White sports anchor, Dale Hansen may have singlehandedly renewed my faith in the compassion of mankind. This week on his show, “Dale Hansen: Unplugged,” he opened up about the unfair double standards within the NFL of what’s acceptable and what’s just flat out wrong and he referenced NFL hopeful, Michael Sam, who recently made headlines for publicly coming out as gay and gaining Michelle Obama’s support. But it was perhaps when he quoted civil rights leader, Audre Lorde, in defense of Sam that warmed my heart the most. “It is not our differences that divide us. It’s our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences.”
Hansen continued, “We’ve always been able to recognize ’em. Some of us accept ’em. And I want to believe that there will be a day when we do celebrate ’em. I don’t know if that day’s here yet. I guess we’re about to find out. But when I listen to Michael Sam, I do think it’s time to celebrate him now.”
Hansen mentioned in his impassioned speech that Sam being the 3rd to 5th round NFL pick is more shocking than his sexuality because he’s the best defensive player in college football. Henson then addressed the gross double standards plaguing football:
“Several NFL officials telling Sports Illustrated it will hurt him on draft day because a gay player wouldn’t be welcome in an NFL locker room. It would be uncomfortable because that’s a man’s world. You beat a woman and drag her down a flight of stairs, pulling her hair out by the roots? You’re the fourth guy taken in the NFL draft.
You kill people while driving drunk? That guy’s welcome. Players caught in hotel rooms with illegal drugs and prostitutes? We know they’re welcome. Players accused of rape and pay the woman to go away? You lie to police trying to cover up a murder? We’re comfortable with that.
You love another man? Well, now you’ve gone too far! It wasn’t that long ago when we were being told that black players couldn’t play in “our” games because it would be “uncomfortable.” And even when they finally could, it took several more years before a black man played quarterback. Because we weren’t “comfortable” with that, either.”
Seriously, I could watch this in a loop! What do you beauties think about Hansen’s speech?
Check out this gallery of Black gay celebs!
Raven finally came out on Twitter, claiming, "I can finally get married! Yay government! So proud of you" and when Oprah asked her about it on her show "Oprah: Where Are They Now?" Raven admitted that she's a woman who loves a woman.
2. Djuan Trent
Former Miss Kentucky Djuan Trent finished in the top 10 of the Miss America competition in 2011 and recently announced that she’s a lesbian, becoming the first national pageant contestant to come out of the closet.
3. Robin Roberts
One year after receiving a crucial bone marrow transplant that saved her life, Roberts wrote a heartfelt message of gratitude on her Facebook wall that revealed some previously guarded information--she has a girlfriend! “I am grateful for my entire family, my long time girlfriend, Amber...” she wrote, effectively revealing her same-sex relationship. Read more: http://bit.ly/1ggx5PO
4. Michael Sam
"I just want to go to the team who drafts me," Sam told ESPN in a recent interview, "because that team knows about me, knows that I'm gay, and also knows that I work hard. That's the team I want to go to." This NFL-hopeful has gotten the attention and support of Michelle Obama after coming out and has become an inspiration to us all.
5. Mister Cee
While Mister Cee hasn't classified himself as gay, he has admitted to having a problem with soliciting transgender women. “I know that I love women; any woman that’s been with me know that I love women,” he said. “But occasionally I get the urge the have (oral sex) with a transsexual, a man that looks like a woman... And then I’m sitting here saying that I’m not gay.”
6. Andre Leon Talley
One of the most known editors of Vogue, Andre has credits that span beyond any normal resume. From working as an assistant for Andy Warhol to mentoring Jennifer Hudson, Talley's talents far outweigh his sexuality.
Perhaps one of the biggest gay stars of our time, RuPaul has paved the way for many drag queens by making it mainstream. Ru also came out when he was 12-years-old and has been living his truth ever since.
8. Angela Davis
Angela Davis confirmed that she was a lesbian in 2005 in Out magazine. And as one of the biggest advocates for Black, women's and gay rights, Davis is the political activist you want on your team.
9. Wanda Sykes
Wanda was married to her husband for seven years before fully embracing her homosexuality. Now married to a woman, Wanda continues to be a strong advocate for gay rights.
10. Nicki Minaj
From labeling contestants on American Idol, "my wife" to claiming she's got what it takes to steal Cassie from Diddy, Nicki Minaj's sexuality is fluid. She claimed that she was bi-sexual, then denounced the title in a Rolling Stone interview. If we had to call it, we'd say Nicki's gay-adjacent.
11. Frank Ocean
Frank Ocean's admission of loving a man was the coming out heard 'round the world. Frank said, "I knew that my star was rising, and I knew that if I waited I would always have somebody that I respected be able to encourage me to wait longer, to not say it till who knows when."
12. Jason Collins
Jason Collins made history as the first American man in a professional sport to come out.
13. Lee Daniels
Director Lee Daniels has always been vocal about his marred past and how he suffered at the hands of his father because he knew he was gay at 5-years-old. Now fully embracing his sexuality, Daniels has matured into a well-adjusted gay man.
14. Azealia Banks
This newbie rapper has never been afraid of her sexuality. Her uber-raunchy lyrics are proof. Banks came out in the NY Times as bisexual. "I'm not trying to be, like, the bisexual, lesbian rapper. I don't live on other people's terms."
15. Meshell Ndegeocello
Ndegeocello came out as bisexual when she was in high school and even dated Alice Walker’s daughter, Rebecca Walker.
Le1f is an openly gay New York-based rapper who made a name for himself by calling out Macklemore, not only stealing his song, but profiting off of the struggles of queer communities. He recently made his network TV debut on Letterman.
17. Sheryl Swoopes
Swoopes came out as homosexual in October 2005, publicly announcing her relationship with Houston Comets’ assistant coach, Alicia Scott.
18. Johnny Mathis
Mathis is a pioneer of homosexuality. He would always receive death threats, causing him to remain silent on his sexual preference. In 1982, he was quoted in Us Magazine, claiming, "Homosexuality is a way of life that I’ve become accustomed to.”
19. Don Lemon
When CNN anchor Don Lemon came out as gay, he was applauded for being one of a small few of openly gay Black celebrities. Lemon’s decision to come out sparked debate about why other famous gay minorities remain in the closet.
20. E. Denise Simmons
The former mayor of Cambridge, Mass., Simmons was the first lesbian African-American mayor in U.S. history.
21. Emil Wilbekin
This managing editor of Essence.com has made major moves for the gay community and is even celebrated as one of the most influential gay men in Out magazine in 2002.
22. Tracy Chapman
While Tracy has always been quiet about her sexuality, her link to Alice Walker has been publicized and Walker claims that it's never been a secret.
23. Alice Walker
"The Color Purple" writer confessed to the Guardian that she shared a love affair with singer, Tracy Chapman and the Guardian writer said, "...I was surprised to see her face light up at the mention of Chapman." She says Walker claimed, "Yeah I loved it too. Absolutely."
24. Rebecca Walker
Alice Walker's estranged daughter is bisexual and previously had a relationship with neo-soul musician Meshell Ndegeocello, whose son she helped raise.