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It made me then ask myself, “Well, was I completely over so-and-so when we broke up?” If so, then why would I, like Brown, still be concerned with his happenings after the fact? I can’t speak for Breezy because his last two fiascoes seem way deeper than anything I’ve ever been involved in, but as for me I knew once reflecting on it all that it was just ego. Just because you still get a little envious when your ex has moved on and found a new boo, it doesn’t always mean that you’re still in love with or have feelings for that person. You could just have a big ego that’s threatened by the fact that you weren’t irreplaceable. My past relationships have never been that deep to the point where I had trouble coping and moving on from their halt. I actually moved on quite easily, as written before, and never had an issue until I saw that they were able to move on as easily as I was. I know it sounds a bit bitchy, but it’s the truth.

I do believe that there are many instances where a person simply isn’t over their ex, especially if they moved on as quickly as Chris and didn’t allow themselves much time to heal. But if you’ve moved on and you live your days without giving half a thought to your old flame, and then all of a sudden you feel some type of way when he or she moves on, that’s more than likely your own selfishness and conceit, not necessarily feelings of lingering love.

Can you really be completely satisfied with your current relationship if you’re still concerned about your ex’s dating life?

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