong reason, one thing that people really don’t see and don’t wanna hear was what the article had to say, the article is not about brothers just running to white women its about trying something new and there’s nothing wrong with that, “A black man knows a black woman like the back of his hand, so,They then seek out the unknown or thrill they think they’ll get with a white woman which they think will get them out of the little box which they live in”. if someone makes you happy dont limit that by race.

Agree Dainty Jen i have the same friends as well,”Some say a black man might like to take part in a relationship with a white woman because they are not familiar with the race.This gives the relationship in itself a kind of thrill, and makes it one to store in the memory box”

Because white women come with less attitude than the sistas; many of my sistas have been treated horrible in past relationships and now the new guy comes along and he has to deal with the attitude!! I started dated snow bunnies in college and from my experience, the white woman is more outgoing and will judge you by your own merit not some preconceived notion. Yeah call me a sellout but its true!!

hold up hold up so does that make any sense to date snow b***hes because us blk men know blk women like the back of ours hands. so u dating whites because u want some kind of thrill is that some of the reasons im hearing. already u f**k up so u basing the relationship to try something new something for a thrill give me a dam break

I really don’t care if some black men date outside their race. I just don’t approve of their reasons that some say why they do it. Just because I am a black female don’t mean I am angry all the time or just want a guy for his money. The most ironic answer is because black women are judgemental but yet they are judging me base on my skin color. Love is love and you can’t help who you fall for. That I applaud. I just find that some guys expect a girl to do things for them after the first date. How about proving first that you are worthy enough for a woman to cook you food or tie your du rag for you. Some black men seem to think they should automatically get it just because they call a girl their wifey. I can’t speak for anyone else but I just like a relationship to just flow naturally. Both I and whoever I date earning the love and devotion we both want.How the first question out some men’s mouth is “when you going to cook for me?” I will cook when I feel it will be appreciated. I think it is funny how both black men and women are saying the same thing yet both sides are not listening. I just think some black men need to “man up” and just take the lead. Show you worthy of running a household instead of you thinking it should be handed to you. Then I will “woman up” and back down to let you lead because you have proven yourself worthy. Like one poster said why don’t we talk about black women who date outside their race. I know plenty who do. I am techncially dating outside my race when I date a black man and I am Garifuna (african and carib tribe mix).

i think when your a rich brother its what our supposed to do…idc if i see an interracial couple and he’s an everyday guy like myself. i actually think thats cool but when i see rich brothers do it it irks me because i don’t believe that white woman or asian woman or whoever woman would be with them if they were broke. now dont get me wrong becuase my wife is indian south african but i know she really loves me cuz she met me with no dough and loved me for me but, i doubt that it can be said for ALL these relationships. some of these dudes haven’t even touched a sister in years. (a few of my gf’s were black…dark meat black like myself) Russell i know dont like black women, i aint seen him with a sister ever. i might be little screwed up but thats how i feel.

My opinion: Black men are well sought by everyone. For example, they are good at whatever they do, they work hard, play hard, and they are taking over in all areas like sports, so everybody wants one including white women, especially if they are successful. Black men are actually fooled by white women, white women are up on their game. They know exactly how to stroke our brothas ego to make them fall, then the 10 year plan is in motion to leave with ALL. Think about it, if you had to spend 10 years of your life to gain millions, who wouldn’t do it? Therefore, our brothers are being used and sued. So as sisters, we need to step our game up and get our brothas back. When it all boils down, it is all about sex, therefore we need to be sexy 8 days a week, even when we dont want to. Stroke you man ego, make him feel like his s**t don’t stink, and we all know s**t stinks. Look like a Saturday night out; everyday. Sisters, get freaky with your man!

Black males choosing white females (over black women) is about the white supremacy programming the black male receives from cradle to grave. The ego-driven (low-self-esteemed) black male will always seek status (and white validation) from the most powerful male on the planet: the white male.

The ego-driven (low-self-esteemed) black male knows he cannot get this status by being with a (black) woman who, like himself, has NO STATUS in a white supremacy system. So, he deliberately (and repeatedly) chooses non-black women in a vain attempt to resurrect his low self-esteem.

The white man in power encourages interracial unions between BM and WW for several reasons: (1) IR neutralizes the will of the BM to fight his own oppression, (2) the black male becomes the target for the frustration of the average, ordinary white male who is suffering from job and financial losses, (3) it destroys the NATURAL BOND between the black male and his ONLY natural ally in a system of white supremacy: the black female, (4) and it destroys the possibility that we will create strong black families, black communities, and black economic bases. (5) These black male celebs serve as “role models” for young and impressionable black males who seek to imitate them.

It’s a win-win for the white males in power, which is exactly why they reward black males who date/marry outside their race with movie, record, and TV deals. These “showcase” black male celebrities do NOT determine how much money they make, the white men in power decide how rich they will become because THEY control the studios, distribution networks, sports teams, etc. It is no accident that the most successful black males are also the most likely to be involved interracially because they know the BEST way to make it in the white entertainment industry is to be promote white supremacy by taking a white (or non-black) spouse.

In the meantime, the ordinary (non-famous) black male is the MOST likely to be unemployed, regardless of education, and is the most likely to be murdered by police, and incarcerated. Why? Because the ordinary white males (who are enraged by the BM with WW) are the ones who sit behind the employment desks, or wear the policeman’s uniforms. The black male does not see his dilemma because he is blinded by the need for white validation, and does not see that he is the ONLY MAN on the planet who does NOT understand the power and protection of ethnic unity. Instead, he deliberately seeks out women who know NOTHING about his struggle and could care less, abandoning black women and children, and then has the nerve to wonder why he is still under the boot of his oppressor.

It sickens me as a black man – with a black mother, black wife, and black daughters — to see so many sick, denatured black males bonding with women who didn’t man the picket lines, didn’t get beat, lynched or spit on during the Civil Rights marches. It is the BW who has been by our side for over 500 years, and young black sisters who rode on buses for 10, 15, 18 hours for justice for six black boys in Jena, LA. Where were the Asian, Hispanic, and white females, brothers? Where is the honor of ANY man who turns his back on his own women and uplifts the women of his oppressor? Bottom line, you can’t lay down with white supremacy by night and fight it in the morning. Peep the game before it’s too late. Divide and conquer = death for the black nation.

Black males choosing white females (over black women) is about the white supremacy programming the black male receives from cradle to grave. The ego-driven (low-self-esteemed) black male will always seek status (and white validation) from the most powerful male on the planet: the white male. The ego-driven (low-self-esteemed) black male knows he cannot get this status by being with a (black) woman who, like himself, has NO STATUS in a white supremacy system. So, he deliberately (and repeatedly) chooses non-black women in a vain attempt to resurrect his low self-esteem.

The white man in power encourages interracial unions between BM and WW for several reasons: (1) IR neutralizes the will of the BM to fight his own oppression, (2) the black male becomes the target for the frustration of the average, ordinary white male who is suffering from job and financial losses, (3) it destroys the NATURAL BOND between the black male and his ONLY natural ally in a system of white supremacy: the black female, (4) and it destroys the possibility that we will create strong black families, black communities, and black economic bases. (5) These black male celebs serve as “role models” for young and impressionable black males who seek to imitate them.

It’s a win-win for the white males in power, which is exactly why they reward black males who date/marry outside their race with movie, record, and TV deals. These “showcase” black male celebrities do NOT determine how much money they make, the white men in power decide how rich they will become because THEY control the studios, distribution networks, sports teams, etc. It is no accident that the most successful black males are also the most likely to be involved interracially because they know the BEST way to make it in the white entertainment industry is to be promote white supremacy by taking a white (or non-black) spouse.

In the meantime, the ordinary (non-famous) black male is the MOST likely to be unemployed, regardless of education, and is the most likely to be murdered by police, and incarcerated. Why? Because the ordinary white males (who are enraged by the BM with WW) are the ones who sit behind the employment desks, or wear the policeman’s uniforms. The black male does not see his dilemma because he is blinded by the need for white validation, and does not see that he is the ONLY MAN on the planet who does NOT understand the power and protection of ethnic unity. Instead, he deliberately seeks out women who know NOTHING about his struggle and could care less, abandoning black women and children, and then has the nerve to wonder why he is still under the boot of his oppressor.

It sickens me as a black man – with a black mother, black wife, and black daughters — to see so many sick, denatured black males bonding with women who didn’t man the picket lines, didn’t get beat, lynched or spit on during the Civil Rights marches. It is the BW who has been by our side for over 500 years, and young black sisters who rode on buses for 10, 15, 18 hours for justice for six black boys in Jena, LA. Where were the Asian, Hispanic, and white females, brothers? Where is the honor of ANY man who turns his back on his own women and uplifts the women of his oppressor? Bottom line, you can’t lay down with white supremacy by night and fight it in the morning. Peep the game before it’s too late. Divide and conquer = death for the black nation.

THINK ABOUT IT: WHITE WOMEN HAVE PLANS TO TAKE OUR MEN. THEY ACTUALLY ENVY US, SO WHY LET THEM TAKE WHATS OURS. THEY WANT TO BE BLACK, THEY SIT IN THE SUN ALL DAY (knowing the effects), THEY TAKE INJECTIONS FOR FULLER LIPS. White women can’t compete with us, instead they do the things they hear black men say we don’t do,( like not being a freak in the sheets, not looking good everyday, and b***hing everyday,). Thats why white women spend so much money to look like us everyday. Black women have been told that a way to a man heart is through his stomach,( thats only 50% , the other 50 % is sexual.). So we make sure they have a home cooked meal, and after dinner, they are gone to get the other 50%. Now who end up winning, because when its all said and done, a man will choose sex over food. DONT GET ME WRONG WHITE WOMEN, I HAVE MUCH RESPECT FOR YOU, YALL AINT WRONG, JUST BEING SMART. Sistas, need to listen to some Betty Wright music, u can learn a lot.

I’ve read most the article and most of the comments posted. Some of them I understand, some I don’t, others I agree with some I don’t. It gives me a look into the psyche of modern black males and females. We are all apart of the same race, the human race. To put ourselves into groups, stereotypes, catagories and sheild ourselve off from one another is wrong.To just see eachother mostly by the colour of our skins set everyone in america back hundreds of year. To just shun away opportunates because of “race” is just sad, that goes for both sides :black males and females, those who refuse to date outside “race” and those who only date outside their “race.” If we let colour/ethicity get in the way of the possiblity of true love the racist bigots win. Martin Luther King had a dream that people will judge a person by the content of their character not skin. We see those who are different from us as the “enemy,” creating division amongst ourselves only uniting in the face of tragedy, until (of coarse) we forget it ever happened. I live in a the United States of America, defined it’s vast qunities of culture, ethicity, religion and ect. No matter how our ancestors got here, by boat, plane, foot, choice or by force, we are now a part of society where diversity is the spice of life. I don’t want to live in a world that only have the same type of people, it’s boring. Instead let just judging for the wrong reasons. We rush to the nearist (insert race) man/woman and end up alone with kids, no money, bad rep, ect.

Why do Black men love white women?? The same reason white men love Black women, and white men want Black women even more. Back in 1861, white men went to war over the thought of not having access to that Black azz. You think they just wanted to keep slaves? H ell naw, they could have planted their own crops. But they was gonna be dammed if they had to give up all the pretty little black girls they could afford, and resort to Susie and her four sisters and some goose grease.

Who the hell cares anymore?? Just as many Black women are in to White men now anyways….I am..I frankly don’t care anymore about the skin color of my future husband. He can be white, black, hispanic, asian, middle eastern, any mixture of those, whatever! As long as the man treats me right and I get along with them I don’t care. Black men shouldn’t either.

Now having said that, I don’t think you need to put down your own culture in order to be with the person you love…this means saying nasty things about Black women just because the woman you’re with is White. Just b/c the woman you love is not Black, that doesn’t make Black women any less attractive or desirable. I wouldn’t do that to Black men if i was with an attractive sexy fine azz White man…..lmbao! Ha!

I agree 100% with crammasters!!! I don’t think anyone could’ve said it better. SECONDLY…..the thing that makes me SICK TO MY STOMACH and cause me to have shame towards black men is when they say ” I don’t like black women.” NICCA your mother and the rest of the females in your family are black does that mean you have no love or respect for them or is it like crammasters said….you have low self esteem and you need a white (other) woman to sit and stroke your ego to make you feel like more of a man?

who cares…if its what they like..why the eff does it even matter…JUST GET UR GAME UP AN QUIT HATIN..losers.

we still using the hating word lol…still…

*ROUND OF APPLAUSE* to crammasters…

when it boils down to it…its a CHOICE

DaintyJen does not need/want weak brothas on my team

and I agree @ sylkiifeather..I cant stand that stupid word

ms.william i can tell a race other den a black female stole yo man b4! their iz good n bad n every race i mean i date nothing but black men i dont date any other race cuz im not attracted 2 them like that! y i dont know but im sure their iz black men like that! maybe they just aint attracted 2 black femalez like that! most of the men i dated said that black femalez got f ucked up attitudes which i have alot of black female friendz n yes dey attitude iz f ucked up! u caint get mad cuz of yall faultz! i mean treat yo man right n let him have sum say so in a relationship n it might work out! n as far as us trying 2 be like yall naw boo far 4rm it dis cuz i date black men dont mean i want 2 be like yall! n plus yall spend so much money at da beauty supply just 2 have hair like us put contax in yo eyez so dey will be colored n sh!t so be real! i mean their iz femalez who do all dat plastic sh!t but itz 2 look better not 2 be like yall trust me! wut u sayen just sound like sum jealouse a$$ sh!t! n maybe they want something more exotic looking ya know! n i dont date black men 4 dey money most caint do sh!t 4 me no way if anybody taking dey money itz u dirty a$$ black femalez who aint doing sh!t 4 dey self! well i dont have anymore 2 say but just learn how 2 treat yall men n oh no itz not all bout sex datz where u f ucked up i mean my n!ggaz fall inlove wid me b4 i even give dem da best pu$$y so yeah once again close yo legz boo it aint gonna do sh!t but get u 5 kidz on foodstampz n section 8! holla

Well i’m disappointed mainly because it leaves no one for blackwomen cause latino and whitemen are going for the whitewomen and that’s why it’s so many blackwomen alone with kids and whiteman not gonna date a blackwomen with more than one kid. I like whitemen as friends but i dont date them because i feel like if something goes wrong the N word will come into play. Also all these brothas with money if they didnt have the dollars that they do white girls would not take a second look. blackwomen go for love i’ve dated broke guys before i dont now but all the guys that have money are looking for the white girls. I’ve been at the clubs when the athletes are there and it can be 5 f**kin whitegirls in the whole club they got the rich brothas on lock all in they face so i dont know . i’m sure that theyre some brothas out there that still appreciates the blackwomen i hope anyway.

Yawnnnnnnnnzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz who give a f uck

Like my Mother said to me when i was young..”Baby as long u ain’t gay I don’t care what woman u date”…enough said!!!!!!

I agree with momono3. this is a dumb topic. There are plenty of black women who date outside their race but nobody makes a photo gallery about that. It really pisses me off when people are always saying that black men are always abandoning their families and that’s why there are so many black single mothers in reality there are a lot of white and foreign men doing the same thing in our women.

What a shallow article.

‘Black men know Black women like the back of their hand’. If that was the case, than why arn’t 100% of ‘Black’ couples happy and satisfied?

Not everyone with brown skin speaks the same language, comes from the same economic strata, practices the same religion, eats the same food etc Kobe Bryant grew up abroad and is trilingual. That means he will more than likely bond with someone well-travelled, who speaks one of the several languages he does. Jay-Z is highly driven – he couldn’t date a woman with no goals, he would need someone who works/plays as hard as he does (which he HAS found in Beyonce – a woman with BROWN skin!).

People bond with people over a myriad of qualities. But it doesn’t matter. You can remind people there is only one ‘race’ (the human race). You can remind people that 93% of ‘Black’ men marry other ‘Black’ women. Regardless, the miserable folks who lack any sense of self-worth in themselves, who refuse to love and accept THEMSELVES will always, ALWAYS try to figure out what the other has that they lack. The answer is nothing – except maybe the Other had a sense of self-worth which is why the man found her attractive in the first place. Nothing sexier than a genuinely confident woman (in ANYshade!). Nothing WORST than a nagging woman who is insecure she has to bag out or question everyone else to figure out what’s missing with herself (like the author of this article).

My 2 cents.

P.S. For those who call cross-cultural daters sell-outs? Nah, they’re keeping it real. They’re brave enough to date who THEY want, not be dominated by someone’s else ideas. S**t, plantation mentality still lives in the minds of too many *shakes head*

Exactly kakaronaldo! I have more of a problem with redboned sexy ass blk gay men having sex with other redboned sexy ass blk gay men !! Homosexuality is more of a headache than Interracial dating. What is the point of discussing this issue? Are ppl going to stop dating who they want just because society wants them to? Maybe! but I’ve seen this article before so I don’t know why yall had to re-post it.

MsWILLIAMS39 – you’re comments are truly ignorant. I can honestly say to women like you who are paranoid and believe the world is out to get ‘Black men’ that the MAJORITY of non-Black women are not interested in ‘Black’ men. Most people PERIOD date usually date their own culture because THAT is what they have access to. And from 30 years of life experience spanning 4 countries, most females are just not feeling brothas. Myself? I like all types of men. I could care LESS. But most women I know are not open like I am. They have a set ideal and that is what they pursue.

As far as ‘white’ women trying to look Black? Please. The whole ‘ghetto fabulous’ look is a rip-off of Euro-trash LOL! ‘Black style’ many times is Euro fashions co-opted by gay Black men which is peddled to celebrity Black women. And all the brands are Italian! Prada, D&G – Italian. Louis? French. Coach, Kangol? British. Whole b-boy style is German (Adidas and Puma are German).

Weaves? Korean plastic nails? French pedicures? Contacts? Implants? Most Anglo white women don’t like curves. Now, ETHNIC women? Wooh – Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, Brazilian, Croatian women? We LOVE our curves and our beautiful ETHNIC men love us for them!

Too many women like you have been fed all this BS about ‘white’ women. Yet come to Europe and see who’s biting who’s style. I don’t say that with malice – I’m just giving you a Fashion history lesson. And Euro men like their women ‘womenly’. Come to think of it, that is the reason why brothas in America hit on me so damn much. My walk, my talk, my body, my style, my confidence? It oozes a femininity many times they just don’t FIND in AMERICAN WOMEN REGARDLESS OF CULTURE – PERIOD!!

wow, intresting. `Love knows no boundries’ so goes the old saying, its the inspirating, the manners, the dream the morals, unity in purpose sometime the situation… that create the steam.
Back to question, I love all and I think – Honesty, Determination, sincerity , concern, mutual respect, openess, ambition , hard work an above all true Love, crown it with Godliness whatever to concieve that to mean; remains the magic.
Lets preach oneness and strive to give each other reason to believe in any relationship by our Words and our Deeds.

Yawnzzzzzzzzzzzz who gives a f uck #2 to HB’s overused dried up a ss post been there done that topic

Hb really now come on ma dont you think there are better topics to write about like : “how to become a millionaire without sucking married di ck”

“how not to f uck someone’s husband/wife other than your own”
“so she has a weave whats it to you?”
“no he ain’t sweet he just talks like it”(dont want to get fired for using the “G” word lmaooo)
“Yes, my a ss is big but why the fu ck you looking at it if you dont like it”
“Yes, your a ss will always be called black dont attempt to call it by any other name”
“Yes, my chest is flat and its real”
“Things people do in public that will never get them a dam job”

you know some topics like the ones above lmao

Is Tiger woods even black? He looks chinese or mexican. Or Filipeno not chinese tanned skinned asian dude. Its okay sistas dont even trip let the white girls have all the ugly low-self esteem black men! As long as T.I & Weezy & Iverson & Kenyon Martin ;) ; ) are not dating white women I do not have a problem no si’ree! All da Kanyes of the world, getcha urself a Becky!

lmao @ soveu34 !! I love you girl! I think me & you need to take over HELLO BEAUTIFUL and write up and post some of our own articles! Way more interesting than these. Those were some great topics that I would love to comment on! Either way Im working myself to the top and Im going to take their jobs away from them! lol I just need support! To HB Members: Send me a note if you are down with this, we will start our own column! Each member will get to post a article up every day lmao

MsMerising: You make many of the sociological points that I’ve waited for someone to make. Here’s another, since black men are “stealing” white away from us white men, should we be as drama driven as many of the brothers and sisters who have commented thus far? My point from my comment is, you love who you love. You hang around those people with whom you’re comfortable. The whole business about power struggles aand the social dynamic between black men and black women on one side and white men and white women on the other gets to be too complicated for me. The traits that matter to me as a person: integrity, strong work ethic, education, civility, taking care of your body, setting goals, planning a future, compassion for others, intelligence, ability to get along with others, and many others drive my choices in friends, associates and a soul mate. My group of friends in my life has been a mixed bag with regard to race, creed, color, and socio-economic background. My black friends have found this discussion very interesting and passionate in the past. Some things which have come out of the discussions: black women are full of drama, can’t live without it; black men are dogs who don’t get what monogamy is about (commitment); black women don’t support black men; black men expect a black women to take care of them (pay the bills). Unfortunately, I have seen too many examples of each of these statements. Brothers I played ball with would always be commiserating about another brother, who’s “ol’ lady” left him. Ask why, and I get, ” ’cause he got caught with another women in the bed….” Of course I laugh along with everyone else, but I also ask why would he do his lady like that? Then comes the “she’s not taking care of his needs”, “she don’t support him, etc, etc. and there’s too much drama at the crib”. I bet, with that stuff happening. Talk with her about it and get the other side of the argument. This stuff happens when one or the other party, or both are irresponsible. In this case, I wanted to beat the smack out of Larry (not his real name), and tell him to grow up. But he never had a mother or father to raise him, just a part time aunt and the street. So what can you do? There’s just too much of this all over. It happens with white folks as well, in places like Appalachia, WV, or little Appalachia, in NH, where the poverty levels are well over 50%. I don’t know what the answer really is. All I can do is keep my kids on the right path, love my wife, and treat everyone else with courtesy and respect. I got lots of play from the sisters in college, because, to hear them put it, I was the only one treating them like they wanted to be treated, the guys were just woofin’. Same thing in the Army, until I married. I’m nothing special, but I’m not stupid either. If I see what doesn’t work with a women, I’m not going there. I’ll go figure out what will work and stick to that. And when I didn’t know, I asked them. That may have looked “silly” to the guys, but I never lacked for a date anytime either. In this regard the solution to the issues between black and white men and women is simple. Play nice. But when it isn’t working, people start looking for reasons and then theories come out the woodwork. The stuff I’m talking about though, has no basis in anything racial at all. It’s about common human dignity, decency, and compassion. Those doesn’t come in a color, but they do come from the heart.

Wayne Brady’s wife is super white.

HB-there you go again with the race sh!t. Im starting to think this net is NOT ran by any BLACKS…its always something dealing with black men dating white or lightskin women,with ya’ll. Why is that? We know that BLACK men has FU(KED white women since they came here(WHITE PEOPLE)and you want to say or try to make us think its something new? Please try-why do all people date outside there race or do black women date other race?

Black women are damn near given black men away, and whyte gurlz r like “We’ll take’em” When a black man tries 2 holla @ a black gurl, its like filling out an application. We cant talk wit slang, cuz we c** off uneducated. But if we talk proper, we c** off as too soft. But if a whyte guy approaches a blak gurl using slang, she’ll think he’s thoro. If he speaks proper, she’ll try 2 get sum $ out of him. If a bluk guy messes wit a whyte Gurl, blak gurlz call him a sell out. But if a blak gurl mess wit a whyte boi, no 1 says nutn. Y iz dat? Black women act like we owe dem sutn. And truthfully, I didn’t even know, dat we only belong 2 only black women. I thought love iz color blind, so therefore, every1 has a prefernce. I personally prefer spanish gurlz. Holla @ me

and 1 more thing Tiger Wood is NOT black…he said,it out of his own mouth so why put him up there and some of the women you put up are not all white either. PLUS just look at the BLACK men you in your LIST.

Black men love all women. When black men become more successful sometimes they become more exposed to white and other races of women. This is also the case with black women. When they become more successful they have more access to other races of men and sometimes marry them. Black women just seem to be more sensitive to black men being involved with white women, and focus more attention on it. But I never hear black women complaining about black women who date and marry white men. That not a threat to their dating pool.

Compatibility is the key to any relationship between a man and a woman……I would like to holla at any H-O-T-T-I-E-S avalible here, and I’m not gangster, thug or any of the stereotypical bulls**t type people want to paint us….not married, no kids, no drugs, got a job, but becomming a cartoonist, just want to love and be loved….. freaks are optional ;)

OK I UNDERSTAND WHAT ALL OF YOU ALL ARE SAYING NOW LET ONE OF THEM BLACK MEN CALL OR TOUCH THE WHITE WOMEN IN THE WRONG WAY OH THEY DON’T EVEN HAVE TO TOUCH THEM THEY CAN JUST SAY I BEEN HIT BY HIM HIS ASS GONE FOR LIFE OR HER FATHER WILL KILL HIM EVEN IF HE DIDN’T DO NOTHING AND WHITE WOMEN CHEAT MORE THAN THE BLACK WOMEN ANYWAY AND THEY CAN BE EVIL WHITE EYE DEVIL THATS HOW I FEEL

WATS UPJAZZWATCH MY KIND OF MAN YES NO DRUGS DON’T SMOKE OH I DON’T DON’T NONE OF THAT EITHER I LOVE MY BLACK MEN I DON’T LOOK AT WHITE GUYS LIKE THAT I DON’T KNOW WHY OH YES I DO I LOVE MY BLACK MEN THE GOOD ONES THAT DON’T SETTLE FOR LESS LIKE ME

Justdontplay, loves a affctionate, funny. strong woman who like a guy who about to become a cartoonist and have his stuff syndicated soon….like a a woman with nice eyes and could rock a thong or a bikini-freak optional :)

Justdon’t, you’re bout the White wpman thing..some sisters do that. too, in fact the ones where I live asre chickenhead, whack hoes who likes to know how much money i got or want to use me and are B-U-T-T-A-F-A-C-E-S…justdont, you sound like a H-O-T-T-I-E……

Who here is straight off the slave ship raise your hand! Is Tiger Woods even black? I love it when sisters come in here with their light skin, straight permed hair and started pre-qualifying who is black based on cosmetics looks, when half of yall chicks in here can pass for a nicely tanned Becky your damn selves. So what the brother looks Asian (you said Chinese and I seriously doubt you can tell the difference between Chinese or any other Asian individual). My two little girls are half Asian and guess what? They have the same texture hair “naturally” as you do but without a flat iron and they’re not black but YOU are? LOL. Oh, the beauty of black ignorance.

If i had it my way id be polygamous LOLOLOL Yes trying to meet and date a sista is like going through an applications process…..They’ll make you go through hell just to see their face esp when youre a gentleman. But when that thug comes they welcome them with open arms, let him into their house, he eats all her food, fcks up her house dont clean up, and even molests her children! You cant be yourself with a sista! You have to be in tip top shape, be a millionaire and pretty much be a slave to whatever the blackwoman wants. But if a white guy comes she’ll do anything he says! This is my observation and sistas you know this is true.

The reason why blackmen go to women of other races is simple, they are more humble than sistas and dont give us a hard time like you so called blackwomen do. Ive seen white women the pretty kinds date all kinds of white men because i know that they didnt date because of perfection they are dealing with the heart. A lot of black women dont date from the heart or personality they date a blackman from these criteria: Money, appearance, thugness and or relationship with Jesus Christ (If you say Allah, buddha or the horoscope black women will run, even if they are not hard core sanctified types)I dont know why black women make this issue so big of a deal. White men have been dating/raping/marrying/molesting you since Thomas Jefferson and you ladies say nothing! Black man finally gets the freedom to even speak to a white woman and you yap your mouths, why? Selfishness? Denial that you aint on your job as a woman? Lets get to the root of the problem!

Something I ran across on youtube. I’m just putting this out here to go along with the discussion. Look at all three and come up with your own conclusion. Peace…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-AugKnRQx48&feature=PlayList&p=308B3FBB75B43046&index=0&playnext=1

this article’s retarded and probably dated…it’s 2010, who cares about interracial dating anymore, you date whoever you want. Black men have their problems, black women have their problems…the same complaint comes in year after year after year…nothing brand new…the Slaveship argument is just as retarded as the ghetto argument. What’s next, why do black women date Latinos?

You know I was trying to write an answer to this question then I decided to read some of the comments first. However after reading CRAMMASTERS’ comments I decided that there was no need for me to add anything else except to say that to be so young this young man has great wisdom and insight into the situation. I agree with you, CRAMMASTERS, 100%. As one who was involved in the civil rights movement in the 60s and 70s although I was not sprayed down with water hoses nor biten by police dogs I can definitely identify with those black women and men who were. Now you can’t erase the past nor can you live in it, but you can definitely learn from it. When I think of young men such as Emmitt Teal (goggle him if you do not know who he was) and others who were, as Nina Simone’s song entitled “Strange Fruit”, lynched and/or castrated for just looking wrongly in the direction of a white woman it really saddens me that in this day and time CRAMMASTERS’ article reeks of the truth. Thank you, young man, and I will definitely print your comments.

Djfreezrock(idk if I spelled your name wrong), but not every black woman is like that. U would be surprised how many women, black women, out there that don’t want a thug. That will support he man, in my case, husband, and we can grind and hustle together. True, there are tons of black women that are what u discribed, but not all of us. If u haven’t found you a down a$$ black sister, then I think u should keep searching. Oh, and please believe me, there are tons of white, pr, Mexican, Chinese, Japanese, ethopian, etc., etc., women out there that are also just like the black women that u are talking about too. So, don’t get it twisted, they just don’t talk about it and put it out there like they do some black women.

Some of us black women want and need a black man that wants something out of life. Some black women would prefer to have a strong black man that’s in college, college degree, don’t have to be the finest man in the world, or have all the money, diamonds, and gifts to offer. Some of us black women want to be equal with her soulmate, her lover, her best friend, her husband. Being rich, we already are. I don’t need money to be happy. I don’t need a big muscle, c**k diesel dude to be with. My husband is a good black man, and if any b!t*h think she stepping to mine, quickly will that, a$$ get stompped on. I don’t care if me and my husband going through rocky times. I know what I have, a good black man and he knows what he has, a good strong black woman that has his back no matter what.

I am Luda’s, “Contagious” that he raps about and I am that black woman that’s smart, no my place in my marriage, successful, professional, a do what I do in bed, take care of things in/outside of the house, all that and more. However, u will not disrespect me, try to get over on me, or run me by telling me what I’m gone do and not do and in return, I treat you the same way u treat me, but a little better when it comes to the bedroom, cooking or even having fun.

So, see we are out here, you just haven’t found ur black woman.

Well, I’m an EOD (Equal Opportunity Dater); if we hit it off, and there’s some positive chemistry, then her race isn’t gonna matter.

I won’t put artificial limits on my dating life.

well I’m going to say that most of the black women are messed up in the head…..an yes trying to go out with them is like filling out a damn application…..on top of that…..most of the black women are not marriage material at all……I don’t see what the problem is with black men dating outside of their race…..my dad is married to an asian woman and I consider her to be like my mum…..but black women are not marriage material at all….especially in philly, pa…..this is why I’d prefer dating anyone other than an african american women cause most of them are up to no good and like the thugs, gangsters, or people who aren’t about anything….and they don’t like it when you are yourself, and stand out from the crowd and on top of that making something of your life….so i don’t see the problem with interracial dating……

I just posted a poll about this on my BP page check it out!

Blackplanet.com/thesuitelife

There is an underlying principle that has been forgotten about. This principle is so self-conscious so subliminal, we don’t think about it but it exists in our everyday culture and it is as abundant and widespread as our source of air. This thing, it’s called the indoctrination of white supremacy. Please don’t jump to conclusions, I am not a hater nor am I some radical speaking out of pain and frustration. I am just speaking about the truth in reality.

I am not going to talk about the doctrine itself but just one of the effects.

Once you subscribe to the doctrine willingly or unwillingly, the way you perceive reality changes. Simply put your value system and what you see as excellence or success.

It is commonly known whether you admit it or not that, white people have a monopoly on success. I’m not saying that only whites can be successful, I’m just saying that subscribing to Eurocentric culture whether by their customs, the language, or just their ethics and religion, is a good way to have some sort of success. That statement is very debatable and flexible, I didn’t go into extreme detail but let me continue.

In this country if you want to be successful or if you want to be associated with success you have to incorporate white culture or even white friends into your life. ( I’m not saying that is a bad thing but for those of us who are successful I mean really successful you can’t avoid this) Here’s the proof, whether it is Tiger Woods, Michael Jordan, Bruce Lee or even Frederick Douglass. These people all glorified white culture and to them happiness was to be completely integrated with it. They never spoke out against Eurocentric culture, because Eurocentric culture made them popular and famous. ( All of these prominent people are famous for doing things that are a part and associated in Eurocentric cultures) Michael Jordan is who he is because what he accomplished but Michael Jordan has more white fans and black. White people make Michael Jordan rich. ( Just by having Association with success, and his mind he is associating success of being white. This challenge basketball coach who helped them into the NBA is why his NBA coach who made him Michael Jordan was white, all of the endorsements are white owned companies,) You can call up any major record label and take a poll on their major Rap platinum recording artist in you can find out that white people made Wu Tang, Dr Dre, Eminem, Snoop Dogg, rich.

So if a person believes that success comes with being associated with whites, then it makes sense that if you fully want to be successful or excepted into the culture than it is only natural for you to be attracted and to marry white woman. We in this country have been taught to prejudice to pre-judge.
How many of us when we see a Mexican working in a factory or a pizza parlor wonder if they are here illegally? how many of wonder what we see a black man on the street late-night if he is going to rob us or even if he has been in jail? how many of us wonder what we see a white man dressed in a suit how many businesses he owns or what kind of luxury car he drives?

Also this also goes back to slavery Willie Lynch on how to break a slave. They devised a way to break down the black family and community permanently. Has anyone ever wondered how could a plantation full of slaves not have the power to overcome their masters? mental slavery. Slavery was reinforced with religion and self-hatred. Many believed that after purging themselves for being born black that, and have been they would be made pure white,

And speaking briefly about slavery, there was approximately 6 stages of slavery. The capture, The March to the Sea, the dungeon, middle passage, arrival, and the seasoning, The most important stage was the seasoning stage. Here slave masters mentally and physically abused the capture Africans until they were broken. In the seasoning stage Africans became African Americans and they fully accepted bondage.
This was the birthplace of American white supremacy…

Don’t get me wrong, color prejudice didn’t start in America, and even today there is a caste system in India which is based solely on color prejudice.

But back to this country. Blackman who lived in poor neighborhoods grew up wishing for nothing more than to escape. In the ghetto children wish and think about living a fantasy Eurocentric lifestyle. A fancy house, fancy clothes, fancy cars, and fancy women. Me personally, and growing up as a black man in this country, I found very little references through the various forms of media to educate me about my historic legacy or even positive images or even imagery about black people in black woman. I can’t tell you of any beautiful black woman on television in the 80s and 90s? I’m not saying they didn’t exist I’m just saying that there was an onslaught info imagery, and images of positive and beautiful White people. O grew up thinking that white was right and I has an infatuation with white woman.

I am not saying I am better than anyone else because even today I am still plagued with the belief that white is right. When I glance and stare at other woman, I find myself lancing and staring at women with a lighter complexion. Lighter Hispanics, Asians and white woman. I glance at black girls but not as much. What I do this I am reminded both mentally and spiritually that I am not allowing myself full access to my true identity.( Long story)

But again, I grew up having infatuations with Meg Ryan, Jenny McCarthy, and Heather Locklear just to name a few. It wasn’t until I became an adult male and I couldn’t decipher the truth for myself that I started to change my value system around.

My personal feelings are, in life we do what we must so we can do want..

if someone wants something explained further contact me

Columbus Short goes with a white woman to lol! Is Denzel the only one who didn’t sell out! lol! I don’t even let the subject get to me anymore like it used to,people are gonna do what they want at the end of the day.

This article is whack. People are people, we all have a preference and we all want to be loved point blank. Articles like this play on people emotions so BP and HB find something with a little bit more meaning.

eyre420……you’re probably one of these black women that likes to play with people’s emotions and is not marriage material at all……you look ghetto, and you look like a person that likes the bad guys(thugs gangsters, etc)…..so seriously shut the hell up

I think that woman is a downgrade from Kimora for Russel Simmons.

Well first off in the beginning black women treated me like s**t!!! I’m sorry Point Blank Bottom line END -OF- STORY!!!!!!!!!!!! Because so many of them lusted over the BAD BOY And treated the articulate black man like s**t!!! and still do all over the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA and I don’t see and end coming to this ignorant bulls**t.They chose the THUG/GANGSTA/DRUG DEALERS,HOODLUM/AND ANYTHING ELSE THAT’S NO DAMN GOOD ABOVE US.And when those kind of men f**k over them they want to give us their f**king back-lashes of their own stupid decision. I’m not their f**king scapegoat and I’m intend not to be.They chose those crazy niggas now they had babies all over the place, you have black women in their early 30′s that are GrandMothers!!!! so you know they were w**ring!! When I was coming along their ass gave me a hard time but kept it moving until I found my first wife in Germany WHO IS WHITE. and I spent my 4 years there with her. The Black Woman Never wanted to give me that kind of time. I Brought My GERMAN wife home to meet my family for the first time. Everyone was cool except my mother who was another black woman who believes black is suppose to date or marry only black. but I had to block that out because I loved my wife and I’m not gonna let her destroy that.Me and my wife had an understanding and we loved each other But I had to combat that stigma my mother was spirilaing up. She couldn’t help me with my problem anyway She was just being ridiculous and controlling, and as for the rest of the black women when they saw us had an attitude also.One said to me ” you don’t care about your black sisters?” I was like “what is that suppose to mean just you see me here with my wife and she’s not black. The black woman pushed me off in the past!” She had an attitude but these women never wanted to have anything to do with me because I wasn’t trouble and that angered me.I don’t know what to say about these women and Plus I met black women that is independent that Still gave me this kind of feed back and one will Act like they are too HIGH SOCIETY FOR A BLACK MAN and dis a brother for a white man so why will the black woman get upset when a black man go for a white woman. IT’S JUST THAT THEY CALL THEMSELVES TRYING TO SCAR YOU I DON’T KNOW IF THEIR MOTHER,OR THEIR GRANDMOTHER, OR THEIR GREAT GRANDMOTHER TAUGHT THEM THIS OR WHAT BUT I KNOW I’M SICK AND TIRED OF IT.

I think white women are more s**tty to me an sexual free because me I’m not into the whole so called good women crap. Im not into love just sex that’s why I can get with a s**tty white girl an if I can find a black s**tty female that’s even better because I get extra booty on top. Its s**ts of all races in the female species an I love them not just white women. I’m not getting my heart broken or feeling hurt over no love crap I into white s**ts etc.

Black or White humans are facinated by the opposite. So lets gets passed the conpiracy theory and be real people. Short dudes like tall chicks just as black dudes love white chicks. WTF

Most black women have been brainwashed into GETTING THE MONEY AND NOT THE MAN and that’s why so many are money hungry and run behind these men who chase the fast the money. the temptation was there but they didn’t have to follow it that’s their fault (the ones that did that) and always wanted to play with your mind when it comes to wanting to engage in a relationship because so many of them do it.It’s like if you’re not a f**king hoodlum you have to be a super athlete. Nothing in the middle that falls beneath the cracks,not only that they’re two busy tending to someone elses f**king business and in their relationship and if she doesn’t like that person or doesn’t like the way he or she looks they’ll try to manipulate the damn girl into leaving her lover when there is nothing wrong with the person it just pure jealousy or they’ll slander the person out or Blackball the guy out of trying to get together with her friend. BLACK PEOPLE ARE DESTROYING THEIR OWN ABLILITY TO REPRODUCE THEMSELVES

No wonder black men don’t mess with black women with the ignorant shyt i’ve read in here from these so called “sistas.” I date whoever i fall in love with and I’ve personally dated black men and white men and Latin men. Now I see why black women can’t hold on to a real black man other than some mumble mouth doo-rag wearing gangsta wanna be and have the damn nerve to come in here and talk about who is black and who is not. D_Sean, perfectly expressed it. I have girlfriends who put brothers through a damn interrogation but will f*** any old ashy thug ni**a with a heartbeat. Yall broads are hypocrits. MsMerising, you broke it down and was 100% correct. 100th_Monkey, you are always dropping the shyt that is factual but ignorant people still wanna run their mouths. I’ve never met anyone who wants to be the victim more than black women. Everything is everyone else’s fault. Instead of looking in the mirror and at yourself, you want to blame white women like they have some supernatural powers and that’s the ‘only’ reason black men flock to them. Has it ever occurred to you dumb chicks that maybe it’s you? And let me say one more thing, this whole thing about black men being intimidated by strong black women is a load of crap. Intimidated by what? What do we have that’s so damn scary to black men? Because you speak your mind? You’re confusing being strong with running your damn mouth. Anybody can roll their eyes and roll their neck, they aint strong – that’s just attitude. So while yall broads are busy with you “attitude” black men are dating other women from other ethnic groups because black women has fallen out of compatibility with black men. And if you feel that skin color is enough to keep black men wanting black women then yall are some ignorant chicks. Black men, date who you want. It’s better to be satisfied and happy with someone not of your race then with some miserable blame gaming chickenhead just fulfill your “imaginary” obligation to your color.

well 95% of the black women are full of crap……and to plotthickens….your girlfriends are a prime example of black women that are full of crap

Its funny…human flesh is only 1/8th of an inch thick, but its amazing how so many “strong” black women can’t work past that fact. A man is going to be with who he wants, regardless of what someone thinks…that’s what makes him a MAN. Maybe if sisters would stop trying to show how “independent” they are and learn to turn it off sometimes, they wouldn’t have a reason to be annoyed at a brother who prefers another type of woman. There’s something to e said for “diversity” sisters…learn to accept it in US as well as others.

What the hell! I know black women that talk a million dollars worth of sh-t about a black man dating a white chick. The same ladies are constantly dogging the brothers that try to holla at them or even their friends.Hell I date whomever I want, but I love Jamaican women. I like being with strong confident women but if she’s weak and attractive hell I’ll make it do what it do ( black, white, latino, asian, etc…) Why is it your biz who I screw as long as it dont interfere with your life. Damn people get over it. It’s like prostitution and drugs, it aint going away .

An independent type of woman is what we need to look in to having. We don’t need the black woman that is soley attracted to ignorance and is seeking somebody to only depend on. If a black woman can do for herself …and myself do for me, then us together will do for each other.

Good women are generally hard to find these days…………..So if i encounter a good woman,and she just happens to be of another race i wont mind at all.People,especially the bored and bitter will always have s**t to say.Like people in good interracial relationships give a good damn.lol maybe they should try dating outside too,and then make a fair comparison.In the mean time they all can just shut the f**k up!

show me a black woman dose not want something more then you can give her and i will show you a happy black man. see black women alway want more never 50/50 with them all about what can you do for me not for what we can do together

Good women are scarce as it is………………so If i meet a woman that i consider wife material,and she just happens to be of another race,i would still date her……Why?

1.Because it works for me….

2.Thats not anyone elses business and i wouldnt give a good damn who thinks what about that.

Race really shouldnt be an issue if youre lucky enough to encounter a quality person,but if youre that picky,i say Good Luck!

It’s the Strong Black Woman Syndrome that ends up hurting them more than helping them. I feel that if you have to advertise that you’re a strong black woman, than perhaps it’s more of you convincing yourself of the strong front than anything else. No other ethnic group of women are so preoccupied with such self convincing affirmations than black women. Latin women don’t go around saying they’re strong Latin women. You don’t hear, “I’m a strong Korean woman” or “they just can’t handle a strong British woman.” However, when it comes to African American women, there’s this constant fear of showing vulnerability that gives birth to this black female condition that they feel is the source of their greatest strength and the black man’s greatest weakness.

I know a good strong black woman when I see one. I see my mother and my sisters and my aunts and it never has to be said by them, much less said to justify why black men date white women. I think black women are there own worst enemy when it comes to relationships with black men. Are black women too boisterous, too loud, too aggressive, to much attitude? I think that’s relative and depends on the sister. However I do think many black women lack one important quality, balance! I think there needs to be a balance amongst her many dispositions. A woman can be aggressive but also needs to be passive. She can be loud but must also know when to be quiet. She can be boisterous but must learn to also be humble. The problem is balance. Today’s black female has been duped by the very society she claims is responsible for driving her black man into the arms of white women (the white society). The same society has convinced her that it’s ok to emasculate her black man, to be aggressive towards him, to be promiscuous around him, to stand up to her king and question him, meanwhile . . . white society does not tolerate that behavior from their own white women.

Sisters, black men are not as intimidated and easily frightened as you may think. Remember that while the Civil Rights movement was sparked by a black woman, it was campaigned and championed by black men in the adverse face of white injustice. Why now would we, or should we be intimidated by our black women? It’s almost like it’s a need for black women to cast the illusion that they are strong to justify and compensate for their personal social shortcomings. By me have dated white women does not in any way, shape, or form mean that I do not love my black women or that I have contracted some mythical white man’s disease. It simply means that in 2010, I have evolved into a being that sees people at a much deeper level. The fact that some people have not yet reached that level of personal evolution is their own issue, their own journey, and their own problem to figure out. But I promise you black women that it’s not because you are intimidating to me.

Stop shooting yourselves in the foot by perpetuating this myth. If some of you were really as, “strong” as you claim, you wouldn’t be in here arguing this issue. You’d feel comfortable enough to know that you possess your superhero powers to keep your black man from jumping the fence. That’s is if you have a black man. If you don’t, then perhaps you should re-evaluate yourselves. I love black women but I feel that black women are so stuck on “black female strength” that they are forgetting what it’s like to be the strength of black men. In which case, you’re fighting a losing battle ladies. One in which you cannot win unless you BALANCE!

I’m really sorry to see this is what this world has come to. I do not see what difference the outside color of a person is. We should see beyond the color and look at the inner person, be they whit, black or whatever. I am a black woman and have dated men of other races due to the fact that I could not find a black man who would treat me the way I was born to be treated. I do not consider myself to be a spoiled princess or or queen, but my father told me to always carry myself as a black queen that deserves a black king. I’ve always tried to have a 50/50 relationship with black men, treat him the way I want to be treated and give him the respect that I deserve. I’ve only experienced some black men (not ALL) who start out being strong, claim they want a strong strong woman (I’m not overbearing), but I will not carry the weight of a grown man and he just sit back and not do his part either. I could go on and on about my black men, but the real deal is that this also applies to other race of me too. I say love who you love no matter what the skin color is. This is not slavery time, and when this world ends, there will only be one race, that is the human race (with all mixture of races)!

I kno it’s prolly been said already before (don’t feel like scrolling thru 239 comments ta see) but most of those “white” women pictured aren’t even white? BP jus tryin ta stir up some s**t….

100th Monkey, again–very good post…you touched on many valid points. Much of what you said is what I have heard from black men. I am sure you already know that this toughness that black women have is from generations of single-parent households in the black community; usually, it is the female who is in charge, who is working because the male has been disenfranchised, imprisoned, etc. Thus, these women learn to take on the lead role and this behavior is learned, passed down to the next generation. Now, I am not saying that this is in every case, but by and large it happens.

I don’t have much more time to write, but will try to comment in more detail later. I myself have dated men from other races and have found some interesting differences. But again, I gotta run.

#1 seeing white women ALL THE TIME in tv,movies etc.

alot of us got low self esteem.
example: light-skin, good (straighter) hair, lighter eyes = better.

and get mad if you want but white women, like asian and latin women generally come off as MORE FEMININE than black women.

most men want a woman who is on his team.
NOT a woman who is trying to compete with him.

but its all love for the sistas (who KNOW who they are, who love and respect themselves, and are trying to go back to being their natural/true selves)

end of the day though, I really could care less who the next person is in a relationship with.

*sigh*

I think this is some real bulls**t! How dare you people sit back, and talk about black women! Ya MAMA’s black you basterds! A black woman is the natural beauty QUEEN! of the earth in her own beautiful tones of skin. Whether her hair is nappy or straight, long, or short, it doesn’t change the beauty. The real problem is men don’t appreciate the black sister because we just don’t settle for the bulls**t like a white woman does! I went their, since ya wanna go there!The way you down and degrade a black woman would you want someone to treat ya mother like that? Hell, no because you would be ready to kick some ass and you know it! I’m a black nubian QUEEN, myself, and I don’t know not of any woman no matter what race does not love money! Every woman loves money you stupid asses! White woman settle for the unreal bulls**t, and don’t argue, so you brothers put goldylocks on a pedstal .Never forget where you came from out of a black woman’s p$ssy! I’m feeling tupac’s song Dear Mama: Because you niggas ought to appreciate the black woman, not trash them.

Well here’s my theory…white women and women of other races are more docile. They are more than willing to accept the foolishness that most black men spew out. Also, white women are very liberated sexually. There’s not much that they won’t do. So, of course black men love this. Black women are more strong willed and have a greater self-respect for themselves. A black woman will hold a black man accountable for his actions, and it’s hard for most black men to deal with this. It amounts to self hatred on the parts of black men. They’ve been raised by strong figures like their mothers and grandmothers. They’ve been surrounded by their aunts and sisters. These women have cared for them, nurtured them emotionally, physically and spiritually, but they have the nerve to act as if a black women does not measure up, as if she’s not good enough. So, I don’t care about the Tiger Woods, OJ’s, and countless others who are traitors to their race. When they get in trouble..I say good, maybe they’ll evenually learn a lesson. Sorry, that was wishful thinking. As a single black women, I refuse to even consider dating or having a relationship with a man that has dated, would date or is dating outside of his race. What’s really funny is when you see these men out…for instance in the grocery store, they walk proudly, and flaunt their country bumpkin, unattractive white woman as if to intimadate you. I’m so sick of these black men who have forgotten about the history of Emmett Till and senseless lynchings in this country. Black women count yourselves lucky, who wants to be with a man that harbors hate for his race?

regardless of what race at the end of the day he still going to go out there and cheat example tiger woods he didnt married a black woman but he still went out there so i say to all u women out there who deals with black men dont be gas as they say cuz what you wont do the next one will

THATS A GOOD QUESTION! BESIDES BEING A FREAK AND WILLING TO SUBMIT, I REALLY DONT KNOW WHY BLACK DUDES LIKE WHITE CHICKS!

Year after year, someone comes out with this stupid azz question. It does not matter what race a woman is as long as she’s from the HUMAN RACE. If you fall for another color love them just as would your own.

Wow, really Promisemetoo? You’re a black nubian Queen? Where is Nubia located? And what kingdom do you govern? You’re a queen and then you come on here cursing and showing your a$$, using the N word and talking about black woman’s pu$$y? LMAO. How you gonna be a queen in one breath and then use the N word in the next? You jack a$$. Yall fake a$$ chicks need to stop it with the “I’m a queen” crap. That went out in the 60′s when it was necessary to empower black people. It’s the chicks like you that give the rest of us a bad rep. Brothers see me and they automatically think I’m that broad like you. You know what, either contribute to the discussion with something practical and sensible like everyone else -whether you agree with them or not or just shut the hell up. Go back and listen to your Tupac.

I think alot of black men look a having a white woman as a symbol of status. Like having what mos of the world wants. Lets face it, asian, indian, latino, … men of all races seem to have a large number of their groups obsessed with white women. White women are all over the media and have been made the standard of beauty. White features such as lighter skin, lighter eyes, smaller noses, straighter hair have become the de-facto standard of what is considered attractive.

Rich and successful men want what is considered the creme of the crop in women … and being white adds alot of points, even if he chick is almost a nobody. A sista needs to be an actor or someone well known or MIXED to get alot of play from the rich black men I think.

Orinreborn2, you brought up a VERY interesting point; “Lets face it, asian, indian, latino, … men of all races seem to have a large number of their groups obsessed with white women. ” I agree with you on this, as I have seen this fascination first hand. It is not just an issue soley amongst black people. Remember, India had been under British rule for many years and I am sure has had some influence on what is percieved to be beautiful. In fact, about five years ago, I visited a message board on a site for east indians; one of the topics was skin color and how beauty is defined in Indian culture, particularly in Indian (I point this out because there are people of east Indian descent who have lived in other parts of the world for generations). It was very interesting to learn how Indians with lighter eyes, skin color and who looked more european were generally considered more attractive. This is not to say that all posters felt this way, but again–it brings to light that the fascination with “whiter is better” is not specific to black culture.

TO ORINREBORN2, HAVING A WHITE CHICK DONT MAKE YOU THE CREME OF THE CROP ROUND MY WAY, FOLX GONE LOOK AT YOU LIKE YOU CRAZY!

As a black woman with many white friends..I am amazed at how sometimes my friends throw themselves at black men… they have even said they frequent black clubs on purpose because they know they will get the most attention…black men can not resist them and the fact that it only takes a little attention and they are on them… but the mere fact that if Tiger Woods did not relish the drama black women bring he sure picked some groopies who have brought him nothing but drama…Now everyone has there hand out and are getting paid including his wife.. goes to show you should not set one race above the other.. it will come back and bite you in the ass..

why does it seriously matter / are we only strapped down to dating our own

damn makes us sound like barn animals….oh the carrots cant touch the broccoli/man please/grow up slavery is over and its ok to date even marry the white folk/ yall make me wanna go be rebelious and go marry me a white woman right now

One has to keep in mind that, white women was off limits for so long, I mean black men didn’t openly hook up with women until after the 70′s and now adays its nothing to hook up with certain white women. I ain’t going to lie I’m attracted to white women but, I’m attracted to all women. beauty is in the eye of the beholder but If I were to answer the question I would jst state that, something was off limits for so long, and now ya can somewhat put ya hands on it…..y not indulge

damn skippy im international

buffet means decisions and if i want to eat something different than you then deal with it…..stickin us with a racist/sexist outlook like that mix babies make beautiful people

Ignorant BLACK MEN WILL NEVER LEARN. Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it. Someone had the nerve to say,”Slavery is over”? Wow, ignorance has taken its’ toll.

I’ve also noticed that often the white women that these black men are with are not striking or as attractive as a sista. I have seen black men with some real beast, and it’s hilarious. It’s like negroe please, and they have the nerve to act like they have a prize. I’ve also noticed that some of these women have very racist attitudes, but they love them some black men. When I say that white women will do anything, that’s exactly what I mean…let your imagination run wild. I happened to check out oneof the groups here on blackplanet for black men and white women and I was repulsed by the topic of conversation. It was all about swallowing, and other gutter acts. White women have no problem being a porn star. I had a co-worker who was white who paid her boyfriends child support, purchased his clothing, purchased him a car…whatever he needed she provided while he sat at home chilling all day. Now black women, you already know…it’s not happening, we don’t put up with it. Stupid black men…take a look at most of these pages of black men on the site…oh honey, they are having a ball trolling for white women. Sickening!

lol @ all the jealous black women ranting and raving… step your game up hoes, then nobody can take ur man.

If it is true love then I see nothing wrong with it, but the problem is that 95% of the interracial couples that i know are disfunctional couples, one person in those relationships are always cheating on the other, or the man is beating her cause he knows a sista aint going to put up with that. Bottom line is I dare any black man (that has a white woman) to tell your best friend (if hes black also) to make a play for her and i bet that it wont take no more than a day before she will be up in bed with him…Also look at the interracial couples that you see up in church, only 2 or 3 couples there because they are mostly about being wild and worldly. So men if you want a woman that everybody has had and that everybody can have then….GO FOR IT :-)

I THINK ITS MORE ATTITUDE THEN ANYTHING ELSE AND MOST BROTHERS JUST GET TIRED OF THE FIGHTS OVER NOTHING THAT LEADS TO MORE FIGHTING,AND A SISTA WILL NEVER THROW IN THE TOWEL ON SOMETHING AS SILLY AS A DINNER DATE THAT THE TWO COULD’NT AGREE ON.MOST BLACK MEN SEE IT AS NOTHING MORE THAN A POWER STRUGGLE(LIKE LIL’KIM SAID P.M.S.)POWER/MONEY/AND SEX AND WHO TRIES TO RUN THAT IN THE BLACK HOUSEHOLD MORE SO THAN THE BLACK WOMAN!!!!!

@100th_monkey i’m not sure what you mean when you mention australia?? do you not think the black people of this country “australia” were slaves and are now refugees in their own country @100th_monkey, children taken from their mother’s breast to be taught how to behave like a white person because only then would you be considered to be half-human, flogged/punished for speaking your own languauge. australia the country where the indigenous people were categorised as part of the “flora and fauna” up until 1967 when we finally got the vote. where our mothers were raped, our warriors castrated and watched as they bled to death and our babies buried in the sand up to the neck so the white man could use their heads for “polo” practise. i really dont care who wants to love who but from the perspective of a black indigenous australian woman, i believe only a black man, from any part of the planet, has the depth to understand me on a cultural/historical level. we start of with a common understanding of growing up and living black no matter the country.

For those black folks who think race doesn’t matter, just remember those words…

The next time you complain about the lack of black unity
And the poor quality of life in the black community
Because your black azz has no protection or immunity
From the rogue policeman’s reign of cruelty

As they shoot BM like dogs in the street
Remember those words: race doesn’t matter

The next time you have to go to the white man for a job, with your hat in hand,
And your black azz can’t get a $10 business loan to start a lemonade stand
And you lose your home due to predatory loan men
And you get stopped for driving while black without white skin immunity.

Remember those words: race doesn’t matter

When a black man can’t get a job even with a college degree
But a white man with a criminal record gets a job like he’s crime-free
And you can’t get no respect as a black man
And even the white female who grabs her purse at the sight of you understands
That every smart EVERY MAN on this planet has a PLAN
Because it’s HIS JOB to care of his women and children on his OWN land

Remember these words: race doesn’t matter

When your black azz can’t catch a break
And you wonder how you can stop an empty stomach ache
And you look back and remember who was there
When your black azz was little more than a tiny pooh bear
Because the next face you’ll see in your mind’s eye
Is a black woman with a brown face and a big smile
And in your darkest days, you’ll recognize YOUR OWN
And, brothers, your black azz better pray,
That our foolish ways have NOT turned the BW’s heart to stone

So, it’s time to wise up, my brothers,
Or be prepared to pay
Because the day of God’s reckoning ain’t that far away
And your black azz better get down on your knees and pray
That God will take mercy on the BM’s dishonorable ways
Because instead of protecting our women and children

Our crazy azzes went off to play
the same damn foolish games
With non-black females who don’t give a damn
About our culture, problems, or issues
When we’re forced to take a stand
It’s a black thing, baby,
An Asian or white female just can’t understand
All she can do is raised more confused black children
With no racial identity
So don’t count on those kids or their mothers
When it’s crunch time for black unity

So remember my words in this little ditty
A dishonorable black man
In God and man’s eyes
Will be shown NO PITY

Peace
crammasters

This is all my opinion nothing that I say is a law.

I personally on no account would date a white man, or a brother who finds interest in white women.

Why?

Because my ancestors were raped and physically abused by amass of Europeans during slavery times and even today this carries on. Yes, this still has effect on the black society today. Therefore, having relations with a white man is a slap in the face to my ancestors.

For I am proud of

My deep dark chocolate skin that echoes divineness
My thick lips that speak words of truth
My Kinky nappy hair that breaks western made combs
My strength, profoundly rooted through the blood of my ancestors
My attitude of a lioness
For, I am not made for the weak hearted; only a virtuous black man can touch me.

My parents have been married longer than the age of most of you on here.

Would you care to explain this?

***PlotThickens?!***
The one who typed,
“No wonder why black men don’t date black women.”

Emmett Louis “Bobo” Till

Here is the deal, silence is golden and most America Black woman don’t know this fact. No successful man wants a nagging wife. I am sure I will get me share of hate, but it’s ok. I haven’t dated a Black American female is so long I couldn’t care less. I personally prefer women Born and raised in the Islands but hey that is just me.

To each his own. People have a right to date and / or marry whoever makes them happy. Sometimes marriage is more than love, it’s a business deal. Being with an attractive white woman says look at me, I’m rich, black and successful. I can’t hate on that. Step up your game my sisters.

I’M LOST…MOST OF THE MEN OF COLOR I KNOW DATE WOMEN OF COLOR! SOME MIGHT DATE WHITE WOMEN AND THAT’S FINE. EVERYONE SOMETIME IN THEIR LIFE HAS USED SOMEONE OUT OF SELFISH WANTS IF THAT’S BLACK OR WHITE. WHO REALLY CARES!! KARMA BITES SO TREAT EVERYONE WITH RESPECT NO MATTER THE COLOR!

WHAT ABOUT BLACK WOMEN DATING WHITE MEN??????????????????????????????

I feel it’s your perogative who you date or marry! If a black man wants a white woman, not a problem. Reading some of the ignorant point of views, for instance someone says”step up your game hoes”. One question, is your mother a hoe, she’s a black woman? Let’s remain respectful. It is amazing, most decent white women does not want a black man unless he’s wealthy! There are so many wonderful, decent black men that loves black women. Myself, I prefer a black man anyday over a white man because that’s my choice. I don’t judge every man by something one has done!

@ cazwel. Thanks for the reply. I am not speaking historically of Australia, I am speaking of current socialization of Australia. I am speaking racism – I never mentioned slavery. You are confusing the two. Racism can exist perfectly fine without history of human slavery just as well as slavery can be a business of commodity without racial hate. Black people need to understand that the concept of the Trans Atlantic Slave Trade was to fuel a dying European economy, it was not an issue of hating blacks. What blacks went through when they arrived in America, now that’s a different story. My point wasn’t whether or not “slavery” existed in Australia so please do not take offense, but also do not play a, “one up man ship” regarding the suffering our ancestors have endured on American soil. Our story here is not the story told by Alex Haley. That was the Disney version. I do agree with you that growing up black is interesting no matter what land mass you live on.

Why the onesided topic,there are plenty of black women with white men.
Its time to stop bashing black men for things sisters are doing too.

Date who you want unapologetically and without guilt. Ultimately, your relationship is your business. All these militants who are crying racial betrayal and “sleeping with the enemy,” need to kill that noise; that militant attitude benefits no one.

There are more important matters than who’s dating who and why.

That said, it’s not fair to put down sisters in general because you need to look at the individual, not the group. Black women are actually disproportionally outnumbering us brothers when it comes to getting college educated and having successful careers, so you see, there are plenty of “Claire Huxtables” out there. It’s us brothers who may actually need to “step up our game” there.

On the flipside, Black women who date white men do the same thing to us brothers. I’m an educated, law abiding black man who owns his own home and doesn’t believe in making illegitimate kids, but black women who prefer white men can’t see any of that because they’ve already written me off and lumped me and brothers like me into the barrel with all the bad apples, so HB needs to complete this by doing a follow up called, “Why Do Black Women Love White Men.” Times are changing, and more black women are in fact becoming more open to interracial dating.

i am a wht female that has a biracial daughter that her black father was shot and killed just before he started collage because his blk freind decieded to rob his brother.as sad as this was that my unborn child never got to meet her wonderful father,and know him.i also know that it took the cops and emt’s 45 minutes to get to him when he was bleeding to death and the emt station was a block away from where he had been shot.it was only a minute ride for them to get to him but he bleed to death at 19.i also know if it would of been a white person that had been shot it would of only took the emt’s a mintute to get to that white person. now understand this i know first hand how many white people think being that im white so i hear what they say when no black people are around..i know how fake alot of white people can be. i also know in this time that we r living in the white girls that date black men now would of never dated a black man 10 years ago!i see the truth that alot of black females see, how white girl degrade themselves,there is alot of truth to that.i also see alot of white girls with biracial kids that do not know how to take care of their black children. they dont teach them there black history because most likely they dont know black history to teach it to their children. but i do not think or believe as most white people, i never have! and to be honest ive never in my life had any problems from the black community.but ive had alot of bulls**t from white people over my choices and views. i have always seen the beauty in all races and colors and religions of this world.we all have something to learn/teach from each other.i for one have never dated a black man that has souly dated white women,because i believe to do that means you have self hate in you. but my point in writing this is to say there are some white people that see the truth thats around them. but most people are scared to truly open their eyes and see whats going on around them. because if they did the truth would scare the s**t outta them so they live in a illusion!

I have been reading some of these comments and I find some of them quite amusing. I have been dating black men since I was 16 years old. My ex boyfriend had never dated any white girls before me, as soon as he put a picture up of me and him, all these black girls started messaging him like crazy, saying awful things about me. I do think, for me personally, I let the guys I date get away with a lot more then they should. But I believe that my man should be treated like a king, as crazy as that sounds. We live in a time that color shouldn’t matter, but after looking at these comments; it clearly still does. All I can say is WHO CARES?

EVERY TIME I SEE THESE SUBJECTS ON BLOG SITES “I WANT TO BANG MY HEAD AGAINST A WALL OVER AND OVER AGAIN BECAUSE I AM SO SICK AND TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT THIS SUBJECT!!!!!”

I DONT CARE WHAT RACE ANYONE DATES OR MARRY…….!!!!!! JUST DO NOT TO IT OUT OF SPITE DO IT FOR LOVE, REGARDLESS OF WHAT COLOR YOU ARE !!!!!!!

IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY, I SEE ALOT OF THIS OUT OF SPITE INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS, NOT TO MANY IN IT FOR LOVE, BUT TO GET BACK AT BLACK WOMEN AS A WHOLE………..

THIS GOES BACK TO STEROTYPES (WHICH I HATE SO MUCH) AND ALSO INSECURITIES ( A NEGATIVE TRAIT OF HUMANS)……………(I HEAR SOME BLACK MEN SAY BLACK WOMEN NAG TO MUCH, HAVE ATTITUDES, ONLY WANT THUGS, AND SO ON…THEN THEY SAY THATS WHY I DONT DATE AND MARRY BLACK WOMEN OR AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN ANYMORE …..BLAH BLAH BLAH SO ON SO ON…….THATS WHY I MARRIED OR DATE ANOTHER RACE OF WOMEN)<<<<<<<<<AN EXAMPLE OF OUT OF SPITE….PLAIN AND SIMPLE (COMMON SENSE).

YEAH SOME BLACK WOMEN HAVE THESE TRAITS BUT NOT ALL…….I REPEAT NOT ALL!!!!!!!

I ALSO NOTICE THAT SOME PEOPLE SEEM TO THINK THAT THEY ARE NOT ACCEPTED BY THEIR RACE AND THAT IS WHY THEY DATE INTERRACIAL. ONE OF MY GOOD WHITE FRIENDS TOLD ME THE REASO SHE DATES BLACK MEN IS BECAUSE THEY ARE MORE ACCEPTING OF HER BECAUSE OF HER SIZE THAN WHITE MAN.

ME MYSELF I PERFER BLACK MEN BUT I WOULD DATE OUTSIDE OF MY RACE…….I DONT HAVE A HATRED OF BLACK WOMAN REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEY HAVE DONE TO ME!

ALL I AM TRYING TO SAY IS WHEN YOU DATE OUT DO IT FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.

Yes white women are attractive and who a black man decides to date is his business for the most part. I don’t think whether it is right or wrong to date a white women as a black man is the issue. The issue lies in why “black men Love white women” and this is where the problem lies in.
Black men have learned to discriminate, act prejudice, and be racist towards black women either through personal experience or stereotypes. There are also stereotypes about white women. I am not saying these stereotypes towards black or white women are true. We can find the same faults in each race. Just as there is stereotypes that white women know how to “behave” there are also stereotypes that white women are easier to seduce than black women.

I think as black men we can agree there is an “attitude” that comes with a black women that you won’t find in white women. What that attitude is depends on who you ask. For some this is very attractive and can be deemed as strong and wise, but attitude in the mind of fool brings disgrace to our race. We are well aquainted with the sort of “angry black women” through television and movies by the false representation of what black women are like. Although, there are angry black women who do act ignorant this shouldn’t be the overall view of what a black women are.
There are certain white people who catch on to this and think that talking this certain way and acting this certain why is “black”.

Sucessful black men are aware of how black people are deemed: ignorant, comedians, sex fiends, and etc. So they tend to stay away from black women.
In the case of Tiger woods, I think tiger just has an attraction to white women. If anything I would say his story gives white women a bad rap.
It is interesting that black women are called hoes when the mainstream porn industry is predominately runned by whites. I have heard that there is descrimination in the pornagraphy industry. If you have seen the “GIRLS GONE WILD” commercials you will notice that you will hardly find blacks. The women in that are not paid for what they are doing and often times are drunk. Understand that I am not saying white girls are wh*res but I am saying that black women are not wh*res either. The same problems that can be found in one race can be found in another.

I am not saying black women or white women are better than one or the other. The truth is much of the problems found in the black community is stemmed from slavery and how we were treated in the darkest period in American history. Ideaologies are created from a slanted point of view and indoctrination. Tiger woods father has been known to say things towards his race. It is no wonder why Tiger would cling to white women.

“ME MYSELF I PERFER BLACK MEN BUT I WOULD DATE OUTSIDE OF MY RACE…….I DONT HAVE A HATRED OF BLACK MEN*****(TYPO) REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEY HAVE DONE TO ME!” SORRY

All I am saying is:

As for me I will never date a white man, or date a black man that is attracted to white women.

And if you wish to date white men/women that is strictly your choice.

Does that stop me from expressing my thoughts on the topic

No!

THATS BECAUSE ALL THESE OTHA NIGGAS CANT HANDLE A BLACK WOMAN LOL I NEED SOMEBODY I CAN RELATE TO WHEN IM CONVERSATING EVEN GETTIN IT ON LOL SHYT EVEN CONVERSATION IS DIFFERENT
I DISAGREE WITH THE FINANCIAL PART BUT LOVE HAS NO COLOR LOVE WHO EVER LOVES YOU BACK

I love dating black men. They treat me well. They have my back. I love being romanced, and told sweet things. I am latino and white. My son is latino and white. I don’t think that it should matter who is dating whom. If a white woman dates a black man, or a black woman dates a white man, I say good for them! Broaden your horizans! See outside that box!

I believe that the most beautiful children ever made come from mixed races. I have caught more sh*t from some of my black female friends and the female family members of the men I’ve dated than I have from my white friends. (probably because my white friends know better! lol) It seems to me that most of the discrimination lies with Black Women. (This is solely from MY personal experiences) Everytime one of my girls tells me something negative, I tell her my brother is available. lol *wink

First white women love money and being seen as special.they will treat a black man in a way that black women won’t.white women know to enhance a black mans sef esteem and they try to make sure that he knows, that he is the boss.they know how to make the black man feel special,while black women want to live as though they are single and spend so much time letting their friends tell them what to do in their relationship. White women make the black man feel that he is the whole world.black women want to fight while white women want to make love.black women are the black mans adversary,and they let their families know all their personal business and tell them what to do. So white women win,when it comes to knowing what the black man wants plus they are an exciting arm piece.

I agree with west-coast-909 BUT I think orinreborn2 is the only one out of the 282 comments who answered the question to the article and I appreciate his bluntness & honesty.

orinreborn2
12-5-2009 6:42 pm
I think alot of black men look a having a white woman as a symbol of status. Like having what mos of the world wants. Lets face it, asian, indian, latino, … men of all races seem to have a large number of their groups obsessed with white women. White women are all over the media and have been made the standard of beauty. White features such as lighter skin, lighter eyes, smaller noses, straighter hair have become the de-facto standard of what is considered attractive.
Rich and successful men want what is considered the creme of the crop in women … and being white adds alot of points, even if he chick is almost a nobody. A sista needs to be an actor or someone well known or MIXED to get alot of play from the rich black men I think.

SugaRAE IS o.k.) i like the woman with character, humor, strength, has her own(shbe could be a buisness lady, be a doctor or a artist like me)…I’m not married, have no kids, don’t smoke. drink, don’t do drugs, never had a criminal record, stuck in a crappy job with reduced hours, but will promote my artwork by January. looking for that lady who is affectionate, is a freak-optional :) ,nice eyes and loves to rock a thong….she’s doesn;t have to be a H-O-T-T-T-I-E like halle or mary j, but she could my HOTTIE, justdon’t be a B-U-T-T-A-F-A-C-E :)

It’s like a white woman told me once….black women treat their men like PROPERTY; white women treat their men like PEOPLE (even if they don’t always agree). Yes, both my mother and sisters are black women, but the truth is also a fact. You show me a sister who doesn’t want more than what a man is capable/willing to give, and I’ll show you a UFO, a ghost, and a unicorn!!! Not every brother “has his own” (this economy is murder), not every brother wants to “club/bar-hop,” not every brother wants a “lady in the streets-freak in the sheets”—SOME of us want a Lady-24/7. ;)

^5 TiredMan…you forgot that not every brother goes to church either. Black women are always pushing up on a man about that stuff. And most of the biggest freaks and hypocrites are in the church! Black women need to accept the fact that not every black man believes/thinks the way THEY do. I’d rather have an open-minded white woman who respects me than a black woman who wants a cookie-cutter clone of a “typical black man” or a “thug!”

OK 1st of all Speaking as a man who HAS DATED WOMEN OF ALL RACES and different back grounds. I speak also as a Black man who was married to a white woman, i’m also the father of a bi-racial daughter. Now let me break it down for you all I HAVE NEVER DATED A WOMAN BECAUSE OF HER SKIN COLOR! AT the time I fell in Love with my daughters mother because of who she was and how she was, not because of her color. She could have been purple and I still would have married her. PEOPLE BELIEVE ME WHEN I TELL YOU, THERE ARE CRAZY,POSSESIVE, GHETTO,UNCARING,BELITTLEING,STUBBORN,CHEATING,LYING,CONIVING,BORING,SELFISH WOMEN IN EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY RACE ALL OVER THE WORLD! I can speak on it because I retired from the NAVY with 22yrs. I say to each his own, I also say that to say that soon as a brother get’s money he wakes up oneday and says ” I think I’ll get me a white woman now.” come on yall he was more than likely already dating other races when he was still broke.Tiger Woods had White jump offs not because he is rich, but because how many black or latino, or minority race of women ACTUALLY hang out around or in the golfing community? Also I know he has had Black and Korean jumpoffs but they keeping their mouths shut! LMAO Golf wasn’t even watched on tv in the hood until Tiger hit the greens. 99.9% of men no matter their race date the women in their environment PERIOD! I am a black man who LOVES ALL WOMEN, if your cool and down and got my back and I gots yours. Your skin color doesn’t matter, like MLK said ” for me it’s about the content of your character not the color of your skin. BUt also most black people men and women never leave the comfort of their home those that say they would never date outside their race. I would bet any blackman who says that to venture to Austrailia stay 2 days and then come back and tell me that. LMAO Alot of blackwomen would LOVE to have Brad Pitt in a Room buck naked. They may not admit it outloud but they are thinking about it. Same goes for White men they all want Halle Berry the Grand Wizard of the KKK would kick it with Halle! We need to get away from this race thing we all bleed the same color, breathe the same air. AND if you were born in the USA from the 1800′s up to now, YOU ARE MIXED WITH SOMETHING PERIOD! EVERYBODY GOT SOME OTHER RACE RUNNING THROUGH THEIR VEINS! UNLESS YOU GOT OFF THE BOAT YESTURDAY! Then it’s still not garunteed that your 100% cause we all know that the British were exploring the motherland long before anyone thought about slavery, you really think the Quakers weren’t getting them some Indian Booty? Think people, but again to each his own, people like what they like. White women who date black men would date black men even if that black man was broke. Also on those pics Dr. Dre wife is Latino not white so is Taye Diggs wife, And Wayne Brady’s Now EX wife is Korean and Black Her Father was in the Navy. Same with Tiger who was dating all races of women when he was a teenager his dad was in the military. People we need to get over it LOVE I Mean TRUE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE HAS NO COLOR! IT DOES HOWEVER HAVE HEART!

Who ever said Black men “loved” white women???

TiredMan you are indeed tired…not every brother wants a “lady in the streets-freak in the sheets”—SOME of us want a Lady-24/7. That’s one of the most ignorant statements I’ve ever read. You apparently don’t know what a lady is…because most white women are in freak mode24/7, it’s in their nature and how most were raised, unfortunately.

This has nothing to do with status..so black men stop using that as an excuse. It has everything to do with lifestyle, trifling black men, and hatred for your race.

Here’s how a typical conversation goes when black men and white women are meeting…

Black Man: Let’s go back to my place and get busy

White Woman: Okay…cool

Black Man: Do you suck and swallow

White Woman: Of course I love it!

Black Man: Can I spray in your face

White Woman: Of Course!

Black Man: Will you pay my bills for me?

White Woman: Whatever you need

Black Men: Will you submit to me and do as I say

White Woman: Just tell me how high to jump

For the white women that have had the gall to chime in on the discussion, I just have one question. Is there not another site where you can look for weak-minded and spineless black men besides BlackPlanet?…after all it is “Black”planet.

I think if we all stop trying to devise some mythological, deep seeded, psychological, subliminal science fictional reason why black men are attracted to white women we would perhaps shed ourselves of half the mumbo jumbo garbage I’m reading in here and look at the operative word, “attraction.” Most of these stories are personal experiences. Whether you date white women or black women, your propensity to date one or the other is NOT biological yet it IS biological to be attracted to anyone whether they be black, white, red, green, male, female. Skin color is only an illusion. Pigmentation created by melanin, carbon, and magnesium. Color has nothing to do with culture. Upbringing and tradition determines character – not color. I thought we would have figured this out by now. So we are all sitting here fighting over skin color and how one is better than the other in the sense of emotional compatibility. We are truly ignorant! I would take a guess and say that most of you in here have never been outside of the U.S.

To WhyDoTheyLeave – I don’t know what kind of white women you interact with on a daily basis but that is NOT a typical conversation I have with white women. Perhaps you should stop hanging out in strip clubs. There are great white women just as there are great black women. There are also not so great white women as there are not so great black women and this holds true with every ethnic group, every culture, every community. Everything is about balance. White women being some imaginary symbol of status is again another outdated and ignorant excuse and every time a black woman pulls that card, she automatically degrades herself without knowing it. This is becoming an absurd issue because no one is ever going to agree on this for the fact that it IS personal preference.

The problem is when you so-called Internet historians and race “doctors” try to play “fix the problem” yet no one wants to look inward at themselves and say, “what can I fix about MYSELF?” Black people have had a long history of finger pointing. We want to integrate into this society, become successful, have what everyone else have and reap the same benefits as others while constantly complaining and reminding everyone how we are so victimized by society. It’s one or the other people. And every time this website tabloid a story up for us “over-emotional” black folks, we hop right on it like good little black boys and girls and we start playing racial psychiatrist instead of trying to find “balance” between blacks and whites and learning racial tolerance and solidarity.

I’m not denying inequality, or injustice, or even slave like mentality but we have evolved now into at least being attracted to someone of a different race, color, culture, religion, nation. If you have no experienced your personal cultural, spiritual, and human evolution, then that’s your problem. It would seem to me that some of you are actually mutating and going in the opposite direction. It’s sad because nothing displays black fear and black weakness more than this type of debate. It’s the same fear racist white people have on the issue of race mixing. The fear of their race being wiped out. One is just as ignorant as the other.

Another “Ignornant” topic…
How about why do black men choose a certain woman over the other because its all about his “perference” what he “pefers” not the color of the womans skin! This is getting soooo old, the “black men like white women because…” , “black women are loud,ghetto”, light skin vs dark skin”, all these are pertaining to the black community and none of these ISSUES are “POSITIVE” ISSUES. This will continue to set us back untill we start becoming as one and uplifting each other instead of being disrespectful and downing one another. So I refuse to jump on the bandwagon and list why they do!

I really resent the story’s assertion that black men “knows a black woman like the back of his hand, so this makes the black woman a bit of a bore” I tend not to date outside of my race very much but the one thing that is consistent is my suitors telling me how different and off the wall i am. As a thick black girl from the hood that is now a vegetarian with a deep love for rap, rock and Mozart and the ability to rock Ice Creams one day and cowboy boots the next (Hey…I am from Texas) I pride myself on keeping a man guessing as to what drives me. This story makes the asinine assumption that all black women look, dress and act the same which is highly offensive to me.

Interesting posts…I have spoken to many black men who have told me the reason why they have considered dating or are dating white women is because of the attitude, black women being confrontational–pretty much for the very reasons that many posters have listed here. Okay, that is fair, but I truly hope people realize that they can find aggression and dominant behavior in white women or women from other cultures.

Another thing to realize is that there are many of us black women who, though may be assertive and have managed our own lives, are willing to submit ourselves to the right man!

wtf is this writer talking about, black men know black women like the back of their hands…they may know their family members, but they don’t know me….i don’t date white men like a science experience. I see them and I know I don’t want them or I know I do….so this whole black men white women thing is so irrelevant. They see them and they know they want them or they don’t. Date whoever you want. However do NOT say that you want another race, because you decide that all women in your own race disgust you. You don’t know us all.

PHenomeNell, you wrote, “However do NOT say that you want another race, because you decide that all women in your own race disgust you”

Excellent point!

“BALANCE”??? Did I hear someone say “BALANCE”??? That we need “Balance and that it’s the Strong Black Woman Syndrome that ends up hurting us more than helping us??? Well since this writer (100% MONKEY 2/5/2009 4:54) went back to the Civil Rights Movement to make some of his points then I should be allowed to go back even further.
In being a “Strong Black Woman” the scales have to be tipped more in certain areas. No one asked for “BALANCE” when from the beginning we watched as our families were torn apart, our men lynched, our bodies used by the “Master” to please him in whatever way he chose at the time and yet we remained “Strong Black Women”. No one asked for “BALANCE” when Harriett Tubman was coming time and time again to take slaves to their freedom, never lost not one and never got caught, because she was a “Strong Black Woman”??? No one was concerned about “BALANCE” when SoJourner Truth was fighting for women’s rights at a time that was very, very dangerous for her to do so, yet she was a “Strong Black Woman”. And no one certainly was concerned about “BALANCE” when during the Civil Rights Movement, we were fire hosed down, dogs set upon, spat on, beaten and went to jail all right along side of our “Black Men”. We had to be “Strong Black Women”. Now let’s bring it home to today. No one was concerned about “BALANCE” when Michele was getting one of the best educaitons that this country had to offer, became one of the highest paid lawyers in the country, taught and supported the man she was involved with at the time who went on to become the most powerful man in the land. I could go on and on but I think I have made my point.
As far as advertising that we are “Strong Black Women”, I can see why some feel that it is NOT necessary so let me enlighten you as to why some of us think that it IS necessary. When we as black women period have gone through and still are going through what we have had to go through, for an example…..having been fooled by a lot of you “Black Men” who tell us that you love us, make us believe that if we have your children that you will be there for us then leave us with children from several different men because we believed the same lie over and over again. But you not only leave us, but you brag about it, then talk about us, call us “hos”, the “B” word, bossy, overbearing, loud, fat, ugly, black, chickenhead and every other degrading name you can find. Calling us names and disrespecting us get sooooo good to you that for the love of the almighty dollar and for the love of you getting your 15 minutes of fame, you have to write about it in your songs just how much you disrespect us. And all of this is much to the “White Man’s” delight because he knows the importance of “image” and “perception”. Then you have the nerves to say that no other ethnic group of women has had to preoccupy themselves with self convincing affirmation more than black women??? NO OTHER ETHNIC GROUP OF WOMEN HAS HAD TOO. But wait a minute, to add insult to injury, you leave us for women of other races. Then we have had to go to the “White Man” in the past, for welfare, now to get you to pay child support for the kids that you have made and abandoned and which we have to raise alone and because we have to raise them alone the vicious cycle starts all over again. Then you wonder why we have to advertise that we are “Strong Black Women”??? We don’t have to advertise, all we have to do is just BE. I don’t think it is so much the advertising that we are “Strong Black Women” that is troubling to some it’s the FACT that WE ARE STILL STANDING. You know what society has done to us, you also know what you have done to us, YET WE STILL STAND!!!! In spite of us being called loud, ghetto, fat, ugly,….etc. WE HAVE THE AUDACITY TO STILL BE STANDING.
Constant fear of showing vulnerability????? Now ain’t that a “hoot”!!! We have always been vulnerable to our “Black Men”. Why do you think a lot of us are in the perdicaments we are in? We just know how to deal with the consequences.
And why would we use our strength to show your weakness??? Why can’t it be about us using our strength ALONG with your strength. Don’t fall into the DIVIDE AND CONQUER SYNDROME. Since slavery, we have always been willing to follow you as long as you made us feel safe and loved. H-O-W-E-V-E-R we do have a tendency to make you BE all you can BE. We have been known NOT to settle for less. AND we really do not want to see your weaknesses. If we are to be critized for that then so be it. Don’t you get it “BLACK MAN”??? It has always been about you. We were and still, God help us, want and need you. If you knew where you were going we would be more than happy to follow you.
Truth be told…. “Black Men” know why they go to women of other races. Moreover “Black Men” also know that we “Black Women” know why they go to women of other races. And lastly we BOTH know that it has very little to do with the “Black Woman” and more to do with the “Black Man’s” ISSUES. It only makes sense to me that if you’re a real man as most of you claim that you are you are not going to let “so called” issues be an excuse for you doing what you do. Stop shifting the blame, take responsibility, and deal with the ISSUES no matter what they are. Be willing to deal with us as we are with you. Try GIVING us what you want to RECEIVE from us. If it’s respect, give respect, if it’s love, try giving love, and lastly, if you want us to follow you then ACT THE HELL LIKE YOU KNOW WHERE YOU ARE GOING.

That question is racist because it makes it sound like its wrong for Black men dating White women or vice versa. I personally always thought that there wasnt alot Black in Tiger Woods, he really is like a Uncle Tom to me, so it wouldnt be a surprise his wife and all those chicks he f**cked with are not Black. However, just because a Black man dates a White woman does not make him less a man or less a strong man. I personally dont believe that all Black women are the monsters some of the Black men on here make them out to be plus I also dont think all White women are stupid lil girls who dont speak their minds cuz I definitely speak my mind and the man who is with me gotta be really strong. As far as money goes, I think Black and White are all the same, some ppl care about money some dont. When do ppl finally start lookin past color n look into a persons heart?

WHO THE IN THE FCUK WROTE THIS ARTICLE. LOVE WHO U WANT TO LOVE. BLACK, WHITE, YELLOW, BROWN, ETC. WHO GIVES A F**K BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER. RACE WILL ALWAYS BE AN ISSUE. THAT SUCKS FOR SOME.

WhyDoTheyLeave….now I know why “they leave.” My mother told me that there are 3 groups of people a black man will have the hardest time trying to have a conversation with…(1)Conservative White Males, (2)Educated Black Women, & (3) Fools….He “knows” everything, she THINKS she knows everything, and Fools know nothing….thank you for proving my mother right! LMBAO…anyone else want to be read? LOL

Like I said and I will say it again. I really don’t care who black men are phucking, and I am all for interracial dating.And I have also been in interracial relationship myself. But I haven’t been in a interracial relationship for all the wrong reason that black men are doing now. Love is no color, i can easliy date a black man just as easy as I can date a white man. But to degrade black women with all of these sterotypes is just plain ignorant.I really agree with classy57 lady and that is the right screen name for u classy. Because everything that u just said was with such class, that just made all the black men who said every wrong about black look stupid. I co – sign with u 100 billion percent! : D

Hey Black Men dont be bitter and angry towards the black woman, they’re the ones that raise u all alone when ur fathers skipped out, the black man’s real anger is with himself, u guys let urself down… i hope some day in my life time u guys learn to love ur self better- the black man is too angry for sure!!

I don’t think that for a woman to be strong she has to be rude, loud, and b%t%chy. There’s a lot of ways to be strong without making your self look bad. Every race has stereo types. Look at each individual for who they are and don’t judge someone without knowing them. None of us were around back in slavery to contribute to what happened, we are here now to contribute to the future. Stop hattin on each other always thinkin that the grass in greener on the other side. put a smile on and be happy for what people around you are doing. If it’s not harming your health or your family than why does it matter.

Why is everyone so concerned about what other people are doing. If everyone put that much energy into them selves this world would be a better place. Why so much hate and anger. My man is black and every time we go out Black Women look at us like we’re the most awful people on this planet. Thats my question why do people hate so much.

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Every single time that a Black man has some integrity and some real drive and can really get it done and ain’t about a bunch of B.S., Black women assume that they must only date white women… and dumb enough, they will actually say that to a Black man! “I thought you were the type of guy that only dated white women!”
Black women need to recognize the insecurity and character issues within themselves that push strong Black men away from them. Black women need to work on themselves instead of demanding that a Black man build them up. Black women need to do those things (for the Black man with integrity) that Black women constantly say that they won’t do, and what White women will do without complaint! Black women need to stop treating the Black man with integrity like they treat those Black man with Zero integrity, Zero self-respect, and Zero sense of self-worth. If I had all these Black women that constantly complain about how Black men of any true value always go to the white woman fighting each other to make sure they were not only in my bed, but calling me and asking me about my day, coming by my house and helping me with how I look and how my house runs, making sure I had more time to do the things that will financially support the home, even filling my head with the things in her day – and all the things she’s going through, I couldn’t get to a white woman no matter how hard I tried!
It’s not the Black woman’s fault completely, but if a sista took ownership of the issues and problems that keep her from being the best she can be and worked together with a man instead of against him, then maybe things would be different?

Nobody in these comments nor HB will ever know why a black man decides to date any woman. Ever. Unless you hear from him yourself. Not all black men date white women for the same reason. Each has his own reason. And trust me, it’s never been because he hates himself or can’t handle a black woman. Those are just reasons people who can’t handle interracial dating came up with. They have never applied to the men who date out the race. For those of you “think” you actually know why. Stop wasting your time. You’re giving the men who date out the race something to laugh at. Kill this “noise”.

Nobody in these comments nor HB will ever know why a black man decides to date any woman. Ever. Unless you hear from him yourself. Not all black men date white women for the same reason. Each has his own reason. And trust me, it’s never been because he hates himself or can’t handle a black woman. Those are just reasons people who can’t handle interracial dating came up with. SO KILL THAT “NOISE” They have never applied to the men who date out the race. For those of you “think” you actually know why. Stop wasting your time. You’re giving the interracial couples something to laugh at.

Dumb ass web site, made me post the s**t twice!! >=(

You’re giving the men who date out the race something to laugh at – Because you know its true! lol

And you proved my point.

The last time I went on a date with a sista, I got all kinds of nothing. She only made an attempt after making the assumption that I wasn’t interested in sistas (even though it was through BP! I’m HERE ain’t I?). She threw me into the “friend zone” because I actually had the capability to converse. We had drinks and had good convo, then she STILL acted surprised that I was interested in seeing her again. I called her up and her phone manner was NOTHING like the convo at the drink spot… it was like talking to a dude. I took her out for a $40/plate dinner. She showed up late, and after, she offered zero appreciation of me and my courtship efforts (I even had to tell her that I didn’t expect sex, that I only expected that she would give me SOME indication that she had some feelings and this was on that track…with some respect). I (within 24 hrs) told her to kick rocks, and she acted like I was the one that flipped the script!
She assumed herself out of a good time with a man (myself) with integrity.
On her BP profile, she complained she couldn’t find a good Black man, and even came to me in her initial message with that same garbage.
IT’S GARBAGE.
Too many Sistas just LOVE to complain about not having opportunity with a good Black man, and if and when they ever get the opportunity, they BIND THEMSELVES only into SCREWING IT UP!!!
To the rest of the sistas, I have two pieces of advice:
Shut up.
Show some REAL appreciation to a brotha who’s doing this life right.

If you do those two things, you might get that good man you so desire.

the truth of the matter is that white women and black men face pressure from their counterparts (white men and black women) unlike anybody else – so they find this sort of unspoken social bond together and don’t even realize it.

example: white men like their women to be ultra thin, blonde, ditzy, and extremely submissive…black women like their men a little thuggish or rough around the edges, lack real moral character, principles, and be sexually promiscuous…

not all black men are like the latter, not all white women are like the former – usually when these two meet, they click. just my 2 pennies.

What amazes me is some of the comments Black male posters have made about us. You see i am one of those intelligent, independent, educated Black women with no children that you say give you the hard time. You know what? That’s a bunch of CRAP! Until some of you realize that its 50/50 in a relationship and that the world does not revolve around solely stroking your egos and your short-sighted fantasies in a one-sided relationship, you can mass exodus to White women all you like. Some of us have the common sense not to put up with your actions and behaviors. And when you try to point the finger at us for the reasons why some of you do not support us and our careers, and our dreams and aspirations, then you can keep it moving. When we can’t even get the type of love, care, and affection that WE NEED (see it isn’t all about you), how are we suppose to be putting all our time into pleasing you? Regardless of whether i am with or without a man, a part of my personal responsibility falls on LOVING and PLEASING MYSELF, not a man. Black women cannot put themselves into a situation where they are all about some Black man. If you get in a relationship with us, and decide to leave, we still gotta take care of us. So, i say Black women shoud love themselves, take care of business, and leave the matchmaking to GOD. I don’t care about those Black men who want White women, you weren’t for Black women in the first place, and we’ve moved on. We don’t have time for that, there are too many Black men who DO want us, for us to worry about the ones who don’t.

this generation of black women dont know there place period point blank thats why there depressed ,go lesbian , still dont get there the reason why men not interested in em ect,, i can go on and on , AND I HATE WHEN A BLACK FEMALE SAYS ALL MEN ARE ALIKE SMH ITS THE TYPE OF MEN THAT YALL LIKE THAT ARE ALIKE

TiredMan wrote: “It’s like a white woman told me once….black women treat their men like PROPERTY; white women treat their men like PEOPLE (even if they don’t always agree).

ME: Now, my first thought — as a black-woman-loving BM — was what the fugg???? Ain’t nobody more RACIALLY HUNG UP than a motha-fugging black dude cosigning with a white female on putting black women down.

What kind of self-respecting BM lets a white…female tell him about BW? Does this fool (yeah, FOOL) know that the same way she talks about sisters is the same way she is talking about him behind his back? Does he think a p***s makes him immune to the racism of an obviously racist white female?

got some questions for the BM (who bash BW) on this thread:

1). Would you tolerate the BW comparing the BM to the WM? (or would you think this is UNFAIR due the WM’s advantages?)

2). If the WW is the BM’s new best friend, why is she climbing up the corporate ladder (the fastest) while the BM is falling off the fastest? Why isn’t the WW helping the BM get off the bottom of the economic totem pole?

3). Did it ever occur to the WW-loving BM that ONE of the reasons the WW pursues BM is SHE doesn’t get along with WM (even though she has a white father)? What does that say about her dishonorable “ways” and how does that explain why the WHITE MAN has as many complaints about her “attitude” as BM do? Could it be that the WW is using the BM to get even with the WM? And that is why the BM is catching hell in the job market and police stations?

4). If the WW is all that, why do most BM/WW relationships fall apart just as quickly OR more quickly than BM/BW unions? Seems to me, if WW are all that, the first one a BM gets oughta be a “keeper.”

5). If the WW is the TEACHER and VALUES CREATOR for the SAME little white boys who grow up to oppress the BM and the non-white WORLD, what does that say about the kind of woman and mother she is, Mrs. Barbara Bush, mother of George W?

6). Could it be that part of the reason the WW is so “friendly” to BM is BM are so friendly to her (like kissing her white azz)? I’ve personally witnessed many a brotha treat white females with kid gloves then turn around and give sisters hell. Maybe, the BM is appealing because the WW knows she will be treated better than the BW and thus can respond in a more pleasant manner,

that is, unless the black dude gets on the same elevator. Then her purse will make a sudden disappearing act under her arm…lol (kind of)

7). HOW MANY WHITE WOMEN AND ASIAN WOMEN AND HISPANIC WOMEN RODE THE BUS TO JENA, LA TO FIGHT FOR SIX BLACK BOYS THEY DIDN’T KNOW? All i know is a young black female started the petition and the people who came from out of town, were at least 60% or more black females.

8). If the BW is so defective, where are the black fathers who didn’t train her to be a good woman for a BM? Where did WE go wrong?

9). If the BW is so defective, why are so many BW-hating black dudes wasting their valuable time communicating with them? Seems to me a BM who likes nothing but WW would be busy on the white websites, am I right? (or don’t you feel welcome?)

10) Did it ever occur to us that if we keep putting our women down, calling them out their names in songs calling them bs and hos, make fun of their “short” hair or dark skin, make movies making fun of them, abandon them to raise OUR children alone, run game, break hearts, let them down as men, that maybe, just maybe, they might have “bad attitudes” at least PARTLY because of US?

Seriously, hit me back with some feedback. Maybe I’m missing the point…

And after the above questions have been answered, and “we” decided what’s wrong with the sisters, it’s time to figure out what the hell is wrong with US? Let’s see how accurate we are when it comes to our own faults..

Strange thing is, a lot of the BM on this thread, if you asked if they loved their Moms, they’d swear, their Moms is a good black woman, and then in the breath, they’re putting down BW. It takes a fugged-up mind to come up with that kind of rationale…

Then TIRED MAN SAID, “not every brother wants a “lady in the streets-freak in the sheets”—SOME of us want a Lady-24/7. ;)

ME: Give me a fugging break. Ain’t NO bigger freak in the WORLD than a white female hunting for some black d. I have been out with my woman and they are so disrespectful, white females will try to approach me like I’m some kinda OJ Simpleton. The WW will do things with a BM that she does not WANT a WM to see her do — because she RESPECTS HIS OPINION and his SUPERIOR POSITION.

Regardless, NO woman, including the white female, seriously RESPECTS any man who puts down his own. Would you?

Newsflash, the REASON the white female feels so “free” with the BM to “experiment,” approach, or pursue BM is NOT because we are all that, it’s because she KNOWS the BM is in no position to judge her because her white skin puts her in a superior position over all black people.

So, she can say or do whatever, and get away with it because what are WE (BM) going to do to her reputation? We can’t penalize her because our opinions DON’T MATTER. She doesn’t have to come to the table with a damn thing, because she knows (some of us) think she’s already special. She doesn’t have to feel inferior or not up to par to the black man (like she feels with the white man who holds her to a higher standard), when she’s with a BM because she is already superior. Like Beauty and the Mandingo beast. The fact that she likes black D don’t have a damn thing to do with any damn thing, especially white supremacy.

And she is the WM’s co-conspirator in the system of racism/white supremacy. She does NOT care about racism; she’s only concerned with the sexism that deprives her of sharing the prize with the WM. She is the Trojan Horse that is used to deceive, distract, and derail the BM’s need to be free of the WM’s iron grip. She is a tool used against the BM and black family; that’s why the WM in power rewards any delusional, lost BM who rewards her…

Got ONE last question: If the BW is defective — and we CAME from a black woman, what the hell does that make US?

Who cares? Date who you want.

As a black woman seeing a black man with a white woman doesn’t bother me. It’s no longer shocking to see it, it really the norm now. But i don’t have a problem with it because i don’t have a problem dating white men. I have always had more in common with them. It’s not that im not attracted to black men it’s that most of them that i meet are ghetto, and a little more rough around the edges than i like my man to be. However, i am seeing more black women dating white men and i keep hearing “what’s her problem, he must have money or something” lol it’s so funny to me to hear black men get on us about dating outside our race. Which is why i don’t pay much attention to it. If he wants to have a white girl go ahead chances are your not what i wanted anyway, and perhaps it’s best you are with her. The funny thing is Tiger probably thought by marrying a white woman he wouldn’t have any drama lol. Shows him right.

Thank you crammasters – Finally a NIGGA standing up for black women! Blacksage06 you ought to be ashamed of yourself! Dissing black women on a black website!!!!! WTF?? I am tired of all these sterotypes, BW are not all monsters (80% of BW on hb are civil & sweet & smart if you read the comments), BM are not all thugs, WW are not all sweet etc etc….A few hours ago my sister went out with her bf and she told me that he wants her to do things like to hug him in the car outta nowhere for no reason and call him sweet things. Shes like to me, I can’t call him honey n stuff like that! I’m like, he needs to find a white girl! lol And it came to my conclusion that the black men that do love white women love them bcuz white women are happy all the damn time, they have nothing to worry about, they are never discriminated, they dont know what it feels like to be hated on, or had to suffer any prejudice, so they have so much love for their blk men cuz they never had to experience their daddy not being at home or being locked in jail or being killed from some gang etc So, blk men like to be around that positive energy, WW are positive and when you are around positive ppl, you become positive. And WW are considered the standard of what beauty is since all races try to look like them and thats why Black men are happy with their Snow White bcuz they feel like King and have won their prize and they can live in their fairy tale in a far away land called netherlands and have mixed babies called oreo & coconut and might have to encounter threats from Ursula the octopus but somehow they fight to be together and thats the way life goes. THE END.

For black folks who think race doesn’t matter,
just remember those words…

The next time you complain about the lack of black unity
And the poor quality of life in the black community
Because you have no protection or immunity
From the rogue policeman’s reign of cruelty

As they shoot black men like dogs in the street
Remember those words: race doesn’t matter

The next time you have to go to the white man for a job,
with your hat in hand,
And you can’t get a $10 business loan
to open a lemonade stand
And you lose your home
due to predatory loan programs
And you get stopped for driving while black
because you don’t have white skin

Remember those words: race doesn’t matter

When a black man can’t get a job even with a college degree
But a white man with a criminal record gets a job like he’s
crime-free
And we can’t get no respect as a black man
And even the white female who grabs her purse
at the sight of us understands
That EVERY MAN on this planet better have a PLAN
Because it’s OUR JOB
to take care of our women and children on our OWN land

Remember these words: race doesn’t matter

When you can’t catch a break
And you wonder how an empty wallet
can stop an empty stomach ache
And we look back and remember who was there
When we were little more than a tiny pooh bear
Because the next face we’ll see in our mind’s eye
Is a black woman with a brown face and a big wide smile

And in our darkest days, we’ll recognize OUR OWN
And our black azzes had better pray
That our foolish ways
have NOT turned the black woman’s
heart to stone

So, it’s time to wise up, my brothers
Or be prepared to pay
Because the day of God’s reckoning
ain’t that far away
We better get down on our knees and pray
That God will take mercy on our dishonorable ways
Because instead of protecting our women and children

We chose to play
love/sex games with white and Asian females
Who don’t give a damn any day
About our culture, problems, or issues
When we’re forced to take a stand
It’s a black thing, baby
An Asian or white female just can’t understand

All she can do is raise more confused black children
With no true racial identity
who will be as useless as Tiger Woods
When it’s crunch time for black unity

So remember my words
in this little ditty
A dishonorable man
In God eyes
Will be shown NO PITY

http://www.trojanhorse1.com

Sistas, when you have the chance please check out the following Blackplanet groups and topics of discussion posted on them.

Blackmen & Latin Women

Love Without Walls

Encore!Mature Black Male 4 Mature White Female

Asian & Black Relations

If you check out these groups, you are sure to learn a lot about many of the pathetic black men on this site and the trashy white women that they love.

Has anyone every noticed that whenever these black men that are with women of another race get into trouble they all of a sudden rediscover their blackness and the soul-brotha within? When they are racially profiled, beaten by the cops, being lambasted by the white media, or facing prison time, it is then that they want the black community to rally behind them, pray for them and support them. Well, it is time for black women to move on and stop supporting these men. When these situations arise in their lives they need to turn to that white, asian, or latino woman and their respective communities for support.

To: 0VancouverHurts

I hear you, but let me say this.
The BM bashing BW in this thread are hurting and are lashing out at BW because you are safer targets than the WM. Now, this doesn’t mean the BW does not deserve SERIOUS correction, because they do, just like we do.

My position as a BM is I am at least partly responsible for the ways of BW, based on how I as a father RAISED MY DAUGHTERS. If i wasn’t there for them, then I ain’t got a damn thing coming, on the real!

Now, I got two sons and two daughters, and I would shoot a mothafugger who stepped to my baby girl, the way some of the dudes on this site sound like they would. My daughters are both “Daddy’s girls” and my partners who have daughters, we are in agreement that the way GROWN MALE ROLE MODELS treat and teach young black girls determines the KIND OF WOMEN they become.

When Black males are sexually predatory toward young black girls, the girls grow up without respect for the black man. Now, these brothers and sisters know what i’m talking about…

Now, the flip side of that coin is the mothers. A lot of black women are not teaching their daughters the right — OR any lessons about life or men. Some even teach their daughters to take advantage of men and be golddiggers. BW have got to clean up their own houses if they’re going to ask BM to do it, that’s the bottom line.

And stop giving the P away, ladies! I don’t give a damn how smooth his line is, if he gets the sex too soon, he already knows as much about you as he wants to. Now, when it comes to white females, who break all kinds of speed records, taking their clothes off, I tried to explain in an earlier post that they don’t give a damn what a black dude thinks because he has no power, so ladies, don’t let the brothers convince you that YOU can get away with the same things the white females get away with. BE self-respecting at all times. Do not let loneliness dictate your sexuality.

Bottom line, ladies, BM who don’t care don’t waste their time bashing BW. BM who are secretly ashamed will take the time to blame YOU for their own defective behavior and thinking. A conscious, self-respecting, high-self-esteemed BM knows it makes NO DAMN SENSE to complain about racism and then go and lay down with the female who BENEFITS FROM IT.

And some ignorant brotha (yeah, i said it) several posts ago who claimed the WW and BM are under presssure from the BW and WM should hide his head under a rock and beat it until some damn sense comes back into his sick brain. How the hell can a black man think the BW is more “free” and faces less discrimination than the white female? Don’t these mothas have sisters and mothers they give a damn about?

You ladies have a lot to deal with. Stay strong. We need you, and the conscious, self-respecting BM knows this.

The universe knows all and sees all the excuses for dishonorable and unmanly ways, and will exact a heavy price for any man who abandons his own women and children — and commits the CRIME of blaming THEM for his own weakness.

pray for us…

I don’t think what some of the men in here are saying is that unreasonable and unrealistic. It’s their own experience with black women. If they have had these experiences then so be it. I do find it ironic how black women respond. In one breath they make claims like “I’m intelligent, I’m not the typical black chick, don’t throw me in the same mix with hood rats” and then soon as a brother share his personal interaction with black women, you same women suddenly become possessed and start frantically cursing, calling black men the N word, throwing insults and you present yourself in the very fashion you are claiming you’re not! Take what some of the brothers in here are saying under consideration. It’s all knowledge whether you agree with it or not, whether you like it or not. It’s input – output. If black women came in here and started saying what they don’t like about black men, I would question myself, “Do I do that? Am I like that?” And if it doesn’t apply to me, then no harm done to me. But I would not start the cursing episodes and the violent responses because you are behaving exactly the way these men are implying. Why hasn’t anyone figured that out by now? No one jumping up and dissing black women for no apparent reason. We have black mothers, black sisters, black aunts so of course we love black women!!!! But we’re not talking about our of love for of black women in general, we are talking about relationship issues and emotional compatibility with black women and THAT is the trouble we are having. I love black women, and honestly I love black women more than I love white women I will admit. I wish I could find a black woman I can have a wonderful relationship with and I am looking believe me. but please ladies – cut it out! Instead of getting so defensive just listen up, take notes and if you feel that these bothers are wrong then express yourself by all means, but do it where we can all have a open forum without the hateful words. To 0vancouverhurts – I love you and you’re fine as I don’t know what! MensaOne, I love you, CaramelHoneyBun33 I love you! Classy57lady, I love you too. I love all my sisters.

But that is not to say that are no legit concerns. There are and they need to be addressed between black women and black men and it has nothing to do with white women, so we can leave them out for a bit. We have our own “black” issues that we need to work out. We black men and black women have both fallen out of compatibility with each other. Black men have forgotten how to treat good sisters and sisters have forgotten how to allow themselves to be treated by good brothers. So sisters, brothers – can we have real talk and stop cursing each other out and insulting each other? Sisters, what can we brothers do to fix the problem?

To: Whydotheyleave

You said: Has anyone every noticed that whenever these black men that are with women of another race get into trouble they all of a sudden rediscover their blackness and the soul-brotha within? When they are racially profiled, beaten by the cops, being lambasted by the white media, or facing prison time, it is then that they want the black community to rally behind them, pray for them and support them. Well, it is time for black women to move on and stop supporting these men. When these situations arise in their lives they need to turn to that white, asian, or latino woman and their respective communities for support.

ME: Hate to say it, but my advice to BW is STOP SUPPORTING ANY BM — celebrity or non-celebrity WHO DOES NOT UPLIFT, MARRY, OR DATE BW –PERIOD.

Do not buy their CDs, movies, cologne, or rally around them. Stop defending them, stop bailing out your wayward relatives, stop feeding them at your dinner tables if they bring non-black females home, do not accept their disrespect of you.

Here’s a clue: If white females were raising over 70% of white children alone and WM were running off to be with black females, how welcome would YOU be by that WW? If BM were raising over 70% of the black children alone, and black women were running off to be with WM, would BM tolerate that?

BW tolerate too much. Time to draw your line in the sand, ladies…

What I’m saying might sound cold, but so is being abandoned and disrespected… The simple fact, sisters, is we take BW for granted because we CAN. Some BM will not respect you because the WM has not given them permission to respect themselves, let alone, you. They are, like Malcolm X said, “…black bodies with white brains.”

Most of us will come back to you, because we know the WHITE COMMUNITY doesn’t give a damn about our black azzes, and we damn sure can’t go to the NAAWP (National Assoc for the Advancement of White People) OR any Asian organization when we get in a jam.

We know we can’t get no 25 buses of white or Asian females to ride to Jena, LA. to fight for us. We know if we can’t sex these females or give them money, these non-white females ain’t got no use for a BM.

We know it is OUR MOMMAS who stood by us when our daddies was missing in action. And if MOMMA wasn’t there, GRANDMA or SISTER or AUNTIE was. We know when we do something stupid and get locked up, the buses are filled with BW going to prison and putting a little cash in our account, and taking collect calls they can’t afford, and hiring lawyers they can’t afford.

We know the BW is in our corner — and always HAS BEEN for the last 500 years and that’s why we take you for granted. Conscious, intelligent BM who know our history know you were brutalized beyond anything any other females have experienced, and we understand that you are suffering under racism and economic discrimination just like we are. Conscious, intelligent BM know why you are damaged because we are damaged also, and it is our RESPONSIBILITY to not do any more damage so we can heal each other.

I do not want my daughters to go through what I’m seeing on this site, and I will do everything possible to keep that from happening, by any means necessary, believe that.

some of these black males have black (or half-black) daughters. Makes you wonder what kind of father or man would talk about his own women, knowing one day that someone is going to treat his daughter the same way…

SISTERS — ORGANIZE A BOYCOTT OF THESE BM ENTERTAINERS. LET ME KNOW AND MY PARTNERS AND I WILL ASSIST IN WHATEVER WAY WE CAN. I GUARANTEE YOU, I AM NOT THE ONLY BLACK MAN WHO WANTS TO PUT A STOP TO THESE BLACK SELL-OUTS PROFITING OFF OUR DOLLARS.

I really can’t say I know the black woman like the back of my hand as the article suggest. I think the entire article is bogus for me because I judge all females the same no matter what color she is. If our personalities are not a match then most likely we wont be together.I’m not trying to be mean but I really can’t get into fat girls and jacksonville is full of them =( ..then the ok looking girls i have met have really nasty attitudes.Thats not directed a black women(even tho it was most i met)but i met some asian and white women with the same problems. Right now there is this Korean girl that likes me but, she is very materialistic so i won’t give her a chance I told her we can only be friends yet she stills tries.

i don’t realy see what’s wrong with that. every one have their own i deas about the person they wana be with. i have seen black men and women date and even marry diffrent races not just whites or hispanics some married middle easterns or even asians. plus thats their personal life they can do what ever they want weither they are famous or not.

This is D U M B! U follow ur heart, which sees NO COLOR BOUNDARIES! HB r we being partial? Or do we just need Jesus? Please stop posting these garbage articles, da world would be a better place without it! Seriously…stop sabotaging black males.

i think thats a personal choise and this artickle have crossed the line. it is their personal freedom and i don’t realy think it’s neccesary to be all up on some elses personal life.

hehe i can honestly say the black women that supported me in my ealy life was my grandmother that past away when i was around 8 years old my mom and sisters have never supported me and they tried to do many things to me to get me to act like the hoodlums in our neighborhood. Because i developed in my own way i knew what they told me was wrong. I had entire savings stolen from me then my mom tried to put me out because her boyfriend didnt like me because i look like my father and thats after she stole from me. I don’t hold black females in content but I don’t trust anyone unless i get to know them ..so what Crammasters said about BW to me makes no sense unless he talking about his own life experinces. If a person likes Chris Brown music they should listen to what they like and not what that person is doing in their personal life. Just like my favorite group is KOYOTE i dont care what they do in their personal time.

This article is all over the place so much it’s not even funny. I guess HB was tired of being accused of being a gossip blog.

Maybe some people just like who they like, white, black, or otherwise. That goes for men and women. I am so tired of people trying to make it seem like someone who dates outside their race is some sort of traitor. Yes, some do it for ignorant reasons (i.e. the ones who pigeonhole all Blacks of the opposite sex for their attitudes or being deadbeats, etc.), but not everyone who dates other races are “sellouts”. Besides, if they’re happy, isn’t that all that counts?

HB, do the world a favor, stop trying to be socially relevant (or relevant for that matter), and just stick to stalking Amber Rose and Rihanna. Leave the deep topics for true journalists.

simple…black men like white women because they can CONTROL them..period..and white women see black men as something new and different! We as black women have grown up with, born and raised around them…so they dont come across as ‘new’ to us…therefore we dont treat them like TROPHIES as white women do…AND white women dont care what black man they get actually…They just want to know hes black..White poeple tend to see US (blacks) as sex maniacs/freaks, the biggest everythings, the BEST at it, so on and so forth….They see us as new and taboo STILL! When white men approach me, they ALWAYS make a big deal about what I might be able to do in bed, or what I look like (below the waist ofcourse), they like black women’s azzes etc…YAWN!!! Black men when they are successful see the white woman as ‘Ahhhh, its official!! Im FINALLY at the TOP!) LOSERS!!!!

@ WhyDoTheyLeave. You’r telling people to go check out BlackPlanet groups to see pathetic black men and s**tty white women? You’re judging all white women by the white women on Black Planet? You’re judging black men based on an Internet group site? No wonder you sound just damn silly. Log off the computer and get out and meet some real people. Damn!

None of yall chicks want half of the black men that be stepping to yall anyway, that’s what you’re saying right? So then why do you care? I’ve seen chicks look pass nice brothers and then when a white chick scoop him up, then yall are poking out your lips, dropping to the ground having temper tantrums and claiming how that happened because so-n-so can’t handle you because you’re so strong. Ladies, shut the hell up! Maybe if you broads were open minded and stop trying to get you a little ashy ruffneck you would have better success at keeping your man. To Crammasters, I think you’re one of those fake black men who talk a good game in front of sistas but then have you a little snow bunny on the DL. Hell, you may even be white your damn self – you have no photos of yourself on your page just cartoons of black people. LMAO. Most of what you say is garbage. Just another negro trying to sound like Malcom. Let people be attracted to whoever they want. What damn right do any of you fake blacks have trying to tell someone who they can and can not be attracted to. Masculine31 is right, sabotage. Sistas aint happy so they don’t want anyone happy. 100 Monkey is right when he says it still stems from a black fear of white people and no one is more afraid than black women. I can’t remember who said it in here but one brother put it right and exact when he said, black ladies, step your game up and stop complaining so got damn much. If you can’t beat white chicks – join em and get you a nice black man, dummies!

I G0 ALONG WITH CRAM MASTER SAY, PREACH ON BROTHA!! AN FOR THE BLACKMEN AN ASISAN WEBSITES, ETC..YOU NEED TO START YOUR ON WEBSITES SOMEWERE OTHER THAN BLACKPLANET.SO TO THE MAN WHO SAID HE WENT OUT WITH THAT SISTA WHO DIDNT SHOW NO APPREITION. THERES SO MANY THAT WILL. I SEE BLACKMEN QUICK TO WRIGT OFF A SISTA!!SOME HOW I SEE BLACKMEN THINK THEY DOING US A FAVOR FOR SHOWING US A TIME OF DAY…WRONG CAN ALWAYS GET A BLACKMAN ANYTIME … AN ALL BLACKMEN DONT LIKE OTHER RACES OF WOMEN.. SOME SAY THEY SMELL LIKE WET DOGS

ok@PlotThickens- While you on BLACKPLANET telling people to log off the internet and meet real people…umm youre on HERE TOO sweeie! That was my first example of why black men run to white women..they say Stupid S*hit! NOW, let me finish….Black men running to white women has nothing to do with US stepping up game…We all know that YOU white chicks will tolerate,accept,go for, EAT UP a whole lot of sh*it from men that we just WILL NOT. Nothing personal to you Ms.Plot because I dont know what kind of white thing you are in the first place, so i cant speak on you personally. damn right we have bad attitudes, mouthy, even bit*chy at times…But not once can I say We have any trouble pulling good black men…Yes they are out there, BUT hardly any of them want to go through anything REAL with a black woman to get to the prize. Why should they when YOUR kind makes everything oh so easy for them? I am a black woman obviously…I am from the south, I cook, clean, work, take care of my children, keep myself up, in good shape, college educated, all that…Im just not willing to settle for just ANY black man like white women are…you guys dont even want ‘good’ ones, you just want one period. And dont think for a minute that your own race of men dont have complaints about you all too. I hear about the WEAK, simple mind, non intelligent, non conversational, d*ick happy, wh*orish white girls from the white guys that approach me ALL THE TIME. Its amazing how black men say WE black women are too head strong, opinionated etc…sounds like a strong woman to me, but they run to you guys…white men say white women are weak, slouchy, lazy, ignorant women…no wonder why black men run to you….its easy to settle for less…i think the white men are smarter than you women….

Well good things its still a free country to voice your own personal opinions.

@Crammaster, your points are very well said and taken, but, don’t forget not every black man loves/loved their mothers that is another reason that its no big deal when they choose a woman who has nothing in common or comparison to their mother racially speaking.

The same can be said for some black women who choose non black men to marry as well.

The dumbest single ads ever posted you can switch the race around im sure you have all seen these ads before: Ww seeks Bm I believe in being color blind (ok if you are so color blind why are you asking for one race in particular duhhhhhhh)

(disclaimer: This is my personal opinion if you dont like it erase it from your memory lol…)

P.s. Love who the f uck you want its your problem not mines lmaoooooooooooo

PlotThickens made more sense than a lot of you females in here. Cold part about it, she not even black.

wow…FIRST OFF-some of you people up in here might want to LEARN HOW TO SPELL, if not for yourselves…..for the sake of your children! DAMN :o

2nd,this topic is soooo tired and dead…the same dead topic rotation WHEN WILL IT END…GOD BLEEEEESS HB…CAN I GET AN AMEN-

@ Califemme23, no disrespect but if what I’m saying doesn’t apply to you the don’t take it so personal. I told ‘what’s her name’ to log off and go meet some real people if she’s judging this whole issue on what she sees on a Black Planet website. There’s 6 billion people on the planet and you can’t even begin to use this lousy website as the measuring rod to which even SOME black men and SOME white women are judged. Now, if that’s an impossibility for you or any other chick in here, I don’t know what to tell you. So now I’M the reason black men run to white women? First it was white women’s fault and now it’s MY fault? LMAO, yall just need someone, anyone to blame don’t you? Well sweetheart if I’M the reason why some black men run to white chicks then that’s a damn magic trick because I’m Latina! So now it’s Latin women, Dominican women? We’re the reason? Or perhaps you just thought I was African American based on my photo? See, that’s what I mean, everyone in here running their damn mouth off and judging people and don’t know shyt about anyone! I date black men, I have a black man so I don’t have no issues with black men leaving me for white woman, so I’m not on any “white” thing! Stop judging people on skin color and then looking a fool! If you want to know why black men don’t like yall . . . maybe you should try reading your response again and maybe the light bulb will light up and the bells and whistles will go off. It’s the same thing most of the men in here have been saying about black women for the past couple of days. Ya’ll chicks are a damn mess.

where i live it’s a lot of black men that dated white women here because the white women take care of these brothers and black women won’t i date outside my race but was not impressed with white men but i think alot of black men are going to white women really bad and alot of black female are complaining they don’t have no men because the white girls are taking them all but i guess it does matter what color u are if they want u they stay regardless!!!!

I respectfully asked the sisters on here earlier what can we black men do to fix whatever problem there is regarding this is, and we have not received one simple or practical answer – just more complaining and finger pointing responses. Which, unfortunately proves the point of many of the sentiments the brothers have expressed in here; A lack of communication skills and a preoccupation with character assassinating white women. I’m starting to believe that much of this complaining and blaming is more “conditioned” and habitual than it is factual. Instead of using this open forum for healthy dialog, the responses I have read in here from many of the sisters has been that of violent racially charged uproar and it’s tired and it’s lame and it’s immature. I’m personally done with the issue. We have all said some things that maybe we should not have said to each other, including myself but I was hoping to mediate at least some sensible dialog between both sides. However, it seems that the sisters on here are content to just bash and finger point. So, I’m done with this issue. It’s gotten out of hand and it’s ridiculous. Who will be the blame for “stealing ” black men tomorrow, Big Bird? This could have been an insightful and informative discussion, but I guess some black men and black women aren’t mature enough to discuss their problems with each other. Which proves that skin color isn’t necessarily a pre-requisite to compatibility. Good night black people.

@ PlotThickens-FIRST OFF…HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU EVEN COME ON BP AND TYPE SOME OFF THE WALL BULLSH!T ABOUT A BLACK WOMAN AND WHAT SHE NEED TO DO TO GET AND KEEP A BLACK MAN? NOW see thats the type of BULLSH!T,most black women be talking about DUMB IGNORANT A$$ WHITE CHICKS trying to run there MOUTH and DON’T KNOW a MOTHERFU(KING thing about BEING A BLACK WOMAN. You got to know what it FEEL like first and as you can see you CAN’T because you came on here TALKING sh!t as if you KNOW what being a BLACK woman is all about…YOU can NOT tell a BLACK woman SH!T because you can’t even get a WHITE man and keep him happy. Thats ya’ll problem now get with a black man and think you can talk sh!t and everyone is suppose to look over it. Well im not…just look at you-YOU just had to use the N word but,you love the black man so much…and thats been my problem with white people NOMATTER how much you CLAIM to love the black man-I bet the first time ya’ll get into a fight or something your first words are your motherfu(king black a$$ and act as if you own him. Then when you talk to him its like you better come here or some off the wall slave master slang ya’ll use. Its not that we cant get and keep a BLACK MAN but anybody can pick up trash anywhere. The only thing ya’ll are good for is SUCKing DICK,LICKing/BLOWing in the A$$,THREESOME,SWALLOWing his (UM,PAYing HIS BILLS/CHILDSUPPORT,KISSing A$$ to his family and friends,and LET him DRIVE your CAR around with everyone else in it-while you DUMB A$$ at work. Its not that WE/BLACK women cant keep a black man,WE just don’t WANT to take care of a GROWN A$$ KID. So go get you a TIGER SUCKER and see don’t his a$$ treat you just like he try to do the black woman. ONLY different is you will KISS a$$ and APOLOGIZE and BAG him not to leave and WE as BLACK women will OPEN the door for his a$$ to get out and have his sh!T packed and waiting. Its one thing to say you date a black man but its a horse of a different color when you come on a black topic and then try to talk sh!t and tell black woman how to keep a black man…KML)YOU need to put the crack down or whatever type drug you own because you done losted,your fu(ing mind. So don’t get it twisted-thinking your a$$ is made of gold and that a black man will treat you like a queen because the same way his a$$ treat a black woman trust and believe he will cheat on you-too.Just read the topic again. And remember that same reason that black man give you as to why he date white women is the very same reason white men say they don’t date white women. And I agree with you CaliFemme23.

trisha_369 – I’m not white, I’m Dominican. And if you don’t know where the DR is, it’s in the region of the Caribbean. So there’s dumb black chick response no. 2. You’re not worth the time and effort because you started off not knowing what you’re talking about. Probably the same reason why you can’t keep your black men from finding other women of other races. LOL

Damn, yall are some dummies. You think I’m white and my photo is right there for everyone to see. I’m Latina so you just wasted your time trying to tell me how much of a s**t white women are to me, I’m not white. Go find a white woman to say that to you idiot. And by the way Trish, I’m darker than you! Jack a$$!Single by choice. Yeah OK. LOL

Well, alot of Black woman on here are going to get upset when I say this. We are the true reason that black men run to white women, we get loud, rude, don’t want to submit, don’t communicate, we always want to take control of a black man, and so with that the black man has to become weak to be with you, we always dis our black men, make them feel worthless, we don’t care how they feel, we always are money hungry, oh he has to give me some money to go shopping or get our hair done, like we are a bill to him instead of his lady, some black women are golddiggers they rather not work when they have a man, they want a man to take care of them, which is wrong. you know what a black man is looking for, a woman who will cook for them, clean for them ,wash their clothes, be there for them, be a friend to them, love on them, pick them up when they are down, encourage them, make them feel like a man, if you continue to be harsh towards these men God has given to us as gifts, they will always and forever turn to a white woman, it is not about the long nice hair or the silk smooth pale skin, it is how they are treated when they are with them, if we as black woman learn the techniques of keeping a black man happy and satisfied, not just sex, but being there for them, loving them truly, then you won’t have to worry about them leaving you for a white woman, let’s stop being ghetto black woman, and learn to be a strong beautiful black woman that God created us to be, that will make a black man hypnotize to the point where he is to in to you to leave. sorry ladies, don’t take what I said to heart, I am black woman too telling you this. how to get black man back starts with us!

@ PlotThickens-I posted up before I got a chance to read-your respond and I didn’t know if you was a white woman or what anyway still don’t matter your not a black woman and my first comment still stand. I respond to your comment because you come off trying to tell black women how to keep a man. You can can’t keep NOBODY who don’t want to be KEPT and you can buy him things and kiss his a$$ but,when he see better his gone and what will be your reason-he left? Most guys in todays world are not really looking for a woman to love and be in a REAL relationship with he is looking for a free cab ride,money in his pocket a roof over his head and some DUMB A$$ chick to pay for it all. As a BLACK woman I can say I want more from a black man-not just sex and a bill. So don’t think by me responding to your comment that im HATING because im not. I just didn’t like how you tried to down the black woman on just what a black man told you and you really don’t know the facts. Same way I asumed you was white from your picture. Im just keeping it real on why and how-some black men date white women. And to be honest with you I don’t care its just talk like what you posted make me-say something.

100%_Monkey
Yes, you did respectfully ask us what can you black men do to fix whatever problem there is regarding this. In my opinion one simple and practical answer is COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION. It has to start with communication just as we are doing now. The next thing is PATIENT, PATIENT, PATIENT, and more PATIENT, through all the complaining and the finger pointing. We did not get this way overnight, so it’s going to take time to work through all the hurt and pain. Don’t give up on the answer you’re looking for just because it did not come in the time frame you expected. I, for one, My Brother, was very moved by just your question. So many of our brothers or sisters for that matter, including myself, have not even bothered to ask the question. My, Beautiful Brothers, learn to firstly respect yourselves then you will not have a problem respecting us, your counterpart. And when I say respect I’m not talking about this pseudo version of respect that involves what you look like, the clothes you wear, car you drive, job you have, gold in your mouth, or how good you think you are between the sheets. The respect I’m talking about is your character, and your integrity (there should be some things that you just WILL NOT do) The respect has to be there before the TRUST and LOVE follow. And, trust me, we still need your trust and most of all your love. Step up and lead us but first know where you are going because as I stated earlier, we will gladly follow you, but you have to know where you are going. Stay focused on our common goal and that is to get back to each other again. We need to start healing. Whereas I think that Crammasters has some really good advice regarding our non-support of these famous brothers who are dating and marrying women of other races I still think that there is a lot of work to be done with just us…..BM and BW. Lord knows that there is no other man for me except the BLACK MAN….love everything about them, yes, even the BS because I know where they are coming from and I can deal with it when necessary. I hope that I have been of some help to those of us who are genuinely looking for some answers.

Trisha, if you want to get technical about it, I’m historically and genetically just as black as you because my ancestors came on slave ships and landed in the West Indies and yours landed in America. So dont come in here and try to tell me how black I am when you couldn’t even tell if I was black in the first place. That’s exactly what I mean about black women running off their mouths and not getting their shyt straight! So you want to now go and tell Dominican and puerto rican woman that they are not black? Some are darker than you and we have managed to hold on to our culture AND hold on to our men. I would have been more willing to read what you wrote if you didn’t 1. think I was white then attempt to insult me by telling how much p***s I suck, and 2. if you didn’t act like a damn fool with what you wrote. But if you want to think that attitude has nothing to do with the problem we are talking about, you go right ahead and keep thinking that!

@PlotThickens-YEAH thats right run to my page and catch an eye full and im single by choice because I chose not to get married and I didn’t say I DO NOT have a man-either you DUMBA$$. If your not married to me your single. And in your pic hell you look like a fly on the wall…taking notes on how to keep the black man you got happy. Take this note and remember that-YOU CAN’T KEEP A MAN IF HE DON’T WANT TO BE KEPT. HAVE IT EVER CROSSED YOUR PEA SIZE BRAIN THAT-ITS NOT JUST THE BLACK WOMAN…at FAULT? Why didn’t you date someone of your race? Or do you feel the same way black women feel about the men of there race? Maybe they feel just like we do and think and feel the same way we feel about ya’ll. Its different things that make a relationship work so why blame the black woman and try to talk sh!t as if you know what we have to deal with or even put up with-dealing with half of the black guys. Until you walk in a black woman shoes you shouldn’t come off on no black woman as to how to get nor keep a black man. Because that black man you got and speaking so well of-could be cheating on your dumb a$$.

@PlotThickens-and thats just what you did to black women…when you came out your mouth and said,we didn’t know how to keep them. The same way you respond back to my comment is the same way we as in black women deal with a black man may not be in this type of way but my point is we stand up for ourself. And to me thats 1 of the many things black guys don’t like for a woman to talk back to him. You can give a man your hold life and he will still sh!t on you for the next woman if he think he can get more. Im sure if you ask Tigers wife the same question I bet you she will tell you the same thing. I didn’t cheat,I fu(ked him when he wanted to be fu(ked,I had his kids and I took care of them and I cook,clean,wash clothes,see then off to school and I smile when-im unhappy,take care of his needs before mine and this is what I got you cheating. Can you get that picture in your head? Iis not always the black womans fault he cheated nor dated outside his race. Not all black woman are loud mouth bit(hes with 4 or 5 baby daddy’s and with loose lips to where he can’t feel nothing. Nor living on welfare. Black men are just the same loud mouth disrespectful with 4 or 5 baby mommas. So don’t think im hating because IM NOT.

Wow…I see so much anger from both sides on this maybe it’s not as unneccesary a subject as I thought when I 1st commented 7 pages ago! Damn people, can’t anyone be logical & objective anymore? Have the little we’ve experianced in life(which unless ur immortal is little) been blown up so much in our heads that all we carry anymore is our own baggage of petty selfish angers,& insecurities. Black men are messed up. I admit it! I like to date alot of women rather than limit my possibilities be it for love,or the occassional rendevous. But I don’t bash black women or myself for not restricting my dating preference to them. I’ll say this.. There is nothing greater that’ll hold u down than a beautiful black woman.. if u treat her right. I’ve never seen so much ignorance though as i see in sone of these posts though. From the stereotypes to the ridiculous traitor accusations. You really need to see therapist some of you bcuz ur issues are comin thru ur comments! We are one, connected whether in relationship or not. Our complexion does not validate our blkness & nor should who we chose in our lovelife! I know pro blk people on here goin crazy . Ya’ll need to start ur own neo panther party if you that serious. Bcuz our issues r vastly more serious on an economic level. Our family values??! These were & have been in jeopardy for years. Not cuz of interaccial dating because of our treatmen of each other. Yea I believe in equality,& that color shouldn’t matter,but I also know that isn’t how it works. 2 the angry sis askin if a White girl turned & cried rape on a brother.. What I guess would happen is I’d know not to f**k with that person. I also know who I’m with on the other Gand as to never end up in that situation. I’ve had more blk gf’s than the two White I’ve had & I can say honestly its only about personality who u stay with. I had a my girl fr barbados,(who dated a latin guy after me.) who was at some point,just too overbearing & stuck up. She was the only gf I’ve ever had anything resembling power issues with & not bcuz she’s too strong,but we both shared so much intellectually that our arguments became to heated & passionate. I’ve dated an Italian girl(fr racist family) who is morally sound & educated,while I had nothing provided mad love,& support yet I didn’t appreciate it cuz I’m thinkin”this White girl takin up space where any hot bw should be. Now neither was right for me bcuz I wasn’t right for them. You see? You see how that works? No one was better cuz neither was meant to be. Monogamy is as much a gamble as promiscuosity is why I date whoever I want. A wide world of fish u gotta swim thru. Can’t be focusing on colors of the scales. Does that make me less blk? Do I still not possess the blkness of the some of the educated pro blk
extremist on here, does it make me less capable of wilding out on some thug s**t(which trust me,I’m great at both!) like 50 or any1 hood? Nah,I’m from the hood,& I am blk. Know who u are. These issues shouldn’t anger you. Let go of your baggage & stereotypes of each other. I’m not obnoxious,with any kids, baby mommas,or BS.But too many of the women here that just means there’s something wrong w me. U see how u think? When it’s personally ur
intterest you women are very very noticeably insecure. Hence the seemingly overwhelming strength(as some call it) I don’t think strength is a turnoff. I think it’s a copout. R u saying the only strong women r blk? I won’t say I’ve been the best big brotha, cuz I like freedom, I got my own time to settle. But don’t think if I meet that right blk girl I won’t jump on it. I just hope she’ll be one of the few clear headed ones who can accept me for me. Not my status,money, or even looks. Because the biggest thing about black women to me isn’t there black,it’s being a woman. Let’s face it,women by nature,ur as shallow as any man. Be it dating a guy for his,job,body,car,or all of the above,you all have ur list of superficial bs u look for that don’t have s**t to do with morality or personality. Blk or white wouldn’t matter I wouldn’t stay with anyone,based on these comments only a few of you are even rational enough to say”it’s ok”. The rest r just wanting 2 know if i “F with White girls”, if that’s a concern of IRS without knowing me,your not my type.

Trisha, just shut the hell up and stop trying to redeem yourself. You already Hispanola people which means we too are black you f’n moron. Learn your history, pick up a book and read. Dominican is on the same island as Haiti dumb butt! We were imported African slaves by the Spaniards (hence why we speak Spanish). Oh my God, no wonder you’re single, you’re an idiot. I’m not going to go back and forth with you country ghetto chickenheads. Get some class. No, in fact – GO to class dummy! Now go ahead and be predictable and respond. Moron!

100th__Monkey, you asked what can black men to to fix the problem. Now, I can only speak for myself, but where to start?! This topic could go on for aeons, but I will try to be succint.

I think that if there is a good man out there who has his life together–if he is effectively managing it–and he demonstrates wisdom, generosity and is willing to work it out with his partner, he’s golden. Good women are not asking for anything unreasonble. We just want someone who is patient, strong (a protector) and who won’t give up.

I myself will not date a certain type of man, but this is related to personality and background more than anything. This is because I know the type of exchange I will have with this person and to me, my home should be my “sanctuary”. I realize that relationships have their ups and downs, but I don’t want to deal with unneccessary conflict. Thus, while I already mentioned how I think black men can HELP solve the problem, I think it really boils down to knowing oneself, be willing to improve, and partnering with someone who is compatible. There is no such thing as perfection, but professional help goes a long way in helping a person be better, especially in a relationship.

Interestingly, there was a show on CNN about “being black in America”. I could only watch a few minutes of it, but it showed how a black couple taught marriage counseling classes (for free), in the black community. Very helpful resource! I think more people need to seek help like this.

@100th_Monkey you asked what can a black man do to fix the problem?WELL ITS NOT THAT WE WOMEN HAVE NOT ANSWERED THE QUESTION…ITS THE FACT THAT YOU GUYS ONLY READ WHAT YOU AGREE WITH. If you had read my comment pertaining to this dead topic about 20 pages ago,you will notice that I answered your question “indirectly” so let me answer it in a way you’ll fellas will understand. IF YOU ARE SEEKING A REAL BLACK WOMEN, DRAMA FREE-
1.)learn how to deal with you’ll responsibilities and not always run off to women of another race as a way of excaping.
2.)at least graduate from middle school,high school and go on to college(what can you offer your children other than gangsta activities?)
3.)get a darn J.O.B
4.)learn to face your challenges and not run from them
5.)stop being so lazy
6.)dont get with a person of another race b/c their the only ones that will accept your sorrow lazy broke ars
7.)dont feel you need to get with a person of another race to please your boys(grow the fk up!)

you see brothas,there are a whole lot of black women who are successful,educated and might choose to remain date’n “brothas”
but most of you brothas either “gay” “locked up” “uneducated and broke” or all the above…what black successful, educated woman want to deal with that?????child please, I WANNA KNOW? SOME OF YOU BROTHAS ARE TIRED AND A LOT OF OUR SISTAS ARE TURNING TO NON-BLACK MEN SO GET YOUR ARZ OUT OF THE BOX AND “MAN UP” ITS 2009!

its sad how YOU BROTHAS ONLY AGREE WITH GIRLS ON HERE WHO MIGHT SIDE WITH YOU,I STR8 UP TELL IT LIKE I SEE IT.

THERE IS AN OBVIOUS DIFFERENTIATION BTWN A HOOD RAT SISTA,A GIRL AND A WOMAN.SOME OF YOU’LL REMAIN IN THE HOOD, PROJECTS AND IF THATS ALL YA SEE,BY ALL MEANS, THATS ALL YOU’LL WILL GET.YOU’LL NEED TO SNAP OUT IGNORANCE AND LEARN THE DIFFERENCE BTWN THEM THREE…..IDIOTS!SMH

Search09, thank you for the response. I will speak to you first. I read what you had to say and took much of it under consideration. It still seems that all black men are being grouped together unfairly. Let me give you a little insight on myself. I am single parent with two daughters. I have “full” custody and I was married for 12 years. The reason I have full custody is because I agreed to take full custody so that my ex wife can go back to school for her MBA, not because of any drama. It’s the least I can do for her because she gave me two beautiful girls. No I didn’t cheat on her, beat on her, nor did she with me. We just grew in two different directions. So, I take care of my responsibilities. I pay my mortgage, my bills on time, I have health insurance, and decent credit. I did my undergrad at Alabama State University and did my grad at Old Dominion with a Masters in Health Sciences. I’m a fitness director and nutritionist and have been for 13 years. I have dated black women, white women, Asian women, Latin women. Yet, with that being said . . . I do often get overlooked by black women who claim to want a good-educated-responsible man. Perhaps I’m not good looking enough, if so I can handle that. Perhaps I’m just not what they want. The point is, I don’t get a lot of sisters kicking in the door to get at me. That’s not to say that white women have picked up the baton either. I am picky and careful who I share a bed with. I’m sacred to death of bringing home an STD to my kids. It’s scares the bejesus out of me. Search09, Your answers are viable and it does apply but to a certain demographics of black men. So I say, instead of trying to change “those” black men, I think you should just turn your focus on the other black men. The black men who come from good homes, the black men who were raised by both mother and father. The black men who don’t thug it out, don’t raise their hand to a woman, don’t involve themselves in self destructive behavior. They DO exist and sometimes, they DO get overlooked and are under-appreciated. But I hear what you’re saying.

Candyboxxx, thank you for your response as well. You’re right, it boils down to self awareness. I’ve mentioned a couple of times that black men and black women have fallen out of compatibility with one another. That is by no fault of one or the other, I feel it’s the social climate and the social change. Black culture is the dominant pop culture on the planet, no denying that. And as it becomes more, “cool” or “fashionable” for non blacks to act black, talk black, walk black – it sets up a system that pushes the originators to the back. It’s called, ‘Simulacra and Simulacrum’. This means that a copy of a copy of a copy will eventually yield the same results as the original. So when this happens, you sisters kind of get lost in the mix. It’s our responsibility as black men to make sure that no other woman takes your birthright. However, I feel that it’s just as imperative that black women make sure their birthright isn’t stolen as well. We can get into a whole discussion on black women Euro-cising themselves out of their social position next to the black man but that’s for another time. Classy 57 said COMMUNICATION is the key and I agree. We also have to understand that social problems are not going to fix themselves. We have to be pro-active and not so much antagonistic about it. Relationships has nothing to do with love or marriage, or even compatibility. Relationships simply means our method of relating to each other and that comes again, with communication.

Now, let me say this: I am saddened by a lot of what I’m reading in here and have been so turned off by this that I don’t even wish to read anymore. With the exception of a few of you sisters, most of the responses have not been constructive, not been informative, or intelligent, or even coherent at times. Now sisters are bickering and cursing each other out and that makes me think, if black women can’t even get along with each other – how do you expect to get along with black men? Sometimes, you sisters DO need to tone it down. When you now have sisters coming in here and qualifying who is black and who is not, it’s gotten ridiculous.

Trisha_369 – please take this for what it’s worth. I’m not here to embarrass you or bash you but we are all adults. You are in no moral position to tell anyone that they are not black and so they should just butt out. We black folk have a tendency to think only African Americans can be considered black. People of the Dominican Republic ARE black. Part of my family is Dominican and I also have family from Barbados. Many African slaves were dropped of at different ports along the journey to America (America was only the last stop in the slave trade to the west); Jamaica, Trinidad, Puerto Rico, Haiti, and the Bahamas all dropped off black people because these islands were conquered by the Spaniards, Portuguese, French, and British. They are ALL our people! What you said to that sister was probably one of the worst things I’ve read in here and when you attempted to insult her thinking she was white, I was disgusted at what you were saying. And you never once apologized for the mistake you made. I will apologize for you. Sister, I’m sorry you had to read that.

Now, maybe the brothers on here want to respond to Search and Candyboxx (love the profile name by the way.)

He wanted me to send you guys this because the brother is done. So please read

A latino and black were shot and killed last night not in New Haven, CT.

Now what is more important?

Hey a person can be damn multicolored far as I care. If you are happy with the person you are wit, than hey, there should be no issue.

I can’t believe this is still a topic of discussion, in 2009! Seriously? It’s like the old “color guard” hoping to stomp out “race mixing”…gimme a break! Drop it already! I have dated so many women from different backgrounds and ultimately I look for someone who shares my values; limiting my choice in a mate to a specific race, ideology, shoe size, etc. is absolutely outdated and silly. Unfortunately, morbidly archaic questions like the one posted here are met with hostility, racist retorts, and a reason for men and women with a HUGE chip on their shoulder to spout out all manner of obscenities, leaving one to question if their lopsided opinions are so steeped in racist beliefs how could they possibly deem themselves attractive to begin with? Some of the responses sound as if they were taken from people still living in the “Jim Crow” era!

Really?? This is a topic?? lol white, black, red, yellow or purple…. a man and a woman is and always will be a man and woman regardless of color… most people see a beutiful person and fall in love with that person… you dont go out intentionally lookin for just white chicks.. white women are no different then african-american women … both have brains, heart, spirit and a vag…. :)

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surely enough communication is the key to sustaining a great relationship.Classy said it best!but jumping into conclusions isn’t,DARLING I’M NOT SEEKING LOVE.I dont normally put my business out there but uhhhh I AM MARRIED TO A NON-AMERICAN BLACK ENGINEER WHO HAS TWO DEGREES.so i am all set.I am a black woman who has it TOGETHER.see I post on here on several topics when I can in a way of encouraging but by all means non of the mess I comment is pertaining to my life syle.last time I checked,I was happily married ;-)
So good you are very accomplished as a PERSON WHO HAS REACHED ADULTHOOD SHOULD BE.which is expected but some brothas want a pat on the back for A JOB WELL DONE, hell some brothas want to be placed on a pedastal when they have a nonblack woman besides them bc in their head they have reached the top.always expecting something good to come out when enough effort has not been applied…I speak in general and not directing much of what I say to you.

now you say your divorced which only brings up one thing in my head @ this point.possible numerous partners walking in and out that house as if you were having a yard sale :-o … obviously you date right?not all who divorce behave like that but some people just dont care and think that their children are not watching…but hey..”do u whats best for u”
also you state that black women overlook you and basically bypass you WELL I DONT KNW WHAT TO TELL YA…MAYBE ITS YOUR LOOK,SWEETY HOW TALL ARE YOU,DO YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF?IS THAT YOU IN THE PHOTO?ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN?
oh and possibly its where you meet these women.why do you say “BLACK WOMEN?” if every single black woman that you have encountered have either found something wrong and eventually broke it off with u or just not interested,sweety maybe there is something much more visible that they notice for instance, are you that c0cky,ego headed type of man? Maybe they sense that you are too self-absorbed and talk about yourself and ur accomplishments as opposed to getting to know your partner, i dunno, but it is def. worth something you should look into.Just dont do what most black brothas do and give up on the world or the entire black women population.fellas just keep in mind that in all honesty, giving UP ON BLACK WOMEN AS A BLACK MAN, IS INDIRECTLY GIVING UP ON YOURSELF!

Search09, that’s not MY post or response, that’s 100th Monkey’s post to you that he forwarded to me and I’m posting it for you guys.

I don’t see any problem with interracial dating, however I do have a problem with the statement, “A black man knows a black woman like the back of his hand, so this makes the black woman a bit of a bore.” All black women are not the same(hence). Lots of times when people experience bad relationships of a certain race, they stereotype the whole race; for example BLACK WOMEN, most black men would relate them to fake hair/nails, and the infamous baby mama drama, but all black woman don’t carry those traits. Black women are creative, intelligent, special, and unique, but that doesn’t mean we(including white women) dont have flaws. Our individual personality makes us who we are and to me that’s far from being a bore!

uhhh o kayyyy both of you’ll need a JOB…brotha got himself two active accounts on BP LOL
oh well i’ve got to attend an office meeting,but have fun plot monkey or whoever u are :-)

What the hell are all you women talking about don’t get me wrong i love my black women,i mean there is nothing like black love,to me only a black women know’s how to love a black man period.But and that is a big but how come black women are so hard to approach?,women of other races will have a conversation with you while a black women curls her lips up at you.I have my own everything i work,have several cars,my own place and i have a associate degree in crimal justice,so i think that i am some what educated would’nt you agree?,so why when i approach a sista and im being myself no games they think that i am soft or to nice because i don’t portray that thug image i can’t be the man for them,why is that ladys?.So to make it very clear black women thinks that black men owe them something let me be the first to say i don’t owe you s**t,stop dating them thugs,and wanna be thugs and step yo man game up,cause when a real man come at you ya’ll look at them sideways and just mabie thats why brotha’s are going to white,latino,asain,or who ever they go too!,black women stop turning ya’ll nose’s up to the real black men out there who are trying,wether they work at a fast food joint or have an career stop judging and give em a try…..I believe that you can’t measure sucess by how much money you make,only by the person you are. Eariler i said that i have my own everthing im not bragging because it is justified i worked very hard to get where i am,in my opinion it is different dating women of different races,white women are more submissive while alot of black women are more stand off ish which i understand being a black man i’ve seen my dad treat my mom like s**t,then she started to date a white man and he treated her like gold and now my dad is all alone a bitter man while my mom is happy and married to the man of her dreams and who cares if he’s white all that matter is that she is happy. All im saying is as a race black men and black women need to respect,love,and accept one another who cares how much money he or she make,it’s about comming together as two and becoming one and doing whats best for each other,what ever happen to throw back love you know back in big mamma and poppa days now that was real black love all we have to do as a people is get back on dat level just my opinion…….

way 2 do it HB lol knew u were gonna get feed back with this one huh?? Well the way I see it this is an argument that will never end until the world does! To the confused/ simple minded BLACK MEN, don’t point fingers if ur hands aint clean. the only thing that bothers me about black men when it comes to this, is having to listen to the BS azz reasons why u feel the need to date white women! So quick to say that black women only want money, we’re loud, ghetto and all that BS, ur highly mistaken if u think that’s what ALL BLACK WOMEN have become. lets see IM 21 young but wise, and i already see that if it were left up to most black men, black women would be left for dead! U say black women have to many wants, needs, expectations, etc. When is the last time most black men have really looked for a GODFEARING black woman with morals, standards, class, respect, all that goodness. Instead, u want ASS, TITTS, THIGHS, FREAK, CERTAIN COMPLEXION, EASY, NOT DEMANDING…SO THE WAY I C IT, think about what ur looking for. U get upset and want to call women gold-diggers, when all u do is flash ur cash around, which is all that many of u have to offer…calling a Black women w***es, bet it didnt stop u from sleepin with her! Don’t ask for a good woman if u dont know what to do with her, and if u dont know what ure lookin for. GOLD-DIGGERS, W***ES, EASY, BAD, GOOD ALL THESE KINDS OF WOMEN COME IN ALL RACES…IT DEPENDS ON WHO YOU’RE DEALING WITH! I MEAN HELL HALF OF U JUST SIMPLY LIKE EXPERIMENTING WITH YOUR DCKS ANYWAY, just be real! FOR THE “OTHER CHICKS” in here, dont be so quick to come at black women either acting like u can relate..or give us pointers on how 2 keep our men, or acting like ur something special because u have them…with the reasons most black men give for dating u, lol its nothing to be proud about. BLACK MEN DONT EVER EXPECT TO FIND A GOOD BLACK WOMAN IF UVE GIVEN UP ON US…AND IF ANY1 WAS TO ABANDON SHIP IT SHOULD BE BLACK WOMEN, hell if i were to blame all black men for a few I WOULDNT BE ABLE TO LOOK AT UR ASSES ..BUT I KNOW WHAT A “STRONG BLACK MAN” IS SO I WILL 4EVER LOVE BLACK MEN…MY FATHER IS JUST THAT. SO I KNOW WHAT A REAL MAN IS, most of u r just not it! IF A WHITE WOMAN IS WHAT U PREFER, SIMPLY SAY THAT..but dont blame black women for your BS, if u look for a real woman for more than just laying on her back or bending over for u..u might do better ; ) WHEN U REACH A CERTAIN POINT IN UR LIFE WHEN U START SAYIN ALL BLACK WOMEN R THE SAME, just because U’ve ran in2 the same kind of women..thats a mistake on ur part u would think its impossible…so u should probably take a look at yourself, your expectations, your way of thinking!!

who cares? If they can handle the business, never mind the color, give them the ring!!

Jesus Christ Search, what is wrong with you? It’s not MY post and because I forwarded the message on here, I’m wrong? I don’t know what your are driving at with this two account issue but apparently, you don’t read that well do you? If you are saying that I’m 100 monkey then you are a damn dummy. LMFAO. And I have a job. You’re on here just as much as everyone else. Everytime you dumb broads get corrected, you turn around and start saying dumb shyt about people instead of just saying, “Oh sorry for the mistake.” I wasn’t trying to be a smart ass with you or insult you but you just couldn’t handle the idea that you wrote all the bullshyt and it didn’t even pertain to me because it was quoted by someone else. So instead of just apologizing, you talk shyt about me and the other person for no reason? Nice! You’re a piece of work. Yes, maybe you should go to your little meeting. Responder si se quiere, no me importa. estupidez perra que no pueden leer. Ya he terminado contigo

WOW YALL TRIPPIN black men love white women because they are s**tty. plain and simple

Well! Well! Well!
It is easier to love any one that you saw, then to love someone who does not love you.
In the line of black and white, there is a hug space that is in-between them. Which only black men, can see. And that hug line is trust.
Black women, will never understand who loved her and who do not love her, they take all men in carnality. And with that form of life men are interested on people that will love and care for them, if you are to ask me…I’ll tell you that black women are not trust wordy.
Thank you and be blessed as you read this.

This whole battle is all about personal experiences, personal or witnessed. And most people base their future dating choices on experiences they had previous, regardless of color. However, I can honestly say my choice to date white women came from my own personal experience but has not even been covered by anyone on this forum. I had traveled with my family in the military, and settled and grew up in a part of the country that was predominately white. My parents grew up in the south, and growing up I was not allowed to use slang or ghetto talk, and had the example of a loving monogamous committed relationship in my parents. My parents also had the of the central focuses of my life be my spiritual life and my education. When I came to the age of dating, my parents put no pre-conceived expectation in my head about who I was to date, race wise or otherwise. When I began dating I dated people of all backgrounds, colors and races… eventually it came down to relatability. I am attracted to women of all colors, however when I dated black women, they always commented on who I was as an individual, I heard things like… “why do talk like a white person?” “How come you don’t act more “black”? Honestly, I didn’t even know what this meant for a while, I was just being me. But overtime I found I wasn’t fitting into someones mold… But, I wasn’t going to change for anyone. One of the funniest one’s I heard was… ” I can tell you’re gonna marry a white woman.”
The sad thing is, I really liked this person, but we couldn’t find common ground, cause I couldn’t cut up and talk ghetto, is the ridiculous stereotyping, pidgeon holes, we as black people put OURSELVES in, independent of white people! It wasn’t until I reached my 30s that I found women who were comfortable enough with themselves to accept me as I was, but by then it was too late. I had found more common ground with white women, who were okay with me, the way I was. I have no negative stereotypes to put on black women, except the ones I met or tried to date simply wanted me to be something I wasn’t and were unable to move to find a common ground to relate to who I was. So they just kinda missed out. Sometimes people don’t need all the fronting and carrying on, they just want to relate to someone on the same level. But it is possible for someone to have a completely positive outlook towards all women, but simply find acceptance from one group vs. another.

Lol,I realize the topic isn’t retarded,it’s the people responding to it. Afrikka sun,neva betta, & search too! You all perpetuate that irratiionality & prejudice of the people u dislike. If all u been hearing outta blkack men hear is “We lve White women” I’m convinced things won’t change for you or any man taking u on in relationships(with exception to the married women). Ur so ridiculous & unfair u refuse to acknowledge that some dudes here haveade a decent point without bashing you! Many declare there love for only the blk women.and still aren’t respectfully acknowledged. Because of there impartiality. That’s your racism,your bitterness,your insecurity to another race of women. Did u all lose a blk man u loved to a White chick!? What’s this stupd preserve our race bs comin up about! That’s italian/Hasidic Jew/ Nazi talk,not our people! If u refuse to even hear out the more neutral intellectual opinion of a blk man because he’s in question than u might as well be white urselves! Go work for our justice system,they’d love mostu women on the bench. All blk men Guilty till proven guilty. Use what logic God gave u & cut ur bitter crap out. Some of U just want to abuse any blk man for everything wrong in ur life. It’s so transparent. Who breeds that. I acknowledge the point of views of even some of bashing dudes ad well as ALL the women. Most of u are very cool,able to see for what it is. The rest of u are angry…but think. How can a Stranger..let’s face it we’re talking about strangers cuz this could be any blk man & any white women(or other race) & u think u know them both without knowing anything attack them? Who gave u that right? I don’t defend My LOVE for dating Any Race. I just defend my right to date any without judgement. But some of u are too bitter & irrational to see.

P.S & guess what? Blk women can be s**ttier than any white girl I met, just to trump the few ignoramuses who keep echoing these childish stereotypes. I’d respect opinions more were they not shrouded in bitter angry stereotypes. Blk women are more sexual,better oral, & some r even as obedient as donna freakn reed! So stop saying it’s cuz White women got this n that. It’s because it’s a wide world & not everybody is brought up in an intolerant household,the worlds bad enough.maybe some do think it’s easier,but what does that mean to you? Those dudes r not only ignorant themselves,their S**ts! U know y some white girls give it up? Lo self esteem..same reason alot blk wmn do dumb s**t. But u women have more drama of course due to ur light skin/Darkskn wars in ur own backyard. It’s ridiculous with a Capitol R. Stop the hating & madness.

Some of these post are hilarious, especially the black men, who are obviously upset because some black woman aren’t interested. Truth be told, I don’t worry about black men dating white women anymore, because I have come to realize that the ones you see walking around holding hands with them, I’m not attracted to anyway. No you don’t have to be a thug, it’s not about that. I’m attracted to a strong-minded take charge, about his business black man. I can relate to a man who has my same interest, and is not so far out of touch with his reality, that he looks down on black people like he isn’t one. I have black male friends who date white women and every single one of them have told me the same thing…Black women aren’t attracted to me. I’m sorry but attraction is extremely important, as well as chemistry. And it’s not about acting too white, it’s just we don’t have chemistry, due to the fact that you may act like you have a stick up your ass. I’m not trying to offend anyone, but I’m know I’m saying what a lot of us black women are feeling. If that’s what you get in to guys, then do your thang, but I’m keeping it real why I could care less. Theres just no attraction there, and eventually I will get bored. I do not like the “thug” wearing his pants down his ass, can’t talk proper, english when the time comes for it, beat your ass type. That’s so not for me. And most of us who have sense and polish about ourselves would say the same exact thing. We just don’t like a push over. It’s not hard to approach us, but damn put a little finess to your approach, and don’t come to me like you are scared to death to approach me….instant turnoff. And yes we do expect a lot, you should to.There are plenty successful, educated, don’t need your money black women out here, plenty…so while you are turning your nose up at our race…BABY PLEASE, we probably aren’t even checking for you in the first place. LMBO!!!

Well I cant give a reason why I am attracted to black men, its inside me so deep that thats just what attracts me, makes my head turn, my heart skip a beat, makes me all fluttery and “drool” and its been like this ever sence I was in pre-school!.Its the look… the dark skin and facial shapes etc I know I dont see in a white man.All the boys and men I have been atracted to and liked
get my crushes on and blush around were also black. And my friends even to this day tease me and say I have “blackdar”
radar and they for me because I always got and get the most reaction and attention from the black man… Mind you I grew up a country girl..a cowgirl, in the rodeo on the rodeo curcuit, working ranches,farms,dairies etc. And although I seen many a white cowboy I thought was cute… it was more the”cowboy” look and the rustic wrangler wearing boot stompin bull riding aspect of the “white” cowboy that caought my eye.few and far between there were the black cowboy out there that just made me wanna die the flutterflies were so strong. I married a white man…my first “REAL” boyfriend I was allowed to even have when I was 16. We were married for 21 yrs and have 4 beautiful kids…..I was never realy “in love” with him nor was I attracted to him and I look back and wounder what the hell I was doing because Id drool and get all giddy if a black man crossed my path or talked to me. I divorced hy husband and for the first time started the “dating scene” dated a few different men..black and white……..I wasnt happy with the white man that fit the stereo type of the guy I was supposed to like or supposed to be with bcuz he was like me… dressed in the wranglers n boots rode horses lived/worked on ranches and lived the rodeo life. Ohh they were sexy and cute and sweet, nice had it all….. but I wasnt happy there was always that “something” missing. I met aone black man inpaticular, we hit it off even more then the handfull of black men that were inetersted in me and ended up getting together. He is one of the black men who are NOT interested in black women and realy cant stand the way alot of the black men act and represent themselves and other black men, the thug..baggy pants walkin with a limp im all bad ass phonics talking kind. And with nothing but sisters, girl cousins and lots og aunts…. he says the attitude and personality that the black women seem to have and represent is the number one reason he just wont date one, but like me with a black man… he with a white women just has that attraction that he cant explain that is from way down deep inside. I am the first “real” women he has been fully involved in and his first real relationship thats gone where it has. I am 13 yrs older than he is and now his two children from his discretion are the same age as three of my grandchildren. He too tried dating other women both black and white but none ever worked or had that special thang that we seem to have.
We have been together off and on going on 11 yrs now….. aserious indescretion broke us up after two yrs…. kept us apart as partners, for 3 yrs, but we just never could stop thinking about wanting or missing eachother so got back together again 4 yrs ago. I dated a couple black men and a white man in those 3 yrs and again the white man didnt cut it. The black men woulda n coulda been the right ones xcept for m y strong solid heartfelt feelings for him that I still carried. We both thought life without eachother would be ok, but found its not even with his 2 descretions and hurting me, my love for him is so deep that he and I are just destened to be till the day we die. Hes not a cowboy, not a thug, and not a “proper” fancy talkin suit n tie kind of guy he isnt anything the steriotype hype look that I should be with but we fit like hand and glove. I love him with all my heart and soul , but when a sexy black man walks past me… I still cant help but look, smile and blush and yes my heart goes pitter patter and I can honsetly say a white man has NEVER done that to me.

lol a black man love white girls because they dont complian about s**t i hate when i c a cute black man with a ugly ass white girl that makes me mad

telmeurname, everyone will have an opinion about someone elses opinion..it happens! u wanna start coming with this BS ass trivia about this and that ppl being uneducated and what not MISS ME WITH ALL THAT OK! I’m speaking from what IVE SEEN, u probably have dated out of ur race and all this STINGS U IN THE ASS that some ppl dont agree with it so u feel the need to DEFEND IT u know it AND I DO TO..its kool!! the same way you are saying we are insecure, bitter,racist, etc..your speaking as if we r not strangers to u, as if u know us, DUMBASS O O but i guess my response had RACIST,INSECURE AND BITTER WRITTEN ALL OVER IT HA!! GET OUTTA HERE…AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST IF U THINK THAT U WONT BE JUDGED IN THIS WORLD, URE AN EVEN BIGGER DUMBASS..so u can save that last little closing line cuz it SUCKED!! take this with you, just because black women speak on stuff as this and we may not agree with it, doesnt make us bitter. Some of us are just aware of BS when we see it MY BROTHA things r clearer when ure on the outside looking in! DO i have 2 dumb that down, OR CAN U READ BETWEEN THAT 2?? since U R THE INTELLIGENT ONE. ALSO AS I STATED IN ANOTHER POST…FOR THE PEOPLE WHO KEEP SAYING ITS “2009″ ITS THE “21ST CENTURY” WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH ANYTHING?? EVERYONE COMES FROM DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE WORLD, IM FROM THE SOUTH TX AT THAT! SO FOR THOSE WHO WOULD LOVE TO BE COLORBLIND, MAYBE U SHOULD GET “DOG EYES” i hear they see in black and white…OH SNAP i did it again that wont work, THEY SEE BLACK AND WHITE 2 AWWW : ( as far as we’ve COME, RACE/COLOR will always matter in AMERICA, AMERICA STILL ISNT Geared FOR “us” even through all the fighting for our rights. So of course some black ppl will see this differently than others, it happens. excuse me if i got a little random but hey some1 gets my point ; ) I DONT TRIP 2 HARD ANYWAY, BECAUSE THESE KIND OF BROTHERS BECOME “UNIDENTIFIED OBJECTS” “DAMAGED GOODS” “TAINTED” 2 ME ANYWAY!! i just see this as another way of separating BOYS FROM MEN ; ) have a nice day

TONI_ANTHONY: What’s your definition of a ‘REAL’ black man? Your ignorance is shining brighter than the color yellow in the crayola box. The assumption that ALL white women are used, abused & walked on by the black man is far fetched. YOU’VE NEVER stepped out of your race to know the reason why interracial dating is of interest to some…. SO, TELL ME AGAIN HOW YOU OPINION MAKES SENSE? You have NO personal experience. (You’re a waste & a lame)-

BP i’d think we could find some more important or even better of taste/value to discuss. We ALL say we’re looking for a change. But, if a black man feels he’s more interested in a white woman IT’S A DEBATE! Love & relationships aren’t so open-close cases. I’m biracial (blk/wht) – regardless of what race a person is WE are to FALL IN LOVE with the heart; not skin color. I’m still trying to figure out when we’ll stop worrying about what’s going on behind someone else’s closed door & focus on our own. ((OPINIONS are like armpits = everyone has one & some f**kin stink!))

@100TH_MONKEY-First off im not going to apologize for my respond and I did correct myself once I realize she was not white-I never looked at her profile and on her picture she look white and I spoke the truth on what I know and see how white girls act here-when they date black men and why some not all black men date them. As in your comment or her post she/you is telling black women how to deal with black men as in how to date and keep one. Then she went on my page and came back and maded the statenment single by choice-as in what I wrote on my profile. Which-I stated single don’t mean you-don’t have a man-it just mean your not married in my book. I never said,she couldn’t date black men nor did I say white women can’t…I did say that some black guys chose to date white women because of all the reason I posted up before and they do just like I stated,they do when they get mad at the black man. I just don’t get why any other race-would make a statenment about black women and they don’t know both sided-as in to why we/as in black women don’t put up with alot of bull from the black man and other races will? I went on to ad that-its not even about her race and I don’t even care about that part-I was responding to the fact she/you was trying to tell us how to deal/keep or date a black man. When they dog them out just like they try to do the black woman and some of us just sit back and put up with his bullsh!t. Black men may treat other races better than they do there own and you best to believe they cheat on them too and the same way black men down there race of women and they race say the same about them. So you wrote the statenment or whatever she is talking about ya’ll need to apologize and why use the N word-when explaining the black man…WHY can’t he just be a black man? Think what you want to about me-I really don’t care-and I will never apologize for something I believe is right and I will never take back something I meant to say…now if I feel you on that level-I will agree with you and if I don’t like something you post im going to let you know and if you don’t agree with me then im cool with that but if you come at me twisted and im coming back the same way.
P.S. NOMATTER what color he is you can’t keep a man if he don’t want to be KEPT.(just my opinon)

Im Black and most of my friends are married to or date black women 99.5%. Those high profile interracial couples makes dating white women seem more common than it is. In those cases what you have are men who were young boys and physically advanced but were still socially and mentally immature. Those agents (mostly white) who had means of attracting them would take them to parties and functions where there were few, if any, “sistas”. The attention (or leeching) that they were getting was mistakened in their weak minds as “love they werent getting in the hood”. So this became the norm. They loved the ego strokes white women gave and fell for their traps.

PlotThickens in a previous post you told me that I should log off because apparently I didn’t know what I was talking about. I don’t care how much ebonics or slang you’v learned along the way, or how many black men you’ve slept with–you are not a BLACK Woman! Sorry to wake you from your delusional life. I am black and quite proud of it, and I’m sorry that you are bothered by the truth being exposed about the subject matter. There are many sites for white, latino, and asian women that have jungle fever. Why don’t you do a google search and see what you can come up with. So I suggest you cancel your account and find a site designed for women like you. In one of your post you questioned whether a not a black woman that posted was in fact a queen. All Black women are queens, nubian queens and we are due respect and honor as such. I’m tired of hearing you rant and rave about your dominican culture. There are libraries and community colleges in Chicago, why don’t you avail yourself of the resources in your community, because you are ignorant. You don’t know the history of your culture, which is sad. Look this tidbit up…many of your ancestors were slave owners..did you know that? Also, where were your people during the civil rights movement?

The question posed, “Why do black men love white women?”is like an elephant in the room, so to speak. It’s there, but people rarely want to address the issue.

I understand that white, latino, asian, and weak black men are infuriated, but get over it!

To people that continue to say that race doesn’t matter, they are delusional and living a lie.

Since Barack Obama became president, race issues have become more polarized.

Black men it seems that you would learn something from our commander in chief. Examine his family, his choice in a wife. I’m sure he had white, asian, and latino women after him as he climbed the ladder of success, but he had love for the black. Our first lady is a chocolate hued sista. It’s beautiful to see a black family intact and thriving.

All I can say is WOW! I checked out the website and was like dayummmmmm BUT some of the ” Brothas” I could tell who would date a white woman. I guess to each it’s ON you date whom YOU LOVE. My problem that I have is WHEN YOU deny your race or TALK down about the women or men in your race. Be PROUD of who YOU are and LOVE who you love! Love is TRULY COLORBLIND…

PlotThickens consider this education 101 for you…since you also seem to be caught up on the fact that dominican people are of many hues and shades, allow me to enlighten you. Within your culture there are some serious racial issues. Dark complected dominicans are considered outcasts within their culture and often receive ill treatment. This has been going on forever…you didn’t mention that, did you know that? Dominicans don’t want to be associated with black people, but yet you want black men.

I am not some weak-minded fool who has “self-hatred” or lacks self respect, nor am I some push over as someone stereotypically described black men who date white women, in an earlier post. I am well-travelled successful, educated, sensual, strong and highly motivated. I am conservative, yet I am open minded and far from stereotypical. I don’t care for racists , be they black or white and i don’t like the trash of any race; I have been blessed with a wonderful woman in my life, currently. I have to admit, when I am dating a beautiful, black woman responses from other black cpls is positive, if I date a beautiful non-black woman I get the rolled eyes and shaken heads, not from whites but from other blacks. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter the response as long as my partner and I are happy. I gotta tell you, the most racist remarks and responses have come from other blacks with regard to whom I date, I mean REALLY vicious, mean-spirited remarks as if dating a woman who is not black hurts them so deeply and personally. I feel sorry for anyone with that kind of chip on their shoulder in this day and age, I really do.

WhyDoTheyLeave, what exactly makes you more black than a person from Haiti or the Tobago or the Caribbean? You are just as ignorant as the rest of the ignorant dummies in here. You sound disgruntled that black men are dating women of other ethnic groups (Jungle Fever?) What a stereotypical and insulting statement to make. You made it, I didn’t! Are you saying that your black men belong in a jungle? You’re so busy trying to claim I’m insulting everyone that you insult your own people by accident. Jungle Fever? You might as well call yourself a porch monkey or jigaboo. Every time someone comes in here to respond to me they still end up saying ignorant shyt about themselves. Y’all just need to stop while you’re ahead. Let me wake YOU from your phase of denial. I AM black and my mother is black (African) and my father is my complexion you moron! I’m not from Spain, I’m a black Dominican you jack a$$. Unless you just stepped off the slave ships yesterday, then shut the fuk up! I can come in here and say whatever the hell I want and you or Peaches or Serches or whatever her damn name is can do nothing about it. About this queen garbage, if you’re a queen then act like a damn queen. You’re not awarded that title simply because you’re a black chick. You sound stupid. Yall going around calling yourselves queens and then calling each other b***hes in the same sentence. That’s why black men are tired with yall because yall are confused and are intimidated by other women! I’m not saying, general consensus is saying it. 90% of the black men in here are saying. I didn’t make it up, go back read how tired your fellow brothers are with black women. I never said it was right but I understand why and I especially understand why after reading all this crap in here. So I can rant and rave about any damn thing I want, what the hell you gonna do about it besides come in here after me and rant and rave about me ranting and raving? So whatcha gonna do about it? Nothing but come back with another response! So shut the hell up. and by the way, I don’t know where you got your Dominican history from moron but that is not true. Dark skin Dominicans are the outcast. But thanks for attempting to educate a Dominican on Dominican culture. Oh My God, you guys are getting stupider by the minute. LOL

@ PlotThickens-You need to stop with the chickenhead because your the QUEEN. And you are just like the white chick when it come to trying to talk s**t and you claim that your people are imporant as if the blacks here or not and that -idiot is your ignorant a$$ and no you don’t have to go back and forth and im NOT trying to redeem a damn thing my words didn’t change-I just say you wasn’t white and what I stated-I meant it. And yes you do need to pick up a book and hit your damnself with it for your respond in ya’ll kind was the most imporant ones…you are a true moron and in the words of the President your a JACKA$$ as well. Some of your KIND don’t claim to even be that of the black race. And yes I will respond as long as you respond back-so I guess that make you a dumba$$ with no class. Know your history-mind lied to me,when they claim to have brought us here. KML your a joke.

PlotThickens I have not insulted my people, the fact of the matter is that black men are desired by white, asian and latino women because there is a myth that surrounds the mystique of the black men. I think that you know what that is, or do you need a reminder? So it is jungle fever that attracts these women to black men. What is wrong witht the men in your own culture? There’s a thought. Do you know why these weak black men are tired of black women? Their so tired because their not going to treat us with disrespect and get away with it. Their tired because black women understand what compromise is really about in a relationship, and we”re not going to submit to them as white, asian, and latino women do. Their tired because we are strong and they can’t handle it. Hmmm…a black dominican…you’re dominican–hispanic, don’t you know what your race is? Again, I’ll ask the question of you…where were the dominicans during the civil rights movement?

This is exactly the reason I didn’t wish to come back in here in the first place. These topics get so out of control and everyone is insulting everyone. People are insulting me and I’m not even around and I tend not insult people on here. If I do, then I stand corrected but it’s not malicious. Trisha, you don’t have to apologize to anyone. If you want to hold your ground and you feel that that cursing this woman out and calling her out her name is justified simply because (like everyone else), she said something that perhaps wasn’t so popular, then that’s your choice. However, I thought what you said was disgusting, mean spirited, and racist – not just towards her but towards anyone who may have other nationalities blended into their families. I have two bi-racial girls three years old and twelve years old (half filipino) and I would be devestated and deeply hurt if someone said to them what half of you people have said about white women or Latino women. I didn’t marry my ex-wife 16 years ago and had kids with her because I’m weak or filled with self hate. I married her and had kids with her because I loved her deeply. DEEPLY! You’re only seeing the surface. I feel that most of what is being said in here about white women or non black women and how black men interact with them is being said from women who has never really experienced true love. Because if you have had deep, unconditional love – I promise you would not be saying half of what I’m reading. It’s the same emotional content that keeps a woman in a battered relationship. People are telling you that it is not a good situation but you stay, why? Because you love that person and no one can persuade you one way or the other. You have to come to the conclusion yourself if it’s good for you or bad for you. Ladies, let us black men come to the conclusion ourselves. If it’s bad for us, we will figure out eventually. Meanwhile, just worry about some of the other good black men out here. There are plenty, many I have seen on this very site. But when you force it, this (what has now happened in here) are the results. There has been a lot of people trying to ethnically designate who is black, who is not, who is more black, who is not and it’s all absurd. We better start getting along, blacks, Latinos, Asian, Whites. We have to co-exist and we have to learn to love one another. The bottom line is that human beings are entitled to express their emotions in whatever fashion they see fit, in a way that brings personal happiness in their lives and without reservation, without guilt, without blame and without someone trying to sabotage out happiness whether they think that happiness is real or an illusion. This goes for men AND women. I’m going to try this one more time and hope that this works. Trisha and Searches, I’m not concerned with your insults at me. I don’t recall ever insulting you sisters but if it makes you feel better to take your aggressions you have with someone else out on me, then fine go ahead. So in a more mature and intelligent way, let’s either discuss this like the kings and queens we profess to be and not like the ghetto hood rats and profanity slangers (you too Plot) or let’s fold our cards and admit to social defeat. If this doesn’t work, then I’m out.

We’ve come a long way, opening racial doors and removing racial barriers overall. So, looking at the big picture, people should date whomever they experience that special chemistry with or with whom they fall in love with regardless of race. Now, to answer the question, black men who become successful and date white women do it for a variety of reasons: the chemistry I just mentioned (very acceptable), curiosity, ego and competition (so-and-so has one, so I’ll get one too), the trophy syndrome, the PERCEPTION that white women are more drama-free, just to name a few. Before the black ladies get upset, the same thing does happen in reverse. I’ve heard some sisters say they date white men for some of the same reasons and more. Bottom line, it’s a free country, and to each his or her own. That’s the reality.

100th_Monkey, PlotThickens has insulted black women on this messageboard. You’re speaking of profanity..she used a great deal, which just demonstrates her ignorance. Stop with all of this there are good black men on this site nonsense…Most of these black men, no matter how good they may portray themselves as or actually be, are not looking for black women.

Many of the black men on this site should be ashamed of themselves. They denigrated black women during this discussion, instead of honestly admitting why they gravitate to women of other races.

I find it hilarious how a lot of you people would sit up here and think you guys know the reasons for why black men like “white” women.

First off its the choice for those who truly don’t care about color.

As for black men that date white women because “black women have problems” then that clearly shows how stupid/ignorant they are. I personally can’t tell the difference between a brotha cutting black women out his life because of his messed up views about the sistas AND a white racist that judges blacks from what they see in the media. The same thing with the black women on here saying “us black women are the reason why black men turn to white women”. Yal are just as silly.

A black woman with problems shouldn’t singled out as if we are immune to regular female problems and crazy human/idiotic ways. White/hispanic/asian/etc women have baby daddy/mama drama, they go through abuse, they go through the snoop phase, just as any woman–they are afraid to let a man in, they can be cheaters/liars/murderers/thieves. He11 Tiger Woods got a golf club upside his head by a white girl lol. I mean I its crazy how we are willing to excuse white women having problems but when a black woman acts “crazy” we get a label by our own men and fellow sistas?

Crazy comes in all colors.

its like a gay men—they aren’t interested in women so I’m not going to waste my time even worrying about them lol

I am disappointed at the alarming rate that black men choose white women over black women. The largest population of unattached people in America are black women. We simply do not have many options. The asian, white and latino men are not interested and neither are ‘our’ black men.
Where does that leave us??

we don’t want 2 put up with an attitude, sass and drama.

attitude, sass and drama comes in all colors as well…especially if you live in a major city. I live in Chicago, I use to live in LA and in the Bronx. That little “sass” I’ve seen it being emitted by whites/asian/latinos/hispanics/native americans. Its crazy how people are willing to look at a few and categorize EVERYBODY. But want to try and preach about black history.

good for those guys because i rather be by my damn self then put up with there s**t.the niggaz now days are lazy,disrespectful,and dont have a pot to piss in.i rather for them to f**k up the white women life then f**k up mine.one nigga on here under me proves exactly why i dont give a damn about them.they get these women and play the same crazy games with them as they do with us because they switch them like they switch their d\underwear and it’s a damn same.i rahter have my nursing degress than to have a sorry ass niggas holding me down.niggaz are always on the news for rape for f**king with them hoes when they know they willingly gave up their p***y.

LMAO and thats why YAL bitter…

Weird…I see more black women wit other races, more than brothers…hmmm?

I agree @ masculine. I live in Hyde Park Chicago and its a neighborhood where its like 38% black 42% white. And I see MANY black women with races other then black…. I guess nobody cares about that lol. Its ONLY a problem when black men date outside their race

WHYDOTHEYLEAVE – I understand what you are saying but she wasn’t the only one doing the insulting, I can go back and pull at least 16 responses of people insulting everyone. I think when people found out that she was black Latina, she became the new scapegoat. But that’s between her and whoever else, not my problem. My point is that there doesn’t always have to be a reason why black men go to women of other races. To answer that question is like trying to split an atom or prove the existence of the Big Bang Theory. We are trying to qualify an emotional compatibility issue and you simply can’t do it. If we honestly could, IF WE COULD . . . we would also be able so solve the black family crises of why some men don’t stick with their families. We would be able to solve many of our own problems. But not everything is solvable or even explainable. And when the brothers on here (some, not all) give what I consider a honest “from the heart” reason, that’s STILL not good enough!! If a brother says that he dates this white woman or married this white women out of love, there’s a black woman who comes back and says, “Oh shut up N****a you don’t love her – she just sucks your **** and you a weak, you lame ***, and you should be ashamed and you this and you that.” So we can’t win. No matter how we answer we can’t win because if we don’t say what people want to hear (which is all white women are s**ts, all white women are easy, All white women are weak, All black women are wholesome, All black women are smart, All black women are queens) if we don’t say that, then we are traders – we are Uncle Toms, we are sellouts, and we deserve the worst type of punishment known to mankind. So we can’t win. Meanwhile, we are actually sitting here trying to explain this as black men to black women who are nothing more than preoccupied with the overall concept instead of taking each case as individual personal experience. It’s a case by case matter because only 6.6% of black men even marry white women. So it’s not as much of an epidemic as black women are making it out to be. Yet, I have to explain this? I can’t even tell you what I had for dinner last night and you want me to explain a 100 year old complex issue in a matter of a paragraph on a website? People have said many pages ago that this issue is like beating a dead horse, and still, STILL black women are beating this damn horse to death as if we black men are keeping some mysterious secret cult or secret society handshake from them, “Come on black men – what’s the REAL reason you like white women.” I’ve only dated two white women in my life, plus my ex wife (Filipina) and the rest have been black women. If you ask me why I dated those two white women, all I can tell you is they were nice, good looking, treated me with respect, and so we dated. There was no secret, no conundrum or paradigm. There was no mythical reason. Why can’t that be the answer? Why does it always have to be some grandiose explanation? If some black men date white women because THOSE white women are s**ts, then more power to them but, I’ve never dated a white s**t. I’ve never dated a black s**t either. I haven’t been that lucky :-). All I’m saying is that not everything can be explained so easily, and I find it unfair to “demand” us black men to explain ourselves. Now if want to help, let’s start with all of here being at least respectful and cordial to one another. That’s my suggestion.

Sistas, here are some more groups on blackplanet that are worth taking a closer look at:

White dimes & the men who admire them..14,463 members

Hot BBW’s who love black men….9,225 members

Cream 4 my coffee…3,295 members

Blonde Curvey Thick White women who love Blk men…1,838 members

Thick latin queens for black kings…1,310 members

Asian women 4 Black men…1,348 members

Beautiful Sexy White BBWs for sexy Black Men…1,119 members

Black & Whites & Lations Interracial Palace…1,010 members

Well, this is what black men think of us sistas. This is just how much respect they have for us.

100th_Monkey-THANK YOU! That was very well thought out and very beautiful YOU cannot pick and choose who you love, LOVE IS love I have 4 kids and there father is African American BUT I date whomever TREATS me right!! POINT blank I don’t explain that to anyone because IT’S MY BUSINESS. M Nephew has BI-RACIAL kids and we love them all the same. Just be true to who you are and be HAPPY with YOUR life. So BRAVO to you 100th_Monkey for wanting to have a “civil” discussion here…

Honestly, what is tha big deal with Black men dating a White woman? I, personally have no use for them (I just recently got engaged to a BEAUTIFUL black woman that I’ve faithfully been with for the past 4 years) but really who cares? If someone gets with another person who they honestly love and want to be with, then what’s the big deal? Should people really spend their time worrying about about why one person is with another? Or should we spend our time more productively trying to get our lives together in order to get or maintain our own relationships? I applaud anyone who has found love like I have, and I wish them the best npo matter what race, culture, or creed their spouse is. Our dislike for someone else’s choice in partner will do nothing to damage their relationship; in the end we will have wasted our time and they will have happily enjoyed theirs together. So PLEASE…just let it go.

I think that it is strictly superficial,and black men are mostly interested in their outer appearance,i mean whites outnumber blacks in this country 8 to 1, and u mean to tell me that they can’t find any black women that they want? Something’s definitely wrong with that pic! Either black women ain’t doing something right, or either they doing everything wrong! They only thing that turns me off about some black females personally is attitude, and not so much anything to do with the physical aspects! I really don’t know why black men, especially rich ones won’t just admit their true fantasies about white women, why won’t they just say that they find them more attractive or something!

When it comes to this topic ” Black men and White women”, i sense a little, or maybe a lot of jealousy floating around in the air, among black and white people alike. Who has the bigger weakness for who?

masculine31 and DaintyJen, I agree too. It’s just another double standard. BTW, DJ, I lived in Lake Meadows @ 31st and Lake Shore Drive for about 16 years. Moved to Denver in 2000. Loved the Hyde Park area.

BABYMAMAKAY. No offense, however, you sound angry. Perhaps you’ve had some misfortune in your relationships. Isn’t it a bit strange, though, that you speak of respect, yet you refer to ALL black men as niggaz who are lazy, disrespectful, and have “no pot to piss in?” Doesn’t it seem disrespectful that you label all black men and cast us in that negative light? Just asking.

@PLOT thickens…I dont care what race you are dear…and who cares of your black man isnt leaving you for white women? I have never had any man leave me for anyone…so I guess there we have ONE thing in common. This article/topic is ongoing, always will be. There is no reason to go back and forth on it because black women, black men, any other race of woman who chases black men will always see it different..I just dont appreciate YOU people, yes i said you people because as much as you want to say it sweetie you are NOT black…You would Not be accepted as black where im from i dont care what history book you read says otherwise. I get tired of YOU people, other races of women telling black women to ‘step up their game’ to keep black men…I say again..ANY black man who has to RUN tail betwen legs to another race of woman.good riddance! He just proved his lack of worth to US as black women and therefore he should go ahead and settle for that other race that will treat him like hes made of clouds and can do no wrong. It has nothing to do with US stepping up game, if that was the case, then so MANY black men married to other races of women wouldnt constantly approach BLACK women on the side….Black men being with other races just gives them a sense of ‘AAHHH, im doing something different and better and above all!” But look at how many black men who have these hispanics,asians,whites that cheat on them regardless? and half the time they cheat with other men OR trannsgenders….Am I upset, angered or tethered by black men going elsewhere?? Nah, not at all. Im not even upset with you Ms.Plot, because I think youre ignorant for even saying we should step up our game to keep them…That was out of line. Just because I get approached by Latino men, white ones etc..am i supposed to take it as YOU women need to step up game? Not hardly, i know there are wonderful women of all races and there are sorry ones in all races..But dont generalize with stupid comments like that, placing ALL of us in a very small box when you dont know ANY of us to speak of…im not saying your men ‘stray’ because of how you guys are, so dont say it about us…

I must add, I have no problem with black men choosing other races of women…I have a problem with those women claiming WE black women are doing something wrong that black men are dating interracially….STOP generalizing US as loud, monotinous, bad attitude having woman who are mad at the world. Tiger Woods wife chased and clocked him with a golf club, personally I have NEVER done that and OOPS! im black! SHE ISNT BLACK! Now from here on, will the tale now be that white women are the loud, fighting, obnoxious women? Did kobe cheat on his NON black wife because she was DOING SOMETHING WRONG? Does she need to step up game…OR did Kobe and Tiger just CHOOSE to do what they did because they wanted to? People are people….race does not discern attitude or character…Lorena bobbit chopper her husbands wang off, was she black? not at all..but she got wild on him…again I have never cut off any man’s body parts..and OOPS! im black…my point is, stop that step up game bidness…men are going to be with whomever..as will women…

I think this is a boring subject. U LIKE WHAT U LIKE…RACE IS ONLY A SMALL PART OF THE JOY..OPEN UR MIND…U might miss out of real love living in a box…..

CaliFemme23, you are exactly right. No one should label any group whether it’s women, men, blacks, whites, and so on. Individuals are just that …. individuals. One man can be honest and upstanding while another can be a complete butt head. Same with a given woman or a given Hispanic individual. Therein lies the answer to the question, “Why Do Black Men Love White Women?” There is no answer, because ALL black men do not love white women.

@100%_Monkey

BRAVO!!!! And welcome back.

God didn’t indicate that we should stick to one race . Case closed.

u just gotta let the bitter be bitter lol

jucale604 wrote: “In the line of black and white, there is a hug space that is in-between them. Which only black men, can see. And that hug line is trust. Black women, will never understand who loved her and who do not love her, they take all men in carnality. And with that form of life men are interested on people that will love and care for them, if you are to ask me…I’ll tell you that black women are not trust wordy.”

Brotha, don’t you think (missing or abusive) black fathers had something to do with the trust and love issues of black females? Do you know how common sexual molestation and rape by male family members is in the black community? Do you know how common rape is in the black community?

Every community is a reflection of the MEN of that community; not the women. When you look at the white community, the black community, the Asian community, the Hispanic community, the QUALITY OF LIFE in that community is dictated by the MEN. Women try to survive and take care of the children amidst the mess that men create, whether in times of war or times of peace. REAL MEN know that they are the leaders and the trend setters and standards/values creators, and REAL MEN do not avoid responsibility by blaming women. Every time a man does this, he chips away at his own manhood…

And speaking of “trust” issues, brotha, do YOU trust the all black men in your community? Who are you locking your doors and setting your car alarm for — BM or BW? We can’t throw stones at the females, when we live in glass houses…

Stereotyping BW is a weak man’s mind game, and plays right into the hands of the same racists who created the rift between black males and females in the first place, starting from slavery. For black people to ask or wonder why interracial is an important topic, they need only look at the FACT that over 70% of black children are raised by single black female households, and that there are at least 1 million more BW in the US than BM.

Are we that foolish that we think this imbalance doesn’t matter? There’s a reason so many of our communities look like a war zone? That’s what happens in a war? The men are gone and the women and children must eke out a survival.

Do we understand how important community, nation-building, the importance of raising children in two-parent families, or basic economic survival is? OR are we so DEPENDENT on the white man, that we think it doesn’t matter, because he’ll “look out for us? Or do we think it’s “cool” to PRETEND that we are above discussing the survival of our race while racism is on the rise?

The problem with this discussion is they are ANTI-HISTORICAL, reveal a severe LACK of knowledge of our history as blacks in America; and show a total LACK of understanding of the times we live in. So many blacks are so hooked into “integration being the ideal” they don’t even understand that real integration/equality has NEVER existed, and can’t exist in a white supremacy system.

Bottom line, this ain’t about whether black people have the “right” to date non-blacks; this is about SURVIVAL of black people in America. Look at our unemployment, incarceration, foreclosure, and business development rates. We own and control almost nothing in a country whose economy is contracting severely, and wiping out civil rights housing, educational, and employment gains from the last 30 years.

Whether we “like” or “trust” each other OR not, black men and women will be forced to come together for survival. And no matter how much “white-loving” you’re doing, how much education you have, or how many bi-racial children you have bred, you are STILL be considered part of the black masses.

Every ethnic group in the world (except former slaves and colonized Africans) know the men and women of that group MUST stand together, support each other, in short “belong to each other” to be prosperous, safe, and for survival. If we don’t stop this foolish, poisonous individualism – “it’s all about me”, we are looking at a PERMANENT UNDERCLASS of the masses of blacks in this country. If you think I’m exaggerating, check out the movie, “2012.” Then, ask yourself at the end of the movie: “Where did all the black and African people go?

(just for the record, I agree with XSquare, that the media/powers that be are deliberately fueling the war between BM and BW by rewarding and profiling the BM who do not date BW. They call that tactic “divide and conquer) In my social circle, my five brothers, and 90% of my male partners/friends/associates either date/or are married to BW).

Califemm, African Americans do not have a monopoly on the term “black.” The DR is 90% black dear. Do you know Merlin Santana? He was the young black kid on the Cosby show who played Stanley and he also played Romeo on Steve Harvey. He was Dominican, he’s black! You think Sammy Sosa can sit comfortably at a KKK rally? He’s Dominican and he’s black. Anthony Santoz, Dominican and he’s black, in fact darker than you. The rapper Fabolous – he’s black right? Wrong – he’s Dominican! On the other side of the DR is Haiti and are you also saying that Wyclef Jean is not black? I’m not of another race and if some of you actually knew your own black history – you’d know that. So if Dominicans are not black, then are Jamaicans also not black? How about Honduras people, are they not black either? The rapper Jim Jones, black women love him, but according to you – he’s not black either. He’s Aruban and Puerto Rican. Trina who yall black women LOVE – she’s Dominican! So please stop trying to tell me that Dominicans are not black.

I can see the hater’s comin my way please hold up so I can blast your ass!

Come on PlotThickens. Are you ready to plot your funeral.This is not a threat, but B*tch this is personal.Come to NYC so you get get yo ass beat down. Thats the problem now, sistas like you, OOP’s did I called you a sista? Wannabe’s like you can talk that s**t, until you run across the right one who is gonna take your ass down.This wasn’t that serious until you called me out my name. Do you even know who you dealing with! I will hunt your ass down like I’M fishing in a pond, and pull your ass up out the water with the hook still in your ass. Bait Mutherf**ker!

This is exactly what I’m talking about! Now you’re threatening to “beat” someone up and blast them? I can’t deal with this. Grow up people!

@100th_Monkey-I never called anyone else out there name but-PlotThickens and I NEVER said,she couldn’t date a black man either-HOWEVER I did say that-some black men date white women and dog them just like they do black women and facts speak for itself-just look at Tiger wood and I believe he is from the same area PlotThickens. And look how he did his wife. YES some black men date outside there race and I DID NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT-MY PROBLEM WAS that you/her posted that-black men date white women as if- all black women or even the ones they dated didn’t kiss a$$ good enough to keep him. You can’t KEEP someone who DON”T want to be KEPT in the first place NOMATTER what color they are and the fact she used the N word to explain the black man. White women when they get mad at a black man or even woman the first thing come out there mouth is you black followed by alot more. And don’t think for 1 min that when a black man is dating a white woman he is all into her because he love her-you got black guys out here who date white women and treat them like there nothing and have the white woman begging/apologizing and he be the one who done something wrong. That go with other race-who think,speak,and look down on a black woman-just because she got a black man. So go back and read my post again-I was speaking about what the white woman will do to keep or date a black man-I didn’t say she did…when someone make a statement like what ya’ll post-what did you think was going to happen? Why should a black woman fall for less? Its not called hating its called not being a fool/a$$. And to be honest-I maded the statement toward how white women let the black man do them and other race do too…and to question or speak out what black women need to do to keep a black man was a horse of a different color. Its no such thing if you ask me and what that woman will or want do the nexts 3 will…and thats in all race of men.(just my opinion)

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We’ve heard this all before. Black men dont want a “nappy-headed” black woman on their team! They’re tired of us spending up their money on remy hair and sew-ins, so now they’re paying for the spray tans and highlights… lol
Its all about status of course, a white girl can hook them up with the right people, convince their daddies to rewrite their sports contracts, and get them at the front of the line at the club… lol

Black women need to step up their status. Females content with living off welfare, blaming guys for the mistakes they themselves make the list goes on and on. It aint no secret or no mystery my black women yall need to get it together!

These females look hispanic

Black women want to much and give to little, white women know how to treat their man..don’t hate them cause they please us in ways y’all can’t, here’s the problem with black women..they say we ain’t sh!t but they ain’t sh!t either, they cheat just like they say we do, and for the record I ain’t never cheated, used, hit, or any variation there of to any woman..and I challenge you to find one from my past to say I did her wrong, I bet you couldn’t, I’ve never had a black woman do right by me..EVER, another issue with black women, they suffer from Oprah Winfrey syndrome, not only do they do things to be seen doing it, like dressing, trying to out diva one another..they also are TOO independent, and don’t go saying that we have a problem with you doing your thang and that we’re intimidated by a successful woman cause that would be giving yourselves to much credit..I want you to be the sh!t, I want you to be more successful than me if you can..cause maybe then you can pick up the tab for once..lol, my problem with successful women is they act like they don’t need no man for s**t, and I hate that, black women need to learn how to let her man BE the man, in a relationship there is one KING and one queen you CANNOT be both king and queen, you don’t run sh!t…even if you make ten times more money than me, B!tch..Im sorry, woman I am STILL the man in this relationship..I wear the pants you wear the skirt, I don’t wanna wear your panties, so STOP trying to wear my boxers, now I know a lot of men out there haven’t afforded the right to say what Im saying, but for those of us like myself who are truely GOOD men sick of being crapped on by black women, you black women better start treating us better or you’ll lose us all!!!

Wow are so-called real black men have problems.The black man is NOT strong enough to handle a REAL BLACK woman like myself.Yes I can do alot for myself, but I do enjoy having a gud man by my side that is black and NOT attracted to white females. I’m not the one to argue over dumb shyt, I love hard and long, luv help fixing things,hate naggin and fightin except boxing. So I get very offended when I do see a possible but he wit a white gurl…TURN OFF but then again that black man ain’t about shyt anyway so you white gurls can have’em.To the real black men out there,Here I am…I am a gud black woman searchin for that right man to keep it 100 and does not like cream in his coffee…Can u dig it.Plus that black woman can and do the same shyt a white gurl would do if you are doin right by God and yo woman, the only thang is that you can not control a fa real black woman like you can do to a white gurl and not expect to get a run fa ya money..But if you want that white female cuz your weak minded wit a low self esteem and can’t handle it than settle for less cuz that is exactly what your doing.. And when that devil shows them horns and get to lyin on you don’t try to run back to that sista cuz your no gud anymore your ruined…Don’t hate please cuz I’m juz keepin it 100 wit cha…Dueces

WOW And the comments keep coming!

OH SHUT UP DeVanteDivine & RahDawgtheCEO! Go get urselves some white girls and stop talking trash about BW! STOP stereotyping all bw. Just bcuz u havent found the right one dont mean u have to blame it on all of us! Speak for urself! Or yall tryin to say WW are better than us?? What fool allowed u to be on BP?? You are a disgrace to this website! Im going to get BP to remove yall from this site! lol You think giving us tips is gona make us better? Naw homie, its just making us madder. Talk about self-hate! Ya bunch of coconuts! WW dont make yall happy n yall know that! sO Stop praising WW just remember whose womb u came out of!

Sistas, in spite of this ever growing trend of black men and white women, we have much to be proud of. Many Black women at least have secondary education, while many black men don’t have a degree.Most Black women not only have jobs, but viable careers (theres a difference between a job and a career. Most Black men are reliant on women to support them financially, and many have no direction.Many of us are independent and don’t need a man to support us financially, but it would be nice to have a a man for the emotional and spiritual support

All of these factors intimidate black men..Black men why won’t you let us help you? Believe it or not, many black women are in positions to assist you in furthering your education or securing work. Why not grow a backbone, and stop being so weak. Weak attracts weak.

To the men that continue to bring up the issue of appearance..how attractive the white woman is vs. the black woman, please stop. Black women are the most beautiful women in the world. We don’t age as white women due to our skin pigmentaion. For instance, white women begin looking as if they are in their late 30″s in their early 20′s. While we continue to look well into our 50′s and beyond. For the longest black women have been envied for their physical features, such as skin, lips, and derriere. Black men you really need to take inventory, and work on your lives. What will happen to the preservation of the black family if this cycle of self-hatred continues in our race?

The fact that many black women at least have a college degree, does not make us better than black men, but it puts us in an awkward position. Most men simply cannot deal with a black woman that are just as successful or more successful than themselves. One correction, I meant to say post-secondary education in the previous post.

LOL, still sticking with that “Black men just can’t handle us strong black women” thing huh? I know people get so tired of that. That’s not a reason, that’s an excuse and a pathetic one at that. Just because you can do for yourself doesn’t mean no one can handle you. YOU’RE SUPPOSED TO DO FOR YOURSELF! LOL Self care and preservation yall acting like it’s some “extra” and you’re doing way beyond your personal responsibilities. That’s your job to do for yourself! How does that make you so scary? Women all over the world are the providers, the big money makers, the business owners, the intellectuals and have been for ages. Black women aint doing nothing new because they have this new sense of independence and because you have this new independent mind, you’re gonna use that to blame everything. Damn, if you get a man you say it’s because you handle your own biz, if you lose man you say it’s because they can’t deal with you cuz you handle your own biz. Which is it? Does it help you or hurt you? And why is it that only black women are entitled to fall in love with black men? That doesn’t mean black men don’t love yall. Get off your high horse. Yall dont like it when black men use blanket statements about black women but everything i read that black women are writing yall are doing the same thing and generalizing black men. My question is, do yall really get this mad out on the streets or is this just a bitter outburst and front on the Internet because yall are sitting behind the comfort of your computer? We need some anger management courses. Maybe if some of yall had your own men and relationships you would be worried about who’s dating who!

and by the way who did a study or survey that said black men are intimidated by successful black women? What person went around with a clip board and interviewed black men to get to this conclusion? No one, it a myth that black women created to make themselves feel better.

I also think that many black men are leaving black women for white women because this is a form of escapism for them. Let me explain, take a close look at black children and single parent households, most black men have abandoned their children. They procreate with a black woman, only to move on to a white woman. Is it any wonder that so many black children are undereducated, living in poverty, and strugggling to survive? Often their daddy’s are with a white woman, and all the while they are forgetting their responsibilities and obligation to that black woman and the children. There are serious issues that we face as a race, while black men continue to behave like children in a candy store, running after forbidden fruit.

Good Morning! I have a question for WHYDOTHEYLEAVE. When you use the term “men,” are you speaking in a general sense because it reads to me as you are speaking of ALL black men and to say that ALL black men view white women as escapism is not only untrue but it’s a reckless thing to say. I have only dated TWO white women in my life and it wasn’t to escape anything sis. I was raised by BOTH mother and father and I come from a middle class upbringing that really pushes higher learning on the children growing up. My parents didn’t tolerate anything less. I’m now 40 years old with my own children. I was married in 1993 and divorced in 2007. I met my wife in high school in 1985 and we were attached to the hip until now. We divorced not because I cheated – not because she cheated. Not because I ran to a white woman – not because she ran to a white man. We simply grew in two different directions. Bottom line, no mystical reason other than that! Now here is the kicker – I have FULL custody of both my girls. My ex wife is not a crack head, she is not strung out on drugs. She asked me if I could take full custody so that she can go back to school and work at her MBA in which she has one more semester left. I figured it was the least I could do, she’s an great woman and so I agreed and I’m loving every minute of it. What happens when she’s done? We don’t know, we have even talked about trying it again, we will see how that works. So I do not fit into your perimeter of black men. My daughter is a pianist at 12 years old playing Ludwig’s Fur Elise. My three year old, well she’s a three year old. We don’t live in poverty, I’m not struggling, need a new car but that’s about it. I don’t forget nor negate my responsibilities nor do I behave like a child. And what is interesting to me is that some of the black women in here have said to the black men, “So what you’re educated – stop saying we don’t want an educated good man and all we want are thugs,” HOWEVER, isn’t that what you sisters are saying, “they don’t want an independent woman – they just want a weak white woman.”?? So I think not all black men fit the mold. I also think that it’s territorial and depends on the demographics in which many black women are looking for black men. Looking for a good black man in your little neighborhood is only going to yield you unpleasant results. My advice, broaden your range, travel, meet new people, get out of your community, join some positive social networks (not Internet ones), and you will see sisters that there is a whole world of black men out there who want YOU! And stop being so easily duped and influenced by these tabloid like Internet shock stories that are designed to get your blood boiling.

THIS KINDA CRAP I DONT GIVE A S**T ABOUT! THATS THEIR BIDNESS WHO THEY WANT TO DATE, BUT IF U GON DATE A CRACKA, DATE A CRCKA, U DONT HAVE TO PUT US SISTAS DOWN, MOST OF THA TIME, WHEN I C A BRUTHA WIT A WHITEGERL, HE LOOKIN A HOTMESS, N SO IS HIS WHITEGERL, HE SUMTHIN THA BLACK WOMAN DONT WANT, N SHE SUMTHIN THA WHITEFOLKS THREW OUT HER RACE! IM NO HATER, TO EACH HIS OWN, AND I KNO WHEN IT C**S TO A WHITE WOMAN, I CANT COMPETE, CAUSE I AINT ABOUT TO LICK THE S**T OUT CHA CRACK! WHEN THEY GET DONE WIT U, U DONT EVEN NEED A BATH! LOL, THEY NASTY AND THEY SMELL LIKE DOGS, BUT YALL JIGGAS, GET THEM AND TREAT THEM LIKE GOLD, N THEM HOES DOG U OUT, THEY WILL LEAVE U FOR THEY DADDY, U AINT GON NEVA BE NUUTIN BUT A JIGGA, U CANT EVEN GO TO THEIR HOUSE FOR DINNER, CAUSE BUBBA GON SHOOT UR NIGGA ASS, THINK ABOUT IT, BLACK FOLKS R WELCOMIN PEOPLE, WHITE PEOPLE R WHITE PEOPLE. THEY WILL NEVA FULLY EXCEPT UR BL ASS, THEY’LL TAKE UR MONEY N WATEVA ELSE U GIVE THEM, N AT THA SAME TIME STILL HATE U! THEN YALL THINK WEN U HAVE MIXED KIDS THEY R GONNA BE BEAUTIFUL, NOT ALL OF THEM, LOOK AT RAIN PRYOR, SHE WAS MIXED 4 NUTTIN, PEOPLE JUST HAVE THEIR OWN REASONS FOR DOIN THINGS, AND AT THA END OF THA DAY,,,,,WHO REALLY GIVES A FLYIN F CK

I just wish ppl would starts saying “some”, “few”, instead of putting all black women and black men in the same damn boat! Sistahs it is what it is! breathe easy QUEENS, for every 1 black man that doesnt LIKE BLACK WOMEN, THERES 50 more that do lol ; ) All i can say is I am a black woman, that will only get better with time if the good lord says the same! As i’ve said before, PPL cant be REAL with other ppl if there not real to themselves. These issues go on amongst all races, so stop all that BS. I JUST SIMPLY DONT LIKE how black women/black men BLAME each other FOR THEIR OWN BS. TRUTH is a person can only do to u what u allow them to! So Black men im gonna need yall to stop talking about ALL BLACK WOMEN as if we’re needy, loud, babymommas, etc U R HIGHLY MISTAKEN, it kills me how many of u black men can take up for white women saying OH they’re so beautiful and they treat us like we need to be treated ALL THAT BULLSHYT. If a BLACK WOMAN isn’t a certain SHADE or HER TITTS AND ASS aint BIG ENOUGH, many of u will look past her . BLACK WOMEN im gonna spit some realness, we’d be a damn lie if we didnt say there were still some hoodrats, w***es, LOUD, black women amongst us that make WE REAL WOMEN look BAD!! So yea THAT SHOULD TURN any MAN OFF IF HIS BRAIN is working right. IF ur a real BLACK WOMAN embrace it, LUV IT, at the end of the day we know what kind of women we are, we know what we’re capable of, and we also know that WE WOULD TREAT OUR BLACK MEN LIKE KINGS, IF MANY OF THEM KNEW HOW TO WEAR THEIR CROWN ; ) AS far as BLACK WOMEN being to INDEPENDENT, im 21 my mom and dad have been together 26yrs, my mom always told me if you want something/something done DO/GET IT YOURSELF, as did my DAD, so what if some women are a lil Independent if were depending on u to much THAT WOULD BE ANOTHER ARGUMENT!!! Someone has to see eye to eye SOMEWHERE!! Everyone’s entitled to their options, some act like they’re running out of options SO THEY JUMP AT THE NEAREST “THING” that SEEMS TO BE GOOD. SOME BLACK MEN ARE JUST AS BITTER/STUCK UP, as BLACK WOMEN so that can go both ways if you ask me. SO sisters find U A HEADSTRONG, GOD-FEARING BROTHER, WHO lOOOOOOOVES THE BLACK WOMAN, DOESN’T HAVE THE NEED TO EXPERIMENT WITH HIS DCK, ARE BLAME BLACK WOMEN FOR HIS PAST/PRESENT BS MISTAKES. I HEAR ALOT OF BLACK MEN SAY THEY LOVED THEIR WHITE WOMEN FOR THIS MANY YRS “IT REALLY WAS LOVE”…BUT WE BROKE UP BECAUSE WE GREW APART, OR WE WENT SEPARATE WAYS AND WHAT NOT…BUT ME A “BLACK WOMAN” IM THINKIN HMMMMM, IF ppl ARE TRULY IN LOVE, WHY GO SEPARATE WAYS OR DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS, IM TRYING TO BE RIGHT THERE WITH MY MAN ; ) “just things i think about” SINCE ITS ABOUT BEING EVENLY YOKED HUH?? GOOD DAY PPL

@ Freak4mines I totally agree with you, in that this goes back to my original point that it is a battle based on personal preferences, biases and experiences. You expressed what works for you on a personal level… and that is exactly what defines what you are attracted to OR NOT. The same is true for those that may find more of a connection with those from a different race. There is no formula or all encompassing reason for it. When things are said like, someone hates themselves, or they are curious, or whatever), the generalization is the problem. Everyone has their own story to tell… be it accepting or non-accepting, and noone can write your story for you.
To try and define why a black man would love a white woman, or a black woman a white man is an individual matter made up of so many complex factors you couldn’t even calculate it with a super computer. Its as individual as our DNA. That in fact is why this debate continues.

S**t, for me this isnt even an issue-I LOVE ME SOoooo MUCH, that its ‘May The Best Woman Win!’ The Creator created all races of women and my third Leg responds 2 all The Sexy Ass Daughters of God who are about their Business you dig! And the One that offers 2 Treat Me the Best and Like the God I Am Wins-I Belong 2 ‘Me’, not any woman or any Race of Woman On Earth you dig! And as for who the black woman is screwing-If its not me, I dont give a hell who any Woman is screwing you dig-Who she screws dont make me nut!
Divine Allah aka chief aka prinze

Lord I did this to my self….but anyway…..I guess since I went on ahead and read this s**t,I guess now I have to comment. First off, is this even real? Second of all, I don’t care if a one black man or one black woman will date outside there race. All that tells me is that the are dealing with a psychological issue titled “Self-Hate” and I really don’t have the will power or energy to worry myself about that. Third of all who does these studies??? I am so over this bulls**t that black men don’t want black women and vice versa….it’s insulting and simply not true….while it is true that I see many black people dating outside their race, I also see more black people dating within their race. So stop believing the hype just because a small majority of SMALL MINDED black people who could give two rats assess about their own does not mean I am going stress myself out over it. However, I do not support Genocide of my people at all, so f**k those who are willing to do that.

This so damn stupid. They have nothing better to do with their time on this website. But sit up and right about stupid sh*t. I am dominican and I have dated outside of my race. I could care less about if someone is dating a white woman or man. As long as the person keeps their lives happy. How about you find somethine else to talk about, other than rhi rhi at the airport with no bra, or tiger woods and any other celebrities business. How about you talk about why this country is freakin broke, or why the public schools or underfunded, or why the unemployment rate is so low.

Black men have lost their way. We as a culture have been so wrapped up in what we see on tv and on music videos that we dont kno whats real and whats fake. We feel like we should have money hoes and bling.
All ive been seeing is Black men making excuses for why Black women dont messure up. I believe its all about “some” Black mens inablity to deal with being held accountable for their actions. Black men should hold themselves accountable for what they do. We expect MORE from our men. We dont accept the half a$$ attitude that is given when it comes to the relationship, the children, and employment. White women will let you get away with damn near anything just to keep yo black ass happy. Black women let you know that you need to get it together or kick rocks. Too many Black men feel like if Black women arent not kissing their feet and wipping their asses your not doing your job. Its not our job to do everything for you. Grow up, be a MAN and do what God designed you to do. Take care of your women and there wont be any problem.
To Black men I say man up and stop going for the easiest thing you can obtain and accept and love your black women. Black women have standards and your not meeting them point blank.

I have a question: If a white man dates outside his ethnic group and dates – let’s say, an Asian woman – does that mean he hates his own white people? If a man who is from Italy dates a woman from New Guinea, does that mean that Italian man hates his own Italian people or his Italian women and do Italian women jump up and shout, “Look he hates us!”? Why is it that every ethnic group can transition in and out of their own dating box but when it comes to black men, we have to hate our people and hate ourselves? I’ve heard every excuse in the book on here, “Black men are afraid of Black women, Black men can’t handle black women, white women are easy and are s**ts, white women throw themselves at black men, black men hate themselves blah blah blah.” Every ethnic group on the planet can date men and women of other ethnic groups and there’s none of this psychological analytical excuse making and violent backlash. There’s a difference between having dated white woman or have had a white woman and a black man who, “prefers” a white woman. I have dated a couple of white women but I don’t “exclusively” date white woman so that hardly qualifies me as being filled with self hate! Please get off that wagon because it’s an exaggerated – well dressed lie put out there to close the gap between what black women think they know and what they can’t figure out. If you truly believe in 2009-2010 that old pro black, pro Afrocentric propaganda from the 70′s originally put out there by Francess Cress Welsing to empower black people and influence attitudes (it was practical for that day and time to rally the troops and instill black pride) then you need to upgrade your social awareness and stop living in your little self made Africa. When you say these things (self hate), they are nothing more than “loaded” messages designed to produce an emotional response rather than a rational response. Just go back and read these responses, all emotional ones and hardly any rational ones.

This discussion has been going on for ages now. We might as well except the ideal that this still occurs and move on, there are more fish in the sea ladies. I myself can’t get enough of my black beauties of course I’m not famous either lol

100th_Monkey, you raised some interesting points:

1. If a white man dates outside his ethnic group and dates – let’s say, an Asian woman – does that mean he hates his own white people?

Response: not necessarily although I have heard first hand white men say that they have a preference for women of a certain ethnic group. Their reasons were that Asian women, for instance, were more docile and feminine than many of the white women they had previously dated. Again, not always the case, but it brings to light that even white people have their fair share of problems between the sexes within their own culture.

2. Why is it that every ethnic group can transition in and out of their own dating box but when it comes to black men, we have to hate our people and hate ourselves?

Response: Now, 100th, I know that you know this attitude exists (smile)! It may not be as prevelant today as it was, say, thirty years ago, but there are a lot of black men and women who feel that lighter is better. They feel that by having a white mate (or even a non-white mate) it validates them. Some even go as far as believing that by having a child that is bi/multi-racial with less kinkier hair than their own, that child is considered more beautiful. Again–not all blacks feel this way, but because of black people’s history-particularly in America, it is still a recurring theme with some.

There are many cultures who feel this way… perhaps not at the same magnitude as blacks, but it exists. I have learned how many east Indians have been brainwashed into ascribing to the european standard of beauty. Those that hail from the northern parts typically display phenotypes which include the light hair and skin, the narrower noses or just a look that an outsider would not typically consider east Indian. These people are generally considered more attractive and are usually the ones who are premiered in the Bollywood movies that are becoming ever popular.

As far as my own experience, I knew a man who was from India. I noticed early on in our relationship that he would always “check out” white women, particularly those with blonde hair…he even bought music cds of white female artists. He even told me how he didn’t want to marry an Indian woman, and that he preferred an american (however, he later married someone from his native region)…this is just an example. I could give others, but I think you get my point…

I think the thing is that no one likes to be rejected…and that is what has been done to blacks for centuries, whether that rejection is based on our physical traits, intelligence or whatever. Thus, when a black man dates a white woman (or even some other “group”), black women think that they are being rejected.

Should blacks get passed this and date whomever they want? Sure! But when discourse like this takes place, it shows that as a group, blacks have not completely healed.

Just my opinion.

Da Black man dating whom he pleases, and is Happy!
or
Da Black woman mad that hes dating whom he please and is Happy!

The only obvious loser in this scenrio is the person mad at another person 4 living their life, because @ da end of da day there is:

1. The Person Enjoying their Gift of Life-Winner
2. The Person Not Enjoying their Gift of Life-Loser

Riddle: What The difference between a White/Black/Yellow Racist?
Nothing-A Racist is A Racist you dig!

Wisdom: Live Your Life because You will be the only one of your Death Bed agonising over Your Miss Oppurtunities in Life!!!
divine Allah aka chief aka prinze

T2003J, I’ll date ya! LOL.

Da Black man dating whom he pleases, and is Happy!
or
Da Black woman mad that hes dating whom he please and is Happy!

The only obvious loser in this scenrio is the person mad at another person 4 living their life, because @ da end of da day there is:
1. The Person Enjoying their Gift of Life-Winner
2. The Person Not Enjoying their Gift of Life-Loser

Riddle: What The difference between a White/Black/Yellow Racist?
Nothing-A Racist is A Racist you dig!

Wisdom: Live Your Life because You will be the only one of your Death Bed agonising over Your ****Missed*** Oppurtunities in Life!!!
divine Allah aka chief aka prinze

Candyboxxx, I’m not famous either, but becomming a cartoonist real soon, but will date your H-O-T-T-I-E self

all the ugly, fat, miserable , depressed, insecure , single parent black woman are the only ones complaining LMAO stop complaining and start maintaining damn SMH AND THERE REALLY AINT NO CUTE BLACK WOMEN ON BLACKPLANT ANYWAY ill talk to a white woman just becus LMAO

Yes, Candyboxxx is indeed gorgeous! :-)

Uhh Mar kel… You arent any prize package yourself. Lolllllllll.. Ladies dont let silly remarks like his move you. Remember.. he is talking about his mama too. So!!!!!!! Enuff said

LOLOL MY MOMMA IS WHITE BERRY_RN aka MAGILLA GORILLA LOL SO !!!!!!!!! EHUFF SAID @ YO SNAPPIN TURTLE LOOKIN ASS LMAO

100th_Monkey in one of your post you ask just what I mean when I refer to “men” in my post. I’ve never said ALL black men when posting, but I have said MANY or MOST because in my estimation this is true. I certainly believe that there are some good, respectful, decent, and responsible black men who love black women, but they are not the majority. The remaining black men that fit this description are on the verge of becoming extinct. Incidentally, I am not impressed with you at all, not that you were trying to gain my approval. You said that you have had two relationships with white women, and perhaps this is what works best for you. You are probably a better match for a white woman. Also, I visited your page and I just wonder if you think that a respectable father of two girls should have a picture of himself in briefs on his page. Wonder who you’re trying to attract? I’m not attacking you, but simply making an observation.

LMMFAO …. Berry_Rn is A PRIME EXAMPLE OF WHAT IM TALKING BOUT LOLOLOL

OOOPS!!!

Jazz and 100thMonkey: awe, thanks! You really know how to make a girl blush! ; )

I think most black men do desire a white woman because she is different. I must admit it is hard for a real black man to put a black woman as his equal when, the non ghetto black woman of today is independent, beautiful, intelligent, and can take care of herself. Especially, a single parent black woman (we will continue to be go getta’s rather there is a black man on our side or not). More black woman need to try white men black men have been doing it for years and besides who wants to be alone i would try a white guy. (plus the negative comments below about black women tells you that someone has been hurt by a black woman so to get over the hurt you lash out to what you need to deal with, not all black women are bad)

WhydoTheyLeave – first of all – don’t attack me personally because I never attacked you. I never ONCE – NEVER once said that white women work best for me. Please go back and quote me if you need that. Ive dated TWO white women out of a many women besides my ex wife, so what makes you think white women works best for me? I haven’t dated a white woman in 17 years! So don’t pretend that you know me or know my preference. And I’m not trying to impress you (of all people) or anyone else. I’m in my briefs on my page? I’m a NGA pro bodybuilder and those are “bodybuilding” photos, and and if your were on my page long enough, you would know that, so please don’t try to come up with something witty to use against me. If you don’t disagree with something I write, then by all means, debate with me on that level but don’t you dare go to my page and then question my fatherhood based on a damn photo on my site. I didn’t do that to you and I I expect the same respect.

LOL, Just when things are going in the right direction, goofy butt Whydotheyleave does it again, starting shyt. She’s just mad. Look at her profile name, ‘Whydotheyleave’. Obviously her man or men have left her. Then her page is this long tired azz – drawn out explanation on why black men leave black women. She’s so obsessed with it. In fact, I think it’s a person who is here just to start shyt. Coincidently , she’s only been a BP member for three days, coincidently right around the time all this bullshyt started and she has NO friends? And her page just happens to be about the very topic everyone is discussing? And her personal message is copied and pasted from somewhere else because I just read her “personal” message on another website. LOL. BUT WAIT IT GET’S EVEN BETTER. On her page she says she’s a FEMALE but if you go back to this persons post on Dec 6, (page 12) this person says and I quote: “ TiredMan you are indeed tired…not every BROTHER wants a “lady in the streets-freak in the sheets”—SOME of US want a Lady-24/7. US? As in US men? So what is it Whydotheyleave – ARE YOU A MAN OR A WOMAN? LMAO. Oh it’s so ridiculous!! Whydotheyleave – male/female, Keep posting weirdo! So you see ladies, white chicks have nothinig to do with it because not only do you have your fellow hood rats making you look bad, you have now dudes posing as black women making you look bad. OMG!

PlotThickens you are clearly uneducated and lack comprehension skills. When I responded to tiredman I was quoting him..he made that statement about not every brother wanting a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed. Please read carefully next time. I am sorry that you are offended by my viewpoints and discussion of this issue. As far as my page being what it is, it’s perfect. This site is not in place just to carouse for a friend with benefits, which is why I’m sure you’re here. There are many pertinent issues facing the black community and we can’t begin to heal until we take an introspective look within, and make a serious effort to change. Dear, I first joined blackplanet in the 90′s…and yes my page is fairly new. I think this is your only outlet to socialize and find friends, so I am not necessarily here to make friends, but rather to educate. You sent me a note on yesterday saying that you felt many of us black women on this site had jumped on you, so to speak. You apologized, and went on to reiterate to me that you were black. At that time I responded by saying that I respected your culture, but I never conceded that you were BLACK. You need a hobby, a job,..something to occupy your time. I will not respond to you anymore…you’re just not worth it.

Well all I have 2 say is ” ain’t no luv like BLACK luv” We are a beautiful race u can mix it but the real Thing is better. Take a luk

Really it dont matter what a black man does with a white woman, asian woman, or mexican woman. They are gonna have their own likes when it comes to someone they wanna be with for the rest of their lives or just date. Me personally I have a white man and I’m beyond satisified. Hell Im starting to see alot more black women go for a different race so I dont see what the big problem is. I see remarks that some people put up here and I can tell they are used to the “GHETTO” black women instead of finding a black woman who is about something. So to all my black woman out there if u havent dated outside ur race try it. Hell I have been doing it for years now and Im not turning back.

@plothickens- im from the south baby, NONE of the people you named would be considered BLACK where i come from sorry…And I see you didnt touch on the major point of my post..which was stop saying WE need to step up game to keep black men….That one must have hit home with you dear because you totally ignored it! Puerto ricans, dominicans etc…nah, sorry NOT black to me…

lovprecious, you have a point in that it doesn’t/shouldn’t matter. It’s like I said before, know and love yourself first.

I myself have dated men from many cultures and have a diverse family background. I’ve seen the good and the bad…my cousin married a Thai woman years ago and she cheated on him, and took him for everything he had. Does this mean that all asian women are ruthless, conniving w***es? NO! Just her! LOL. It really boils down to that individual and AS I mentioned in a previous post, MAKING SURE THAT THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH IS THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU

It’s only not cool if you make it not cool by trying to make it something it’s not.& History is good to know so things don’t repeat but at some point we just have to live. there’s enough worries & drama without making more that’s uneccesary.like kids killing kids black on black violence…its disgusting how black women till this day b***h about if a black mans dating a white woman…WHO REALLY CARES…CMON SON…THERES SO MANY OTHER THINGS TO WORRY ABOUT…SOMEONE DATING OUTSIDE OF THERE RACE IS NOT IMPORTANT TO ANYBODY IT’S THERE LIFE LET THEM LIVE IT…YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE SO MAKE IT A GOOD ONE YOU ONLY GET ONE YOU’LL REGRET SITTING THERE HATING ON AN INTERRACIAL COUPLE JUST SHOWS HOW MISERABLE YOUR OWN LIFE IS

and you dont see white women trippin that some of us black women like white men…robin thick is married to a black woman…halle berrys husband is white…lauren londons father is white and the list goes on…what some black womens problem is they waste soooo much time worrying about who black men are dating they havent figured out what they like or want for themselves and then we cry about how we want racism to end but look how some of us act…seriously some of ya’ll just need an act right or some home training at the end of the day theres only one god…remember that

It does’nt really matter the color of a person skin,but the inner man/woman’s heart,you can find love in all array of packages but just make sure that they are the person that was birthed by god for you to marry,when moses married an ethiopian woman God did not judge him,his sister did and god struck her with leprosy,so let God guide you to your soul mate,don’t even try on your own,then no one can tell you if your with the right person that it is wrong.

I have to agree with mar–kel. I wouldn’t have put it like THAT lmao, but I agree. The bitter/miserable black women are the ones that are single. As well as the black women who are just as like the black men that judge ALL black women from a few bad experiences.

TRUE LOVE HAS NO RACE….YA DIGG?

so many black women have that “i only date black men ” attitude and sadly some of these women will remain alone or end up settling for whatever a black man is willing to give you (booty call, share him with 3 or 4 other women). fact remains that there are more single black women than there are men. so basic math dictates that these women need to be open to dating men who are not black…not saying discard or write black men off, just open your mind. BrownSugar is right…as black women we don’t have a problem with the white men who love black women but we have a problem with black men who prefer white women. my last boyfriend was white and the man met just recently is white and i’m happy. stop being mad and bitter about things you can’t control and consider other options.

CaliFemme23 – it doesn’t matter if Puerto Ricans and black Latinos aren’t black to YOU. You don’t set the rules for who is and who isn’t black love. There are Ethiopians and people in Africa who hate yall African Americans and don’t consider yall real blacks but European influenced wanna-bes. So what do you say about that? As I said before, Black people in America don’t have a monopoly on “black.”

NiNi_LV, you hit the nail on the head! Bravo! And someone in here had the nerve to post these Black Planet groups like “Black Men For White Woman” and then try to build a case to prove that black men hate black women. But I did a little digging myself and on this very site, I found:

Black Women & White Men #2
Ebony Ladies for White Guys
White guys 4 Black girls!!
BWWM® Black Women And White Men
Mature Ebony Women Who Love Young Whiteboys
Black women/Asian man Relationships
SEXY WHITE MEN FOR THICK DARK CHOCOLATE WOMEN
Black BBW & White Men

and the list goes on and on, and not “one” black chick in here has gotten mad at that or called out any black women or said “those” black women are weak. Now if you ask a black woman about that, I bet they won’t generalize ALL black women!!!! They’ll say, “Oh THOSE black women – that’s there preference.” but when it comes to men – oh black men who date outside their race are weak and punks. Come on ladies, stop being hypocrits. In fact, black women don’t even get as upset over black gay relationships than they do black men and white woman. They don’t mind losing their man to another c**k but as long as it’s not a white woman? LOL. Now isn’t that interesting!

LMAO @ KINESHIA. 9.9 times out of 10 blacks in america don’t even know their exact roots. Just like PlotThickens said. As far as “taking a look”, cute but the words young/thirsty/jail bait comes to mind.

I just want to say that love has no colors.

As far as these lame azz dudes on here degrading the black woman, yal shouldn’t even be allowed to live on the same planet as I do. Yal shouldn’t even be allowed the right to claim african american history or praise the strong black men & women who laid down their lives so us blacks in America can even drink from the same water fountains. I was raised in a strong black 2 parent household with 6 sisters. My parents still feel the same way as they did when they first fell in love. No matter how many times my mother had her “female moments”, my father knew she was born with 2 strikes against her and cut her some slack. The fact that some say “its the black woman’s fault” makes me disgusted and even more ashamed of my fellow african american brothers. The black men aren’t willing to give the black woman a life that she deserves. This goes for fathers, lovers, or any male figures in the black woman’s life. How can you expect a woman to know how men act when her mother is just as scorned and her daddy gone? This is our world, we’ve been holding women back for centuries and now allofasudden its the woman’s fault? Black women are going to school and are getting degrees and are getting money with X amount of kids. The brothas are out here killing themselves and each other and putting themselves in situations that bring down the community as a whole. The sistas have every right to be sick and tired of the brothas. I don’t think its right for the black woman to get mad at the brothas for dating outside their race, but you can’t blame them either. Also the silly black women who believe “black women should step their game up” are just as ignorant and silly as well. Stop being a sell out for the appreciation of these fellow BPcans.

To all my sistas thats had a lame dude in their life. Its aight mama theres still some GOOD black men that loves you.

I also think that some Black men had been treated like crap by the Black ladies. so they find happiness (sometimes) in other races. Nobody talks about that or the white men dating the Black woman..they had the advantage over 500 years and bored mixed children, but if a Black male slave had sex with the White female head, or told their mate that the Black man “raped’ them, they would got lynched, wheather guilty or not…….

also to those that ask why black women dont have a problem with black women dating white men. A heterosexual woman isn’t going to care about what another woman does as far as dating. There may be a lot of single black women, but there are a FEW successful/educated black men. All that talk about its the black woman fault is elementary. You have to take in poverty, demographics, education and etc amongst blacks in america. Its a lot bigger than the blame game.

WHEN YOUR THOUGHT PROCESS IS NEGATIVE PERIOD, 9 TIMES OF OUT 10 NEGATIVES THINGS WILL OCCUR, SO WHEN U LADIES INSTILL THAT NEGATIVE THOUGHT ABOUT US BLACK MEN OR MEN INGENERAL 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 THAT TYPE OF NEGATIVE GUY U SPEAK OF IS GOING TO OCCUR IN YOUR LIFE (VICE VERSA) IM JUST SAYING

why? For the same reason women want a “bad boy”, the same reason people covet oral sex. People want most, the things they’re taught are forbidden. These things provide a sense of being above the norm.

jazzwatch are you seriously saying that the black slaves that were women bored the white mans child by choice? You think black women weren’t lynched and murdered? Black women were hung up-side-down/beaten/having babies cut from their wombs and then their babies would get stomped to death. Bruises heal but a women being raped and forced to have the demons child is something that affects black women today. Be smart

I’d read article from many newspapers from over 100 years ago of lynchings of both Black men and women, and had a book ( forgot the title) that showed picture of hangings of women and men that was so graphic for me even to talk about it here, but by and large the threat then (and now) are the Black men……

It was more secretive back in the day…….some were planned. some were violent, but it had a indelible impact on families, races and the country….

all you can do is recall murders and beating. Black women were murdered, beaten, raped, forced to word the fields, had their men and children taken from them. Black women may have dated white men but black men were dating white women so what is your point other then finding another way to play that “who had it worse” game and creating divisions amongst us?

women period have issues. Like Omar Gooding said on Baby Boy “Yal are some unstable creatures”. The sista shouldn’t be judged so harsh and like DaintyJen said in previous posts–People shouldn’t act like the black woman is immune to “issues”. Black women shouldn’t be kicked to the ground and thrown away when they slip up. Black woman aren’t the only ones who have the “men are stupid” attitude. That’s women period until a *man* comes along. But ehhh, thats young cats 4 your azz

I feel sorry for the future generations…

It was worse then and it’s not much better now, except we can go ANYWHERE today, unlike our forefathers, but I had mad respect for those ancestors (yours and mine) who lived through that crap and those who didn’t, and it seems like a division because of so much mistrust. scorn and hate,,,

Brother, I agree the future genersations IS in trouble…..

Topics like this really sadden me because as black people we can’t get past what slavery and degradation has done to our people. How strategic a plan to break down strong men and women of royal decent, teach them to be ashamed of and hate their own skin and then separate them so that all strength is dissipated. Our scars run deep and black women feel pain each time they feel that a black man chooses a white woman over her, though she too is equally as intelligent, beautiful, successful, etc. The answer to why this happens isn’t “black and white”. The fact is, sometimes people fall in love just because they have everything in common and are right for one another. Others are still struggling with old plantation business and feel that they have “arrived” because they have a white woman on their arm. Do I get angry because of their choice? No! I pray that all find love for the right reasons and my heart bleeds for those that make choices because they are still bound by the chains of self hatred.

I’ve come to this post a couple times and just “observed” but this time I opted to leave a comment. BrothafromChicago, I “THANK YOU” (and also crammasters) for leaving a very intellectual assertion of BLACK FEMALES and the dynamic behind a black relationship. I have seen a lot of ignorance surrounding interracial relationships and it sickens me (smh). In fairness I think a person (male, female, black or white) has the God Given right to date whomever they please. HOWEVER, I would be lying if I said that it doesn’t bother me an extent. Not at face value but the underlying reasons behind it. Many (not all) brotha’s date outside of their race as a “status quo” or because of self hate, degredation of black females, and lack of respect for women of color. If I thought that way I would have left black men alone a long time ago. However, I am intelligent and discerning enough to know that ONE MONKEY DON’T stop a show and all black men are not bad! I respect anyone’s choices but everything should be done in good taste. For all the “non-black” women who have the audacity to surmise a black woman based on these stereotypical images or interpretations you have of us…until you have walked a mile in my shoes please STFU about sh!t you know nothing about!!! For black men who are opposed to black on black relationships and have a disdain for black women I suggest you get off of BLACKplanet…sounds counterproductive to me. I feel the same way for “non-black” women who are on here to fish for black men. At the end of the day it would be nice for blacks to AT LEAST have a website of our own where we can discuss things that relate to “us”. Not being racist just real. Join E-Harmony or open a Facebook or Myspace account for general socializing and networking. When I joined BLACK (emphasis on BLACK) planet I expected to be amongst my peers and I am seeing more “non-blacks” on here than blacks. WTF! Furthermore, too many have overstepped their boundaries saying things that are completely misplaced and ignorant. Ultimately (as someone has said) I look at men who ONLY date white women like I would a gay man…not my “kind”. So I keep it moving. I suggest everyone else take the same approach! For brotha’s who are open to exploring other races or encounter love that may be of a different color I respect and embrace that wholeheartedly. I look at Seal and Heidi Klum and feel as though they GEUNINELY love each other :) . One is not taking from the other. Both of them are equally successful, have a beautiful family, and enhance one another. I could never hate on that no matter what the color. However, for any person (male or female) who dates EXCLUSIVELY OUTSIDE their race it is not a thing of “preference” ladies and gentleman but one of self-hate!!! My brothers and father are handsome, intelligent, hard working, God-fearing men. I love and admire that about that and seek the same in a companion. Black love is beautiful. It is what it is *shrugs*!

typo below *GENUINELY

AYE COULD YALL VOTE FOR ME ON BP ONE MINUTE TO SHINE ITS ON MY PAGE THANX

I am a black man. I want a women who does not curse every time she opens her mouth. I want a women who speaks intelligently. I want woman who does not talk loud on her cell phone in public. I want a women who is not always popping gum and has her ex-boyfriend’s name on her neck. I want a girlfriend who does not have 8 different colors on her fingernails. So lets say I make a million bucks. Do you think I want this type a sista without those qualities on my arm? Most of the black women who fall in my category only date white men. like Hallie berry. So my choice of black women would be limited. It’s hard finding intelligent black single women who are not either taken or into white guys.
If my choice is an intelligent sista versa an intelligent white girl I am going with the sista. We as black men don’t often have that choice. I went on a date with a girl who cursed at her 4 year old. That is normal in her world. That’s a world I don’t want in mine. Neither does Tiger. I would like for every one on this blog make some suggestions of who you would have paired Tiger with.
Remember she must be single and black. LiL Kim???

So as much as I love Black women I understand.

To Earlwinfrey – I’ll have to agree with you. I also believe that the types of men and types women greatly depends on geographic location. I’ve read a lot of nonsense in here from both men and women but both sides need to understand that this is not an epidemic, and some real practical questions have yet to be answered. I live in D.C. and so most of the black women I encounter here are the black women you mention. They are loud, obnoxious, eye rolling, weave wearing. They have tattoos all over their skin, they’re a size 24 and trying to squeeze themselves into a size 8 pair of jeans and calling themselves, “thick.” They can recite every Lil Wayne song but can’t tell you who the Vice President of the U.S. is. I hate that type of sister but because I prefer a higher quality sister, it is viewed as me not liking black women all together. And lord forbid I get me a light skin sister or high yellow sister, then I’m accused of liking only light skin black women, so we can’t win bro. The blacker the berry the sweeter the juice is a myth! The “Fresher” the berry the sweeter the juice! Black women are still holding on to that old theory that white women are “trophys.” That concept may have applied in the 60′s when the mentality was apparent but more black men are successful and educated and therefor sisters, WE black men are the tropheys. You all have it backwards. You ask a white woman why she likes black men and she will pull out a laundry list.

The fact that I have dated black women, white women, Asian women, Latin women, I’ve even dated a sister from Kenya, means that I can get any woman I want (ethnically speaking of course). And out of that rainbow of colors, I don’t place white women above any other women because white women are NOT my preference. So i’ll say it again, there is a difference between dating white women and “exclusively” dating white women. And black men who ONLY date white women are not as wide spread and prevalent as you sisters think it is. Let me tell you this quick story;

I went out with this sister once, blind date and she suggested we meet at Ruby Tuesdays of all places. I guess it was her favorite place. We met and the girl was a hot mess. She her neck tatted all up, long green fingernails, a sundress and flip flops. All the sister did was sit there and talk about her kids. I’m thinking she’s talking about kids – kids, she was talking about her pitbulls. When we were finished, she asked me if I can go to Walmart with her because she had to pick up some Tampons. True story! As for ALL black women being classy, she said to me, “If you plan on F’n me you’re gonna have to wait until next week cuz I’m still on my period.” LOL

First of all, I wasn’t planning on F’n her and if I was that type of brother, saying that doesn’t exactly make me look forward to next week. I know that’s an isolated incident and it doesn’t apply to even a portion of sisters but these types of black females DO exist. And all I’m saying is that if horrible black women exist, why can’t good white women exist? Why are there only “some” bad black women but ALL white women are bad?
Please explain that to me. Get off the self hate soap box people! I’ll ask the questions again, if white men date outside there race – are they suffering from self hate? Do they suddenly hate their mother, sisters, aunts? If Japanese people date outside their race, do they now hate their own people and culture? If a person who is half black-half white dates a Latino – I guess that person has DOUBLE self hate and hates both sides huh? Do you see how goofy that statement is? Every other ethnic group can move in and out of the dating spectrum ethnically without negativity and without being accused of self hate, but when it comes to black men, why do we have to have some psychological disease? That’s my question.

earlwinfrey: here is a short list of single black women who I think would pair nicely with Tiger (mind you, some women would have been too young for Tiger at the time he married Elin, but now that it looks like he’ll be back on the market, I’ve added them):

1. Venus or Serena
2. Leona Lewis
3. Kerri Washington
4. My cousin (not famous, but the woman is highly intelligent and attractive)
5. Tyra Banks
6. Gabrielle Union
7. Meghan Good

There are several other black women who are not famous and who are highly intelligent, articulate, etc., but are somehow looked over by men. It is unfortunate because while these women are not high-profile, I am sure they could add much value to ANY man’s life.

However, as I mentioned before, to each his own. My concern for anyone is seriously dating someone from another culture or race who may not be able to identify with the struggles that the other person is going through. This is a very significant issue. My sister had married an arab and though they had different cultural backgrounds, they also shared many life experiences, which made them able to understand each other.

As for myself, I am like you: I don’t want to deal with the thugs, the roughnecks. I have dated my share of the men who are always confrontational, angry, the type that always want to blame “whitey” or smell a C-O-N-SPIRACY with every turn of a page, or who is a father to 5 children by 4 different women, who is functionally illiterate, uses slang to communicate, can’t hold down a job, who have no direction in life, who don’t have a car or have a suspended license due to unpaid traffic tickets, listens to only rap (which I like, but in doses), and lie about any situation they are in, have a felony record….I could go on, but I think you get my point.

Now, what I described to you is a LOT of black men in Detroit–not all, but a lot. However, my way of handling this is not to get bitter (anymore) and just focus on myself, my life, what I need to do to become more successful. I have decided that I am not going to date for a while because it is a challenge in Detroit. But Detroit is unique and has major issues, which have compounded the problems of dating. However, if the right guy comes along-whether he is black or otherwise-then great! It’s like the cherry on top of the sundae!

Well this topic never dies EVER! I’m all for anyone can date whomever they want to date. No one should be able to preach to them otherwise, because its not their life. I laugh when someone tells me i shouldn’t date interracially. Why is it their business. Yes, i understand why people feel the way that they should. But, what i don’t get is when some folks take the time to make it a priority in their life to preach and tell folks what they should and shouldn’t do. To me thats time wasted in their own life, aren’t there better things to do. Now what folks don’t get is that all women can be loud, etc, its not just black women. I don’t play into the stereotypes of black women or white women, everyone is their own individual and each individual does things differently. If a person chooses to date interracial, fine, great, but personally i don’t want to hear you dogging out the next woman especially a black woman cause it would make me question why you interested in me? If i prefer to date a black man i prefer them to date all types of women, not specifically JUST white women, cause i don’t want to hear all that bs that goes along with it. Plus too if women are always loud and doing this and that, why are we? you know, what the man do? thats how i look at it. lol i know that sounds bad, but hey i speak whats on my mind.

i dont understand white women are just as aggressive as black women …black women are just single out to be GHETTO thats how societly portray us but when that white woman finds out that her man is cheating on her guess what everything goes out the window no matter what race you are….im just tire of everyone saying well black men only date white women becuz a black woman is loud thats not the case…i believe the black man go to another race(white) becuz they think its safe……

In the words of Rodney King, “Can’t we just all get along?”

@ ishishappy
Hey i am loud! lol I just have that loud voice period, shoot my whole family is like that lol. but i do know how to tone it down when needed. But i agree, it is just how society is and society needs to stop it. I have a close friend who is black and she speaks so softly, i barely can hear her and she never raises her voice, so anyone smart enough knows not all black women are like that. I just told a man off who was interested in dating me who happens to be black and i think he was shocked when i raised my voice and cut his butt off when he tried to talk lol, he couldn’t get a word in cause i sure in hell made him know he was wrong for his actions and what he said lol, well he was wrong for what he did, but shyt i wasn’t going to put up with it and i was loud!!

Candyboxxx – I like your list of black women for Tiger but Serena and Venus? LOL. Tiger might as stick with his wife. If he thought that white woman beat his azz, LOL – then he sure don’t want to mess with them sisters. We forget those two girls are from Compton! That’s the land of the Bloods and the Crips. LOL.

100th–LOL…Hey now, I am from Detroit! Does that mean that I am a gangsta? No! Maybe my family, but that is a different talk show… ; )

Oh no Candy, I’d never think that about you but those two girls scare me, especially Serena. We’ve seen that sister go off once or twice. LOL

I was reading some of you guys’ posts; some of you suggested a back lash by black women for dating women of other races. It is the same for black women though. I have dated men from ALL races and whenever I would go out with a non-black man, we would get stares from many blacks. I remember sitting with my then b/f at a bar. My ex is from India and there is no mistaking it. A black gentleman was sitting at the end of the bar staring at us during the entire time my ex and I were there. At first, I understood his shock because it is a RARE thing for an east indian man to date a black woman, but this guy was SO rude to keep staring and I could tell that he was trying to figure the entire situation out. After a while, I stared directly at him and he finally looked away.

Basically, I have gone through my share of dissapointments with black men–hell, men in general! I also have been criticised or frowned at for dating men of other races. However, people do not know me, they do not know my family heritage, they do not know what I have gone through, and even if they did, they have no right to judge. I’m not going to be with someone just to prove something to someone else or to come off as more authentic. To hell with that.

Serena and Venus are just passionate, that’s all. I’ve been told that I am by a few people, including my current boss. LOL…I think it is funny because I never look at it as me being the stereotypical attitudinal black woman. I hope my (white) boss realizes that. In fact, I am pretty sure he does because he knows that when I have an issue, I come to him with the facts and I present a case and has asked for my input on certain process changes. However, there is a way to be fiesty without coming off as “hoodish”. LOL

probably because they have less stuff to deal with making it “easier” for them or so they might think however some actually end up regreting it as well as some of these vanilla loving sistas.

to each his own though, love, live life and do what floats your boat

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I was going to ask if black women get the same backlash from black men for dating men of other races but considering all the sisters in here who swear up and down they would NEVER do anything like that, I never asked the question. Where I live, I see a lot of black women dating white guys. Some are “typical” white men or Asian men (whatever typical means to you) and some are the white guys or Asian guys who have a little black swaaga. When I see that, of course I notice it but it doesn’t bother me, I don’t stare or make comments or do a double take. I chalk it up to that sister prefers white men or whoever. 9 times out of 10, that sister is from the burbs, have had white friends all her life, or just have more in common with white men. So if it’s compatibility – I am happy for them. Because I know how hard it is to find a good mate period. So when you do find one, don’t overlook that person just because of their skin color, that’s just damn goofy.
Candyboxxx, you’ve been told you’re passionate by your boss? LOL. I guess that’s a PR way of saying you have spunk and spunk is a PR way of saying you have attitude? That’s classic. Don’t get me wrong sisters, I us brothers like a little sass. We really don’t want a submissive little slave like you think we you do. This is why the, “strong black woman” excuse bothers me so much. It’s not that we don’t want a strong black woman. All we want is balance. Have your attitude but know when to turn it off. Be loud but know when to be quiet. Roll your eyes but know when look straight. LOL. The problem is that some sisters are like that 24/7 and don’t know how to turn it off.

100TH MONKEY, make no mistake, I have moxy! However, I don’t resort to the neck rolling, my hands on my hips, finger pointing at the person, etc. My boss is cool though…and when he said that I have passion, he did not imply attitude. In fact, we talked about what he meant because I called him on it and recognize that I have a temper, but as he pointed out, I build a case to leverage my argument. This is what he felt would make a great attorney; hence, he wrote my letter of recommendation for law school (although I am still ONLY considering law…not quite sure, but I wanted to get LOR’s just in case).

It’s only not cool if you make it not cool by trying to make it something it’s not.& History is good to know so things don’t repeat but at some point we just have to live. there’s enough worries & drama without making more that’s uneccesary.like kids killing kids black on black violence…its disgusting how black women till this day b***h about if a black mans dating a white woman…WHO REALLY CARES…CMON SON…THERES SO MANY OTHER THINGS TO WORRY ABOUT…SOMEONE DATING OUTSIDE OF THERE RACE IS NOT IMPORTANT TO ANYBODY IT’S THERE LIFE LET THEM LIVE IT…YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE SO MAKE IT A GOOD ONE YOU ONLY GET ONE YOU’LL REGRET SITTING THERE HATING ON AN INTERRACIAL COUPLE JUST SHOWS HOW MISERABLE YOUR OWN LIFE IS…………….and you dont see white women trippin that some of us black women like white men…robin thick is married to a black woman…halle berrys husband is white…lauren londons father is white and the list goes on…what some black womens problem is they waste soooo much time worrying about who black men are dating they havent figured out what they like or want for themselves and then we cry about how we want racism to end but look how some of us act…seriously some of ya’ll just need an act right or some home training at the end of the day theres only one god…remember that

BrOwnSuGarShanNiqua, where did you come from?? And what took you so damn long to get here? LOL. Kudos to you. Finally a sister who gets it. I guess all we had to do is wait it out, weed out the ignorance in here and women like you and Candyboxxx show up. Thank you for the words. It all boils down to esteem issues. If you’re comfortable with you and yours, why you worried about what someone else is doing, and if you view 6.6% of interracial marriages as the downfall of black humanity then you need some serious help!

Interracial dating is just normal and it is beyond me why this remains to be a topic. Perhaps in certain areas it is not widely accepted but for the most part it should no longer be shocking to see a black man w/ a white woman or any other race for that matter…People are attracted to who they are attracted to. I will say this…a man in general can be attracted to any race if she is beautiful and the same for a woman. People should focus more on humanitarian issues as opposed to what color women Tiger Woods prefers!

I actually don’t have a problem with it. I’m black and I have more white women hit on me than black girls. The manner in which I communicate with them kind of go’s smoother, meaning there is a bit less gossiping and games before I actually know, hey she likes me. The difference is I think white girls are a bit more forward. They are so emotional and embrace their feelings so much that they would have more of a chance to ask you out first than a black girl. Trust me I know. Black girls now tend to try to find out all your flaws, what your banking or how much of a thug you are before taking that leap. In other words I have to put in alot more work to get their attention or curse you out before you say, I think I like him. I had black girls come to me and say, I bet you like white girls, before they got a chance to know me. So I know they steriotype black guys before they talk to them. I just like someone to talk to,I don’t curse, drink, smoke and I respect my mother. I think they think I’m too much of a goody 2 shoes and that I wouldn’t be able to handle them. Maybe not, but I know there is that one black girl out there for me in which we have alot in common, with no games, less gossip and non thug preference. I do have problem with some black guys dating white girls. I can’t say its cool all the time. I’ll tell you why. There are great black women out there who are down to earth and marriage material, ready for that black dude to sweep her off her feet and they also grew up in the hood. Now there is that black dude who steps into money, with same undeniable pattern of dating white woman when they reach that goal. You can say, hey that’s their business if they do that. Yes it is. Still it is a known fact that people tend to do these things for a reason and it sends out signals and messages to believe it or not the black race. When a black child grows up with their people and inspire to become rich and watch these stars work in that pattern it kind of teaches them something. Thus leaving the down to earth black girl behind. Thus leaving behind the dream of more powerful black couples in the world. Yes people make their own choices, but don’t you notice their making the same choices. I think these black athletes and actors are kind of giving up on black women because they don’t feel like putting in all the work with a black woman, which is like I said, things come a little bit easier with white woman. Yet I personally will not venture out for those reasons. I will date all races but for the right reasons, and like I said, that one black girl is out there for me who loves all my dorkey and computer geeky ways. Now the black girl to white guy issue. Not really an issue, but an undertanding. I grew up in the hood, and I for one think alot of black guys are taking advantage of these black girls. Black guy finds white white womanand says ” Let me put some of this thug on you girl.” Black girl ventures out and trys to find stability and assurance. They get extremely flattered when a white guy hits on them and they say ” I don’t believe this white boy is hitting on me, he seems nice though” Nice becomes different, a new beggining and a way out from corner thug. Yet it still depends of if she meets that corner thug white boy like Eminem. Now this leaves behind great down to earth black guys who could have swooped that deprived black girl off her feet. Now it seems that everyone is looking for a way out because of race issues and what one race has to offer the other instead just falling in love. Alot of actors and athletes hide behind that word “Love”, “This is the woman I fell in love with, this is the guy I fell in love with “Pay attention because the ones that say that, have the opposite race on their arm. Much like their defending their actions. So my only problem is the reasons for venturing off and the fact that it leaves less powerful black couples out there in which we need especially for the deprived black kids without their black fathers to set an example for them. Or black woman standing tall for good non thug black man who can take are of them and keep a roof over their head, pay the bills and not abuse them. They exist. I exist!!! I’m definitely not racist but I notice myrace is breaking apart more than others and it does’nt make us look powerful, it makes us look weak. It makes us look like we can’t handle our own so we find the easy way out. What do you guys think?

BrOwnSuGarShanNiqua–excellent points!

in some areas of the country, black women are still hung up on the “shade” of the black man that is talking to them. usually, it is he is “too dark”. consequently, a lot of educated dark skinned black men marry white women because black women find them unattractive. i have a friend like this and by the way, he has rasied his children to be just as intelligent as he is.

You are so right, I forgot about the shade issue. I’m a light brother skinned and I know that that plays a part. That actually turns me off from blacks girls sometimes because I know that’s one of the reasons they would want to talk to me. I’ve ben around girls who admitted it. They flat out said they wanted their child to be brighter and look mix or have some good hair so that it can be easy to work with. I’m like “What!” I just obsorb and hang my head down in disbelief. Yes darker skinned guys venture off also because the black girl won’t accept him and his tone. Afraid it might make them look like a scene from the “Roots”. We don’t want to do that right. Replicate our heritage hunh. I would lie if I don’t have darker skinned guys take to me different bcause I am brighter. I believe they feel like I am the poindexter type that alot of girls would want or choose before them, so they might have to step there game up, by dressing so flashy with the bling bling. In other words distractions. It’s rediculous but undeniably true. You would have to be a guy to know what I’m talking about and a few told me flat out as well. I’m not one of thoselight skinned brothers who acts like he is btter than anyone because I am brighter skinned. I’m easy to get along with and it’s sad when you disassociate with me or hate on me because of retarded reasons. I obsorb and hang my head down again. It’s all about accepting your race and changing the pattern one by on and it start with you individually.

WOW! I didnt even intend on commenting…just wanted to see how many more posts were on this topic…my goodness….it was on 412 last time i looked, now its at 511! good goin Hello Beautiful…really got us fired up on this one!

It’s only not cool if you make it not cool by trying to make it something it’s not.& History is good to know so things don’t repeat but at some point we just have to live. there’s enough worries & drama without making more that’s uneccesary.like kids killing kids black on black violence…its disgusting how black women till this day b***h about if a black mans dating a white woman…WHO REALLY CARES…CMON SON…THERES SO MANY OTHER THINGS TO WORRY ABOUT…SOMEONE DATING OUTSIDE OF THERE RACE IS NOT IMPORTANT TO ANYBODY IT’S THERE LIFE LET THEM LIVE IT…YOU HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE SO MAKE IT A GOOD ONE YOU ONLY GET ONE YOU’LL REGRET SITTING THERE HATING ON AN INTERRACIAL COUPLE JUST SHOWS HOW MISERABLE YOUR OWN LIFE IS…………….and you dont see white women trippin that some of us black women like white men…robin thick is married to a black woman…halle berrys husband is white…lauren londons father is white and the list goes on…what some black womens problem is they waste soooo much time worrying about who black men are dating they havent figured out what they like or want for themselves and then we cry about how we want racism to end but look how some of us act…seriously some of ya’ll just need an act right or some home training at the end of the day theres only one god…remember that

raymondowens: you brought up another interesting point about skin color within the black race. I understand that this may simply be a preference; just as some men like blondes, some like women with big breasts, there are (black) women who may have a preference for light-skinned men. Yet, there is still something a bit disturbing about it–at least to me. I suppose it is because of the eurocentric standard of beauty that had been placed throughout history and how it shaped how blacks view each other, how blacks have created their own caste system in a sense.

Just as you pointed out how black women are hung up on the “shade” of a man, so are black men. Take a look at Whoopie Goldberg: I remember reading about her in a magazine and she mentioned how she was rejected by men because of her skin color and her looks. It is no wonder why she dates almost exclusively white men, which is sad. We do it to ourselves.

Again, I am all for dating anyone. I just want to stress this point because I don’t want anyone to think that I am contradicting myself because I am empathetic and (hope) that I analyze human behavior from a cultural perspective as well as a general one.

Brown Sugar you need a different post. I understand what your saying but it is drama that needs to be addressed. Honestly if we don’t stick together how can we truly defend our own race if we spead apart for terrible reasons and slap the word love on top because it tickles our fancy. Like I said, I will date out of my race but its nothing wrong to call someone out when it looks like a pattern that will definitely effect th black community and their standards of their surrounding black folks. What I mean by that it makes us look like we’re not good enough to be with when we’re up there in fame but we’re perfect together in the hood. It’s not wasting time addressing these issues because if we stand tall together than we can advance our heritage as a whole so that our new generation black people can appreciate it more. Right now, they think we are a joke.

I agree with the Whoopie Goldberg issue. I actually think she looks beautiful sitting up at that table with those white woman. She really stands out to me and she’s smart. I love smart woman. She is a force and a leader. Alot of men want a follower under their belt. Yes she found a white guy only because that one right black guy didn’t find her in time. She ran across or attracted the wrong type. I’m not saying its her fault or if the manner in which she embraced the presence and the invite of a black male changed her perspective. Still you have to look to it in different ways. She acknowledged blacks wasn’t taking to her so she ventured off, basically allowing race to be a factor in her choice. Undeniable truth. She seems happy though which is great but we all battle our own demons and our own choices in which we personally justify as the right one. It’s up to you to figure the reasons for these choices and does it make you the problem or the race.

“Why Black Men Love White Women” by Rajen Persaud. Every Black man and woman should read this book.

“So in addition to receiving the ultimate protection from her white counterparts, the white woman was placed on a pedestal and even had normal biological functions performed for her. She was dressed in the finest clothes, sprayed with the most delightful fragrances, and held up as a model of matriarchal supremacy. Her black counterpart served her from the bottom of that pedestal. Relegated to a laboring s**t, every inch of the black woman was used for toil without compensation. Her head to carry heavy loads; her breasts to feed white children; her hands to pick cotton, wash clothes, and till soil; her legs as transport through torture; and her private parts to pacify and pleasure her persecutors in order to preserve her people. The Black woman was so degraded, disrespected and despised that she was even reduced to a belly warmer for her mistresses and masters on cold nights.”

Simply put, the Black men have watched Black women be treated as nothing and at one time where helpless to do a damn thing about it. Fast-forward to today well, let’s just say some Black men feel that Black women aren’t worthy of love. Thus the abused (some of them) became the abuser (emotionally).

Great book that allows you to learn about yourself and your man/woman. Good read!

Truthsrum, your right about the worthiness aspect. The white woman don’t have a problem with it because they are being catered to by an athlete, actor or singer who would drop a million at their feet so they wouldn’t argue with the fact. “Race isn’t an issue for me, but my preference now is black because they would go out of their way for me, display me as the love of their life and bare my kids in this mansion at beverly hills.” That’s what the white woman should say. “But if he cheat on me, I’m taking the kids, banging out your windows, chase you down the road,taking most of your money, well the most I can and try my best to humiliate you in the end.” Yet its not her or his fault at all. It’s “love” remember. Take Will and Jada for a minute. Why can’t it be like that? History doe’s replay itself and basically black men are fullfilling what they dreamed of doing when they were on the cotton farm sneeking a peek at the masters wife, saying “I’m gon get dat der one day.”

winwarproductions, regarding Whoopi using her past negative experiences not to date black men: I agree. At the same time, I look at it this way; if a dog keeps getting beaten by cops in uniforms, that dog will eventually hate ALL cops. Not the best analogy, but the only one I could think of.

I have a webcast to go to. Maybe by its end, I will have thunk of something more clever!

Your right Candy, but hate is a strong word. Not to say hate is in her vocabulary or her personal black male dictionary, but you can’t help but wonder what is the word that replaces the word hate for her towards black men. I’m happy she found the one she really loves and cares about assuming she’s happy. everything leaves a mark or a scar on you and your eyes view things much different and hopefully she won’t keep that mentallity so if the day do come when the right black man approaches her not to date or to hit on her but to just say hi, she won’t look at that black man as all black man that didn’t fancey her as much. Have you ever not liked someone because he looks like someone you don’t like at all? Alot of us have. Now implament that analogy into race.

I can see BP.com is still gergading with this racism mood.
What a pathetic article with its both unfortunate&funny, comic&tragic comments.
I bet yall haterz attend every sunday service gritting your teeth &praying hard in the name of Jesus your Lord&Saviour forgiving Him His “skin color” while in fact nothing is sacred to with yall.

RACISM is UGLY! Im BEAUTIFUL!
wONE GOD ONE BLOOD ONE LOVEw

you want a different post i’ll give you a different one…READY…WHO REALLY CARES IF PEOPLE DATE OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE…GET OVER IT…IT’S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD…THERE’S SO MANY MORE ISSUES IN THIS CRAZY MESSED UP WORLD AND PEOPLE STILL ON INTERRACIAL DATING…SERIOUSLY??? LMAO…HOW ABOUT WHOEVER HAS A PROBLEM WITH IT TAKE A LOOK AT YOURSELF IN A MIRROR AND ASK YOURSELF IF YOUR HAPPY BECAUSE YOUR OBVIOUSLY NOT IF YOUR SITTING THERE BEING MAD AT A BLACK MAN FOR DATING A WHITE WOMAN OR ANY OTHER RACE…MEN OF ANY RACE REALLY DON’T CARE WHO THEY DATE SO WHY DO WOMEN???…THEY JUST WANT TO SEE WHAT THEIR PREFERENCE IS FOR EXAMPLE I LIKE TALL BUILT CLEAN CUT MEN THAT HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON HIS SHOULDERS AND KNOWS HOW TO TREAT ME RIGHT AFFECTIONATE AND ATTENTIVE NOW HE CAN BE OF ANY RACE LONG AS HE CAN CAPTURE MY EYE AND KEEP ON SMILE ON MY FACE AND MY ATTENTION THEN HEY I’LL SEE WHATS UP WITH ME AND HIM…AND THATS EXACTLY HOW MEN FEEL…I CAN GUARANTEE YOU THAT THEY ARE NOT SITTING THERE THINKING WELL SHES NOT MY RACE IM NOT SURE IF I SHOULD DATE HER….HELL NO THAT MAN IS THINKING IMMA DO ME AND THIS SHOULD BE EXACTLY HOW ME AND ALL THE SISTERS SHOULD THINK STOP BEING SO CLOSED MINDED AND FOCUSING ON WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE GOT GOING ON IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP AND START TAKING CARE OF YOUR GD SELF….ENOUGH SAID

winwarproductions: I get what you are saying…and I am not disagreeing with you in that a person shouldn’t judge a group of people based on a few bad experiences. If that were the case, I would have gone butch a long time ago (chuckle). I am just trying to be less judgemental of people (not that Whoopi is skulking HB’s message boards). It’s like this: people will come to their own revelation about certain things in time. I cannot push them one way or another, but offer some insight or teach by example. If a person changes their perspective for the better–not just because of me, but because of other people who have helped him/her along–then great! If not, it’s their loss. And yes, Whoopi is losing out by not letting go of the hurt.

I think I wrote “thunk” instead of “thought” in my last post. Grammar error.

WM, you are off the flow of the topic. You actually came in as a hater. No ones talking about the race of jesus because his race don’t matter at all. He loves all of us, no matter what race we are and before it sounds like I’m contradicting myself, we must not forget we are a world of many races and religions that has kept this planet moving throughout the decades. I’m not addressing religion but race disacknowledgment. When your own race disapproves of you or places you below the other because of your color, skin tone, and other crazy characteristics, than fine bring religion into it, because I’m sure God would hate to see his children hate his children. WM, the issue is the reasons for disacknowledging your own and how we as black people can stick together and make our heritage even stronger than what it is now. How can you respect and undertand someone elses race if you can’t respect or try to deal with your own.

Your right Candy, it starts individually. Nothing I say can really change anything. Well it can but not in here, on this page or any other. Yet you know you have to try, and everyday I look around and listen to people and its sad. I say “I can’t believe you said that.” I always tell my brother or sister, trust me people are watching you even when you think they are not. You lead by example, so what type of example are you making for the people growing up behind you in your hood. The only reason I’m addressing black people because we’re the only ones acting like we don’t have any since. Like we don’t want to overcome or build an empire. We like cars, jewelry, white woman, and tatoo’s. We’re teaching kids to follow that pattern thus making us black controllable robots. Like I said we look like a joke. Time to take charge. Yep my brain hurts. Take it easy folks.

irregardless 2 race…we are all human…the object is too understand it all and continue 2 strive for the working relationship regardless of the ones that dont…color no factor…men like women…women like men and its simple as that…i dont believe kanya and amber were actually a couple…if they were more power to them…if they were not…it sure created alot of controversy and hatred on this web site just cause of skin color…2 me they were simply both people doing what they do…just like this topic…if i got a friend that likes to work with others as well as i…and even if she goes so far 2 leave work 2 work with those otherz…what business of that is mines…none…it the so-called marriage that,z the problem…people are getting married 2 create a phisod(spelling) at times the other partner simply doesnt know…people cheat in both matters and play games its as simple as that…would love to get married…dont think that will ever happen though…what if she is like tiger or sum,n…i have met women like that too…i aint never met a woman that didnt cheat,once all the truth came out, maybe tiger got caught first though…who knowz…hope they work that there out…i am the type of guy…that simply likes women…whatz wrong with thaaaaat…

Well, in the final analysis, a good toy goes a long way! ; )

@Winwarproductions…..

OMG where have YOU been???? Such insight, such wisdom, such depth!!! I hope your last comments were not your LAST comments. I am really being uplifted by your intelligence and your wisdom. The interchanging between you and Candyboxxx is sooo informative. Even at my age, I am being enlighten. I have given my opinions on this subject several pages ago, but because of all the madness that was going on I had just stopped commenting and started reading. I must say that you are refreshing and well worth the wait.

@Candyboxxx
To your last comment…..I hear ya! ;)

(correction)….enlightened

“You actually came in as a hater. No ones talking about the race of jesus because his race don’t matter at all. He loves all of us, no matter what race we are and before it sounds like I’m contradicting myself, we must not forget we are a world of many races and religions that has kept this planet moving throughout the decades”
ww, how can u separate LOVE for Jesus &HATE on interracial couples when OUR GOD teaches us to LOVE each other as we love ourselves NO MATTER the color.Or maybe u dont know that God in fact chastised the humans by making them different from each other so they wouldnt understand each other &had no chances building up the tower of Babel?
So how comes “it has NOthing to do with religion”?!
Now calling ME – who is NOT hating on other races&NOT praising my own – a hater was incredibly bright l.o.l.
nothing personalbut ur comment was pathetic.

RACISM is UGLY! Im BEAUTIFUL!
wONE GOD ONE BLOOD ONE LOVEw

ok I was cool until I saw the king of soul himself with one…Not Don!~ come on now bruthas…Don Cornelius? are you serious? is that even allowed? LOL how you gone be the King of soul train and dating a pink toe…whats that?

j/k lighten up people..I am a little disturbed by that though

I’m not a big pot smoker (did it recreationally in my college days), but I think if the world lit up one big Dutchie and passed it around, we’d all be feeling the Kwan.

Wow. I didn’t know I typed so much. I must have had alot on my mind.
WM, your still a hater.lol
I just didn’t want to get into a religion argue with you because that
would have taken this page off the topic. Out of all the things I
addressed that’s what you responded with. I know God wants us to
love each other which is the keys words, “love each other” That’s
something “our” race is lacking. We kind of glorify other races and
I’m not saying devide this country into races and lets work from that
thought, I’m saying start from yourself as an African American male or
female and look at your fellow African Americans and embrace them as a
unity. Start in and work out. Not start out and barely look in because
you “hate” or don’t like your reflection. We have too many African American
kids in these neighborhoods looking for role models through music, athletes,movies
and sadly the news.That’s where their learning the new stuff about their idols.If daddy
don’t respect African American mommy then how can the child.If mommy can stick by
a good african American man than how can the female
child grow up to want a good African American man when mommy only attracts thugs.That’s why
we need more black men to be men because whether you know it or not race does play an
issue in a childs life as they grow up. You have to teach them to love their race
and its hard to learn it from people who abandon it for unjustifyable reasons.I
wasn’t born in slavery days thank God, but right now we act like slaves.
We act like we have no clue as to what type of future we want for our kids.
It’s at the point to where you get to wonder what did our ancesters fight for.
For freedom of course, but now that have it, we are acting like children in a
candy store, while the candy man is watching us run and he says “Look at them
running around like they ain’t got no darn since,” and he’s laughing while
we eat our candy. It sounds like a crazy analogy but it makes since to me.

A person’s past shapes his present, and even his future. This is true of everyone. Accountability and responsibility to oneself can only be achieved when the person realizes how the past has affected him or her and decides to no longer stay in the cycle of self-destruction.

100th, you’ve been quiet, my friend. What gives?

Lets flip the script. Why do White Women love Black Men? Why do White Men love Black Women? Stop acting like white people have some kind of power and control over us that we are the ones falling for them and not the other way around.

@ MAINTAIN_FOCUS8202, I concur. VERY GOOD POINT!!! Now that you put it that way there really isn’t anything left to say now is it?!?

LOL@Maintain_Focus8202 & Shamel_

Very well put.. Nothing left to say…

lol i have to third that as well good point@maintain_focus8202

That’s not event the point. No matter how I format the matter, someone is going to come in here and stray from it just to sound like they won an argument. Flip the script in another topic page. Yet you make an interesting point of power. Yeah power that black people give white people because we underestimate our influence in this country as well as our potential. I don’t care about what makes white man run to black people and I already addressed white woman to black men. I only care about the choices black people make and the direction we are headed in. Wouldn’t you like to know.

LOL, Candyboxxx, I’m just sitting back and reading the the exchange in here. Wanted to give space. I’ve been known to write novels at times. Besides, when intelligent people tend to make sense that’s when I can just sit back with a smirk on my face. Loving it! LOL

OMG!! Don? Dre? Michael?

I was told white women love black men b/c of the skin contrast, blackmen are more exotic, assertive/dominant and the taboo is predominantly sexual. As a blackmale u dont have to be successful to get wt a wht fem. when blackmen get candid they admit its easier to get brains from wht fems. as mutual foreplay but wt a blk fem u have to ask/beg… lol… so sexually u can be “lazy” with a wht fem b/c she is so into u(b/c of the taboo) but wt a blk fem u have to “get her ready” and that’s work to a blk male. when the avg blk male hits a wht fem right,… she showers him with “gifts” and since they r in a better economic bracket on avg… its tough for the avg black male that exposes himself to that to walk away from good brains and “gifts”.. I attended an HBCU so I know most black men are “scurred” of being look down upon by blk fems for bein candid about this subject. Generally blk ppl r dominant sexually and other races aren’t so this dominance can cause a clash at times when blk fems and blk males r sexual since either gender is hesitant to be submissive. Im sure if blk fems readin this wanted to be candid they would agree that its easier for a male from a next race to be submissive with them than a black male.

Winwarprodictions – I write just as much as you so don’t sweat it!

I think it’s about choice. The choices we make has a rippling effect or butterfly effect. Choices creates conditions and our conditions are a result of the choices we have made. Some choices we make we understand and some, we don’t. I think it’s safe to say that as a nation, as a people, as individuals – we blacks have somewhat of a track record of not making the choices that will determine the good conditions. Rather those choices be romance, finance, social, political – the problem is choice. Everyone has their own path to follow. As my grandmother often say, “boy you don’t need to be running up and down the streets after them fast butt girls. They can’t do nothing for you. You were born into the world by yourself and you’re gonna leave this world by yourself.” So while we are a collective, we are also individuals, and I think we forget that color is sometimes the only common bond some black people have with one another, and that’s horrible to me. “You’re black – you’re supposed to be this way or that way, or date that person, or eat this food, or talk that way, or have this job.” I call it Self Racial Profiling. We often do it to ourselves. Case in point, this issue here we have been debating for almost a week now.

I said a while ago that this is a rather small matter in the big scheme of our issues. I also feel that this world is filled with illusions. If you were to look on a map of this country, you would see borders, division lines and blocks. But as you fly over the country and look out of your window of the plane, you then realize that those state border lines and blocks do not exist. It’s an illusion placed there on a map to keep each state separate. When it comes to people, we also have borders, blocks, and division lines perpetuated to keep our “state” of mind separate from one another.

I agree with you Winwar that it’s an internal reflection. Everything that grows grows from the core, from the seed outward – not outward towards the seed. However, I do not believe that the sole responsibility for our collective empowerment rest on the shoulders of black men. It is a joint effort and historically speaking, we black people come from more matriarchal societies than any other ethnic, cultural or religious group on the planet. So we need that help from the female.

As for loving your race. Every animal on this planet has a natural – instinctive gravitational pull towards their own (even humans). Black kids will naturally gravitate toward black kids, white kids to white, Asians to Asians because it’s in the DNA for humans to commune, but more importantly commune with their own kind. This communal creates, “natural” love and pride for your own. And it’s that love that is very difficult to destroy. Do you know what kind of traumatic experience us black people would have to suffer to get us to not like ourselves? Look at our 400 years of history just in this country and we are still laughing and smiling, dancing and singing. Now compare that to only 50 years of black men outwardly dating white women and people say THAT’s the result of self hate, but 400 years of bondage, death, rape, and torture wasn’t? So self hate is not as easily pre-qualified as we think it is. Lack of self respect is more likely the case – but not self hate. I don’t think we need to try to get black people or black kids to love their race. I think if you simply teach them self respect – (not to be taken advantage of by any race, not to be someone’s expense, not to compromise their integrity, not to forget who they are,” everything else will “naturally” fall into place. Why? Because it’s impossible for us to be such a caring, loving, forgiving race of people and then hate ourselves. It’s not a self hate issue – it’s a self respect one!

Because we are submissive, know how to keep a home and have good credit. Wait, I count as white when its you have no @$$ and big te@ts time so yes I am claiming it this go and as for those who look at my pics and say Who is that white woman on your page when I’m tan in the summer its still me hon. Just don’t tell the athlete I’m dating that I have a page on Black Planet. He might get confused.

ME PERSONALLY I THINK THAT THERES LOTS OF BEAUTIFUL WOMEN OF ALL GENRES. BUT I HAPPPEN TO BE IN LUV WITH MY BEAUTIFUL SISTAS I NEVER CROSSED OVER LADIES. SO IM STILL DOWN BUT WE NEED TO COMMUNICATE,LUV AND RESPECT EACH BETTER IN THE UNIVERSE.

100th: LOL–yes, you do write “novels”! It’s all good though. At least there are people who know how to write grammatically correct and coherent sentences, much less paragraphs. I can barely get through some of these posts without cringing…I don’t care how intelligent or shrewd a person may be, a good command of the english language (or whatever your native language is) is still critical. Make no mistake about it.

Hey 100th, thanks for the response. I like that even though we all have many perspectives on life, we can all get along about our views. I agree with pretty much everything you said and it does start with self respect. I see we agree and then disagree on certain issues but it is important to take them all into concideration. I’m not saying since we have this common black bond that it is mandatory we breed and not seek other races. I’m saying I’m black, African American, and my eyes are wide open to black people. When I see a black leader I say “Wow he is successful and has the same skin color as me, so there is no excuse for me to blame society or the man.” Now that common black bond becomes effective because we have that obvious similarity, portrayed by my role model. Well that self respect issue comes into play, to allow me to generate important values gearing me up for me to become a role model. I would have to be a child who has grown around an environment that teaches self respect, I would have to be a child who has grown around an environment that teaches kids to appreciate their race, yet its hard because they see us acting a fool on the corners.I am one of those kids who has grown around plenty of none. I just came out of the projects a few months ago. I’m not going to act like I dont see what I see or hear what I hear and not think they don’t take that mentality to the entertainment business. I know black guys who venture off and tell me their reasons for doing it and if they date a white girl in the hood, they still keep that same mentallity so it is safe to say perspective and environment does play a role in the choices you make. I’m not saying don’t date a white girl or woman, I’m just saying look at what leads the type of black man that I’m addressing to white women, much from the topic. Just those type of black men, and then determine if that’s effecting the younger black generation behind them to say “Thats the way to do it.” Yes this occurs in other races yet our reasons are different. Black are the ones with the super nappy hair that we won’t classify as good hair, blacks are the majority of the ones who gravitate to brighter skinned people such as white people because it seems to be a sense of comfort and difference and helps us forget about our own skin color for a minute or 2 just to fit in, blacks are the majority of the ones who are tagged ghetto and instead of working on ourself or portraying ourself “individually” we hide behind a group of white people to where we obviously stand out, just to get away from that ghetto persona. Now they can say, I’m not ghetto, I have alot of white friends.Yes I know alot of ghetto white people, so don’t ask. Maybe its not a bigger issue to many, such as the people who are content with their opposite race on their side because they love them for who they are, God bless. Or the people who just cares about everyone and every race because it is the right thing to do and they figure the only way to get over our prolems is to just spread the love mentally and physically with every race that tickles our fancy, God bless. There’s me who cares about every race, loves everyone, especially my black race because that’s who I grew up with and from, and I have a right to defend it’s direction and path because when you fill out that application and fill in your race, you are classified as black, and you can put in other, but when they look at you they see black. For example. I don’t know how your going to like this one. When 9 11 happened people flipped out. Everytime you seen a muslim or Iranian on your corner you said ” I know he probably a terrorist. I just know it. ” Why, because we knew what race did it. Don’t lie if you don’t walk by one and the thought doesn’t cross your mind but you immediately brush it off so you won’t feel racist. Okay now look at black people. We are doing some crazy stuff right now in the spotlight and what one black figure does, does effect the “outline” for the rest of us. You can say I am my own person, yes that is true, but when the —- hits the fan for your idol, you are him when you step up to the plate because that’s what their expecting now from black idols. History keeps repeating itself if you haven’t noticed. Just because you say I’m not going to do it doesn’t mean its going to stop. If you do do it, just remember the “outline”,the “concequences” when they get you in that “I got you stage” and this “post.” I’m saying why start off with the same pattern and routine as the others.

Yes, I agree that it is about the choices that one makes, however, even more than that it’s about taking RESPONSIBILITY for those choices whether those choices turn out to be right or wrong, good or bad. Too often, we, as a people, will embrace the choices that we think are good, but when those choices become uncomfortable we tend to shift the blame on whatever or whomever is popular at the moment. We have very little patient as far as staying with a messy situation and working it out so we take the easiest way out possible choosing to ignore the fact that the problem still exits and it still effects our lives and our communities. Let’s face it, down through the years we have not been made to take responsibility for our choices. Cases in point:
Years ago when we women were raising children alone, we had no assistant. We had to find ways to support our children, LIKE WORK. We took responsibility for our families. Then the government decided to give out welfare. This made a lot of us irresponsibile and lazy, both male and female because we were no longer made to be accountabile for our actions. Now I realize that other races were guility of this as well but right now we are taking about “US”. Instead of us, as a race of people, continuing to do as we were doing before, which was work, we took the easy way out choosing to ignore the fact that the problem not only still exists but it is growing into an epidemic, effecting not only us but our communities. Babies raising babies with no guidance and no father figure. So what do we do, we take another easy way out, selling, using drugs, crime, etc….in other words, not taking RESPONSIBILITY for our choices.
For the LOVE of money is indeed the root of all evil. The love of money, and all it can buy has been dangled in our eyes like a carrot before a horse. We have degraded not only ourselves but our counter parts for the almighty dollar. One of my pet peeves is the way our beautiful brothers have bought into this system of down grading and just straight out disrespecting us sisters in their songs. All for the almighty dollar. To me this is one of the highest forms of being IRRESPONSIBLE. Don’t we realize the effect it is having on the younger generation??? And some of the reasons they give for doing this is just ludricrous. Not even worth mentioning.
Now in conclusion I would just like to say that we obviously have a different understand of just what the term “Strong Black Woman” means. I do not associate the strong black woman with the loud, (although sometimes we do have to be “passionate” in our views and our opinions)…LOL,LOL. But I digress. I do not associate a strong black woman with rudeness, tattoes (ouch!), eye rolling, neck snatching or popping, or any of those unseemly things. My perception of a strong black woman was as I stated before which is to still stand in spite of all the obstacles, and hardships. To be able to deal with the consequences that comes from bad choices. However we black women do not have a monopoly on strength, we just have to display it more in THIS COUNTRY. We also have some strong black men. Men who take responsibilities for their actions. Who will not buy into this hoodlum, gangster, women bashing, children abandonment, laziness, loose their character and integrity for the almighty dollar, and divide and conquer symdrone.
I have really been blessed and enlightened by this subject and a lot of the comments that were offered. It has been good for me to see the younger side of this subject. So don’t think that your comments have been wasted. Keep up the good work. Hang in there and COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE.

Sorry for the none paragraghs and formatting issue, I’m just speaking from the mind fluently without pause and caution. Much like Freestyling. I’m an author as well and have the ability to write correct and complete sentences, I’m just being lazy. http://www.winwarproductions.com
is my portfolio. Take care folks, got a project to work on.

As a black man my response is this. I can definitely see how my bruthas like them some white women. White people in general are leaps and bounds ahead of us when it comes to family structure. That being said white women in general grow up with an example of a mother and father in the home and they see how their mother’s are willing submit to their husbands in order to keep him happy and keep the family at peace and together. Now you take a black man from the hood (who only grew up with his single mother with no male role models other than his boys down the street are also fatherless all trying to figure out how to be a “man” together) and hook him with a white girl who is willing to please him sexually and be submissive it makes him feel like a man. What would you expect to happen? His previous relationships were all black females, he used to say he would never date white women until once he became of age to date and have sex he discovered that he’s was never good enough for the black woman because he didn’t have a certain type of car or he wasn’t thuggish enough or he didn’t have enough money to get her hair and nails done. What she didn’t realize is as a black man the extreme amount of potential he is capable of and instead of moving on she should have encouraged him to use it and stuck by him until he rose to be the true king he is. So in the meantime he mosied his azz right on over to the white girl that knows how to rub his feet when he gets home because you refuse to. Personally I have never date a white woman simply because the bible says do not mix your linens with your wools. Although that submissiveness presented by white women is EVERY man’s dream I would not want to cause unnecessary stress (racism) on any romantic relationship I’m involved in.

Well for starters nothings taboo for white women in the bedroom.. With black women you have to make “agreements.” lol .. Real talk, white women do more in bed and that’s a big part of it if truth be told. Plus the mentality is different. Their submissive, and attitudes are generally better. That’s why I prefer white woman, but still hoping I can find a black woman who can prove me wrong!

I personally don’t love any particular white woman,maybe never will. i’ll fvck em but i cant relate to them so i just aint drawn to em enough to love one.i’m more emotionally attached to someone similar to me of the opposite sex.ni66az who exclusively date “submissive” “weak” “unopinionated” women are weak and submissive themselves to anyone other.besides that fvck all that.a woman can have all the attitude she wants….if i allow her to run me that would make me sucka point blank.i got ideas about you white woman cherishing brothas.i think y’all are suckas.

Cuz they know when how to respect their man even when he’s wrong. It’s all about faithfulness and most of all, respect for me. I don’t need a woman trying to challenge me at every turn. A woman can have an opinion, perspective, POV whatever. We can agree to disagree, argue whatever. But when we’re out in public, she better follow my lead and have my back and never disparage or try to make a fool of me in front of her or my friends. I won’t do it to her and she better not do it to me. That’s why I don’t date as many sistas like I used to. Always wanna take an argument public or try to emasculate a brotha.

i usually don’t comment in these forums. I find them to be divisive and unproductive. I am really fed up about how black women get slammed in these forums. I have dated mostly black men and for the most part, they all did me wrong. Despite this, I refuse to say that all black men are worthless. I’ve come to the realization that you can’t judge a group of people based on few experiences. So, to those who say, “I’ve been mistreated by so many black women, therefore, ALL black women are trash”, take heed to this realization. You have a dated a minute fraction of black women and do not have enough data to come to this conclusion. Additionally, I also realized that I chose to date these men and clearly I was making the wrong choices in men. I had to rethink about why I attracted these men. Maybe you should do the same.

If you choose to date a white woman, do it because you want to and don’t bash us black women in the process.

So, why do some black men love white women? Who cares? I don’t.

group mates this ya boy poetic of the detroit. so Bp is havin this one minute to shine competition and i decided i would give it a shot! its on my page in my groups as well and i entered in to the competition take a second to listen to my lyrics and if you feeling me then VOTE for your boy in this black planet one minute to shine competition.! aight get at me for voting dates add the music page and suppport aight! thanks and God bless ~JD3VIL~

I don’t buy the fact that Black men get bored with Black women for a minute. If that is the case, why are they running to other races of women at such drastically higher rates than men of other races? No one will ever be able to tell me that such a high number of Black men have to go outside their race to find love. Black women have been given this bad label, like we are so awful to be with, and whether the man is rich or poor, he acts like he struck gold at the 1st piece of White trash that looks his way. Much love and respect to the Black men who know that there is no love like a Black woman’s love, and for the ones who think White is right, keep running to them. You were probably rejected by your own race anyway just like the White chicks you think really love you for who you are and not what they think is in your pockets or your pants. Black women will continue to progress, and when the Snow Chasers have gotten all used up, made babies all over the place and have given all their money to the ones they think are so precious now, don’t bring your broke-down asses back to us.

@mrrightTX- Youre another one of those im GLAD the white women have brain washed! What you said is basically you want a weak woman…submissive=weak. Ill be glad when you black men realize that just because a black woman speaks her mind without sugar coating everything like whites do, its NOT a bad attitude…its being straight forward. And please dont label them as doing MORE in bed…you havent run across EVERY black woman in bed so therfore you can not lump us all in a box…Maybe if you made a black woman feel like you DESERVED everything in bed she would give it to you…But you go ahead babe and stick to those weak white ones…just makes it easier for us black women to see the REAL black men..

I see nothing wrong at all.

I was going to do a comedy bit on this one. But Tiger simply had it bad for white girls. OJ was married to a black woman at one point(i think) and Kobe did take Brandy to the prom.

lames!!!!!

It’s amazing that none of you pinpoint what is really behind brothers dating white girls when they are on top. The history of AMERICA has always treated blacks as inferior to whites. During slavery, it was always a dream for a slave to fantasis about their master’s wife. Blacks used to be lynched over just getting a chance to go to a movie with a white girls. By nature, people likes stuff they’re deprieved of. Don’t black people buy cadilac and benz before they buy condo? lol. I don’t think its about skin tone or else we will be all over chinese women. We were both in the bottom building rail roads. Even in the 60′s until 90′s, every magazine features whitewomen as prettier until Iman and Naomi campbell surfaced. Society sees whitewomen as better looking than any other race. Same is happening to blackmen; society sees blackmen as hunks and handsome now so you get the drift??? Dark and tall they call us now. We are in style so the competition is greater for sisters. It is a cycle. Eventually it will be sisters turn. Ms Berry tried to bring sisters back but it is taking too much time to resonate.

LMAO@ cuz they do more in bed and their submissive!! *IS THAT THE BIG PICTURE* Apparently, some of u still think with the wrong head, and well for that they can simply have u’re narrow-minded asses ; ) well if u’re looking for a woman 2 b a submissive DUMB ASS SEX OBJECT..then i would rather u be with them lmao!!! As i said before, listening to a man isn’t a issue if he knows how to run things and not just RUN THINGS! Seems like some men are just to damn sensitive, and can’t take a little direction CUZ URE THE MAN! MAYBE SOME OF U BLACK MEN SEE THINGS a lil BACKWARDS, but aside from the black women who do like to argue and start unnecessary CRAP *we know they exist*, a woman wouldn’t spend so much time trying to get “SOME ACT RIGHT” out of you, if she didn’t Care about You..take it from me I KNOW BEST lol ; ) KNOW WHO YOU’RE DEALING WITH BEFORE STUFF GETS THAT FAR, and u start blaming ALL BLACK WOMEN for the last few *azzwipes* ; ) SO i will still say “damn not given” about y u’re with that white chick, SIMPLY STOP PLAYING THE BLAME GAME thats what makes most black women mad…WHEN U GET A “QUICK FIX” U WILL need ANOTHER 1, AND ANOTHER 1, that’s with cheating to! Get the “REAL DEAL” and u won’t HAVE A NEED FOR ANYTHING ELSE ; )

White women know how to get their foot in the door. They know how to read men. It aint just blacks. Look at arafat. They know how to weasel their way into any race,lol. Their equal opportunist when it comes to making it happen. Notice white women know how to infiltrate social circles. Well, actually they have been a part of social circles since the begginning along with the white man historically. These days race is kind of settling down, but, like c**kroaches the white woman will be in the thick of things always. Even when the hispanic community becomes the dominate race the white woman will be their.

I’m tired of this lame talk, open your eyes ppl, and see the truth.

Now I’ve never dated outside my ppl (I Luv the Queens) but

One Question? will shut this discussion down.

What was your reason when you stop dating a specfifc person?? Hmmmm

You wern’t HAPPY, plain and simple (I do belive they say something like this “I’m not happy and Im not satisfied.”

Some Men want PEACE not more drama!!!

Now either step up and deal with it *Your being clowned out here by these white women* These Kardashians are str8 taking these Men and your busy asking Wha happen.

Or sit down and you can continue to claim ignorance while your Black Men are OBVIOUSLY being targeted in all areas, by Jails, Drugs, Violence, and oh of course White women. Oh yeah even the Homosexual community licks their chops at the seemingly unprotected little black boys.Wow

This failure (Blindness)to actively see/accept the truth is either a serious mental condition or either a curse. Whichever Im done and have made up my mind what it really is????? In my book its clear SOME OF OUR SUPPOSED OWN PPL (Male or Female) JUST DON”T CARE ABOUT BLACK MALES, or black issues and it shows in their actions, or their In-actions when it comes to our well being.

“Be Warry of anyone who emulates thier mastes, they neither speak pro-black nor contribute to Black Conciousness. See in their Works(Actions) that they are your Judas.

The New enemy has a face and it’s color is our own.

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If your reading this message “YOU ARE THE RESISTANCE………………………………….

Im an African American woman and I don’t really care what African American men do its there lives its not controlling my life! I date all races but Im more attracted to guys outside of my race no big deal!

NICQ, if you look throughout the thread, you will see that many people already addressed this.

With all due respect to you, the Kardashian women are a poor example. First of all, these are women who became famous because one sister’s sex video was circulated; she was filmed sucking dyck like a porn star. Are you suggesting that we women follow this example and debase ourselves to garner fame and wealth? Of course, there are women from every ethnic group that do this (a la Tilla Taquilla, world’s first asian/alien cyber sexpot), but please understand that many black women have already stepped up to the plate. We have jobs, careers, are educated, successful, submissive, can sex a man down until his toes curl, take care of his children, love him unconditionally and stand behind him so if he falls, he has a place of security to fall back on.

I do agree with you that there are many women who need to step there game up. But do not generalize because it is just as easy to say the same thing about black men. For your benefit, and for others who have not read all of the threads, I will reiterate that it comes down to the individual taking responsibility for themselves and improving upon their lives.

As far as the other variables you mentioned (taking MANY black men), it is quite obvious. NO one is denying that there is a disproportionate number of minorities (i.e., blacks and hispanics) in prisons, but what is really your point–that is, you later wrote that some black women do not care about black male issues and it shows in their actions or inactions. Are you suggesting that black women pick up the slack? Are you suggesting that black women tolerate mistreatment (i.e., violence and drugs–two of the variables that you mention are claiming our black men)? Are you suggesting that we make allowances for black men who may not be the type of man who is compatible with us?

Please explain this, so you can really “shut it down”.

Best,

Candy

Its not even about once we get successful or anything like that. Why does it remotely matter when it comes to race? And as for the whole ” black men think white women are submissive in bed” thing can it not be some that some black men date based on what fits their personality. Like me for example, I am very open-minded and embrace different things. Ask me for some Rock and Roll history, classics, the arts, urban history past and present. I know black guys out there like myself who believe that the world is bigger than our communities. I have driven in cars before and had black females get mad at me because I have the radio on something that plays a variety of songs and I know word for word songs from Coldplay/Metallica to Common/Nas/2Pac etc.. not to mention reggae since I am Jamaican. A lot of us, my fellow blacks (like some whites and some of every other race) are close minded and when you are close minded it shrinks your room and desire for progression, that’s what a black man who is open to spending the rest of his life with a woman from another race goes after.

How many times you run into someone of my race who thinks it’s cool to be dumb aka “keepin’ it real”? They think its cool to not maintain a certain level of civility, to NOT blame things on some guy named billy-bob but on themselves and the choices they made to get to that position. And when you walk straight without a “bop” and you wear a shirt and a tie and some dress shoes, some sistas think you’re not “thug” enough for their liking.

Stop acting like it is a crime. That is the thing with us black people, we want to dish out all the racial punishment but can’t take it when someone else says it. I went to a high school where you got looked on hard if you were a white visiting student, where they had public speakers call whites “crackas” in 2000, not 1950. It is time we all get past this. I know I might end up spending the rest of my life with someone not of my race, I will start a family with that person too. Then again, I might end up spending the rest of my life with a black woman. If she has ambition, won’t settle for less, is open-minded to diversity in every aspect, carries herself well, has some sort of classiness, and pushes me to be better much like I would push her to be better, loyal, truthful, trustworthy, and loves me as much as I love her then hell yes I might just end up with her. She could be Asian, Hispanic, Pacific Islander, White or even Black. And my point? Black Mrs. Salmon or White Mrs. Salmon…who gives a sh*t. After doing my share or traveling and seeing the world I realized the greatness of the human race comes through our diversity, the abilities to minimize or weaknesses by coming together and maximizing our strengths. What is skin colour? Just a biological means of adaptation beneficial to an inhabitant’s location. Get over it people.

WELL I BEING A RED-BLOODED AFRICAN-AMERICAN MALE ENJOY WOMEN OF ALL NATIONALITIES AND COLORS BUT I HAVE NOTICED THAT WHEN BLACK MALES ARE OUT IN PUBLIC WITH THEIR WHITE GIRLFRIENDS,THAT SOME BLACK WOMEN TEND TO SNUB/DISRESPECT/HATE ON THE WHITE WOMAN I AM WITH! I MEAN MY OWN GRANDMOTHER ALWAYS SAYS CRAZY PREJUDICED STUFF ABOUT A BLACK MAN BEING WITH A WHITE WOMAN(I.E. “I DONT WANT NOTHING WHITE WAKING UP NEXT TO ME!”)AND THEN SHE GOES OUT OF HER WAY TO BE ALL SWEET AND NICE TO THEM IN PUBLIC/RESTAURANTS! I AM SOOOOOO CONFUSED! BUT LIKE I SAID MY HEART CANT HELP WHO IT FALLS IN LOVE WITH AND IF CERTAIN PEEPS DONT AGREE,THEN THATS ON THEM CUZ IMA DO ME AND WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY! D.D.

Okay, I think I’m done with this topic. I have to get ready for bed. I have a lunch date tomorrow with my new beau, who happens to be french, lebanese, syrian and morrocan. I think I have the Middle and Near East covered….next week: Japan. ; )

im gonna be “RANDOM” for a min. Now those who have something to say about it or those who are against it are close minded, hmmm!! Almost everyone has some kind of restrictions when it comes to something, i’m sure everyone in here isn’t open to being GAY, so does that mean WE’RE close minded?? I KNOW MY MIND IS DEFINITELY CLOSED WHEN IT COMES TO THAT LOL!! So i guess this is where the preference part comes in?? I MEAN HOW DAMN OPEN R PPL SUPPOSED TO BE, trying new things ain’t good ALL THE TIME!! CURIOSITY KILLED THE DAMN CAT ya know…AND YES IM BORED RIGHT NOW, AND THIS IS GETTING PLAYED OUT. this is a subject that can go on forever, SO HEY I SAY THIS YOU CAN’T PLEASE EVERYBODY ; ) ITS CLEAR THAT MANY BLACK MEN PUT BLACK WOMEN LAST REGARDLESS, AND WELL IF THAT’S THE CASE THAT ALONE CAN ANSWER THE REASONS U HAVE YOUR DOUBTS, STRUGGLES, DISLIKES, AND ANY OTHER ISSUES WITH BLACK WOMEN!! AFTER READING SOME OF THE CRAP COMING FROM SOME OF YOU BROTHERS I’M “BAFFLED” LMAO. THEN HAVE THE NERVE TO CRY ABOUT “BLACK WOMEN” NOT LIKING Y’ALL ANYWAY. NOTE 2 SELF: SOMETIMES I DON’T HAVE TO THINK TO HARD OTHER PEOPLE MAKE MY MIND UP FOR ME ; ) NEVER EXPECT TO FIND A GOOD BLACK WOMAN IF YOU’VE GIVEN UP ON US “ALL” WE DO EXIST; )…GROW CLOSER TO GOD, GROW CLOSER TO YOURSELF
QUEENZ OUT!!!!

Is it love or lust of the things some white women give them? Don’t get me wrong im NOT A HATER because I don’t have to deal with there problems. However I do hate(her ways) the white women who date a black guy and then-call him a n!gga or black motherfu(kers-when they fight. Or when they are together try-to rub the fact that she is with him in the black girls face-trying to start sh!t and saying black women need to step up there game or they don’t do enough for the black man-etc. And the black guy who date white women be trying to put the black woman down to up hold the white woman-is sh!t that piss me off and make me say something to them. White women or no better than the black woman or the next woman of a different race. I can’t speak for every black woman but,I can speak for myself…I don’t care about who the black man date as long as they respect me and not try to front and diss respect the black race in my face-im cool. As for me-I will never date no other race but,black…nomatter how much 1 black man may date or even be dumb and ignorant do not mean they all are that-way. So im standing by our black respectful black men…no matter if he is poor or not. I will never chose another race of the black man. Now thats not saying I want respect other race if the black man is wrong. In all fairness its really what make you happy and a choice you make and you got the right to date whomever you want as long as you respect the next person and there race. (JMO)

whats real funny about this whole story is the end. The pictures of black men and their wives…HALF OF THEM AREN’T WHITE! There’s an Asian, Hispanic, and whatever those other women are. Just because they appear to have a lighter skin tone, their not all white! Get over the whole race thing people!

IT’S THE PINK P-U-S-S-Y

Everyone has a choice who they want to be with, BUT……..this one man wanted to talk to me. He had always gone with white woman, had a child by one, and didn’t have his finances together. I told him to go back to dating white women since he thought they were so great. I resent Black men that go with white women, get burned by them and then want a Black woman to help them get back on their feet. Many Black women don’t date white men because they don’t have any money. These jump offs date these athletes and celebrities because they have money.

[...] Why do black men love white women? [...]

PEOPLE SHOULD STICK TO THERE OWN RACE. WHATS SO GREAT ABOUT PAIL SKIN. AN THAT PUP DOG SMELL. WERE IM FROM BLACK CHICKS GET FREAKY, SO STOP WITH THE LIES ABOUT BW ARE NOT FREAKY ANOUGH!!!

Who cares about black men and who they date?

As a race, we need to be aware and careful of the message that we are sending to young black boys and girls. I had the opportunity to chair and coordinate a mentoring program aimed at black males between the ages of 12-17. I recall having brothers volunteer to be a mentor who had no real connection to their communities. They were married to white, asian, or latino women and seemed so disconnected from the black experience. While I appreciated their offer of volunteerism and mentorship, I declined their services because our preteens and teenagers needed to be surrounded by men that loved black women. They needed to know that just because you climb the ladder of success and reach a goal or pinnacle, you don’t have to desert your race or black women. At the present moment this is the message that our children are receiving via many black men: Black women are not beautiful enough, They don’t measure up, and When you become successful, you must have a white woman on your arm as a token. No other race exhibits self-hate to the degree that black people do…and we wonder why we can’t get ahead.

Personally speaking I find nothing more sexier than a smart, sexy black woman, does that make me racists, not really… I just love ya’ll

Peace!

The author of this article has nothing better do with his or her time than to focus on issues that seem to dumb-down the African American Community. It’s almost like a conspiracy or something. Why not focus on issues that will help empower the community? Why not focus on how to keep our kids alive and how to prevent them from becoming a statistic? Or the high illiteracy, incarceration, and teen pregnancy rate that’s plaguing our communities? All of these issues are more detrimental to our community than who Russell Simmons dates. Who he likes is his business. Articles like this does nothing more than facilitate hate and ignorance. Because it’s gossip. Wake up people! Because we are losing.

sophinal40,
I suggest u name us those exclusive features that make u personally better then “all those white women” coz as for now u acting clown trying to put the white color down talking sh just coz it aint ur own color Mrs. Peroxide aka a wanna-be Blonde Stunna
ww, get’it! l.o.l.

RACISM is UGLY! Im BEAUTIFUL!
wONE GOD ONE BLOOD ONE LOVEw

Wow, with all the more important issues that plague our community, and someone had the nerve, the audacity to come up with this dumb article. In the words of my mother, God rest her soul, “What they eat don’t make me sh and what I eat don’t make them sh”, this meaning is quite simple: It means that if it has nothing to do with you/us personally, STAY OUT OF IT, IT’S NONE OF OUR BUSINESS!!!! How in one breath, the I Have A Dream Speech is preached all throughout the world, to put an end to racism, and when it does happen, people want to judge and be hateful. If someone feels they can be happier with someone outside their race, then so be it. I have 2 nephews who only date white women. I have no problem with it, because I was taught to love everyone. God loves us all regardless of color, why can’t we all love one another regardless of color?

@hothoney, you know this is what makes news on here, don’t act surprised. And I agree with those men, we shouldn’t be condemned to dating just one race, we should be able to choose.

i totally agree with WhyDoTheyLive. we as a people, a CULTURE need to realize that this is an important issue. WE AS A PEOPLE ARE LITTERALLY KILLING OFF OUR RACE AND THE LOVE OF IT. BLACK LOVE. it has nothing to do with racism, it has something to do with loving your race. how do u expect the african american race to stay alive if u keep mixing with different races. our race black people as a whole will eventually become none existent due to this fact. Many of the good black women that are left will not feel pretty because of the simple idea that other lighter or different races are better than them. get a grip on the issue at hand people

TO WMSHURRICANEW..HOW COME YOU DONT SAY ANYTHING WHEN THE BLACKMEN ON HERE IS BASHINS BW THATS OK TO YOU I BET… I CAN BE A RACES!!! ALL DAY LONG IF I WANT…I THINK PEOPLE SHOULD STICK TO THERE OWN RACE AN THERES OTHERS THAT THINK THE SAME WAY .ON THAT NOTE F**K YOU B***H!!! AN I WEAR MY HAIR LIKE IWANT TO!! WHY YOU ON BP ANYWAY F**K YOU!!

sophinal40,
is FU all a grown-up woman with a daughter like uself has to say? pathetic…
theres a badass ppl in each&every race &if u 2blind to see that its ur problem &u can be the narrow-minded racist all day long&wear ur fake hair like u want to BUT dont get surprised when other like-minded creatures show u their “pure love” through that ugly racist sh just REMEMBER u “MIGHT BE” 1 of THEM which STILL doesnt mean ure better then other women

RACISM is UGLY! Im BEAUTIFUL!
wONE GOD ONE BLOOD ONE LOVEw

I can only speak for myself when it comes to mix relationships which is something I wouldn’t do. But that has a lot to do with the world I grew up in. I am a product of my environment, born and raised on black women. I do think white women are beautiful and very sexy, but I still wouldn’t date them. Sorry, but I’m too old to change

WMsHURRICANEW you are not a Black Woman, and you have no right to respond to any black woman on this site in the manner in which you are. There are 1000′s of interracial dating sites on the web, please find one that meets your needs.

Black men could you please stop brainwashing white, asian and latino womens minds. It seems that after that they have slept with a few of you they begin using ebonics and neck-rolling. I said this in a previous post, but I’ll reiterate this point again. You do not become part of the black community by sleeping with a black man. Also WMsHURRICANEW, I don’t care how much rap/hiphop/or r&b music you may listen to, you are not a Black Women. This is your reality check.

WmsHURRICANEW there isn’t anything racist about someone disagreeing with interracial relationships, and sharing their viewpoint.

As for your question regarding what makes a black womans features better or superior than a white womans…here are a few answers:
The age progression of white women is much more apparent than that of a black woman.
When white women are in their 20′s, they look as if they are in their late 30′s. While black women get better with time, thanks to our pigmentation.

I recently saw a commericial on tv. for panties that were padded–this item is being targeted to white, asian, and lation women…so obviously you are insecure about your lack of a rear end.

You tan with no concern for skin cancer because you want to be dark as we are. You envy the size of our lips, so many of you get injections.

Here’s something I’m sick of seeing on blackplanet–White women holding up pictures of their biracial children in their profile pictures. Get some class. Are you so desperate for a black women that you have to use your children to advertise?

Correction…Here’s something I’m sick of seeing on blackplanet–White women holding up pictures of their biracial children in their profile pictures. Get some class. Are you so desperate for a *BLACK MAN* that you have to use your children to advertise?

HONESTLY BLACK ARE NOT APPRECIATED FOR THE THINGS THAT MAKE BLACK MEN GREAT WHITE FEMALES THEY FEEL A SENSE OF STRENGTH FROM A BLACK MAN CUZ ALL WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND WE STILL ACT LIKE WE THE S**T …BLACK FEMALES ONLY WANT THE BEST AND FEEL THEY SUPPOSE TO HAVE THE BEST JUST CAUSE THEIR BLACK…THEY ARE LIKE TRAINS THEY SWITCH TRACKS UNTIL THEY FIND THE QUICKEST ROUTE TO THE RICHES AND LUXURY

THE ONLY REASON BLACK FEMALES ARE COMPLAINING IF YOU PAY ATTENTION IS THEY SAY THE WHITE FEMALES ARE TAKING ALL THE RICH SUCCESSFUL BLACKMEN …LMAO WHAT ABOUT THE REGULAR BLACK MEN WHO WORK HARD AND ARE JUST GOOD MEN THEY DONT CARE WHO THEY DATE THAT SHOWS WHAT THEIR TRUE INTTENTIONS ARE ….

@ goodmoney9 Stop Stereotyping black women, why don’t you stereotype white women for a change? But you love your white women too much to do that! Stop the self-hate! Disgusting!

This article is about Black Men & White Women. Leave Black Women out of it! Try making a comment without using the words black women, I dare you!

TO WMSHRRICANEW ; WHITE WOMEN WEAR FAKE HAIR ALSO. I DO HAIR. THEY BE IN SALLY’S BUYING IT ALL DAY LONG CUZZ THERE HAIR IS TO THIN.. I WEAR BRAIDS, MY , OWNHAIR, WEAVES, ANY MANY COLORS, BECAUSE BLACKWOMEN CAN WEAR THERE HAIR MANY WAYS, SOOO!! WEAVES, MY OWN HAIR, BRAIDS, BLACK AN NON BLACKMEN STILL THINK IM SEXY.. ANOTHER THING MAY HAVE YOU PISSED.. BLACKMEN TOLD ME THAT SLEEPS WITH WW. THEY SAY , THEYSMELL LIKE A WET DOG.AN WHEN THEY GET TANED, THEY SKIN SHED LIKE A SNAKE, THEY HAIR SHED ALL OVER THE PLACE, CLOGS UP SINKS, GET IN TO FOOD, I CAN GO ON AN ON. SOO WW THE BM TALKS, ABOUT YOU TO.

WhyDoTheyLeave, damne shame upload some pics of uself till that moment u have no right to even breathe in my direction my lil frobnitz
WhyDoTheyLeave? I bet U are the answer l.o.l.

sophinal40, I NEVER said ww/bw r better than the rest which means Im sure WE (females) are ALL the same we may differ &we do differ 4m each other wich is cool but its NOT like A woman CAN NOT do the things that ANOTHER one is able to do only coz of her skin color.&if some1 is better/worse than another1 its ONLY over her own particular features.
I have respect 4everybody &I even have a lil respect 4those who dont have that self-respect so Ima tell (not going to point out OTHERS obvious defects) u a secret NObody smells “chanelle” if they bad-groomed &ALL PPL I MEAN ALL have their personal SMELL.
when we try to idealize ourselves we look ridiculous not perfect.

Well here is how i feel about this whole topic and i of course is entitled to my opinion. lol I am personally tired of the whole bickering back and forth and this topic won’t ever die until folks leave it alone. I mean there are better things to worry about everyday, why waste 15 mins out of one’s life to even care who dates who. I mean if a bm loves a ww then so be it thats on him as long as they are both happy thats fine by me. I am all for love, black love, mixed love, gay love whatever. Why is it anyone’s business or right to pose or push their views or feelings on one another. I never have a problem with a person who doesn’t beleive in interracial dating just don’t put me down for it or get in my face about it because i don’t get in your face for not being ok with interracial dating. I don’t knock a person for their opinions or how they feel because its their feelings and THEIR opinions and i’m ok with that. Personally, alot of my friends who are black dont interracially date and we are all cool and we have that respect for each other feelings and opinions. I’m not into all the ww stereotypes and i don’t play into bw stereotypes either cause the last time i checked we are all different in our own ways, two black women might not think alike or act alike same with ww. I don’t give these stereotypes the time or day. Also, no one is better than one another regardless of what ones says, or what one has etc.

@why do they leave
i have my children on my page but they aren’t on there to throw up in anyones face etc, i can get a man white or black regardless of my children because of who i am as a woman, not a white woman but a woman period, i don’t define myself as a white woman because folks can see i’m white. I don’t understand that concept of thinking. It’s not necessarily saying a woman is “desperate for a black man” because they have pics of their kids. I mean hello they already had one to make that child. Why can’t a woman be proud of her children regardless the race of the kids, i mean that would be like someone saying the same thing to a black woman for having her black kids on her page? She can be proud just like the rest, kids are kids and they are innocent in all of this! I don’t care what anyone says to me they won’t bring me down. And just because a black man is married to another race of woman doesn’t mean he still can’t offer something to a young black man, hello he is a black man. I find that very sad that you would turn away someone who is willing to help the community because of whom they were married to or dated if i am reading correctly (i do have to scroll down alot). That doesn’t mean a black man hates black women because he does date out of his race. I know folks are probably shaking their heads like what does she know…..but i find that wrong and thats my opinion because all communities and children need help and mentors and it doesn’t matter by who….i mean did you turn away any white folks? Now don’t get me wrong i have met some black men who do down black women and i personally don’t go for that either like they trying to earn brownie points with me, and i do find it offensive in my eyes cause then they could be quick to deny me behind my own back. But anyways, i know your entitled to your opinion and i can’t knock you for that, but i think any help from the community is wonderful and much needed whether its the black community, white community or the community as a whole! For instance here the Big Brothers Big Sisters program lacks black men as a big for the kids. So if a black man comes along who is married or dates out of his race isn’t good enough to be a mentor in your eyes because he is now not black? I don’t get that?

@sophinal40
last time i checked i dont have a puppy dog smell? I know white folks don’t say nice things sometimes but don’t make everyone pay for their actions. Everyone isn’t the same, and also too why stoop to the level of what you said…..it doesn’t make you any better than the next white person downing a black person or them being racist. I mean does it make you feel better…..can you actually say i feel better now that i let it out? just curious because for me to down another person i couldn’t feel good about myself. Cause going on your profile i took it as your despised by black folks, maybe i read it wrong cause i had to hurry and click back.

@butterfly
now what if that man who is black was burned by a black woman? would you date him or wouldn’t it not matter? I know a plenty of black women who have been burned, used and abused by a black man or the man they are dating now treated the prior black woman bad, i mean wrong is wrong no matter what color of the person is. I mean would you of dated him if his ex was a black woman?…and i kind of think yeah you probably would of regardless if you complianed his life isn’t together. I mean to me, regardless that he dated a white woman etc or has a kid by her shouldn’t be your concern, it should be the fact that he doesn’t have his life together or his finances, it’s not her fault last i knew he is in charge of his life. Outside of HIS finances was there anything else wrong except that he dated a white woman? Last time i checked some black men don’t care the race of the woman, they might date black and white and there is nothing wrong with that. Well atleast to me!

It is so obvious we have a lot of people who do not believe in G-d. In numbers 12: 1-15 mariam jumped on moses for marrying an cus**te ( ethiopian or nubian ) woman. Now you cant get any blacker than that. so lets pretend moses is white ( like in the movies 10 commandments). there we have an interracial dating thang. so mariam is all upset then G-d comes down and strikes her down with leprosy and states you spat in the fathers face. so everytime your mind rises up
against interracial relationships then your are rising up against G-d.

I have a black daughter I was married to a black woman who wa a piece of crap. I had a black woman before her who was a wonderful woman. In the future and presently I will be and open to date outside my race. I believe all races of women are excellent as long as they have the qualities I want then it is on like popcorn.

If a white woman is on my arm and she is being good to me then the haters can kiss my butt. yall aint paying my bills , you aint putting food on the table and you aint sleeping with me so you have no say so.

Black women if you are so upset about black men leaving then treat them better because we are gonna go where the cusomer service is great.

We love your smell, your strong arms and back, the shape of your face, the various hues of your velvet Black skin; and, we especially love the fact that you “understand” the endless possibilities that lurk outside the front door.

But, does she?

We feel safe with you; you comfort us. We need you.

Despite your choices, we love you so much that we have stopped hating on you as you pass us by for her.
http://www.ebonyinspired.com/?p=12156

If you ask 100 million men all over the world if they prefer a lighter thinner woman, or a darker women. Majority of them would say the lighter women. People have always felt the media is responsible for making men believe the beautiful women are the model looking type, or lighter women with straight hair. The media put those women on the front line in videos, movies, shows etc. Only because thats what “MOST” men prefer anyway. Men have always felt lighter women were beautiful before the invention of the TV. The media only put forth what all these men desired. So while the demand was for these women, the media provided them. To get high ratings and money. The media’s only job is to give people what they like. Now when you have a massive crowd that demands thinner women, what do you think the media will put out?

My point is this… Now it might be pretty f**ked up, but it’s true. Thinner lighter women tend to be the most attractive women out there. I’m not saying by all men, just “Most” of us. It would be this way even if technology never came into existence. So stop thinking the media is at fault.

Mr_Patches, your comments about most men preferring women that are thinner and of a lighter complexion are ignorant and only demonstrate the self-hate that is contained within you. Surely black men must be more intelligent than you portray them as. Since when did a woman’s complexion or size define her beauty? True Beauty emanates from within. Mr_Patches please take time to educate yourself about your history…black history that is, and then you will have a clear understanding of how the whole light skinned and dark skinned issue began in this country. Why would black men continue to perpetuate this?

williamsmith12390 you and legions of other black men are not leaving black women for white women because they are treating you better or providing better customer service, as you say. Black women have treated black men very well. By in large we’ve supported you, and loved you even when you were failing miserably as men. The strength that black women have is formidable and undeniable, and it is intimidating to most black men. So, if you’re a weak man that cannot withstand being held accountable for his actions then you belong with a white, asian, or hispanic woman.

WMsHURRICANEW, the fact that I don’t have personal pictures posted on my page is irrelevant. After viewing your page, your pictures and page is nothing to boast about. Again, there are tons of interracial dating websites, try one. Blackplanet is not such a site, although many black and white women are trying to turn it into one.

Hellokitty111, you can be proud of your children without posting them in a profile picture. I’m well aware of why white women do this. First of all you’re on a black site, so you hold you biracial child up to indicate that you’ve been with a black man. Why are you on this site? Be honest with yourself. Your children are innocent…if you desire to troll for black men on here, that’s your business, respect your kids. That’s the least you can do.

Hellokitty, I make no apologies for not choosing certain black men to mentor in the program that I chaired and coordinated. What type of example and role model would they have been for these young black boys who came from single parent households? They were not accustomed to seeing a family structure with a black mom and black dad. For them to see and spend time with black families was uplifting and had a profound effect on them.

Whydotheyleave to say my comments make me ignorant only make you ignorant because you didn’t understand what I was saying. I never said a their complexion or size define their beauty. I said “most” men find lighter and thinner women attractive. That’s what I said. I didn’t say anything about black men not being intelligent. So where did you get that from? My comment didn’t say anything about men at all. I said the media puts forth what most men demand, that being “lighter and thinner women”. What does that have anything to do with how I feel about myself? Why would I hate myself for that? Now don’t you sound ignorant? Next time read and understand a comment before you speak on it.

TO MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTAS–HOLD YOUR HEAD UP FOR NO ONE CAN TOPPLE YOU–NO ONE. REMEMBER IT IS YOU WHO POPULATED THIS EARTH.

@whydotheyleave:
How can you say your “well aware why white women do this”? Since when your the expert on white women? Who made you President of White Women? Certainly not me? You don’t know me, and you don’t know how i think and you have it azz backwards in my mind. You can feel how you feel and i can respect that, i don’t have to agree, but you don’t see me telling YOU, as a black woman how YOU feel or what you do BECAUSE i know how black women do things! If any woman is on this site, black, white, latino, asian etc it OBVIOUSLY tells you that they are interested in black men, but Blackplanet isn’t just about dating, there are many other areas to be in, the news, the forums, the groups, this isn’t JUST a dating site and folks don’t have to be on here just for finding a man! I don’t have to be honest with myself about being on here, i’ve been on here for about 10 years now on and off and under different names, i don’t have to explain to you why i am here or what my intentions are. I mean you act like there is a hidden agenda, i want to talk, share ideas etc just as the next person. I’m not any different than the next woman or even you, i just happen to be white, which obviously you have a problem with (which i could careless) Sooooooooooo what about all the black women who have their children on their page? Would you say thats disrespecting their children too? I mean come one it can’t be one sided! What i do with my time on here which isn’t much time is not any of your business. And to be honest there are PLENTY of women on here who don’t have kids. If folks arent into Interracial dating etc i’m cool with that, i don’t knock em for not doing it, i don’t sit outside on the street holding up a sign saying “try interracial dating, its wonderful” If a person finds love outside of their race, thats great for them! But i don’t want to be called every name in the book or put down for it or told to be honest with myself. I am honest with myself and confident in myself to find love and a great man whether he be black or white. And to say i’m trolling on here, lol uh yeah ok, nice choice of words there, but you know i could go there, but i won’t because i don’t need to and thats not my style, your style maybe but coming from a woman who helps mentor children, trolling is a wonderful choice of words! I guess since you chaired and put the program together i can’t really say much except how i feel, to me if your already looking at a broken home these kids came from any input from any black man would be great! But yet thats my opinion, i am not there and i don’t know what specifically you are doing, but any home with whatever race thats solid and has a good foundation is a good thing. I’m all for love and solid foundations in the home whether its black homes, white homes, interracial homes etc. I cant get offended or mad for something your doing to help the youth out there, cause we all know it isn’t easy in this world, i just don’t agree with that one part.

Whoa this is getting out of hand, Whydotheyleave this topic will go on untill I leave this earth BUT why can’t a Mother better yet ANY MOTHER of ANY nationailty BE PROUD and SHOW there children? I don’t care if YOU black, purple, green or BLUE. That is THERE Page and THERE children and THERE BUSINESS.

I am GLAD and HAPPY that ANY mother especially one who RAISES our children IS PROUD and is NOT ASHAMED to have BI RACIAL children! I have my kids on my page too should I NOT show mines??? My grandson is PART Irish should I be ashamed and NOT show him? Pfttt I will SHOW HIM off because I can do that. Come on NOW your taking things a lil bit TOO FAR!

I am happy that we COME in so many shades of brown, tans, light and cocoa complexions. I am African American and am proud BUT I am also proud that MY kids and future offspring can PICK and choose whom they want when THEY want as LONG AS they DO NOT deny there HERITAGE.

I have NO HELL or HEAVEN to put ANYONE in LOVE is LOVE and GOD is LOVE he don’t care what color you are BECAUSE he MADE YOU IN his IMAGE!

I won’t be posting back on this subject because I have to spend time with my kids and sleep so I can go to work BUT My Sista her kids are innocent and what HelloKitty does is HER BUSINESS NOT mines or yours or anyone elses. She has a lovely family and I GAVE her props too!

Be BLESSED!

Thank you Carol for a nice response and i agree this subject won’t ever die and i wish it would because people are spending too much time thinking about it and getting their blood pressure up! I am curious on why it bothers her so much when there are other things to worry about like the kids she is mentoring, to me thats more of an important issue than why i have my children up on my page like the rest of the folks on here! I’m not any different then the next woman or man on here, obviously i’m white and thats a problem for her because if it wasn’t then there wouldn’t be any comments like hers left. Why else say what you say, there is a reason behind it all. I mean judge me on the person i am not the color of my skin or my kids (which should be left out of the whole situation anyways) and i am sure she would feel that vise versa if she was saying that to a white person about them not liking her or dissing her. If she got to know me and hated my personality or how i act then so be it, don’t like me thats a reason there but to say what she says its more of a deeper issue in my opinion. Oh well, enough said!

Hellokitty Girl YOU are welcome anytime, I mean enough is enough. I would be upset if someone attacked my kids too. We have enough to go through in life and YOU are a good mama keep up the good work.I live in a prejudice state BUT I still continue to be me and what people LOVE on the INSIDE is what counts. Once you get past through all that then YOU will find a woman who loves not ONLY MYSELF but those AROUND me too. Be blessed……..

To get to the point and shut all the dumb folks up, it’s like this.

Black boys get rich and date white girls, white girl gets a bi-jit, black boy is stuck with apart of her forever.

White girl gets famous, she gets a white man, keeps it in the family.

Black woman sticks by the black boy through the struggle, blk boys comes up and forget’s who held him down and got him that far.

Point is, white girls do it for the riches, blk boys see it so much on the television by the media and other blk boys with success doing it and don’t know better.

Real women love blk men poor or rich but poor first, You have to go through everything in order to know who is right and real. Blk women will do that but white girls will come in on the success boat and enjoy everything the blk women helped the blk boy earn. Which is sad.

Once again blk women choose blk men who love blk women only and not some curious boy who will wonder off like a stray dog, get curious and not appreciate a sistah. Raise the future young blk men better and don’t let them get caught up in the media and all that white girl bs.

Don’t be the next blk women to struggle with a blk guy and watch a white girl enjoy the money from your hard work.

Be for real!

When blk boys realize the best woman they have and could have is no longer interested and white girls only want the wealth (which they was taught to want), then they will realize what they did was wrong but they have to learn from the mistakes they make, because they are to focused on money.
Why yall think white girls wanna marry a blk guy and have sex so fast? Because then she will always have apart of him, and any money he come’s across.

Thank God those are not my friends because it would be embarrassing.

Blk women don’t even get mad just get smarter, test your dude, know him on the real and save yourself the embarrassment in advance. If a white girl want a blk dude let her prove that she will stick around through the struggle.

Blk boys have to see it on their own.

Another thing is the media or blogs make it seem like white girls are the best thing or whatever, well any female of another race other then the blk race is better. Blk boys who take that route are confused, followers, and or gay etc. Ain’t no real man from the hood/struggle or a real man who appreciates a good blk women steppin out like that.

Check the names: Snoop, Ice-C, Jay, denzel, Nas, DMX,Will etc are all men who dated a blk women through the struggle or beginning and paid her off very well through marriage, commitment, and loyalty. Now that’s appreciation and self love.

Check the lame names: kobe, tiger, lamar, t-pain, russel, many football players (all that get the ball from the back bs, makes you wonder lol), etc plus many more. Got money and got a white girl. lamar was the dumbest though, kobe just as nasty, look what he did and just because he got a white girl his actions are not taken hard but pleasure p shh is the talk of the blog etc. Tiger went on a white girl hunt and put his career on the line and marriage to another wht girl then she beat him and aint got the same charges as chris brown. Yall feel the drift? Russel just nasty and unappreciative of his own ethnicity.

Let’s be for real!

Just another put down on Black females that these dumb Nizzer’s are helping the media report. When I look at them, all their Mother’s are Black. Just a faze that is killing and destroyng them one by one. These white women know how to get the money from these fools. Alot of it is just legalized prostitution. Look what happened to Chris Henry and Steven McNair,just to name a few? How many of these unions last? NOT VERY MANY! The “O’Jay Syndrome” is allive and well.

Any time you hear a black woman complaining about a rich black man being with someone outside of his race that shows you that she’s looking for a quick come up because they are not complaining about the black men thats not wealthy. I’m the product of a black woman but that don’t mean I owe black women anything. You have alot of black fathers out there that are taking care of their families and we still don’t get any appreciation, for example compare Mother’s Day to Father’s Day. The black community has degraded its own men mainly by the black woman, but no body never mention the black women who lust after the black man who suppose to be labled no good. If a black man approach a black woman in a respectful manner they will look at him like he’s weak. Me I love dating women outside my race its a turn on for me. Fellas if you do the math is sounds like black women envy white women because if they didn’t they wouldn’t give a damn if white women are with their men. Black women get a f**k1ng life because your anger at interracial dating will not make that particular black man come to you, in fact I wouldn’t even look at a black woman that speak against interracial dating because it is a bunch of foolish non sense and if I conceived children with her it would rub off on them. Black women if you can embrace a black man being with another man then you damm sure need to embrace a black man thats in a relationship with a woman outside of his race. CHURCH!!!!

@Southern_Swagger82 AMEN AMEN AMEN CHURCH to the 4000th power
I am sick and tired of tired black women’s mess and all the bullsh!t that goes with dealing with them. If I was to guesstimate I’d say that 85% of black women DON’T want a good man, they want a man with a fat paycheck. and the cold part about it is when they get such a man they dont appreciate him, love him and give him the support that every man needs to make it in this world. instead they wanna talk to him like he is dog dirt. I dont know why but they feel the reason to nag, pick fights, suspect him of things he is not guilty of such as cheating or not having her back, nitpicking at every little thing until he cant take it anymore and leaves or in most cases tries to find it in the arms of another woman. IMHO black men dont really wanna cheat, we dont get married to do that, we get married to build a family with a loving wife. strange how the good black man gets treated like he is weak and spineless, cause they know he wont hit her or mentally abuse her but that so-called bad black man get all the women and then sh!ts on them and yet they still wants that. just as Southern_Swagger82 said there is more importance placed on mother’s day than father’s day as if somehow the father dont matter, like it he is some side note in the family. black women always talk that crap about being able to stick thryu the struggle yet they refuse to do the same thing. let a black man loose his job and they are packing their bag the very next day or at the very least she changes how she feels about him, how she respects him, how she treats him and respects him, its clear to see its a money thing. Black women have made black men out to be dogs and they some angels. most black men are good, its black women who are convincing each other and the world that we are not, that we are abusers and bad fathers who refuse to take care of his kids. REAL black women dont give a sh!t weather black men are dating and fukin white women cause they got they black man and treat him well and they both are happy. black women seem to have this wanna fight u at every single turn mentality as if we’re the enemy. if they are man their anger get took out on us. if they are happy they share it with their girlfriend instead of us.
I am sick and tired of black women and their mess and that they expect us to just take it, to just stick around and be sad, unloved and lonely.
Now me personally I want a black woman and nothing else but if it means i have to be miserable i’d rather be completely alone or date another race. we need black women who truely believe in us, who will help us become better men as we help them to become better women. we dont need that ‘you can’t tell me what to do, ur not my daddy’ attitude cause real men dont put up with it, they leave. black women need to look in the mirror and drop this i’m not wrong mentally and step up their game in 2010, we want a good black women just like they want a good black man. they wonder why a lot of black men don’t give a hell no more, its cause we tired of ur mess, ur pettiness and b!tch like way. now I know i’ll get a gang of emails on how i’m dissing the black woman etc etc etc etc but the fact is I love black women, i came from a black woman, the mother of my 2 beautiful is a black woman and its a black woman I wanna grow old with but it dont look like I will, look what we got to pick from. sistas yall need to take ur thumbs out ya ass and get a clue. we need yall, we want to build a nation with yall but we not gonna be treated like sh!t by you. step ya fukin game up. sh!t

@Southern_Swagg82 man that was real talk, I don’t have to say nothing else. You said it all.

I’m sick and tired of some of these sorry ass black men stereotyping all black women because they had negative experiences with a few! Get a grip and grow up! According to some of you black women are loud, ghetto, un supportive of your goals, out of shape, disrespectful and my all time favorite “gold diggers, blah blah blah”lol . How many of you have had decent black women, that had your back through thick and thin, but grew tired of your shyt? How many of these so called unworthy black women have you dogged out , only to turn around and proclaim all black women as worthless? If you want a white woman get one, who cares? Do me favor and quit using the” black woman are this or that” argument to justify why you have run into the arms of a white woman. There are plenty of beautiful, educated, caring, faithful, and supportive black women in the world! You probably pass them by every day.Maybe they don’t have the look that appeals to you, or they aren’t willing to tolerate the disrespect.Some of you are seem to forget that you came from the womb of a black woman, so think before you type! You think a white woman won’t take your black azz to the cleaners as fast as any other race of woman? Think again! Stop stereotyping and using all black women as a scapegoat for your own hangups and insecurities!

I agree with kaikai.

Trying to make lemonade without the lemons I see……jeez, let’s just keep this simple.

There isn’t a secret legion of black men who are losing their minds over white women……..and let’s just be real about Tiger Woods:….The dude says he’s not black….so HE’S NOT BLACK…….and the women he has been cheating with, did not screw him because he’s a “great looking BLACK guy”…….they screwed him because he’s a BILLIONAIRE and stupid!

I know a multitude of black men and women (myself included) who are in loving, respectful and uplifting relationships. We are supportive of each other…….and lead satisfactory lives for the most part. We are not an endangered species. We are alive and well!!!

Please don’t believe the hype……..

THIS IS A FACT THAT CAN NOT BE DENIED THE HISTORY ON BLK MEDIA WHEN IT STARTED

since 1984 long before you ever heard one song ((and you can check this)) dissing a blk woman – blk men have been getting called DOGS((the male version of b***hes)) NO GOOD and everything else under the sun,,started in 1984 with the jenny jones show and later echoed by oprah…and her BMW Black Man working series (((YEAH YOU REMEMBER-OPRAH GOT RAPED BY HER COUSINS AND JUST PROMOTED A HATRED FOR BLK MEN IN THE MEDIA)) Blk woman have been dogging blk men on tv and radio since then ((AND THIS CANT BE DENIED, YOU CANT FIND ANY ANY REFERENCE DOGGING BLK YES I SAID BLK WOMEN YOU CANT FIND IT BEFORE 1984 …..but sistas dont care because black men are b***hes ((ie DOGS)) we where making love rap songs back then I Need love …….Treat em Right……be a father to your child ,,,,and so on ….so lets keep it real blk women in media struck the first blow and I challenge anyone to show research that denies these 1984 facts……JUST LIKE WOMEN FEEL NOW FROM BEING CALLED OUT OF NAME ……HOW DO YOU THINK BLK MEN FELT AS BOYS WHILE YOUR FELLOW SISTAS WERE DOING IT ……iM IN ATLANTA AND I TELL YOU THE SISTAS OUT HERE MAJORITY NOT ALL HAVE NO CLUE….THESE WHITE WOMEN ARE GIVING THESE BLK GUYS A SIMPLE PEACE OF MIND AND IF YOU ASK A BLK WOMAN IN A GREAT BLK RELATIONSHIP SHE WILL TELL YOU THE SAME THING ……i GIVE HIM PEACE AND STROKE HIS EGO ITS NOT HARD TO FIND OR KEEP A BLK MAN …..GUESS I HAVE TO RIGHT A BOOK ON THIS I SEE

White women giving brother s peace of mind? Now thats hilarious! A brother thats not checking for a sista , wont be interested period.No matter how many decent black women there are, there will always exist a segment of black men who will prefer white women, and attempt to blame “angry black women ” for that! You like what you like ok. I have met some black men who were simply azzholes, but I didn’t stereotype “all black men” by saying that “all black men are dogs, and I will quickly check a sista family included who tries to state such”! It’s not true.There are good men and there are some no good men.A human beings ability to treat you right has nothing to do with the color of the skin or the ethnic makeup. Its unfortunate that a few bad apples have spoiled the entire bunch for some of you, but be cautious not to generalize. It’s unfair to the decent black women in the world. Stop making excuses for some of these black male celebrities who date exclusively white! They do so because that is their preference. Notice the pattern with some of them!When have you ever seen Russell with a black woman who didn’t appear to be mixed with something other than black! lol Yeah thats what I thought. I say date who you like ,just don’t lie about why your doing it, or attempt to generalize all black women based on a few experiences that you might have had.I am not opposed to interracial dating, even if it’s not something that I am paroicularly interested in right now. I think that it is possible to meet someone and fall in love with the person that they are (without regard to race). I just hate when people attempt to label and make assuptions about me, because they happened to have a bad experience with a black woman that they dated in the past!

oh dear Lord is all i gotta say….who cares who dates white or black…seriously. i’m married to a wonderful blk man and raise children w this man. his mom my mom our WHOLE family have no issues w it. yea i can see how blk women wanna get mad, but really shake it off. move on, cuz for every ONE blk man datin a white woman, ther 10 more lookin for a strong blk woman to grow old with. For real! Oh and just so you know not all white woman get w blk men for attention or money. My hubs was flat broke when we met, i took him out our first few dates, and i been w him 5 yrs and three tours in Iraq, and numerious retarted fights, two departed family members, a home financial drought, and other hard times….I’m still standing by him thru it all. so not all white women are like that. we are all of good women out there, and we are ready for that man who is strong enought to love us no matter what, regardless of race. LOVE IS COLOR BLIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I stand by that til the day i die!

Damn…I see so much pain on this subject….Black women are upset about what has been said about them and so are the brothers. I wish everybody would take the time to read what is being said here with a desire to achieve healing and understanding as opposed to ripping each other to shreds. Years ago I used to play hard rock and roll as a result of this I was subjected to a lot of the “you act like a white boy” mentality. You have no idea how much this used to piss me off. I also found myslef in a few relationships where my kindness, diction, world view and education were misinterpreted as weakness. So I dated my share of white women.

But I can remember more that just a few occasions of being at a party where there would be absolutely gorgeous black women who had no problem in letting me know that they were there for the white guys. And to keep on steppin. We always hear talk about blakc men with $$$ who marry white women. True there are a percentage which do. But if you think about it there is also a very long list of black women with $$$ who are with white men. But to compare you and me with them is ridiculous. They live in a differnt world. Most of the real world black men I see are with black women. Statistics say that most black men are with black women which suggests to me that despite eveything that has happened and is still happening to us, we are still down for each other. We just need to talk and if we must fight, fight fair. We need to understand the forces which are working to keep us apart, because if we ever figure this out and raise a generation of black people as opposed to n****rs/niggas (however its being spelled these days) we can turn this thing around.

Sistahs! A lot of men have expressed there fellings that black women want to thug with a heart of gold. Ya’ll need to think about this. All these men aren’t lying. There must be some truth here and ya’ll need to address it. I’ve dated enough white women to know that they fight, nag, berate, play mind games just like sistahs do. And I’ve known enough white men to know that they lie, cheat, abuse just like brothas do. Do you really think that Gloria Allred and NOW got the Deadbeat Dad Law passed so that Shanika could get $200.00 per month from Tyrone? Do you think that the first battered shelter homes were for you? Since when did a black woman have something good in this country before a white woman?

We’ve got to get past the pain and the scrappin long enough to look each other in the eye and say. “I love you. I came over here with you…And you belong to me now just as much as you belonged to me then. I need you now just as much as I needed you then”…We need to read more, think more, talk more and screw less. Pray together. Read together. Go to lectures. Write letters instead of this BS texting. We need to fall in love with each other again. So long as we’re divided we’re easy prey for the forces which profit from keeping us apart. Personally, I wouldn’t date outside of my people. I stopped that years ago. But if that’s what someone chooses to do then that’s their business. There are more than enough conscious brothers around to do what we need to do to turn this thing around. Stop lookin at Kobe, Tiger, Lamarr, Russell etc. They’re no more important than Kerry Washington, Whoopie, Paula Patton, Chaka, Minnie, Lena Horne, Dorothy, Pearl, Barbara Macnair, Leslie Uggams, Dianne Carroll, Nichele Nichols, Shari Belafonte, Rutina Wesley, Diana Ross, Alfre Woodard, Tina Turner, Donna Summers, Robin Givens etc.

We have more than enough to do what we need to do.

funny how black women get mad cause another(race) woman wants to come in and love the black man when they ass refuse to. strange huh? if sistas step their game up and treat black men right they would NEVER have to worry about any other race coming in and taking their men.

Interesting first, we don’t know how to love, second we aren’t freaky enough. Wow! To each it’s own.

And oh, well said greywolf, I just navigate through the bull because ultimately, there is someone for everyone.

I say everyone stop dating within their own race… and eventually we’ll have one mega race and then their will be different reasons for us to discriminate against each other :D

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All of the black women who want to race bait because black men love to date white women and women of other races, kill the noise. When black women cannot get the black man because of her attitude, she resorts to playing the race card, but the race card is losing its effectiveness.

Trisha 369 and crammasters are the biggest race baiters. WhyDoTheyLeave is another racist millitant who think playing the race card will work to any effectiveness. If you guys cannot stand the thought of a black man dating let alone marrying a white, asian, hispanic or a middle eastern woman, then leave, cause you race baiters are not welcome. This is not 1930, it’s 2010 dumb asses.

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@Imizcool damn son you went threw 25 pages to get to just 1 of my comments and over look all the ones who spoke some-what the same thing? HB didn’t post 1 of my comments to you and I don’t know why but,let me just say this your the dumba$$ and an ignorant one at that-I didn’t say I had a problem with white women dating black men. My problem is the ones who look down on black women and outline us as nododys as if the white woman or other race of women are so much better. If that was the case they wouldn’t cheat on they a$$ either as you can see Tiger,OJ,Koby,Lamar,etc and why is it a reason why you date outside your race instead of your inlove with someone who is of a differnt race than yours? Stop using these lame as reason that black women have an attitude,didn’t step up her game,don’t want a poor man,don’t support a brother,don’t understand nor comfort him,etc. When really its the other way around-SOME black men don’t know a good thing when its standing in his face-all his see is a reason to leave or want to leave. Wanting to be like Mike and have his cake and eat it too. So the next time you want to hop on that bandwagon of asuming a$$es-please read my comments real good and then respond because its people like you who are not welcome the half a$$ and asuming readers-who grab the cow by the a$$ and run with it before they realize its a bull. Just know I don’t give a rats a$$ who date who as long as you respect the fact that NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE THE SAME. I see its people like you who give the jail,prison,and cops a job. Attitude is within us all and not just our skin color you dumb ignorant a$$ fool. SLMAOAU! :)

Black men who love white women, want to marry white women, or want to just date them have mental and self hate issues….bottom line. God made the races to procreate amongst each other thus keeping nations unified. If everyone dipped into other races…everyone would look the same…No black race, white race, red race, brown race etc….just a plain race of people that would have everyone wondering what the hell is he or she mixed up with….everyone would be a group of MUTTS.

Personally, women are women. They’re mostly all programmed the same so I don’t feel you have to be stuck with 1 type (race, religion, whatever). On the other hand, I don’t believe many others, outside of black and latino, who can deal with me. I want to be myself, I want to be understood fully, and barely have any black or latinas who ‘get it’, so the next group probably will NEVER understand me. For that reason alone, I stay away from the other groups, but not for race issues. This is about ME not some stupid racial features. P***y is universal, headaches are universal, but if you can’t speak to the person I am, I don’t need you, whatever color you are.
Now, the beef I have is all these black chicks trying to be a copy of white women, in an attempt to show the world she is “successful” or “independent”! I hate them! Do your faking of European features, voice training to sound all nasally and nonthreatening, whatever you to do to appear more “white”, in your mind… but If it’s all like that, why would a brother want you? He’d do better getting the real thing, a REAL white woman. Be yourself and no other groups stand a chance against you black women!

I have nothing aganist white boys but can’t nobody ever replace a chocolate man’s essence. The way he walks, the way he talks, his inner strength. No white boy can ever come close to that. I just want and am more comfortable. Sorry white boys.

Let’s stop people. It is understood that it has only been 60 years since black men were killed for even looking at a white woman. Emmett Louis Till was killed in 1955, at the age of 14, for whistling at a white woman. In some states interacial relationships are still being looked down upon. Black folks need a healing to begin with……we need to be freed from the Willie Lynch Syndrome: “good hair vs bad hair”, “light skin vs dark skin”. What’s sad is that I have actually heard men and woman of color say they want to have a biracial baby so that it would have “good hair”. Sad. These fools, yes fools, don’t realize that there is a chance that their child will have kinky hair too. I say, love you first and whoever is meant for you is meant for you.
Sistahs, stay up and know that a man does not validate who you are. If a brotha wants to be with a woman of another race so be it. It’s his world. Brothas, understand that some sistas are taught to be strong mindedand have gone through some bad relationships. If she has too much baggage you need to let her go anyway, let her grow. Not to give an excuse, but it is true, men and women alike of all nationalities tend to put people in catagories hence the term “act white or black”. What is that? So, only white people can be educated and talk this bastard language called English. Only white people can invest in stocks and own major corporations and send their children to college without taking on 2 or 3 jobs. We need to grow people. I have dated men of almost every race and they were all the same, but the man I have now loves me and makes me feel so good. :) I am forever glowing. I told him in the beginning “I have some growing to do and we can grow together or you can let me go” that was two years ago and we are planning to marry soon

Oh well.

I NEVER LOOK AT COLOR THE WAY I SEE IT GOD PUT US ALL HERE TO LOVE ONE OTHER NOT HATE EACH OTHER AND YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH WHO HE BRINGS TO YOU NO MATTER UPON COLOR IF YOU LOVE SOME ONE YOU LOVE THEM FOR WHO THERE ARE NOT WHAT THEY ARE SO PEOPLE GET OVER THIS IT’S 2010 ENJOY LIFE THERE BIGGER ISSUES OUT THERE TO BE UPSET ABOUT AND THIS IS NOT ONE OF THEM

White folk are not on trial here (thank god for that). Black people psychology is…what are we unconsciously doing to ourselves??? Is the big question!!
We can’t blame the world now.
Leaving in a melting pot means relentless competition for every little resource with other human race. The brightest group will automatically stand together to self-protect and protect what is theirs.
Black people frequently throw away all cautions and disband in the name of an illusory post racial society. As a result the national statistics always find us at the bottom with more unemployment, more financial setback, and the list just go on and on. We are now shamelessly and aggressively planning to melt into other race of people as a last option. In fact it is beginning to look like a marathon of misogyny
Encouraging our offspring to reject black identity as if the world around was also willing to remain blind to their blackness. We are now raising a weak generation of black men and women living in fear of been mistaken for black. How can they defend themselves if ever mistaken for black by racist thugs?
As soon as blackness denotes insult to these broods, it entitled the whole human race to use it against them. The cruel world is all set to subdue them by breaking their minds and spirits with it. Something they sadly deserve
Is that our last resolution?
NO GOVERNMENT CAN SOLVE SUCH A DELIBERATE ACT OF SELF ANNIHILATION BUT THE PERPETRATOR.

LOL!!! I thought Dr. Dre wife was mixed?!!

LMAO!!! I always knew Wayne Brady had a white women for a wife!!!

Wow, what an issue here. I am black, African grew up in my country and studied in europe. Lived there for more than 15 years and still living there. My mom eventually is an American. In pursue to bring us over all her children are granted immigrant status awaiting interview dates. But I cant get a visitying visa to visit USA. And now this issue. I think it hurts to see that African american women get upset seeing a black man going out with white. It is the bitterness of the past history but still people are blowing things out of proportion. I see it as a sign of unbalanced mind. It is my opinion. I could be wrong. You choose partner according to feeling you hold towards that person. I dont give a damn whether she is chinese or whatever. On the other hand this attitude with african american girls is so disappointing and even unattractive, which puts them low on the ladder

the culprit here is self-hatred…period. these black people are trying their damndest to dilute our race and they’re doing a damn good job…with black on black crime, deadly STD’s and white women, we’ll be facing genocide rather quickly..ah well…the monster of ingorance is much bigger than preserving our race apparently…maybe it’s for the best

Why is everyone still stck on race. How come no one says anything if a black man dates a latin woman or asian woman, but if they date a white woman its a huge problem. Why can’t people just accept the fact some people are just happier with a different race. I have been dateing black men sense I was 16 and I am now 26, you better believe that I have been called every name in the book, gotten bad looks, have lost friends and family members because of it. I know what makes me happy and if no one else likes it then that is there problem. People need to realize this is 2010 and need to move on and stop liveing in the past.

Soooo, I had to post a comment on this. I’ve only read some of this and I couldn’t read anymore. The stuff I seen and the things I hear are crazy. I am a white lady (I say lady because I’m 18)and I have always been attracted to black men. I can blame the area I grew up in for that but, everyone kinda stuck to their own race in the area when I was growing up so I’m not going to use that. I can’t explain exactly why I’m attracted to black men. My first boyfriend was black, my first friend period was a black man, I lost my virginity to a black man and I just love a black man : ) I’ve had bad experiences but everyone does in relationships. That doesn’t change my mind about anything. Things go wrong, o well, get over it. I don’t hate white men or any other race, I’m just attracted to black men. I’ve actually tried dating someone of my own race and I didn’t like it. It’s not the same as dating a black man. The black man that I’m with makes me feel like I’m Gods gift to earth and what I mean by that is I feel I’m the best thing ever. He’s crazy about me, lucky to have me and loves me more than anything. I know I’m not Gods gift to earth, no one is but, any man that makes me feel like that and loves me truly has my heart. The point I’m trying to make is I’m a white woman attracted to black men. People are going to like what they like, do what they want and so on, no matter what someone thinks. What happened to ” be with whoever makes you happy” ??? I’ve also heard black woman say white woman were taking “their men”. I honestly think that’s why a lot of black woman don’t like me. It’s nothing like that. people are going to like what they like. Sorry that some of ya’ll black woman don’t want to try dating another race and think it’s wrong or whatever. but, whether you like it or not, it’s gonna be how it is and always will be. so suck it up people! : ) lmao

Im a sixty year old blackman and i,ve dated a bit in my time, my experience with white women has been good i,m not with one now but i can truly say that the attraction i,ve had with every one of my dates was one to remember. even the foreplay was different and exciting, wondering what would happen next . i,m not putting my sisters down but they acted like they wanted me for me. the touch, her smell,excited me and i have not forgotten that, once you experience this it,s hard to return to where you came from. i,m not selling out just telling you how it is.

Hmmm…I mean really, Who Cares what race you date? Men and women are dogging each other out all over, white, black, brown, yellow…so if you find someone who really treats you well, doesnt lie and use or abuse you…Hold on to that person like gold, because no matter what color, they are a Keeper! This racial s**t is old, stupid, ignorant and BORING!!! You should be ashamed of pandering to the most ignorant in an effort to keep your ad revenues up, HB…more disgraceful ignorance. Show me a man or woman who is a keeper these days, cause I am praying for my sons and daughters when they have to find a mate…Men and woman of all colors are behaving like disgrceful, sex-addicted, selfish,self-centered animals and geranimals…and you want to debate color? I say, find a good mate in whatever race you can…Life is far too short to worry about what anybody else thinks about it…F**k ‘em!

What I don’t get is why when a Black woman dates a White guy, nobody says anything, but soon as a Black guy dates a White girl its a ISSUE, its a WTF? Really WTF? Who even cares

imma do me!!!!!

I’ll try to be succint and to the point in my commentary. It is hard enough to find someone of any race without a ton of baggage and with whom you can be happy with let alone being concerned with whether or not your choice was based on some alleged hatred of yourself or lack of self esteem. The heart wants what it wants and you can no more actively choose who you fall in love with than you can choose whether or not it rains tomorrow or the sun shines.

Shouldn’t the question BE a tad more objective vs. subjective?

Why NOT ask,

“Why are Black Men Dating/Marrying outside the Race MORE than Black Women?”

As an example, where POOR Wesley’s going for a few years (unjustly, if you ask me); he’ll need that Stereotypical (Docile) Loyalty known to exist in the Asian Community from the females:):), which he seems to have a preference for? But then again, he used to date Halle, didn’t he?

Brothas could be just trying to fufill MLKs Dream of Blacks and Whites living together in harmony.

Except we’re taking it up a notch? or TWO???

Why do black men date white women??? Really?? Why not?? Everyone wants to date white women… That’s a stupid question… everyone wants to date latin women too (hot ones, not fat ones), but not many people are busting down doors to date tha “sista’s” can “they be biiaatches”. The question is why do black women want to date white men?? Cause black men beez broke azzes!!! I don’t really understand why people are still asking question like this… Why do I give a crap if a black man takes all these fat azz white women off our hands…really!! Take em all!!! We pree-chate-cha fo shizzel, oh and I also fogot “off da hizzee”!!!! Freaking BRUUS!!! Get a job or better yet, go back to work and get off the McDonald’s computer and get my damn fries…..oh and quit puttin so much damn salt on the damn things too!!!! ;-)

It’s all about who you’re in LOVE with, not all that superficial s**t or who is bad , who is good how dark/light they are…I’m for the Black women, but cannot wait forever if they don’t want me because of ME, or I have the yuppy bucks or look like Denzil or some other superficial crap……..

anyhow, who want to be with someone who doesn’t LOVE them at ANY color? Not meeee……

hey ladees and gents!!!
i will say one thing about this subject…
its got us communicatng ha ha

I knew at a very young age(11-12), I liked dark skin, eyes and hair—(Spanish, Italian, African). I have always had snide comments and the roll of the eyes/neck, from black women(not all, but a few). I have always shrugged it off, by thinking–nobody is going to threaten or bully me to think something differently than what I naturally feel or desire. Also, I wouldn’t be interested in a guy, that would like such a woman, with such a nasty/sheltered attitude. I am no threat to that. I am not even in the same league. I prefer the more geeky, preppy, well- traveled, grew up with both parents, type man. I have my own things, gainfully employed, well-traveled and want a man, to do things with. I don’t want to be taken care of. Nor do I want to take care of a man. It’s about each person having their own lives and meeting in the middle and just enjoying each others company. If I’m unable to gain positive things/changes from a man and vice versa–it just isn’t worth the time or effort. Instead of giving the ’tisk, tisk’ to interracial dating, give the ’tisk, tisk’ to yourself, for not understanding the meaning of a loving, positive relationship and that it takes two whole people to make a whole relationship. The few bitter black women I have come across, seem to think that by announcing they’re strong and by running off at the mouth, makes it so. What it really says—I let my guard down, trusted a man, got hurt and now I’m giving the next guy hell for it. If a guy takes a little from you and jets..consider it an investment in your future and a guarantee he stays gone. That’s where strength lies. Know better, still be happy and keep moving towards the man destined for you.

WHENEVER A NEW INFECTIOUS VIRUS OR DISEASE COMES OUT THE VERY FIRST RACE OF PEOPLE GETS IT ARE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE OR THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE AND THEN THEY WILL ALWAYS FIND WAYS TO PASS IT TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

YOU BLACK MEN WILL HOOK UP WITH THOSE IGNORANT FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN AND START HAVING THAT DISGUSTING SEX WITH EACH OTHER AND THEN THE NASTY DOG WILL WOUND UP GETTING PREGNANT WITH THIS BABY THAT YOU PEOPLE DON’T KNOW WHAT TO CALL IT UNTIL THE SCIENTIST DECIDED TO FIND A NAME FOR IT BECAUSE IT WAS SOMETHING NOT EVER OF THIS WORLD IN THE FIRST PLACE….THOSE BABIES/PEOPLE ARE OF ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” MEANING DIRTY.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN ARE NASTY AND UNHEALTHY AND THAT IS WHY THEY WILL GIVE THEIR BODY TO ANYONE BUT,IT IS ONLY YOU BACKWARDS THINKING BLACK MEN THAT WILL FALL FOR THAT CRAP.

YOU BLACK MEN DON’T THINK CORRECTLY WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO TRYING TO GET SOME SEX BECAUSE YALL ARE THE ONLY RACE OF MEN THAT ARE KNOWN TO SLEEP WITH ANY KIND OF WH@RES….BLACK,WHITE,MIXED AND FOREIGN

THE BLACK MAN DIDN’T DECIDE TO DATE OUTSIDE OF HIS OWN RACE OF BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE THE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN WAS BETTER THEN THE BLACK WOMAN IT WAS BECAUSE HIS NONTHINKING BLACK BEHIND HAD GOTTEN THE CHANCE TO GET SOME DIFFERENT KIND OF SEX THAT HE DIDN’T KNOW WAS FILTHY AND INFECTIOUS AND THAT IT COULD KILL HIM.

THOSE BLACK WOMEN CAN CONDUCT THEMSELVES MUCH BETTER WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO HAVING SEX WITH A MAN THEN THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FILTHY FOREIGN WOMEN CAN.

THIS IS TO YOU THINK THAT HAVING SEX WITH EVERY NASTY FEMALE IS SAFE BLACK MEN….YALL BETTER WATCH YALLS PRIVATE PART BEFORE IT FALL OFF AND YALL CAN’T FIND IT ANYWHERE.

YOU WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN WH@RES ARE THE FILTHIEST DOGS THAT WALK THE FACE OF THIS PLANET EARTH AND THAT IS WHY YALL BE GIVING YALLS FLEA BITTEN STINKY MANGE DOG SMELLING INFECTIOUS SEX TO THESE DON’T KNOW ANY BETTER BLACK MEN.

YOU BACKWARDS THINKING BLACK MEN AUGHT TO BE SO ASHAME OF YOURSELVES FOR BEING THE ONLY RACE OF MEN THAT ARE WILLING TO GET SICK OR RATHER DIE OVER A GOT DARN PIECE OF AZZ….YOU BLACK MEN ACT AS IF YALL ARE GOING TO DIE IF YALL DON’T GET ANY SEX.

YOU BLACK MEN NEED TO START TRYING TO THINK WITH YALLS BRAIN AND NOT YALLS PEN!S BECAUSE YALL ARE REALLY MAKING YOURSELVES LOOK VERY BAD WHEN IT COMES TO SEX BECAUSE HAVING SEX CAN MAKE YOU SICK OR EITHER KILL YOU….SEX IS A DISEASE

SO,WHICH OF THOSE FILTHY WH@RES ARE YOU BLACK MEN PLANNING ON SLEEPING? THE WHITE ONES,THE BLACK ONES,THE MIXED ONES OR THE FOREIGN ONES? THOSE WHITE MEN AND THOSE FOREIGN MEN HAVE GIVEN YOU BLACK MEN ALL OF THE FILTHY WH@RES THAT YALL WANT BECAUSE THEY SAID THAT IT IS THE ONLY THING THAT YALL ARE WORTH ANYWAY.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE WILL TRICK YOU BLACK PEOPLE IN THE BED WITH THEM BY TELLING YALL THAT IF YALL DON’T DO IT THEN THAT MEANS THAT YALL ARE RACIST.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT RACIST BECAUSE YALL ARE NOT STUPID ENOUGH TO BE RACIST.IF YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING OUTSIDE OF YALLS OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE THEN YALL DON’T HAVE TO BECAUSE IT IS A HEALTH MATTER.

I TRULY CAN NOT STAND ANY OF YOU IGNORANT BACKWARDS THINKING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING THINK THAT THEY KNOW EVERY GOT DARN THING WHEN THEY DON’T AND WISHING THAT THEY WERE THESE BLACK WOMEN AND WISHING THAT THE BLACK MEN WILL PAY WAY MORE ATTENTION TO THEM OR RATHER WILL RESPECT THEM WAY MORE THEN THEY WOULD DO THEIR OWN BLACK WOMEN WHEN THEIR OWN WHITE MEN DON’T GIVE A GOT DARN ABOUT YALLS OWN BLACK WOMEN GOT DARN FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING FLEA BITTEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING WHITE WOMEN WH@RES….YOU IGNORANT DON’T KNOW NOTHING SIMPLE MINDED BACKWARDS THINKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN NASTY WH@RES ARE TRULY SOME TROUBLE MAKERS TO THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE AND THE DRAMA DUMMIES TO THESE BLACK MEN….YOU IGNORANT GOLD DIGGING AND GRAVE DIGGING BUNCH OF FILTHY HUSSIES.

I AM NOT YOU BLACK MANS AVERAGE BLACK WOMAN BECAUSE I AM NOT DUMB OR STUPID LIKE THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE.

YOU WHITE WOMEN ARE VERY IGNORANT AND YALL TRULY DON’T KNOW A LACK OF CRAP BECAUSE YALL ARE TRULY THE IGNORANT ONES BUT,IT HAD TO TAKE ME AS A BLACK WOMAN TO PROVE IT TO THE WHOLE WIDE SLEEPING WORLD THAT IT IS TRUE….SERIOUSLY THOUGH,HOW DO YALL FEEL TO HAVE BEEN BUSTED THE HELL OUT LIKE THAT BY A “BLACK WOMAN”?

SEEMS AS THOUGH EVERYONE WANTS TO TELL THOSE BLACK MEN WHAT THEY SHOULD DO OR WHAT THEY SHOULD NOT DO…. OR QUESTION EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT THEIR CHOICES IN LIFE…WHAT THEY SHOULD OR SHOULD NOT DO WITH THEIR MONEY….MEANING THAT (those dummies want to take control of the black man mind).

THE REASON FOR ANY BLACK MEN DATING OUTSIDE OF HIS RACE OF BLACK WOMEN IS BECAUSE THEY ARE CONFUSED ON WHERE THEY TRULY BELONG….THOSE BLACK MEN FEEL AS IF THEY DATE THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN THAT THEIR LIVES WILL BE MUCH BETTER FOR THEM AND THEY ARE ALSO TRYING TO GET BETTER ATTENTION FROM THOSE NOBODY WHITE PEOPLE AS IF THEY ARE THE MUCH BETTER ACTING BLACK MEN.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND LYME DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WOMEN ARE NOBODIES AND THEY ALSO HAVE YOU BLACK MEN BELIEVING THAT THEY ARE NOT GOLD DIGGERS LIKE THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE BUT,THAT IS A LIE BECAUSE AS SOON AS ANY OF THOSE FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN NOTICE THAT YOU BLACK MEN HAS COME INTO SOME MONEY THEY WILL TRY TO STAND IN LINE TO GET WITH YOU BLACK MEN BEFORE YALLS OWN BLACK WOMEN CAN TRY AND GET WITH YALL….THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE NOT ONLY SOME GOLD DIGGERS TO YOU BLACK MEN THEY ARE ALSO YALLS GRAVE DIGGERS TO….I TRULY DISLIKE THOSE OTHER RACE OF FILTHY WOMEN SO,THEREFORE THEY BETTER STAY THE HELL OUT OF MY WAY OR RATHER MY FACE AND THEY BETTER KEEP THEIR FLEA BITTEN FILTHY BEHINDS AWAY FROM MY SONS TO.

YOU BACKWARDS THINKING BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY RACE OF MEN THAT WILL STICK YALLS PRIVATE PART IN ANY DUMB TRIFLING WH@RE….WHITE,BLACK,MIXED AND FOREIGN.

How Do You Make an Interracial Marriage Work? (Jungle Fever Fixes)

ONE OF THE WORSE THINGS THAT YOU BLACK WOMEN CAN DO IS SLEEP AROUND WITH A IGNORANT BACKWARDS THINKING SHIFTLESS BLACK MAN THAT LIKES TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN WH@RES.

(answer) YOU DON’T!

THOSE INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES ARE THE MOST FILTHIEST AND THE MOST UN-HEALTHIEST RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES THAT WAS EVER THOUGHT OF WHEN IT CAME DOWN TO YOU IGNORANT PEOPLE THAT BELIEVE IN IT BECAUSE THOSE RELATIONSHIPS ARE WHAT I WILL CALL DOGGISH STYLE BECAUSE THAT IS HOW THE DOGS WILL DO IT….THOSE MALE DOGS WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH ANY KIND OF FEMALE DOG JUST AS LONG AS THE DOG CAN GET SOME SEX AND THAT IS THE WAY THAT YOU BLACK MEN ARE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THOSE OTHER RACE OF FLEA BITTEN WH@RES….WHITE,MIXED AND FOREIGN THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN WILL GIVE THEIR INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING SEX TO ANYONE JUST LIKE THOSE FEMALE ANIMALS/DOGS WILL.THEY WILL GIVE IT AWAY BECAUSE IT AIN’T NO GOOD.

WHICH RACE OF MEN ARE ALWAYS HOLLERING OUT ABOUT THE SPREAD OF HIV/AIDS WAY MORE THEN THOSE OTHER RACE OF MEN ARE? THE INCIDENT WITH MAGIC JOHNSON SHOULD HAVE WOKE YOU BLACK MEN UP BECAUSE THEY HAD IT ALL OVER THOSE NEWS CHANNELS….I THOUGHT I HEARD YOU BLACK MEN AND YOU BLACK WOMEN SAY THAT YALL WERE EDUCATED? I THOUGHT I HEARD THOSE WHITE MEN AND THOSE WHITE WOMEN SAY THAT THEY WERE INTELLIGENT? WHAT ARE YALL EDUCATED IN OR WHAT MAKES YALL INTELLIGENT? IS IT HOW TO CONTINUE TO CATCH THE HIV/AIDS VIRUS CONTINUOUSLY BY STEADY MESSING AROUND WITH THOSE OTHER RACE OF FILTHY WOMEN THAT CARRY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES FROM YOU BLACK PEOPLE OR RATHER HOW TO PASS THAT CRAP AROUND TO THOSE BLACK PEOPLE AND DON’T THINK ANYTHING ABOUT IT LATER?

IF YOU IGNORANT FILTHY BACKWARDS THINKING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING BLACK WOMEN JUST CAN’T SEEM TO GET ALONG WITH THAT BLACK MAN IN A RELATIONSHIP THEN GET THE HELL OUT OF IT AND JUST FIND ANOTHER BLACK MAN THAT YALL CAN GET ALONG WITH BECAUSE I WILL NOT EVER BE SIDING WITH ANY OF YOU WHEN IT COMES TO THESE N!GGAS/BLACK MEN.

YOU BLACK MEN CAN’T TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THOSE PROSTITUTES OR THOSE HOES BECAUSE THEY BOTH WANT YALLS MONEY.

THE RACIST WHITE MAN IS NOT GOING TO GIVE YOU BLACK MEN THE ANSWER THAT YALL NEED IN LIFE SO,TO TRY AND CLEAN THINGS UP BECAUSE THEY DO NOT HAVE THE ANSWER TO YOU BLACK MEN TRIALS,TRIBULATIONS AND STRUGGLES IN LIFE.

THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE TROUBLE MAKERS TO YOU BLACK MEN JUST AS WELL AS THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE SO,THE BEST THING FOR YOU BLACK MEN TO DO IS GET YALL ONE WOMAN AND MAKE SURE THAT SHE IS A BLACK WOMAN AND JUST PUT THE REST OF THOSE IGNORANT TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING LYING FILTHY HUSSIES OVER THERE BY THOSE GARBAGE DUMPSTERS AND LET THE GARBAGE TRUCK COME AND PICK THEM UP.

THE WHITE MAN GAVE YOU BLACK MEN A WEBSITE FULL OF BACKWARDS THINKING TROUBLE MAKING SIMPLE MINDED INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING FILTHY HOES BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT ARE CONSIDERED AS THE BOOTY AND SEX MEN WHICH ARE THE MEN THAT DOESN’T LOOK TOWARDS A FUTURE OF PEACE,HEALTH AND HAPPINESS WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN JUST AS LONG AS YALLS NONTHINKING BEHINDS CAN GET SOME OF ANY KIND OF SEX….BLACK,WHITE,MIXED AND FOREIGN….THE WHITE MAN KNOWS THAT YOU BLACK MEN DON’T HAVE A FUTURE AHEAD OF YALL SO HE HAS GIVEN YALL MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE BOOTIES TO PLAY AROUND WITH WHILE THEM AS WHITE MEN BUILD AROUND THEMSELVES FOR THEIR FUTURE.

DID THE WHITE MAN PUT A GUN TO YOU BLACK MEN HEAD AND TELL YALLS BACKWARDS THINKING BEHINDS TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN? OR DID YALL JUST SAY TO YOURSELVES NOW WE CAN GET ALL OF THE SEX THAT WE CAN GET SINCE THE WHITE WOMEN AND THE FOREIGN WOMEN WANT TO GIVE IT TO US….WHEN THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE CATCH SOMETHING THEY WILL PASS IT TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE AND WHEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE CATCH WHAT THEY PASSED TO YALL THEN YALL WILL PASS IT TO EACH OTHER WHICH WILL LATER WOUND UP IN YALLS BLACK COMMUNITIES.

THEY ARE ALL DIFFERENT RACE OF BIRDS,BUT THEY DON’T SLEEP AROUND OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF BIRDS LIKE THOSE DIFFERENT LOOKING CATS AND THOSE DIFFERENT LOOKING DOGS WILL DO….A WHOLE LOT OF PEOPLE KEEP THEIR DOGS ON A LEACH SO THAT THEY WON’T WOUND UP MATING WITH ANOTHER RACE OF DOG LIKE YOU PEOPLE OF DIFFERENT HUMAN RACES WOULD DO….STOP MATING OR RATHER HAVING UNSAFE CLEAN SEX LIKE THOSE FILTHY FLEA AND TICK MANGE BITTEN HUMAN FEMALE DOGS OF OTHER RACES.

THE BIRDS WITH THE SAME FEATHERS ONLY SUPPOSE TO FLOCK TOGETHER.

WHITE PEOPLE
BLACK PEOPLE
FOREIGN PEOPLE

ARE OF DIFFERENT FEATHERS OR RATHER RACES.

TO GET SOME SEX IS TO TAKE A CHANCE ON YALLS HEALTH OR YALLS LIFE “SO WAKE THE HELL UP.

YOU FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE ROTTED (deteriorated) IN THE INSIDE SO,THEREFORE YALL ARE UNHEALTHY AND UNSAFE FOR THESE BLACK MEN TO BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH YALL BUT,YALLS NASTY BEHINDS BE GIVING THEM THAT NO GOOD ROTTED OUT SEX OF YALLS ANYWAY AND YOU NONTHINKING BACKWARDS THINKING BLACK MEN BE ACCEPTING IT LIKE YALL HAVE NOT EVER HAD ANY SEX BEFORE.

As a black lesbian about to enter into a relationship with a white woman, i must say black me I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND.

This trend has been around for years for black men…BEING CURIOUS ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH WHITE WOMEN…. Back in the day black guys, couldn’t be with a white/foriegn woman b/c they didn’t desires them at that time…NOW BLACK MEN CAN GET ALL OF THE SEX THAT THEY CAN GET SINCE….WHITE WOMEN AND THE FOREIGN WOMEN WANT TO GIVE IT TO THEM..This thing their going thur is a fad and it will be around for awhile….So if they feel that their more into other race of women….thats their thing…

But don’t use BLACK WOMEN as a tool of BEING THIS AND THAT TO DO WHAT THEY FEEL THEY WANT TO DO…Smearing all black women as a root to their own problems and bad relationships and contacts.

Relationships,marriages, dealing with male or females is never easy.One person is always trying to blame the other for their short comings or the reason things didn’t work out with that person…no matter the race…If that persom choose to be with another race its on them to do that…But when men wants to say black women are golddiggers…

Some women in all races has this GOLDIGGER THING…going on
this is rather they can take care of themselves or not…ITS HAVING THAT SINCE OF FINANICAL STABILITY for them…White women invented this…SAYING…for years.

Its life it happens more ways than one…and white women going around putting down black women b/c they think they know the short comings thur…… their now black man,husbands,mate is very stupid on their behalf…

Its all stupid for….. WHITE WOMEN…the other race of women to be doing, this makes them feel good to put down black women,this is a sense of satisfaction for them to know….lol…So if their
are any wrong being done here is for other races of women to compare themselves to black women and feel they are better when they are not…

You are just a woman that can be treated wrongly just like any others…So get over it and past it and that will make you a better person.Anytime one race of men put down their own race of women, that is something you should think twice about.When one race of women say they only date black men and not their own race their is some issues going own in their life.

Why Do Black Men Love White Women?

THOSE BLACK MEN DON’T REALLY LOVE THOSE WHITE WOMEN THEY JUST BE TRYING TO HAVE SOME FILTHY AND CONTAGIOUS SEX WITH EVERYBODY THAT THEY POSSIBLY CAN.

WHAT THOSE BLACK MEN NEED TO DO IS LEARN TO STOP LICKING AND SUCKING ON EVERY FILTHY DOG THAT THEY SEE OR RATHER SPOT.

YOU GOT IT ALL WRONG! it should be why white women constantly chase black men secretly and then turn around and pretend that its the black men who do the chasing.

this is a blackmen website and there are millions of whiteies on here chasing black men go figure!

In the year 2010, if the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life w/ starts w/ the color of their skin, something is really wrong. I can understand simply not being attracted to some1. However, before judging some1 simply on the color of their skin, why not take the time to get to know them. Black America has spent years, 100′s of years trying to not be judged by the color of our skin, yet here we are doing the same thing & you wonder who’s prejudice. Funny thing is, we sit back & hate on some1 who chose to date outside of their race, now take a step back & see how many of them same individuals hate on someone dating some1 of the same race simply because. Those that hate will always find a way & an excuse to hate, whether you date in or outside of your race. Male or female, whomever chooses to date outside of their race, I say more power to you, do what you feel makes you happy as a person because them same individuals hating on your for dating outside of your race will be the same individuals finding some reason to hate if you were dating someone of your race. Hate is hate & if it’s inside of you I really feel for you but that’s self hatred & unfortunately you feel the need to find something or some1 to point it towards.

Why Do Black Men Love White Women?

THE MAJORITY OF YOU BLACK MEN BE ACTING LIKE IF YALL DON’T GET ANY SEX THAT YALL ARE GOING TO DIE.SO WHAT YALL WILL DO IS GO OUT THERE AND JUST DIP IN WHAT IS EVER OUT THERE WITH A HOLE IN IT REGARDLESS IF IT IS INFECTIOUS WHITE OR FOREIGN AND STINKY OR NOT….SHAME ON YOU BLACK MEN FOR ACTING OUT THAT WAY (thats called acting animalism).

THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING DEAD SKUNK AND DEAD DOG SMELLING WHITE WOMEN AREN’T ANYTHING BUT,A BUNCH OF HUSSIES,HOES,FILTHY FISH,SKUNKS,WILD VICIOUS ANIMALS,TRAMPS,DOGS,HYENAS etc….THAT IS ONLY LOOKING AROUND FOR SOMETHING BLACK TO TAG BY PASSING OR RATHER SPREADING THOSE WHITE PEOPLE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY WITHIN THEM.

YOU FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING BLACK MEN LONG PEN!S SUCKING AND LICKING (down yalls blistery soar throat) WHITE DOGS NEED TO GO AND ASK YALLS FILTHY WHITE MAMMIES WHY ARE YALL SO,TRIFLING,NASTY AND STUPID LIKE YALL ARE.

YOU FILTHY WHITE WOMEN REALLY NEED TO LEARN HOW TO CONDUCT YOURSELVES MORE BETTER THEN THAT.YOU BUNCH OF FILTHY WHITE BLACK MEN D!CK SUCKING TRIFLING PIGS.

BUST THAT FILTHY WHITE HOE IN HER MOTHER F*KING MOUTH FOR OPENING IT UP TO GOT DAMN WIDE (b*tch shut your mouth some so that i can feel this sh*t).

B!TCH I WANT FOR YOU TO FEEL THIS BIG BLACK D!CK IN YOUR MOUTH OR RATHER DOWN YOUR THROAT HOE….THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE HOES WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK MEN SO,LEARN TO PUT YALLS D!CK INSIDE OF THEIR MOUTH FIRST (suck on this first b*tch because you do not mean a got damn thing to me when it comes down to my black women) SH!T,WHAT SHE THOUGHT?

THE HELL WITH YOU FILTHY WHITE WOMEN AND YALLS INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YALL CARRY AND WILL TRY AND PASS DOWN TO THESE BLACK MEN.

YOU BUNCH OF NASTY MANGE SMELLING DEVIL DOGS.

Why Do Black Men Love White Women?

I WILL ALWAYS JUDGE A PERSON BY THE COLOR OF THEIR SKIN.

AND THEN I WILL TALK ABOUT WHY YOU BLACK PEOPLE SHOULDN’T DATE OUTSIDE OF YA’LLS RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE TOTALLY DIFFERENT FROM YOU BLACK PEOPLE.SH!T CAN’T YALL TELL? JUST LOOK AT THEM YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT LOOK LIKE ANY OF THEM SO,THEREFORE YA’LLS COMMON SENSE SHOULD HAVE TOLD YA’LL NOT TO LET THEM SLEEP NAKED WITH YA’LL.

WHEN THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE GET SICK FROM SOMETHING THEY BE SICK DIFFERENTLY FROM THE WAY THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE BE SICK.

HOW COULD YOU BLACK MEN HAVE ALLOWED FOR THOSE FILTHY DEAD DOG AND DEAD SKUNK SMELLING INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE WOMEN TRICK YA’LL OUT OF YA’LLS D!CK LIKE THAT?

THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN WILL LEAVE YOU BLACK MEN STANKING BECAUSE THEY ARE SOME FILTHY DOGS.

WHY DID YOU BLACK MEN LET THOSE FILTHY OTHER RACE OF DOGS SPIT IN YA’LLS MOUTH LIKE THAT? YOU BLACK MEN ACT AS IF YA’LL DON’T HAVE ANY BRAIN CELLS FOR BAD SMELLS.

WHY DID YOU LET THAT NASTY WHITE/FOREIGN DOG SPIT IN YOUR MOUTH BLACK MAN? THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN WILL GIVE THEIR P***Y TO ANYBODY BECAUSE IT AIN’T NO GOOD.

TO NOT WANT TO SLEEP AROUND WITH A FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOG DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU ARE RACIST IT ONLY MEANS THAT YOU SO,MUCH CARE ABOUT YOUR HEALTH AS BEING A BLACK PERSON.

SEX IS A DISEASE.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED MENINGITIS.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED LARYNGITIS.

IN OTHER WORDS THOSE FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE ARE INFECTIOUS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

Love your post downthere, “JenATL72″! :)

As far as “Truth-is-told2u” (really?), no one is reading your cap-lock filled jibberish. Seek some counselling, you poor soul. Where’s the “report as spam (or violation)” option in posts when it would REALLY be necessary? :/

Now my take on this matter? Just be colorblind! Just love with the heart, not for the person’s skin color! To this day, for ME, it’s been: black mates = better physical rapport in general, but far many more headaches and drama queens; white (non-black) mates = make you feel more “special” and seem to have a better understanding (or acceptance?) of a man’s REALITY in today’s world. Yet, when I meet someone new, I put all of that aside and give the lady the chance to prove my pre-conceived notions right or wrong. Works for me! ;-)

SHOULD HAVE SAID; WHY DO SOME BLACK MEN LOVE WHITE WOMEN.

@ QLEANQLASSY..i completely agree with your comments about how all this doggin out first came about. And it wasnt black men that started this.. Like you said, Instead of just emotionally saying YOUR wrong, I dare any black women to PROVE what you said was wrong. They were the FIRST to go to media starting with oprah and label black men “no good since” the 80′s and not one of them can deny that. They have been doing it ever since and just looking at sites like hellobeautiful,with articles like ” worst husbands of 2010″ and the lack of articles that is the female equivalent, the trend of badmouthing will not end and it further proves our point. Blackmen got tired of hearing that to the point of where now you have black men who dont have a problem going to media and ripping black women apart as well.

Yes, there are “certain negative aspects” that are only present within black women an some black men dont wanna deal with it. Period. Especially the black men that have options.

The smart mouth, the rudness thats interpreted by black women as being “realness”even by the classy ones. The feeling your always right and unwillingness to see that your NOT, The pride and lack of admittance of wrong doing.The multiple children for multiple men. The horrible choices of men that later become another mans burden who steps into your path (hurt people hurt people).

Why should a man with options to date outside be so eager to break down walls of bitterness in which he didnt help build..or better yet be broken down himslf to the point where hes bitter as well. Iam not saying white women or any other race of women are better……BUT DAMN!!!!!!

@SLY67

IT IS YOU THAT ARE THE POOR SOUL AND A POOR SOUL IN YOUR MIND JUST AS WELL AS IN YOUR HEALTH YOU LOW DOWN AND DIRTY DON’T KNOW SH!T BACKWARDS THINKING STUPID RACIST INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE WHITE MAN FILTHY DUMB DEVIL.

YOU KNOW WHAT BLACK MAN I TRULY DON’T THINK THAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR ME TO SPEAK ABOUT YOU NASTY AZZ BLACK MEN THAT ENJOY GOING AROUND LICKING,SUCKING AND SMELLING ON THOSE MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING WHITE DOGS BECAUSE I WOULD DEFINITELY BREAK IT DOWN TO THE UNITED STATES FEDERAL GOVERNMENT HOW YA’LLS CONTAGIOUS BEHINDS ARE NOT NEEDED AS FAR AS STILL TRYING TO HANG AROUND ANY OF THOSE BLACK PEOPLE THAT DOESN’T BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH DOG SH!T.

I SIT HERE AND JUST WONDER WHAT KIND OF MAMMIE YOU HAD OR RATHER GOT? BECAUSE SHE SHOULD DEFINITELY BE A NASTY AZZ HOE FOR NOT TEACHING HER SON WHAT A NASTY MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING WHITE WOMAN OR FOREIGN WOMAN IS.

BLACK BOY,YOU ARE A DUMMY BECAUSE YOUR MAMMIE IS A DUMB AZZ WH@RE.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED MENINGITIS.THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED LARYNGITIS.

IN OTHER WORDS THOSE FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE ARE INFECTIOUS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

SO,YOU JUST HELP YOURSELF TO THAT FILTHY WHITE DOG SH!T AND LEAVE THE REST OF THESE BLACK PEOPLE OUT OF IT YOU IGNORANT AZZ BACKWARDS THINKING USELESS AND WORTHLESS BLACK MAN DUMMY.

SOMEBODY TRULY NEEDS TO HIT YOUR DUMB FILTHY BLACK AZZ IN THE GOT DAMN HEAD WITH A BAT UNTIL YOU ARE DEAD AND GONE B!TCH.

IF YOU WANT THAT NASTY CONTAGIOUS AND INFECTIOUS WHITE SH!T THEN YOU JUST HELP YOURSELF TO IT.SH!T MATTER OF FACT FEED SOME OF THOSE DEADLY VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO YOUR BLACK FAMILY AND THOSE KIDS IN YOUR FAMILY ARE INCLUDED BECAUSE I TRULY DON’T GIVE A GOT DAMN BECAUSE I DON’T KNOW YOU OR YOUR GOT DARN FAMILY.

SO,GO AND DIE BY THOSE DEADLY VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE INFECTED WHITE DOGS HAD PLANNED FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE ANYWAY.

I BELIEVE THIS THOUGH AND THAT IS IF YOU DON’T WANT MY HELP THEN I WILL NOT TRY AND HELP YOU SO,GO AND FIND ONE OF THOSE GAY WHITE MEN AND JUST LET THEM F*CK YOU,YOUR MAMMIE AND THE REST OF YOUR BLACK FAMILY UP IN YA’LLS BOOTY CRACK SO,THAT I CAN SEE WHAT THE NEW DISEASE IS GOING TO BE CALLED SINCE YOUR BLACK AZZ APPARENTLY LIKE F*CKING AROUND WITH MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING WHITE DOGS.

SH!T,MATTER OF FACT LET THAT NASTY AZZ FLEA BITTEN WHITE HOE TAKE A LICK/SUCK FROM YOUR SISTER/BROTHER/DAUGHTER/SON NEW BORN BLACK BABY BOY LIL PEN!S.

B!TCH I DON’T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT YOU BECAUSE I DON’T EVEN KNOW YOU.

B!TCH THE HELL WITH YOU AND YOUR GOT DARN FAMILY BECAUSE I DON’T EVEN KNOW YOU SO,THEREFORE I TRULY DON’T EVEN GIVE A GOT DARN WHO YOU OR YOUR MAMMIE PUT UP UNDER YALLS BED BLANKET.

B!TCH YOU AIN’T MY SON OR MY BROTHER SO,KISS MY INCREDIBLE SWEET BLACK ROYAL AZZ….SH!T GO AND FIND YOU A LOADED GUN AND JUST SHOOT UP YOUR NOBODY FAMILY AND THEN SHOOT YOURSELF SO,THAT I CAN KNOW THAT I HAVE GOTTEN ANOTHER IGNORANT BLACK MAN AND HIS FAMILY OFF OF THOSE MOTHER F*CKING STREETS BECAUSE THAT WILL ONLY MAKE MY JOB MORE EASIER FOR ME.

WHICH IS WIPING OUT YOU BLACK PEOPLE THAT ARE BORN SOME IGNORANT BACKWARDS THINKING DUMMIES.

IF YOU WANT THAT NASTY CONTAGIOUS AND INFECTIOUS WHITE SH!T THEN YOU JUST HELP YOURSELF TO IT.SH!T MATTER OF FACT FEED SOME OF THOSE DEADLY VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO YOUR BLACK FAMILY AND THOSE KIDS IN YOUR FAMILY ARE INCLUDED BECAUSE I TRULY DON’T GIVE A GOT DAMN BECAUSE I DON’T KNOW YOU OR YOUR GOT DARN FAMILY.

SO,GO AND DIE FROM THOSE DEADLY VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE INFECTED WHITE DOGS HAD PLANNED FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE ANYWAY.

I BELIEVE THIS THOUGH AND THAT IS IF YOU DON’T WANT MY HELP THEN I WILL NOT TRY AND HELP YOU SO,GO AND FIND ONE OF THOSE GAY WHITE MEN AND JUST LET THEM F*CK YOU,YOUR MAMMIE AND THE REST OF YOUR BLACK FAMILY UP IN YA’LLS BOOTY CRACK SO,THAT I CAN SEE WHAT THE NEW DISEASE IS GOING TO BE CALLED SINCE YOUR BLACK AZZ APPARENTLY LIKE F*CKING AROUND WITH MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING WHITE DOGS.

SH!T,MATTER OF FACT LET THAT NASTY AZZ FLEA BITTEN WHITE HOE TAKE A LICK/SUCK FROM YOUR SISTER/BROTHER/DAUGHTER/SON NEW BORN BLACK BABY BOY LIL PEN!S.

B!TCH I DON’T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT YOU BECAUSE I DON’T EVEN KNOW YOU.

B!TCH THE HELL WITH YOU AND YOUR GOT DARN FAMILY BECAUSE I DON’T EVEN KNOW YOU SO,THEREFORE I TRULY DON’T EVEN GIVE A GOT DARN WHO YOU OR YOUR MAMMIE PUT UP UNDER YALLS BED BLANKET.

B!TCH YOU AIN’T MY SON OR MY BROTHER SO,KISS MY INCREDIBLE SWEET BLACK ROYAL AZZ….SH!T,GO AND FIND YOU A LOADED GUN AND JUST SHOOT UP YOUR NOBODY FAMILY AND THEN SHOOT YOURSELF SO,THAT I CAN KNOW THAT I HAVE GOTTEN ANOTHER IGNORANT BLACK MAN AND HIS FAMILY OFF OF THOSE MOTHER F*CKING STREETS BECAUSE THAT WILL ONLY MAKE MY JOB MORE EASIER FOR ME.

WHICH IS WIPING OUT YOU BLACK PEOPLE THAT ARE BORN SOME IGNORANT BACKWARDS THINKING DUMMIES.

SH!T EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVES IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THAT CONTAGIOUS WHITE DOG SH!T CAN BURN IN MOTHER F*CKING HELL RIGHT WITH THEIR INFECTIOUS BEHINDS.

YOU IGNORANT BLACK DEVIL THAT WAS APPARENTLY CREATED BY SATAN THE DEVIL.

IF YOU IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE REFUSE TO LISTEN TO ORDER THEN I SHALL NOT HAVE ANY SYMPATHY OR PITY FOR ANY OF YOU.

IN OTHER WORDS THE HELL WITH YA’LL JUST LIKE YA’LL WILL SAY THE HELL WITH ODER.

THE MOTHER F*CKING HELL WITH YOU IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE THAT BELIEVE IN SUCKING ON THE STUPID INFECTIOUS WHITE MAN D!CK.

WHY SHOULD I GIVE A DARN ABOUT YOU AND YOU DON’T GIVE A DARN ABOUT YOURSELVES.

I DON’T BELIEVE IN KISSING AZZ AND I TRULY DON’T CARE ABOUT WHAT RACE OF PEOPLE YOU ARE (in other words) THE HELL WITH MY KIND TO IF THEY DON’T HAVE THE GOOD ENOUGH SENSE TO KNOW WHATS RIGHT FROM WRONG.

YOU IGNORANT BLACK DEVIL THAT WAS APPARENTLY CREATED BY SATAN THE DEVIL.

IF YOU IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE REFUSE TO LISTEN TO ORDER THEN I SHALL NOT HAVE ANY SYMPATHY OR PITY FOR ANY OF YOU.

IN OTHER WORDS THE HELL WITH YA’LL JUST LIKE YA’LL WILL SAY THE HELL WITH ODER.

THE MOTHER F*CKING HELL WITH YOU IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE THAT BELIEVE IN SUCKING ON THE STUPID INFECTIOUS WHITE MAN D!CK.

WHY SHOULD I GIVE A DARN ABOUT YOU AND YOU DON’T GIVE A DARN ABOUT YOURSELVES.

I DON’T BELIEVE IN KISSING AZZ AND I TRULY DON’T CARE ABOUT WHAT RACE OF PEOPLE YOU ARE (in other words) THE HELL WITH MY KIND TO IF THEY DON’T HAVE THE GOOD ENOUGH SENSE TO KNOW WHATS RIGHT FROM WRONG.

IF YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT FOLLOW ORDER THEN I SAY THE HELL WITH EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU JUST LIKE I SAY THE HELL WITH THOSE IGNORANT RACIST TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE PEOPLE.

I WAS NOT SENT HERE TO KISS ANY AZZ SO,THEREFORE I TRULY PLAN ON NOT DOING IT.

APPARENTLY YOU IGNORANT BLACK FOLKS DO NOT KNOW WHO YALL ARE DEALING WITH OR RATHER WHAT YALL ARE DEALING WITH WHEN ARE BORN SOME NOBODIES LIVING IN THIS RACIST AMERICA.

(i do not need any black people dummies inside of my black race of people so,just terminate them).

WHO COULD HATE THOSE IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE MORE?

THEY OWN KIND OR THE RACIST WHITE MAN?

I KNOW GROWING UP IN LIFE AS A BLACK MAN YA’LL WOULD LIKE TO EXPERIENCE THINGS BY MAYBE TRYING IT OUT BUT,TO TRY OUT SLEEPING AROUND WITH A GOT DAMN INFECTIOUS FLEA BITTEN WHITE DOG THOUGH? COME ON YOU IGNORANT BLACK MOTHER F*CKERS,YA’LLS MOTHER/FATHER DIDN’T TEACH YA’LL BETTER THEN THAT?

THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE THE MOST NASTIEST AND UNHEALTHIEST HOES THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN GET NAKED IN THE SAME BED WITH AND YA’LLS GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE SHOULD HAVE SHOWN YA’LL THAT….UNLESS GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE IS WHAT YOU BLACK MEN ARE LACKING WHEN IT COMES TO INFECTIOUS AND CONTAGIOUS P*SSY.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT THE ONES WHO CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BUT,YALLS IGNORANT BLACK AZZES WILL GO OUT AND CATCH THAT SH!T THOUGH BECAUSE OF THOSE IGNORANT DUMMY BRAINS THAT YALL ARE BORN WITH.

I WAS ASKED BY THE UNITED STATES FEDERAL GOVERNMENT IF I WOULD EVER TURN MY BACK ON YOU BLACK PEOPLE (they must have seen something about you black people that they just didn’t agree with when it came to health,life and politics) BUT,I DIDN’T EVER GIVE THEM A ANSWER ABOUT THAT YET.

IF YOU IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE BELIEVE IN DIEING BY THE WHITE MANS HAND THEN SO,MOTHER F*CKING BE IT BECAUSE WE DON’T KNOW ANY OF YOU BACKWARDS THINKING DUMMIES ANYWAY.

Why Do Black Men Love White Women?

I HAVE MORE GOING ON IN MY LIFE THEN JUST TRYING TO TELL SOME N!GGAS TO PULL THEIR PANTS UP OR RATHER WEAR A BELT.SH!T THOSE N!GGAS CAN WEAR THEIR PANTS HOWEVER THEY WANT TO WEAR THEIR PANTS JUST AS LONG AS THEY FEEL COMFORTABLE.

NOW THIS IS WAY MORE IMPORTANT TO ME THEN TRYING TO DWELL ON WHAT KIND OF PANTS THOSE N!GGAS BE WEARING AND THAT IS THOSE CONTAGIOUS WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE CONTAGIOUS FOREIGN WOMEN CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE (those other race of people are infectious to you black people).

YOU BLACK MEN THAT HAVE BEEN LICKING,FEELING AND SUCKING ON THOSE FLEA BITTEN FILTHY INFECTIOUS WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS SHOULD BE ASHAME OF YOURSELVES FOR EVEN LAYING NAKED WITH THEM.ARE ANY OF YOU BLACK MEN THROWING UP THAT CONTAGIOUS WHITE/FOREIGN DOG SH!T YET?

YOU BLACK MEN ARE WILLING TO DIE JUST TO GET A PIECE OF INFECTIOUS WHITE/FOREIGN P*SSY.

THOSE INFECTIOUS WHITE PEOPLE STAY SICK.

Because everybody it seems is brainwashed by these secret socities. That’s why black men love white women.
It’s a plantation thing,only another slave would really know.

Black men are attracted to white women for the same reason that anyone is attracted to a person. Or perhaps they are being open minded. Who knows and who cares?

And, why is Derek Jeter and Tiger Woods even in that photo gallery? They are biracial, so it’s not a stretch for them to be with someone of another race.

Maybe we should stop being so interested in what other people are doing and just worry about ourselves.

Wow, Truth, such anger coming out of you. Who licked the red off of your lollipop?

I KNOW GROWING UP IN LIFE AS A BLACK MAN YA’LL WOULD LIKE TO EXPERIENCE THINGS BY MAYBE TRYING IT OUT BUT,TO TRY OUT SLEEPING AROUND WITH A GOT DAMN INFECTIOUS FLEA BITTEN WHITE DOG THOUGH? COME ON YOU IGNORANT BLACK MOTHER F*CKERS,YA’LLS MOTHER/FATHER DIDN’T TEACH YA’LL BETTER THEN THAT?

THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE THE MOST NASTIEST AND UNHEALTHIEST HOES THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN GET NAKED IN THE SAME BED WITH AND YA’LLS GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE SHOULD HAVE TOLD YA’LL THAT BECAUSE THEY DO NOT EVEN LOOK OR SMELL ANYTHING LIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE….UNLESS GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE IS WHAT YOU BLACK MEN ARE LACKING WHEN IT COMES TO INFECTIOUS AND CONTAGIOUS P*SSY.

SH!T EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVES IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THAT CONTAGIOUS WHITE DOG SH!T CAN BURN IN MOTHER F*CKING HELL RIGHT WITH THEIR INFECTIOUS BEHINDS.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT THE ONES WHO CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BUT,YALLS IGNORANT BLACK AZZES WILL GO OUT AND CATCH THAT SH!T THOUGH BECAUSE OF THOSE IGNORANT DUMMY BRAINS THAT YALL ARE BORN WITH.

I WAS ASKED BY THE UNITED STATES FEDERAL GOVERNMENT IF I WOULD EVER TURN MY BACK ON YOU BLACK PEOPLE (they must have seen something about you black people that they just didn’t agree with when it came to health,life and politics) BUT,I DIDN’T EVER GIVE THEM A ANSWER ABOUT THAT YET.

WHO COULD HATE THOSE IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE MORE?

THEY OWN KIND OR THE RACIST WHITE MAN?

THIS IS DEEP.. I USE2BELIEVE THAT IT WAS BECAUSE OF BLACK SELF HATERED BUT AS I HAVE LIVED AND LEARNED I SEE THAT THE STANDARD OF BEAUTY HAIR IS AN MAJOR IMPEDIMENT IN BLACK LOVE. IT’S HARD2BE A REAL WOMEN WHEN U ARE AFRIAD OF U OWN REAL HAIR AND IT CANT GET WET OR U FEEL LIKE UR GONNA TURN 2THE WICKED WICK OF THE WEST AND DISSOLVE INTO A UGLY BLOBB(SO NOT TRUE). I BLAME IT ALL ON WEAVE,CONTACTS AND THE SUPERHEAD MENTALITY THAT ALOT OF MY SISTERS ADMIRE AND LOOK UP 2. AND IT’S RUNINNG BLACK MEN AWAY OR ATLEAST IT DID ME! I CHOOSE MY 1ST WIFE BECAUSE SHE WAS DARK AND THICK LIKE SERENA BUT I GUESS SHE HAD LOW SELF ESTEEM AND SHE PULLED A SUPPER HEAD ON ME. NOW I HAVE SUCH A BAD TASTE IN MY MOUTH FROM THAT EXPIRIENCE, BUT. OPRAH AND BEYOUNCE(FAKE HAIR BUT SHE DOENST SEEM2BE CHICKEN HEADISH) GIVE ME SOME HOPE4 MY SISTERS….

I TRULY DON’T UNDERSTAND THAT WEAVE WEARING THING MYSELF BUT,THOSE BLACK WOMEN HAIR IS NOT OF THE LICE BITTEN DOG KIND THOUGH.SH!T YOUR HAIR IS NAPPY TO BLACK MAN.

ANY REASON THAT YOU BLACK MEN WILL GIVE TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS IS JUST AN EXCUSE TO GO OUT AND JUST DO SOMETHING FILTHY WITH A BEAST.

YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY RACE OF MEN THAT WILL TAKE A CHANCE ON YA’LLS HEALTH WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THOSE INFECTIOUS DOGS….THOSE OTHER RACE OF MEN KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN ARE WORTHLESS AND USELESS TO THEM AND THAT IS MAINLY THE REASON THEY DO NOT WANT ANY OF YOU AROUND THEM SO,INSTEAD THEY SEND THOSE INFECTIOUS DOGS TO YA’LL.

YOU BLACK MEN BE ACTING LIKE SOME FILTHY SENSELESS ANIMALS JUST LIKE THOSE TRIFLING HOES WHO PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY.

AIN’T ANY OF THESE WOMEN REAL WOMEN RATHER THEY HAVE NAPPY HAIR OR THE DOG HAIR BECAUSE EVERY LAST ONE OF THEM ARE DUMMIES.

MATTER OF FACT ISN’T THERE A CONTAGIOUS WEBSITE FOR YOU INFECTIOUS PEOPLE CALLED THE INTERRACIAL DATING WEBSITE? SH!T,GET OUT OF HERE AND TAKE YA’LLS CONTAGIOUS AND FILTHY SEX HAVING BEHINDS OVER THERE (in other words spread or pass ya’lls contagious viruses and diseases to each other and stop trying to pass and spread it to those that truly do not want to catch it). YOU BUNCH OF INFECTIOUS PIGS

THEY HAVE CREATED A WEBSITE FOR YOU INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING DOGS SO,THAT YA’LL CAN STOP SPREADING YA’LLS FLEAS EVERYWHERE AROUND PEOPLE THAT DON’T BELIEVE IN HAVING THE FILTHY SEX AS YOU NASTY DOGS DO.

YOU IGNORANT BLACK MEN ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO BRING YA’LLS FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS AROUND THOSE OTHER BLACK PEOPLE AS IF THEY WANT TO CATCH THOSE CONTAGIOUS FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN FLEAS LIKE YA’LLS NASTY BLACK AZZES CARRY FROM CATCHING IT FROM THOSE TRIFLING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN.

SOMEBODY NEEDS TO HANG THAT NASTY AND INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING UGLY DOG FACE (closedonaccountof_rain) ON A TREE IN THOSE DEEP DARK WOODS AND THEN BURN HER UP TO A CRISP BECAUSE SHE IS OF NO GOOD TO THESE BLACK PEOPLE.

THIS UGLY DOG FACE INTERNET DEVIL ACTUALLY ENJOYS SEEING OR HEARING ABOUT YOU BLACK PEOPLE WHEN YALL GET HURT,SENT TO JAIL OR EVEN GETS KILLED.

SHE WAS PUT HERE BY THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE MEN TO TRY AND WIPE OUT AS MANY BLACK PEOPLE AS SHE POSSIBLY CAN BECAUSE THE WHITE MEN KNOW THAT SHE TRULY HATES HER OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

I HATE YOU (closedonaccountof_rain).

SOMEBODY NEEDS TO KILL THAT B!TCH SO,TO BE BLESSED.

GOD WILL ALWAYS BLESS THOSE THAT KILL A LOW DOWN AND DIRTY DON’T GIVE A SH!T WICKED DEVIL.

I TRULY HATE THIS BLACK WOMAN DOG FACE INTERNET ANIMAL THAT GOES BY THE SCREEN NAME OF (closedonaccountof_rain) BECAUSE OF WHAT SHE WAS DOING TO THOSE N!GGAS/BLACK MEN FOR THOSE RACIST FOREIGNERS AND FOR THOSE RACIST WHITE PEOPLE.

SOMEBODY NEEDS TO KILL THAT B!TCH SO,TO BE BLESSED.

GOD WILL ALWAYS BLESS THOSE THAT KILL A LOW DOWN AND DIRTY DON’T GIVE A SH!T WICKED DEVIL.

IF JOB WOULD HAVE HAD THE HEART TO KILL THE WICKED DEVIL SATAN LIKE GOD WANTED FOR HIM TO WE WOULDN’T HAVE SO,MANY WICKED LOW DOWN AND DIRTY DEVILS WALKING THE FACE OF THIS PLANET EARTH TODAY.

THE HELL WITH EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU LOW DOWN AND DIRTY WICKED DEVILS SO,BURN IN HELL FOREVER AND EVER.

MAY YOUR DEAD WICKED SOUL EVER GET ANY REST BY NOT HAVING ANY PEACE.

DIE DEVIL DIE AND BURN IN HELL FOREVER AND EVER.

NO PITY AND NO SYMPATHY

WHEN YOUR TERROR COMES LIKE A STORM,AND YOUR DESTRUCTION COMES LIKE A WHIRLWIND,WHEN DISTRESS AND ANGUISH COME UPON YOU.

THEN THEY WILL CALL ON ME,BUT I WILL NOT ANSWER;THEY WILL SEEK ME DILIGENTLY,BUT THEY WILL NOT FIND ME.

BECAUSE THEY HATED KNOWLEDGE AND DID NOT CHOOSE THE FEAR OF THE LORD.

GOD WILL ALWAYS CURSE THE DEVIL.

I TRULY HATE YOU (SardiusJacinth) FOR WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING TO THOSE INNOCENT N!GGAS/BLACK MEN FROM INSIDE OF THIS NEWS ROOM.

SOMEBODY TRULY NEEDS TO KILL THIS WICKED BLACK MAN HATING ON DEVIL SO,TO BECOME BLESSED BY GOD.

THIS WICKED NON GOD FEARING IGNORANT TROUBLE MAKING INTERNET N!GGA HATING ON (sardiusjacinth) HAS BEEN HELPING OUT THOSE OTHER FOUR DANGEROUS AND WICKED MINDED DOG SMELLING INTERNET DEVILS THAT GOES BY THE NAMES OF (closedonaccountof_rain)-(fnyclightskin)-(browneye_sista)-(choklit11) PUT THOSE DEADLY HITS OUT ON THOSE N!GGAS INSIDE OF THIS NEWS ROOM BECAUSE THEY WILL REFUSE TO AGREE WITH HIM IN THOSE WRONG ANSWERS THAT HE HAS AS BEING A IGNORANT INTERNET BLACK MAN DUMMY.

BURN IN HELL YOU FILTHY ROTTED OUT BRAIN OF A IGNORANT BLACK MAN.

THIS LOW DOWN AND DIRTY DON’T GIVE A SH!T ABOUT GODS PEOPLE IGNORANT DEVIL SHOULD BE BURNT TO HIS DEATH ON A CROSS IN FRONT OF KIDS/FAMILY HOME SO,TO PAY RESPECT FOR CONTINUING TO SIN AFTER JESUS SUPPOSEDLY HAD DIED FOR HIM AND OTHERS IN THEIR LINE OF BEING SINNERS.

BURN BLACK MAN DEVIL BURN TO YOUR DEATH BECAUSE I TRULY DO HATE YOU FOR WHAT YOU WERE DOING TO THOSE BLACK WOMEN GOD SENT SONS.

NO PITY NO SYMPATHY FOR ANY OF YOU FILTHY DUMB INFECTIOUS DEVILS.

GOD WILL ALWAYS CURSE THE DEVIL.

THIS WICKED NON GOD FEARING INTERNET DEVIL DOG (byakuugan_mod) DO NOT CARE ABOUT YALL OR YALLS KIDS SO,DON’T TRUST IN HIM.THIS INTERNET FOREIGN DEVIL DOG IS WICKED AND COLD HEARTED.HE IS LOW DOWN AND DIRTY BECAUSE HE IS A EVIL AND WICKED LYING DEVIL (this evil wicked low down and dirty foreign internet devil dog was inside of this news room trying to tell those n!ggas what the hell to do).

THE HELL WITH YOU Byakuugan_Mod AND KISS ME AND THOSE ANGRY N!GGAS SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHIND BECAUSE YOU DO NOT SCARE ANY OF US YOU FILTHY ALWAYS BEGGING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING FOREIGN ANIMAL…..I CAN REMEMBER WHEN YOUR FILTHY FOREIGN BEHIND HAD TOLD ME THAT IT WASN’T ABOUT COLOR/RACE BUT,IT WAS AND IT STILL IS YOU FILTHY FOREIGN DOG BECAUSE YOU FOREIGNERS AND THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE TROUBLE MAKERS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THESE BLACK PEOPLE AND YOU FOREIGNERS AND THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS BE TROUBLE MAKERS AND PROBLEM CAUSERS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THESE BLACK PEOPLE…..SO YOU FOREIGN PEOPLE AND YOU WHITE PEOPLE BOTH CAN KISS OUR SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHINDS BECAUSE IT IS SOMETHING ABOUT YALL THAT I KNOW THAT THESE BLACK PEOPLE ARE YET TO LEARN ABOUT.

DON’T TRUST HIM OR BELIEVE IN HIM.HE IS OF NO SYMPATHY OR PITY.

I DO NOT HAVE ANY SYMPATHY OR PITY FOR YOU LOW DOWN AND DIRTY DEVILS SO LET YOUR FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE NO GOOD BODIES BURN TO DEATH IN HELL.

THIS WICKED NON GOD FEARING IGNORANT TROUBLE MAKING INTERNET N!GGA HATING ON (byakuugan_mod) HAS BEEN HELPING OUT THOSE OTHER FOUR DANGEROUS AND WICKED MINDED DOG SMELLING INTERNET DEVILS THAT GOES BY THE NAMES OF (closedonaccountof_rain)-(fnyclightskin)-(browneye_sista)-(choklit11) PUT THOSE DEADLY HITS OUT ON THOSE N!GGAS FROM INSIDE OF THIS NEWS ROOM BECAUSE THEY HAD/WILL REFUSE TO AGREE WITH HIM IN THOSE WRONG ANSWERS THAT HE HAS AS BEING A IGNORANT INTERNET FOREIGN DEVIL DOG.

DO TAKE NOTE THAT TO TRY AND JUDGE AS YOU BEING A SINNER YOURSELF THEN YOU SHALL BE JUDGED FOR THE SIN THAT YOU DO.

DON’T EVER AGREE WITH HIM BECAUSE HE IS BORN TO BE CONFUSED,RACIST AND FOOLISH IN THIS WORLD.

HE IS A INTERNET BACKWARDS THINKING DUMMY THAT CAN NOT BE TRUSTED.

THIS FOREIGN DEVIL DOG IS DEFINITELY CONSIDERED A INTERNET CRIMINAL WHEN IT COMES TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE SCENT OF A DOG.

MATTER OF FACT HOW COULD A BUNCH OF BACKWARDS THINKING BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WHITE/FOREIGN PEOPLE TELL YOU BLACK PEOPLE WHAT TO DO IN LIFE OR RATHER HOW YALL SHOULD LIVE YA’LLS LIFE WHEN YALL ARE NOT THE ONES WHO ARE THE STUPID DUMMIES? THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE LIFE ANSWERS ABOUT YOU BLACK PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS BE OF WRONG OR RATHER OF BACKWARDS THINKING BECAUSE THEY ARE NOTING BUT,SOME STUPID DUMMIES WITHOUT ANY DIRECTION IN LIFE THEMSELVES.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE NOT YOU BLACK PEOPLE SUPERIORS.THEY ARE JUST SOME WANT TO KNOW IT ALL BUT,DON’T STUPID DUMMIES.

THOSE WHITE DUMMIES AND THOSE FOREIGN DUMMIES JUST WANTED TO TRY AND TAKE CONTROL OF YOU BLACK MEN MINDS BECAUSE YALL WERE NOT THINKING ON YA’LLS OWN WHEN IT CAME DOWN TO THEM.THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE NO ONE IN MY EYES OR IN GOD’S EYES.THEY ARE DUMMIES THAT DO NOT KNOW SH!T.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE CONSIDERED AS THOSE LYING WICKED TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING RACIST DEVILS TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY ARE ONLY HERE TO TRY AND GET YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO AGREE WITH THEM IN SOMETHING THAT THEY WILL DO THAT IS WRONG OR EITHER THEY WILL TRY AND MAKE YALL DO SOMETHING THAT IS NOT RIGHT IN GOD’S EYES BUT,IS RIGHT TO THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE SOME WICKED DEVILS AND THEY WILL CALL YOU BLACK PEOPLE RACIST IF YA’LL DO NOT AGREE WITH THEM (in other words those white people and those foreign people want to control you black people lives) THEY HAVE KILLED YOU BLACK PEOPLE LEADERS WHO YA’LL WERE SUPPOSE TO FOLLOW UP BEHIND THAT WERE “BLACK” WHICH WAS Dr.Marting Luther King Jr. His Wife Coretta Scott King/Chicago Mayor Harold Washington/Johnnie Cochran/Malcolm X etc….BECAUSE THEY WERE FIGHTING FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE RIGHTS IN THIS FOOLISH RACIST AMERICA AND THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE DID NOT LIKE THAT BECAUSE THEY WANTED FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO LISTEN TO THEM INSTEAD OF SOMEBODY BLACK SINCE THEY CONSIDER YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO BE SOME “DUMB” PEOPLE ANYWAY.

TO FALL FOR ANYTHING IS TO NOT STAND FOR NOTHING.

DO NOT FOLLOW IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF THE WICKEDNESS OF THE RACIST STUPIDITY.

No Comment……………………..Hate hate and more hate, why? who cares who I’m dating, white, black, Asian, by the end of the day, we all the same………………….I do love me some black woman though without the drama.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT THE SAME AS THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE AND YA’LL WILL NOT EVER BE THE SAME AS THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BLOOD CELLS ARE FULL OF MANY KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE BLOOD CELLS ARE.

EVERY TIME A NEW VIRUS OR DISEASE COMES OUT THE FIRST PEOPLE THAT WILL CATCH IT OR RATHER HAVE IT WILL BE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE OR THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE AND THEN THEY WILL TRY AND MAKE SURE THAT THEY PASS IT TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE JUST SO,THAT THEY CAN CAN THAT YA’LL ARE ALL THE SAME.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE WANT TO TRY AND PASS YOU BLACK PEOPLE AS MANY OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED LARYNGITIS.THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED MENINGITIS.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE SCENT OF A DOG.

YOU WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE FILTHY AND INFECTIOUS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THESE BLACK MEN.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS DISEASES AND VIRUSES CALLED LARYNGITIS,LYME,SYPHILIS,AIDS,PARASITES,MENINGITIS etc….

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG.

YOU WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE FILTHY AND INFECTIOUS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THESE BLACK MEN.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS DISEASES AND VIRUSES CALLED LARYNGITIS,SWINE,HERPES,HEPATITIS,LYME,SYPHILIS,AIDS,PARASITES,MENINGITIS etc….BECAUSE I AM NOT TRYING TO CATCH ANYTHING THAT THOSE OTHER FILTHY INFECTED RACE OF PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PASSING AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG.

I AM LOOKING FOR A BLACK MAN THAT HAS NOT EVER SLEPT OUTSIDE OF HIS RACE OF BLACK WOMAN WHO THINKS THAT HE IS HEALTHY AND ONE WHO DOES NOT BREAK OUT WITH FEVERS OR DIARRHEA.

ODELL JOSEPH CHAMBERS AIN’T NOTHING BUT,ANOTHER PIECE OF SH!T THAT HAS BEEN CONSTANTLY SUCKING ON THE STUPID WHITE MANS D!CK.

ARE YOU BLACK PEOPLE AFRAID OF THOSE STUPID INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE PEOPLE? BECAUSE I AM NOT AFRAID OF THOSE STUPID BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED OTHER COUNTRY BLOWING UP WHITE BUNCH OF SON OF A B!TCHES.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE TRULY HATE YOU COLORED PEOPLE,WHICH MEANS YOU (blacks,haitians,africans,jamaicans etc…you know you dark skin race of people.

THOSE FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMEN WANT TO DATE YOU BLACK MEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE THE CONTROL AND NOW THEY WANT THE POWER (black is power) AND THOSE DOG SMELLING FILTHY WHITE HOES ALSO WANT TO USE THE POWER THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE MIGHT GIVE TO THEM FOR ONLY TO WIPE OUT YA’LLS ORIGINAL RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

i think brothers date white women because they are more submissive…somewhere along the line, white women have learned how to retain a man by knowing a womans place…sistas on the other hand have generally offered nothing but masculine competition to a real man, which causes her ass to get dumped

I guess it probably never crossed anybodies mind that maybe, just maybe the black women that these men are attracted too never liked them or found them attractive. So that could be a reason why they chose to date outside there race…Plus why be confined to one race. I can eat a pizza, Chinese food or play golf, enjoy basketball. But why are you mad if you see a black man with a white woman? What did you want him?

White woman submissive? please… Ive dated both sides and maybe its just my picking but honestly there is no difference between the two. I would challenge those black women who complain to date outside there races and to stop whining.

BULLSH!T,THOSE TRIFLING WHITE DOGS DON’T EVEN KNOW HOW TO CONDUCT THEMSELVES LIKE HEALTHY AND CLEAN BODIED WOMEN SO,SUBMISSIVE MY SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHIND BECAUSE THOSE STUPID FILTHY FLEA BITTEN WHITE DOGS WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH ANYTHING THAT HAS A BIG BANGING LONG ROD ON IT THAT CAN RAM THEM DEEP DOWN IN THEIR INFECTIOUS P*SSY/BOOTY AND REGARDLESS IF ITS YOUR BROTHER,MALE COUSIN,UNCLE,MALE FRIEND BECAUSE THEY ARE NOTHING BUT,SOME INFECTED FILTHY WHITE ANIMALS WHO P*SSY AIN’T NO GOOD FOR THE REASON OF THEM GIVING IT AWAY TO ANYBODY….THOSE BLACK WOMEN DON’T SLEEP AROUND WITH JUST ANYBODY BECAUSE THEY DON’T BELIEVE IN JUST GIVING IT AWAY TO WHOMEVER HAVE A BIG BANGING LONG RAMMING ROD HANGING ON THEM LIKE THOSE WHITE DOGS WILL DO SO,TO BE ABLE TO GET F*CKED JUST LIKE THOSE NASTY SMELLY WHITE DOGS THAT THEY TRULY ARE.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN AREN’T ANYTHING BUT,SOME MANGE AND RABIES CARRYING FILTHY ANIMALS THAT WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THAT SH!T AIN’T NO GOOD.

YOU WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE FILTHY AND INFECTIOUS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THESE BLACK MEN.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN PEOPLE CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS DISEASES AND VIRUSES CALLED LARYNGITIS,SWINE,HERPES,GONORRHEA,HEPATITIS,LYME,SYPHILIS,AIDS,PARASITES,MENINGITIS etc….BECAUSE I AM NOT TRYING TO CATCH ANYTHING THAT THOSE OTHER FILTHY INFECTED RACE OF PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PASSING AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS A ODOR OF A DOG.

Love ? I doubt it , just a change of scenery.

ALL BE QUIET BLACK MAN BECAUSE YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE HELL YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE/FOREIGN HOUND DOGS AND IT’S NOT A CHANGE OF SCENERY WHEN IT COMES TO YOU BLACK MEN IT’S MOST LIKELY A CHANGE OF P*SSY BUT,THE THING ABOUT THEIR P*SSY IS THAT IT AIN’T NO GOOD FOR THE REASON OF THEM GIVING IT TO YA’LL ANYWAY.

THINK IF YOU WERE A WOMAN WOULD YOU BE GIVING YOUR P*SSY TO ANYBODY IF YOU THOUGHT THAT IT WAS SOME GOOD? HELL NO UNLESS YOU WERE A NASTY DOG

THEY SOME ARE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BODY FROM THE INSIDE.

Question should be,why are white women attracted to filthy rich Black celebs,the poor black men who date white women get the white trash,the fat ugly ones,the abused and the one the white boys don’t want.Yet the white boys get the fine black women to get their freak off with,screws them in every orifice on their body,then send them back to and says,here this is for you blackman!enjoy your hoe,now you can marry her,she has been washed in the sperm of her white God.

THEY ARE SOME FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BODY FROM THE INSIDE.

YOU BLACK MEN WILL CATCH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BECAUSE THOSE INFECTED HOUND DOGS WILL PASS IT TO YA’LL….OUT OF ALL OF THE RACE OF MEN YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT THOSE FILTHY AZZ HOUND DOGS WILL MAINLY PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THAT THEY CARRY BECAUSE THOSE MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH MOST ANYTHING (thats called wiping out the original race of black people while trying to make another race of black people by having children by them).

THOSE FILTHY DEVILS DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF NATURAL PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE DEVILS ARE FILTHY AND DON’T MIND ABOUT HAVING FILTHY SEX….ANYTHING THAT THOSE DEVILS WILL DO TO ANOTHER PERSON BODY IS OF FILTH BECAUSE THEY ARE OF FILTH THEMSELVES BUT,THEY ARE JUST TO DUMB TO KNOW THAT.

GOD HAD KICKED SATAN THE DEVIL OUT OF HIS CLEAN SPARKLING HEAVEN BECAUSE HE WAS A FILTHY MINDED DEVIL AND THEN SATAN THE DEVIL WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF HEAVEN HAD STARTED CREATING MORE AND MORE FILTHY DEVILS JUST LIKE HIMSELF SO,TO BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH DOWN HERE ON THIS FILTHY PLANET EARTH WHERE ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE BEING CARRIED,SPREAD AND PASSED AROUND TO THOSE THAT DOESN’T HAVE A CLUE ON WHATS REALLY GOING ON WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING SEX AND CATCHING DISEASES OR JUST BEING SICK AND DIEING FROM IT.

wow truth-is-told1x u need a life….

B!TCH GO AND DO WHAT YOU USUALLY WOULD DO,WHICH IS FINDING A D!CK TO PUT IN YOUR MOUTH FOR BEING A DUMMY THAT TALKS TO MUCH AND IF YOU HAVE ANY LIL DAUGHTERS TAKE THEM WITH YOU BECAUSE THEY NEED TO LEARN THE LESSON OF BEING A HOE BECAUSE THEY ARE GOING TO GROW UP AND BE A FILTHY DUMB HOE JUST LIKE YOU AND YOUR MAMMIE ANYWAY.

I dont know about saying its white Americans who want you to be white or black Americans who want people to be black or who should date who based on race alone. I personally think a lot of women suffer from self hate and use white women to blame it on. It is well known that American women have the lowest self esteems almost world wide. I have never seen a magazine tell me that I need to be white in order to be pretty or get a man and you cant keep resorting to the past. You didnt live 80 or 300 years ago. I am North African and I get rude comments from the darker women all the time because I am not dark nor extremely tan. I am not a black female so it throws people off like they didnt know Africa was a continent not a dang race. It gets really old. I have been to many countries and I also think a lot of Asian women bring this idea of fair skin on themselves too…I didnt see any white people there telling them to be white to get a black man let alone any other one. I also never saw this when I was in the Middle East because I lived there nor did I see it in Northern Africa where I also lived. So I think this entire nonsense is racist and anyone can be just that… technically speaking fair skin is the minority on this planet so from that point of view it isnt you or me who is “exotic” because we are the majority world wide just not in the USA. Just because 300 and 500 years ago some white people tried to teach they were the majority and superior doesnt make it so but, it obviously was a tactic that worked because they have brainwashed you into thinking somehow you have to look like them or that somehow all black men prefer them which is total nonsense. So who is really to blame here? In the end no matter where this kind of racism comes from you cancel each other out…as the same. Calling each other names and slandering one another wont ever change your skin color let alone your whether or not one guy prefers this over that. I dated a black guy once and I am the one who is actually African and his mother was rude and slandered me for not being black. What did I do to black people? Not a damn thing. The way I see it is that the majority of women in the USA are either Latina or white they are the majority here so thats obviously going to be what the majority of men date no matter what race they are. I think that from what I have seen being from a third world country white girls want to be similar to black women and black women want to be similar to white women which means both groups envy each other for different reasons. Beauty is only skin deep and if you have nothing else to offer other than skin color men will go elsewhere to the women who dont care what color they are. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be pretty and trying out things to do that for whatever reason but, men will be men and I know plenty of white men with big dicks who date and marry black women just to name one group. So perhaps this entire question should inverted maybe its not your skin but, your attitude problems that are the problem….just a thought.

Truth is told…..you do need to get a life….On the inside of our bodies we are the SAME….it is the outer physical nature that appears different. You either need serious mental help or you need to take your bi-polar medication cause you are clearly crazy ranting the way you do. Which is probably why your single. Your racism isnt shocking because you sound just like the white people you claim to hate so much….and that my dear is your hatred for yourself directed at others. People like you are a dime a dozen it doesnt matter what color you are. These actions you seem to be so proud of will follow you until you are no more. Obviously some guy must have dumped you for a white woman or else you wouldnt be this way. Its either that or your from some fanatic religious movement that teaches your superior….which you are not. Stay is school because you dont seem to realize that anyone can catch an STD….unlike you a virus doesnt care what your skin color is as long as it can live inside you it will. If you have unprotected sex you will at some point pay for it. May be women should practice the word “No” more often after all you should know the power is in your hands. I dont take it personally when Arab men want to date black women or white women or Asians or latinas……who cares? No one except people who think like you do. GROW UP

KISS MY SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHIND YOU NASTY AZZ INFECTIOUS DOG.

BE QUIET YOU IGNORANT DUMMY….ANYWAY OUT OF ALL OF THAT SH!T THAT THIS DUMMY JUST WROTE CAN’T NOBODY LEARN ANYTHING FROM IT.

I DO HAVE A LIFE AND A JOB AND THEY BOTH CONSIST OF TELLING THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD HOW FILTHY AND INFECTIOUS YOU WOMEN ARE WHICH HAS MADE YA’LL TO BECOME THE MANGE DOGS OF THE EARTH.YOU WOMEN ARE NOTHING BUT,GARBAGE WHICH SHOULD JUST BE THROWN AWAY BECAUSE AIN’T ANY OF YOU NO GOOD….YOU NASTY DOGS RETAIN A BODY ODOR AT ALL TIMES BECAUSE YA’LL ARE ANIMALS.

EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU WOMEN/DOGS ARE OF FILTH AND ARE ROTTED OUT IN YA’LLS INFECTED BODY FOR YA’LL CARRYING AND PASSING SO,MANY INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BACK AND FORTH TO THOSE BLACK MEN….YOU WOMEN ARE BORN DUMMIES FOR THE REASON THAT YA’LL NOT EVER HAVING THE ANSWER TO EVERYTHING.

THEY ARE SOME FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BODY FROM THE INSIDE.

YOU BLACK MEN WILL CATCH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BECAUSE THOSE INFECTED HOUND DOGS WILL PASS IT TO YA’LL….OUT OF ALL OF THE RACE OF MEN YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT THOSE FILTHY AZZ HOUND DOGS WILL MAINLY PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THAT THEY CARRY BECAUSE THOSE MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH MOST ANYTHING (thats called wiping out the original race of black people while trying to make another race of black people by having children by them).

YOU HOES ARE SOME INFECTIOUS ANIMALS.

no hassle no fuss

I KNOW THAT THOSE DOGS AND CATS GET FLEAS WHICH ARE THOSE BLOOD SUCKING BUGS BUT,HOW ARE SOME BUGS GOING TO ALL OF A SUDDEN FORM OR RATHER GROW INSIDE OF A PERSON/HUMAN HEAD SCALP ? (i am talking about those white women with that lice) WHAT KIND OF SH!T IS THAT

DO THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN GROW LICE ON THEIR VAG!NA TO? I AM ASKING YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM OR DO THEY HAVE TO KEEP THEIR PUBIC HAIRS SHAVED OFF OR SOMETHING?

DOES THAT SOUND CLEAN AND HEALTHY TO YOU BLACK MEN OR DOES THAT SOUND KIND OF SICKLY AND INFECTIOUS.

THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN ARE BORN SOME HUMAN DOGS OR RATHER SOME HUMAN ANIMALS.

HOW COME YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT TELL WHEN YA’LL ARE SLEEPING AROUND WITH SOME KIND OF ANIMALS?

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A FILTHY ANIMAL.

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I KNOW THAT THOSE DOGS AND CATS GET FLEAS WHICH ARE THOSE BLOOD SUCKING BUGS BUT,HOW ARE SOME BUGS GOING TO ALL OF A SUDDEN FORM OR RATHER GROW INSIDE OF A PERSON/HUMAN HEAD SCALP ? (i am talking about those white women with that lice) WHAT KIND OF SH!T IS THAT

DO THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN GROW LICE ON THEIR VAG!NA TO? I AM ASKING YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM OR DO THEY HAVE TO KEEP THEIR PUBIC HAIRS SHAVED OFF OR SOMETHING?

DOES THAT SOUND CLEAN AND HEALTHY TO YOU BLACK MEN OR DOES THAT SOUND KIND OF SICKLY AND INFECTIOUS.

THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN ARE BORN SOME HUMAN DOGS OR RATHER SOME HUMAN ANIMALS.

HOW COME YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT TELL WHEN YA’LL ARE SLEEPING AROUND WITH SOME KIND OF ANIMALS?

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A FILTHY ANIMAL.

peace yall,

we know that ever since black men have been allowed to start looking at white women (without getting a lashing)… they just start going all the way with it. that’s sorta like their way of saying..’i won’!!!

THAT IS NOT TRUE AT ALL AND YOU KNOW IT (dummy) YOU ARE JUST TRYING TO GET SOMETHING STARTED WITH THOSE BLACK MEN….THE REAL REASON THAT THOSE BLACK MEN HAD EVEN STARTED DATING THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FILTHY FOREIGN WOMEN IS BECAUSE THOSE WH@RISH ANIMALS HAD STARTED SOLICITING THEM LIKE THOSE TRIFLING AND NASTY DOGS THAT THEY ARE SO,ONCE THOSE BLACK MEN HAD LEARNED THAT THEY CAN GET SOME DEAD P*SSY ELSE WHERE BESIDES GETTING IT FROM THEIR OWN BLACK WOMEN WHICH ARE WAY MORE HEALTHIER FOR THEM SO,INSTEAD THEY HAD JUMPED RIGHT INTO THE ANIMAL SH!T BY ACTING OUT LIKE SOME DOGS WITHOUT ANY SENSE OF DIRECTION AS IF THEY WERE LOST BY NOT KNOWING WHICH WAY TO GO….SO,STOP ACTING OUT LIKE THOSE UNTAMED AND WILD OUT OF CONTROL LOOSE DOGS WITHOUT A COLLAR OR RATHER A NAME TAG BY CHASING UP BEHIND THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS OTHER RACE OF LOOSE MANGE ANIMALS BEFORE YOU WOUND UP CATCHING SOME KIND OF FLEAS THAT THE FLEA POWDER WON’T GET RID OF in other words stop chasing up behind those filthy and contagious animals).

WON MY INCREDIBLE SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHIND BECAUSE THEY HAD REALLY LOST.

According to some Black men, they prefer White women because there was a time in history when they weren’t permitted to even look at a White woman and yet the slave master was permitted to take the Black woman. Ummm, none of the men that claim this as a valid reason ever lived in slavery; if they did all I can say is “damn you look good for your age!”

Others have said it’s because White women are submissive. I say, they must confuse submissive with permissive or rather promiscuous. Further, these same Black men do more for a White woman just to keep her than they would ever do for a Black woman.

Some Black men simply think that by having a White woman on their arm will get them accepted. I still think it could get them lynched.

And don’t they look stupid with these foreign women. Just knowing the history of what they did to black African men, if they looked at a white woman, should be a turn off. These white women would lie on these black men, and they would cut their private part off, and way worst things then that, they use to skinned black men. Here is what a white lawmaker said about President Obama, he said yes it is true the president is racist toward white people, he said most black men when they think they have made it they go get them a white woman as his prize for making it, and went on to say, look at his wife, First Lady Obama, she is a dark skin woman, so that goes to tell you he is racist, because the president does not have a white wife. Like they say most men want their children to look like them, but not these clowns, and I am here to tell them, those children by white women, do not, I will repeat, do not look like them. And these whites are laughing at these black men, saying things like they sure love us, and those white women have to know they are stupid, because they do not want their own black women, who have suffered so badly in this world, they only want them for their money, and a child with color. There is nothing more stupid looking, than a black man with a white woman, and an earring in his ear. Please, please, get rid of the earrings, and you can keep your white woman.

I’m a Black woman married to a White man for 13 years. This is my second marriage. My first marriage was to a Brother. My first husband was kind, attentive, he kept a job & he came home to me. I did all my wifely chores. We separated three months after our daughter was born. Y? He didn’t want any extra responsibility of owning a home, no car note. I dated for 3 years each Black man said I wanted too much. I met my second husband on the freeway. I gave him a hard time b/c I just couldn’t see myself crossing over. But one day while dating my husband came to take me to dinner. I couldn’t go b/c husband #1 promised our child he’d pick her up. She’d been sitting on the porch waiting for over an hour. Husband #2 explained that Husband #1 really loved her but he just had to figure that out. Our oldest is in college and youngest doing great. We bought a home in a decent neighborhood. Husband 1 still hasn’t figured things out. Every nationality of man steps out in front of their families Black men usually don’t. B/C of this Black families stay at the bottom. Black males r in jail on drugs unemployed at a higher rate than any other male b/c he will not step out there as a man. That’s no ones fault but his. I married my husband b/c weather I’m a woman or not he still tries to be a man for himself and our family. This thing that Black males r failing b/c Black female r too assertive is crap. Most of us r tired we welcome help but Black women have started saying if I’m going to be at the bottom I’ll be there by myself. I work my tail off for my family if I hadn’t meet my husband I’d still be single b/c there were no Black men willing to step up.

I live in an area of a large population of mixed couples mostly Black males White females. The marriages don’t last for numerous reasons. But the biggest problem White females start off thinking Sisters don’t know how to get a man to be a man. They step in thinking they’re different more womanly. After trying everything they give up. Black males seek another White woman. Often bitter from their experience White women want no part of Black males. The causalities r the mixed children. Most males strive to step out in front Black males seek to push their women behind them (something learned during slavery). They r always under the false impression White women will push behind them much easier and that’s not so. These women put up with Brothers b/c they don’t know the game Black women have grown up with the game we see it b4 it starts. Most Black women aren’t single b/c they’ve been rejected by Black men they’re single b/c they chose that over dealing with an unequal partner. And none of this is about relationship between men and women Black males r failing in society. Until he fixes that he wont have a Black, White, Yellow or any other type woman. This is not to put Black men down but as a whole he’s failing in every area of his life not just his relationship. And that is what the real problem is.

arabgirl I agree with U in concept. That it is partly true what we think of ourselves dictates our attitude in life but the US has always been dominated by White standards. it’s not just true 80-300 years ago that’s still true today. Our media is dominated by White females in false hair make-up. They star in most TV shows. We constantly reminded a White female is beautiful. The White male runs things so he puts his woman on a pedestal that’s to be expected. President Obama puts the First Lady on a pedestal. If all Black men were rulers as President Obama most would want Black women but these men seek affirmation with someone already on a pedestal.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN AREN’T ANYTHING BUT,SOME MANGE AND RABIES CARRYING FILTHY ANIMALS THAT WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THAT SH!T AIN’T NO GOOD.

I KNOW THAT THOSE DOGS AND CATS GET FLEAS WHICH ARE THOSE BLOOD SUCKING BUGS BUT,HOW ARE SOME BUGS GOING TO ALL OF A SUDDEN FORM OR RATHER GROW INSIDE OF A PERSON/HUMAN HEAD SCALP? (i am talking about those white women with that lice/craps/fleas) WHAT KIND OF SH!T IS THAT

DO THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN GROW LICE ON THEIR VAG!NA TO? I AM ASKING YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM OR DO THEY HAVE TO KEEP THEIR PUBIC HAIRS SHAVED OFF OR SOMETHING?

DOES THAT SOUND CLEAN AND HEALTHY TO YOU BLACK MEN OR DOES THAT SOUND KIND OF SICKLY AND INFECTIOUS.

THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN ARE BORN SOME HUMAN DOGS OR RATHER SOME HUMAN ANIMALS.

HOW COME YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT TELL WHEN YA’LL ARE SLEEPING AROUND WITH SOME KIND OF ANIMALS?

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A FILTHY ANIMAL.

THOSE FILTHY DEVILS DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF NATURAL PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE DEVILS ARE FILTHY AND DON’T MIND ABOUT HAVING FILTHY SEX….ANYTHING THAT THOSE DEVILS WILL DO TO ANOTHER PERSON BODY IS OF FILTH BECAUSE THEY ARE OF FILTH THEMSELVES BUT,THEY ARE JUST TO DUMB TO KNOW THAT.

GOD HAD KICKED SATAN THE DEVIL OUT OF HIS CLEAN SPARKLING HEAVEN BECAUSE HE WAS A FILTHY MINDED DEVIL AND THEN SATAN THE DEVIL WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF HEAVEN HAD STARTED CREATING MORE AND MORE FILTHY DEVILS JUST LIKE HIMSELF SO,TO BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH DOWN HERE ON THIS FILTHY PLANET EARTH WHERE ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE BEING CARRIED,SPREAD AND PASSED AROUND TO THOSE THAT DOESN’T HAVE A CLUE ON WHATS REALLY GOING ON WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING SEX AND CATCHING DISEASES OR JUST BEING SICK AND DIEING FROM IT.

THEY ARE SOME FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BODY FROM THE INSIDE.

YOU BLACK MEN WILL CATCH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BECAUSE THOSE INFECTED HOUND DOGS WILL PASS IT TO YA’LL…OUT OF ALL OF THE RACE OF MEN YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT THOSE FILTHY AZZ HOUND DOGS WILL MAINLY PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THAT THEY CARRY BECAUSE THOSE MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH MOST ANYTHING (thats called wiping out the original race of black people while trying to make another race of black people by having children by them).

What matters is who and what makes you happy and if that’s tall and white or short and black then it shouldn’t matter. Its sad to see people hate on other people because they have a particular preference especially when we all have preferences. If its okay to hate on these men (or women) who date white only then its okay to hate on those of us who like are partner to be a certain height, have a certain income, be thick or skinny, etc. Just like I refuse to let the media and religion brainwash, I refuse to let black media and propaganda keep me from being open to other races and cultures because before I am black I am a human first and foremost and a free thinking one at that. Yet another pathetic attempt to guilt trip any black women or men who chooses to date outside their race.

Who says black men love white woman? I’m not even interested in them. GTFOH!!!!

B***h STFU!!!! Black date white because they are fasinated with them in most true.But when we are successful.That s**t is stupid.

wow @ truth is told
u sound like one angry bitter azz mofo. “white women have rabies”? are u an idiot? dont act like u aint came across a sister who give it up more than a lil bit, ive been exposed to plenty loose black girls so please dont associate being a s**t with race, it only takes a leg to get on ur knees.. i cant speak for every black dude, but i can speak for myself, i luv all types of women, there have been occasions where i have ran into at least one woman of each race where i was infatuated with even just observing her, so i wont limit myself to just a blk girl. an honestly, alot of blk women ive come across, always have some type of baggage, either they young with a couple kids, or they one ghetto azz mofo, or they think they are entitled to more than they really deserve as a person, and sometimes u get all of the above.and its blk women like u that make us fellas look for one of those white girls.

-big ups to don cornelius, michael jordan, and terence howard, nice catches, and seal, u a lucky mofo lol

@ he_aight
BE QUIET N!GGA AND TRY TO LEARN THE THOUGHTS OR MIND THINKING OF THESE BLACK WOMEN WHEN IT COMES TO YOU SILLY BLACK MEN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THE ANIMALS WHICH IS THE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN/DOGS AREN’T ANYTHING BUT,SOME MANGE AND RABIES/PARASITE CARRYING FILTHY ANIMALS THAT WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THAT SH!T AIN’T NO GOOD….THEY ARE OF FILTH

I KNOW THAT THOSE DOGS AND CATS GET FLEAS WHICH ARE THOSE BLOOD SUCKING BUGS BUT,HOW ARE SOME BUGS GOING TO ALL OF A SUDDEN FORM OR RATHER GROW INSIDE OF A PERSON/HUMAN HEAD SCALP? (i am talking about those white women with that lice/craps/fleas) WHAT KIND OF SH!T IS THAT

DO THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN GROW LICE ON THEIR VAG!NA TO? I AM ASKING YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM OR DO THEY HAVE TO KEEP THEIR PUBIC HAIRS SHAVED OFF OR SOMETHING?

DOES THAT SOUND CLEAN AND HEALTHY TO YOU BLACK MEN OR DOES THAT SOUND KIND OF SICKLY AND INFECTIOUS.

THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN ARE BORN SOME HUMAN DOGS OR RATHER SOME HUMAN ANIMALS.

HOW COME YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT TELL WHEN YA’LL ARE SLEEPING AROUND WITH SOME KIND OF ANIMALS?

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A FILTHY ANIMAL.

THOSE FILTHY DEVILS DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH DATING OUTSIDE OF THEIR RACE OF NATURAL PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE DEVILS ARE FILTHY AND DON’T MIND ABOUT HAVING FILTHY SEX….ANYTHING THAT THOSE DEVILS WILL DO TO ANOTHER PERSON BODY IS OF FILTH BECAUSE THEY ARE OF FILTH THEMSELVES BUT,THEY ARE JUST TO DUMB TO KNOW THAT.

GOD HAD KICKED SATAN THE DEVIL OUT OF HIS CLEAN SPARKLING HEAVEN BECAUSE HE WAS A FILTHY MINDED DEVIL AND THEN SATAN THE DEVIL WHO WAS KICKED OUT OF HEAVEN HAD STARTED CREATING MORE AND MORE FILTHY DEVILS JUST LIKE HIMSELF SO,TO BE ABLE TO LIVE WITH DOWN HERE ON THIS FILTHY PLANET EARTH WHERE ALL OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE BEING CARRIED,SPREAD AND PASSED AROUND TO THOSE THAT DOESN’T HAVE A CLUE ON WHATS REALLY GOING ON WHEN IT COMES TO HAVING SEX AND CATCHING DISEASES OR JUST BEING SICK AND DIEING FROM IT.

THEY ARE SOME FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BODY FROM THE INSIDE.

YOU BLACK MEN WILL CATCH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BECAUSE THOSE INFECTED HOUND DOGS WILL PASS IT TO YA’LL…OUT OF ALL OF THE RACE OF MEN YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY MEN THAT THOSE FILTHY AZZ HOUND DOGS WILL MAINLY PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THAT THEY CARRY BECAUSE THOSE MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING DOGS KNOW THAT YOU BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH MOST ANYTHING (thats called wiping out the original race of black people while trying to make another race of black people by having children by them).

@ he_aight
BE QUIET N!GGA AND TRY TO LEARN THE THOUGHTS OR RATHER THE MIND THINKING OF THESE BLACK WOMEN WHEN IT COMES TO YOU SILLY BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVE IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE ANIMALS WHICH ARE THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS.

@ Truth
Something is seriously wrong with you.

@Goldblooded74

THAT IS NOT TRUE BUT,THERE IS SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH YOU THOUGH BECAUSE YOU ARE THE DUMMY AND NOT ME.

From my prospective, white women have mostly given me what I wanted, conversation. I’ve had more conversations on the history and social differences with a white woman, more than I can say with my queen’s. It is not too say that black women don’t talk about these things, it’s just that we don’t communicate together about these things in general. White women also tend to attract us when they carry themselves in an eloquent way, sort to speak. Allowing us the opportunity to speak and converse with each other. This, I’ve found, is only true when our back grounds are different, she comes from a family that raised her with solid morals. If she were born in a dysfunctional home, the outcome is different. Just a note on the issue, and to set the record straight, I love my black woman, so don’t get it twisted.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN DON’T KNOW A LACK OF SH!T AND THE ONLY REASON WHY YOU BLACK MEN WILL EVEN TALK WITH A WHITE WHEN WANTING CONVERSATION IS BECAUSE YA’LL DON’T KNOW HOW TO TALK TO YA’LLS OWN BLACK WOMEN BUT,THOSE STUPID FILTHY WHITE WOMEN DON’T HAVE THE ANSWERS TO WHAT YOU SILLY BLACK MF’S ARE LOOKING FOR EITHER….YOU BLACK MEN REALLY NEED TO START THINKING ON YA’LLS OWN AS IF YA’LL ARE SOME DUMMIES THAT DON’T KNOW SH!T….THOSE WHITE WOMEN CAN’T TELL YOU BLACK MEN ANYTHING BUT,TELL YA’LL THAT YA’LL ARE RACIST IF YA’LL DON’T F*CK AROUND WITH THEIR DOG SMELLING BEHINDS….STOP ACTING OUT LIKE DOGS THAT WANT TO DIE FROM TRYING TO HAVE SEX WITH AN INFECTIOUS ANIMAL….START ACTING LIKE MEN AND STOP ACTING LIKE SOME POOR BRAIN B!TCHES.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN CAN’T TEACH YOU BLACK MEN SH!T AND THAT IS WHY IT IS SO EASY FOR YOU BLACK MEN TO BE MADE FOOLS OUT OF BY THEIR OWN WHITE MEN….THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE FROM WHERE THEY ARE STANDING EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU ARE DUMB SO,TO BE ABLE TO MAKE A FOOL OUT OF YA’LL.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT THE SAME AS THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE AND YA’LL WILL NOT EVER BE THE SAME AS THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BLOOD CELLS ARE FULL OF MANY KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE BLOOD CELLS ARE.

EVERY TIME A NEW VIRUS OR DISEASE COMES OUT THE FIRST PEOPLE THAT WILL CATCH IT OR RATHER HAVE IT WILL BE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE OR THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE AND THEN THEY WILL TRY AND MAKE SURE THAT THEY PASS IT TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE JUST SO,THAT THEY CAN CAN THAT YA’LL ARE ALL THE SAME.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE WANT TO TRY AND PASS YOU BLACK PEOPLE AS MANY OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED LARYNGITIS.THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THAT INFECTIOUS DISEASE CALLED MENINGITIS.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE SCENT OF A DOG.

WAKE UP BECAUSE THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE SCENT OF A ANIMAL.

I KNOW GROWING UP IN LIFE AS A BLACK MAN YA’LL WOULD LIKE TO EXPERIENCE THINGS BY MAYBE TRYING IT OUT BUT,TO TRY OUT SLEEPING AROUND WITH A GOT DAMN INFECTIOUS FLEA BITTEN WHITE DOG THOUGH? COME ON YOU IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE YA’LLS MOTHER/FATHER DIDN’T TEACH YA’LL BETTER THEN THAT?

THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL HAVING THE PROPER KIND OF MORALS WHEN IT COMES TO CHOOSING A BETTER WOMAN WHEN BEING BORN BLACK.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE THE MOST NASTIEST AND THE MOST UNHEALTHIEST HOES THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN GET NAKED IN THE SAME BED WITH AND YA’LLS GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE SHOULD HAVE TOLD YALL THAT BECAUSE THEY DO NOT EVEN LOOK OR SMELL ANYTHING LIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE….UNLESS GOD GIVEN COMMON SENSE IS WHAT YOU BLACK MEN ARE LACKING WHEN IT COMES TO A INFECTIOUS AND CONTAGIOUS VAG!NA.

LISTEN EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU BLACK MEN THAT BELIEVES IN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THAT CONTAGIOUS WHITE/FOREIGN DOG CRAP CAN BURN IN THE DEVILS HELL WHICH IS FULL OF FIRE,SMOKE AND FLAMES RIGHT WITH THEIR INFECTIOUS BEHINDS.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT THE ONES WHO CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES BUT,YALLS IGNORANT BLACK BEHINDS WILL GO OUT AND CATCH THAT CRAP THOUGH BECAUSE OF THOSE IGNORANT DUMMY BRAINS THAT YALL ARE BORN WITH.

MATTER OF FACT WHO COULD HATE THOSE IGNORANT BLACK PEOPLE MORE?

THEY OWN KIND OR THE RACIST WHITE MAN?

THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN ARE THE BIGGEST PORN STAR GIVING AWAY THEIR FILTHY SEX HOES IN THIS COUNTRY.

EVERY TIME YOU LOOK AROUND THEY ARE TRYING TO GIVE THEIR NO GOOD INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING DOG SMELLING VAG!NA TO THOSE BLACK MEN THAT’LL SMELL ON THEM AND LICK ON THEM.

YOU BLACK MEN ARE THE ONLY RACE OF MEN THAT BE ACTING LIKE IF YALL DON’T GET ANY FILTHY DOG SEX THAT YA’LL ARE GOING TO DIE AND ITS THAT FILTHY DOG SEX THAT IS KILLING YA’LL UP OR RATHER MAKING YA’LL SICK OR RATHER LEAVING YA’LL WITH A DOG SMELLING BODY ODOR THAT YA’LL JUST CAN’T SEEM TO GET RID OF (in other words they will leave yall stanking).

THOSE FILTHY DOGS ARE NOTHING BUT,GARBAGE.

SOME OF YOU BLACK MEN ACT AS IF YA’LL DON’T HAVE A BRAIN CELL FOR FOUL SMELLS.

Never Really thought about this topic much til I was at work and told a female black co-worker that I was dating and met someone really nice. Showed her a picture and she was surprised that I was with a black women. I asked her why she thought that and she said cause I have a very dominating and aggressive personality. I’ve dated mostly black women, Mexican, or white. In my experiences it seems like women of other races are more submissive then black women. If your a strong black man you tend to bump heads allot with a strong black women. Culturally women of other races kind of bring something different to the table.
I don’t discriminate. I feel that if your lucky enough to meet a women you feel is right and holds you down go for it. There’s not enough good women out there to hold back because of race.

And something is wrong with Truth-is-Told0103.

THERE IS NOT ANYTHING WRONG WITH ME BECAUSE I KNOW THAT MY HEAD IS ON STRAIGHT.

ONLY YOU IGNORANT BACKWARDS THINKING FILTHY DISEASED PRONE WEAK BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE TRIFLING FLEA BITTEN WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS LIKE THOSE NASTY DUMMIES THAT YA’LL ARE WHOM HAVEN’T ANY SENSIBLE MORALS TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG.HOW YOU BLACK MEN CAN’T TELL THAT THEY ARE ANIMALS? LOOK AT THEM

THEY ARE ANIMALS

THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN AIN’T MORE SUBMISSIVE THEN THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE.YOU BLACK MEN ACT LIKE YA’LL DON’T KNOW WHEN YA’LL BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE NASTY AZZ ANIMALS.ALL OF THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN ARE NOTHING TO YOU BLACK MEN BUT,SOME DOG SMELLING FLEA BITTEN MANGE ANIMALS THAT PASS AND SPREAD DISEASES TO YA’LL.

ANYWAY HOW IN THE HELL IS A WHITE WOMAN GOING TO BE THE BETTER WOMAN FOR THE BLACK MAN WHEN THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE THE WOMEN THAT WAS CREATED FOR YA’LL? THOSE WHITE WOMEN HAVEN’T BEEN DOING ANYTHING BUT,MAKING FOOLS OUT OF YOU CONFUSED BLACK MEN.THOSE INFECTIOUS WILL ONLY F*CK AROUND WITH YOU BLACK MEN BECAUSE THOSE OTHER RACE OF MEN KNOW THAT THOSE TRIFLING DOGS AIN’T NO GOOD.

HOW CAN’T YOU BLACK MEN SMELL SH!T WHEN YA’LL BE LICKING ON,HAVING SEX WITH AND TOUCHING ON THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN? YOU BLACK MEN AUGHT TO BE ASHAME OF YOURSELVES FOR EVEN ALLOWING FOR THOSE HEAD BUGS CARRYING ANIMALS TO GET IN THE SAME BED WITH YA’LL.

I HAVE RAISED ALL OF MY KIDS NOT TO EVER SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FLEA BITTEN WHITE/FOREIGN ANIMALS SO,THAT THEY WON’T CATCH THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY AS THEM BEING THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE THAT WE DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT WHOM ARE DEFINITELY NOT BLACK.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE DON’T EVEN LOOK LIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE AND SH!T LET ALONE SMELL ANYTHING LIKE YA’LL.

I WOULD RATHER HAVE A ROACH IN MY HOME THEN HAVING A WHITE MAN OR A FOREIGN MAN LAYING IN MY BED UP UNDER MY BLANKET.

I LOVE ASIAN WOMEN !!!ALL TYPES OF ASIAN WOMEN !!!

WHITE WOMEN FROM THE CITY JUST TURN MY STOMACH,THERE JUST IN YOUR

FACE,FAST TALKIN’ RACIST,THEY ALL THINK THERE COOL & “HOT”, BUT

SUPER CORNY,”LIKE OMG,LIKE SO NOT COOL” !!! THEY ALWAYS TRY TO

SLIP SOME RACIST COMMENT IN OR TRY TO ACT LIKE THERE WIT YOU &

CALL YOU A N!99A , LIKE IT’S COOL OR SOMETHING TO DO.

I AVOID CITY WHITE GIRLS ,ALL THE TIME,AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE,CAUSE

AS SOON AS WHITE START TALKING TO YOU,YOU KNOW THE THEY ARE GONNA

SAY SOMETHING DUMB OR RACIST ,JUST CAUSE YOUR BLACK.

GO AROUND WHITE PEOPLE IN ANY CITY, I BET A MILLION ,A WHITE MAN

WALKS UP TO YOU & STARTS TELLING YOU DUMB AZZ JOKES !!! LMAO !!!

I LIKE COUNTRY BACK WOOD,RED NECK,WHITE WOMEN ,CAUSE THERE COOL,

& COLOR BLIND. COUNTRY RED NECKS, ARE COOL WITH ME !!!

THOSE ASIAN PEOPLE AND THOSE AFRICAN PEOPLE ARE THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE THAT CARRYING THAT SICKLE CELL ANEMIA BUT,THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WERE PASSING IT TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE SO,THAT IT CAN GET INSIDE OF YA’LLS BLOOD CELLS AND SO THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE WOULD THINK THAT YA’LL CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES LIKE THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE DO.

WHEN THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BE CALLING YOU BLACK PEOPLE N!GGA THEY REALLY BE CALLING YA’LL DUMB.

IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE IS NOT OF YOUR OWN RACE OF WOMEN THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD INFECTIOUS DOG.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF INFECTIOUS WOMEN WILL SOLICIT YOU BLACK MEN INTO SLEEPING WITH THEM SO,THAT THEY CAN PASS AND SPREAD YA’LL THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY.

YOU OTHER RACE OF WOMEN ARE OF FILTHY GARBAGE BINS AND SEWER HOLES.

@Truth-Is-Told0103 You are another angry black chick lol.

I notice when a black man is with a white women black women say it is because they hate their race and mothers.Now when a black women is with a white guy it is for love lol do you see the stupidity of black women in america.You would not hear those words coming out of a black african womens mouth or black women from the islands.In the uk 40 percent of black men date white women that surprise me,and america it is much,much,much smaller.I have not read a comment from a black uk women on those me having self hate.The men date women the have things in common with.

One of many reasons black women are single.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EI9XeY_SdGY

I AM NOT A ANGRY BLACK CHIC OR WOMAN,I AM JUST TRUTHFUL AND HONEST WITH MY WORDS AND MOST PEOPLE CAN’T SEEM TO HANDLE THE TRUTH DEPENDING ON WHAT MY TRUTH IS.

I KNOW THAT WHEN A BLACK MAN IS WITH A FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMAN IT MUST BE BECAUSE HE IS OF NO GOOD TO THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE (so f*ck him) AND DON’T TRUST HIM….WHEN A BLACK WOMAN IS WITH A WHITE MAN IT’S ONLY BECAUSE SHE IS A DUMB AZZ BACKWARDS THINKING HOE ANYWAY….THAT IS ALL THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN KNOW HOW TO BE ARE SOME DUMB AZZ HOES….THEY ARE DUMMIES….THOSE FILTHY OTHER COLORED DOGS FROM THOSE ISLANDS OR RATHER FROM AFRICAN ARE NOT BLACK THEY ARE JUST CONSIDERED AS OTHER COLORED PEOPLE….THEY ARE FOREIGNERS….THEY ARE ALSO INFECTIOUS TO YOU BLACK MEN….YOU BLACK MEN ARE ABOUT THE ONLY RACE OF MEN THAT WILL ACTUALLY SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS DOGS….DO YOU BLACK MEN HAVE ANY KIND OF MORALS AT ALL?

THEY ARE COLORED PEOPLE FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY BUT,WE ARE BLACK PEOPLE WITH ARE OF A COLORED PERSON FROM AMERICA.

YOU BLACK MEN ARE CONFUSED IN LIFE WHEN YA’LL BE THINKING THAT YA’LL HAVE SOMETHING IN COMMON WITH THOSE OTHER RACE OF FILTHY DOG SMELLING INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WOMEN.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE JUST WANT YOU BLACK MEN TO THINK THAT YA’LL ARE OF NO GOOD JUST LIKE THOSE IGNORANT HOES WANTED YA’LL TO THINK ABOUT YOURSELVES….THE MAJORITY OF YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT EVEN TRUST YA’LLS OWN BLACK WOMEN AND LET ALONE THOSE STUPID RACIST OTHER RACE OF WOMEN.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE HAVE BEEN CONFUSED IN WHAT BEING A TRUE BLACK PERSON AND THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE MEN HAD MEANT TO DO YA’LL LIKE THAT….THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE MEN WANTED FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO SLEEP AROUND WITH OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE JUST SO,THAT YA’LL COULD START CATCHING,PASSING AND SPREADING THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY ALL CARRY FROM BEING THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE THAT ARE NOTHING BUT,ANIMALS.

YOU IGNORANT BLACK MEN DON’T HAVE ANYTHING IN COMMON WITH THOSE OTHER RACE OF INFECTIOUS DOGS BUT,A BONE TO STICK UP IN HER AZZ BECAUSE YA’LL ARE DESPERATE TO TRY AND GET SOME KIND OF P*SSY FROM SOMEWHERE….SO YOU BLACK MEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE HOES THAT HAS CLIMBED OUT OF THOSE GARBAGE BINS AND THOSE SEWER HOLES….YOU BLACK MEN DON’T SEEM TO KNOW WHEN YA’LL ARE SLEEPING WITH UNHEALTHY HALF DEAD MANGE FLEA BITTEN ANIMALS.

THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS DOGS WILL ONLY TRY AND SLEEP AROUND WITH YOU BLACK MEN BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT THOSE WHITE MEN DON’T F*CK AROUND WITH THEM BECAUSE THOSE WHITE MEN KNOW THAT THEY ARE OF NO GOOD.

MOB
MONEY
OVER
B!TCHES

THEY ARE GONNA LAUGH AT YOU

Honestly, I see black men go with white women because it is something different, not all black men, but at the same time, I see the black man get the white woman pregnant and leave, just like he do with the black woman.

This is life. And race probably will always be an issue until the end of time, especially IN inter-racial relationships. But I want to make one thing clear, listen carefully:

IF A MAN (BLACK OR WHITE) NEVER HAD SOME SORT OF A MALE ROLE MODEL WHILE GROWING UP, OR IF HE TREATS HIS OWN MOTHER LIKE S**T, HE WILL DOG A FEMALE, REGARDLESS OF HER SKIN COLOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BE QUIET YOU IGNORANT AZZ ANIMAL SMELLING DUMMY….THOSE BLACK MEN WILL TREAT YOU FILTHY AZZ HOES LIKE THOSE VAG!NA INFECTED HOES THAT YA’LL TRULY ARE BECAUSE YA’LL ARE STUPID OR EITHER DUMB BECAUSE OF THOSE TRIFLING LYING DUMMIES THAT YA’LL ARE BORN TO BE THAT WILL PASS AND SPREAD THOSE VAG!NAL INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YA’LL ALL CARRY WITHIN YOU THAT ARE SITTING DORMANT WAITING TO STRIKE THOSE BLACK MEN….YOU IGNORANT BLACK NASTY DOG

YOU DON’T KNOW SH!T ABOUT THESE BLACK MEN YOU LYING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING CLIMBING IN AND OUT OF THOSE SEWER HOLES AND GARBAGE BINS AT NIGHT FILTHY WORTHLESS BLACK DOG.

YOU BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST DUMBEST AND SENSELESS WOMEN THAT EVER WALKED THE FACE OF THE PLANET EARTH….THOSE STUPID FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMEN ARE GOING TO SOON START F*CKING YOU BLACK WOMEN UP BECAUSE OF HOW DUMB YA’LL ARE.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE GOING TO BE F*CKING YOU BLACK WOMEN UP JUST LIKE THEY BE DOING MICHELLE DUMB OBAMA.

What matters most is how you feel about the person but lets be honest…oftentimes people date other races out of curiousity other than love. Im guilty of that…once within the relationship I found that I miss the basic commonalities that I would get from a black man. those commonalites have nothing to do woth your income and education but more to do with culture. With White men I have found that I become the “official spokes person for all things Negro”. I have to explain cultural nuances that are just jonwn to Black men…ie pressing combs, chitlins, speaking in tongues, etc…..

Also many White people don’t want to give when it comes to learning about me. Im expected to just adhere culturally to their comforts…ie…Black cookouts vs White picnics, Chicago style stepping vs country line dancing, black fraternities/sororities ves their white counterparts. Until people are able to accept each other where we are at without expecting us to check ourselves in culturally, until Black people bring their education standards up and learn to managae their money, until Whites people let me speak my Ebonics without thinking all black women can’t pronounce words phonetically or whip our necks around and are loud then we will never really transcend racial boundaries or be able to date on another. Im simply tired of seeing brothas riding in the passenger seat while some fat, undereducated, under-emplyed white chick drives him and their little nappy kids jumping around in the back seat around. OR balck successful men love their Barbie style trophy wives that just want their money.

I have seen examples of true inner racial love but they are few and far between.

This is to Truth-Is-Told:

Be quiet??

You speak negative. I really dont know if you are a woman or a man, obviously you too scared to show your face with all of that negative talk. But that is all it is and ever will be is talk.

If you are a Black woman, I am sorry for the man or men who did you wrong throughout your life, perhaps a man you loved left you for a white woman, most likely it was your negative mouth that made him leave and won’t ever come back to you.

Closing out, this is column for adults, not someone who sounds like a child with a temper tantrum who is afraid to show their face.

Oh and let me guess, your response is going to be negative because you do not know how to communicate.

P.S.

I have a suggestion for you since every black man, woman, and every living creature on this earth is so dirty and smelly,

check out ambiance.com they have a lot of sex toys on there just for you since you will be by your Bitter and Negative Self for the rest of your existence. F**k yourself hahaha

@lovelife2010

B!TCH,IF YOU DON’T STOP F*CKING WITH ME YOUR LIFE WILL BE SHORT AND THEN I’LL SEE IF YOU CAN LOVE IT THEN.

DO KNOW THAT YOU IGNORANT FILTHY AZZ BLACK WOMEN DON’T MEAN SH!T TO ME AND YA’LLS KIDS DON’T EITHER….YOU MUST NOT HAVE HEARD OF ME YET? WELL ALLOW FOR ME TO EXPLAIN THEN….I AM A BLACK WOMEN THAT TRULY HATE THE REST OF YOU BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE YA’LL ARE SOME DUMB AZZ HOES THAT ONLY KNOW HOW TO STOMP DOWN ON THESE BLACK MEN/N!GGAS BUT,SINCE YA’LL HAVE DID THEM THAT WAY NOW YA’LL HAVE TO DEAL WITH ME FOR LIFE AND BELIEVE ME I WILL NOT BE MAKING IT EASY FOR YA’LL EITHER….DO KNOW THAT I TRULY HATE YA’LL FOR BEING BORN SOME DUMB AZZ TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING HOES TO THESE BLACK MEN/N!GGA….ANOTHER THING….B!TCH YOU CAN NOT DO SH!T WITH ME….NOT NOW AND NOT EVER….I HAVE DAUGHTERS THAT ARE GOING TO BE KICKING YA’LLS DAUGHTERS AZZ VERBALLY ALSO BECAUSE MY DAUGHTERS AIN’T LIL FILTHY HOES LIKE YA’LLS DAUGHTERS ARE….YOU HOES OF BLACK WOMEN CAN KISS MY INCREDIBLE SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHIND FOR LIFE….I DIDN’T GO THROUGH THIS WITH YOUR IGNORANT AZZ ALREADY FILTHY HOE? IF NOT THEN YOU BETTER START RECOGNIZING….I HATE YOU BLACK WOMEN AND THOSE WHITE WOMEN WILL SOON START F*CKING YA’LL UP JUST BECAUSE I HATE YA’LL….YOU BLACK WOMEN WILL BECOME THOSE WHITE WOMEN SLAVES LATER ON IN THE FUTURE BECAUSE YA’LL ARE TO GOT DAMN DUMB TO BE ABLE TO SPEAK UP TO THEM….THOSE WHITE WOMEN OWN YOU BLACK WOMEN….YOU BLACK WOMEN WILL HAVE TO EARN THESE BLACK MEN BY SUCKING ON THEIR D!CK EVERY TIME THAT THEY WANT FOR YA’LL TO OR OTHER WISE JUST STAY BY YOUR GOT DAMN SELVES YOU BUNCH OF FOUL FISH SMELLING HOES.

BE QUIET YOU IGNORANT AZZ ANIMAL SMELLING DUMMY….THOSE BLACK MEN WILL TREAT YOU FILTHY AZZ HOES LIKE THOSE VAG!NA INFECTED HOES THAT YA’LL TRULY ARE BECAUSE YA’LL ARE STUPID OR EITHER DUMB BECAUSE OF THOSE TRIFLING LYING DUMMIES THAT YA’LL ARE BORN TO BE THAT WILL PASS AND SPREAD THOSE VAG!NAL INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YA’LL ALL CARRY WITHIN YOU THAT ARE SITTING DORMANT WAITING TO STRIKE THOSE BLACK MEN….YOU IGNORANT BLACK NASTY DOG

YOU DON’T KNOW SH!T ABOUT THESE BLACK MEN YOU LYING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING CLIMBING IN AND OUT OF THOSE SEWER HOLES AND GARBAGE BINS AT NIGHT FILTHY WORTHLESS BLACK DOG.

YOU BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST DUMBEST AND SENSELESS WOMEN THAT EVER WALKED THE FACE OF THE PLANET EARTH….THOSE STUPID FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMEN ARE GOING TO SOON START F*CKING YOU BLACK WOMEN UP BECAUSE OF HOW DUMB YA’LL ARE.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE GOING TO BE F*CKING YOU BLACK WOMEN UP JUST LIKE THEY BE DOING MICHELLE DUMB OBAMA.

LEARN TO SUCK MORE D!CK BLACK HOE.

I’m not concerned with race. It doesn’t matter if the girl is black, white, asian or whatever. If I’m interested in her, I’ll pursue her.

I’m not concerned with race. It doesn’t matter if the girl is black, white, asian or whatever. If I’m interested in her, I’ll pursue her.

I SUPPOSE THAT YOU WOULDN’T BE CONCERNED WITH RACE BECAUSE IT IS ONLY YOU FILTHY INFECTED DUMB DEVILS THAT BELIEVE IN PASSING AND SPREADING THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YA’LL CARRY BACK AND FORTH TO EACH OTHER….YOU FILTHY INFECTED DUMB DEVILS BELIEVE IN HAVING WHAT I CALL THE FLEA BITTEN MANGE DOG SEX AND I SUPPOSE THAT YA’LL ARE GOING TO TEACH YA’LLS KIDS THE SAME SO,THAT THEY WILL GROW UP WITHOUT ANY PHYSICAL HEALTH MORALS IN LIFE ALSO SO,TO BE INFECTIOUS AND FILTHY JUST LIKE YA’LL ARE.

I DON’T WANT ANY OF THOSE FLEA BITTEN MANGE DOG HAVING SEX FILTHY DUMB DEVILS KIDS ANYWHERE NEAR MY KIDS BECAUSE THEIR KIDS MOST LIKELY CARRY AND PASS THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ALSO.

I AM NOT TEACHING/RAISING MY KIDS TO BE FILTHY DOGS/ANIMALS IN LIFE.I AM TEACHING/RAISING THEM TO BE REAL PEOPLE.

I think it is the other way around. There is yahoo group called bbc (black big c**k) and all the female members are white. These are white women who loves the black dick (sorry to be so frank) even if they are married, they want that black dick..trust me it is out there. So it is not so much black man looking for white women. It only make it easier for white women to have access the black dick!

THE THING IS THAT THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE SOME MANGE SMELLING ANIMALS THAT DON’T KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR BODY IN A GOOD WAY OR RATHER IN A SAFE WAY BUT,WHEN IT COMES TO A BLACK MAN WITH A GREAT BIG D!CK THOSE DUMB BLACK WOMEN WILL DO JUST ABOUT THE SAME AS THOSE STUPID WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN BECAUSE THAT IS SPECIALLY WHATS DESCRIBES A DUMB AZZ HOE AND THAT IS THE GREAT BIG P***S THAT THEY BE ASKING FOR OR RATHER WOULD WANT TO USE….THEY ARE ANIMALS SO,THEREFORE THOSE BLACK MEN WITH THOSE GREAT BIG D!CKS ARE SPECIALLY MADE FOR THOSE FILTHY HOES THAT WANT TO BE BANGED AND JAMMED UP THEIR STINKY VAG!NA HOLE SO,TO ALLOW FOR THE FOUL SMELL OF THEIR NO GOOD BODY TO FUNKY FUME UP THE AIR.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE SOME FILTHY INFECTIOUS HOES WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK MEN PERIOD BECAUSE THEY WILL GIVE THEIR NO GOOD INFECTIOUS DISEASED UP P*SSY TO ANYBODY THAT WILL TAKE IT….THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE JUST HOES REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEY WILL DO BECAUSE THEY ARE BORN THAT WAY OR RATHER THEY ARE RAISED THAT WAY.

THOSE HOES ARE NOT GOD’S MISTAKE BUT,THEY ARE THE DEVILS PURPOSE (in other words the devil meant to create them because they all carry and pass their infectious diseases to black men that like to f*ck around with them).THEY ARE OF NO GOOD USE WHATSOEVER TO YOU BLACK MEN.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL DOGS FOR THE MAIN REASON OF THEM CARRYING AND PASSING THOSE DISEASES AND VIRUSES THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN DON’T CARRY AND PASS AROUND.

I TRULY CAN NOT WITHSTAND ANY OF THOSE INFECTIOUS HOES AND REGARDLESS OF WHAT RACE THAT THEY ARE BUT,TO BE HONEST AND TRUTHFUL WITH YOU BLACK MEN IS THAT THE MOST SAFEST SEX THAT YA’LL CAN HAVE IS WITH YA’LLS OWN BLACK WOMEN AND EVEN THOUGH THAT THEY ARE SOME DUMB FILTHY HOES THEMSELVES….WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK MEN A BLACK WOMAN IS WAY MUCH BETTER THEN A WHITE WOMAN OR A FOREIGN WOMAN AND I DON’T GIVE A GOT DARN HOW MAD YA’LL ARE OF THOSE DUMB BLACK WOMEN.

LEARN HOW TO KEEP YA’LLS FEMALE DOGS OFF OF THOSE STREETS AND MAYBE AWAY FROM THEIR FRIENDS AND FAMILY SO,TO MAYBE KEEP YA’LLS RELATIONSHIP BUSINESS TO YOURSELVES.

THOSE BLACK WOMEN TEND TO LISTEN TO OTHER WOMEN WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THEIR OWN MAN BECAUSE THEY ARE TO DUMB TO KNOW HOW TO LEARN HIM ON THEIR OWN.

I FIGURE IF I NEED SOME KIND OF ADVISE ON MY “MAN” THEN I DEFINITELY DON’T NEED HIM (in other words ain’t nobody going to be able to tell me sh!t about my black man unless a trifling infectious virus and disease carrying and passing b!tch is sneaking around with him and sucking on his d!ck).

This is retarded first of all Wayne Brady’s wife is not white, the woman pictured with MJ is Cuban,the Kardashians are Armenian and Persian Armenians at that and if youre familiar with history the Persians were raided by Africans hence the nice backsides so this conversation in many respects is meaningless. Taye Diggs grew up in a predominantly white city and is cheesy as hell, and many of the people listed are from California where due to gang conflicts and being to far away from home there really is no strong black culture in Los Angeles to begin with. And anyone who has been to LA knows what I’m talking about, go to Compton, Ingelwood, Watts, hell anywhere in South Central LA and it is mostly Hispanic, you would be hard pressed in many areas of LA to see more than 10 black people in the same place at one time unless youre in Balwin Hills or Baldwin Crenshaw mall, so come one BP with the bulls**t.And also in closing honestly I don’t think it is so much Black men being attracted to white women as it is the other way around and honestly most men will stick their dicks in anyone who will allow them. Men have no control over sex so when an opportunity presents itself most men will jump at it without a single though. Black women crossing over on the other hand now that’s a little more disturbing especially considering how easy it is to get a man, regardless of what reports or statistics may indicate. A woman knows that at least for one night you can have almost any man you want even if you look like Gabourey Sidibe but fail to properly use this advantage while holding on to unrealistic expectations of who you should be with. Many women are single not because there are no good black men but because youre holding out for a 6’5″ doctor who looks like Tyson when in reality you may not have it like that and accepting a good man who may not be fit the perception of perfection you have in your head.

Well….dont get mad because many of you started this trend by YOUR actions. BELIEVE ME I live in atlanta and you guys are a trip. a majority of you will not talk to a brotha unless he acts “gangsta, pants saggin, talk “ghetto”, follow the latest “trend”, got a “nice” car (that includes geeker and/or avis rentals, borrowed, leased or stolen)
involved in the hip hop industry (or so they say), and many other silly reasons.
Many of you have artificially “high standards”(tall handsome in shape and physically fit 100k+ income, rich sucessful, willing to tolerate your excessive hostility from your past relationships) but the real question is this….

WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO THE TABLE??
40-45% of the black women in ATL are obese but you want your man to be in shape?? Get out of here!
You want your man to be rich but you make $32k live in an apartment with 3 roommates?…get out of here!!
Trust me you are being selfish expecting a man to look and act EXACTLY the way you want him 24 hours a day and you do not bring ANYTHING constructive to the relationship except bi polar issues, ex boyfriend horror stories, baby daddy arguments,
and other problems.
You guys basically scared off available black men with the “standards” thing and you will remain single for a very very long time.
keep in mind that it is YOU that is the cause of the huge increase of interacial relationships.
To be honest with you 75% of the brothas I know target white asian, and hispanic women because of your actions.
You can start by smiling at people every now when you are out and then and stop acting jaded because pookie and leon did you wrong.
get mad at me all you want because it is 100% true and I have seen this all over the country (i lived in several states and the game is the same everywhere)

A REAL PERSON CAN NOT LEARN ANYTHING FROM YOU DUMMIES BECAUSE YA’LL DON’T KNOW SH!T SO,SINCE YA’LL DON’T KNOW SH!T THEN AT LEAST LEARN TO SHUT THE HELL UP.

I JUST CAN NOT BELIEVE HOW DUMB YOU BLACK WOMEN ARE? NO WONDER THOSE RACIST WHITE MEN USE TO HANG YA’LLS DUMB BLACK AZZES FROM A TREE IN THOSE DARK BACK WOODS OF THEIRS.

THE THING IS THAT THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE SOME MANGE SMELLING ANIMALS THAT DON’T KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR BODY IN A GOOD WAY OR RATHER IN A SAFE WAY BUT,WHEN IT COMES TO A BLACK MAN WITH A GREAT BIG D!CK THOSE DUMB BLACK WOMEN WILL DO JUST ABOUT THE SAME AS THOSE STUPID WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN BECAUSE THAT IS SPECIALLY WHATS DESCRIBES A DUMB AZZ HOE AND THAT IS THE GREAT BIG P***S THAT THEY BE ASKING FOR OR RATHER WOULD WANT TO USE….THEY ARE ANIMALS SO,THEREFORE THOSE BLACK MEN WITH THOSE GREAT BIG D!CKS ARE SPECIALLY MADE FOR THOSE FILTHY HOES THAT WANT TO BE BANGED AND JAMMED UP THEIR STINKY VAG!NA HOLE SO,TO ALLOW FOR THE FOUL SMELL OF THEIR NO GOOD BODY TO FUNKY FUME UP THE AIR.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE SOME FILTHY INFECTIOUS HOES WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK MEN PERIOD BECAUSE THEY WILL GIVE THEIR NO GOOD INFECTIOUS DISEASED UP P*SSY TO ANYBODY THAT WILL TAKE IT….THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE JUST HOES REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEY WILL DO BECAUSE THEY ARE BORN THAT WAY OR RATHER THEY ARE RAISED THAT WAY.

THOSE HOES ARE NOT GOD’S MISTAKE BUT,THEY ARE THE DEVILS PURPOSE (in other words the devil meant to create them because they all carry and pass their infectious diseases to black men that like to f*ck around with them).THEY ARE OF NO GOOD USE WHATSOEVER TO YOU BLACK MEN.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL DOGS FOR THE MAIN REASON OF THEM CARRYING AND PASSING THOSE DISEASES AND VIRUSES THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN DON’T CARRY AND PASS AROUND.

I TRULY CAN NOT WITHSTAND ANY OF THOSE INFECTIOUS HOES AND REGARDLESS OF WHAT RACE THAT THEY ARE BUT,TO BE HONEST AND TRUTHFUL WITH YOU BLACK MEN IS THAT THE MOST SAFEST SEX THAT YA’LL CAN HAVE IS WITH YA’LLS OWN BLACK WOMEN AND EVEN THOUGH THAT THEY ARE SOME DUMB FILTHY HOES THEMSELVES….WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK MEN A BLACK WOMAN IS WAY MUCH BETTER THEN A WHITE WOMAN OR A FOREIGN WOMAN AND I DON’T GIVE A GOT DARN HOW MAD YA’LL ARE OF THOSE DUMB BLACK WOMEN.

LEARN HOW TO KEEP YA’LLS FEMALE DOGS OFF OF THOSE STREETS AND MAYBE AWAY FROM THEIR FRIENDS AND FAMILY SO,TO MAYBE KEEP YA’LLS RELATIONSHIP BUSINESS TO YOURSELVES.

THOSE BLACK WOMEN TEND TO LISTEN TO OTHER WOMEN WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THEIR OWN MAN BECAUSE THEY ARE TO DUMB TO KNOW HOW TO LEARN HIM ON THEIR OWN.

I FIGURE IF I NEED SOME KIND OF ADVISE ON MY “MAN” THEN I DEFINITELY DON’T NEED HIM (in other words ain’t nobody going to be able to tell me sh!t about my black man unless a trifling infectious virus and disease carrying and passing b!tch is sneaking around with him and sucking on his d!ck).

THOSE WHITE WOMEN DON’T KNOW A LACK OF SH!T AND THE ONLY REASON WHY YOU BLACK MEN WILL EVEN TALK WITH A WHITE WOMAN WHEN WANTING CONVERSATION IS BECAUSE YA’LL DON’T KNOW HOW TO TALK TO YA’LLS OWN BLACK WOMEN BUT,THOSE STUPID FILTHY WHITE WOMEN DON’T HAVE THE ANSWERS TO WHAT YOU SILLY BLACK MF’S ARE LOOKING FOR EITHER….YOU BLACK MEN REALLY NEED TO START THINKING ON YA’LLS OWN AND STOP ACTING AS IF YA’LL ARE SOME DUMMIES THAT DON’T KNOW SH!T….THOSE WHITE WOMEN CAN’T TELL YOU BLACK MEN ANYTHING BUT,TELL YA’LL THAT YA’LL ARE RACIST IF YA’LL DON’T F*CK AROUND WITH THEIR DOG SMELLING BEHINDS….STOP ACTING OUT LIKE DOGS THAT WANT TO DIE FROM TRYING TO HAVE SEX WITH AN INFECTIOUS ANIMAL….START ACTING LIKE MEN AND STOP ACTING LIKE SOME POOR BRAIN B!TCHES.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN CAN’T TEACH YOU BLACK MEN SH!T AND THAT IS WHY IT IS SO EASY FOR YOU BLACK MEN TO BE MADE FOOLS OUT OF BY THEIR OWN WHITE MEN….THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE FROM WHERE THEY ARE STANDING EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU ARE DUMB TO THEM SO,TO BE ABLE TO MAKE A FOOL OUT OF YA’LL.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DAUGHTERS BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH ANY/MANY KIND OF D!CKS AND REGARDLESS OF WHAT COLOR THEY ARE JUST AS LONG AS THEY CAN PUT IT IN THEIR BLISTERY MOUTH,WORMY DOG BOOTY AND DOG SMELLING VAG!NA….YOU BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO TEACH YA’LLS DAUGHTERS NOT TO FOLLOW UP BEHIND THOSE STUPID FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS THAT WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH ANYBODY OR RATHER ANYTHING WITH A D!CK SO,TO BE RAMMED AND BANGED UP HARD IN THEIR CONTAMINATED AND INFECTIOUS BLOODY BODY HOLES.

THIS IS TO YOU BLACK MEN SPECIFICALLY~THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN/GIRLS CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE BLACK GIRLS/WOMEN DON’T CARRY.

Has anyone ever bothered to tell you guys that typing in ALL CAPS is considered YELLING! Not only can it be considered “rude”, but it is also more difficult to read, and I won’t even bother reading a post longer than two sentences if it is written in all caps.

WELL DON’T READ IT THEN YOU INTERNET DUMMY BECAUSE YOU PROBABLY WOULDN’T UNDERSTAND IT ANYWAY.

I AM NOT HERE FOR ANY OF YOU IGNORANT BACKWARDS THINKING THOUGHT THAT THEY KNEW SOMETHING BUT,DIDN’T IGNORANT INTERNET DUMMIES ANYWAY.

YOU PEOPLE SMALL CAPS DO NOT CAPTURE MY ATTENTION WHATSOEVER UNLESS I FEEL THAT IT IS SOMETHING THAT I MUST READ TO CORRECT OR RATHER FUSS YA’LL THE HELL OUT OR OTHER WISE I DO NOT EVEN PAY TO ANY ATTENTION TO IT.

I AM NOT BROUGHT TO THIS BP WEBSITE AS A INTERNET DUMMY I AM BROUGHT HERE TO TRY AND CORRECT YOU DUMMIES FROM THINKING BACKWARDS BECAUSE I AM A REAL PERSON.

ONLY YOU INTERNET DUMMIES ARE CONSIDERED RUDE OR RATHER CRUEL BECAUSE YA’LL ARE TO DUMB TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG.

IF YOU WANT TO WRITE IN SMALL CAPS THEN SO,BE IT I DO NOT FOLLOW AROUND OR RATHER BEHIND ANY OF YOU IGNORANT INTERNET DUMMIES BECAUSE YA’LL DON’T EVEN KNOW WHERE YA’LL ARE HEADED AT IN LIFE AND LET ALONE KNOW WHAT THE HECK YA’LL BE TALKING ABOUT….NOW DO YOU REALLY THINK THAT WHAT YOU HAVE SAID IS GOING TO CHANGE ANYTHING TO THE REST OF THESE INTERNET DUMMIES? BECAUSE IT SURELY WON’T BE CHANGING ME.

Oh wow most of the comment’s i’m reading below are very hateful. I’m sure not all white women or all black women have the characteristics listed in any of these post. Wow and you wonder why most smart black men won’t even attempt to talk to a black women. If you’re going to bad mouth a women just because of the color of their skin, then i wouldn’t even think of looking at you much less wanting to get to know you If i were a guy. And i wouldn’t want my brothers to marry any of your type either. I want my brothers to marry someone of a different race(preferably Asian)I don’t want my brothers to be constantly badgered by the stereotypical black women.I only want the best for my brothers and if the best happens to be a white women or any woman thats not black for that matter then happiness be onto them.

BE QUIET YOU IGNORANT BACKWARDS THINKING LYING AZZ BLACK DUMMY THAT IS TRYING TO ACT AS YOU ARE SUCH A GOOD PERSON WHEN I KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOTHING BUT,ANOTHER FILTHY DUMB HOE JUST LIKE THE REST OF THESE BLACK WOMEN ARE….YOU ACTUALLY HATE THESE BLACK MEN BECAUSE YOU CAN NOT CONTROL THEM LIKE THE REST OF THESE BLACK WOMEN WOULD LIKE TO.

STEP BACK YOU FILTHY BLACK HOE BEFORE I HURT THOSE WORTHLESS AND USELESS FEELINGS OF YOURS.

EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU BLACK WOMEN ARE THE SAME BECAUSE AIN’T ANY OF YOU BETTER THEN THE OTHER OR OTHER WISE YA’LLS DUMB BEHINDS WOULD NOT HAVE BEEN CAUSING OUR BLACK MEN ANY PROBLEMS IN LIFE SO,STEP THE HELL OF YOU FILTHY INTERNET BLACK BIMBO.

YOU DUMB FILTHY BLACK WOMEN AIN’T O BETTER THEN THOSE STUPID FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THESE BLACK MEN….ALL OF YOU WOMEN….WHITE,BLACK,MIXED AND FOREIGN ARE BORN DUMMIES FOR THE SIMPLE FACT THAT YA’LL ARE SO,GOT DARN BACKWARDS THINKING,SIMPLE MINDED AND FOOLISHLY IGNORANT.

I think when you set up barriers on love & relationships you undermine the potential of having a successful one. Don’t let anyone influence your decisions. Love and live how you want. You only have one chance at life on this earth. Don’t waste it by making decisions based on what society thinks.

YOU COULDN’T TELL ANY OF THESE WOMEN THAT BECAUSE THEY ARE TO DUMB TO UNDERSTAND IT AND THEY ALSO TELL LIES ALL OF THE TIME….ABOUT THE ONLY THING THAT THOSE WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A RELATIONSHIP IS MONEY AND HOW TO CONTINUE TO BE A HOE WITHOUT HIM KNOWING IT….THOSE WOMEN WILL ALSO LISTEN TO WHAT SOCIETY THINKS BECAUSE THEIR OWN BRAIN CAN’T THINK RIGHT ON IT’S OWN BECAUSE THEY ARE ALL BORN DUMMIES.

i could care less because the sexiest man in the world to me is that white guy who played in Legend with Tyrese whose brother was the bad guy and he was the good guy. He is one of the finest men I ever laid eyes on.

WHO CARES BECAUSE YOU FILTHY DUMB BLACK WOMEN AREN’T ANYTHING BUT SOME FOOLISH SIMPLE MINDED HOES THAT WILL JUST ABOUT SLEEP AROUND WITH ANYBODY AS LONG AS THEY HAVE MONEY.

I DON’T SLEEP AROUND OUTSIDE OF MY RACE OF BLACK MEN BECAUSE I AM NOT A BACKWARDS THINKING CONFUSED DUMB FILTHY HOE THAT WILL JUST DO ANY MAN SO,THEREFORE IF I AM NOT FEELING YOU AS A BLACK MAN THEN BELIEVE ME YOU WILL NOT BE GETTING ME AND I DON’T CARE WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE OR HOW MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE.

I AM A BLACK WOMAN OF HIGH STANDARDS,CLASS,DIGNITY AND SELF RESPECT.

YOU BLACK MEN CAN NOT TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A HOE AND A PROSTITUTE BECAUSE THEY BOTH WANT YA’LLS MONEY.

I will never understand why “color” is so worried about… If u see somebody u might be interested in does it really matter what color they are? get it together ppl and stop puttin biased characteristics on a certain race it makes u sound so closed minded :)

BLACK PEOPLE DON’T LISTEN TO THIS FILTHY WHITE MICRO WORMS IN HER CONTAGIOUS BOOTY PIECE OF DOG SH!T BECAUSE ALL THAT THESE NO GOOD HOUND SMELLING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN DO TO YOU BLACK MEN IS CAUSE YA’LL MAJOR PROBLEMS IN LIFE WITH THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE MEN THAT WORK WITH THE CORRUPTED MINDED WICKED SYSTEM (in other words let these filthy white dogs go and date their own race of white/foreign men) THOSE STUPID INFECTIOUS WHITE MEN DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE WOMEN ARE ONLY IN YOU BLACK MENS LIFE SO,TO CAUSE YA’LL FRICTION BETWEEN YA’LLS OWN RACE OF BLACK WOMEN….THEY ARE SOME SORT OF HUMAN ANIMALS

I WOULD RATHER HAVE A ROACH IN MY HOME THEN TO HAVE A WHITE MAN OR A FOREIGN MAN LYING ON MY BED UP UNDER MY BLANKET.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT EVER BE GOING AROUND THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BECAUSE YA’LL ARE NOT TROUBLE MAKERS OR PROBLEM CAUSERS BUT,EVERYWHERE THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE THEN HERE COMES THOSE FILTHY WHITE INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE DOGS TO SOLICIT YOU BLACK MEN SO,TO TRY AND PASS YA’LL THOSE CONTAGIOUS DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY AS BEING THOSE FILTHY WHITE DOGS THAT THEY ARE.

FROM THE LOOKS OF THEIR HAIR WITH THOSE BUGS THAT GROW INSIDE OF IT,THE ODOR OF THEIR DOG SMELLING BODY AND THOSE DISEASES LIKE HIV/AIDS,LYME,SWINE,LARYNGITIS,MENINGITIS,SYPHILIS etc…THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD TELL YOU BLACK PEOPLE THAT THEY ARE OF SOME KIND OF HUMAN ANIMAL.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG

DON’T FOLLOW IN THE FOOTSTEPS OR RATHER BELIEVE IN THE WORDS OF THOSE FILTHY WICKED LYING AND TRICKY DEVILS.

I didn’t know Black men loved white women. I know that some Black men are specifically attracted to white women because of the cultural differences. Many white women want Black men too out of curiosity.
We’re going to see more and more Black women w/ white men because so many of them have “given up” on Black men thinking that white men will give them what Black men can’t . . . jobs and other opportunities.

LOVE I doubt it is that. It is more of these men grew up with BLAK mothers and it was in a lot of cases, a bad situation, poverty, mothers not attending to their appearance (lack of money), not enough food, living in dumps, and NO father/father figure around. I know exactly 22 black men with white women, and 18 of them don’t want nothing to do with any BLACK woman that will remind the of their past, WHITE women can change all the above, SOCIETY will ensure these black men will and can support the white women, but not the black woman.

I TRULY DON’T SEE WHAT CAN BE SO,ATTRACTIVE ABOUT A WHITE WOMAN WHEN SHE IS NOTHING BUT SOME KIND OF HUMAN DOG….YOU BLACK MEN REALLY NEED TO LEARN WHEN YA’LL ARE ATTRACTED TO OR RATHER SLEEPING AROUND WITH SOME KIND OF HUMAN ANIMALS.

MANY WHITE WOMEN WANT BLACK MEN BECAUSE THEY ARE SOME FILTHY HOES THAT CARRY AND SPREAD THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES AROUND TO OTHER PEOPLE AND BECAUSE THEY JUST WANT TO TRY AND CAUSE SOME MAJOR PROBLEMS FOR THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE.

HOW TO TELL IF SHE IS A HOE/DOG.

IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU CAN GET THAT WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND SHE IS NOT OF YOUR OWN RACE OF WOMEN THEN THAT SHOULD TELL YOU RIGHT THERE THAT SHE IS NOTHING BUT,A NO GOOD INFECTIOUS DOG.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS DISEASES AND VIRUSES CALLED LARYNGITIS,SWINE,HERPES,GONORRHEA,HEPATITIS,LYME,SYPHILIS,AIDS,PARASITES,MENINGITIS etc….BECAUSE I AM NOT TRYING TO CATCH ANYTHING THAT THOSE OTHER FILTHY INFECTED RACE OF PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PASSING AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN SLEEPING AROUND WITH THEM.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG.

OUT OF ALL OF THOSE OTHER RACE OF MEN IT’S MAINLY YOU BLACK MEN THAT BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS DOGS….THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN ARE FILTHY AND INFECTIOUS WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK MEN AND THAT IS WHY THEY WILL PULL DOWN THEIR PANTS FOR YA’LL….THEY ARE OBVIOUSLY BORN SOME KIND OF HUMAN ANIMALS.

THOSE BLACK WOMEN WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE WHITE MEN BECAUSE OF THAT FILTHY DUMB HOE THAT RESIDES IN THEM.

REAL LIFE IS ABOUT KNOWING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG.

WHO IN THE MOTHER F*CKING HELL IS THIS ONEJEWEL14-U? YOU OLD RAGGEDY LYING BACKWARDS THINKING ROTTED OUT BRAIN INTERNET BIMBO.

ALL OF THOSE THINGS THAT YOU HAVE STATED ABOUT THOSE BLACK MEN IS NOT TRUE YOU OLD FILTHY AZZ DRIED OUT P*SSY INTERNET HUSSY.

THE ONLY REASON WHY THOSE BLACK MEN WILL EVEN DATE THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS IS BECAUSE THEIR PARENT DIDN’T TEACH THEM THE TRUTH ABOUT THOSE FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE AND THE WRONG THAT THEY DO SO,TO HAVE A GOOD ENOUGH REASON TO STAY AWAY FROM THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE A HEALTH DANGER TO THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE.

YOU BLACK WOMEN ARE SO,GOT DARN DUMB AND IT DOESN’T MATTER IF YA’LL ARE YOUNG OR OLD….YOU BLACK WOMEN BRAIN READS SO DAMN DYSFUNCTIONAL (in other words you black women don’t know how to teach ya’lls kids right from wrong) AND IT’S MOST LIKELY BECAUSE YA’LL ARE DUMB YOURSELVES.

I WILL NOT EVER SIDE WITH YOU BLACK WOMEN IN SPEAKING ABOUT FAMILY,LOVE,LIFE,HEALTH,POLITICS etc…BECAUSE YA’LL ARE JUST TO DAMN DUMB AND WHAT A PITY IT IS FOR YA’LL TO HAVE BEEN SPECIFICALLY CREATED FOR THESE BLACK MEN.

Lessons Every Mother Should Teach Their Sons

I KNOW THAT THE MOST VERY IMPORTANT LESSON THAT THESE BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TEACH THEIR BLACK SONS AND THAT IS TO STAY AWAY FROM THOSE FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN.

THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL SETTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT.

WE AS BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO COME TOGETHER WITH YOU FILTHY RACIST STUPID TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE HEATHENS BECAUSE ALL THAT YOU WHITE PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO DO TO US AS BLACK PEOPLE IS TRY AND MAKE FOOLS OUT OF US BY TRYING TO TURN US AGAINST EACH OTHER FOR YA’LL….YOU WHITE PEOPLE AND YOU FOREIGN PEOPLE LIKE FOR US BLACK PEOPLE TO GO AROUND HATING ON EACH OTHER.

YOU FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE WOMEN BE TRICKING THESE BLACK MEN INTO GIVING YA’LL THEIR MONEY INSTEAD OF THEM SHARING THEIR MONEY WITH THOSE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WANT TO TRY AND GET RICH OFF OF THIS BLACK MEN WHO HAS MONEY SO,TO KEEP YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

YOU FILTHY FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THESE BLACK MEN TO TREAT YA’LL BETTER AND RESPECT YA’LL BETTER THEN THEY WILL DO THEIR OWN BLACK WOMEN….YOU BIG D!CK LOOKING AROUND FOR DOG SMELLING LYING WHITE WOMEN JUST WANTED TO COME BETWEEN THOSE BLACK MEN AND THEIR BLACK WOMEN SO,TO CAUSE THEM PROBLEMS IN THEIR RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE HAVING THOSE BABIES BY THOSE BLACK MEN AND WAS TRYING TO TRICK THOSE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT THOSE BABIES WERE BLACK BABIES BUT,THEY WEREN’T THEY ARE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” BECAUSE ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK….YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE TRYING TO CHANGE THE ORIGINAL BLACK MAN AND THE ORIGINAL BLACK WOMAN BY TRYING TO CALL YA’LLS MIXED/BIRACIAL BLACK KIDS WHEN ALL OF THE TIME THEY WERE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” AND NOT BLACK.

YOU WHITE WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN JEALOUS OF THESE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE OF THEIR DARK SKIN COMPLEXION (in other words you white women wanted to be those black women but,ya’ll couldn’t so,therefore ya’lls low down and trickish behinds started getting pregnant by those black men to try and make ya’ll some black babies but,ya’ll couldn’t because only black can make black) YA’LLS BABIES ARE WHITE

YOU STUPID LYING WHITE WOMEN WERE ALSO TRYING TO TRICK THESE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT YA’LL WERE NOT ANY GOLD DIGGERS LIKE THOSE BLACK WOMEN WERE BUT,YA’LL ARE GOLD DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN JUST AS WELL AS YA’LL ARE GRAVE DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN.

YOU STUPID FILTHY WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THOSE BLACK MEN TO LEAVE YA’LL MONEY JUST IN CASE THEY HAD HAPPEN TO PASS AWAY SO,THAT YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WON’T EVER GO BROKE.

YOU STUPID RACIST LYING WHITE PEOPLE WILL TRICK THESE BLACK MEN OUT THEIR RICHES/MILLIONS JUST TO KEEP YA’LLS WHITE RACE OF PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

YOU WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOTHING BUT,A BUNCH OF BLACK RACE HATING ON LYING HEATHENS.

Those Filthy White Women Will Give Their Rotted Out Dog Smelling P*ssy To Any Body That Wants It Because It Ain’t No Good.

THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN WILL GIVE THEIR P*SSY TO ANYBODY BECAUSE THEY KNOW THAT IT AIN’T NO GOOD (think) IF THEIR P*SSY WAS ANY GOOD THEN THEY WOULDN’T BE GIVING IT AWAY TO EVERYBODY.THOSE BLACK WOMEN CAN CONDUCT THEMSELVES MUCH BETTER THEN THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN DOGS CAN WHEN IT COMES TO SEX BECAUSE THEY DO NOT GIVE THEMSELVES TO EVERY RACE OF MEN LIKE THOSE FILTHY MANGE DOG SMELLING WHITE WOMEN WILL DO (in other words those white women are animals of some sort of kind) JUST LOOK AT THEIR HAIR AND THEN THINK ABOUT THOSE BUGS THAT THEY SAY WILL GROW IN IT AND THEN THINK ABOUT THE DOG ODOR OF THEIR WET AND SWEATY BODY….THEY ARE OF ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS WHITE

another thing those white people really do love those cats and dogs don’t they? maybe because those cats and dogs are apart of their family tree.

WHITE MAN=WHITE WOMAN
FOREIGN MAN=FOREIGN WOMAN
BLACK MAN=BLACK WOMAN

THOSE BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHERS ONLY FLOCK TOGETHER

I DONT CARE WHO THEY WITH JUST DONT DOWN OUR REAL SISTER WE ARE BETTER THEN THE OTHER WOMEN WE LOVE OUR SELF I AM A GOOD BLACK WOMAN AND I KNOW THAT JUST BEING HURT A FEW TIME BY MEN THAT DONT LOVE THERE SELF IF A MANLOVE HIS MOTHER THEN HE WILL LOVE HIS WIFE AND RESPECT HER IN EVERYWAY SOME WOMAN PUT THERE SELF ON FRONT PAGE SHOWING THERE BODY LAYING DOWN WITH MEN FOR MONEY GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU I KNOW I AM BLESS HAVE A GOOD DAY.

most of the white women i see black men with are mostly 90% of them are from the lower class both in education and looks…in true essence most white women from a somewhat better class would not go with a black man unless he got money.. black men tend to pick up trailer park trash or worst…but like if was once said he suffers from attention.so he feels the need to get it through that thing he should had left in that trailer park

Swampthing49 I date white women and i have to say your right. It’s still fun :)

You know its funny what ‘swampthing49′ said about most brothers he see are with white women thats from the lower class whether it be education or looks. Well to be honest ‘swampthing’ you have it backwards. I’ve had plenty of good looking white women and bachelors and masters degrees. Its actually the good looking black women that wont give the average brother the time of day unless he has power or money. and every black guy knows i’m not lying. Most white women seem to appreciate the beauty and swagger of a black man. alot of them dont care if you have alot of money or not. But a good looking black woman who’s used to seeing black men wants more than just looks. They want a man thats balling as well. I can give you a example. None of those black models on the flavor of love would’ve gave flav the time of day had he just been a brother from the hood. but here it is they fighting and crying over this dude?!!!! black women just reinforced the stereotype that alot of people already have about them. In closing, whats really sad is that now i’m starting to see alot of things that black women do starting to rub off on the white women. looks like i’m going to have to start dating another race that hasnt been heavily intergrated with the typical black woman.

White Writer Has “I Got The Fever” Book On Interracial Dating

I WOULD RATHER HAVE A ROACH INSIDE MY APARTMENT THEN HAVING A WHITE MAN OR A FOREIGN MAN LAYING IN MY BED UP UNDER MY BLANKET.

THIS IS TO YOU BLACK MEN SPECIFICALLY~THOSE WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE BLACK GIRLS/WOMEN DON’T CARRY.

THAT IS HOW ALL OF THOSE MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE GETTING PASSED THROUGHOUT THOSE BLACK COMMUNITIES.

FROM THE LOOKS OF THEIR HAIR WITH THOSE BUGS THAT GROW INSIDE OF IT,THE ODOR OF THEIR DOG SMELLING BODY AND THOSE DISEASES LIKE HIV/AIDS,LYME,SWINE,LARYNGITIS,MENINGITIS,SYPHILIS etc…THAT RIGHT THERE SHOULD TELL YOU BLACK PEOPLE THAT THEY ARE OF SOME KIND OF HUMAN ANIMAL.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG

THOSE DOGS AND CATS ARE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ANCESTORS (meaning that those white people and those foreign people are born half dog and half human).

Are Segregated Classrooms Better For Black Student Performance?

I TRULY BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE BECAUSE THEN THOSE BLACK CHILDREN CAN BETTER FOCUS ON WHAT THEY ARE TRYING TO DO THAT IS SUPPOSE TO BE DONE RATHER THEN HAVING TO LOOK AROUND THE CLASS ROOM AT THOSE IGNORANT BEING TAUGHT TO BE RACIST STUPID WHITE KIDS THAT MAMMIES AND PAPPIES HAVE TOLD THEM BY LYING TO THEM THAT THEY ARE MUCH SMARTER THEN THOSE BLACK KIDS (thats called teaching your kids to lie and be racist).

Study Shows Mixed Women Are Seen As Most Attractive

DON’T BELIEVE THAT BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE JUST AS FILTHY AND DOG SMELLING AS THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE….THOSE MIXED WOMEN ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN JUST LIKE THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE FOREIGN WOMEN ARE.

Should Only Dark-Skinned People Be Considered “Black”?

ALL BLACK PEOPLE SHOULD BE CONSIDERED BLACK REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEIR SKIN COMPLEXION IS JUST AS LONG AS THEY HAVE A BLACK MOTHER AND A BLACK FATHER….THOSE MIXED PEOPLE ARE TRULY NOT CONSIDERED BLACK PEOPLE (in other words ) MS.O’BRIEN IS NOT CONSIDERED A BLACK WOMEN SHE IS ANOTHER RACE OF WOMAN WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” MEANING DIRTY (in other words she is mixed or biracial) BUT,NOT EVER A BLACK WOMAN.

Top 6 “The Black Guy Did It” Excuses By White Criminals

IS THAT FILTHY WHITE HOE LYING ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN TO HER FACE WHEN SHE SAY THAT ACID HAD BEEN THROWN ON IT? OR IS SHE REALLY HAVING SOME KIND OF OUTBREAK OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY ALL CARRY AS BEING WHITE PEOPLE AND FOREIGN PEOPLE? I BELIEVE THAT THIS FILTHY WHITE HOE IS HAVING SOME KIND OF OUTBREAK OF THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY AND THEN TRY AND SPREAD/PASS AROUND TO OTHERS.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE CONTAGIOUS AND INFECTIOUS AND YOU BLACK PEOPLE REALLY DO NEED TO STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM….THEY ARE ANIMALS

Death Rate For NJ Black Babies In First Year Twice As High As Whites

DON’T LISTEN TO THAT BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AFRAID OF GOING BROKE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE BE KILLING THEIR LIVE BORN KIDS WAY BORN THEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE BE GETTING THOSE ABORTIONS (those mentally disturbed white people be killing their living kids for the life insurance policy/money) SO,THEREFORE DON’T LET THEM BOTHER WITH YA’LLS HEAD.

CHECK THIS OUT THOUGH

LQQK

Pardon Me, But Can A Black Man Protect His Family?

YEAH OF COURSE A BLACK MAN CAN PROTECT HIS FAMILY JUST READ THIS SO,TO GET THE RIGHTEOUS HELP THAT YOU POSSIBLY NEED.

2 Men Accused Of Hate Crime For Beating White Teen For ?Enslaving Our People?

It was flat out wrong for them to do what they did. Two wrongs don?t make a right. It wasn?t like the boy did something to them to provoke this. It?s a damn shame that two dumb asses go out there and attack someone for no damn reason. You want to whip somebody?s %#&@$! go out there and jump on the KKK. Try beating the hell out of one them. Dumb asses like them make it harder on the real black people out there trying to make it. I hope they throw them under the jail and that they get the hell beat out of them while they?re in there. As a matter of fact I think that a group of black people should go inside the jail and beat the hell out of them for making us look bad.

SHAME ON YOU BLACK MAN FOR SAYING THAT ABOUT THOSE TWO SPECIAL BLACK BOYS LIKE THAT….ZIP IT UP

DAMN THEY F*CKED THAT YOUNG STUPID RACIST WHITE PIECE OF SH!T UP DIDN’T THEY BLACK PEOPLE?

THOSE ARE TWO BLACK ANGELS THAT WAS F*CKING UP A STUPID WICKED RACIST WHITE DEVIL AND GOD AND I BOTH KNOW THAT IT IS TRUE.

YOU WHITE PEOPLE THINK THAT YA’LLS WHITE KIDS ARE SPECIAL RIGHT? WELL GUESS WHAT WE KNOW THAT OUR BLACK KIDS ARE MORE SPECIALER.

WHERE MY BLACK PEOPLE AT?

YOU BLACK PEOPLE AIN’T STUPID ENOUGH TO BE RACIST LIKE THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE.

ALL OF THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE SAME AS BEING RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE RATHER IF THEY ARE THE KKK,OR EVEN RECEIVING A BLACK MANS D!CK INSIDE OF THEIR MOUTH FOR THEM TO PISS IN OR EVEN IF THEY ARE A WHITE MAN PRESIDENT.

THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE WILL RAISE THEIR WHITE KIDS AS CHILDREN TO BE RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

THEY WOULD LOVE FOR THEIR WHITE KIDS TO HIT ON OUR BLACK KIDS OR EITHER BEAT DOWN ON OUR BLACK KIDS BUT,WHEN OUR BLACK KIDS START KICKING THOSE STUPID WHITE KIDS BEHINDS THEIR WHITE MAMMIES AND THEIR WHITE PAPPIES CAN NOT HANDLE IT.

CNN Asks:?Are White People Racially Oppressed?

THATS WHAT YOU CALL BRINGING DOWN WHITEY.

THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE DOGS ARE NOT YOU BLACK PEOPLE SUPERIORS.

THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE HAD YOU BLACK PEOPLE THINKING THAT THEY WERE THE MASTERS OF THE GOT DARN UNIVERSE WHEN ALL THAT THEY WERE WAS SOME BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED IGNORANT RACIST WHITE DUMMIES.

THOSE IGNORANT BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WHITE PEOPLE HAD TRIED TO TELL THE WHOLE WIDE THAT THEY WERE THE MOST INTELLIGENT ONES BECAUSE THEY WENT TO COLLEGE BUT,THEY WASN’T BECAUSE THEY ARE THE MOST STUPIDEST PEOPLE THAT WALKS THE FACE OF THIS PLANET EARTH BECAUSE THEY ALL ARE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AND RAISED TO BE RACIST.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DON’T WANT FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO EVER ACTUALLY COME OUT TO BEING WAY MORE SMARTER THEN THEY ARE AFTER THEM TAKING THEIR STUPID DON’T KNOW NOTHING BAD AT COMPREHENSION RACIST WHITE BEHINDS TO COLLEGE.

LISTEN UP SCHOOL AND COLLEGE AIN’T FOR ALL BLACK PEOPLE OR OTHER WISE WE COULDN’T MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD.

THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE PEOPLE HAD THE GOT DARN NERVE TO BE TRYING TO JUDGE YOU BLACK PEOPLE IN THIS BLACK PLANET WEBSITE NEWS ROOM THAT BELONGS TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE LIKE THEY WERE GOD OR JESUS BUT,THEY ARE NOT….THEY ARE DEVILS.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE SOME BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED BACKWARDS THINKING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING STUPID RACIST LYING IGNORANT DEVILS THAT WANT TO CONTROL THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD OF PEOPLE.

WHEN THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE ARE IN THE WRONG DON’T BE AFRAID TO LET THEM KNOW THAT BY SPEAKING UP AND TELLING THEM THAT THEY ARE WRONG BECAUSE THEY DO NOT OWN OR CONTROL YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

THOSE IGNORANT WHITE DUMB DEVILS BE BUILDING THOSE MENTAL HEALTH HOSPITALS AND MENTAL HEALTH CLINICS SO THAT THEY CAN HELP EACH OTHER WHEN THEY FALL INTO SOME KIND OF MENTAL ILLNESS FROM THEM BEING BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED.

WHEN YOU BLACK MEN BE DATING THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN YA’LL WERE HAVING THOSE OTHER BLACK PEOPLE THINKING THAT YA’LL HAD SOMETHING GOOD BUT,YA’LL DIDN’T HAVE ANYTHING BUT,A PIECE OF EVIL AND WICKED FILTHY FLEA BITTEN MANGE AND PARASITE CARRYING WHITE DOG.

YOU IGNORANT BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED RACIST WHITE PEOPLE DO NOT OWN US BLACK PEOPLE OR ANY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE SO,THEREFORE YA’LL REALLY NEED TO CALM YA’LLS IGNORANT RACIST STUPID WHITE BEHINDS THE HELL DOWN?.YOU BUNCH OF LOW DOWN AND DIRTY WHITE RACIST DEVILS

WE AS BEING BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT BOTHER WITH YA’LL IN THE WRONG WAY SO,THEREFORE WE DO NOT EXPECT FOR YA’LLS IGNORANT TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WANT TO TRY AND TAKE CONTROL OVER EVERYBODY WHITE RACIST BEHINDS TO BOTHER WITH US IN THE GOT DARN WRONG WAY EITHER?.IF YOU WHITE PEOPLE FEEL LIKE HURTING SOMEBODY THEN TAKE YA’LLS MENTALLY DISTURBED BEHINDS SOMEWHERE AND JUST HURT EACH OTHER.

I HAD ALWAYS WONDERED WHY WOULD A BUNCH OF IGNORANT BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WICKED LYING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE DUMMIES THINK THAT THEY CAN TAKE CONTROL OVER THE WHOLE ENTIRE HUMAN RACE OF PEOPLE? THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE ARE DEFINITELY BORN WITH THOSE MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF MENTAL DISORDERS.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE WILL SAY THOSE SLAVERY DAYS BUT,I WILL SAY THOSE SEGREGATION DAYS?.ANYWAY THEY WILL JUST HANG US FROM THOSE TREES BY OUR NECK SO,THAT WE CAN STRANGLE TO GOT DARN DEATH RIGHT? WELL AS I CAN REMEMBER FROM THOSE RACIST WHITE SEGREGATION DAYS ARE TO HANG THEIR WHITE FILTHY BEHINDS BY THEIR BOOTY HOLE ON THOSE GOT DARN TREES BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES THAT HAD BROUGHT THAT HIV/AIDS DISEASE HERE AND STARTED SPREADING IT AROUND TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE LIKE THOSE FILTHY WHITE SON OF A DIRTY DOGS THAT THEY TRULY ARE?.PAYBACK IS A MF AIN?T IT?

ISSAC HAYES
RICHARD PRYOR
RICK JAMES
JOHNNIE COCHRAN
HAROLD WASHINGTON
MALCOLM X
DR.MARTIN LUTHER KING JR.
CORETTA SCOTT KING
RODNEY KING
OSCAR GRANT
DJ HENRY
TUPAC SHAKUR
MICHAEL JACKSON (this is it)
SEAN BELL AND WHO KNOWS WHO THE HELL ELSE etc..

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL TRY AND GET RID OF YOU BLACK MEN LEADERS AND SPEAKERS BECAUSE THEY WILL TEND TO STAND VERY STRONG FOR THEIR OWN BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE PEOPLE OR THOSE IGNORANT RACIST FOREIGN PEOPLE….THOSE IGNORANT WHITE PEOPLE ARE VERY RACIST AND WICKED TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE….DO NOT BE FOOLED BY THE DEVIL OR RATHER DO NOT WALK IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF STUPIDITY AND IGNORANCE.

THOSE STUPID RACIST BACKWARDS THINKING WHITE PEOPLE BE TRYING TO TELL OTHER PEOPLE HOW TO STAY IN CONTROL OF THINGS WHEN IT COMES TO THIS MOTHER F*CKING COUNTRY BUT,THEIR IGNORANT WHITE DON?T KNOW SH!T BEHINDS BE THE MAIN GOT DARN ONES OUT OF CONTROL BECAUSE THEY LOVE GOING AROUND BOTHERING WITH EVERY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE IN THE WRONG GOT DARN WAY JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE WHITE PEOPLE AND GRADUATED FROM COLLEGE FROM LEARNING THE LOW DOWN DIRT THAT THOSE COLLEGE TEXT BOOKS TAUGHT THEM?.

HAVE YALL EVERY WONDERED WHO PRINTED THOSE TEXT BOOKS FOR THOSE WHITE PEOPLE THAT THEY BE READING IN COLLEGE FROM BECAUSE IT HAS THESE WHITE PEOPLE HEAD ALL F*CKED UP AND SCREWED UP BY BEING BACKWARDS WHEN THEY TRY AND THINK (the wicked white devil must have something to do with printing them).

THOSE COLLEGE TEXT BOOKS HAVE THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE PEOPLE VERY BAD AT COMPREHENSION BECAUSE THEY DON?T UNDERSTAND SH!T WHEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE BE TRYING TO TELL THEM SOMETHING THAT IS RIGHT.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WILL DO WAY MORE WRONG THEN ANY OTHER HUMAN RACE OF PEOPLE BUT,THEY HAVE THE MOTHER F*CKING GOT DAMN NERVE TO TRY AND CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE BY TRYING TO TELL THEM WHAT THE HELL TO DO WHEN THEY KNOW THAT IT IS WRONG FOR YA?LL TO DO IT OR RATHER HOW THE HELL YA?LL SHOULD LIVE YA’LLS LIFE AND THEY DON?T EVER DO SH!T RIGHT THEMSELVES.

THOSE RACIST WHITE PEOPLE ARE SOME BACKWARDS THINKING STUPID WHITE DUMMIES AND BECAUSE OF IT SHOULDN’T ANY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE HAVE TO LISTEN TO THEM BECAUSE THEY LIE A LOT AND THEY ARE TROUBLE MAKERS AND PROBLEM CAUSERS AND FULL OF JEALOUSY AND HATRED TOWARDS THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE.

BESIDES HOW IN THE HELL ARE A BUNCH OF RACIST WHITE TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING BACKWARDS THINKING WHITE DEVILS GOING TO HAVE THE GOT DAMN RIGHT TO TELL ANY BODY ELSE WHAT TO DO WHEN ALL THAT THEY EVER DO IS WRONG….THEY ARE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED SO,THEREFORE THEY CAN NOT THINK RIGHT FOR THE REASON OF THEM TURNING OUT TO BE WRONG ALL OF THE TIME.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE HAVE MANY KIND OF MENTAL PROBLEMS/DISORDERS SO,THEREFORE THEY SHOULD NOT BE IN CONTROL OF ANYTHING OR RATHER ANYBODY BUT,THEIR OWN SELVES EVEN THOUGH THEY LIKE TO COMMIT SUICIDE….SH!T,IT’S MUCH BETTER FOR THEM TO KILL THEMSELVES THEN FOR THEM TO KEEP ON TRYING TO KILL UP THESE AMERICAN BLACK PEOPLE….MEANING IF THEY WANT TO KILL SOMEBODY THEN LET THEM CONTINUE TO KILL UP EACH OTHER AND KILL THEMSELVES BY COMMITTING SUICIDE….THEY ARE ALL BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED ANYWAY.

YOU BLACK PEOPLE DIDN’T KNOW THAT THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WERE THAT,IGNORANT,WICKED AND EVIL DID YA’LL? THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE WORSE DEVILS THAT ?SATAN? CREATED THAT ARE LIVING ON THIS PLANET EARTH OF GOD?S BECAUSE FOR ONE THEY WILL KILL/MURDER AND LIE ON INNOCENT KIDS/PEOPLE WAY MORE THEN ANY OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WILL DO RATHER THEN KILLING THOSE ANIMALS LIKE GOD DID.

THESE RACIST BACKWARDS THINKING WICKED LYING WHITE PEOPLE DON?T EVER WANT FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO HAVE A BLACK LEADER/ACTIVIST OR SPEAKER IN LIFE BECAUSE THEY WANT TO ALWAYS BE ABLE TO CONTINUE TO STEER YA’LL OR RATHER LEAD YA’LL IN THE WRONG DIRECTION OF LIFE OR RATHER LEAD YA’LL TO A DEAD END….THEY WANT TO ALWAYS BE ABLE TO CONTROL YOU BLACK PEOPLE AND TELL YA’LL WHAT TO DO LIKE THEY WERE DOING YA’LL BACK IN THOSE RACIST AND WICKED SEGREGATION DAYS….THEY ARE SOME RACIST WICKED DEVILS BLACK PEOPLE.

TO WISH DEATH ON A LOW DOWN AND DIRTY WICKED DEVIL IS NOT A SIN BUT,BEING IGNORANT IS.

ALL OF THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE THE SAME AS BEING RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE RATHER IF THEY ARE THE KKK,OR RECEIVING A BLACK MANS D!CK INSIDE OF THEIR MOUTH TO PISS IN OR EVEN IF THEY ARE A WHITE MAN PRESIDENT.

THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE WILL RAISE THEIR WHITE KIDS AS CHILDREN TO BE RACIST TOWARDS YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

THEY WOULD LOVE FOR THEIR WHITE KIDS TO HIT ON OUR BLACK KIDS OR EITHER BEAT DOWN ON OUR BLACK KIDS BUT,WHEN OUR BLACK KIDS START KICKING THEIR STUPID WHITE KIDS BEHINDS THEIR WHITE MAMMIES AND THEIR WHITE PAPPIES CAN NOT HANDLE IT.

SH!T F*CK THOSE STUPID WICKED RACIST WHITE DEVILS UP IF YA’LL HAVE TO.

CRAIG MCIVER IS MY BLACK MAN B!TCH

THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE BE TRYING TO TELL US TO TELL OUR BLACK SONS TO PULL THEIR PANTS UP BUT,I TRULY DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THEIR PANTS BEING WORE BELOW THE BELT BUT,I DO HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE FLEA BITTEN MENINGITIS,HERPES,SYPHILIS,LARYNGITIS,HIV/AIDS AND PARASITE CARRYING AND PASSING FILTHY WHITE DAUGHTERS WHEN THEY WILL SOLICIT OUR BLACK SONS INTO TRYING TO PULL THEIR PANTS ALL THE WAY DOWN SO,TO TRY TO GET EM’ IN THE BED WITH THEM.

SOLICITATION IS ANOTHER FORM OR PROSTITUTION.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN/GIRLS ARE CONSIDERED AS HOES AND PROSTITUTES TO OUR BLACK MEN RACE OF PEOPLE.

THOSE BOTH ARE CONSIDERED AS SEXUAL ACTS OF CRIME.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DAUGHTERS BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH ANY/MANY KIND OF D!CKS AND REGARDLESS OF WHAT COLOR THEY ARE JUST AS LONG AS THEY CAN PUT IT IN THEIR BLISTERY MOUTH,WORMY DOG BOOTY AND DOG SMELLING VAG!NA….YOU BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO TEACH YA’LLS DAUGHTERS NOT TO FOLLOW UP BEHIND THOSE STUPID FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS THAT WILL SLEEP AROUND WITH ANYBODY OR RATHER ANYTHING WITH A D!CK SO,TO BE RAMMED AND BANGED UP HARD IN THEIR CONTAMINATED AND INFECTIOUS BLOODY BODY HOLES.

THIS IS TO YOU BLACK MEN SPECIFICALLY~THOSE WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE BLACK GIRLS/WOMEN DON’T CARRY.

Wow! In my opinion people this generation has some inter-racial issues. First of all, if you see people as equal than why are you labeling them a color. Secondly, their is nothing wonderful about a white person. They are not Jesus Christ, they are people! Thirdly, inter-racist relationships are common amongst the American culture… I came from a inter-racist family and I can state from experience, these people are prejudice against black people. Very prejudice! White woman don’t educate their mix children about their ‘black culture’, and most of them have that superiority attitude. For example, my white friend felt she had the right to say the ‘n-word; cause she dates black men. Also, she admitted that not all black men are big downstairs, she believes she owns them, and they need her cause most of them are poor…

ok! them racist people, white, black, orange, who cares, Can we all just get over the race issue EVER!!!!?????? get with whoever loves and cares about you… Stop thinking your race is better. Martin L King taught better knowledge than what I see hear… If you would stop judging others you would know what paradise feels like. All black men don’t date white women and not all are attracted to white women… Stop with the media isssh and live a life. The media talk about the same isssh every year instead of whats really going on: war, crime, how to retire rich, education.. Now is there any race in a 100 green dollar bill… Not get some you racist bastards and heifers…

I ALWAYS WONDERED WHY GOD WAS SPELLED BACKWARDS FROM DOG.

THE REASON WHY IS BECAUSE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN AND THEY TRULY DON’T AGREE WITH ANY OF GOD’S BELIEFS LIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO.

THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE ARE TRULY YOU BLACK PEOPLE ENEMIES.

ABOUT THE WORST KIND OF BLACK WOMEN THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN BECOME INVOLVED WITH ARE THOSE SO,CALLED EDUCATED BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE THEY ARE DUMB AS HELL AND ALL THAT THEY ARE GOING TO DO IS HOLD YA’LL DOWN.

ABOUT THE MOST WORST FILTHIEST AND STUPIDEST WOMEN THAT YOU BLACK MEN CAN BECOME INVOLVED WITH ARE THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN BECAUSE THEY ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN AND THEY ARE FULL OF THOSE MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN DON’T CARRY SO,THEREFORE THEY ARE THE ONES WITH THE CONTAMINATED BLOOD CELLS THAT GOD HAD MENTIONED IN THE BIBLE WHEN HE SAID DO NOT ACCEPT ANY BLOOD TRANSFUSION BECAUSE THE BLOOD IS CONTAMINATED WHICH IS ABOUT THE SAME AS LAYING UP WITH THOSE CONTAGIOUS MF.

AT THAT WEBSITE CALLED “BLACK PEOPLE MEET” ARE THERE ANY WHITE PEOPLE ON THAT ONE TO?

WHY DO THOSE WHITE PEOPLE BE FOLLOWING UP BEHIND YOU BLACK PEOPLE EVERYWHERE THAT YA’LL GO? IS IT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO PASS YA’LL THOSE DOG DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY OR RATHER HAVE

ALL OF THESE WOMEN ARE BORN DUMMIES FOR THE REASON OF THEM COMPLAINING SO MUCH.

THOSE IGNORANT RACIST WHITE MF WILL LIE TO US ABOUT MOST EVERYTHING JUST SO,THAT WE WON’T BE MOVING TO FAR UP IN THE WORLD SO,THE BEST THING FOR US TO DO IS TO START THINKING ON OUR OWN SO,TO BE ABLE TO GET AHEAD IN LIFE….THOSE STUPID RACIST LYING WHITE PEOPLE WILL COME AROUND US AS IF THEY REALLY DO CARE ABOUT WHAT WE ARE GOING THROUGH IN LIFE BUT,THEY DON’T CARE ABOUT US BECAUSE IF THEY DID THEN WE WOULDN’T BE IN THIS SITUATION IN THE FIRST PLACE.

USFG

WHY DO THOSE PARASITE CARRYING AND FLEA BITTEN DOGS CONTINUE TO KEEP ON FOLLOWING US AROUND AND TRYING TO GET US TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THEM IN OUR BED UP UNDER OUR BLANKET?

GET THAT BUG OFF OF YOUR PILLOW (i tried to tell you not to let those flea bitten dogs in your house).

YA’LL BETTER LEAVE THOSE VICIOUS MANGE SMELLING DOGS ALONE BEFORE THEY BITE YA’LL AND GIVE YA’LL THE RABIES.

I STILL CAN NOT UNDERSTAND HOW YOU BLACK MEN DIDN’T KNOW THAT YA’LL WERE SLEEPING AROUND WITH HUMAN DOGS THOUGH? DIDN’T YA’LL EVEN TAKE A VERY GOOD LOOK AT THEIR HAIR OR RATHER SMELL THE FOUL ODOR OF THEIR BODY….SHAME ON YOU BLACK MEN FOR SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE HALF HUMAN FLEA BITTEN DOGS.

I CAN SOMETIMES JUST IMAGINE WHAT THE HALF HUMAN DOGS MUST SMELL LIKE GIVING BIRTH WHILE THEIR LEGS ARE WIDE THE HELL OPEN? IT MUST BE (foul foul stinky stinky funky funky).

THE ONE THING THAT I HAVE NOTICED ABOUT THOSE STUPID AZZ FILTHY BUGS IN THEIR HAIR PARASITE CARRYING AND FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN IS THAT THEY WILL COME AROUND US LIKE WE REALLY WANT TO BE BOTHERED WITH THEM.

ANOTHER THING THAT I HAVE NOTICED ABOUT THOSE INFECTIOUS BOOTY HOLE HIV/AIDS CARRYING WHITE DOGS IS THAT WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THEM LIKE THOSE MICRO WORM AND RABIES CARRYING MANGE ANIMALS THAT THEY ARE THEY STILL BE SITTING THERE OR STANDING THERE LIKE THOSE STUPID BAD AT COMPREHENSION BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WHITE DUMMIES THAT THEY ARE AS IF THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE.

I WONDER WILL THEY UNDERSTAND THIS

GET
OUT!

WHY DO THOSE SKUNK SMELLING WHITE WOMEN LIKE TO PLAY IN THE MUD BY DOING THAT WRESTLING? IS IT BECAUSE OF THAT ANIMAL INSIDE OF THEM? I AM TALKING ABOUT THAT PIG

THOSE WHITE WOMEN HAVE THAT PINK PIG SKIN

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE REALLY DO LOVE THOSE DOGS AND CATS.

Michael Vicks

Really, who cares about this. Why are people always concerned about who OTHER people are dating. Maybe if people worried about their self instead of always being in other people’s business all the time they wouldn’t be so worked up. People can date who ever the hell they want so get please off this crap already. Really, its played out and corny. There are too many good people in this world to limit yourself to one race. If two people like each other then they should be able to date with out all the criticism about staying inside your race. I bet some of the people who were criticizing that judge in Mississippi for refusing to grant a marriage license to an interracial couple, but turn right back around and criticize black men dating white women.

But while I’m on the subject, why is there alway big fuss about black men dating white women? How come there is hardly any talk or uproar when black women date White men? Personally I don’t care one way or another who someone dates because is NONE OF MY BUSINESS. But for all the people (mostly black women in my experience) criticizing black men for dating white women or outside their race in general, how about looking in the mirror and see what how many black women date white men.

Moral of the story; MIND YOUR BUSINESS.

MORAL OF THE STORY WHEN IT COMES TO YOU IS MIND YOUR BUSINESS WITH YOUR FAMILY BLACK MAN BEFORE YOU DON’T HAVE ANY.WE TALK MOTE ABOUT YOU BLACK MEN THAT DATE THOSE FILTHY WHITE WOMEN BECAUSE YA’LL ARE THE MAIN ONES THAT BE BRINGING THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE OTHER RACE OF DOGS CARRY TO THOSE BLACK PEOPLE NEIGHBORHOODS….THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE FILTHY AND THEY DON’T KNOW HOW TO HAVE SAFE SEX WITH YOU BLACK MEN BUT,IF YOU ARE A BLACK MAN THAT IS MARRIED TO A FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMAN THEN YOU CAN KISS OUR SWEET BLACK ROYAL AZZES YOU LOW LIFE FILTHY WANTING TO CONTAMINATED THOSE BLACK COMMUNITIES/NEIGHBORHOODS WITH THAT WHITE DOG SH!T THAT YOU CARRY….YOU ARE DEFINITELY ONE OF THOSE BLACK MEN THAT CAN NOT BE TRUSTED BY THE RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU WILL TRY AND TAKE THEM DOWN FOR THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE MEN….YOU SHOULD HAVE JUST MINDED YOUR OWN GOT DARN FAMILY BUSINESS BLACK MAN AND LET ME DO MY JOB AS THE FEDERAL LAW.

IN ORDER FOR A PERSON TO BE INTELLIGENT THEN THEY WOULD HAVE TO DEFINITELY KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHATS RIGHT AND WHATS WRONG AND IF THEY DON’T THEN THAT ONLY MEANS THAT THEY ARE EITHER DUMB OR STUPID WHICH TRULY MAKES THEM IGNORANT.

AT THAT WEBSITE CALLED “BLACK PEOPLE MEET” ARE THERE ANY WHITE PEOPLE OR ANY FOREIGN PEOPLE ON THAT ONE TO?

WHY DO THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE BE FOLLOWING UP BEHIND YOU BLACK PEOPLE EVERYWHERE THAT YA’LL GO? IS IT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO TRY AND PASS YA’LL THOSE DOG DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY OR RATHER HAVE

THOSE STUPID SICK IN THE HEAD CRAZY PSYCHOTIC BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED LUNACY WHITE PEOPLE SHOULD BE TREATED JUST LIKE THOSE MENTALLY DISORDERED FOOLISH ANIMALS THAT THEY ARE.

ONE THING THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE REALLY NEED TO TRY AND UNDERSTAND IS THAT WHEN YA’LL ARE DEALING WITH THOSE RACIST WHITE PEOPLE YA’LL ARE ACTUALLY DEALING WITH SOME STRAIGHT UP DUMMIES (sh!t all of those white people are racist to me and regardless if you black men are pissing inside of those white women mouth,in other words they still can not be trusted).

I STILL CAN NOT UNDERSTAND HOW YOU BLACK MEN DIDN’T KNOW THAT YA’LL WERE SLEEPING AROUND WITH HUMAN DOGS THOUGH? DIDN’T YA’LL EVEN TAKE A VERY GOOD LOOK AT THEIR HAIR OR RATHER SMELL THE FOUL ODOR OF THEIR BODY….SHAME ON YOU BLACK MEN FOR SLEEPING AROUND WITH THOSE HALF HUMAN FLEA BITTEN DOGS.

WHY DO THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BE TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THEM OR RATHER TRY AND ENCOURAGE YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THEM? IS IT BECAUSE THEY ARE BORN HALF DOG/ANIMAL AND CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE DON’T CARRY.

THEY BE SAYING COME ON TRY IT

DON’T SLEEP AROUND WITH THOSE FILTHY DOGS OR OTHER WISE THEY ARE GOING TO PASS YA’LL THE HUMAN DOG RABIES.

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THE HELL WITH YOU TROUBLE PROBLEM CAUSING MAKING STUPID LYING AZZ WHITE PEOPLE AND YOU TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING STUPID LYING AZZ FOREIGN PEOPLE (in other words kiss our sweet black royal azzes).

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F*ckn retards at all these comments. lol. people have no clue.

YOU STUPID AZZ WHITE FLEA BITTEN B!TCH WE DON’T NEED NO MOTHER F*CKING CLUE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU.

KISS OUR SWEET BLACK ROYAL AZZES YOU FILTHY WHITE HOE AND GET OFF OF HERE TRYING TO LOOK AROUND FOR THESE BLACK MEN TO PASS THOSE DOG INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES TO THAT YOU CARRY.

YOU BLACK MEN NEED NOT TO DATE THOSE TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING LYING WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING LYING FOREIGN WOMEN BUT,DO BE CAREFUL OF WHAT TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING LYING BLACK WOMEN THAT YA’LL DECIDE TO DATE ALSO BECAUSE ALL OF THESE WOMEN….WHITE,BLACK,MIXED AND FOREIGN ARE YOU BLACK MEN ENEMY JUST LIKE THEY ARE MINE FOR THE REASON OF THEM WANTING TO TAKE CONTROL OF YA’LLS MIND AND ME REFUSING THEM TO (in other words do not allow for a dummy to tell you wrong when you know it’s right).

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IF ANY OF YOU BLACK MEN EVER SEE ANOTHER BLACK MAN SLEEPING AROUND WITH A WHITE WOMAN OR A FOREIGN WOMAN IT’S MOST LIKELY BECAUSE HE PROBABLY HAVEN’T FOUND OUT THAT HE IS SLEEPING AROUND WITH AN INFECTIOUS PARASITE CARRYING AND PASSING WOMEN THATS BORN HALF HUMAN AND HALF DOG.

THE FAMILY OF DOGS AND CATS.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE WOULD LIKE TO OWN YOU BLACK PEOPLE LIKE THEY OWN THEIR DOGS AND THEIR CATS AS IF YA’LL DON’T HAVE A THINKING BRAIN OF YA’LLS OWN.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOT ONLY BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED AND HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN THEY ARE ALSO BORN SOME STUPID WHITE DUMMIES THAT DOESN’T HAVE A GOOD SENSE OF DIRECTION IN LIFE.

HOW IN THE HELL CAN A BUNCH OF BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED WHITE DUMMIES TELL ANOTHER GROUP OF PEOPLE WHICH DIRECTION TO GO IN WHEN THEY DON’T HAVE ANY DIRECTION IN LIFE THEMSELVES? THEY CAN’T BECAUSE THE ONLY THING THAT THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE WILL DO IS LEAD YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO A DEAD END BECAUSE THEY DO NOT EVER WANT TO SEE YOU BLACK PEOPLE DOING BETTER THEN THEM WHILE LIVING IN AMERICA.

KISS OUR SWEET BLACK ROYAL BEHIND YOU FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN PIECES OF INFECTIOUS SWINE OR SHALL I SAY PIECES OF SH!T? YOU WHITE WOMEN AND YOU FOREIGN WOMEN ARE BORN HALF DOG AND HALF HUMAN FOR THE REASON OF THOSE BUGS GROWING IN YA’LLS HAIR (lice/ticks/fleas) AND FOR THE REASON OF YA’LL HAVING THAT DOG ODOR TO YA’LLS NO GOOD BODY AND FOR THE REASON OF YA’LL HAVING SO MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF VIRUSES AND DISEASES.

HOW CAN’T YOU BLACK MEN SMELL SH!T WHEN YA’LL BE LICKING ON,HAVING SEX WITH AND TOUCHING ON THOSE OTHER RACE OF WOMEN? YOU BLACK MEN AUGHT TO BE ASHAME OF YOURSELVES FOR EVEN ALLOWING FOR THOSE HEAD BUGS CARRYING ANIMALS TO GET IN THE SAME BED WITH YA’LL….STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THOSE BLACK MEN YOU INFECTIOUS PARASITE AND HIV/AIDS BOOTY HOLE WHITE AND FOREIGN DOGS BECAUSE THOSE BLACK MEN BELONG TO THOSE BLACK WOMEN….QUITE PASSING YA’LLS INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES IN THOSE BLACK PEOPLE NEIGHBORHOODS.

WHY DO THOSE WHITE PEOPLE BE EATING THEIR STEAK RARE OR EITHER MEDIUM RARE? IS IT THAT FILTHY FLEA BITTEN ANIMAL THAT RESIDES WITHIN THEM

GO FIND YOUR FAMILY TREE OF DOGS,ALIENS AND CATS SO,THAT YOU MAY CAN FIND YOUR LONG LOST UNCLE OR AUNTIES OR SOMEBODY.

NO WONDER WHY YOU WHITE WOMEN BE GIVING BIRTH TO THOSE BABIES THAT LOOK OF ALIENS THAT ARE CALLED THE DOWN SYNDROME KIDS….YOU WHITE PEOPLE ARE OF ANIMALS AND ALIENS

YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT EVER BE GOING AROUND THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE BECAUSE YA’LL ARE NOT TROUBLE MAKERS OR PROBLEM CAUSERS TO THEM BUT,EVERYWHERE THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE THEN HERE COMES THOSE FILTHY WHITE INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE DOGS TO SOLICIT YOU BLACK MEN SO,TO TRY AND PASS YA’LL THOSE CONTAGIOUS DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY AS BEING THOSE FILTHY WHITE DOGS THAT THEY ARE.

THOSE DOGS AND THOSE CATS ARE THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE ANCESTORS.

Michael Vicks

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7 Reasons Why Marriage IS Beneficial To Men

ONE OF THEM SHOULD BE BECAUSE OF ALL OF THOSE SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED AND PHYSICAL DISEASES THAT ARE OUT THERE THAT YA’LL CAN CATCH FROM THOSE INFECTIOUS DOGS.

LAZ ALONZO IS DEFINITELY MARRIED TO A INFECTIOUS PIECE OF SH!T.

Half Of U.S. Men Affected By HPV [Study]

IF THAT IS TRUE THEY PROBABLY HAVE IT BECAUSE OF THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING UNHEALTHY NO GOOD BODY TRIFLING FISH AND RACCOON AND DEAD SKUNK,SEWER HOLE AND GARBAGE SMELLING HOES FROM PASSING THOSE DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY TO THEM….ALL OF YOU DUMB HOES ARE NOTHING BUT,SOME NASTY AZZ DOGS.

Oral Sex Is Leading Cause Of Increasing U.S. Cancer Rates

I WAS TRYING TO TELL YOU BLACK MEN THAT THOSE DOGS….WHITE,BLACK,MIXED AND FOREIGN CARRY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES WHICH SITS DORMANT INSIDE OF THEIR UNHEALTHY NO GOOD BODY UNTIL THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES ARE READY TO ATTACK.

Lessons Every Mother Should Teach Their Sons

I KNOW THAT THE MOST VERY IMPORTANT LESSON THAT THESE BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TEACH THEIR BLACK SONS AND THAT IS TO STAY AWAY FROM THOSE FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN….I NOTICED THAT WHEN YOU BLACK MEN HAVE SLEPT WITH A WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN THEN YA’LL WILL SLEEP WITH MOST ANYTHING AND THE NEXT THING THAT YOU KNOW YA’LL HAVE A DOG SMELLING BODY ODOR JUST LIKE THOSE FILTHY UNCLEAN HOES DO.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS A ODOR OF A DOG (meaning that those other race of people are born half dog and half human).

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN PEOPLE CARRY MANY OF OTHER VARIOUS INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES UNLIKE YOU BLACK PEOPLE DO….JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE INFECTED WITH SOME KIND OF INFECTIOUS DISEASE DOESN’T NECESSARILY MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO GO OUT AND KILL YOURSELF BY TRYING TO SLEEP AROUND WITH EVERY DOG THAT YOU SEE (meaning your life is not over yet).

LYME DISEASE
SWINE DEADLY FLU
MENINGITIS
LARYNGITIS
PARASITES
CHOLERA
ANTHRAX
LISTERIOSIS
TURBERCULOSIS
LEPROSY
LEPTOSPIROSIS
IMPETIGO
MALARIA
TOXOCARIASIS
TOXOPLASMOSIS
SCHISTOSOMIASIS etc…..

Those Filthy White/foreign Women Will Give Their Rotted Out P*ssy To Any Body That Wants It Because It Ain’t No Good.

Lessons Every Mother Should Teach Their Sons

I KNOW THAT THE MOST VERY IMPORTANT LESSON THAT THESE BLACK WOMEN SHOULD TEACH THEIR BLACK SONS AND THAT IS TO STAY AWAY FROM THOSE FILTHY AZZ INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE WOMEN….I NOTICED THAT WHEN YOU BLACK MEN HAVE SLEPT WITH A WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN THEN YA’LL WILL SLEEP WITH MOST ANYTHING AND THE NEXT THING THAT YOU KNOW YA’LL HAVE A DOG SMELLING BODY ODOR JUST LIKE THOSE FILTHY UNCLEAN HOES DO.

THAT IS NOT THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS A ODOR OF A DOG (meaning that those other race of people are born half dog and half human).

THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL SETTING THE RECORD STRAIGHT.

WE AS BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT WANT TO COME TOGETHER WITH YOU FILTHY RACIST STUPID TROUBLE MAKING PROBLEM CAUSING WHITE HEATHENS BECAUSE ALL THAT YOU WHITE PEOPLE KNOW HOW TO DO TO US AS BLACK PEOPLE IS TRY AND MAKE FOOLS OUT OF US BY TRYING TO TURN US AGAINST EACH OTHER FOR YA’LL….YOU WHITE PEOPLE AND YOU FOREIGN PEOPLE LIKE FOR US BLACK PEOPLE TO GO AROUND HATING ON EACH OTHER.

YOU FILTHY INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WHITE WOMEN BE TRICKING THESE BLACK MEN INTO GIVING YA’LL THEIR MONEY INSTEAD OF THEM SHARING THEIR MONEY WITH THOSE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WANT TO TRY AND GET RICH OFF OF THIS BLACK MEN WHO HAS MONEY SO,TO KEEP YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

YOU FILTHY FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THESE BLACK MEN TO TREAT YA’LL BETTER AND RESPECT YA’LL BETTER THEN THEY WILL DO THEIR OWN BLACK WOMEN….YOU BIG D!CK LOOKING AROUND FOR DOG SMELLING LYING WHITE WOMEN JUST WANTED TO COME BETWEEN THOSE BLACK MEN AND THEIR BLACK WOMEN SO,TO CAUSE THEM PROBLEMS IN THEIR RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE.

YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE HAVING THOSE BABIES BY THOSE BLACK MEN AND WAS TRYING TO TRICK THOSE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT THOSE BABIES WERE BLACK BABIES BUT,THEY WEREN’T THEY ARE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” BECAUSE ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK….YOU STUPID WHITE WOMEN WERE TRYING TO CHANGE THE ORIGINAL BLACK MAN AND THE ORIGINAL BLACK WOMAN BY TRYING TO CALL YA’LLS MIXED/BIRACIAL BLACK KIDS WHEN ALL OF THE TIME THEY WERE ANOTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED “MALADO” AND NOT BLACK.

YOU WHITE WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN JEALOUS OF THESE BLACK WOMEN BECAUSE OF THEIR DARK SKIN COMPLEXION (in other words you white women wanted to be those black women but,ya’ll couldn’t so,therefore ya’lls low down and trickish behinds started getting pregnant by those black men to try and make ya’ll some black babies but,ya’ll couldn’t because only black can make black) YA’LLS BABIES ARE WHITE

YOU STUPID LYING WHITE WOMEN WERE ALSO TRYING TO TRICK THESE BLACK MEN INTO BELIEVING THAT YA’LL WERE NOT ANY GOLD DIGGERS LIKE THOSE BLACK WOMEN WERE BUT,YA’LL ARE GOLD DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN JUST AS WELL AS YA’LL ARE GRAVE DIGGERS TO THOSE BLACK MEN.

YOU STUPID FILTHY WHITE WOMEN WANTED FOR THOSE BLACK MEN TO LEAVE YA’LL MONEY JUST IN CASE THEY HAD HAPPEN TO PASS AWAY SO,THAT YA’LLS RACE OF WHITE PEOPLE WON’T EVER GO BROKE.

YOU STUPID RACIST LYING WHITE PEOPLE WILL TRICK THESE BLACK MEN OUT THEIR RICHES/MILLIONS JUST TO KEEP YA’LLS WHITE RACE OF PEOPLE WITH MONEY.

YOU WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOTHING BUT,A BUNCH OF BLACK RACE HATING ON LYING HEATHENS.

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WOW

STOP BEING FOOLS/FLUNKIES FOR THEM:

THOSE STUPID RACIST LYING UNDERHANDED BACK STABBING WHITE PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PLAYING THE GAME WITH YOU BLACK PEOPLE FOR MANY LONG YEARS WHICH IS CALLED THE N!GGER GAME (meaning lets make some fools out of them because they are dumb anyway).

THEY COULDN’T GET AWAY WITH PLAYING THE N!GGER GAME WITH ME THOUGH BECAUSE I AM NOT A FOOL FOR NO ONE SO,THAT IS WHY THEY HAD TRIED TO TAKE ME DOWN BEHIND THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT BACK (in other words they were trying to block me from contacting ya’ll so,that i won’t be telling ya’ll all this true and good sh!t that i know).

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE CAN NOT BE TRUSTED BY ANY OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE AND THOSE BLACK PEOPLE THAT BELIEVE IN THOSE WHITE PEOPLE AND IN THOSE FOREIGN PEOPLE (closedonacctof_rain) CAN NOT BE TRUSTED BY ANY OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE EITHER AND TO BE ABLE TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH ABOUT THEM IS TO KEEP A FAR DISTANCE AWAY FROM THEM OR OTHER WISE THOSE WICKED DEVILS WILL BLOCK YA’LLS LIGHT BY KEEPING YA’LL IN THE DARKNESS OF NO TRUTH.

JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A WHITE/FOREIGN MALE FRIEND OR FEMALE FRIEND DOESN’T MEAN THAT YOU SUPPOSE TO DISRESPECT YOUR OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE OR RATHER FIGHT WITH YOUR OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THAT IS WHAT THEY EXPECT FOR YA’LL TO DO TO EACH OTHER (which is the black on black crime for them).

IN OTHER WORDS FIGHT ANOTHER N!GGER (dumb azz) FOR ME BECAUSE I AM WHITE OR EITHER FOREIGN (in other words they have become use to ya’ll hurting one another for those other race of people instead of ya’ll sticking together).

THEY WILL NOT EVER TURN THEIR BACK ON THEIR OWN RACE OF PEOPLE FOR YOU BLACK PEOPLE….MATTER OF FACT THEY WILL NOT EVER TAKE A STAND TO ANOTHER WHITE MAN FOR ANY OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THOSE OTHER RACE OF PEOPLE WILL STICK TOGETHER WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO YOU BLACK PEOPLE.

THE STUPID RACIST WHITE MANS CONSTITUTION WASN’T BUILT TO HELP THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE IN ANYWAY AT ALL IT WAS ONLY BUILT TO BE TOTALLY AGAINST THE BLACK RACE OF PEOPLE (thats called racism).

THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE DO NOT LIKE IT WHEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE HAVE BLACK LEADERS TO FOLLOW UP BEHIND BECAUSE THEN YA’LL WON’T HAVE THEM TO LISTEN TO ANYMORE (in other words those born mentally disturbed white dummies want to control you black people).

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE NEED SOME OF YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO BE FOOLS FOR THEM SO,THAT WHEN THEY DECIDE THAT THEY HAVE TO TAKE YA’LL DOWN THEN THEY CAN GET ANOTHER BLACK PERSON TO HELP THEM DO IT,LIKE FOR INSTANCE WHEN THAT ONE BLACK MAN LAWYER HELPED THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE MEN TAKE DOWN THE BLACK MAN LAWYER NAME JOHNNIE COCHRAN.

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE DON’T LIKE IT WHEN YOU BLACK PEOPLE JUST LISTEN TO OTHER BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THEN THEY WON’T HAVE ANY FOOLS OF BLACK PEOPLE HANGING AROUND THEM TO HELP THEM TAKE DOWN ANOTHER BLACK PERSON IF THEY HAVE TO,LIKE FOR INSTANCE WHEN THE BLACK DOCTOR HAD KILLED MICHAEL JACKSON AFTER THEY HAD GOTTEN TIRED OF HIM (this is it).

THOSE WHITE MEN NEED FOR YOU BLACK MEN AND FOR YOU BLACK WOMEN TO BE THEIR FOOLISH FLUNKIES AT TIMES….THOSE STUPID RACIST WHITE PEOPLE FEEL THAT THEY CAN GET YOU BLACK PEOPLE TO DO THOSE KIND OF THINGS FOR THEM WHEN IT COMES TO YA’LLS OWN RACE OF BLACK PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY SAY THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE ARE DUMB ANYWAY.

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No time to break it all the way down. I’ll just say for all participants it is mostly
Stereotype/Taboo chasing.

WE DON’T NEED FOR YOU TO BREAK ANYTHING DOWN FOR US AND IT’S NOT NO STEREOTYPE/TABOO CHASING EITHER GOT DAMN IT.

IT’S MAINLY THOSE INFECTIOUS VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING AND PASSING WH@RISH AZZ FILTHY DOG AND SKUNK SMELLING WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE WH@RISH AZZ FILTHY DOG AND SKUNK SMELLING FOREIGN WOMEN RUNNING UP BEHIND THESE BLACK MEN TRYING TO PASS AND SPREAD THEM THOSE DOG DISEASES THAT THEY CARRY SO,THAT THEY CAN BRING THAT CRAP BACK TO THOSE BLACK COMMUNITIES SO,TO INFECT THEM UP WITH THAT CONTAGIOUS SH!T THAT THEY ALL CARRY AS BEING BORN THOSE INFECTIOUS ANIMALS THAT THEY ARE.

STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM US YOU FILTHY WHITE AND FOREIGN OUT OF PLACE BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED BACKWARDS THINKING CONTAMINATED BLOOD CELLS SONS OF A B!TCHES.

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why are white woman following us around sniffing our asses on a black website?

Wow such a deluded set of warped individuals, “LOVE IS NOT A COLOR” you guys are going completely against the grain of what Martin Luther King campaigned in civil rights for! OMG @ ‘NOT’ a real genius but and real arse hole!!! Have you nothing better to do! Clearly not! But sprout hate amongst skin color! Coward and a keyboard gangster!! Grow a pair. You piece of trash! I think it’s clear for everyone to see “YOU’ have the problem with MY WHITE RACE AND MY WHITE ARSE!! You need help! I wonder…… do you think anyone reads your deluded warped trash talk BS?? Go have a wank you nob end!

Because deep down you actually love it – Women love men who get up under their skin. They will tell their friends, “Arrrrggggg I HATE HIS LITTLE ASS!!!” But then all it takes is some eye contact, a hand on the shoulder, … It’s not only funny to us, it’s easy as hell – Do you remember how cats used to walk around the hood with water guns and the chicks said, “don’t get me wet” but they were wearing a white tee shirt, so you hosed their ass anyway? …

@truth_talker

YOU FILTHY FLEA BITTEN WHITE WOMEN ARE FULL OF THOSE CONTAGIOUS WORMS (in other words i don’t date you white women and i won’t ever date you white women because ya’ll dog and skunk foul smelling p*ssy ain’t no good) GIVE IT TO THOSE WHITE MEN.

I HAVE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD AND SHE SMELLS GOOD TO.

9 Stereotypes Of Black Men That Aren’t

Always True

IT’S ONLY
THOSE BACKWARDS THINKING SILLY AZZ BLACK MEN THAT LIKE THOSE FILTHY FLEA
BITTEN DOG AND SKUNK FOUL SMELLING P*SSY WHITE WOMEN.

5 Ways To
Keep Your Man From Cheating

ONE WAY SHOULD BE TO TELL
HIM IF HE CHEATS ON YOU WITH ANY OF THOSE FILTHY INFECTIOUS HIV/AIDS
VIRUS AND DISEASE CARRYING WHITE/FOREIGN HOES THAT HIS PEN!S AND PELVIC
BONE/HAIRS ARE GOING TO START SMELLING JUST LIKE THOSE CATS AND THOSE
SKUNKS THAT BE SPRAYING OUT THAT STALE FOUL ODOR FROM THEIR BEHIND (in
other words those white/foreign women are of filthy animals) THAT IS NOT
THE SCENT OF A WOMAN THAT IS THE ODOR OF A DOG.

THE ONLY THING
THAT THOSE FILTHY FOUL SMELLING HOES,WHITE,BLACK,MIXED
AND FOREIGN CAN OFFER YOU BLACK MEN IS THEIR STALE FOUL P*SSY BUT,I CAN
OFFER
YOU TRUTH,LIFE,SAFETY,HEALTH,FREEDOM,COURAGE,BLACK MAN
HOOD,POWER,INTEGRITY,HONESTY etc…

THOSE FILTHY
WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN BE GETTING MAD AT YOU BLACK MEN WHEN YA’LL DON’T
WANT TO SLEEP AROUND WITH THEIR NASTY FLEA BITTEN MICRO WORMS INSIDE OF
THEIR CONTAGIOUS BLOOD CELLS INFECTIOUS BOOTY HOLE TRIFLING BEHINDS
(those white/foreign women will spray out those foul odors like those
stinky skunks will do) IN OTHER WORDS WHATS THAT SMELL.

ONE THING
ABOUT A FILTHY IGNORANT DOG SMELLING HOE IS THAT THEY TRULY DON’T HAVE
ANY SHAME IN THEIR GAME.

THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN WANT YOU BLACK
MEN MONEY JUST AS MUCH AS YA’LLS OWN BLACK WOMEN WANT YA’LLS MONEY (in
other words they are not only gold diggers to you black men they are
also ya’lls grave diggers to) MEANING THEY WILL RATHER DATE THOSE BLACK
MEN THAT HAVE SOME LIFE INSURANCE ON HIM SELF SO,THAT WHEN YOU PASS AWAY
IN THAT FILTHY DOGS BED YOU WILL BE LEAVING HER GREEDY WHITE SKUNK
SMELLING BEHIND SOME MONEY OF YOURS TO CONTINUE TO LIVE OFF ON.

Do

You Consider Soledad O?Brien A Black Woman?

SHE IS NOT BLACK
BECAUSE ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK SHE IS JUST ANOTHER FILTHY FLEA BITTEN
MICRO WORM CARRYING INSIDE OF HER CONTAGIOUS BLOOD CELLS BOOTY HOLE NO
GOOD WHITE WOMAN (in other words we as black people know a black woman
when we see one) THOSE MIXED/BIRACIAL WOMEN ARE NOT BLACK WOMEN THEY
JUST WISH THAT THEY WERE (in other words those white,mixed and foreign
women are jealous of those black women that they will try and act black
or try and say that they are black but,they are not even close to even
being black) BLACK IS NOT BORN HALF DOG (in other words those black
women don’t grow fleas,ticks and lice in their hair,those black women
are not born with that filthy dog hair) THOSE WHITE WOMEN AND THOSE
MIXED/BIRACIAL WOMEN ARE VERY EVIL AND THEY BOTH ARE SO,STUPIDLY JEALOUS
OF THOSE BLACK WOMEN.

THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN WILL
SPRAY OUT THOSE FOUL DOG AND SKUNK ODORS WHEN THEY ARE ABOUT TO HAVE SEX
WITH THOSE BLACK MEN SO,TO TRY AND MARK THEM AS SOME FILTHY UNCLEAN
ANIMALS JUST LIKE THEY ARE (those other race of women are of mange flea
bitten filthy parasite carrying dogs).

THOSE WHITE PEOPLE ARE
ABOUT THE BIGGEST FOOLS THAT HAS EVER WALKED THE FACE OF THIS PLANET
EARTH (meaning that they are so,unintelligent and so,unwisely and whom
are so,deficient in judgment,they have very poor judgment) THEY WILL TRY
AND USE GOING TO COLLEGE AS A COVER UP ON HOW STUPID THAT THEY TRULY
ARE (a college education can not cover up a person stupidity) THOSE
WHITE PEOPLE AIN’T NOTHING BUT,A BUNCH OF IGNORANT AND FOOLISH CLOWNS
THAT DOESN’T KNOW A LACK OF CRAP.

THOSE STUPID WHITE PEOPLE HAD
YOU BLACK PEOPLE THINKING THAT THEY WERE SO,INTELLIGENT BECAUSE THEY HAD
WENT TO COLLEGE.

TRUTH IS:

A PERSON CAN NOT GO TO COLLEGE
OR RATHER HAVE A Ph.D AND SAY THAT THEY ARE “INTELLIGENT” BECAUSE
“INTELLIGENCE” IS A GIFT FROM GOD WHICH MEANS THAT YOU HAVE TO BE BORN
WITH IT (in other words those white devils are not smart at all they are
to ignorant to be smart) THOSE DEVILS ARE DUMB BECAUSE THEY ARE CREATED
BY SATAN THE DUMB DEVIL.

A INTELLIGENT PERSON WOULD KNOW WHAT
BEING FILTHY AND NASTY IS AND THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE VERY FILTHY AND
NASTY WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE.

TO BE
INTELLIGENT IS TO KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG OR OTHER WISE YOU ARE DEFINITELY
A DUMMY.

THOSE BIRACIALS/MIXED PEOPLE ARE ABOUT THE MOST
IGNORANT PEOPLE IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD BECAUSE OF THEIR CONFUSION IN
LIFE (in other words they are more dumber than a black person and are
more stupider then a white person).

THOSE BIRACIAL PEOPLE DON’T
REALLY KNOW WHO THEY ARE THEY JUST KNOW WHERE THEY COME FROM AND THEN
THEY THINK WHY DID IT EVEN HAVE TO HAPPEN.

I HAVE STATED ONCE
BEFORE THAT THOSE BLACK WOMEN ARE DUMB AND THOSE WHITE WOMEN ARE STUPID
WHICH MAKES THEM BOTH IGNORANT.

I HAVE STATED ONCE BEFORE THAT
THOSE BIRACIAL WOMEN ARE MORE DUMBER THEN A BLACK WOMAN AND MORE
STUPIDER THEN A WHITE WOMAN BECAUSE THEY ARE MIXED WITH BLACK AND WHITE
WHICH MAKES THEM EVEN MORE IGNORANT THEN BOTH THE BLACK WOMAN AND THE
WHITE WOMAN (in other words those biracials people had thought that they
had the best of both worlds,meaning that they thought that they could
speak on black and speak on white because they are mixed with both
races) BUT,MY STUDY HAD DETERMINED THAT IT WAS NOT TRUE AT ALL.

THOSE

BIRACIAL PEOPLE ARE ANOTHER WHOLE RACE OF OTHER PEOPLE WHICH IS CALLED
“MALADO” THOSE SCIENTIST HAD TO DISCOVER A NAME FOR THEM SINCE THEY
WEREN’T FULLY WHITE OR FULLY BLACK (in other words all colored people
that become involved with any other race of people and have a baby then
that baby will be considered another race of baby/child/people) WHICH IS
CALLED A “MALADO”.

THE TRUE DEFINITION OF ?MALADO? MEANS
?DIRTY?.

ONLY BLACK CAN MAKE BLACK.

IF ANY BLACK PERSON
EVER MAKES A BABY WITH ANOTHER RACE OF COLORED PERSON THAT BABY WILL BE
CONSIDERED A BLACK BABY BECAUSE BLACK IS POWER (in other words only
black colored and foreign colored people can make a “BLACK” baby
together).

BLACK IS POWER.

THOSE STUPID SICK IN THE HEAD
CRAZY PSYCHOTIC BORN MENTALLY DISTURBED LUNACY WHITE PEOPLE SHOULD BE
TREATED JUST LIKE THOSE MENTALLY DISORDERED FOOLISH ANIMALS THAT THEY
ARE.

ONE THING THAT YOU BLACK PEOPLE REALLY NEED TO TRY AND
UNDERSTAND IS THAT WHEN YA’LL ARE DEALING WITH THOSE RACIST WHITE PEOPLE
YA’LL ARE ACTUALLY DEALING WITH SOME STRAIGHT UP DUMMIES (sh!t all of
those white people are racist to me and regardless if you black men are
pissing inside of those white women mouth,in other words they still can
not be trusted).

I STILL CAN NOT UNDERSTAND HOW YOU BLACK MEN
DIDN’T KNOW THAT YA’LL WERE SLEEPING AROUND WITH HUMAN DOGS THOUGH?
DIDN’T YA’LL EVEN TAKE A VERY GOOD LOOK AT THEIR HAIR OR RATHER SMELL
THE FOUL ODOR OF THEIR BODY.SHAME ON YOU BLACK MEN FOR SLEEPING AROUND
WITH THOSE HALF HUMAN FLEA BITTEN DOGS.

THEY BE SAYING COME ON
TRY IT WHEN THEY KNOW THAT THEY ARE BORN HALF HUMAN AND HALF FILTHY DOG

THOSE

WHITE PEOPLE ARE ABOUT THE MOST FILTHIEST AND NASTIEST PEOPLE THAT
RESIDES ON THIS PLANET EARTH BECAUSE THEIR UNHEALTHY NO GOOD BODY ARE OF
THOSE FILTHY FLEA BITTEN ANIMALS.

THOSE FILTHY DOG AND SKUNK
FOUL SMELLING WHITE PEOPLE CARRY
LICE,FLEAS,TICKS,CRABS,HERPES,SYPHILIS,MENINGITIS,GONORRHEA,PARASITES,LARYNGITIS,HIV/AIDS,HEPATITIS

etc….AND THOSE FILTHY FOUL SKUNK P*SSY SMELLING WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN
BE TRYING TO TRICK YOU BLACK MEN IN THE SAME BED WITH THEM WITH YA’LLS
CLOTHES OFF (in other words how funky).

THE REASON OF THOSE
WHITE/FOREIGN PEOPLE CATCHING THE VERY FIRST INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND
DISEASES THAT COME OUT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE BORN HALF HUMAN AND HALF DOG
(in other words they are nothing but,some contagious disease carrying
flea bitten animals) THOSE FILTHY WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN BE SPRAYING THOSE
FOUL ODORS FROM THEIR BEHIND LIKE THOSE CATS AND SKUNKS BE DOING FOR THE
REASON OF THEM SMELLING LIKE ANIMALS WHEN THEIR LEGS ARE WIDE OPEN (in
other words damn whats that smell)?

THOSE FILTHY WHITE PEOPLE DAUGHTERS BE SLEEPING AROUND WITH ANY/MANY
KIND OF D!CKS AND REGARDLESS OF WHAT COLOR THEY ARE JUST AS LONG AS THEY
CAN PUT IT IN THEIR BLISTERY MOUTH,WORMY DOG BOOTY AND DOG SMELLING
VAG!NA….YOU BLACK PEOPLE NEED TO TEACH YA’LLS DAUGHTERS NOT TO FOLLOW
UP BEHIND THOSE STUPID FILTHY AZZ WHITE WOMEN/GIRLS THAT WILL SLEEP
AROUND WITH ANYBODY OR RATHER ANYTHING WITH A D!CK SO,TO BE RAMMED AND
BANGED UP HARD IN THEIR CONTAMINATED AND INFECTIOUS BLOODY BODY HOLES.

THIS IS TO YOU BLACK MEN SPECIFICALLY~THOSE WHITE/FOREIGN WOMEN/GIRLS
CARRY MANY DIFFERENT KIND OF INFECTIOUS VIRUSES AND DISEASES THAT THOSE
BLACK GIRLS/WOMEN DON’T CARRY (in other words they are of filthy
animals).

usfg 

This is a strong issue becouse of the media. It’s true nowadays black men stepped up to the game & joined the white masters & even stealing their women. As of the glorified couple of the millineum enough to piss a lot of ppl off. Internet is completely full of inerracial sex sites. Why not we put a banned on perverts on the net? Selling sex is a devil’s work & black men who only chooses to sex the white she-devils will burn in hell!!!!

This  black  women’s stereotype is getting old and tiring.I am a black/carribean woman from Canada.Do I have to pay for these stereotypes all the way down here?Their are good black Carribean women from Jamaica,Trinidad,St.Vincent,Guyana and Bashian.There has to be good black Christian women.Their are good black muslim women.Their are good black African/somali and ethiopian women.Far too many times do I see,white women getting away with alot of  things and they are never called out on it.My husband’s ex girlfriend is white and she is still trying to break us up while her Jamaican man is at home.I used to have a Lebanese friend who only dates black men.She had my brother watching/helping her with her children by dropping them off at my brother’s home to have my sister-in-law watch them while she is busy screwing her black phukk friend.She had my husband helping her buy groceries(as she cried a river that her black baby father in the States wasn’t sending child support)While still phukking her black phukk buddy.She asked my husband if he thinks she is sexy.By then I ended our friendship and my hubby saw her for the tramp she was.I can guarantee you no black woman can ever dare get away with those before the black man wastes no time in posting videos all over youtube about how immoral/nasty/trashy/filthy and s**tty black women are.I hope the poor starving African women/girls never ever come across these videos about black women.They are already living in a hell on earth.

Yes that must be it,we hate white people so much,that we are oppressing/persecuting you.The problem with alot of this interracial dating is the hate and disunity is has brought to black people’s lives.As you probably know already,alot of these black men who choose to date white women hate black women and are leaving endless videos on youtube about their hate/disdain for us,while white  women sit idly by playing the innocent white woman syndrome act.Black women are not jealous of white women.We know that their is an evil game that you guys are good at playing,and it seems that no one can see it but black women.I’ve seen the way white girls phukk in porn(I wanted to see what all the fuss about white women was about)You guys will suck off 5-6 men at a time and have him c** all over your eyes/ears/nose and hair.White women will phukk 5-6 men at a time and have him shove his banana in every hole on her body.White women will actually shove her finger in her anus and then lick her finger afterwards.EEEWWW.If black women were doing those things you know it would be talked about.But alas,whatever white women do regardless of how immoral,gross,lewd or vulgar,it would never be talked about.You would never have men posting videos about how immoral white women can be.I am tired of the hypocrisy of white women or white people in general.My husband whom of course is black had an exgirlfriend who is white.(They have 2 sons together and to this day she is still trying to break us up,while her Jamaican man is at home.But you won’t hear about that on youtube.What about the extreme arrogance/ego’s of white women who are always tripping/falling and going out of their way to make eye contact with me when they are out with their black boyfriend/husband as if they are doing it for spite?What about the  white women who always have to try hard to make me notice their  biracial children as if they are better or something?Then,alot of white women have the audacity to accuse black women of giving them dirty looks while they are out with their biracial children/black husband/boyfriend after the underhanded malipulativeness I had just mentioned.So yeah,interracial dating is not wrong.What is wrong is the hatred of  black women that has come along with it,while white women sit by quietly  on some fraudulent,insincere,fake perception of white woman sainthood.I prefer to live with the stereotypes that black women have(Even though that is not who I am)than to live with some fake,fraudulent stereotype of sainthood.I no longer have respect for white women,who seem to benefit from black men/hating black women because it makes it that much easier for white women to hold onto black men I guess.I have no respect for any race who fraudulently acts as if their race/gender can do no wrong.I have no respect for any race/gender who loves to point out the faults/flaws of others while religiously overlooking your own,or diagnosing them with a mental illness/disorder.These traits are not sincere,genuine or real.Their is no essence in always having to put on a show of perfection.After all we are all human.It’s just that the faults of black women are always put on air for the whole world to talk about/see.As for the black men who do choose to date/marry white women,but hate black women/run your mouths to white women about our faults,shame on you.If I ever dated/married a white man,I would never let him talk ill about my race of men,especially given the history of slavery and the discrimination’s that happened after slavery was abolished.I just hope that the African women/girls who  are in African suffering due to wars,hunger,extreme poverty,diseases and such never have to read/see or listen to the garbage that is being spewed about her on the internet and in the media.Black men who hate black women and who posts videos on youtube,making it open season for everyother race/gender to do the same is an insult to all black women from all tribes from all religions.Their are beautiful black Jamaican,Trinidadian,St.Vincent,Guyanese,Bashian and other Carribean women.There are beautiful black Christian/Muslim women.There are  beautiful black Canadian,Ethiopian,Somalian and African women.Please white women,take a piece of humble pie,you are not that important.Black women are able to see the manipultations and deviousness of white women who seem to have a huge ego and expect everyblack man to lust after her.You guys on many occasions that I have witnessed will try to hit/flirt with my husband and then act all insulted when he pays you no mind.You guys are not very humble,gracious and innocent as you like to appear.You put on a show,which is not genuine or sincere.Have all the black men you want,and think/tell yourselves that you are better/have superiority complexes over it.Knock yourselves out man.This  world seems to be your playground.You are competing for the benefits of this world only,you rarely take the time to do any internal changes since you are so obsessed/possesed with being seen as the perfect,ideal race when it comes to marriage,mates,parenthood,warriors,soldiers,economics,technology,politics and everything else you guys are always trying to prove that you are better at,instead of just being humble,take the time to learn about black history to understand where some of the attitudes you may be getting might be coming from and learning about the damage of what your system has done to blacks and other ethnic groups for that matter.You would think that some of these black men would try to teach these white women about our history,so she can become more humble,but no instead you have left the mouthy,bossy,loud,black women to be with arrogant,egotistical,pretenders who act like they can never do no wrong and seems to benefit from all of the blackwoman bashing to stroke their own ego some more as if the media doesn’t do enough of that already.

And wanking is what your probably good at aint it?Since when does black people hating on white people affect your daily lives?Do we follw/patrol you when you walk/shop in the grocery stores?Do we stereotype you guys negatively in the media?Have blacks ever assinated/imprisoned any of your leaders?Do we dedicate the entire internet by posting endless rants about white people to the degree that white people do it to blacks?Did we ever enslave or discriminate against white’s even long after slavery was abolished?Did blacks ever invent the word,black,white or visible minority?Did black’s ever create racial profiling?Did blacks ever make up the word “terrorist”?So the hate we have today is the product of what your people started and continue to perpetuate by harrassing/oppressing moving onto other races/groups of people and as usual labelling them with your oh so colourful adjectives.You guys get a grain of what you have done to black’s and other races for centuries and then some,and don’t even have the strenght to deal with words.They are just words.We dealt with your physical/aggression and atrocities against our people.You guys will never ever get it as bad as your’s have savagely dished it out to others.Blacks,natives and other people of colour have alot of stories to tell for the generations.Atleast learn about your history and the countless acts of aggression that your people/system have religiously commited against the black’s up until the 60,s70,s,80′s90′s and earlier millenuim.Atleast we have never ending countless reasons not to like white in general.What was white people’s excuse for their hatred and abuse?

“You would think that some of these black men would try to teach these white women about our history,so she can become more humble.”

You are absolutely correct in this regard. I note that it is the black males that hate and/or hold discord with the ENTIRE species of black females that generally “partner up” with a euro-clown. And of course her stank attitude follows his. But what the euro-clown female fails to see ? If at base level he is a fucc’d up individual, none of his relationships will be “successful,” no matter what race he partners up with. He’s a fish that you would not want anyway.

You KNOW that you are a BLACK Queen. It IS up to the euro-clown female to RECOGNIZE and for YOU to “act accordingly.”

Most men are mainly considering attraction and later compatibility/how easy it is to get along with her.  Tho everyone has individual preferences men in general find all types of women attractive so of course he is open to sleeping with a women he finds attractive whatever race she may be.  For some reason women in general are not as open minded about these things as men and are way pickier than men and consider more factors in who they date/sleep with.

The exceptions usually seem to be ppl who were warped by traumatic life experiences that did mental damage to them and they have a hard time moving past it and letting go so they believe in negative generalizations about other races based on bad experiences with less than even %1 of that race…..or they just may not be that smart and make those negative generalizations without thinking twice about it.

Oh yea and why do they keep reposting this same story as if it is new?

Why does race always come up in dating ? Who cares who is dating who ? Seriously, it’s bigger things to worry about. Plus there are two sides to this coin. There are females who will NOT date their own race under any circ**stances for various reasons.

If this article had any truth to it then wouldn’t the same be said for all sexes of different races wanting and being attracted to something different?  Why would it pertain to only black men/white women?  Many might say its the thought of the “forbidden”, but lets be realistic – this is 2011.  And to all those that are talking about how white people stereotype and racially profile black people…..you are doing the exact same thing by insinuating that all white people do things like that.  And the hate circle goes round and round……

Free your mind. 

I can’t believe that I am 33 years old and the slave mentality still exists.

Yes, there are white people that to this day still perpetuate hate against black people, but all you are doing is stereotyping all white people (the same thing that you say whites do and are so against.  If you are against something and abhor it don’t practice it yourself) 

Black women are such HYPOCRITES!! There are also many black WOMEN who are celebrities that flock after white males so you all are in no position to talk trick please! Black female celebrities also hook up with white males but nobody ever talks about that. I don’t get it on either side because you very rarely if EVER see white celebrities marry or date black people.

Exactly! Black women are the queens of HYPOCRISY! There is never 8,000 articles about the black female celebrities who chase after white men Diana Ross has ONLY married white males and nobody has a problem with that. There many examples of black women with white men but black women don’t want to go there.

Boi you mention a black man and all the female crakkkas come out the woodwork like roaches!

Black men dont love white women….They love what they THINK WHITE WOMEN REPRESENT…..

But as it should be, I have never come across a black man who preferred a flea bitten cave dweller over his black women…..

Boy are you dumb.

Why REPEAT this story?????? It’s gonna open up MORE cans of worms…….

I FEEL THAT A MAN HAS THE RIGHT 2 CHOICE A WOMAN THAT TREATS HIM RIGHT REGARDLESS OF THE COLOR. I NOTICE THAT A LOT OF SISTA’S ARE ONLY IN IT 4 THEMSELVES A LOT OF TIMES AND DON’T CARE ABOUT THE FEELINGS OR THE RESPECT OF THERE MAN. MEN AND WOMEN HAVE 2 GET IT RIGHT IF WE TRULY WANT 2 BE IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE.

Niggaz dont love white women.. They think they are avoiding drama by dealing with one.. That and the fact alot of dudes get a kick out of boning the slave master’s woman. Its always been the rapper’s delight.

Black men DO NOT Love White Women (Hello Beautiful you better be glad I’m no Voodoo Queen)  Shame on you!

I do not have NOT one mixed Neice or Nephew and I have 6 Brothers (in their 50′s & 60′s).  I think the last yt person that was connected in my family was maybe 400+ years ago.  And when you say men…I think about the men in my family, my circle of men friends and associates, all of them are married/dating in relationships with Sistahs.

How dare you incorporate a website called “A Field Nergo” and ask/suggest us to go to that for it will explain the fascination with yt women (You are the only one’s fascinated by the blue-eye devils).  Is this were you received your fhuk’d up research informaton to present this recycled bull-shyt of an article. 

Wow, preferring (or not preferring) someone just because of the color of their skin is a little racist, don’t ya think?  F*cking hypocrites…

You got that right…….And they also REJECT ones who are UGLY( doesn’t look like Denzil, yet are clean, doesn’t do drugs or go the ghetto s**t), have a LARGER bank account or they could not CONTROL that guy they desired….and you’re RIGHT that they are NOT many maggie that REPORT  Black ladies who DO date White men…..but don not MENTION this, or else you’ll start WW3……… 

blacc men date white women cause thats what they prefer, it is an intelligent decision, i wish ppl would stop trying to animalize it.  Same reason i date blacc women.  ppl date other ppl of differant races because we learn to appriciate their beauty.

This is true however I dont feel my sisters are understanding when you spend hundred of dollars to look like them.  Weave, eye lashes, straight hair maybe when black men see that we love our natural selves they will stop flocking to white woman.  My thing is if he wants a ww thats on him!!! Doesnt take nothing from me as a black woman! So I gather my sister would rather he marry you and cheat on you with her!!! This 1930′s sh*t is played!! Me personally I like dark meat but thats my taste! I wont knock no one likes it but give it a rest already so he got him a Becky that is effecting your IRA how, your bills being paid how??? We focus on so much bull in todays society rather than what matters you want a pigmentless lady fine!!! I was raised if he cant use your comb dont bring him home! But I just love my brothers sorry!!!!

Why Do Black Men Love White Women?

I’m pretty sure it’s a sickness

There’s a “fascination” with white women among Black men?  Damn, where have I been???  By the way, are there actual statistics to support these bubble-headed claims?  Just a question.  I better dump my Black fiancee quick before I miss out.

This article tries to give the impression that EVERY blackman likes white women,the vast majority of brothas could care less about white women. 

Thank you so much for calling these idiots out. First of all, WE ALL need to live and let live. Life is waaaaaaaay too short to be worried about the color of two human beings who want to be romantically involved or even lustily involved. Who gives a rat’s booty?? These issues of race are about as low and disgusting an issue as there is amongst humans. The entire idea of racism is such a sign of how immature we are as a species it’s almost laughable.

Black people have this history of slavery and discrimination to constantly fall back on as a reason to hate whites all over the world. Whites seems to have a sense of superiority over the darker people of the world based on arbitrary attributes/culture. It’s madness and at this point in history it’s about time to let go of the anger and resentment, the distrust and vitriol because it is holding us all back as a species. Imagine what we could accomplish by acceptance – not TOLERANCE but ACCEPTANCE of all of humanity. The truth is we can carry on hating and distrusting each other as we do now but we’re all connected.

There is only one race that matters and everyone walking this planet is part of it. Who are we to decide what skin color is acceptable for dating? I prefer ethnic women personally – black women especially but I’m not going to begrudge a black person for not dating as I do.

This article is a perfect example of the type of immaturity I mentioned above.

Who rehashed this BS… Isn’t this an OLD article…

i am so happy to see some one said it and i will say this to add what you just said i love BLACK WOMEN married to a black woman no other can compare none of the men in my family married out side black women as well 

bcuz hb wants some attention. they are losing their readers.

I say find love where you can, black white, whatever, seems like we make more out of race than any other group of people. I just don’t have any issue with different races dating. If you want your kids to look like Hale Berry or Mariah Carey, then go for it.

ugh dam disappointed to see some brothas on the list and wasnt surprised at some others. but hey as long as that junk aint some hatred for your own kind, who cares.
don cornelius had to be a pimp bf sould train

In my DMX voice… “Here we go again..!” lmao!

I guess because some of them can Afford Them (Silly Women)!  Sista’s ain’t givin’ em’ nothing, but a chance at a Stable Life (a chance @ Growin’ Up & becoming Real Men)!

The reason this issue is such a big deal because black women are still holding out for a black man, we do not always just settle, but it is obvious that when a brother makes money, than he is ready to get with a woman of another race, many basketball and NFL players are famous for this.  But there are those that are a product of their environment and are subject to dating or marrying interracially.  For myself I think the black women should just do the same and stop holding out for that black prince that may never come or he may . . . . . 
I love black men and think that are always going to be subject to other women of races wanting to be with them in relationships and marriage, I mean look at them!

Much of this is true, some of my black male friends speak of what white woman will do in bed that black women won’t do, or how white women will go out of their way to get their attention when they are working out at the gym, bumping up against them, direct eye contact when he is with a black woman.
Every race has faults, but we did not start this one and african americans are trying really hard to forget that slavery issue.
Many people do not know how we lived before we were enslaved, the riches of diamonds and golds we produced, our ancestors were not stupid people and still today this is an issue, JUST WATCH THE MOVIE MANDINGO, IT SAYS IT ALL!

very few date white men, but minding one’s own business is always fine, everyone can check themselves, this is just conversation not a court appeal.

Just to note, white women have been doing  plastic surgery and the hair weaves and eyes lashes and dying the hair, black women are the last to catch on to this rage, white women have been wearing hair extensions and fake boobs for years, this is nothing new.
Where I work this is all they do is get plastic surgery, hair extensions and dye their hair to compete with the young women.

No insecurities here.

That was a GREAT movie, showing how the White slavemaster LOVED this Beautiful Black woman, and she asked that the CHILDREN be free(they had ONE child), and the Master assured(really ?) her, only to be killed by the Jealous BUTTAFACE wife, but when that  same harlot slept with Ken Norton, Mr, Master got jealous and to kill HIM(after that S.O.B breeded him to be his SPECIAL fighter for ill gotten games), although he had no problem asignating that Black woman……
I’m telling ya…..HYPOCRICY will NEVER get old………

i guess cus a lot of black women hate them, according to all the comments i see on the internet!!! i realize what black women really think because of the internet..and i see why their is so much friction between us…aint nothing wrong with interracial dating but to tell you the truth most people who date interracial do it for the wrong reasons and annoy people!

and to tell you the truth real ni^gas are mostly attracted and like black women…I don’t know why people even think most black men like white women cus we dont!!!

I AGREE…..I would LOVE to be with a sista…she can be dark, light or in between…but as I get older, I go for what’s on the INSIDE(a big booty isn’t ENOUGH for meeeee)……..and if the inside has DECEIT in it, then I’ll move on……..

why is derek jeter on the list??? even if hes mixed ..he is not black,,,he dont even favor his black side….boy black people will call anyone black these days!!!! and how the f&ck did don cornelius bag that white girl…?

dem aint black womens dem negroe womens who hate being black ,,,,they truely want to have some zebra babies….

oooooooh now,,, love is color,,,coz i only fall in love when it’s black…

well i believe in what has gone around will soon come around,, so get ready..

don’t ever forget anything about slavery my dear,,, actually it’s not gone for the shackles might be off but the mind in most is still shackled,,,,some of us has even been poisioned by their blood ,reminding us each day of how we ended up in this flash n’ the pan country…

my dear children,, iam sure for the most part the 6% of the black men who marry these things,should’nt really fret to much for most of what i’ve noticed…most of the white women are trash..LOOK!! truely selfrespecting white women would  marry a black man or visa-versa….most of those sports figure clowns who marry white women end up with closet pros, acting as if they love them negroes but are actually after the money,,so my dear ladies fret none.once she finds a way to divorice him, gett ing half of his money for which he’ll lose the other half being stupid with it, truely will be crawling back to find some naiive sister to be with again…SEEN IT AMANY TIMES….

Now I’m convinced that newsone and BlackPlanet are run by whites. Why the hell do we have to hear about Interracial garbage all the time? It’s like blackplanet is trying to destroy the black race by getting everyone of us to mix with non blacks. I’m a black male BTW and no I do NOT love white women. That’s so white supremacy propaganda right there.

I DON’T REALLY THINK ANYONE CARED WHO THAT BUGG EYE HOOD RAT MARRIED FOR THE MOST PART  SHE WAS AN EMBARRASSMENT TO MOST OF US ANYWA…AND THAT LAST WHITE GUY SHE MARRIED DUMPED HER GOOFY ASS AND FAST,,,,NOW I HAD A WHITE CO-WORKER WHO DATED SOME BLACK WOMEN UNTIL HE SOON FOUND OUT SHE THOUGHT OF HIM ONLY AS A ATM. SO, HE KICKED HER TO THE CURVE AND WENT BACK TO DATING CINDERELLA TYPES

LOLOLOLOLOLOL …HUSH!!!!

Ok, first Zulay Henao is Colombiana, she’s not white. Some of those other women are suspect of having some ethnic blood also.  Skin complexion doesn’t determine race.  Look at Nicole Richie, who’s father is one of the Commodores but was adopted by Lionel Richie.  Nicole Richie is half black but appears to be white now.  Most of Quincy Jones’ daughters do not appear to be black(Rashida Jones is one of his daughters).  Actor Wentworth Miller’s mother is also half Black, yet he appears to be fully white.  Some of these men aren’t so “black” to begin with.  Tiger Woods? Derek Jeter?  Tiger doesn’t know what race he is, lol.  Derek is a single shade away from being white himself.  Russell dates all races as is evident with his ex-wife Kimora who is half black and his ex-girlfriend after Kimora who was black also.  These women are beautiful women who Black men just so happened to fall in love with. 

HB, please find a new topic to run into the ground.  The race card is dead already.  No one cares.  Humans are the ONLY species of mammal on the planet that refuses to mate based on breed.  Put any male and female animal of any other species into a room together, regardless of their different breed and they will mate.  Cow breeds, horse breeds, dog breeds, cat breeds are mixed all the time.  Yet our dumb asses still judge each other on skin complexion and old wives’ tales rather than choosing a mate based on intellect and personal desire.  How degrading and sad.  We are supposed to be the higher intellectual species.  So act like it already. 

The “slave mentality” still exists because moronic editors like the one who wrote this article keep perpetuating the idiotic slave ideals.  The website that they posted above, “a field negro . com” tells us exactly what level they’re operating on over at HB.   Who would even entertain a website with such a name? 

Why should it matter? smh

Uh the Kardashians are Armenian ie Arabic (not white). And did you see Michael Jordan’s ex-wife? That guy deserves to get whatever he can after what she got paid in the settlement and how little she kept herself up. Also, I noticed that they didn’t author this article either. I guess the girls were at happy hour, had one too many margaritas and didn’t have any men stepping to them. Was it because they were overweight, loud and obnoxious? Can’t be!

I’ll be honest; what first attracts me to a woman is her appearance and then her personality. I’m dating a black woman now but I’ve dated women from every race and ethnicity a few times over.  I have a preference for black women but it’s hard to find ones that are in shape, have a good attitude, and overall very attractive. Let’s be real that’s hard to find. And I know alot of women will be like it shouldn’t matter what a girl looks like but again, let’s be real. Personality, ain’t gonna get it up in the bedroom (or kitchen, shower, living room, backyard hammock, etc) LOL I’m not into anorexic women (like how the haters on this site are trying to paint the brother in the picture above) I prefer women with meat, breasts, nice legs, and a shapely ass.

I see more and more black women dating white men but I don’t really hate on that. Alot of times the women are beautiful with incredible bodies but I understand the difficulties of trying to find a suitable mate period, let alone one in your race. I think the reason why so many black women hate on black men getting with white women is that its a pretty modern phenomenon. Everyone knows that the slavemaster and his scion have been getting with black women for centuries but you don’t really see black men dedicating websites and multiple news stories to it week by week. Maybe you should write a story about why that is?

Agreed.It’s ridiculous. Statistically speaking most black men date and marry black women.This article fetishsizes   these couples and it’s sickening. Quit posting this recycled garbage.

This is ridiculous, there are not enough black men married to white women nor dating the to really matter.  I love my sistas, wouldn’t have it any other way.

To be honest I love women period and it is all about who u fall in love with. No one can control that. And if u truly believe in god u don’t know who he will send your way

screw white women, I love my Latino women but I’m a Latino guy and I love Black women, I think they are the sexiest most gorgeous women on earth! But if I was black I would go with Latino or Black women, mostly all the white women I’ve met are evil, stupid, and they think they own this world! bad experiences, or is that real? u decide but I gave my point of view, but I would def respect anyones point of view….

everything starts at the home. if you cant have a healthy relationship with your husband how could you expect your child if you inspire him to want a healthy relationship to think he can acquire one from a woman that is similar in anyway to his own mother? 

there is nothing wrong with dating any race of woman, black, white,spanish,asain,mixed,,etc!!!
God made everybody. Plus i like the way mixed people make pretty exotic babies. Theres nothing wrong with that. IF a black man dates a white women, thats great, i support interrational %100…..

All black men doint like pink women you need to stop sterotyping us.I would say yhat most Black men are not stupid… Neal

More nonsense to divide and conquer black males and females.  Why don’t these “black” websites write articles that say “Why Do White Women Love Black Men?” and why don’t they run these articles on “white” websites?

Because that won’t promote white supremacy, that promotes BLACK SUPREMACY.

Here’s two main reasons some CONFUSED BM “love” white women:

1. They have been systematically BRAINWASHED by the a white supremacy system via media, TV, movies, educational system, and just being black in white america

2. They do not love themselves, and cannot love anyone who looks like themselves

Bottom line, if we lived in a purple skin supremacy system, and WW were transformed into women with green hair and purple skin, the SAME BM would think purple skin and green hair was beautiful.

It has NOTHING to do with WW “smelling” or looking different (aka better) and EVERYTHING to do with growing up black in a white supremacy system that programs black people from cradle to grave to think anything white is better.

Personally, I LOVE BLACK WOMEN, and think they are the most beautiful, sexiest, most desirable, most interesting women on the planet. And no propaganda on the planet will change that!

I was raised diversely (fostercare) and because of my upbringing, it is kind of hard to find a Black man with similar interests.  I have considered the possibility of dating a White man, not because of his skin color, but because of their more adventurous interests like camping, hanging out at the cafe and reading a good book, picnicking, mountain climbing, and other things.  When I ask a black man to do these things they say things like Black men don’t go into the woods and simply frown on my suggestions.  Now I find B lack men to be tantalizing sexy, but I find white men to be fufilling introspectively.  Also Black men frown upon my friendly nature while the White man is just as friendly as I am.   Now don’t get me wrong if a young suitable man of any ethnicity and  of a Christian religion have these traits he is a KEEPER.

O.J.

For those who do not know history! Blacks hooking up with whites, etc. happened even before slavery and then it was outlawed when slavery began! A woman is a woman is a woman! It matters not what the color of one skin is! You have piece of crap black women and you have piece of crap white women or any other race! We need to stop with this bulls**t about who loves who and why they love them!

What I do hate is when a black person or a white person puts down their own to big up another! Of course we can point out the good and bad experiences we have had with our and other races, but we cannot say that it is so that our experience is the experience for everyone!

I think we love to judge a book by it’s cover!

Cut yourself and the color of ones blood is the same! It has no distinction, other than the blood type!

This is an idiotic article and we need something that uplifts and not stupid articles like this!

Also, someone said they have no mixed family members! I am black and I have ancestors who are Indian, white, etc, yet I do not look the part! I guarantee you most black people, if you check you full history, has something with another race!

Only an idiot would say Black men do not love white women and vice versa! Sometimes I wish we were all blind and just loved the one you were with instead of the hate we may have for another race!

We should be able be with anyone no matter the race! Love is Love!

Shame on all who think otherwise!

Peace!

Hmmm, not sure what to say. I grew up in the bronx and and moved to Texas for a few years. I found that my taste in Women changed. Recently I have been spending more time in Europe (mostly England) and my tastes have changed again. I never, ever, ever thought that I would find white women attractive and now I do. It has nothing to do with “brain washing” or lack of knowledge of self.  I have also found that very few Black Women are attracted to me, so what do I do? They have a right to be looking for that 6 foot athlete (which I am not).

I would suggest that in some cases Black Men date White women for status. Some times to rebel. Other times just because they can. We should focus on the qualities of the individuals in the relationship as much as their color.

I am guessing that most of the pro-black comments are from Black Men who are fortunate enough to live in America in or around areas with a population of our sexy nubian sisters (I sure miss that) Unfortunately, where I am at right now the Black Women have lost their identity and are so busy trying to assimilate that they hide or cover up most of what I like about Black Women.

Let’s not talk about weaves, false eyelashes, wigs, bad make-up, etc but if you want to, Check out my blog on Iknowalotofstuff dot com.

By admitting that the long hair, light skindid look is more attractive we would also have to give a pass on the other Big Black issue which is Black Men dating non-Black Women.

how about none of your mother f**king jealous ass business.maybe they f**k better.or just more agreeable to the eyes of a black man or any man for that matter.why the f**k do i have to explain anything to any of you jealous b***hes???why are you concerned.go f**k a white boy.nobody gives a f**k.

I can’t get any black men to go snowmobiling so i understand your quandary. I live in a white state (hence, the snowmobiling) and I’ve dated one white man. I  prefer to be with a black man so I focus on my children, school and my business as I just don’t want to “settle”. If a non-black man were to come into my life with the qualities I am looking for, I honestly don’t know how I would respond.

I’m sick of all this stereo typing bullcrap. Not all Black men love white women. THere is interracial dating coming on today, accept it. Let them date whoever they want to. I personally wouldn’t date a white woman, but you know what, it’s their choice. Some black men think they are doing something big by dating a white woman as opposed to a Black woman, some black women think the same thing when they date white guys. Who cares, date whoever you want. Stop giving them the attention.

Wayne Brady’s wife is not white, she’s asian.  And I’m sure HB knows that but they feel they have to match Brady’s image with that of a white woman to make his haters happy.   Very weak article, HB.  But then all you care about is how many viewers you can get to click on and comment rather than giving us something useful.  Now I’m really convinced ya’ll are owned by some racists or self-hating coons.   But otherwise,  I don’t really have a problem with people who date other races because without IR dating,  I wouldn’t be here.   It’s no one elses  business who you date because it only affects the people involved.   I see alot of interracial couples here in the city and they seem to have it together better than most same race couples and if it’s working for them,  everyone needs to stop hating and don’t say sh!t.  My own parents have been together for 49 years.  

All I know is that my son knows that if he brings a flea bitten, dog hair, dog smelling leper in my house, he no longer has a mom.  I would disown him. 

@crammaster…You are right on point.  They’ve done an excellent job in dividing black people.  They know that once you adopt the ways of the oppressor you will become oppressed.

another ignorant black individual, why is it that out of all the countries of the world only black women are the ones not being loved by their own, im nigerian and majority love nigerian or caucasian, so do other countries of the world and that includes white. When I go out and see black women they show their sexy side (ass, breasts and face) 1st instead of I have a brain and can hold a decent conversation, and as they saying goes: “1st impression is the last impression”, white women are more adventurous (and I dont mean sex); willing to try out new things, e.t.c while black women are redundant, i’ve had black girlfriends, white, asian so I spea from experience. Only the white and liked going to starbucks and having a coffee while chatting about our economy, science, e.t.c they aren’t high maintenance because they prefer the substance of the relationship and not just material (although I spoilt them when I saw fit) so please it’s not propaganda, the rest of the world sees it, if you would stop being so naive (as well as the other people on here who haven’s lived in any other part of the world except america) go to other parts and see these things for yourself instead of judging using your own neighborhood as the only statistic. Thank you

Somehow I knew that cornball azz Wayne Brady was married to a leper. 

A lot of the black men that go to white woman seem to have this excuse,attitude or whatever that they tired of black women attitude.I personally stick to black woman cause in my opinion there’s nothing like a black woman,the beauty of a black woman and loyalty of a black woman is unmatched.The problem is a lot the men that stop dating black women and feel the black woman have too much an attitude are just not strong black men mentally..in my opinion.

another ignorant black individual, why is it that out of all the countries of the world only black women are the ones not being loved by their own, im nigerian and majority love nigerian or caucasian, so do other countries of the world and that includes white. When I go out and see black women they show their sexy side (ass, breasts and face) 1st instead of I have a brain and can hold a decent conversation, and as they saying goes: “1st impression is the last impression”, white women are more adventurous (and I dont mean sex); willing to try out new things, e.t.c while black women are redundant, i’ve had black girlfriends, white, asian so I spea from experience. Only the white and liked going to starbucks and having a coffee while chatting about our economy, science, e.t.c they aren’t high maintenance because they prefer the substance of the relationship and not just material (although I spoilt them when I saw fit) so please it’s not propaganda, the rest of the world sees it, if you would stop being so naive (as well as the other people on here who haven’s lived in any other part of the world except america) go to other parts and see these things for yourself instead of judging using your own neighborhood as the only statistic. Thank you

Will this topic ever end!?!?!?
THIS IS A BULLSH*T ARTICLE!!!
I could care less what the other man or woman is dating!!!
What happens behind closed doors is none of my business!!!
And hearing that old adage that black men are weak and cannot handle a true black woman because they have dated outside their race is BULLSH*T!!!
It is bad enough just trying to meet someone decent – NO MATTER WHAT COLOR THEY ARE!!!
And there are other races out there other than WHITE!!!
And with the opening statement in this article with TIger Woods, PEOPLE — His mother is Asian (NOT WHITE) so his mother was cooking him fried rice, not fried chicken and was raised mostly as a Buddist!!!
And the ones who do talk this bullsh*t usually are attracted to the offspring of mixed relationships — HERE ARE SOME EXAMPLES of mixed raced individuals —