The emotion seemed sincere but C’MON, C’MON mannnnn… This is your child. (To cover both bases) MEN & WOMEN need to stop with the craptastic, not to forget LAME excuses for not seeing your child(ren). Whether it’s “things that transpired between his mother and I” or ‘she and I don’t get along’ excuse. This is your child too, and the court will see to it that your RIGHTS are represented, but just like in the lottery ‘you have to play to win’ you have to actually go TO the courthouse and file to get visitation. Geez.

I love The T.O. Show. I hate that his last episode is coming up. That sucks. The connection between him and Kita is funny, but great to look at. I think they have good chemistry together. And I always say Kita want T.O. She try to deny it but they do work good together. Oh and as for T.O. crying over the son he never met, that was sincere. But I wonder why he never met his son. The show just keep getting better and better. And now its about to end. :( BYW, is he engage to that gold digging white girl? If he is, that sucks too. After all the argueing, and cheating, why would they get engaged? SMH.

i a agree with febcalendergirl.. you have to be in your kids life.. thats your job as a a parent.

Yeah people do give some lame azz excuses about why they cant see their kid or have’nt seem them. Its more so of them just not wanting to go through certain things…just imagine what a child growing up without one of its parents is going through? Its going be ok T.O, be a man about it, handle your biz and do whats right for your kid…not whats just right for you.

@Mizraim69 you right, Only White women do that crap. But, Wow, I think T.O is sincere. I wish women would stop using kids to hurt the father’s of their child. I mean, what sport star do you know that’s not Wh0ish? When that child grows up, he is not going to ask about his father promiscuous ways, or even how much money did my father make, the only question he going to ask is, “Why did you keep my father away from me?”

he be slingin dat dyck all over the place he missed one of his seeds huh?…..the things money can do…

Men don’t leave their kids,they leave the trifling mother of the kids…

ok, sweetback. first of all it’s why don’t men use condoms, as opposed to why doesn’t these men use condoms. these men? secondly, who are you to judge TO? are there no senior editors here on bp who monitor the juniors?

Another bitter young man growing up in the world without a real identity. I just men wouldn’t use excusing when it comes to taking care of your children… I’m a advocate of the court system but they are design to speak for the people who don’t have a voice.. Stop that crying and handling your business as man and a father….

and why aren’t women using birth control? this ain’t no rocket science. if a woman has unprotected sex with a man, she’s aware of the ‘risk’.

a hot mess.. if your using protection than you wouldn’t have 2 worry about children that you didn’t know you had, children you’ve never seen or children that you didn’t want..

@ maple_sugar47.. get a grip.. men are just as responsible for preventing pregnancy and STD’s as well as the man.. The man’s seed helps create life and he shouldn’t be busting off his seeds everywhere.. both are responsible..

Wow…I hope he gets to building a relationship with his estranged son. I pray that he and the mother can put aside their disdain for each other for the sake of the child.

why can’t he see his son.. all that $$$ he got.. if he really cared he should’ve fought to see his son.. this is a publicity stunt.. why announce it on TV to your therapist when all you had to do was take the mother to court for visitations and/or joint custody..

he needs to SAT DOWN

This brotha is full is chit. Out.

FIRST AND FOREMOST WE DO NOT KNW THE SITUATION AND OR EVENT BTW T.O. AND THE MOTHER OF HIS SON….HOWEVER IT’S REALLY NEVER TOOO LATE TO BE A FATHER TO HIS SON…I’M NOT TAKING UP OR DEFENDING WHY HE HAS NOT SEEN HIS SON IF YOU LOOK CLOSELY T.O HAS ISSUES WITHIN HIMSELF HE HAS TO CONFRONT THAT HOLDING HIM BACK….BRB I’M SOOOOOOOOO GOING IN ON THIS!!!!!!

my girl Phazex said it..he’s full of shyt…

Wow, smh there are really a lot of ignorant people in the world that are just okay being just that. I have had to raise three children on my own because their fathers couldn’t handle the fact that I left their tired butts. So, they refused to see their children and to this day my daughters dad hasn’t seen her in 4 years. To those who say that men don’t want to deal with the children’s mom… that’s fine make arrangements to have the kids dropped off at a relatives house something other than being sorry and making excuses for being sorry. What happened to being an adult and taking care of your responsibilities? When did taking care of your children become an option? It don’t matter what the hell the specifics are the bottom line facts are this man has a kid and isn’t in there life like some two year old throwing a fit gaga goo because he don’t like mommy smh SO PATHETIC… My thing is how men like him get u and look at their sorry asses is the mirror everyday. My daughters dad calls now but still hasn’t requested to see her, my bys dad has t check with his girlfriend lol. Pathetic. Grow up men and women out there who are not taking care of yur kids. They are the ONLY ones who truly suffer… T.O. should know that because his father wasn’t around…. wow. When is not taking care f your kids going to be just as bad as any major crime and treated as such?!!!!

So the Freak what! When ISN’T T.O. crying? why is it news. Just take care of what’s yours period

i don’t give good hot damn about how much animosity a man and a woman has towards each other…when u lay down and create a child, it’s time to let that shyt go and become responsible and respectful parents…if u don’t want to see the other parent, then make arrangements for a family member or a mutual friend to pick up the child . it’s not that hard…stop using that lame ass excuse…grow the hell up and take care of ur responsibilities…this goes for men and women!!

Once a diva, always a diva. @Icon, no matter how trife baby-mama may or may not be you take part in your kids’ lives. The ‘trifling mother of the kids’ excuse is some weak chit.

Ok, Now what is it that another one of these f**ked up athletes wants us to believe now. Before i just totally disrespect this airhead mofo. Let me get this straight. This blog is about T.O (Terrell Owens)and him never seeing a son he has. SMFH, this is another full of s**t nucca. This mofo got two daugthers age five and they not twins, (what does that tell you) then a son he has never met, but this nucca on reality T.V trying to find some chick to marry. So this nucca finds more time to play on T.V looking to marry somebody,but don’t have the time to find/see his son. Wow and black women are mad that he don’t f**k with sistas. who the f**k would look at garbage like this. Can we say Screwball. This is one twisted minded black man. So now the excuse of why he has never seen his son, don’t tell me the “Baby Mama”. what could she be doing so outrageous. Wait i got it( she got 20 marksmen sitting in towers surrounding her house with Terrell’s picture that says “Shoot to kill as soon as you see the white of his eyes.”)This nucca is unbelievable. He f**ked to get the kid, Now you got this emotional b***h s**t going on. this is a b***h ass nucca. He ain’t even step up to the plate to see a son he has made. This nucca of all people should know what it is not to have a father in his life . This mess is unacceptable. Unless he was one of those nuccas who want a woman to get rid of the chil1d. Humm now the child here he can’t face his own demons.where the f**k is the firing squad when you need one. T.O you full of s**t dude. You ain’t even look for the legal action you can take. I don’t feel sorry for you at all i feel so sorry for his children and the women they have to actually live with a piece of this sorry excuse of a man for the rest of there life. Thanks to my Dad for being there from day One. Dad we weren’t rich but we were enriched because you were there.

Damn the cycle continues… As if there isn’t enough young men growing up with out their fathers.Men/women please think of the children they didn’t ask to be here and now they have to suffer because people can’t be civil to each other.Well I hope T.O. get the help he needs and be a father to his son.

Thats pretty much it @ everybdoy who said he’s full of chit, mos def is right along with all the other lazy, lame loser azz men who make excuses…just say your not interested and could care less or have no time to get away from your fun and fame to deal with a kid, sounds harsh, but at least they would be telling the truth.

man up!

everybody

All I have to say is proctect your lover and wear a rubber. I wonder how many STD’s he has had.

I FEEL HE’S STANDING UP AND TAKE FULL AWARE THAT HE HAS A CHILD OUT THERE THAT HE HASNT SEEN.MOST MEN AND IM NOT SAYING EVERY MAN,BUT HAS MADE CHILDREN AND UP AND LEAVE W/O SO MUCH AS A HI AND COMING TO SEE THE CHILD.DURING HIS SHOW HE HAS MADE GREAT EFFORTS TO CONNECT WITH THE TWO GIRLS THAT ARE SISTERS I LOVE THIS CAUSE IT GIVES HIM THE POINT TO WHERE HE KNOWS HIS FATHER MADE THE MISTAKE OF WALKING OUT ON HIM, AND HE’S A GREAT FATHER AND I PRAY HE FINDS HIS BOY.MEN HAVE BEEN A BACKBONE IN THEIR KIDS LIVES ALSO CAUSE SOME FATHER ARE LIKE MOTHER AND FATHER TO THEIR KIDS.BUT IF U ARE NOT DOING ANYTHING FOR YOUR KID(S) THEN U CANT CALL YOURSELF A FATHER.MEN WHO ARE STRONG AND WITH IT I THANK GOD FOR U CAUSE MOTHERS CANT DO IT ALONE.

I think situations like this is straight bs…1st off, the 2 of u had to get along at sum point in time bc if u didnt there would be no kid. So when did she fall out of ur good grace? When she demanded that u stand up and be a man and a father? Or was it when she told u she was pregnant and keeping it? Imma need for all these lil boys pretending to be men to stop reproducing until you ready for what it brings bc all u leave behind is a mother who has to do your role as well as hers while dealing with a resentful child who is hurt that their father isnt in their life. GROW UP…its ur son’s turn to be a child; yours is over!!!

cant really say too much on his situation because i dont really know about it but i can say from experience dat females can be some tru bytches. my ex and i broke up because she wouldnt let him see his son since we were together and she wanted him back. she would let him go pick up their son and then an hour last ask to come over and “chill” with them and when he would say no she would go crazy and ask for the baby back. once she even told them that he kidnapped his own son. he eventually got a dna test done and put himself on child support so that he could try to get visitation rights and partial custody. some females just do crazy things.

To speak frankly,

I myself am scarred with the absence of the father or “father figure.”

Its tough teaching self how to be a man or and father. You try not to repeat the wrongs done to you only to make new ones or more of the same.

But that is the hand I am or we are dealt.

Ladies and gentlemen…You betta know the other person just as well as you know self and vise-versa. Long before you even think about bringing another life into this crazy a$$ world.

It’s hard enough as it is…

hE’S Allways crying

I like the fact that he is holding himself accountable. Maybe this will encourage other absent fathers to step up to the plate….KUDOS T.O.

SO TRUE ALL OF THESE COMMENTS, MY SONS FATHER LEFT LONG AGO TO PROCREATE WITH ANOTHER, AND TAKES CARE OF THAT CHILD, AND HAS PUT OUR CHILD TO THE SIDE….AMAZING TO ME, YET DREADFULLY SAD BECAUSE AS A SINGLE MOTHER WHO WAS RAISED BY A SINGLE MOTHER, THIS SHY T IS HARD…..KUDDOS T.O. FOR MANNING UP. HOPEFULLY THE GOOD LORD WILL OFFER MY AHOLE BD A BOP ON THE HEAD AND SHOW HIM THE RIGHT WAY. STAY BLESSED BP

@Rere2010 I feel the same way first off They had to gotten alone at one point to had made a child and second Terrell is always crying over something. Be a man and stop crying. :)

Why can’t men wear condoms? Maybe he wanted a child. He’s rich enough. Why can’t women keep their legs closed? (if ya wanna be ignant about it)

Another thing is, if a man can not shed a tear for a son he’s never met, then when can he? Geez …

This is another case of black women trying to find something wrong with black men. Stop being brainwashed into degrading your black men and stripping them of their role in our family, like THEY intended for you to do.

ALL THESE KIDS IS ALL HE BETTER BE GLAD HES COMING UP WITH. KIDS FROM ALL OVER THE DAMN PLACE IS BAD ENOUGH. ONE OF THESE DAYS, T.O. IS GOING TO GET A PACKAGE HE CANT DELIVER WITH HIS NO CONDOM USING SELF. AND IM NOT TALKING ABOUT KIDS….

Isn’t therapy supposed to be confidential?

Don’t have children until you are “selfless” enough to understand that they come first! How many women have been left to raise children alone as a single parent because the father of those children felt that his responsibility to his kids stopped when the relationship ended? Don’t they get it yet?ITS NOT ABOUT YOU AND THAT WOMAN! I hate when women intentionally play manipulative games,using innocent children as a pawn because they have issues with that man.If he has not abused that child or children allow him to be a parent. He helped to create the baby. Men financially support your children BUT understand that it being a father in the true sense of the word requires something more than just a monthly check. Being a dad is more than getting your kid(s) name tatted on ya arm or back. Being a father is being present on a regular basis in that child’s life, until adulthood,and beyond. If that woman is playing games and refusing to respect your right to be a part of your kids like go to court and fight for that right, even if that means being mandated to pay child support, through the courts. T.O. is a celebrity athlete, and he has the money to take care of his children. Whether he does or not I don’t know but he needs to find that child, and put forth an effort to play a role in his life. I don’t have a problem with a man shedding tears , because it shows that he’s human. Some men are taught their entire lives that shedding tears is a sign of weakness. If it’s ok for a woman to cry when she’s hurt than why isn’t it ok for man to cry? That twisted thinking is exactly why we have so many hurt, emotionally repressed, hurting men hurting others. Let it out, talk it out, deal with the issues, and try to get over them, so that they don’t stagnate your growth and ability to do right by your children.

And just to add to what I already stated in previous post… I don’t follow T.O. sports accolades etc, nor do I view his show on regular basis, but I have seen a few episodes. I do give him an E for effort for seeking counseling and admitting that hes been an absentee dad. Some men don’t do that much. Its been said that first step to getting help is admitting that you have a problem. If you can’t do that much your not ready. He’s already missed out on so much of that little boys life, but he still has an opportunity to make it right.

@kaikai sounds like you may need some therapy too, taking it personal much?

It is easy to speak about the things people go through.But you must think about the way people see life.He has to deal with his own issues.If you all have fingers to point look at yourself as well.I can guarantee most people on this site are not virgins!!!In addition to that think about each man as a potential man that could have impregnated any of you women.And men think about how many women could be your seed carriers.Destiny is written the way it must be!Have compassion!You could be wearing His Shoes at anytime(COMING TO A THEATRE NEAR YOU!)!So consider how you see others.Cause you may be the one in tears sooner than you think!No birth control is completely effective,99.9 percent isn’t 100%.The best way to prevent anything abstaining!!!Lol,I believe that statement leaves many face frowned up!Nevertheless,You can never say what the future holds!People change up even those that seem to be the most consistent!Trusting God is the only constant.

he needs to see that kid now b4 its too late. soon the kid will 16

I don’t know where anyone gets that he’s manning up.. He isn’t. All he said was that he hasn’t seen his son becasue of issues with the mother. Show immaturity on his part. He can’t be a man if he is letting his issues with the mother keep him from the child.

I have a huge concern with this already well compensated athlete going on national TV for which he is being paid…again…to air his issues. Seems like one big act to me.. Would he be doing this if he weren’t in front of a camera and getting $$$.

Just do it and set an example through action.. whole lot of talk right now!!!

I so wholeheartely agree with “Wincie.” He should make a way to squash the madness between himself and his son’s mother. I wasn’t so lucky. Although I knew I had a father out there somewhere, he never tried (or at least that’s what my mom said) find me. By the time I did find out who he was, he had already passed. I was about 41 at the time. My mom ran into his sister (my new aunt) at a rehabilitation center. My aunt was having rehab since she had a knee replacement. I also found out I have two sisters, one older and one younger. I haven’t met them just yet. So I plan to go to Philly ’round Thanksgiving to meet anyone that wants to meet me. This should be very interesting to say the least. Oh my father passed of massive heart attack in 1994; I now have heart issues as well. Children need to know who their parents are!!! Blessed love you all…

Its amazing how women automatically assume when a man is not a part of a child’s life its because he isn’t stepping up! That is far from the truth. I know for a fact (through experience) that many women use the kid as a bargaining chip or to be controlling. The relationship doesn’t work, so now your not allowed to see the kid. He is admitting that he needs to get in contact. Acknowledgment is important. Some of you women sound very jaded. its not all men, just the ones you decide to procreate with. There are even those women who have mothers that control the situation and pollute their daughter’s head against the guy, for whatever selfish reason they may feel. LIke her ex husband didn’t play a part, so you won’t either! I hate to say it, but there are women who WANT AND LIKE being the victim. No visitation, but send money and play your part. BS, kids are not bargaining chips. Also, your just as responsible for who you allow to impregnate you too! Maybe get to know that dude better before you start having babies! Take some personal responsibility!

its funny how men always get bashed for not seein their children or havin many children but no one says anything about the female who did let him go without a condom. it takes two and if she didnt let him go raw dawg then possibly this wouldnt have happened.

He wasn’t tearing up over his son, he was tearing up thinking about the way his dad treated him and how his grandmother refused to let the father treat him that way. The cycle continues.

@dhalil u are correct

Lets face it– He was T.O. when he had the kid. Meaning the woman knew he was a rising star. He said he did not see the kid, he did not say he was not paying child support- which I’m sure he is. (She got lawyers for that.)

It is a possibility the woman had no interest in TO other than his money. She got her kid and her check and he was probably a dog anyway, so she’s now supplementing her income with a check from TO. It’s all good.

In this case who’s getting played- TO or his baby mama?

The only time a woman should keep a man from a child he fathered is if the man is a DANGER to the child. Abusive, violent, suffering from addiction.

It trips me out to see women hold children over a man’s head as a means of controlling or hurting someone. If you two didn’t work out, keep the beef between you two, don’t drag an innocent child into the mix. It’s sick and demented.

am proud of u guys,good comment

he has 4 kids and millions kids that he is in there life ,except the one which it seems like it more behind seen

hey the child is supposed to 3 years old.no real damage is done to him yet.If the woman had any sense she should let him be a part of his growing up.so many youth are in prison and one reason for that is you have selfish women,who wants tp punished a man for the same thing she done and that was illegal sexual act that brought a life in to the world,so what if the Creator struck her down,”show me a woman that is always tearing her maan down and you will live to see her children tear her down,”In jail for life or in the grave or a wheel chair.come on people let’s get it right.Be bigger than the next person.

First of all true T.O is not to blame for the non-existant father in his life, but your an adult now and it is not fair to this child that he does not know who you are. For people to say there is no damage to this child “WTF” I knew at 2 and 3 that my father was not present in my life and that I was suppose to have one. When my step-father came along then I had a full time dad, but it was nothing my mother said but children are not dumb and they don’t have to get a certain age before they tap into intelligence. My daughter was born premature while my husband was in Iraq but she asked questions , what I mean by that is the way they communicate pointing at pics and yes it was my job as her mother to let her know that’s daddy even though they had not met. The woman in this situation is at fault also for extranging her son from him and even if he’s not stepping up to be a man cause he does not know how it’s up to her also to meet him half way and show him what her son needs and it’s not just money. I hope in the end he get’s it together before this child is serverly damaged emotionally. T.O buy a mentor if that is what you need to do, I am sure there are plenty upstanding black men out there who would love to talk to you and help you.

Thats bulls**t..Thats what the courts are for..If he wanted to see the little boy bad enuff he would take the mother to court and handle his business..I didin’t have a father in my life except my stepfather but that didn’t keep me from being in my kids life after my divorce..Cat’s kill me talking about the moma tripping and she won’t let me see my child(ren)..Get a court order and get rights to see your child..Most cats really scared of paying child support but don’t make the child and don’t take care of it..T.O always crying like a little B***h.Be a man and move on player..Handle your responsiblities and take care of your kids..End Of Story.

The fact that his own father was not in his life should have been a factor with regards to him never seeing his son. I’m sorry but it dosen’t fly with me that lame excuse that “his son’s mother and him did not get along”. What part of this is the child’s fault?! This is why we have a court system along with “checks and balances” to ensure that parent’s have their rights! I am not buying his lame excuse! Shame on you brother and get it together.

I feel for you T.O Ihave same situation with grandson.His father would rather sell drug than to give him the support for his living. My daughter was eighteen years old my grandson was born and the father has always been in his life ,but he dose not want to work he sells bud to make his living instead get out and doing leagal way. I have been the menator between my daughter and the father of this child i just got tried of the fighting between the both parents so i stop. Do guys this if he dose not pay child support should beable to see child? That question i concern about. At wits end, To please be their for the child no matter what! Beverly in Kansas

Okay… Where are the adults in this situation. I can be extremely immature, and my children’s dad knows this, but no way in hell am I going to let my tantrums interrupt their relationship. That’s sucka s**t.

T.O. has the resources to see this child why doesnt he use them. Im sure he is paying child support to the mother so u cant also get visitation as well. Both parties are at fault here for not allowing this child to know its father her for not letting T.O. seeing him and T.O. for not taking action in seeing him. If they didnt get along there are ways for him to see the child without him even speaking to her that is what the court system is for. I feel sorry for the kid bc everyone should know both parents

We all need to be responsible, men and womem. It takes two to make a baby. It’s not just men who have kids with different ladies. I know womens who has baby with different mens. This is a problem that’s going on in our culture. When we admit all of our problems that gooing on with us (men and women) maybe we will come up with solution. T.O didn’t wear a condom but she didn’t refuse to sex. The responsibility lie’s on both parties not just one.

OKAY T.O.: YOU ARE A STRAIGHT B***H TO ME RIGHT NOW. YEAH I WENT THERE. HE HAS SOME TYPE OF MONEY AND ACCESS TO LAWYERS. IF YOU REALLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR KID, GET OFF YOUR LAZY SELF CENTERED ASS AND MAKE IT HAPPEN. IT MAKES ME MAD WHEN DUDES ACT LIKE THAT, TELL THAT CHICK SO WHAT I AM A PARENT TOO AND I HAVE RIGHTS. SOME GUYS NEED TO STEP UP AND SHUT UP, DO YOUR JOB. OR WEAR A CONDOM OR GET HEAD FOR REAL. SICK OF THIS S**T. HE SHOULD BE FINED FOR UNNECESSARY BULLS**TTING AROUND WITH A KID’S LIFE. HE HAS TIME TO CATCH BALLS OR OTHER BS BUT HIS FATHER DUTIES TAKES A BACKSEAT.

What planet are some of your people on? As I am not going to completely condone TO’s lack of responsibility, I am not going to blame him either. There are women out there that use their child or children as PAWNS in this little game they play. Most of these women only want the child of an athlete JUST to get the child support. If you believe otherwise, then you are truly dilussional. I work with pro athletes and my son is a professional football player and I see the manipulation of these women each and everyday. It’s disgusting but some make it their life’s mission to have an athlete’s baby. I wish Terrel the best of luck and hope that he meets his son. The fact that he admits the child’s existance is a step in the right direction. Instead of attempting to crucify the man, how about some compassion? There is a mother in the picture, WHY isn’t se pushing the issue? I wonder how many holier then thou bloggers have kids out there they don’t support or acknowledge. If those men didn’t exist then there would be no need for shows like “Maury” or for the court systems in the first place. Remember that next time you want to condemn.

I would call it a breakdown but he did tear up. If he and the baby’s momma got drama, then she may be behind him not having any contact with the child. He should try harder to have some kid of relationship with this child even if he has to go through the courts to do it. Depends on how bad he wants it.

All I have to say! is get in your son life NOW………. because when your son grow up without a dad in his life the words you just said about your dad… the same and return… i have four children in my life now they all move out living life now … still with no FATHER………but you have to always rember that you are going to need them one day when you get old…. and they want be there for you….. i never said bad words about they dad i would always tell all of them to call for birthdays…. father day…. but when i push them to do something like that MY CHILDREN WOULD ALWAYS SO NO… NO…. MOM… THAT SAD… THEY WOULD MAKE STATEMENT THAT HE WASN’T THERE FOR THEM…..I WILL JUST PRAY THAT THING WILL CHANGE ONE DAY…..before his life end because everyone has a day to leave the world………and that’s real talk.

@mytgdman4u Man I give you ur props, u got that 3rd Eye…Way to see through T.O’s bull$hit…You right, all the money he has, if he would like to see his child, he should go to court, and get visitation Rights…OneLuv

Blame your moma dude.She gave it up to a loser.

I would expect females to lash out because its TYPICAL for a female to say “NO MATTER WHAT A MAN SHOULD BE IN THE CHILDS LIFE NO EXCUSES..BLAH BLAH BLAH”

And on the other hand, some of you women are doing this VERY THING to your own children and their father(s). It doesn’t matter how much money a woman has, women has the POWER to get a man LOCKED the F*CK UP. And sometimes PUSHING too hard to be in the child’s life can cause a man serious SERIOUS VERY VERY SERIOUS STRESS and can even cause INSANITY.

WHy can’t a man jus BE a father to his child? Well, because if that man IS in fact trying or have tried its because teh MOTHER and her bitterness makes it more and more difficult.

Daddy or NO daddy its only so much a man can take from the MOTHER.

Most women in these bitter battles do more TAKING IT OUT ON THE CHILD than the men do. However, the MEN get all the flack for it for not BEING THERE. And because you dont see the man anywhere in sight you assume that EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM is true..all due to the DAMSIL in distress signal that she gives off or the POOR HELPLESS single mother syndrome….MOST women are great actors….so UNTIL we get the FULL DETAILS of why T.O. hasn’t met his son we cannot JUDGE…dont call him a P*SSY OR A B*TCH BECAUSE he got lots of money…MONEY is the very reason why HE PROLLY can’t see the child…

Wether yall know it or not, the more money you have the more POWER the “BROKE PARTY” has…..the court system favors the BROKE person….

Don’t know what happen between him and the baby mama but she need to put it behind her and let him see his son. This is about the child and he is missing out with the relationship between him and his father. I truly understand why some women do the things they do because these men want to be dads when they want to, which isn’t right. But us as women have to realize two wrongs don’t make a right and its not about us it about the child. A men is going to be a men rather you like it or not but I do realize that you don’t want that father of a man being a part time dad. I was in a similar situation just months ago with my son father and our child isn’t even born yet. I was fighting and arguing with him almost everyday but I realized “I’M LEARNING TO LET GO, AND ACCEPT THAT SOME THINGS CAN’T BE CHANGED, AND THAT THERE IS NO POINT IN WORRYING OVER SOMETHING U CAN’T CONTROL”

Can’t stand when men make lame excuses for not seeing their kid. There is only one person stopping him and that’s T.O. And if the mother is causing problems, that’s what courts are for.

Shame. grow up T.O.

f**k that s**t the courts can make you pay for your child so you can make courts make the childs mom let you see him, f**k her…dont give no wack ass excuse… thankfully i dont have any problems seeing my son and we’re not in the court system but if push came to shove and she started getting stupid f**k it….lets get the white people involved…

Aww… he just needs a big hug and a kiss. He also needs to start using some protection so that these kind of things don’t happen. I really think that its not just his fault, his therapist was right about the child shouldn’t suffer because of one parent. T.O. deserves to see his child. I mean… look how he felt about his dad.
I know a person in the same position but they know their kids and the big problem was that the father didn’t want to be with the mother because she was so obsessive and really jealous, so she turns the kids against their dad because he didn’t want to be with her, she was always thinking he was cheating and she would be physically abusive to her baby daddy, he just didn’t want to be in that type of relationship. Even though he tried to stay, he would work late, be tired when he would come home and she wants to have sex, but hes too tired so she jumps on him thinking hes been out cheating stabbing him with little objects and stuff. So he tries to leave and go stay the night at his mothers house, so why hes getting ready she calls the police on him and lies and says he did something to her. He tries to explain what happened but ends up going to jail because he didn’t want to have sex! Thats crazy! This happened to this person many, many of times so he finally did leave her.
So I think its not the mens fault all the time, most of the time its the womens fault of being way, way tooo insecure, that drives a man to cheat or not want to be with them. I have female friends that says stuff about what they did to their baby daddy, and I just shake my head and think… now he isn’t with you anymore, hes with another woman, your jealous, so you don’t let him see his child and then you try to act like he don’t come see his child mmm what a shame….
I’m not taking anyones side but holding something against someone forever and keeping secrets is not going to solve a problem it just hurts the child and makes them ask that question “Why wasn’t you ever there for me?” OMG! I didn’t even know you was here on this earth because your mother didn’t tell me …so, so SAD. It the truth!

he cries in EVERY episode of his show. what doesnt he cry about…

Yall being waaay too hard on T.O….He is just a Wide Receiver from the South no less. All he knows is ” Me catch funny looking ball…Me run to funny looking big yellow thingee….Everybody happy for T.O.”….You can’t expect him to be smart enough to actually go to Family Court and get a Visitation Order…Even if he pays Child Support….Cmon…Imagine trying to explain that to him? “Me go Visitcation?”

I like T.O. and I wish him the best. At least he shown happiness for not seeing his son or knowing of him. What do you say to the men who were there when their child was born and still is not in the kid life. Only time will tell is the tears he shed was real or not and that is what should matter for right now.

crying because that’s 1 more check he has to cut now. lol

I’M NOT BUYING IT. ALL THESE NEGROES NEVER WANT TO DO BETTER THAN THEIR OWN NO GOOD FATHERS TOWARD THEIR SONS. I’M NOT BUYING IT. THE COURTS WERE THERE TO HELP HIM SEE HIS SON. HE SUCKS LIKE THE NEGRO MAN WHO ABANDONED HIM, AND ALL THE REST.

HE MADE THAT DIAGLOGUE WITH THE PSYCH ABOUT HIMSELF, INSTEAD OF ABOUT HIS NEGLECT OF HIS OWN CHILD. HE WAS CRYING FOR HIMSELF ONLY. HE’S AN ADULT NOW WITH A GREAT LIFE. HE DESERVES NO SYMPATHY FOR CREATING ANOTHER NEGLECTED BOY CHILD. HE SUCKS AND I WONT WATCH HIS TV SHOW AGAIN UNTIL HE SHOWS SOME REAL REMORSE AND HAVE HIS SON ON THE SHOW, FULLY IN HIS LIFE. RIGHT NOW HE IS JUST ANOTHER NEGRO MAN JERK TO ME.

i totally agree. black white it dont matter when they abandon their kids.. they need to go to hell…. i recently had a baby and my husband decided he didnt want to do the family thing anymore after 2 kids 5yrs later. he left as soon as the new baby arrived. he aint s**t and all he did was follow his father foot steps.

@enid1
NOT ONLY THAT ENID HE ALSO SHOWS A LOT OF HATE AGAINST BLACK WOMEN EVENTHOUGH THEY FED AND CLOTHED HIM. THE BEAUTIFUL BLACK ASSISTANT, WHO HE WOULD BE SO EVENLY YOLKED WITH (CANT THINK OF HER NAME) HE IGNORES IN FAVOR OF WHITE WOMEN HE HAS NOTHING IN COMMON WITH. NOTHING. HE DOESNT WANT TO TAKE CARE OF A BLACK WOMAN OR A BLACK CHILD.

HIS CHOICE OF A WHITE WOMAN PSYCH IS FOOLISH. SHE CANT IDENTIFY WITH A BLACK MAN’S PROBLEMS AND SHE CANT HELP HIM SOLVE THEM. HE’S MAKING HER RICH AT $300/HOUR.

ONLY GOD CAN HELP HIM FORGIVE AND MOVE FORWARD IN HIS LIFE. ONLY GOD CAN SHOW HIM THE WAY TO FORGIVENESS, PEACE AND UNDERSTANDING. ONCE HE GETS GOD HE WILL LOVE HIMSELF, AND HIS BLACK PEOPLE. UNTIL THEN HE’LL BE NEGLECTING, IGNORING AND MAKING EXCUSES.

I totally agree with u guys T.O. has know excuse for not doing his job as a father to all his kids nomatter if he’s with the mother or not.I didnt meet my father until I was 32yrs old & like T.O. my father has about 12 different kids by 6 mothers and was a terrible father with money & good credit but Im not made at him it help me to be a better father to my 4 kids who are now at the age of 22,21,19,15 & Im still in their lives today & still married to their mom but I didnt have the opportunity nor the money that T.O. & my dad has but Im a better man than both of them put together.And I totally agree that T.O. is making this about him & not the child he really needs to do some soul searching within himself.Hollaback Loverboyshon

@loverboyshon
u r a hero and a responsible man. keep setting the example, and dont let the jerks convince u they have an excuse. someone has to force them to be MEN, and stop acting like boys.

I KINDA LIKE T.O. THE MORE I WATCH HIS SHOW & HE OPENS UP ABOUT DIFF THINGS IN HIS LIFE…SHOWS HE’S HUMAN. I HOPE HE BUILDS A SOLID RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS SON & STAYS IN HIS DAUGHTER’S LIFE. OH AN GET STABLE WITH ONE FOOTBALL TEAM LOL

I have no sympathy for Owens and his excuses and the phony crying he does every episode.

My son and his mom never had a good relationship. she just wanted CS checks without me seeing my son. I went to the courts and got visitation rights. TO is too old for this lame excuse

@ blkpuddn.
you have to wonder why it took having cameras around for his TV show for him to come to this realization. the dude is 37.

please explain to me why so many celebrate men out there do it, why have unprotected sex with so many women and than have babies some you can see( and dont), some dont see ( cause you’re to busy). I am sorry but I do not feel sorry for T.O because there are real every day brothers out here doing the right thing by their babies and Men like T.O with money and fame dont do everything they are suppose too!!!!!!!!

@BLAS1AN06 I UNDERSTAND WHAT U ARE SAYING & I AGREE TO A POINT…BUT I DO BELIEVE EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO MAKE MISTAKES…SUM MAY SAY IT’S NOT A MISTAKE…THAT HE’S GROWN & SHOULD KNOW BETTER. PPL GOTTA REALIZE EVERYONE DOESN’T MATURE AT THE SAME PACE OR WHEN EXPECTED TO. NOBODY’S LIFE IS PERFECT…SO WE REALLY CAN’T AFFORD TO BE THE JUDGE, JURY & EXECUTIONER.

Sweetness 1810 : Is there a particular reason why you choose to see more to my post than there is to it? Seriously everyone within this thread appears to be equally passionate about the topic , but yet you chose to pinpoint my comment for what reason? My commenting on T.O. (who is a celebrity in the public eye,and human being) has nothing to do with me, and NO I don’t need therapy but you might!lmao You know what ?lol Girl please! Next ,moving right along to more important things than addressing you.

Hey everyone deserves a chance 2 get it right , i commend him 4 getting intouch with his real self and wanting 2 get 2 know his children, maybe he did’nt have his father in his life 2 teach him how 2 b a man.

Now This Is One You Know What That Needs To Stop Crying.It Seems Like Time Every Time I See This You Know What On T.V. He’s Crying. Another Thing That I Have To Say Is, Why In The Hell Did This Dude Return To The White League, Yeah I Said It The White League The N.F.L. ! I Think His Show Is Great, When He’s Not Crying/Acting Or Whatever He Chooses To Call It. I’m Just Saying He Can Do The Modeling Thing, He Probably Has His Degree, Or Almost Does.I Just Don’t Get It !

For those of you who dont know, Terrell Owens didnt meet his dad till he was 12 when he was playing with the girl from across the street. Her dad came outside and said you cant play with her. TO asked why and he said “because she is your sister.”
Kind of a f*@^%ed up way to meet your father for the first time and he lived across the street. So TO can cry if he wants to. And you shouldnt go judging people until you know their story or walk their shoes.

I AGREE WITH SAULD420…REALLLY I DIDN’T GROW UP WITH MY FATHER AND I KNOW HOW IT FEELS AND NOW HOPEFULLY I WILL JUST BE MEETING HIM PROBABLY THIS YEAR OR NEXT YEAR…HE’S IN HAITI RIGHT NOW…SO IT’S HARD PUTTING THE PIECES OF THE PUZZLE OF YOU TOGETHER TO UNDERSTAND YOU AS A PERSON…I LIKE TERRELL’S SHOW AND I REALLY NEVER THOUGHT HE WAS A FIRE HEAD OR NOTHING BAD…I CAN’T BELIEVE OTHERS THOUGHT HE WAS A BAD GUY IN FOOTBALL…HEY IF I COULD PLAY THE WAY HE DOES I WOULD SHOW OFF TOO AND DO MY TOUCH DOWN AND DANCE TOO…LOL…FOOTBALL HAS GOTTEN BORING SINCE THEY NOW CAN FINE THESE DUDES IF THEY DANCE OR SOMETHING…WOW…TERRELL IS REALLY GOING TO BE OKAY..HOLD YA HEAD UP T.O!

No sympathy here , T.O. It was my last year in college when I knocked up my child’s mother back in 97 who wasn’t supposed to be able to have kids. What did I do, I manned up, did not marry her but took care of my daughter, she is now 13, & I am glad her mother did not get the abortion I tried to force her to get back then. Nothing wrong with having sex, but why these guys don’t protect themselves when runnig up in all these chicks baffles me. I was wild back in my college days, & had alot of sex but it was always protected, well until I ran into my child’s mother, but I leanred my lesson. Why don’t many men?

T.O there’s no excuse for you not trying to find out where your son is and have a relationship with him. It don’t matter if you and the baby mama don’t get along. IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU AND HER! IT’S ABOUT THE BABY WHO YALL CREATED! Dude, don’t do to that innocent child what your dad did to you. You wanted to find your dad while growing up and wondered what would it be like if you knew him or had one, well now you know how it feel since meeting him, don’t let your son go through the heartache you went through. Be apart of his life.

stop doing to your child what your father did to you. (this is to anyone) Love the child. becuase on judgement day and we all have one Jesus will ask you why? Jesus said don’t abuse children, period.

Man calm down he only have three and not damn neither 10 man..

Dude is a fool…no matter how much you hate your “baby mama”…u should never let those feelings affect your own kid….

anybody that know T.O baby moma or know of thier relationship personally, Please notify hb on what you know. Until then if you thank for one minute that chick aint held that child hostage and that women dont play games with kids and the baby’s father than you out your damn mind. You got to be one bitter mutherf**ker and hurt about your OWN SITUATION to take a shot at a man whos broken down in spirit and realize its time to do the right thing like t.o did on national tv. some men dont even get to that point. Some women love to make it hell for a man to see they child becasue she hurt that the man dont want her p***y no mo, then turn right back around and say “he didnt want to know my baby no way. NO IDIOT, he didnt want you..hes child is not you.

@ aintitfunny2
a woman cannot keep you from seeing your child. you can seek joint custody if you really want to be in your kids life..

blkpuddn
yes i agree everyon deserves a second chance. my point is that TO waits until he gets a show to make serious decisions in life when he could have handled it sooner…like visit dad for first time, apologizing to the 2 white chicks that he cheated on, apologizing to mcnabb after bashing him 4 years ago

D-E-A-D-B-E-A-T

He needs to come up off the bs, this is’nt the 70′s and 80′s when there was no help for fathers, laws and rights of today works in these mens favor…yet they still try to say oh the mama is drama and all the stuff they had to deal with. Funny how things change between a man and a woman when a child comes in the picture.

just say you good on him and her, if you want nothing to do with the situation man up and admit it.

That’s sad. I couldn’t imagine what he’s going through right now. But I know I would make him a very happy man, hunny. Whew! Anyway, I pray he gets the closure he needs.

your tellin me all the money this man has he hasn’t attempted to go to court and request visitations? If he were any old guy reguardless he would be put in that childs life. so for a man willing whats the problem?!?!

I feel your pain Mr. T.O. Next time do not F**K around with these Ghetto lazy ass (stereotypical baby factory) women trying to prey successful men for money!!

Really shows you the male side to it. Sometimes that resentment is strong, but men in that situation have to think about their child, an extention of your life. That’s family and they should be proud.

I know men with little means who fight through the courts to stay in their child’s life. This man has the means to get the visitation he “wants” and does nothing more than break down on a reality show about it. If that child means so much to him there should be no problem.

I’m not buying those fake tears.. If he REALLY wanted to see that child.. HE COULD!!! BULL

*Can someone please explain why T.O. has so many kids all over the country?? Why doesn’t these men use condoms????

How about ladies keeping their legs closed until the man gets a condom and puts it on??? Or, better waiting until he has actually EARNED the respect and priviledge of you sharing your body??? Ladies are just as if not more guilty as the men unless you all are just that gullible!!!

Just shut up and play football and take care of your kids…….
It never the kids fault that you and the women you made a child with don’t like each other. It bigger than like now…You now have a part of you to love and help grow.It called life….

He needs to come up off the bs, this is’nt the 70’s and 80’s when there was no help for fathers, laws and rights of today works in these mens favor…yet they still try to say oh the mama is drama and all the stuff they had to deal with. Funny how things change between a man and a woman when a child comes in the picture. You mean to tell me with all the loot he has there’s nothing he can do legally?? wtf T.O is full of TOTAL BS
just say you good on him and her, if you want nothing to do with the situation man up and admit it.

I am amazed that he could allow his son to experience what plagues him 24/7. I’m sure he didn’t want a child with this woman, but since he was conceived, a new attitude is required. I really feel for that little boy. He doesn’t even know his sisters.

some of yall saying he can file papers..but it works both ways…..a man SHOULD NOT HAVE to drag a woamns ass to court to see his child if you as a woman and the mother were doing what was best FOR THE CHILD in the first place like you supposed to do.
This reminds me of a court case i saw..chick took her baby daddy to court for some bogus stuff, and the father of child filed papers…while the girls ramblin on an on about how bad the dude was the judge saw thru her and kept repeatin to her, “he shouldnt have to take you to court to see his child”. A woman who you have to sick papers on is just as much DEADBEAT as the man cause she is NOT thinking of the child. She thinking bout herself,trying to keep last little stronghold for as long she can over the baby daddy. It shouldnt have to come to that in the first place. Get outta here wit that garbage.

ohhhh so this is the reason why black fathers abandon there kids, cause of the baby mama. i never thought of that. all this time i thought it was the slave mentality…

again, things like tastefulness, sophistication, good sense/wisdom are not purchasable

im not impressed w/ the tears b/c he cant connect w/ baby number 10

So this is an excuse not to wear condoms….mnnnnn
Sounds like he needs some advice on that and the mere fact he’s dropping his seed all over the place….guess he didn’t learn anything from his Dad…BoooWhoooooWhooooo’s the Daddy??????

Yeah and shame on these women who don’t let their partners wear a condom….

If the baby mama is really that bad, then I could understand why he doesn’t see his kid. If I ever slipped up and had a baby with a women I couldn’t stand being around in the vertical position, I would pay child support and give up me visitation rights. Sometimes that arrangement is the best thing for everyone.

Still, T.O. shouldn’t be such a baby about it. I don’t think I would cry like a sissy over it. It’s so convenient to simply write a check every month and not have to worry about taking the kid to the park or spending time with him. With the money he makes, he could spend his time doing other things, like boning bytches (LOL)…

exactly umm we see who AINT a man on here i would sign over my visitation rights NEGRO PLZZ. HE CAN SEE THAT CHILD

You’re probably the type of bytch I’m talking about. I would just send you the child support and avoid seeing you.

I don’t meet your standard as a man, but who the fucc are you again? (LOL)

the only loser in this situation is his son.
unfortunately when some women see that the father of their child is of some affluence… it’s nothing new to see her use that child as leverage. it happens and it’s wrong.
bitterness and disrespect are the reasons why our nation continues to have broken families. its time that we, as parents, take our emotions out of the equation of raising these children. going to court is stressful and expensive and it isn’t always that simple.
Obviously if he’s crying about it he feels remorse… take that for what it is people and stop judging this man so harshly.

The relationship or lack of relationship that you have with your child’s mother should NOT prevent you from being a part of that child’s life! Paying support alone does not make you a father. Being in that child’s life does! If the mother refuses to allow you to have visitation with your child ,go to court and fight for your right as a father.Request joint custody. It’s very difficult to try to explain to a child why your azz has been MIA for over 18 yrs, and simply saying that “ya mama didn’t let me see you” is NOT good enough.If your father abandoned you, or refused to play an active role in your life, make a vow to never do that to your child, and take all the love and time that you didn’t get from your own dad, and pour that into your own child! No excuses!

T.O has shed enough tears, and it’s time for healing to begin, so that he can stop using his own dead beat-dad as an excuse for why he hasn’t been there for his son.It’s ok to cry if your hurt but at some point you have to man up and do the right thing ! Going to a therapist is a good start , because the man obviously has some deep rooted issues from his own childhood, but I hope that this isn’t all for the show and ratings!

It didnt cost me a dime to seek visitation and joint custody. not sure why people think it cost money. you just go to the courts and request a hearing. it was easy

Well T.O. IS MY BOY&iI don’t know the whole story,but men don’t continue to let s**t like this happen.See your kids no mztter what comes about.Stand up& be a man,men.

That was a genuine tears,releasing him from ill-feeling of the past. Now, it is time for action, sum up courage and visit your child. “Show Love” to your child.

I would think that TO would be a better father to his kids since he knows how it feels to grow up without a father. To know what you’re doing wrong and continue to do it makes you a sorry person, but who am I to judge another person. Let he without sin cast the first stone. I’ll pray for him.

what is a deadbeat parent…a parent who puts their OWN feelings,agenda, or wants before the childs interest and whats best for them… having said that ..LADIES, You CAN Have custody of a child and be with him or her DAY and NIGHT AND STILL be a deadbeat parent.
If he got to drag her ass to court because he cant have a descent conversation with her to see his child..gues what..SHE IS A DEADBEAT ASS MOTHER…not him .You put your ill feelings toward the baby’s father above the childs feelings thus YOU AINT thinkin about the child and how it needs to see him.It shouldnt have to come to the courts ordering A grown ass woman to let him see HIS child.THATS the whole point..he shouldnt have to do all that if you were an upstanding mother!!! she is basically saying “if you want to see this child..get a court order..else i’m gonna make it a living hell to spend time with him or her”.NOW thats a damn DEADBEAT. and a childish one at that.Woman the f**k up and stop playin with that child and its needs.

I dont know a single MOTHER who has been treated with honor, respect, and trust the father to be alone with her child, REFUSE THE FATHER VISITATION. NOT ONE!

Now if he acted like a first class jerk when the child was conceived by trying to force her into getting an abortion, verbally or physically abusing her, not showing up to support her during the pregnancy or the birth, THEN SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO FEAR FOR HER CHILD BEING ALONE WITH HIM.

I WOULD MAKE A N8GGAH LIKE THAT PAY CHILD SUPPORT BUT HE WOULD NEVER BE ALONE WITH MY BOY.

raising a child is a 24/7 job FOR 18 LONG YEARS. NO WOMAN WANTS TO DO THAT ALONE. NOT ONE.

SOME WOMEN R FORCED TO WHEN THEY FEEL THEIR CHILD’S FATHER MIGHT HARM THE CHILD MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY.

EVEN IF HE WENT TO THE MOTHER AND BECAME A MODEL FATHER FROM HERE ON OUT, THAT BOY IS PERMANENTLY HARMED, AND THE MOTHER TOO. A CHILD’S FIRST 3 YEARS R THE MOST IMPORTANT AND IT IS THE TIME THEY CAN DO NOTHING FOR THEMSELVES.

EVEN IF HE GAVE THE MOTHER BACK SUPPORT AND PAID HER FOR THE 3 YEARS OF DOING HIS FATHER’S JOB THE BEST SHE COULD HE COULD NEVER PAY HER ENOUGH. A MILLION DOLLARS FOR EVERY YEAR COULDN’T ERASE THE HARM TO THE MOTHER AND CHILD.

Aww that was so emotional. Well I hope he now go finds his son and gives him a hug.

dayum!!!!!! his daddy was already married? wasn’t Jesse Jackson in that same situation? did we erase birth control and condoms out the dictionary?

lmaooo at the bitterness

damn whats wrong with him seeing his kid? The parents relationship should not guide the childs view of his mom or his dad

@aintitfunny2, aint no mountain high enough to keep a real mom or dad away from thier child. deadbeat or otherwise thats your opinion and FYI, children are not called (it)

Why don’t men use condoms? Goes both ways. Why don’t these women INSIST that he use a condom? Men run up in it raw because they are allowed to do so.

T.O IF HE WANT TO BE A REAL FATHER,HE COULD HAVE, HE HAVE MONEY HE COULD HAVE HANDLE HIS BUSSINESS,AS FOR THE COMDOM,AM A WOMAN IF HE WANTED TO HAVE SEX, THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN A CLUE FOR HIM

JUST WANT TO CASH IN,HE CAN RUN SO GOOD HE SHOULD HAVE BEEN RUN FROM THE HOLE

My goodness ppl there are situation where the parent who has physical custody of the child is so difficult that it is best for the parents to be apart. If he wishes to be in the childs life then good. The child will look at this time apart from his father, anyway the mother made him out to be. Hopefully she hasn’t damaged the child in the way he looks at his father. No need to talk about condoms now the child is here. Also, this seems to be a private matter. Also those of u that commented on condom use, remember women can use protection also. Its sad when ppl make comments based on negative situations from their own lives. Everyone is not like the person who has made u so angry when it comes to this type of subject.

Why did these people act like this man was just boo hooing??

Cry me a fcking river. You live in the same damn city as your son and you dont wanna see your own flesh cause of his MOTHER? Gtfoh, ou are not a man.

I’d like to shopping

with her!

He is a very bad father for not seeing his son. What the f**k is his problem? Just because his dad was an a*****e doesn’t mean he HAS to be one too..

Forget about those B-U-T-T-A-F-A-C-E-S (including those 2 assistants:the skinney one has a mouth and a attitude, and talks about NOT wantoing to get pregnant, SMDH), focus your attention/money/time on those kids… I’m suprised those baby mamas didn’t take HOIM to court….you got the resources until the LAW will make sure you WILL do this……..

unque43, THANK YOU!!! thats exactly what im saying. Boy, some of yall must got some baby daddys ya’ll pissed at or somethin..lol Spare me this bulls**t bout “wont nothing keep you from your child if you really want to see him “garbage. That kind of language come from a “im hurt cuz he dont want ME no mo”deadbeat ass woman who PURPOSELY PUTS IN EFFORT to discourage a relationship between the father and child.Or its comes from a bitter woman who cant stand men all together. I’ve work with these kind of cases and ive seen it a million times. If they were thinkin like real mothers should he wouldnt even have to seek a court order to see his child cause she would work somethin out personnaly with the father.Im not even a big fan of him. But T.O’s issue is one of millions. DEADBEAT ass mothers need to step up and do whats right and stop thinkin bout themselves.Courts used to be fooled but thankfully the courts know what time it is with these silly ass women who play games like this these days.

MAN SEEN THE EPISODE AFTER THIS ON SEPT 5 AND I REALLY DON’T APPRECIATE HOW T.O WENT OFF ON HIS FRIEND MO ABOUT DIPPING IN HIS BUSINESS ABOUT SEEING THIS CHILD…T.O YOU ARE DEAD WRONG MAN…I GREW UP WITHOUT MY FATHER AND I KNOW HOW IT FEELS…THAT CHILD IS GOING TO BE ASKING ABOUT A YEAR OR 2…I DID…AND GUESS WHAT HE IS GOING TO HATE YOU BECUZ I HATED MY FATHER FOR NOT BEING THERE NO MATTER WHAT HIM AND MOM WENT THRU IT DIDN’T MATTER…IT MADE ME WORK TWICE AS TIME HARDER THAN FEMALES THAT HAD THEIR FATHER BUT THAT’S ALL GOOD…NO ONE KNOWS BETTER THAN A PERSON WHO NEVER HAD THEIR FATHER IN THEIR LIFE HOW IT FEELS AND HOW IT EFFECTED THEM…T.O YOU KNOW SO HOW YOU WENT OFF ON YOUR FRIEND MO WAS WRONG. YOU THE ONE SAID THEM YOUR BEST FRIENDS AND YOU THE ONE WHO PUT THEM ON YOUR SHOW.IF YOUR PERSONAL ASSISTANTS AREN’T THAT CLOSE TO YOU THEN WHY DID YOU MAKE IT SEEM THAT WAY AS WELL AS YOU WERE ALREADY TELLING THEM ALREADY TELLING THEM ALL YOUR BUSINESS IN THE BEGINNING OF THE SHOW…SO HOW YOU WENT OFF ON MO ON THE SHOW WAS DEAD WRONG…I DIDN’T WANT TO SEE THAT…SHE HAD JUST A BABY AND I KNOW SHE WAS ON HER CYCLE AND YOU MEAN TO TELL ME YOU GONNA FUSS AT HER AND TREAT HER LIKE A DOG…YOU SHOWED ANOTHER SIDE OF YOURSELF TO ME…I DID LIKE YOU BUT NOW I PROBABLY WON’T BE WATCHING NOTHING YOU DO…I SEE WHY MOST OF THE FOOTBALL TEAMS DON’T WANT YOU AND WHY YOU HAD TO FIND ANOTHER WAY TO MAKE MONEY…YOU A DEADBEAT FATHER AND NO TELLING HOW LONG BEFORE THE BEAGALS LET YOU GO…KARMA BRO KARMA!

ITS ABOUT “COMPROMISING” PUTTING YOUR ISSUSES ASIDE FOR THE BENEFIT OF THE CHILD AND SHE IS PUTTING HERS ABOVE HER CHILDS.COURT IS THE ONLY ANSWER.THE CHILDS MOTHER HAS FULL CUSTUDY AND DOES NOT WANT T.O TO BE IN HER OR THEIR CHILDS LIFE, WHAT IS HE SUPPOSE TO DO GO TRESPASS AND GIVE HER A REASON FOR HIM TO GO TO JAIL, GO PUNCH HER IN THE FACE AND TAKE THE CHILD?? What do yall want him to do swim thru the swamp and get down on one knee and kiss her feet? I dont think i’ll be reading comments on here anymore, way too many “SEXIST” comments made by women. She gets pregnant so its his fault? Im sorry if she allows him to have sex with her without any form of birth control then she is just as much liable for her actions as he is for his own.ADVISE FOR BITTER WOMEN, SOMETIMES WE NEED TO LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SEE THE PROBLEM IS OURSELVES.

worse than not supporting the child, is the fact that the fool has brought up the child on his show to get press attention and is USING HIM.

he did something horrible to the mother. that is OBVIOUS. she loved him once – loved him enough NOT TO ABORT HIS CHILD. WHAT DID HE DO TO CAUSE HER TO FEAR FOR HERSELF AND HER CHILD??? HE IS A MONSTER IF HE DOESN’T MAKE THIS RIGHT.

You know TO NEVER said that ‘he couldn’t see his kid’ or that ‘the Mom was not allowing him to see his son,’ HE SAID that he has not seen his son because HE has resentment towards his son’s mother.

I thought it was the other way around also, that SHE was keeping TO from his son but upon watching it again, I heard him differently. I mean she still could be like that but…what I heard from the tape it sounds like it is HIM with the problem not her.

nightowl358 says men run up in women raw because they allow it. That’s a stupid ass comment. If a woman will let you screw her raw, it just means she doesn’t care about herself or you. What if she has aids, then what? Just because it looks good doesn’t mean it is good brotha.

THIS is one of teh saddest things I have ever heard. It is bad enough that he is not in teh child’s life, but having a famous father just makes it all larger that we can even imagine. I hope he steps up and does whatever he needs to do to become a father to this boy. The courts can handle whatever may be going on between him and his baby mama. In the meantime, he needs to keep his zipper shut. There is too much information out there for anyone to get pregnant “by accident”, but if it does happen, MOM AND DAD NEED TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE no matter what in my humble opinion.

Yeah its sad but I personally am sick of seeing Terrell Owens’ a$$ crying again! I haven’t seen a man cry this much on TV since Richard Simmons was tryin to help the fat people exercise back in the day…and he was a fruitcake.

Parenthood is a labor of love. I want to see TO give all of his children,what he did’nt have when he was growing up, a loving, supportive and caring father. It’s the only way to break the cycle of heartbreak that he suffered when he was younger.

I couldn’t agree with fredo more

LOL @ GA_urbanbella, TO cries and has shirt off in every episode.

His history explains his self hatred. This is so tragic.

I watched the episode tonight, and have to take back EVERY word I said prior.

Mo said the boy was conceived by a bahamian worker when he was briefly there on VACATION. THAT IS THE OLDEST TRICK IN THE BOOK. THE NEXT BIGGEST IS TO TRICK A TOURIST INTO A GREENCARD MARRIAGE. I SEE NOW WHY HE DOESN’T WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH THE DEVIL. I SEE NOW WHY HE IS CRYING. HE IS CAUGHT IN THE SAME KIND OF DILEMMA CHRIS BROWN WAS CAUGHT IN. CAUGHT UP WITH AN AMERICAN HATER WHO ENTERED HIS LIFE TO USE AND CON HIM WITH NO LOVE INVOLVED. IT IS A HORRIBLE SITUATION.

HE SHOULD HAVE A PATERNITY TEST IN AN AMERICAN LAB. BOY MIGHT NOT EVEN BE HIS. PROBABLY SOME BAHAMIAN GUY BABY, HER PARTNER IN CRIME.

AT LEAST IF HE MARRIES THE WHITE GIRL, SHE WONT BE IN HIS LIFE JUST TO TORMENT HIM.

WHEN ARE THESE AMERICAN BLACK MEN GOING TO LEARN ABOUT FOREIGN BLACK CULTURES IN THE CARIBBEAN AND AFRICA AND STOP FALLING INTO THESE TRAPS. THE WOMEN AND THE MEN ARE AMERICAN HATERS WHO ONLY SEEK TO USE AND ABUSE BLACK AMERICAN MEN AND WOMEN WHO SEEK TO EMBRACE THEM AND ACCEPT THEM AS BLACK PEOPLE.

STAY AWAY TERREL. STAY AWAY. YOUR VERY LIFE MIGHT BE AT STAKE. PAY THE CHILD SUPPORT ONLY.

HOW SAD TO GIVE THAT ADVICE, BUT SELF PRESERVATION IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING.

THEY NEED JESUS DOWN THERE, AND UNTIL THEY GET HIM, JUST STAY AWAY.

Men need to used CONDOMS – this is silly – a man does not have to impregnate every time he has sex – why having sex with so many different partners ??? Makes NO sense – Money can buy a lot but not COMMON SENSE or intelligence. TO you can do better – try !

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I feel so fortunate that this man is NOT my father. TO is such a broken, lost, and tragically insecure soul.

Maybe he should get some damn common sense and plan to go visit his son, and stop tryinng to find ass.

This is really sad and it personifies a growing problem within the black community. I don’t know why we can’t take care of our children or why we feel the need to engage in unprotected pre-marital sex. All I know is that it takes all of us to accept responsibility and raise our children. ALL OF US! And to see that the results of child abandonment reaches all pay grades and including the rich and famous. Come on you all let’s do better.

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