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Most of us have thought about experimenting in the bedroom before. Getting kinky doesn’t mean that you have to bring out the whips and chains. There’s ways to spice up your bedroom with some non-intimidating props and toys and here’s how you can do it!

1. Blindfolds

You can buy a simple satin blindfold from a store that resembles an eye mask or even using a scarf or tie can do the trick if it’s more impromptu. Either way adding a blindfold to an oral sex routine can heighten a person’s touch senses because their eyesight sense is being cut off.

2. Restraints

We’re not talking about police handcuffs here. There’s light cloth cuffs that can be used to tie someone up that aren’t scary looking at all. You can even go for a fuzzy lined leather cuff if you’re feeling extra naughty. Cuffs also come in all kinds of styles, pink, animal print, red, etc. We just don’t recommend the police handcuffs because a) they’re really hard on the wrists and can cause damage to the skin and b) you might lose the key!

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3. Riding Crops

If you want to go for a whip or a flogger that’s fine by us! But if that sounds a little scary try a small riding crop for some spanking action. There’s all types, some have cute hearts or roses on the end and then there’s more traditional black ones as well.

4. Dirty Talk

If you’re new to talking dirty in the bedroom, now might be the time you want to experiment with some naughty words and phrases in the bedroom. If you’ve already been talking dirty you might want to try using a toy like the Club Vibe to add some vibration to your pillow talk.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Nightowl358/ Nightowl358

    Thanks, but none of that bondage, and blindfold shyt appeals to me. You ain’t tying my ass to the damn bed.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Latricesquirtsalot/ Latricesquirtsalot

    S**TTT TELL ME SOMETHING I DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    uh uh i ain’t feeling none of this

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    No blinforld crap here. might end up havint all your s**t taken out of your crib…….

    I prefer the HOTTIE in her thong with Teddy, Barry Freda, Whitney, Luther playing in the background and we’re good to go……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mike_diesel27/ mike_diesel27

    First off, if you’re being blind folded, its obviously somebody you’d trust. I doubt my wife will steal my/her sh*t and run off lol. Where the hell is she going? Anyway, ladies, y’all should know that it doesn’t take much to get us going. Like Jazz said, just wear a thong lol. And a little ball licking won’t hurt either lol. Get on them knees girl!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Stan_Vinyl/ Stan_Vinyl

    You need KINK???

    Put ya tongue in it!

    use one finger vs. two, you have more wiggle room!

    When the “don’t touch me” part comes, lick it softly and bring another orgasm to the forefront!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shyscorpio1/ shyscorpio1

    if i want some kink in the bedroom, get me BEYONCE & RIHANNA in my bed at the same time!!! otherwise, been there, done that- AGAIN!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexxydee123/ sexxydee123

    Ummm…i ain’t in to all that kinky ish…just give me the cuc**ber!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2znm/ 2znm

    roleplay!!! is the bomb….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    omg..the restraints, riding crops and blindfolds are the BIDNESS! Nothing like letting a man have his way with you and you cant do shyt about it but take it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kris_87/ Kris_87

    and who didn’t know this? c’mon HB…give us some REAL kink!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    My thing is that BOOTY…i would tell you peeps and HOTTIES about the KINKY thing I like to do with that thang, but don’t want to offend the HOTTIEs, because they might BLUSH……..;)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/smileofsunshine1/ smileofsunshine1

    omg….stanvinyl….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    I agree with Stan_Vinyl and I like what Mike_Diesel said too (Get down there and handle your Beez Kneez!)! lol I also see that CaliFemme23 is on track with my thoughts (once, again)! And like JazzWatch said ‘A Hottie in a Thong’ is ALWAYS a good thing! (although, I’d prefer if it’s EDIBLE! lol) I got a pair of REAL POLICE handcuffs that I used to hang on my Rear-View Mirror in my Pickup Truck and the ladies used to ask me if I’m a cop. I’m like “No.. I have those for PERSONAL USE!”. lol And where’s #5 on the list?? SEATBELTS for the Bed! You may wanna consider that one! lol Like Joe said “69 was a very good year! If you know what I mean my dear!” ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    A little hair-pullin’ and name callin’ don’t hurt none either.. (to a respectable degree). lol [This forum is for REAL FREAKZ ONLY!] ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/scorpioLove81/ scorpioLove81

    Yummy !! But what happened to tha whip cream an sweet strawberry syrup ..mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm an shyt;-)lol ,an ill agree with tha blindfold, everything arouse me , the littlest touch get me in tha mood , I’m jus to freaky for words , hate bragin about it , I go to hard on tha peni5 ;-) all tha other ish is ol skewl……

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/gemineyehoney/ gemineyehoney

    Hmmmm whose been reading my journel better yet my thoughts lmao…. only the grown should try this lmao… we don’t want first timers hurting themselves..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    @ ScorpioLove81 & GemineyeHoney-> ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kaikai7/ kaikai7

    I don’t need any help in this area! (No 3rd parties or women) The real issue is locating a real man who appreciates it!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    2 good, I feel you on the edible thongs; maybe a fruit flavor ;), but as i said before the booty is my thang, but don’t want to make the HOTTIE here to blush with MY details ;)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Charmed2Def/ Charmed2Def

    Careful with those ‘cuffs… ‘Gerald’s Game’ – Stephen King

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2znm/ 2znm

    This is truly for the grown and sexy!!! handle your Bizness….

  • http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/4-tips-to-having-blind-date-success/ 4 Tips To Having Blind Date Success | Hello Beautiful

    [...] How To Add Some Kink Into The Bedroom [...]

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cocoflamingo/ Cocoflamingo

    how about a taser and sour cream?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/maximusspade/ maximusspade

    I KNOW ALL THE TRICKS OLD AND NEW..BUT A TASER..DAMN THAT’s NEW..WHAT YOU GONE PUT SOME VOLTS TO THEM NUTTZ…L.O.L

  • elaine jennings

    ok so I use to get very wet during intercourse now it’s just not getting wet and it is causing issues between my boyfriend and I. please tell me you have ideas that can help

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