Well, I always wanted to have sex with Keri Hilson. I can wait the whole nine months.

Finally someone in the industry that is not afraid to have standards and be about her business instead of hoe business!

In Pic 11 doesn’t Keri Hilson favor Beyonce by the face alot? or is that just me

Dude was hittin some other chick….i don’t think and can’t believe he waited nine whole months to hit her up…not believable…men are too egotistical to think they can have that much chastity to hold off like that for sex…gmab ….

waited 9 months??? Wow, I thought you were supposed to wait until marriage. Now that impressess me, not even waiting a full year does not.

WHY DO YOU NEED TO TRAIN A MAN???? A MAN AINT AN ANIMAL THAT NEEDS TO BE TRAINED… FIRST OFF WOMEN SEX IS NOT A OBJECT OF POWER. iF YOU HONESTLY THINK YOUR LACK OF SEX IS SUPPOSED 2 TAME A MAN YOU ARE SADLY MISTAKEN….ANY ANYONE WHO BELIEVES THIS IS NAIVE AS HELL….IF A PERSON WANTS SOMETHING THEY ARE GONNA GET IT BY ANY MEANS. BUT ALL IN ALL IF YOU WANNA TALK A TIME LIMIT MARRIAGE IS THAT TIME LIMIT. BUT I DIDNT WAIT I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE LADY I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO PRIOR TO LOSING IT LOL…

Good for her. Not all women are hoes after all! I’d wait 9 months for her. In fact, if her inside is as beautiful as her outside, I’d wait until marriage!

is amazing and seems to be absurd to hear this but that sounds good for women.in fact,we men should respect women in that sense.you see how flower fades that how when u the woman you continue to allow yourself for sex you will look like.am ready to wait even more because when you don’t get the sex you turn to love the woman even more and you continue to value,cherish and see her to be very precious as diamond.i want to commend Keri and i want more women to emulate this example.

haha@ michele love…a dude that wait 9 months is hitting another brawd or gay folks …period….I mean she cute in all but come on do you think that is making some kinda point holding out on a dude til marriage? aint that much good conversation in the world…who the hell wait til marriage to find out the sex is trash? thas like buying a car witout test driving it fools…lets be real

Train a man? lol dressing in bikini’s n bra’s and she was celibate for 9 months? Get da fcuk outta here wit dat shyt!!! I see sumthin totally different…hahahaha! I hope peeps start being honest wit themselves if nuthin else.

To whoever masculine31 is: Come on son. Get real. She can roam around in nothing and still not give it up if she doesn’t want to. Get real. She is being honest. Just because you know you can’t get it from her easy like you probably do some of these other tweakers around here doesn’t mean anything. Grow up..Lolsx. Get off that little kid bulls**t.

Anyways..I don’t know about 9 months, but if he faithfully waited that long he really cares for you. If he didn’t, he wasn’t the one for you. It shouldn’t matter how long you make someone wait for sex. Get a toy and deal with it. Lolsx. If you mean alot to someone they would wait. Point. Blank. Period.

Whaaaaaat? I’m sorry, but that’s some bulls**t. Making a guy wait absurd amounts of time doesn’t make your relationship more meaningful. It just frustrates the whole situation.

@QUEENREALNESS no thats just you! 9 months that it? Thats not long at all. She should have made him wait til longer. Like 2 years or until they got married. What is the point of making him wait like the silly b***h knows he was cheating on her, who wouldnt? The chick is mad ugly and looks like a man!

That is good for her at least she made him wait, while u have some of these hoes running around giving it dudes just for saying hi n crap. So good job for her, but still the best thing to do is wait till ya get married, because dudes dont deserve the goods until they have shown u that they do, they have to earn it, n i like she is a beautiful black woman.

Keri baby…. I dont blame ya… cuz I messed I didnt do that… But now I know. U are exactly right men need training ground… and if U are woman of class it will suggested for us to do so….. Big ups

YEEEEEESSSSSSSSSS WE ALL CAN LEARN FROM HER

Ok…if y’all actually notice somethin’, she said that she made her first boyfriend wait 9 months to cut….she’s 27 now, so I’m figuring that her time frame has lessened greatly. Secondly…is 9 months a for real accomplishment? She’s being applauded for showing self control…which is something that everybody should exhibit regardless….wtf? Why is this an article, exactly? What is this bulls**t about training a man??? He hangs out with you, probably f**ks multiple other females to pass the time, and knocks you down when you’re ready for the dick…where’s the training? This is going to spawn a whole contingent of women attempting to “train” their men. They’ll try, then fail…wait for it.

train my aSz. homie was gettin it in on the side. I woulda done the same and front like im chillin. F that other bullsht. Women startin to act like how men supposedly do so they need the trainin usually

damn i mean side pucci is a must on that i mean for keri hilson looking like that and wait for nine months ? she better dress like a nun or a omish o r something shyt i can try but im lying to myself

How can you train a man when he is the head of the woman! That’s why so many relationships are ending bad or it don’t work out… it’s spiritually wrong from the jump, it’s the order of the most High! 1Corinthians 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is the most High. 11:8 For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. 9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. And this is for the fellas and the “independent women” who think we don’t need each other… 1Corin 11:11 Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord. 12 For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God… we not complete with each other and “the man also by the woman” is her giving birth to a son! Wake up people… we NEED each other!

The grass is green, the sky is blue Keri Hilson makes her first boyfriend wait for 9 months….oh my gosh!! A girl makes a guy wait for nine months!! Thats worst than the AIDS EPIDEMIC!! Or the healthcare system in America!! Oh My Gosh!! AAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL!!

some people wait 9 months others wait 9 days….whatever lol…

hello ignorant…Why all the coon @ss issues on this forum? Self-defeating towards the black race. ANy other race that followed, it’d be the same, but I think OTHER RACES KNOW BETTER.
1.”first” boyfriend=who knows? She could have been 18 for all we know. It’s not her current bf or is it?
2.”train”=u can’t train a man, but u can train a dog. A man has enough self-control for that not to be an issue.
3. train…….I’m still stuck on that foogoogaibooboo….
Pure horse radish…..Come on black ppl!!!

How bout let’s just love each other and know the difference between love and lust.

Most of the time you wait that long only to be disappointed. Any woman with an arbitrary rule like that probably has a laundry list of things she won’t do in the bedroom. No thanks, Keri baby. I’ll pass.

What’s wrong with waiting?! That is why we have some many children with out both parents. Also disease …… ya know… we can’t dis her choice. I am not perfect, but never react just on hormones. 2 thumbs up from me girl. Make him wait because that way you can see if he is all about you anyway.

so everytime you have a boyfriend/male-friend, whatever he is…we are SUPPOSED to have sex with them? I do agree that when you get a new boy/girl friend; that you are SUPPOSED to sleep with them! What kinda crap is that? It’s not a given or an unwritten rule in my book! You cannot train a man!!!!!!!!!! he has free will!!!!!!!!!! If you allow God to find your mate; you wouldn’t have this problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

second sentence in my comment was suppose to say: I do NOT agree, not I do agree!

LOL…IT’S NOTHING WRONG WITH WAITING..BUT SHE SAID HER FIRST, SO DUDE PROBALY BOUNCED ANYWAY…IT MIGHT NOT HAVE BEEN WORTH THE WAIT…..TRAINING MEN THOUGH…THAT SOUNDS A LITTLE CRAZY, BUT SINCE IT’S A BUNCH OF F****TS IN THE ATL …SHE MIGHT COULD GET AWAY WITH THAT…LOL

Making a man wait it kool….but if he is just there for one reason then he will hit and split anyway……

i would wait nine years!

The purpose of making someone wait is to see how compatible you are before engaging in sex & all the emotions that come with that…

Most of us here are sexually compatible, but not fit to do business together or just hang out for various reasons.

I don’t think it’s wrong to make a person wait but it’s not for everybody, you could make them wait but they still could mess over you it depends on the person and the reasons why you want them to wait, I have to admit I never made a man wait that long before the longest I made a guy wait was about a month and we been together for 2 and a half years and still going strong so it really don’t matter how long you make them wait anything could happen

i agree with “Stan_Vinyl”

women need to start holding out on the p***y till they sure that dude is really feeling them and not just wanting to get a nutt off…..

i dont mean playin them lil games, making him trick off all his cash, naw…

im talken bout gettin to KNOW each other on a serious level before you open up that emotional flood gate that comes with sex, plus the risk of STDs and possibly bringing a child into the world with sum random jumpoff………

if dude knows that there’s more to her than just a cute face and fat azz, he will still be around cuz she has other qualities that make her worth keeping in his life other than just f**king her now n then…..

but if its revolving around just gettin some p***y, it aint about nothing. you might as well just keep it funky and tell her upfront that U just wanna f**k so yall dont have to go thru the games wasting each other’s time….

Men and Women are supposed to wait until marriage before having sex. Sex prior to marriage is the sin of fornication. So 9 months was not the right time anyways. Supposed to wait until wedding night.
God bless u all!

Jesus is coming

I will never understand why women think they can train men. The idea that you make a man wait and you will benefit you more than if you give it up early is an ABSOLUTE MYTH!!!! The only reason Keri Hilson can get away with it is because she’s successful and rich. Men will wait it out when a woman is that wealthy. NEWS FLASH LADIES…. Men don’t decide whether or not they’re feelin’ you based on when you have sex! And if that is your only method, tool, or tactic to make men stick around YOU’RE NOT A WORTHWHILE WOMAN IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!

One Luv

That was a very smart thing that she did, a woman or young lady needs to know just how worthy and compatible a brother is before she engages in intamacy. Most of the time a woman’s first will not stay around too long anyway and if you as a guy will wait 9 months to a year then bounce after that then you are a fool who didn’t deserve it. The one thing I agree with that she says is that a woman needs to “train” a guy…this is true but also a woman needs to train herself to respect her body before she fulfills her wants and that itch to be sexually pleased. Women are emotional beings and most guys don’t respect that. Brothers also need to be aware that we need to “CHOOSE WHO WE WANT TO BE THE MOTHER OF OUR CHILDREN” and stop creating single parenting due to the OOPS factor! Watch who you lay with and get to know them very well before you engage in unprotected sex….it doesn’t hurt to read the book after looking at the cover!

As I previously stated
According to the Word of God
sex before marriage is a sin

Jesus is Lord

Hey 50-Below……question……Did your mother ever teach you anything? If she did guess what, you were trained! If you think that its crazy to say a woman should train a man then I want you to one day be a father of a young lady and have an untrained dude deal and disrespect your daughter, then maybe you will see what she means about us needing to be trained. Only in respect to knowing how to treat a woman and being a man about yourself…thats what she means. Trust me as you get older you will find out it takes nothing to get a woman in bed, all you need to do is be yourself and everything flows after that!

Looking at some of the comments, and just knowing how dudes are, it just proves a point that man can’t keep their dick in their pants for a couple of seconds. I’m glad she all about waiting because, waiting brings the spiritual connection first. Because when you have sex first it brings out the emotional part first. So if babygirl make them wait then thats whats up. GUYS JUST NEED TO STOP ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT SEX…ITS ONE OF THE IMPORTANT THINGS IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING, WITHOUT THAT YOU DON’T HAVE NOTHING BUT A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. SO WHAT YOU WOULD BE CALLING YA GIRLFRIEND IS JUST REALLY A CUT BUDDY WHEN YALL DON’T RARELY COMMUNICATE AND CAN’T BE OPEN WITH EACH OTHER. AND ITS JUST SO FUNNY WHEN GUYS TRY TO JUST GET IN AND THEN AFTER THEY GET IT THEY LEAVE..IM NOT SAYING ALL BUT MOST OF THEM ARE LIKE THAT…..JUST BE REAL AND SAY WHAT YOU WANT INSTEAD OF WASTING A WOMANS TIME TRYING TO GET IT TO JUST REALLY HIT IT.

keri has a valid point ,but having someone wait that long for sex does not help solve any problem whatsoever.a person is gonna be who they are and that’s just the way it is .me perosnally,there’s no way i would wait that long ,but that doesn’t mean that’s all i want is sex becuase it isn’t.i would want someone who is compatible,romantic and attractive to me.having a man to wait isn’t bad ,but having him to wait for 9 months is becuase no woman shouldn’t train a man verbally becuase they wouldn’t want to be trained by us physically .being trained verbally and physically ,it’s still wrong.

Wow AbetterNut I’m feeling your comments!!

I love her, go scorpio! :D

You can “Train” a dog not a grown man. The interviewer actually used the “train them” phrase. That chick is full of herself if she thinks she can “train’ a grown man. Stop dealing with boys and some of these women wont have to worry about “Untrained” black male partners.

Time is only pertinent to the person who holds it high……..some will wait longer and then still bounce… this clip of an interview is garbage

Women should NOT be “training” men…nor vice versa…PARENTS should be training children, so when they grow into adults they are prepared for the world…if ur with someone and you feel you need to “train” them; then you don’t need to be with them at all…cuz if they’re dumb enuff to let u determine who they r, then they’ll neva be anything but what those around them make them…ladies, majority of the time…da dude closest to u (i.e. that best male friend that u don’t wanna give the p***y to) is probly the person u’d b most happy wit and have the least regret…

lol@ caring what Keri Hilson does at all – u can make a man wait on u that does not mean he’s waiting. And if u weren’t confirming std test results during the 9 months is it any safer 9 months later? And lol @ him being the “first” bf – like u made him wait 9 months 2 hit some temporary s**t? ha ha!

p.s.: what ever man keri “trained” was gettin it somewhere else while he waited…jus sayin

THAT’S GD FOR HER…BUT REALLY U CAN’T TRAIN ANYBODY! S**T MOST PPL CAN’T TRAIN THEIR PUPPY..WITH THAT SAID DON’T TRY TO MAKE A PERSON BE WHAT U WANT IF THEY WERE’NT ALREADY WHAT U WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE. PPL HAVE SEX WHEN THEIR READY TO PLAIN & SIMPLE. MAKING A MAN OR WOMAN WAIT IS NOT GONNA MAKE THEM MORE FAITHFUL OR MORE THANKFUL THAT U FINALLY GAVE THEM SUM AZZ. AN FOR MOST MEN THEY MAY CHASE U LIKE A ANIMAL CUZ THEY LIKE THE THRILL OF THE CHASE & ONCE THEY GEY IT MOVE ON TO THE NEXT CHALLENGE. SO FK WHO U WANT WHEN U WANT JUST BE SAFE ABOUT IT!

ok 1st off….you dont “TRAIN” a grown ass man…….and if a MAN is that weak in the mind to let a woman “TRAIN” him…..then thats on him as a WEAK minded individual……2nd just because a woman holds out on sex for 9 months dont necessary means she got a MAN “TRAINED”…there are plenty of OTHER things a MAN can be doing those 9 months like OTHER WOMEN….believe me….ITS BEEN DONE…….you sit yo ass down and let Keri Hilson gas you up wit dat “TRAINED” s**t if you want to…..Keri fukk round and have yo sex game on da bench icing down drinking Gatorade………..i got two words for Keri…….”PURE FUKKERY™”

To each their own….. waiting or not waiting depends on the two envloved. I believe in waiting to see how it goes first. Woman are more emotionally attached than guys… plus you don’t know a person until you are out of the new period. To me if a woman holds out it shows me so much about her…. Know the mind before the behind… bet

THE WORLD IS COMING TO AN END VERY SOON
JESUS WILL RETURN SOON AND WHEN HE DOES,
DISCUSSIONS LIKE THIS WILL CEASE TO EXIST

TO GOD BE THE GLORY
JESUS IS LORD

THE WAY I SEE IT WAITIN OR NOT IF THEY GONE DOG U THEY GONE DOG U. A GUY SPENT OVER A YEAR TRYING TO “PROVE” TO ME THAT HE WAS THE “RIGHT ONE” FOR ME. I FINALLY GAVE HIM A CHANCE, MADE HIM WAIT 3 MORE MONTHS AFTER WE GOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. AND HE HIT IT ONCE AND NEVER CALLED AGAIN THEN WEN I SAW HIM ON THE STREET HE ACTED LIKE HE DIDNT EVEN KNO ME

HELLO ALL I AM SWEETNESS AND I AGREE WITH KERI HILSON AS A MATURE WOMAN YOU GO GURL!!!! I’M OLE SCHOOL WITH OLD FASHION WAYS AND I FEEL THAT GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT I AM MORE THAN WORTH THE WAIT BECAUSE THESE MEN SOME NOT ALL STILL SOME GOOD ONES LEFT AND RESPECT YOU BECAUSE LADIES WE HAVE TO RESPECT OURSELVES SOME MEN FEEL THAT WE HAVE TO HAVE S-X AND THAT SPELLS LOVE NO IT SPELLS LUST

S-X !!! BUT THEY HAVE THE PROBLEM AS WELL AS SOME WOMEN IT DON’T MATTER HOW OLD U R AS LONG AS U ARE AN ADULT FROM 18YRS TO 100YRS QUALITY IS WHAT IT IS AND HEY EVEN BEFORE I GOT SAVED I STILL HAD HIGH STANDARDS ABOUT MYSELF AND HEY IF A MAN CAN’T WAIT FOR ME THAN U NOT THE MAN FOR ME AND MOVE ON BECAUSE I DO PRACTICE ABSTANING FROM S-X AND PROUD OF IT AND I’M A WOMAN OF GREAT STANDARD’S AND I KNOW MY SELF WORTH WHILE!!!! ALSO WHAT IT TAKES TO GET ME IS WHAT IT WILL TAKE TO KEEP ME SO HEY WHO WANTS A ONE NIGHT STAND??? WELL SOME CHEAP WOMEN THAT ARE DESPEPRATE IT’S AIDS!!!! OUT HERE AND IT’S DEADLY IS IT WORTH A CHEAP THRILL??? BECAUSE ALL UR DOING IS SLEEPING WITH THE HOW MANY OTHER BED PARTNERS THAT HE OR SHE SLEPT WITH BEFORE YOU SO HEY GET A GRIP ON GOD AND NOT UR FLESH PEOPLE

SO WAKE UP AND GET ON THE RIGHT SIDE AND THINK WITH UR MIND AND NOT UR HORMONES!!! I SPELLED IT JUST THE WAY I FELT IT!!! H. O. M. O.E.N.S. !!!ANYWAY STAY UP AND DON’T HATE WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES BUT AT WHAT POINT DO WE GET PASS MISTAKES AND SAY WILLING AND WEAK???…LATA SWEETNESS

For those who didn’t take the time to listen to this BS interview, Keri Hilson did not say she was going to train anybody, the dumb @ss interviewer said that crap. These so-called reporters on Hello Beautiful and Urban Daily always seem to flip these reports, I guess to get more hits to meaningless stories.

As for the ladies who make the dude wait months for sex and still get the hit-it-n-quit-it runaround, maybe its cause your sex was garbage, not always cause the “dude was a dog” cliche’

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9 months.. 9 years.. if you believe your wonderful God given body is precious.. just wait til marriage..

Some MEN and WOMEN need to truly recognize their worth..

Ok, Lets get this understood she said her 1st boyfriend. He’s as* was young and didn’t know any better. Anyway if she was really really feeling him she wouldn’t have made 9 weeks….because we all know that when the heat is there it’s only going to get hotter with every encounter. So all B.S. aside his game was below par.

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To all Y’all complaining about the “Training” a man statement let’s be real now……All us brothas know that if we got a chick that gives that hotbox up with the quickness as well as doing everything else sexually we will not be interested in her seriously. We as men could be feeling a chick but if we find out that she has ten thousand miles on that cooch……we out! Ain’t no woman gonna get a man and keep him when she has 1,000 dycks on her jacket! Lets be real!All of you that say you won’t wait lets see you keep that girl who’s got the worn out pzzy lips! Thats all a female gonna get when she gives it up on a regular……..wide hips n worn out lips! All you nukka’s know that you want the chick that has respect for herself as well as you.

Waiting is for teenagers, and not for grown man or a grown woman.

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ok lets get this straight a female should let a guy wait as long as she feels. it all depends if she feels like she can trust that guy and knos what he is all about. Think about it a female shouldnt hop in the bed with no guy on the first day and it goes the same for the guys they shouldnt hop in the bed with a female on the first day cuz god forbid u mess with the wrong person u dont kno s**t about and u end up catchin something or gettin that person prego. let be serious s**t can happen. all im sayin is kno who u talkin to, see where that person’s mind is, and make sure if that person is worth that night in the sack cuz we all kno there can be some disappointments. saddly

I dig everyone’s point of view, but uh, let me give it to you straight. Ladies, if you really want to get to know your man, have sex with him, mainly because until you do, everything he does is merely to get where he wants to be and you ain’t gonna see his real character. Try that train a man s— if you wanna, you will find yourself and your love life M.I. A, floating off on a paper plane!!!!!!

Hey AbettrNut, dude you ain’t making no sense at all. What does a woman “training” a grown man have to do with a woman who got high millage on her goods?

I agree with her but I also believe that a timeframe should not be placed on s/x I am a firm believer that as men we know which girls we are going to dog out and are willing to wait it is up to the woman to set the standards and set the table on those standards if we are not up for it we will leave her right then and there, Some guys(I included) use woman conscious against them. As I have somewhat matured I realized that woman make guys wait for s/x wanting it to bring some sort of committment however, once we realize that if we are really just interested in sex we will say the right things and go out our way to convince the woman that we should take it there. I believe if in fact you are going to make us wait for sex at least make sure that its something to remember or else you just might end up making us wait and after s/x not getting called back ever again.

WELL I’M GOING TO SAY THAT MEN WILL NOT BE MEN AND WOMEN WILL NOT BE WOMEN….IT’S HOW U ARE A PERSON…AS FOR MYSELF I SEE FINE SEXY MEN BUT I DON’T PICTURE ME IN THE BED WITH THEM OR HIM…PEOPLE HAVE TO KNOW THAT SEX IS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE U NEED TO KNOW WHAT LEVEL THAT HE OR SHE IS ON….SEX IS SOMETHING BETWEEN A PERON OR PERSON’S WHO REALLY CARES AND WANTING TO LOVE ONE ANOTHER….I FEEL LIKE MEN AND WOMAN FEEL LIKE ROMANCE IS OVER RATED AND ITS NOT…..ITS NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVEING A MAN OR A WOMAN WAIT ON SEX….IF WE DID AS GROWN WOMAN AND MEN IT WOULDN’T BE AS MUCH AIDS AND STD’S OUT HERE IN THIS WORLD….PEOPLE LIVE BY T.V AND NOT BY REAL LIFE AND PEOPLE FEEL LIKE ITS BOUT GETTING THEIRS AND NOT HAVEING FEELINGS AT ALL BUT TO EACH IS OWN I SAY MAKE HIM OR HER WAIT CAUSE GOOD COMES TO THOSE WHO WAIT AND IM A BELIEVER OF THAT…

Smh saying that you’d rather wait is something I can definitely respect but don’t say it and front like you doin somethin bigger than what it is. You’re not finna train anybody man or woman if they wanna be with you they’re gonna wanna be with you whether you make them wait 3 months or 9 months. If all they wanna do is hit it then best believe they’re gonna smash that one time and bounce.

Hey Pcola_Ace…..If you got a woman who has standards for herself and demands the respect she deserves from a man and she actually is true to that, she is the type of woman that most men are gonna try and keep. The mileage chick is just gonna get more miles from us…c’mon dude you know what I am talkin about! We are gonna have our side pieces and our main pieces…..etal. the second woman! We all know what it is…you watch Maury!

its keri baby

This topic is deeper than a lot of us really see it, Lets get to the bottom of it……How many men out here or how many of you would marry or make a S**t your girl? We have women who treat themselves like women then we have the s**tty ones….be real now! No offense ladies but this is true…..a lot of women need to account for their own actions thats all.

I applaud her for making him wait. Alicia Keys also made her boyfriend wait, hers was 1 year. Females need to understand that their body is precious and not to give their body to men who don’t deserve it or who will appreciate it. Women have made it too easy for men to just hit it and split it. And you’re not teaching them how to be a real man. Men need to learn how to relate to women outside of sex. I wouldn’t give a man anything, being more mature, until I was married. If he don’t want to marry me, then he don’t deserve my treasures. He can go get some cheap, easy, been around the world loving if he’s all about sex, but upscale females need to tell the nigs to get the hell on. Put a ring on it….

Homie I don’t watch Maury, that show is for lames if you ask me. But on the real cuz, how can you talk about having women on the side, but insist that women have respect for themselves? You contradicting yourself and masquerading as a respectable guy. You want a woman who is respectable, and yet have your h o e s on the sidelines. Again, you ain’t making no sense, but you do you.

Ok..this is the deal. Waiting is not going to make a man want you more or have him more “grateful” ok thats silly high school stuff there. We as men know what we want from a woman when we first approach her…we know if its just to have sex with her or if we are looking at her as someone we might want to get to know on a deeper basis. So waiting does not do much but prolong the inevitable cuz if he was just wanted to screw 9 mos ago, he probably just want to screw 9 mos later for the most part…not always but mostly. As for “training” someone, i see some of you MEN on here are talking about its ok in one way or another…whats wrong with you? BE A MAN ok, stop sucking up to the ladies, how you treat a woman is about how you are as a person NOT if you were trained…weaklings…the only and i repeat ONLY type of woman that can “train” a man is his MOTHER, GRANDMOTHER, AUNT ETC…a real grown man…dont need no training. And any woman who thinks she can train someone probably is being played or has been played…as for that interviewer and keri…that sounded real arrogant…what would you say if someone said that about you? “oh, keri, yeah i got her trained…” —-YOU TRAIN DOGS, NOT MEN—

I BELIEVE THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE SEX BEFORE GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP. SEX MAKES UP 80% OF THE RELATIONSHIP. COME ON SAY IF THE DUDE HAVE A LITTLE D**K OR THE LADY HAVE STANK p***SY, YOU WOULDN’T KNOW TILL 9 MONTHS LATER…..

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ROCKIO, i love it! exactly! first of all, let me say, us as women, or at least, myself, i know from the first time i meet a guy if i wanna smash, period, i either say, i could see myself f’in him or hell no, i could never f him… so this makin him wait 9 months nonsense, is just that, nonsense. not only is it nonsense, but it is childish. now if you wait 9 months because for whatever reason, you weren’t ready before then, then that is different..but if you are just doin it to “control” the man or think he’s gonna think higher of you, kill that ishhhh, be a grown up.. cuz let me tell you, even women do them, if the man ain’t doin whatever sexually for them, the woman still gonna get it regardless, from the next man but still f with ole boy anyways… just as i think the same applies to men, and i believe someone said it on here, even if you make the guy wait, he may still just smash and bounce even after you finally let him hit, stupid broads, stop playin games cuz those kinda games only gonna play you, not him. and this training thing, please, a real woman wouldn’t want a man that she could train… sorry miss keri baby, as a woman, i ain’t got your back on this one.. i’m with the fellas, as i usually am…

I agree wit the boy Rockio. A real man don’t need no training from a woman that he’s tryin to get to know or get wit. We all was trained by our mother’s and grandmother’s at young ages how to respect and treat women and if the dude ain’t learned that life lesson then that’s on him. Waiting 9 months ain’t gonna happen in today’s reality. A man would go out and get it from somewhere else before the 9 months is over. Trust and believe. No woman has ever made me wait no 9 months nor tried to “train” me. Why is Keri Hilson trying to make it sound like we’re dogs. I say she’s a b***h for that one. They say a b***h is a female dog and a dog is a man’s best friend

First off I’m ok with not waiting on the right on woman but waiting “with” the right woman. Like ROCKIO said a man knows what he wants before he approaches the woman. If it takes nine months and he’s willing to wait that long but still not serious about the woman, then she just wasted 9 months of her life. Either way ladies a man you feel like you have to “train” most likely isn’t worth your time anyways.

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Off top rockio, some of these dudes got the game twisted, talking bout whats wrong with letting a woman “train” them….wtf is wrong with these lame dudes

My momma didn’t even “train” me, she RAISED me from a baby, to a boy/young man, to a man. Matter a fact any grown fool-of-a-man who needs training should be slapped in the face with a full hand of baby powder!

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PCola……I never said I was a respectable guy….I am just puttin’ it out there on a reality check….To each his own, but we all know that just like many of the brothers said here that if they wait they gonna go elsewhere. It’s no secret that men have had a side piece in their lifetime or in some relationship, I am not saying all men but yes…I had my side woman too! We are not here trying to preach perfection just trying to get a view across on this topic. As I said earlier the training should come from our mother and father….as far as contradiction…..nawwww bruh just telling it like it is. See most guys want that easy, good sex at the drop of a dime….but to choose who we really want by our side in public?!! Fellas gonna leave that easy chick home. Where I come from they always say you can make a housewife into your H. O. E. But you can never make that H. O. E. into a housewife. I don’t want to get into any pimpology but you fellas betta stop denying the truth, cuz truth is that if you don’t give her what she wants and needs(not just sex) She is gonna find it somewhere else too…TRust Me!

To all I gotta go….check back later. PCola You funny dude! Slapped with babypowder! lmao….make it a handfull of sand! Good talking to you and we’ll hit this spot again….peace all.

A GOOD MAN IS A GOOD MAN REGARDLESS OF SEX. IF HE IS A GOOD MAN AND WANTS MORE FROM YOU THAN SEX, HE WILL STAY AFTER GETTIN IT…WHETHER HE GETS IT AFTER 2 MONTHS OR AFTER A YEAR. MAKING HIM WAIT FOR 9 MONTHS WONT MAKE HIM A BETTER MAN…IT WONT MAKE HIM WANT MORE FROM YOU…AND HE WILL LEAVE WHEN HE GETS IT. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH GIVING SOME TO A GOOD MAN QUICK…YOU JUST HAVE TO MAKE SURE HE IS A GOOD MAN. JUST BECAUSE HE WAITS 9 MONTHS DOESNT MEAN HE IS A GOOD MAN. BECAUSE HE MOST LIKELY IS GETTING SOME FROM OTHER WOMEN. SO THAT RULE IS STUPID. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE STANDARDS…BUT THEY SHOULDNT BE SO UNREASONABLE. THERE ARE ALOT OF DOUBLE STANDARDS ABOUT SEX. MEN SHOULDNT BE CALLING A WOMAN A SL*T WHEN THOSE ARE THE TYPES THEY GIVE THE MOST PLAY TO. THE ONES WITH HIGHER STANDARDS ARE SEEN AS A TEASE. I DONT GET THAT ABOUT MEN. OBVIOUSLY ITS THE S**TS YOU LIKE, SO DONT CALL THEM NAMES AFTER YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT FROM THEM…

Train em????? Train meaning CONTROL them and PUT EM IN YOUR BACK POCKET and MAKE THEM GO BROKE waiting for a 50/50 shot at good sex???? That hit a nerve with me because what does a woman know about being a MAN. A Father trains a boy to be a man or at least a fatherlike figure trains us. Like we some kinda gerbil or a hamster for a psychology experiment, train em. thats ridiculous. Waiting is fine. a few weeks, fine. a couple months, fine. but 9 months to a year???? not happenin.

I can make him “wait” 9 months to have sex with you , but that doesn’t mean I am not hitting another p***y somewhere. After 9 months what next?…thats the question every “trainer” should ask…cuz your value depreciates after 9 months or whatever time of waiting. Its a fact.

I can “wait” 9 months to have sex with you , but that doesn’t mean I am not hitting another p***y somewhere. After 9 months what next?…thats the question every “trainer” should ask…cuz your value depreciates after 9 months or whatever time of waiting. Its a fact.

WHEN A MAN MEETS A WOMAN…OR VICE VERSA….BOTH KNOW IF THEY WANNA HAVE SEX WITH EACH OTHER..OR THE MAN..MEETS AND WANTS TOO..OR THE WOMAN MEETS AND WANTS TO…TRUST ME…IT ALWAYS THE MAN THAT WANNA HAVE SEX…SO WAITIN NINE MONTHS….U WOULD NEVER GET LAYED…CUZ EVER MONTH U GOT A NEW NIGGA WAITIN….CUZ…THE LAST ONE IS IN THE WIND…I MEAN ….FINE AND PRETTY DONT MEAN YOU OR YOUR P***Y IS THE BOMB
IF I MEET A CHICK AND NO SHE DONT HAVE TO GIVE IT UP ON THE FIRST DATE..OR THE SECOND…BUT IF EVERYTIME WE TOGETHER..AND THE SEXUAL TENSION IS IN THE AIR …AND SHE PLAYIN LIKE SHE DONT WANNA DO NOTHIN…O`BOY…BELIEVE SHE IS IN THE DUST….IF I MEET A CHICK AND WE HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE…CUZ I WAS HOT…SHE WAS HOT….EVERYBODY WAS GROWN AND RESPONSIBLE….IM GONNA BE TRYIN TO GET ME SOME EVERYCHANCE I GET…NOT HIT AND SPLIT…THATS WHAT LIL BOYS AND GIRLS DO….MEN AND WOMEN..KNOW GOOD P***Y AND GOOD DICK WHEN THEY GOT IT….SO….ANY MAN THAT WANNA MARRY …I SAY MARRY A VIRGIN….IS A DICK HEAD…..I DONT WANT BRAND NEW FRESH OUT THE PLASTIC P***Y…GIVE ME SOME P***Y BEEN TENDERIZED THAT SAY “YEA DADDY..RIGHT THERE”…GIVE ME SOME P***Y THAT KNOW HOW SHE WANT IT…NOT NO “OUCH”…”NO”…”STOP” P***Y…..IF A CHICK MAKE ME WAIT 9 MONTHS JUST ON SOME U GOTTA WAIT…CUZ FIRST OF ALL U GOTTA HAVE A DOPE ASS HELLAVA PERSONALITY TO KEEP ME HANGIN ROUND….BUT…IF U DO ..AND IVE WAITED….IMA BEAT THAT P***Y UP!!!!….AINT GONNA PLAY NO GAMES WITH IT!!!!…SHOW HER…DONT BE HOLDIN OUT ON THE KITTY!!!!…HAHAH..I AINT LYIN….
ALL YALL THATS CO-SIGNIN THAT BULL S**T….YALL AINT GOT NO GOOD P***Y…YOU TRY TO CONTROL A MAN WITH P***Y….OR SOMETHING IS REALLY A DOWN FALL AND U TRY TO GET THE UPPER HAND BY RATIONING THE P***Y….AND ANY DUDE THATS CO-SIGNIN THAT S**T….AINT PACKIN…AINT STIRRIN THE COFFEE THE RIGHT WAY….OR….JUST A DAM DUCK…..
SO….GOOD FOR U KERI HILSON…WHOEVER THE HELLZ U ARE..HAHAHA….U MET A LAME BRAIN!!!!!!

see what i mean? did’nt i tell you guys that “black” women have no respect for you. this topic would never take place with no other race but n****rs. this is why the “black” woman needs to be checked. they still think the gold is between their legs. they still think the sun rises and sets with their asses. and you know what…it’s your fault. you guys have been entirely too thirsty. you have focused on your own ejaculations for so long that you have not realised that the women are really chasing after you. do you know why she is chasing you? no you don’t…you think you are the kings of the jungle and you think your the hunter. she is chasing you because you carry the gold between YOUR legs. did you know that women have a sexual desire that far exceeds yours by light years. so why do you think these women are on here talking about “training “you? because you don’t know why your f**king and you have no control and your too thirsty. women don’t wanna wait to have sex f**kers, they wanna see how far your thirsty ass will go. how in all of the ever colorchanging s**t is a being with sexual readings far beyond your comprehension going to train you to wait for something they want hella more than you ever will? tell me something, if at the beginning and end of the day, she has the say so as to whether or not she is going to f**k with you in any capacity, whose the hunter? whose the thirsty one? and why must you chase the p***y? fellas, we need to learn to upgrade in status. the higher our status is as men, the better the quality of women that will come. only low life, lowgrade thinking n****rs see things this foolish way. women of a better grade know that she needs a man and she desires dick more than men desire p***y and she knows she is the hunter and she respects the “black” man. women want to be f**ked long and hard, talked dirty to, consentually raped through role play, treated like s**ts and dick pigs in the bedroom or damn near anywhere else, but then treated like queens and well respected ladies in the public eye. they want heavy hard orgasms ALL THE TIME! and you can give them this if you upgrade your status, coommand respect from them and learn to control your sexual desires. then you’ll learn that it is actually you who trains them, and they will love it.

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i agree with u wolfi_g, but i must say if a man is truly in love with his woman and they love each other unconditionally, sex is not the first thing on their mind

abettrnt says it all ,,make um wait ,,check a person out to see if they are worthy of having your body,,time bring darkness to light,,,,,man or woman,,,in bible terms u must be married before sex,,,and only to dat person ,,but today its all twisted ,,,so the best thing to do is make um wait to see if he or she is worthy of havin your body,,,,this is wut im teaching my daughter,,,real talk

LOL, dude the reality check is this, you talking bout women having respect for themselves to not give it up at the drop of a dime, yet you sort of justifying why fellas have sidepieces. Thats called cheating, period-point-blank. No wonder so many of our women are loosing faith in us. If you gonna be a player, stay single and you can justify having all the side H O E S you want.

Women, this cat AbettNut is most def not the type dude you want your sons to listen to regarding relationships. Also Mr. Nut, you did say it was cool for women to train their men, now you flippin to mothers and fathers should train their sons. Which one is it gon’ be….smmfh

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Its all good AbettrNut. I like to have fun with these topics. Its good to disagree with each other without all the unnecessary hostility take goes on in our communities. 5000g

i agree wit shawtnt1974,,if they truely love each other sex is not the first thing on there mind,,,,,dat means it worth the wait,

That’s a great way to connect fully; but, I doubt it. Speaking from self knoiwledge ,I haven’t met a lady like Keri.

be careful ladies with this TRAINING WORD. it can easily be mistaken for CONTROLLING. and any good man with sense and a mind of his own will not put up with this and will be outta there before u thought u had him TRAINED LOL

damn nine months…if we dont have sex within a week to 2 im moveing on..sorry

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see look! she made some mindless, unfortunate flunky of a boyfriend wait 9 months for sex, but look at these pics of her. does she look like a woman who desires to wait 9 months for sex? if i were her boyfriend i would have taken control over the relationship and had her begging me for dick in a matter of hours, not even. because women want a man to take the lead, not a boy toy that she can lead along like his mother use to do. her boyfriwend is a sucker for tits and ass and he will not sexually satisfy her because he is soft and moldable like clay and she is going to break his heart because she will meet a man like me who is going to take full advantage of her s**tty/royal dichotomy and hypnotize her with the swagger of a high status masculine leader.

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I AGREE THAT THE BEST WAY TO TELL IF A MAN WANTS YOU MORE FOR SEX IS TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. YOU CANT TELL THAT BY MAKING HIM WAIT. MAKING HIM WAIT JUST HURTS THE WOMAN, BECAUSE HE WASTED 9 MONTHS B4 GIVING IT UP, ONLY TO BE LEFT AFTER 9 MONTHS OF INVESTING EMOTIONS. NOW, IM NOT SAYING GO AROUND AND SLEEP WITH EVERY GUY YOU MEET…THATS JUST STUPID…YOU GOTTA HAVE STANDARDS. BUT WE WOMEN KNOW IN LIKE THE FIRST 5 SECONDS IF WE WOULD GIVE IT UP TO THE GUY OR NOT. AFTER THAT, ITS ALL ABOUT THE CONNECTION OUTSIDE OF SEX. BUT THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HAVING SEX WITH A MAN YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO. A SL*T F*CKS ANY MAN JUST BECAUSE HE HAS A D*CK. IF YOU F*CK A MAN BECAUSE U LIKE HIS PERSONALITY AND MENTALITY, THEN THAT DOESNT MAKE YOU A SL*T. NOW, ALOT OF GUYS ARE TALKING ABOUT NOT WANTING TO MAKE A WOMAN WIFEY BECAUSE SHE HAS A LOT OF “MILEAGE”. NOW LETS BE REAL…DO YALL REALLY WIFE A WOMAN WHO HAS BARELY ANY EXPERIENCE?? NO. YOU WANT A WOMAN WHO IS GONNA HAVE YOU DROOLIN OVER THE P*SSY CUZ SHE KNOWS HOW TO PUT IT DOWN…AND THAT COMES FROM HAVING EXPERIENCE…OR AS YALL MEN CALL IT, “MILEAGE”. WOMEN NEED TO STOP ACTING LIKE THEY ARE BETTER THAN OTHER WOMEN JUST BECAUSE THEY MAKE A GUY WAIT 9 MONTHS. NO THAT IS STUPID. BECAUSE WHILE YOU ARE MAKING HIM WAIT 9 MONTHS, THEY WOMAN WITH THE GOOD EXPERIENCE AND GOOD P*SSY HAS YOUR MAN AT NIGHT. I HAVE BEEN IN A SITUATION WHERE I WAITED A LONG TIME AND HE SPLIT AFTER GETTIN IT. AND I HAVE ALSO BEEN IN A SITUATION WHERE I GAVE IT UP WITHIN A MONTH AND WAS WITH THE PERSON FOR A LONG TIME. ITS ALL ABOUT THE TYPE OF GUY YOU CHOOSE TO GIVE IT TO…ITS NOT ABOUT HOW LONG U MAKE HIM WAIT…DUH!!!!

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My crush for Keri Hilson has disappeared. lol!!! She sounds immature as h/ell talking about training a man. Only animals can be trained, not humans. There’s no time period waiting for sex at all. It’s according to the chemistry two people have for each other. I can’t stand that jumping through firehoop s/hit. I prefer a woman to be herself and tell me her expectations concerning dating or relationships.

yes, she did right, so many brothas want to hit it and quit it,then have the audacity to tell their friends they “hit that” for bragging rights! i applaud her and will be taking her lead. Sistas get tired of men doing them wrong

to me waiting is ok, but if you don’t it’s not a bad thing. if a man don’t see you as the right girl, it want matter if you wait or not, because when he do get it, if your not what he wants he still gone leave so whats the point? it’s not all about sex, men want strong independent women period.

Look…the whole “make a man wait” game is just that….a game. Just like sylkiifeather said you can make a guy wait for however long you want. That just means he’s getting it somewhere else in the meantime and going to drop you when he gets it. Men like women who know what they want and vice versa. Women say they need to “train” men….please. It’s almost like you have to treat women like children. They want the control yet none of the responsibility. They want to play the game yet blame someone else when they lose. Say she met ol’ boy and made him wait 9 months…then he made her kick rocks after he got it. Who would she blame? Him of course for not being a “real man” and wanting her for more than sex. By making him wait she made it ALL ABOUT SEX. Women don’t get that.

Oh please, men swear that just cuz they have some money or “swagga” that women are supposed to drop their drawls. When you’re in a lifestyle that allows for you to come in contact with a bunch of other rich, idiotic, shovanist, you learn to put your foot down and say NO unless a man treats you with respect and waits, no matter how you want to show off ya goodies. For you retards that want to take it there and think you’re entitled to a womans body, that’s called harrazzment and or rape, so go ahead and call yourself “taking control of the situation”. Like she said, she’d sooner send a man walking to beat it off or find some skank beat for a his “game”, before he thinks he’s gonna get anything from her before she’s ready! Do you Keri, tou’che!

People, Keri Hilson did not say she would “train” anybody, the interviewer said that mess.

OMG, WHO THE F**K CARES REALLY? Her first shoulda waited 9 months because YOUR FIST SHOULD REALLY BE DESERVING OF YOUR V-CARD SO IF WAITING IS WHAT SHE WANTED HIM TO DO THEN THAT’S WHAT HE NEEDED TO DO !

However when ur a grown ass woman and you’re dating someone and is really into them and trying to make them wait years and s**t for sex… NOW YOU’RE JUST PLAYING AN IMMATURE ASS GAME…

How a man makeslove to you tells SOOOOO much about how he feels about you and really what type a man he is all together. I say if you don’t feel comfortable or emotionally ready to get that intimate with him after 4 or 5 months then ur probably just wasting your time and should move on to someone who excites you to the point u don’t want to play games with him.

It shouldn’t take that long to establish the trust, comfort, commitment and understanding you should have with eachother in order to move on to that naked step..

How ever long it takes for that man to man up and put a ring on your finger is as long as any man should wait.

Uh oh sounds like another trend thats going to keep black women even more single…..LOL I think any set rule on having sex is playing games and/or a control mechanism. A woman knows when to give it up to guy. They feel it. Both people feel it if you are in a real relationship. No way and hell Im waiting 9 months to beat it in

Ladies pay attention to ‘sylkiifeather’, because she is making a lot of sense. Stop co-signing with Keri because she would end up setting you women up for a big downfall. A man can always have women on the side so don’t think they are obligated to wait whatever duration they are giving their potential mate.

The whole 15 months I was in Iraq I dident have sex…I think thats kinda what woke me up and made me realize that sex isnt as important as society makes us believe. I mean I was away from TV, Movies and Music…not to mention I dident see women all that often. But I believe if I could spend 15 months without it then 9 months is a snap. The only kicker is that the woman has to be worth it. I always believed though just like the older kat said in the movie “A thin line, between Love and Hate” The older you get the better decisions your Dyk makes…I think that makes alot of sense. Life is not always about sex (I’ve pretty much been there and done that). And hey if I married someone without having sex beforehand and found out later the sex wasnt great. then at least I know we would connect on other levels.

sylkiifeather for President…..LOL

and all you women who wanna keep this whole “men do women wrong” S/hit alive need to hang it up because as soon as you do get a guy who is stupid and soft enough to be lead by you, you feel as though you have conquered him and you do him god awfully wrong and move on to you next challenge and toss him like scraped scaps from a lunch plate and then move on to your conquest for a man like me who aint gonna take your s/hit and carries no guilt with it. then when i dump your wanna be high society, nagging, sellout, oprah winfrey worshipping ass your going to go right back to that sucker type of guy and marry him and spend the rest of your life thinking about how i f**ked you like i just got out of prison every night and the way i kept your confused a/ss on the edge of a cliff hanging on to a brittle twig in your head. see… now all of a sudden it aint about sex. i told you women… you want sex more than anything so stop trying to flip the script because the real men aint going for it. try to make a real man wait and you will find out that your the one starving.

And that’s why men hate when movies or books like “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man” Come out, because they encourage women to not do anything THEY AIN’T READY TO DO!! If a woman wants to give it up, good for her, but all that “well if I ain’t gettin from you, I’ma get it from somewhere else” crap, that’s game! If she waited until she wanted to give it up and he dips, at least she has the satisfaction of knowing she maintained HER standards, not did what a man wanted and then got played. So if he stays around, cool, if not, cool, but she can’t be called a jump and all the other horrid things you say a woman is when ya’ll are in ya lil’ frat boy settings, you call woment childish? Especially if she’s in a situation where she could run into dude again, no shame in her game, cuz he had to work HER TEMPO, whether he was gettin on the side or not.

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Ayo im not beat for this dumb Hoe first of all from all the producers and writers she worked with i know some of them had to smash same day they met her and with all the powerful motherf**kers she be around them niggas aint playing that waiting game. That b***h a liar and a hoe and pls lady dont be getting all gassed up cause youll know youll motherf**kers be horny as s**t for dick and cant hold that s**t in at all unless you wanna die a lonely chick….

What about the man? We might want to make the woman wait. If we gotta wait dammit yall gotta wait!!! :)

Neovirus…….sylkiifeather tellin the truth. Anybody disagreeing is in straight denial. Glad I live in South FL, dont have to deal with BS like this…..LOL

Men act like women can’t play the game to and know that they got head and kitty game that will have a dude giving her whatever she wants. Then when she dips for the bigger better deal, cuz she’s an opportunistic Beeoch, dudes ain’t giving her daps. I want to see men giving those women props then and stop contradicting yaselves and calling them gold diggers, and wh!ores, and everthing else that you call a woman when she plays ya’ll. Look at how dudes used to clown on lil’ Kim, cuz she was putting it down when she wanted and wasn’t afraid to talk about it. Everytime you heard about her it was somethin about how she’s a trick, nobody was giving her props about how she got down.

ok. keep thinking that bul/s/hit. and what type of man believes that a man should act like a lady and think like a man? sounds like a man who has a really flimsy wrist. lady imm check out right here because it sounds like im about to be arguing with yet another die hard fool. you know you want dick and you better stop that foolishness before you end up bitter, old, alone, possibly childless, or with a p***s envy having ass dyke for a partner. my advice to all you ladies, respect to you, stop trying to make a fool before you find that you’ve only made one of yourself. and you can’t give a man no p***y! your p***y was made to receive dick.

I don’t get it. She says she made her man wait for 9 months, but dresses like a piece of meat for all the world to see. A S**T! She might have made that dude wait 9 months but gave it up to somebody else in the meantime.

D*MN THANKS FOR ALL THE LOVE EVERYBODY LOL. I USUALLY AGREE WITH MEN ABOUT MOST THINGS…EXCEPT CALLING WOMEN SL*T JUST BECAUSE SHE GAVE IT UP…BUT OTHER THAN THAT…WOMEN STOP PLAYING GAMES WITH MEN AND THEN GETTING MAD WHEN THEY PLAY YOU INSTEAD BY LEAVING AFTER YOU GIVE IT UP. TRUST ME, WAITING WILL ONLY HURT THE WOMAN IN THE END. A MAN DOESNT WANT TO WIFE A WOMAN WHO IS ALL ABOUT PLAYING GAMES. ITS ONE THING IF SHE WAITS BECAUSE THE VIBE JUST ISNT THERE YET…BUT ITS ANOTHER THING IF SHE WAITS JUST BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO PLAY THE WAITING GAME. A MAN WONT RESPECT YOU IF YOU TWO ARE HANGING OUT AND THERE IS ALOT OF SEXUAL TENSION, AND YOU PLAY THAT GAME. HE WILL SEE YOU AS A CHILD. THOSE ARE TEEN GAMES. WE ARE ALL GROWN…SEX IS NATURAL…WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE ASHAMED JUST BECAUSE SHE LOVES SEX AS MUCH AS MEN DO…I KNOW I LOVE SEX AND HAVE NO SHAME IN THAT. MOST LIKELY YOU KNOW VERY QUICK WHAT A GUY IS ALL ABOUT…SO IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO WAIT SO LONG JUST TO MAKE HIM CHANGE, WHATS THE POINT? YOU MIGHT AS WELL JUST GIVE IT UP QUICK TO THE GUY WHO MEETS YOUR STANDARDS ALREADY, RATHER THAN GIVE IT UP TO THE ONE YOU HAVE TO WAIT TO CHANGE. THATS DUMB.

The smart man would wait on her and get his pu ssy elsewhere. Its a stupid idea to put a timetable of intimacy, but we have peeps with all type of crazy ideas. I wonder how long that relationship lasted. I would have droped her soon after she gave it to me.

@ rajarabbit

Man… most women down here are very hypocritical in South FL. I don’t really talk to most women down here anymore because they say one thing and mean another. They either confused, superficial, materialistic, or just plain nasty, and I don’t have to waste my time on women who are like that. I am heading places and will do much for my community in the future, and those womanly traits I have described will only hinder me from my goals.

the longest i made a guy wait was 6 months and 14 days i mean her never complain but that was because he was sleeping with someone else anyway. lol bastard. but its cool we were over a long time ago i have no left over feelings for him so its funny to me now…

Putting a time limit on ANYTHING in a relationship is asinine, much less putting a time limit on intimacy. We are grown and if a woman wants to have sex on the first night, that is her business…if the man never calls her again then it is one of two things 1.) the sex wasn’t good or 2.) he is just an ass and he would have done the same thing no matter when you gave it up. Everything in life has it’s own natural flow, we need to learn to stop forcing things and let them flow. The only person that needs to respect YOU is YOU. Do I think that women should have sex with EVERY man they meet on the first night? NOOOOO, but instituting a time limit is just a game and I don’t play games. (Except Monopoly of course) ;-)

Ok, I don’t understand how people think sometimes..obviously women have cravings just like men..we are human. However, just because you want it doesn’t mean you should have it. There are too many disease out there for people to just be having sex. You need time to get to know a person and make sure that they are worth your time..this works better for men and women. If more men did this then y’all wouldn’t have so many baby mama’s that y’all cant stand. And please stop judging women for dressing sexy and then not wanting to give it up right away..she has the right to wear what she wants just like y’all..stopping looking on the outside to understand someone and you won’t be so mad when she say’s your moving too fast.

some of these comments are really out there my personal opinion is that there is no specific time limit on when to have sex. Everyone is different and therefore you cant put a specific number on it. my preference is to get to know them first and feel out the situation before i even go down that path

@ sylkiifeather

I think I am going to move up to Petersburg, VA now! Lol!

@NeovirusX

Well that can be said about women not matter where you go. If you live in Broward and black you going to have a tough time…..LOL I live in Miami and see a huge difference. Then again Im color blind and I date different cultures that Miami has to offer.

Word, to Asianbtrfly. Putting a time limit on anything in a relationship is just gay.
And Keri calling herself “training” men is so full of sh*t. I suppose she’s the Man Whisperer now, huh?

Get real, she’s just on a power trip!

Ladies, men are not trained, okay? We’re not dogs. If a man wants something bad enough, he’ll get it one way or the other – don’t fool yourself.

Quite frankly, I’m surprised her boyfriend didn’t choke her out for bragging like a douchebag.

What if YOUR man was all on CNN, talking bout some, “Oh yeah, you gotta train these women to want the d*ck…” C’mon! Does she NOT sound like the disrespectful rappers that you loathe so much?

I rest my case…

@ rajarabbit

LOL! Actually I am black and I live in Broward! You called me out correctly and my situation! I am starting to learn how to be colorblind because the women I have the least amount of problems with now are Caucasians and Hispanic women, contrary to African American women, nowadays.

Okay here’s tha logic. The reason why women make men wait. the logic is that a guy has enough time invested he will stick around. if the female gives it up to fast the guy will bounce. the truth is that its up to the guy. Some guys will stick aound for months to years just to hit once and be out. You cant tell. So ladies if you have feelings. Just go for it. If he is going to leave he’s out. If you want to milk it and he’s stays around its fine. Both just have to be willing to play each other’s game. Best advice for tha guys. If you treat a female like a guest in your own house. Look nice and clean cut every time you see her. You have a good shot. And if you make out. IE first base/ second base. Its not the best idea to do something where she has to stop you. So dont go in for the home run shot! Just deal with the situation the right way. Then you wont be docked the kitty cat. You never get what you want. If you to thirst to get it on. Then you are at the mercey of the lady!

Keri Hilson is a Scorpio, they’re just lustful and sex driven folks..hard to believe she “waited” 9 months. Perhaps she just made dude wait 9 months and got it from somewhere else like another dude or satisfied herself with sex toys. If the sexual urge is there a woman will drop the panties. I’m not of the mindest that if a woman gives up the azz she’s automatically a hoe but she’s a hoe if she’s giving up the azz to everyone. Women kill me with that “I got that good good”. If it is in fact that good wouldn’t it require good wood to please it? A guy shouldn’t have to wait on that premise alone because if he’s anything like me he’ll get that “good good” from somewhere else.

ok lips not lookin cute but neways…she is a hot artist oh n i have made a boy wait theres notin to it just depends on the status of thingss hehe

Ok first of all she said she made her FIRST boyfriend wait 9 months, who knows she could have been 13 for all we know! LMAO and that’s a bunch of bull to “train” a man. Please, women have the same needs as men do. I’m not saying go sleep with every man you meet but if you’re feeling the connection then why make him or YOU wait? That’s just ridiculous. But ladies…if the man wants it on the first date and you don’t and he drops you then obviously he wasn’t worth it anyways. And yes I understand about all the diseases that are going around but come on let’s be adults and use protection. Whether you give it to him the first night or 9 months down the road nothing will have changed. Just my opinion. :o)

I can understand taking your time and all that but whose really looking at the calender to know when they are “supposed” to take that step. Those choice of words tho are out of control. “Training” her man. I’m guessing they’re not together anymore or much longer with that kind of talk.

@ NEOVIRUSX…THANKS FOR THE LOVE HOMIE…
BUT TO ANYBODY, DONT GET IT TWISTED…IMA NYMPHO, BUT IM FAR FROM A S**T. I THINK TOO HIGHLY OF MYSELF TO EVER BE THAT LOL. MY STANDARDS ARE HIGH…I MUST LIKE THE GUY’S PERSONALITY AND MENTALITY BEFORE I EVEN GIVE HIM MUCH OF MY TIME. BUT IF IM GIVING HIM MY TIME, THEN THAT MUST MEAN IM ATTRACTED TO HIM…WHICH MEANS THAT HE HAS A GOOD SHOT AT GETTIN AT ME IN THAT WAY. HAVING SEX WITH A GUY AND THEN HAVING HIM BOUNCE AFTER GETTIN IT IS NOT THAT MUCH OF A LOSS IN ALL REALITY. WORSE THINGS CAN HAPPEN IN LIFE. I HAVE NO TIME TO BE DWELLING ON SUCH NONSENSE. I MOVE ON TO THE NEXT, JUST WASNT THE RIGHT PERSON. EVERY GUY WANTS SEX…SO IF HE IS WAITING 9 MONTHS, ITS NOT BECAUSE HE WANTS TO…ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE MAKING HIM DO SO…WHICH MEANS HE IS REALLY NOT THE GUY YOU THINK HE IS…HE IS JUST PRETENDING IN ORDER TO GET SOME. THATS WHY I WOULD NEVER WAIT 9 MONTHS TO GIVE IT UP, BECAUSE THATS JUST A WASTE OF EMOTIONS. YOU MUST HAVE A SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO SOMEONE IN ORDER TO HAVE MORE WITH THEM. SO AFTER A WHILE, YOU GOTTA HAVE SEX WITH THEM TO FIND OUT IF THAT ATTRACTION IS THERE. NO POINT IN WAITING THAT D*AMN LONG (MEANING 9 MONTHS). SEX IS NATURAL…WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK, LIVE YOUR LIFE.

9 months! thats torture. i would’ve had a kid by then. her boyfriend should have dump her ass! he was probably getting wet on the low

@ sylkiifeather

Anytime sistah! On another note, sex is being used as a tool. It is either used by women as a form of control, or by men as a way increase his ego or self-confidence. Either way, that’s a short term means of self-fulfillment and is very contrary to its real purpose.

If his heart was in the right place, then 9 months would not be a problem. As a woman, I’m not sure I could have held out that long. Especially if I’m really diggin him. I agree with sylkiifeather. Sex is being used as a tool and method of control, and ego boosting now days, as opposed to being used as one’s way of wanting to take the intimacy to the next level. Our society has lost the meaning of ‘waiting’ until that person is ready. Guys that don’t want to wait, will eventually move on to someone else who’s willing to put out. That happened with my first boyfriend. He didn’t want to wait until I was ready, so being the horny teen he was, he went and found someone who was going to give it up. Sadly, it turned out to be my sister, which he had two babies with. Talk about heart breaking!

I woulda personally waited…sex is something that can be used to control your own self…men act like panting wolves when theres fresh meat around…I as a man was that way when I was younger…but I gained control and now have a few women askin me am I even attracted to them…of course…I love women…I love the physical attributes of a lot of women…Ive been called a tease before but if men had the tactics to show a woman that that aint what he is after and be real with it…he would get it quicker from a woman thats worth gettin it from…and it will be an EXPLOSIVE EVENING…but thats my OPENion…

@Abesgirl21

Hey that’s not fair! I was the one who spoke of sex being used as a tool! lol!

@ rajarabbit

LOL! Actually I am black and I live in Broward! You called me out correctly and my situation! I am starting to learn how to be colorblind because the women I have the least amount of problems with now are Caucasians and Hispanic women, contrary to African American women, nowadays.
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Yessir! Broward and Black a no no. LOL But yeah its a shame that about 90% of modern day black women are controlled by Beyounce and TV’s shows like Girlfriends……LOL

@NeovirusX
LOL…dont hate cuz i got credit for something i didnt write lol :P

@ sylkiifeather

AHH! That’s messed up! I should get credit for that because I said it. Poor me… lol

@ rajarabbit

…and most of all… I cannot stand African American women like this!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=11eoukTCetU

This is a shame. This discussion has went from Keri Hilson to ignorant ni ggas dissing Black Women. One fool talking bout 90% of black women are controlled by Beyonce’ and watching Girlfriends….wtf

Didn’t they cancel that show like 3 years ago

I remember how some women claim men are dogs but yet Keri Hilson is talking about “you have to train men.” No you don’t! If that is the case, men have to train women. Men have to talk and talk and talk so that a woman can be told things to calm down her ego. Men have to buy women things to satisfy her then she’ll turn around and start dissing her man when something happens that doesn’t match with her outrageous fantasies. I’m done typin’ my response to Keri’s biased claims.

N.S. Ugezene

http://stores.lulu.com/NSUgezene

OK LET ME GET THIS STRAIGHT

SHE SAID SHE MADE HER FIRST BOYFRIEND WAIT 9 MONTHS BEFORE HE CAN F.U.C.K HER

BUT HOW SHE KNOW WHILE HE ACTED LIKE HE WAS WAITING 9 MONTHS HE WASNT REALLY FUC.KING ANOTHER WOMAN WHO WAS WILLING TO PLAY BALL…

CAN KERI HILSON SAY FOR SURE WITHOUT A DOUBT THAT THE BOYFRIEND WAS WAITING ON HER

COME ON PLEASE STOP BEING STUPID AND SMELL THE FUC.KING COFFEE YO

NO DUDE IN HIS RIGHT MIND OR OUT-OF-HIS-MIND FOR THAT FACT IS WAITING NO GOD-DAMN 9 MONTHS ON NO PUZZY THAT MIGHT NOT BE NO DAMN GOOD ANYWAY

LETS BE REAL HERE

well in response to nattyredds….just because you have no self control and your view of women is messed up, doesnt mean that they’re aren’t any men out there willing to wait….i know some and im with 1 right now and our 1st time (week after next) is going to be the BOMB! lol….but what i dont understand is that why is it that when a woman believes her man “she’s dumb” but if a woman doesnt believe her man, “she bitter”?…..wtf

Sorry, I have to agree with nattyredds..I don’t know ANY guys that would be willing to wait 9 months for sex. Shyt, 9 months is a long time, I mean be lets just be honest. Why would a guy wait 9 months for sex, if he can go somewhere meet a chick and hook-up with her in a matter of days or weeks? In this day in age it is hard to keep a guys interest for very long. Hell, most of them would have been gone in the 1st month after not getting sex.

Dont think because most women give up their bodies because a man wants them to.Or you feel that you have to in order to keep him that every woman has done the same.What makes you think that she isnt telling the truth?Their are people in this world that have SELF CONTROL. Believe me.Its how you are trained as a girl from our mother on the reasons for sleeping with a man.Start teaching your little girls the value of their bodies.That little boys are going to try and say anything to get what they want,and that its up to the girl to wait for something that is at least special.But to wait as long as possible.I know today this is ancient talk.But in some cases ,it works.I see women out here with their daughters to young dressed as if they know what being sexy and sex is.Thats the mothers FAULT.Not the child.Let a child be a child,help them and guide them on not having sex by talking to them.And if you made the choice to start having sex young and had a child,teach her that she should wait.But why you are talking to them,dont be doing the same thing that everyone else is doing.Lead by example.YOU REMEMBER GRAND PUBA.. SLOWWWWW DOWWWWN!!!!!!!! Everyone wants to jump in just to say they did something so they are not left out.Not knowing what the hell they are doing and how it will affect them.Be a leader,go against the grain.So what if people talk about you,half of them dont know what the hell they are talking about anyway but how to get in trouble.

Not having sex at a young age is not the end of the world.Give these girls hobbies,spend the majority of your time with your daughters,stay on them,talk to them.Its not a competition.How you going to compete with your daughter for a man? its sickening.
Even though little girls will grow up and go through puberty,TEACHING THEM THAT HAVING SEX IS A CHOICE.THEIR ARE CONSEQUENCES TO THAT CHOICE AND HAVING SEX TO YOUNG ISNT GOOD because they are not EMOTIONALLY MATURE TO DEAL WITH IT.How do I know you may ask?
Because I had a mom that did just that,stayed on me.Showed me how important my body was and that BOYS will use you so wait.Hell most men arent mature enough so you know a boy sure isnt.I guess its why I waited to I was 19,,yes 19 with my boyfriend,friends first,15 years later,we are still together.So it meant something.STOP telling these little girls that its ok to be ms fast azz.Because time will tell whos been ms fast azz. Most look used and abused by the age of 30.We all make our choices.Stand by the choices you’ve made and dont jump on someone elses choice to wait because you didnt..We all dont follow,some lead.Its ok to wait.We all Have our own mind.If some are so weak that when a man says jump you do,so be it.MAMMA USE TO SAY,TALK YOUR TIME YOUNG MAN,(WOMAN) MAMMA USE TO SAY,DONT YOU RUSH TO GET OLD..LIVE YOUR LIFE.(I use to love that song)

WhoA!!!!! Hey PCola…..! It took me a few to realize the relations to your name, I see you from the same town as Roy..! Roy Jones that is and that explains why you shoot the counterpunch so well!!! I see you went below the belt on me too! Wow now why I gotta be a cheat and a flipper? You have been countering all my knowledge with nuthin’ but slick words!! I wanna hear your point of view rather than your counter view…..give me something to think about bruh! You twistin’ my words like Rush Limbaugh!!! I said what I said and meaning what I said…..I speak from experience so you tell me what is the best teacher? Hypothetical is just that……..lots of space but no substance. Everything I spoke upon is Da real. I can’t help it if society as well as this generation got things fyugged up fo themselves. Without standards and a bit of respect for one self what do you live for? It’s all good though brotha….we need to agree to disagree as you said and also see another’s view of a situation. One…..

The article says her First boyfriend. Isnt everyone’s first boyfriend one whom you dated in high school. As a teenager 9 months isnt even long enough to make them wait in my opinion. But a grown 21+ man will not wait 9 months. Lets be honest most women wont either.

CourtneyR……! Speak baby…speak! I hope they can relate to what you just put down. Nuff said! Peace Sista.

@ silkiifeather..I agree with you on the point that ITS ABOUT WHAT KIND OF GUY YOU GIVE IT TO.YES I BELIEVE THIS.But YOUR NOT GOING TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF GUY HE IS IF YOU SLEEPING WITH HIM RIGHT OF THE BACK.I still say its how you raise your daughter.I dont think its a good look for women to try to keep up with men in the sex game.

I think if its the right guy he will wait. Some guys will try you just to see what type of girl you are, not jus because they wanna sleep with you. If a guy is respectful then he will respect you on that, and if not then he is not the one in the first place.

@ courtneyR…..i totally agree with you on everything that u had to say. it starts at home. girls now a days need to realize that it takes alot to be different but in the long run..most guys don’t end up marrying the girls that are easy to get a piece of azz from..they marry girls that they have to work hard to even get to notice them, that have a high value of themselves. its not a matter of giving in cause its what a guy wants….its about doing what is best for you. Yes i agree that most guys won’t wait even if u are not giving it up and that is what lets u know that they are not the right person for you. You need the time to really get to know the person..know if its what is best for you in that place and time. I’ve seen so often that girls just give it up and the next day the guy blows them off..will even cuss them out about being an easy lay and she ends up feeling used and hurt, but as females we need to realize that we are the ones that put our selves in that position….life is what you make of it..its the choices that we make that may cause us hardships and pain…we are to be blamed sometimes of the so called bad situations that we go through. mothers these days need to take the time to be mothers and not compete with their daughters in terms of dress and guys…girls need to take the time to be girls..enjoy their adolescence because when life creeps up on you ..you often wish you were back to those carefree days of just hanging out with ur friends with not a care in the world beside wondering if the guy you really like even knows you exist much less like him…to girl growing up in this day an age , i’d say wait..take your time..really get to know who you are for yourself because if you don’t understand who you are..sex and the emotions that it evokes just complicates things even more than you can handle no matter how grown you think you are…remember that sometimes it does pay to listen to ur mother because she’s been through this before and a REAL mother would try to educate her daughter so that he journey from adolescence into adulthood and the emotions that is evokes would be better than the experiences she had.

Please, I made my first wait a year and 6 months b 4 he got the booty, doesn’t mean he wasn’t getting it from somewhere else, but he waited. Beat that!!!! I stil make em wait

Sup Abettrnut…yeah cuz, I counter like RJ, tot the rock like Emmitt, and deliver the crushing blow like 55 (Derrick Brooks), all Pcola Legends.

On the real though, I was just having a lil fun with my replies big homie, plus I was trying to gauge where you was coming from when you stated that women should train men (your initial statement), the you flipped it up on a brotha. Holla, cuz

@SexyCouture. I admire your guy for letting you know that he would hold out on sex just for his girl. But that sounds like some High School shyt, we talking bout grown folks relationships…..a big difference, Boo

Wow…now we have to “train” men?!

She’s cute and all…but damn 9mo’s.She’d have to give me a written contract.Nothing would be off limit’s…Oral,Anal all ORIFICE’S available!!!

her 1st boyfriend and she’s how old now? has she had any other boyfriends since then? cuz that sounds kinda high schoolish to me if you grown and you interested in someone you shouldnt be settin up time frames for it when it happens it happens

LIL WAYNE DIDNT WAIT 9MONTHS. U GOT 2 BE STUPID N WEAK 2 WAIT DAT LONG. 2WKS MAX, AFTER DAT FUC U N YO CAT. TRAIN A NIGGA! U TRAIN ANIMALS. U B A MAN WITH FAME N C IF U WAIT DAT LONG. BULLS**T! REAL MAN STANDUP. THINK WHAT THE BIG HEAD N NOT THE LIL 1, U CANT LOSE PROMISE. SUMTIME I THINK IM THE LAST MAN STANDING. IF U GOT WEAKNESSES U AINT NO MAN

@ courtneyR
I WASNT SAYING SLEEP WITH A GUY OFF TOPS. THATS SILLY. MY POINT WAS THAT IF YOU ARE SEEING A GUY FOR A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF TIME, THEN THAT MUST MEAN YOU ARE FEELING HIM IF YOU KEEP SEEING HIM. AND IF THAT CONNECTION IS THERE THEN WHY NOT? IF YOU ARE CONTINUING TO SEE HIM, THEN YOU MUST FEEL LIKE HE IS A GOOD GUY…OR ELSE YOU WOULDNT BE SEEING HIM, RIGHT? THAT MAY TAKE MONTHS INSTEAD OF DAYS. BUT NOWHERE NEAR 9 MONTHS. IF YOU FEEL THAT HE IS NOT WORTHY OF YOUR GOODS AFTER A WHILE, THEN MOVE ON. BUT DONT CONTINUE TO SEE HIM IF YOU DONT FEEL THAT SEXUAL VIBE IS THERE. AND IF THAT VIBE IS THERE BUT YOU ARE JUST IGNORING IT, THEN THATS A GAME. YOUR STANDARDS SHOULD BE BASED ON PERSONALITY AND MENTALITY…IF HE HAS A F*CKED UP MENTALITY THEN WHY CONTINUE TO SEE HIM. BE PICKY ABOUT WHO YOU CHOOSE TO ASSOCIATE WITH IN THE FIRST PLACE.

Everyone is saying that not giving it up as soon as you feel the urge is a control mechanism?! IT’S CALLED SELF CONTROL!!! Train yo’self not to be a male or female w>hore and you won’t wind up lettin someone into your life that impressed enough to tap it but then come to find out they’re pychos. At least wait to find out where their heads at, and I mean the one on their shoulders, being a man or a woman is based on your mentality and not your anatomy! If you both have the standard that it only takes mutual attraction to give it up, then by all means, get it! But if a man or woman wants to make sure they’re not with someone who wants to use you, is full of drama, wants to live off you, will bust you upside ya dome or try to take your life, all of these things are only found out over a bit of time at least, and most often if they’re good in bed, no one can tell you nothin about that person! That’s all I’m saying, there’s no time limit, but it has to feel right, and you have to both be comfortable taking it to that level. If it turns out not to work at least both parties can walk away not feeling as hurt because it progressed at a pace that both of them agreed with, which is the ADULT WAY to look at things, not being ruled by the sensations of ya coochie or d%ick, before they get you into a situation that they can’t help you out of.

I’d Wait 9 (((YEARz))) For Mz Keri Bayybeee…

9 Months?!?! Shiiit… I’d Wait 9 (((YEARz))) For Mz Keri Bayybeee…

and all these guys talkin about they’d wait 9 months or even years, please tell me u would still be doin u in the meantime,cuz what if u wait for a chic, you stay havin blue balls for 9 months and then u finally get it & her ishhhh smells like a bag of wet pennies???

in reality. it doesnt matter how long u make a person wait, but the level of respect u maintain for yourself. if u respect yourself, that person will respect you. all this make them wait, they will marry u s**t… lmao@ that. my cousin lost her virginity at the age of 22 to her high school boyfriend.. can u add the years up? and she is still single and all ( well cause she psycho) but that’s my point. he waited and less than 6 months later he left her. so the wait is worth it only if u gain the respect of the individual. making someone wait will make them want u more. but that doesnt always mean they will respect you for the wait. they must first respect you as a person, there are many times young boys will wait to sleep with a girl and after they get it they long gone. i got brothers i seen how they work. so… the wait may only prolong the desire, not the respect and love that you want them to have for you. 9 minutes, 9 days, 9 weeks, 9 months, or 9 years… get the respect then u get the man..
LaDawn

i understand the STDs, the pregnancies, but I’ll be damned if I wait 9 months for sex. I don’t see anything wrong with it if they wait or not, providing they’re feeling each other and have protection.even if that guy waited ther’e no guarantee he’ll be around forever and vice versa….we human have needs and we both probably found pleasure in other ways…..the respect thing is pure bulls**t..it’s more control on the guy more than anything, even if the guy in the relationship spends time with you spends money on you doing everything you expect him to do. But what are you doing for him????? I’d been there, had women controlled me spent my money and they creeped on me, never gave me sex (I’m single and have no kids). it’s a wonder the man stayed with her training ass. I swear there are women out there that are worth waiting for, but those who want to control manipulate and bulls**t, no thank you…

She made the guy wait 9 months to have sex with her, and she is dressed so sexy in those pictures, which I like…can you say “TEASER”???????? Good, I knew you could……

that’s a good thing. ya’ll make it seem like it’s bad to make a dude wait. good job keri!

YEAH. SHE MADE HIM WAIT. FOR HER. BUT WHO IS TO SAY THAT HE WAITED 9 MONTHS TO GET SOME? LOL.

and all these guys talkin about they’d wait 9 months or even years, please tell me u would still be doin u in the meantime,cuz what if u wait for a chic, you stay havin blue balls for 9 months and then u finally get it & her ishhhh smells like a bag of wet pennies??? lmao

first of all, let me say, us as women, or at least, myself, i know from the first time i meet a guy if i wanna smash, period, i either say, i could see myself f’in him or hell no, i could never f him… so this makin him wait 9 months nonsense, is just that, nonsense. not only is it nonsense, but it is childish. now if you wait 9 months because for whatever reason, you weren’t ready before then, then that is different..but if you are just doin it to “control” the man or think he’s gonna think higher of you, kill that ishhhh, be a grown up.. cuz let me tell you, even women do them, if the man ain’t doin whatever sexually for them, the woman still gonna get it regardless, from the next man but still f with ole boy anyways… just as i think the same applies to men, and i believe someone said it on here, even if you make the guy wait, he may still just smash and bounce even after you finally let him hit, stupid broads, stop playin games cuz those kinda games only gonna play you, not him. and this training thing, please, a real woman wouldn’t want a man that she could train… sorry miss keri baby, as a woman, i ain’t got your back on this one.. i’m with the fellas, as i usually am…

9 mths is a long time for men but I don’t see anything wrong with making someone wait. I mean, I go by emotions and if I’m feeling someone, I can see 2 months waiting..hell, men are so nasty these days and for any female to give it up easily, unless you intend for it to be a one night stand, I suggest waiting cuz who knows who else he is f**king dating/talking to and make sure his ass is tested five months from the last time he had sex, cuz that’s when the test is accurate!!

@ italianmami37
LET’S SCHOOL THESE WOMEN. NOW WE ALL KNOW YOU MUST PLEASE A MAN SEXUALLY IN ORDER TO KEEP HIM. CUZ WHAT YOU’RE NOT DOING, TRUST ANOTHER WOMAN IS. SO WHY YOU ARE CUDDLING, MAKING HIM WAIT…HE IS LEAVING YOUR HOUSE AND GOING TO ANOTHER WOMAN WHO IS GONNA HAVE YOUR MAN ALL NIGHT. I DONT CARE WHAT A MAN IS TELLING YOU…HE IS GETTIN HIS D*CK WET SOMEWHERE IF ITS NOT WITH YOU. SO GO AHEAD AND WAIT THAT 9 MONTHS. SH*T I WOULDNT BE SURPRISED IF THE MAN HAD A WIFEY BY THEN AND WAS JUST PRETENDING TO BE WITH YOU UNTIL YOU GIVE IT UP LOL. I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY WOMEN TRY TO ACT LIKE THEY DONT WANT SEX JUST AS MUCH AS MEN. TRYING TO PLAY A GAME TO GAIN RESPECT LOL. NOT GONNA HAPPEN. A MAN DOESNT RESPECT A WOMAN WHO PLAYS GAMES. RESPECT DOESNT COME ONLY FROM SEX. LIKE I SAID BEFORE…JUST HAVE TO GIVE IT TO THE RIGHT MAN WHO WONT LEAVE AFTER GETTIN IT…WHETHER HE GETS IT AFTER 9 MONTHS OR 1 MONTH.

thank u sylkifeather, u know some lame dude on here inboxed me and said because of what i said on here that i talk like a dude? i think alot like most men, that’s why i usually get along better with men than chics, haha, but you & i r on the same page, and what ppl don’t realize is just cuz u make one dude wait don’t mean u still can’t be a ho in other areas…haha, yes girl, we need to school….

YEA ALOT OF PEOPLE SAY I ACT AND TALK LIKE A MAN TOO LOL. I MEAN, ITS JUST COMMON SENSE TO ME. THE WAY THE WORLD WORKS. I GET ALONG WITH MEN BETTER TOO. BUT SOMETIMES, WOMEN WHO ARE HOES JUST PRETEND THEY AREN’T BY MAKING A GUY WAIT. AND NOT MAKING A GUY WAIT DOESNT MAKE YOU A HO NECESSARILY. I MEAN DAYUM, SEX IS NATURAL…JUST HAVE FUN IN LIFE…

1st to Queen_Realness yeah in pic 11 she favors Beyonce(to me)… 2ndly to the ladies who feel waiting is stupid and un-lady like… yall are idiots… there is nothing wrong with waiting… AIDS and HIVs are spreading like wildfires and as easy to get as the air u and i breathe and STDs are nothing to some people so wait is good bc the quicker u open ur legs the less likely u r to get that man (or girl) tested… now yall are nasty and its sad it takes a 19 year to remind yall of that… NOW ABOUT CALLING PEOPLE W***ES BC THEY WAIT OR DNT PEOPLE ARE GONNA DO WHAT THEY WANNA DO ANYWAYS BUT THAT DOESNT MAKE THEM A W***E… TO sylkiifeather & italianmami37 my 1st impression of yall to was nasty… so watch what u say and how u say it ok…. but i see what yall was tryna get across to some of the ladies(i guess) women should wait because it is something they chose to do( they want the man that they are talking to like them not the sex) if a guy will stick with u for 9 damn months just to see what u got… they asses arent going anywhere MS. italianmami37 i am pretty sure u can smell a stanky p***y through their tight az pants… no hiding that s**t… if u can educate them on that! I TAKE IT THAT YALL TO HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOME S**T WITH MEN OR U GAY… I AM NOT TRYNA BE MEAN AND I DIDNT EVEN WATCH THE VIDEO OR READ ABOUT WHATS GOING ON… JUST THE TITLE AND WHAT YALL WROTE(NOT JES THE 2 I PIN POINTED) 2MORE THING…sylkiifeather: “SEX IS NATURAL…JUST HAVE FUN IN LIFE…” MY COMMENT TO THAT IS YEAH HAVE FUN AND IS “natural” BUT DANGEROUS AS HELL SO BE CAREFUL… TO THESE GUYS TALKING ABOUT THEY WOULD WAIT… IF KERRI WAS ANY OTHER CHICK WOULD U STILL WAIT….? B/C IT IS PLENTY OF DIME PIECES IN THIS WORLD MAKING MONEY AND ARE NOT FAMOUS… AND THEY DNT GET WAITED ON!… THATS ALL… KISSES FROM::: I_AM_ADDICTIVE1

LOL. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUGGESTIONS, SO LET ME BREAK YOU DOWN RIGHT QUICK BOO BOO. I NEVA SAID WAITING WAS STUPID. I SAID THINKIN A MAN WILL WANT YOU MORE CUZ U MAKE HIM WAIT IS STUPID. OR THINKING YOU WILL GAIN MORE RESPECT CUZ YOU MAKE HIM WAIT 9 MONTHS IS STUPID. I WASNT SAYING WAITING A REASONABLE AMOUNT OF TIME…I WAS SAYING 9 MONTHS WAS STUPID. BUT IF THATS YOUR STANDARDS THEN GOOD LUCK WITH THAT. I COULDNT CARE LESS WHAT ANYBODY ELSE DOES. NOT MY CONCERN. SO WHY WOULD I SAY WAITING IS STUPID WHEN I DONT EVEN CARE. NOW YOU DONT KNOW ME, SO CALLIN ME NAMES IS UNNECESSARY…DONT GET IT TWISTED. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I DO…SO DONT CALL ME NASTY. JUST BECAUSE I HAVE A DIFFERENT OPINION THEN MOST WOMEN DONT MEAN IM OUT F*CKIN EVERY N*GGA. IF YOU HAD TOOK THE TIME TO READ ALL MY OTHER POSTINGS, YOU WOULD HAVE SEEN WHAT I WROTE ABOUT THAT TOO. NOW AS FAR AS THE AIDS THING GOES….OF COURSE THATS A CONCERN. YOU SHOULD BE CAREFUL WITH WHO YOU F*CK…THAT DOESNT CHANGE WHETHER ITS AFTER 9 MONTHS OR 9 DAYS. SO I DONT EVEN UNDERSTAND HOW THAT CAME INTO THE DISCUSSION IN THE FIRST PLACE. BEING GROWN IS ABOUT BEING RESPONSIBLE NO MATTA WHAT CHOICES YOU MAKE. AND TO YOUR SUGGESTION OF WATCHIN WHAT I SAY AND HOW I SAY IT…TRUST I ALWAYS WILL SAY WHAT I WANT HOWEVA I WANT. LIKE I SAID, I DONT CARE WHAT ANYBODY ELSE THINKS. YOU ARE TOO FUNNY BOO BOO. NOR AM I GAY…I DONT HAVE MY OPINION BECAUSE I “BEEN THRU SOME SH*T”. NO, I JUST SEE THINGS FOR HOW THEY REALLY ARE. I DONT KNOW YOUR SITUATION AND YOU DONT KNOW MINES. IF YOU GOT A MAN, AND HE WAITED THAT LONG…THEN THATS EXTREMELY RARE I BET. BUT MOST MEN WONT. SO YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT READING ALL MY OTHER POSTINGS AND NOT JUST ONE TO SEE WHAT I REALLY THINK. NOW TO REPEAT MYSELF…I AM PICKY AS HELL ABOUT WHO I ASSOCIATE WITH IN THE FIRST PLACE TO EVEN PUT MYSELF IN THAT POSITION OF F*CKING THEM. MY POINT WAS THAT SEX IS NATURAL, SO WHY DO ALOT OF WOMEN ACT LIKE ITS SO NASTY? I DONT GET IT. NOW TO REPEAT MYSELF AGAIN…I NEVA GOT WHY CERTAIN WOMEN FEEL THE NEED TO ACT LIKE THEY ARE BETTER THAN OTHER WOMEN WHO CHOOSE NOT TO WAIT. DONT COME HERE ACTIN LIKE YOU’RE A SAINT. JUST BECAUSE I SAY ITS NOTHIN WRONG WITH NOT WAITING DOESNT MEAN I SLEEP WITH EVERY MAN I COME ACROSS. LIKE I SAID, IMA NYMPHO…NO SHAME IN MY GAME…BUT IM ALSO VERY PICKY ABOUT WHO I GIVE MY TIME AND P*SSY TO. NOW A 19 YEAR OLD WILL NEVA SCHOOL ME. IF YOU TRULY THINK A MAN AINT GETTIN NO *SS FOR 9 MONTHS THEN UR SADLY MISTAKEN. ITS EITHER HE WAITED FOR YOU FOR 9 MONTHS WHILE F*CKIN OTHER WOMEN AND THEN STAYED WITH YOU AFTER GETTIN IT FROM YOU…OR HE GOT IT AFTER 9 MONTHS AND LEFT. EITHER WAY, YOU GET HURT. I SAID I WOULDNT DARE WAIT 9 MONTHS…CUZ AFTER ABOUT A COUPLE MONTHS OF GETTIN TO KNOW A MAN, ITS EASY TO TELL WHAT HE IS ABOUT…JUST GOTTA KNOW THE SIGNS…NOT THAT HARD. ME, I DONT GO THRU TOO MUCH SH*T CUZ I KNOW THE GAME.

MAN, SOME OF YA’LL ARE TRIPPIN. I AGREE WITH 2 OF YA’LL ON UR OPINIONS AND IT DOESN’T MAKE U NASTY OR A HOE, IT MAKES U REAL. AS LONG AS EVERYONE IS CAREFUL AND PROTECTED WHO CARES WHO U F**K?! JUST MAKE SURE U AIN’T F**KIN EVERYBODY AND UR PARTNER ISN’T EITHER. GET REGULAR CHECK UPS. HANDLE UR S**T. AND TO ITALIAN MAMI I’VE BEEN TOLD I TALK LIKE A DUDE SO SO TELL WHOEVER TOLD U THAT TO GROW ONE! HE JUST MAD CUZ UR MORE OF A ‘DUDE’ THEN HE IS!

i couldnt even bring myself to read half these comments…. because they are pure BULLS**T! sex is NOT a favor or a “treat” that you give a man for being good. i know its hard to believe but they arent dogs (even if they act like it at times.) at 18 years old i have learned that you cant MAKE a man do s**t! ladies, its not about giving him the good good as a “thank you for buying me dinner”. a man is going to be a man, if he is truely into you it wont matter to him if you sleep with him after 9 months or 9 days. now, i also understand that as women, s**t, as humans, we have needs. and i strongly agree with some that said that as long as its protected, “go for it, have fun!” but in those cases there has to be an understanding that its JUST sex. the point im trying to make is this: if you like a man, have sex with him when you feel its right. when you’re ready, mentally AND physically. but make sure its what YOU want. and if he leaves, he left. its his mistake, his f**k up, he’s the dog. women, stop blaming yourselves for a man’s mistake. and please please please please please stop treating sex as a bargaining chip, sex is not made to be exchanged for shopping sprees or good behaivor. that’s just the mentally of the modern day w***e.

I agree with oh girl below! its when you are ready and in tune with who your dealing with sex is only the make or brake if you make it but hey women are emotional and most cant seperate the act from the emotion so to each his own but i am a frim believer in getting to know the person before you take it there how very soon or evr long that may be.

thank you to prettychyck83 and syllkifeather for havin myback, idk what that little girl (the 19 year old) was talkin about, so i’m not goin to respond to it…cuz i don’t respond to hate…but u 2 get it so it’s all good…

It’s a dayuuum shame females think we will actually wait a time period for sex !…yeah I may technically wait as she says for her time period, whatever it is, but on the real, I’ll be hitting another or others on the side until I get a chance to hit her azz !… Now that’s real !

hey basically if he dnt put a ring on it den he aint getN nun. if he leave u den o well den dat mean he wuznt da 1 move on wit ya lyfe nd get a new man datz da reason y aids nd stds gon around nw cuz females gvn up to easily. make dat nigga wait nd if he cant dan kick him to da curve cuz he aint worth it

KUDOS..IT WORKS FOR HER AND MANY. MEN LOVE THE CHASE, BUT I DONT KNOW ABOUT THAT LONG..IF SOMEONE HAS ALREADY POPPED THE CHERRY!

thank u rudeboy! thats exactly what i’ve been sayinnnn! but these silly broads on here hatin on me cuz i feel that same way! ladies, this is the real deal, listen to these men….

I think 9 months was as long as SHE could hold out.

Noticed how she said her “first boyfriend?” When was that, high school? I’m sure she is not waiting that long now lol!

Wow at some of these comments is what I say. For most women, sex is an emotional thing and for most men it is simply physical. I am a woman and I get attached emotionally and I personally am not perfect but I feel that I should have sex when I am married. I strongly believe in soul ties and I do not want to be connected to anyone that I do not have a future with. But making someone wait because you want to “train” or “control” them is a bit ridiculous. If you make someone wait, do it because you feel it is the right thing for you, not because you want to control them. And yes I do believe that people will respect you for the wait but do not confuse respect with “oh he is going to wait too and be with me.” This would be an inaccurate statement, not a reality. Some men will respect you because of your beliefs just as they could respect you if you had sex with them. Either way gain respect through simply being true to yourself and your beliefs and above all things respecting yourself.

KERI HILSON SEXTAPE @ http://WWW.INFINITY55.COM NASTY!!!!!!

I don’t have an exact timing of how long I make a man wait! I’m not a hoe but I like sex almost as much as men do. Plus I have to test them before I choose to even let them stay around for 9 months! Hell if I make them wait 9 months and than find out that they cant please me, than I start feeling like I wasted my time waiting so long. Relationships are not just based on sex however the love stays strong a little longer if you can please your mate. Who ever say sex don’t matter is on some BULL!

If i had a woman as fine as keri, i would not mind one bit waiting 9 months. But these other women out here that don’t compare to her physical looks, don’t try that s**t with your man. It’s okay to wait for a dime, cause every man knows there is NOTHING better than having sex with a fine ass woman, but you have overweight, and other women that don’t look like s**t trying to make someone wait. Please, you better be happy someone wants your ass in the first place

lol…my man waited 1 yr and no he wasn’t get’n anything anywhere else.so yeah. it can happen. the right man will wait TRUST=)

to “search09″, IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE YOUR GUY WAITED A YEAR WITH NO SEX FROM YOU AND WASN’T AT LEAST GETTING SOME DOME FROM SOMEONE ELSE, then I have some land i wanna sell you in the florida everglades.

chooseylover_1, lmfao! u r funny!

lol…just let them continue to believe that nonsense. whateva helps them sleep at night i guess. but maybe if a man waits a year, its because he cant get any cuz somethings wrong with him…super super ugly or something lol. but best believe he tried at least to get some on the low lol.

what u sylkii, what other posts on here should we destroy? lmao??….

meant what up..

lol…entertainment

GIRL WORK IT OUT. CLANK… CLANK…. YES PLEASE MAKE THESE MEN WAIT. THAT WAY THEY APPRECIATE THE GOODS…..

CHECK OUT MY BLOG ABOUT MAKIN MEN WAIT FOR SEX KERI HILSON MAGE HER MAN WAIT 9 MONTHS BUT DID HE WAIT NINE MONTHS YOU CAN ONLY GO SO FAR WITH TUESDAYS AND THURSDAY’S IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN

i bet u it was worth it Keri Hilson fine as hell

soooo she had sex with her 1st boyfriend???………… interesting

thats really cool. something that she did good, because Lord knows she don’t sing good! maybe she should look into having a talk show! Talking, i’m sure she can do that!

most guys can’t wait a week..U think he waited on u, but we all know he didn’t..

Yes, some men can wait, ya’ll just meeting the LOSERS, and BOYS, not real men..A real man DESIRES A REAL WOMEN, A WOMEN WHO WON’T GIVE UP HER GOODS TO EVERYONE…IF YOU SLEEP WITH A MAN ONE THE FIRST DAY…WEEKS DOWN THE LINE, THEY AREN’T REALLY INTO YOU…YOU MAKE HIM WAIT, AND IF HE CAN’T MOVE ON..

God bless you keri hilson i love your music you are a real woman who. should be tired with respect honor and class you are worthy. of a good man if a man cant respect.you then he is not worth your time god bless you in your career and i am praying for you and that the lord sends you a godly man. god bless you from Demetrius.

You really can’t put a time frame on sex with your partner. And the way they’re making it seem, “Women have to TRAIN men.” That’s just gameplay if you ask me. Ladies please DO NOT buy into this. When ever you’re ready to sleep with your man, sleep with your man. 9 months is a VERY long time for any sexually active person to go without. If you believe he/she is waiting, you may be in for a surprise. Live your life, ignore celebrity life, and stop reading these damn romance novels. PEACE!

Come on now, it was her first boyfriend (ie she lost her virginity to him), my first boyfriend waited 1 year to get any from me. I wonder how long she makes them wait now, that is what really matters. Giving the goodies up too soon for anyone is just going to make people lose interest faster, and increases the chances for one night stands. The truth is true love does not develop in between your legs, nor would a lasting, meaningful relationship…

WHO CARES ABOUT HOW LONG THIS BYTCH MADE A NIGGA WAIT FOR SEX.WITH HER BEYONCE HATING ASS.THIS BYTCH HAD THE AUDACITY TO CALL BEYONCE A HO.FOR NO APPARENT REASON.YOU HATING AZZ BYTCH.WHY DO YOU FEEL YOU HAVE TO SHARE THAT WITH THE PUBLIC I MEAN REALLY WHO CARES THIS GIRL CAN’T SING FOR SHYT. SHE SAID SHE ONLY DATES MEN WHO ARE EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE THIS BYTCH DATED TIMBERLAND.HAVE YALL SEEN THE PACKAGE OF HOTDOGS IN THE BACK OF TIMBERLAND’S NECK I MEAN REALLY.THEN THIS CROOKED NOSED FACE BYTCH WENT ON TALKING ABOUT CIARA.THIS BYTCH CAN’T SING, AND SHE CAN’T DANCE SO ALL SHE COULD DO WAS BE LESS OF A WOMEN AND TRY AS HARD AS SHE COULD TO VERBALLY ATTACK THE TOUGH COMPETITION.SHE VERBALLY ATTACKED BEYONCE AND CIARA.INSTEAD OF BEING A SO-CALLED WOMAN HATIN ON THESE TWO EXTREMELY TALENTED AND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN.LEARN SOME POSITIVE THINGS FROM THEM INSTEAD OF HATING.WHAT IS UP WITH THESE WANNA BE WOMEN ALWAYS HAVING SOMETHING TO SAY FOOLISH AND CHILDISH ABOUT PEOPLE WHO HAVE SAID OR DONE ANYTHING TO THEM.ALOT OF PEOPLE NEED TO GO BACK AND CHECK ALL OF THOSE RUMORS ABOUT BEYONCE TRYING TO TAKE THE CREDIT ALOTOF THAT IS NOT EVEN TRUE.IM GLAD THEY HAD AN INTERVIEW AND SPOKE TO BEYONCE’S PARENTS ABOUT THAT.WAKE UP PEOPLE WE EVEN HAVE OLD AZZ WOMEN HATING ON BEYONCE.DIANA ROSS,ARETHA FRANKLIN,AND ETTA JAMES.BUT BEYONCE CONTINUES TO BE HUMBLEAND NOT SAY ANYTHNG RUDE OR NEGATIVE ABOUT ANY OF THESE PEOPLE.BEYONCE YOU KEEP DOING YOUR THING AND CONTINUE TO KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS.

HAHA

we both waitin till we get married

Who the f**k is Keri Hilson?!

DONT TALK LIKE THAT BOUT MY GAL

If a women is going to make a man wait so long for the P@**y then she better have some bomb a## P&!!y and she better be faithful because some women play too many games when it comes to that.She might have a boyfriend and making him wait but at the same time sneaking behind his back.Women can be just as scandalous as men,if not more scandalous.

i want to seetoya carter and lil wayne back together

Me and my husband waited until we were married to have sex.Neither of is were virgins when we married and in the past I’ve waited as little as a week to have sex with a partner, we went on to have a relationship for over a year.