I was so scared to write to you because you are brutally honest. Anyway, I am a 23-year old black female and have been married since I was 19 years old. My husband is 27 now. He was 23 when we got married. Yeah I know I was young, but I love my man. I really do. […]
Dear Gay Best Friend, I was hot between the legs and now I’m in a hot mess! I’m trying to have a sense of humor but really I just want to cry. This is the thing, I’m 6 weeks pregnant, 24 years old, and have 2 more semesters left in college. I’m studying to get […]
Dear Gay Best Friend, Let me start this off by saying I found your column very helpful. You have straight forward advice no holding back and that is what I need right now. Okay, here is my story. About 2weeks ago I borrowed my boyfriend’s iPad. When I turned it on there was a She-Male […]
Dear Gay Best Friend, I have been married to this guy for a little over 4 years. We have two kids- 5 & 3 years old. We own a home which I had to beg, curse and cry to get him to contribute 50% of the down payment. I figured that if he wanted to stay with […]
Dear Gay Best Friend, To make my seemingly long story short I started dating my next door neighbor that is Asian/White and I’m Black. Prior to, I was single no children. Within 6 months I was pregnant. We moved in together only for me to later move out and endure my pregnancy alone. He is self-employed […]
Dear Gay Best Friend, This guy I used to date is still sending me messages and texts. I am married and want to tell him but I feel that it isn’t any of his business. I feel that it will only fuel him to become harassing, even though I we’ve ended it over 2 years […]
Professional success and personal happiness in this society are what we strive for daily. Having the impetus to continually work toward a healthy balance of the two can be overwhelming especially if you’ve been a bit weathered by life itself. Being successful at work is not the equivalent of personal happiness nor is it vice […]
Dear Gay Best Friend, Here’s my dilemma. I was in a four-year relationship with a man. We broke up for two years. Then, after he saw me with another man he contacted me and we started seeing each other again. I found out 10 months into our renewed relationship that he had been seeing someone during our […]
Will and Jada, Jay-Z and Beyonce, and Khloé & Lamar all come to mind when you toss out the phrase “power couples” these days but when two very powerful individuals come together who really has the power? Typically, the balance of power in any relationship is dominated by the person who brings home the biggest […]
Dear Gay Best Friend, I’m a 36-year old beautiful black woman, and I have been through it with the father of all of my children. I feel trapped. I still need his support to continue to raise the kids, but I also need a life that doesn’t include the dad always hanging around. How do […]
You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I have read one of your article about the, “I slept with him, now he’s ignoring me!” I was wondering whether you can help me by giving me some advice on this matter, because I made the […]
You’ve got questions? He’s got answers! Need advice? Send your questions to Terrance: girlworkonyou@aol.com Dear Gay Best Friend, I came across some of your advice and decided to ask for some. I have gay friends but sometimes it’s easier to ask a stranger with an unbiased opinion. I’m 25 (will be 26 in a month) […]
