WHAT? ANOTHER HO?

Whar? ANOTHER HO?

I don’t think so. Many chicks look exactly alike, because they have no originality. Every chick you see, in my area, looks EXACTLY like this.

odoggz, bet her booty is R-E-A-L…….

odoggz, and some of them ae B-U-T-T-A-F-A-C-ES-, and I have them HERE in MY area, too….

[...] Does Reggie Bush’s New Girl Remind You Of Anyone? [...]

I c he like cross dressers now, what is going on between her legs?

LOL dayum yall harsh with these comments!

Well I guess she is a keeper the dog is licking her f**king leg!!!

YEAH SHE REMINDS ME OF THE CHIC WHO DOES MY WASH N SET … I DONT SEE HOWS SHES A RINGER FOR KIM K… SMFH

I guess she’s ok until he decides to marry her. That’s when momma Bush will say Yea or Nay.

People like who they like…If their just not that into you…keep it movin:) Sistas:)

Baby is better than that black Amber Rose b***h.

Reggie fukked up bad…

Now u know all yall need 2 quit trippin, she looks good so stop frontin, especially some of the the females hatin, bcuz u know! U KNOW! She looks better than u!so keep it movin ma!

Thank you for falling again. This time instead of eating Humus all day you can now have rice and beans! I know salmon cakes,fried fish,gumbo,barbecue chicken-wings,cornbread,collard greens,black-eyed peas,grits/eggs w/cheese. LMAO! To name a few, oh & dirty rice was too much for you to handle. However, it pains me to know you will NEVER get with a REAL Sistah, just know this. As black men like you continue to do this you will get what is coming to you because women of other ethnicity’s ONLY DATE BLACK MEN FOR THEIR Sperm. NOTHING MORE/NOTHING LESS! There once was a point in time when (NO-ONE)wanted anything to do w/Black People PERIOD, NOW (EVERYBODY) got some BLACK in THEM.Smh, how amazing, most important [HOW QUICKLY WE FORGET!] The term snow bunny:White as snow, but f**ks like a rabbit! Sistah’s when our men take this course let them run it, were better off! So sad, but true.

DAT HOE NASTY. SHE JUST MET HIM AND ALREADY GOT THE GOTDAMN DOG LICKIN HER LEG AINT NO TELLIN WHAT ELSE SHE DO WIT DA DAMN DOG LOL. BUT HEY WHATEVER HE GET WITH THIS ONE IS HIS OWN FAULT. HE NEED 2 CHANGE UP HIS TYPE LOOK LIKE HE COMPLETELY AGAINST OR 4GOT ABOUT THE SISTAS

OH YEAH AND ANOTHER THING I AM NOT HATEIN HONEY EVERYBODY KNOW SHE JUST WANT HIS MONEY

Its not about black or white or any other color. All women are the same! I dont care how u think u can break it down, submissive, attitude, independance, or whatever BS reason to say one nationality ( Color, or Race) is better or diffrent than the other; because all women are the same( as in u have ur good and ur bad ones.

UHH NO!! ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME…GO TO HELL WITH THAT…UGH

she doesnt remind me of kim at all, maybe kourtney a little but definitely not kim.N its kinda hard to tell what she looks like wit those big a$$ sunglasses but from what i CAN see she’s not f^ckin wit kim at all.

complete down grade…all the women that want him and he choose her? Special…

Reggie Consistently dates outside his Race…All the time! He never ever ever ever dates black Women,,and as chocolate as he is,let’s just say he damn well came from a black Woman yet,when he got his money and contract he spits in the face of every black women all day by constantly dating anything but black,,I tell ya like this..Black Men like this make me sick,,I dont like this dude at all,,he does nothing for the betterment of his people,,,he’s greedy,selfish,for himself and apparently thinks everything that’s latina,Armenian,white or whatever is better,so he can go somewhere and go to hell,,,Yuck! No respect for him

What difference does it makes at the end of the day who Reggie Bush or any other celeb want to be with? We are so quick to try to uplift us black women when a man dates outside of his race as though there aren’t any black video w***es or groupies that exist. At the end of the day a woman on a mission is just a woman on a mission. Look around there are just as many black women out there selling themselves for short and wanting something instantly just like the rest of the dumb ass females. Half of them can’t boil water all they know is is to throw their bodies out there as though they are the only ones that are beautiful and a real man can see through that s**t like Morris Chestnut and Ice Cube they married women they were involved with long before their status hell even Chris Rock. If them being with someone is not going to bring or take anything away from the next person what the f**k should it matter what they do on and during their personal time?

that bulge kind of scare me on the last picture LOL

I have to agree with odoggz…When one woman finds a look that harbors attention…er’body else will soon look like her….

AALIYAH?

@Im_Channoah, Did you know Reggie before he made his money? Well, how the hell do you know he “spits in the face” of all black women? I’ve noticed a pattern of very dumb comments from you. Just sayin…

I just want to say that no matter who it is but especially if she’s white. I don’t want no woman who has been on a sex tape with another celebrity that everyone has seen and talked about. That goes for Superhead,KK,anybody. That says alot about that dude if you trying to wife a celebrity ho.

she looks nothing like kim

@”I just want to say that no matter who it is but especially if she’s white. I don’t want no woman who has been on a sex tape with another celebrity that everyone has seen and talked about.”
does that make sense? WHO (I MEAN WHO?????)DOEN’T HAVE A TAPE…

ONE

Well reggie is still wet behind the ears .I don’t think he was looking to be that serious with the kardashion chick and that he does like her type so he found another f**k buddy.

just another hoe for the month lol, reminds me of whitney on crack lo

kim is betta…reggie knows it too dats y he keeps goin from girl to girl…like he tryn prove sumthin..none of those chics he with got a betta body than kim so def his loss….n she’s got her own money..amber is a groupie ho wit am empty modelin gig n this new chic…y wud she call herself “baby” thers sumthin wrung wit dat…i hope they dont get back together…reggie sucks!!

Stop!, Reggie is young and still in the prime of his life. Who is to say he wont date or marry a black woman? We dont know, so please sisters stop throwing stones. Really. Let that man have some fun. What we need to do is concentrate on bettering ourselves and quit hating on our brothers, build them up and stop tearing them down because of their choices.

Personally speaking, I like Kim K, I watch the family’s show every weekend. They are no different than us. We all disagree with our mom and sisters. So what she made a tape, our ridicule, has rocketed her to stardom. I am pretty sure if she could turn back the hands of time, she would’ve never made that tape in the first beginning.

Remember, any person of color is considered BLACK. And last I checked Kim K is a person of color.
History people read up on it.

@ mike_diesel27 i am a black man and i agree whith the sister when a so call brother gets his million dollar contract and make it to the professional arena the first thing he does is go out and get a white woman. beauty is defined by the look of our beautiful black sisters and a comment coming from a black man like that from you is very offensive to all of us who love our black woman and would never step out the box and date outside our race and as you can say ( just sayin )

Team Kim K

Don’t know them and don’t really care who date, who. He not dating me, lol!

omg shes so ugly she looks like ambers best friend i forgot her name i think DEZ lol and nobody knew who reggie was before he started dating kim so dont get it twisted he got his fame from her!!!!!!!!!

IN PIC NUMBER 4 THE DOG IS PREPARING TO MATE WITH HER. SHE IS LAYING THEIR ALLOWING HIM TO DO IT.
BLACK QUEENS YOU DO NOT WANT THIS LOST BROTHER. HE IS NOT READY TO SETTLE HE IS HOPPING FROM COOCHIE TO COOCHIE SEARCHING FOR SOMETHING HE WILL NEVER FIND IN A WHITE WOMAN OR A LATINO…..HES NOT READY LADIES BELEIVE ME LET HIM KEEP DOING HIM.

YOU BALLARS ARE SUCH HOS! ALL of you waste NO TIME hooked up with a money grabbin ho! All these chicks want is a minute of fame, get pregnant and then hold you stupid-asses hostage for money. YOU ALL ARE A DISGRACE TO THE AFRICAN-AMERICAN race. I wanna SEE these b***hes at your side when you get hurt and traded to “THE BENCH”…YOU ASSHOLE!

Omg..Don’t you chicks get tired of insulting black men just because they have an attraction to women that don’t look like you.?. Do you even see how insecure you appear to everyone? It’s not about kim k. & this new chick being of a different race because if they were mixed you’d be saying she’s not really black & if she were light skin you’d be saying she’s not black enough. You b!tches are just haters that don’t feel comfortable in your own skin because if you were you wouldn’t be so concerned with the ethnicity that man’s gf is. Stop whining & crying over a man that likes a different type than you & focus on the ones that find you to be most beautiful. You don’t see wh,hispanic,armanian,etc women saying he ain’t sh!t because he only likes women with dark skin or who are only black. It’s ignorant & you need to get over it-not because you annoy me or because you make yourself look simple but because you’ll be a happier person without carrying around so much hatred on your shoulders. The ones who read this & get angry are the ones I’m talking about so go ahead & leave your hate filled comments as usual & I’ll keep smh -as usual.

Bp needs to rename this hellohaters because some of you make every article about race. You’d make a race war over an article about white wine. Its sickening & the ones that do that should be ashamed of themselves.

dontdeserveme- I kind of agree with what you just said. But I wanted to elaborate on the issue many women have. Its about the attitude, not the girlfriend.

You say you don’t see different races of women arguing/complaining about men dating outside their race. The reason is that Armenian men categorically date and love women who look like them or white women, with hispanic men/asian men its the same.

Black men are the only ones who’ve raged a hatewar against their own women. I’ll tell you like i told a white homegirl of mine i went to college with. How often do you hear men of your race tell you they won’t date you BECAUSE you’re the race you are?

You all will never understand the animosity or what you deem as ignorance BECAUSE you don’t walk in our shoes. Its easy to preach like its easy for black women to spit hate. but its much easier to have a conversation and try to get an understanding. Its not always about ignorance and hate.

Educate yourself on the issue w/in our community rather than being someone on the outside looking in. Your very presence on a website like “BLACKPLANET” says alot about your whole motive in even commenting (no sarcasm intended). Its obvious your purpose isn’t to meet and mingle with black women.

But I do have a question generally and may we can inbox and discuss. What is the whole fascination with nonblack people being part of every black venue and forum. How are you raised a different culture an unbalancedly fascinate with black people (MEN)??? Just curious.

dontdeserveme- its easy to comment on a subject when you don’t understand it. I don’t agree with the venom my fellow sisters spew. But I do know where the frustration stems from. How often do you get told a man won’t date you because of your race?

you’re right, asian, hispanic, and armenian women don’t complain. But they have nothing to complain about. Their fellow males overwhelmingly date them. Ours sell many of us out as soon as noteriety hits them.

So yes, there’s a level of insecurity as a black woman knowing the odds of men of your own culture despising you and refusing to date you. Simultaneously because the black race generally is negatively viewed and the black female image is on the low end of the totum pole as to beauty, there is insecurity. Can’t help that.

Now, I have a question to pose to yourself and so many nonblack women on this site. You all often preach at us but don’t mind taking the advantage your nonblackness affords you with some of these same selfhating men. Have you ever asked them why they pursue you? And furthermore if you’re universal why are you always quick to affiliate yourselves with any and everything black titled? I don’t find myself a member of the hispanic “people” website. I don’t find myself a part of arab heritage websites or communites. What drives one to be connected and fascinated with the black culture the way so many of you all seem to be. Not that its an issue, I just wonder.

I fully understand the topic at hand & that’s evident by my first comment.

Ok, so you asked how many men say they won’t date me due to my race & my answer is that I can’t recall any for sure,however I do think similar situations have happened. I seriously doubt if black men who prefer women of other racial backgrounds are running around telling black women that they don’t want to date them because they’re black though either. Perhaps when the women I was referring to see a black man with women of another race they automatically THINK that man doesn’t also enjoy dating blk women when that may not be the case at all. He may love women of many shapes & shades but he is categorized as a sellout in their minds because of their own insecurities. And even if he isn’t attracted to blk women at all-so what. You can’t fault a man because he’s got a thing for asians or latinas or wh or ethiopians. Let him do his thing,he likes what he likes. Btw, I’ve known guys that have had a thing for all those types of women.

Men of other ethnic backgrounds date outside their own all the time but those women don’t sit around posting hate messages all day like they do on here. Most other races don’t dwell on such a simple matter & rightfully so. They don’t call their brothers,fathers & uncles sell outs because they date blk or wh or hisp women. Maybe that’s why they don’t end up stereotyping their sisters & mothers the way some blk men end up doing. Just a thought. You see a few blk men that become famous, date outside their race, & all of a sudden they’re sell outs that hate blk women,huh? That’s pure nonsense. I’ve come across few men that actually don’t like blk women in general. The rest just like beautiful women that treat them well no matter what they are.

You say that blk women have a negative image, but the women I surround myself with are well put together,beautiful(from dark to light skin)women that are strong & have none of these insecure views because they are confident in who they are & don’t hate on the next man or woman for what they desire. So I don’t see it & neither do my male friends who tell me of the women(mostly blk women) that they find so attractive. I guess it all depends on who is in your circle as to what their views on people are.

I am biracial, wh & blk & I identify myself as such.Neither is superior to the other so I don’t lean toward one or the other-I am who I am.So I’m not as wh as you may have thought but I’m sure in your eyes I’m wh enough to answer your questions.Now that I’ve cleared that up,let’s get to the some of your remarks & questions. I’m unclear on what luxuries wh women get by dating blk men so I don’t even know how to answer that. If you mean the few wh women dating wealthy blk men, that’s just nonsense to say that ALL the women are only with them because they have money or that the guy hates himself & blk women because he’s with a non blk. Gold diggers come in every color & I don’t recall many wh women running around saying if he’s not driving X or making X amount that she won’t be with him. How many times have your gfs said oh his car isn’t nice enough,he doesn’t make enough money,look at his shoes,etc.? That same man when he becomes a lawyer & doin it big looks really good to them while he’s ballin though. True, there are some blk men that say they never want to date another blk woman because they don’t like their personalities or those same ones that like him now that he has money, didn’t when he was broke so never again. To each his own. Why stress out over what a man that’s not with you wants.

A quick personal story:I saw a guy on here once,gorgeous(!),so I went to read his page & he said although he thinks all women are beautiful, he finds nothing more sexy than a dark brown skin woman(damn!)so I didn’t bother because he has his preference & I’m surely not it. Do I now hate brown skin women-no,that would be a reflection of self hatred through jealousy. Do I hate him-no,that would be plain stupid & ignorant to dislike that man because I’m not his preference.

I’ve been told many times why men are attracted to me. There are many reasons but I know which one you want to hear about,the ones that love my complexion. Yes,heard it a lot,they also like my face & other parts as well as my nice,pleasant personality. I’m sure you’ve had many men say they love your skin too & all the other things I named. We don’t look alike so that means they liked you for your individuality just like they like me for mine & wh girls for their blue eyes or asians for their size or whatever they like them for. What’s wrong with that is the question I keep asking because people need to get over this nonsense. There are far more pressing issues to be concerned with that affect us all & we’re spending all this time on hellohaters arguing over dumb sh!t.

I don’t feel that the world is trying to be blk,dress blk,etc., I feel that people follow trends in the entertainment business & hip hop is whats been hot & still is so that’s what people will imitate. Be proud of the contributions blk artists made but don’t act like it’s anything more than what it is-the style at this time.

Why do women of other races come to bp? When I want shrimp I go to the seafood section,makes sense to me. What,you wanna ban wh from bp? Lol,if so,who’s the real racist?

Let me add that from the pic I see you aren’t that dark yourself. In fact,with my mixed heritage & 2 hrs at the beach I would be your color so we ain’t that different. I’ve had racism from whites & blacks so no one can tell me I don’t understand or know what it feels like. I’ve dealt with it from both sides & many can’t say they know what that’s like.

The bottom line is blk women need to stop criticizing blk men for what they like,stop calling them sell outs,stop saying they hate themselves..If anything,they’re just going to end up hating them for real. It doesn’t even make sense.It’s a waste of time & energy. So I say to them; Get Over It!!!

@dontdeserveme just by reading your response u really dont understand its not like its only a few celebs/athletes that dont date black women its just about all of them and they do hate themselves its called self hate when we as black people have always wanted to be white and if u think im crazy look at these black celebs as soon as they get money they get plastic surgery cuz u not happy wit what good gave u because society made black as being wrong and ugly they call a woman wit a nice butt and nice shape plus size models now we all kno plus size mean fat and we all kno most black women gotta big butt so now everything is subliminal its 2nd nature for us to do these things so nobody see the s**t themselves so black women have every right to be upset wit this most black women have stood behind the black man for years raising a them as a single mother dealing wit our bs so for a man to finally have some success then turn around get a woman of another race is kind of a smack in the face im not racist but damn that shows your loyalty.

How do people get girlfriends so fast? It’ll take me AT LEAST 6 to 8 months before I can even think about making a women my girl. Celebs break up, get divorced or whatever and call someone their GF or BF a month after. I just dont see it.

@dontdeserveme homegirl what in the hell is u talkin about just by what u said and just because u mixed and u claim u got racism from blacks and whites (which really dont think thats true cuz u look white as hell u probably sayin that so it will fit your argument)black women have every right to be upset wit that issue u say its “preference” but its bigger than that because most black celebrities get them a white woman because its self hate it may be a small percentage that actually got them a white girl or woman of another race because its his preference but not many. u just sat there a typed a whole like 6 paragraphs of bs yall need to wake up and stop thinking s**t is sweet in this world and stop thinking black people dont got problems especially black men i would kno cuz i am black man and im darker than both yall so u cant use that bull s**t wit me.

It’s funny when people say athletes/celebs have self hate just because they date another race. These guys are rich and live the good life. I doubt they hate themselves. People who have self hate usually bleach their skin or something of that nature. So until Reggie and the other athletes pull a Sammy Sosa move. You can’t say he has self hate. Unless you know them personally which none of you do. So who the f**k are any of you to judge them.

@THK4LF thanks for being the only person in here making sense.

BTW there’s an article on here about Jessica White and Sean Penn getting back together. Oh but nobody’s writing comments on that article saying how black female celebs shouldn’t date out the race. People only get mad when black men do it. Man get the f**k outta here.

you don’t deserve me…are you serious?

OMG!!! Wow! First of all MAJORITY of what you stated is nonsensical and completely irrelevant to what I said and most of it I have no idea where you got it from. You lay notions and mindsets at my feet that don’t belong to me. And I bet you felt good writing that book thinking you told me off like you want to tell off all black womanhood who have “hurt your feelings” and made you as onesided and bitter as you are. I mean you had lots to say.I copied in pasted your response it was literally over 3 pages long in word. WOW! Ridiculous.

Obviously you fail to understand the issue on any level or your
rebuttal would not have been that you doubt women of this culture are told by black men they don’t date black women. I know first hand that they do because I have sat down in round table conversations with them where I went to college. I also sat down in classrooms. I’ve sat at lunch tables and in student classrooms and listened to them talk. And I’ve heard teenage boys tell black girls that. I’ve had personal conversations with friends who don’t black women and some of their cohorts tell me that in general. It has not been said to me because I know how to spot those fellows and I leave them where they are. So what you highly doubt is irrelevant because your version of reality does not comport with my personal experience. To tell me that is as offensive and ignorant as me telling you that because you are not allegedly biracial you have no issues/struggles to complain of. That’s nonsense. Not only do you disqualify the experiences of black women you then turn around and justify men rejecting them by stating stereotypes about our collective behavior. You also lay blame on black women basically saying its all in our heads by stating maybe its that we get mad when we see black men with other cultures of women. Some women do and that behavior is quite silly. But many of us don’t and your assumption is a very arrogant and sheltered idea about the reality of “our world as black women”.I’m not sure what rock you live under but maybe you should surface from your delusion and take note of what happens around you instead of existing in false utopia. Its bad enough various black men blame us for their failure to man up when it comes to us and their communities. We don’t need to hear that or be catergorized by fellow women of any race. What if I were to make some ignorant statement like maybe the only reason black men date you is becuase you aren’t “completely” black and probably have a more docile personality and will lay down and be used as a door mat? That is both offensive and ignorant I’m sure. While you are on the soapbox preaching about tolerance maybe you need to take your own refresher course. All sisters are not sweating who black men are getting with. You made a comment that implied an answer and I attempted to come back and state a civil explanation to you. You had no rebuttal so all you did was repeat a bunch of stereotypical ignorance.

To answer one of your questions: No women I know dis men based on their shoes and cars because the women I know are not that shallow (like you said its all in who you surround yourself with, but yet and still this reflects more of your naive and stereotypical perceptions). So for you to blanketly believe we ALL have that mindset or I must know some (indicating the mentality is so common that i MUST have come across some)lets me know that right along with these men who hate women in their culture you buy into their stereotypes. You really sound like you are repeating something you’ve been told by some brother who has had issues with sisters.

On the one hand you say its about who you surround yourself with and all your girls are footloose and carefree right? On the other you imply we all know women in black culture who are shallow and dis black men based on material and therefore men are justified in rejecting black women? Humm, so based on this premise it stands to reason you know some women in your own circle who fit these stereotypes you’re spewing or, you just pumping up how secure and footloose your band of friends are. Which one is it? All your friends are happy and secure and could care less or? They are all shallow and the reason black men don’t date their own women.

No you can’t blame a man for liking what he likes. But you can
scratch your head at the social phenomenon taking place in this culture with many black men dating ‘exclusively” out. Contrary to your belief its not a handful of them. Its a larger percentage than you realize the DATE out and COHABIT. The small number are the ones who marry, not the ones who date. Do your research before you start responding because its obvious you have NO CLUE WHAT YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT! It is a sociological trend occurring most within this racial group. Other men do date out in other cultures. The thing usually their preferences when they do are white females. You have a growing number of hispanic/latin males who are more and more looking at and pursuing black women, but that growth has been a slow one becaue women in hispanic households forewarn their sons not to bring home black girls just like alot of black women forewarn their sons not to date white women and white women forewarn their sons not to date black women. We’re not the only ones with culture issues. We’re just more vocal than most because the phenomenon is greater among our sons/brothers/etc. For the most part men of other cultures rarely date black females. And because most remain attracted and marry within their culture women of those cultures have no reason to complain about the handful dating/marrying out. You have no idea what you are talking about. You haven’t researched a single statistic on black love, marriage and cultural demise. And i recall saying the image of black women is negative in the world view and media. I did not say we collectively have a low view of ourselves. I watched an exercise done on Oprah’s show about racial perception and it covered things like violence and datableness. Most men of other cultures ranked black women lowest on the poll for desirablity in dating. When asked why there was no definitive answer given by any one representative of any one racial group. When probed the result came down to basic, foundationless prejudice.

Before you decide to jump on a soapbox know what you are talking about because OBVIOUSLY you don’t have a clue. Read some books, shoot! do a google search on the freaking subject and then tell me this is a ridiculous frustration about black women’s insecurity. There are black men on here who came before and behind me cosigning what I said.

And also I resent your last statement. I only ASKED what the
fascination was with black people and other cultures infiltrating what we do. I never said I was offended or had a problem. I never said anything in my statement to indicate I was racist ( you on the other hand should check your own racism bar because the one yells racism as a defense is usually the one harboring it). All I did was asked an open and honest question ( because I am ignorant to the answer)…to which you obviously don’t have a sensible answer so you went on defensive mode instead.

And based on all the emotion you spit (because none of what you said reflects an intellectual or informed response) its obvious you are the one whose got some personal vendetta. Maybe black girls have been mean to you. Maybe you’ve seen black women disrespect your Caucasian mother. I don’t know but therapy may help with your “issues”. Your really don’t need to preach to anyone. You need to get off your defensiveness and either converse or leave convos like this alone until you can reign your emotions in. This response was over the top
outlandish and ridiculous.

It doesn’t seem you were looking for an open dialogue, seems to me you have some hot air you wanted to let out. Looks like you did, hope you feel better now…

And one more thing. “if you want shrimp you go to the seafood
section”? Wow, so black men are just a specific “taste” for you. They are just a tasty dish to sample huh. Well here’s some food for thought. You don’t subsist on a diet of shrimp alone do you? So why do you seem, from your presence here and your preaching, to pursue only one race of man especially if you are biracial?
If you are so universal why don’t you date across the color line. Why is your preference OBVIOUSLY black men. Especially as an alleged biracial person? Hmm? That’s what baffles me. I mean wow.

And to close. Read your statement. Then reread it. Your comments are stereotypical and so are you. Its sad people believe the world is colorless. It isn’t. And there are issues among us that it takes communication to hash out and work through. But some women just want to have benefits, not understand their fellow females’ plight ( the benefit you gain is that because you’re something other than black you get more credit from black men and other cultures and they tend to be more willing to date you based off your mixed heritage and preconcieved notions about your personality based on that heritage). You want to be able to act like us, walk like us, talk like us, date men who reflect us and who we birth, you want us to accept them massly rejecting us for women who look like you and not have a difficulty swallowing that pill? Not feel wounded and chided. Well maybe one day all of black men will switch gears, decide they don’t like any black women including biracial ones and refuse to date you and then you’ll get a taste of what so many of these women are feeling. Their feelings are not unfounded though their expressions might be. But how dare you dismiss them!

The issue isn’t about black men who like various types of women. The issue is about black men massly rejecting black women and marring our images as women to other cultures. Its something that stems from a slave mentality ( and before you discount it please do your research). Its deeper than who a man dates.

As far as men liking my complexion. Yep, I’ve had some tell me that. And I leave them right where they are because that is self-hating and disgusting to me that man’s preference for me is based on something as shallow as the color of my skin. Too bad you’re too busy enjoying attention to find it offensive. Especially as an alleged biracial person with ties to black people. I have biracial cousins and friends and all of them can attest to the differences between the way they see black
women get treated vs. themselves.

I have white homegirls who have the same experience and empathy. So I’d venture to say either you are lying about being biracial or your experience the reality of black female struggle is unrealistic and limited.

Oh and one more thing, you don’t feel people imitating what black
culture does is trying to be what we are? Its just what’s trendy and hot? Okay…well. I’m black, if I was on here with a Kimono on, my face painted in white gesha paint and talking and promoting Japanese culture when I am not Japanese, didn’t grow up being cultivated in Japenese culture and have no ties to Japanese culture, what would you call my behavior? There is something to all this “I only date nonblack women/black men, I promote a culture and dialect I’m not a part of”. Don’t deceive yourself. Its deeper than you sum it up to be.

from Kim to that? if he going to be with hoz, he could at least make sure she’s a 10.. *SMFH* Reggie never fails to dissapoint . I agree with Blazn, there are alot of black groupies out there too, but the nonblk ones are getting famous just by being hoezz… Wtf kinda world are we living in 2day? this is not cute anymore folks, and i’m tired of seeing these buffoon professional athletes- they’re no longer flattering to me but more of a disgrace. The day u see Reggie w/ black is when u see rabbits flying in the sky with flowerpot hats on LOL. Reggie is a sad case, and yeah I said it. I’m not scared of these net geeks lol

,

IT’S SAD THAT U PEOPLE TAKE TIME TO COMMENT ON TRASH / FILTH LIKE THIS
BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY U FAIL TO COMMENT AND STAND TOGETHER ON ISSUES INVOLVING INNOCENT COLORED PEOPLE BEING GUNNED DOWN BY OFFICIALS

YOU PEOPLE ARE IGNORANT

AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS AIDS
this is nasty
AIDS WILL EAT U FROM THE INSIDE OUT!

and u wonder why AIDS AND bumps warts genital holes are so prevalent? this is why

this guy wont be satisfied until his bbq’ed colored weiner fallz off

LOL….OMG! If celebrities like Bush or Ochocinco want to date outside the race, let them!!! Why all the fuss??? If they feel the need to put black women down, who is the one looking stupid? THEY ARE!!!!

Uh yeah who cares?

NotTrapped- How do you know that people don’t dedicate their lives and concerns to the things you chastise people for ignoring in lieu of subjects like this. How do you know people don’t come here and just read about other’s messed up lives to escape the real life drama and tragedy of their own? Just because a person posts on what you deem a frivolous subject doesn’t make one ignorant. Maybe their just escaping???

I’m convinced that the majority of people on blog social sites are suffering from mass mental delusional disorders.

That’s just going off the comments I’ve read so what do I know…

good God, we’re writing books on this shyt? Reggie Bush?? not really that serious, y’all…

i agree with CynamynQueen82. who cares, and lol @ people getting mad AGAIN at a sexy ass black athlete who prefers non-black women.

@simply…yep…and i would have Written a novel but my hand got tired. It was not about Reggie though. It was to another posted about a subject that is relevant. So…its a book’s length…and?

NotTrapped said: “IT’S SAD THAT U PEOPLE TAKE TIME TO COMMENT ON TRASH / FILTH LIKE THIS
BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY U FAIL TO COMMENT AND STAND TOGETHER ON ISSUES INVOLVING INNOCENT COLORED PEOPLE BEING GUNNED DOWN BY OFFICIALS

YOU PEOPLE ARE IGNORANT”

this posted on THIS blog? LMAO

But I ain’t mad I got love for those LA mamis to

lmfao @ 2Paclookinmofo

@SUPREME SIS, YOU NEED YA OWN BLOG SPACE. DO YOU REALLY BELEIVE ANYONE IS GONNA SIT AND READ THAT 4 PAGE LETTER YOU WROTE .KEEP IT SHORT AND SIMPLE AND DONT HOG THE BOARD THEN PEOPLE WILL READ…

IN PIC NUMBER 4 THE DOG IS PREPARING TO MATE WITH HER. SHE IS LAYING THEIR ALLOWING HIM TO DO IT.
BLACK QUEENS YOU DO NOT WANT THIS LOST BROTHER. HE IS NOT READY TO SETTLE HE IS HOPPING FROM COOCHIE TO COOCHIE SEARCHING FOR SOMETHING HE WILL NEVER FIND IN A WHITE WOMAN OR A LATINO…..HES NOT READY LADIES BELEIVE ME LET HIM KEEP DOING HIM.

O RESPECT TO cool conservative and bigtonex for NOT BEING SCARED TO SPEAK THE TRUTh. It has so much more force and power when a brother says it, simply because they think sistas are hating on someone!!!!!

1. Black men can date whoever they want because I sure as hell date anyone I please. And really ladies, take a look at some of the men who are “leaving” us — let them go!

2. This chick is BASIC. Kim is BAD so Reggie is taking a step down. As far as I am concerned, Kim has a lifetime pass. Reggie is not the first, nor will he be the last Black man she dates. She is a genuine person and has her own unlike many serial gold diggers. Also, don’t forget that no one knew who Reggie was until she started dating him AND I knew who she was before that lame Ray-J sex tape so baby Brandy can’t claim anything.

@MrPatches- Black men push black women to date out of their race that’s why no one says anything about a black women dating a white man. If I could find one, I would go for it my self.

Catgirltx- it wasn’t meant for all to read, the person i responded to was meant to read it. And all i did was respond to the 4 page letter written to me. How can I hog something that constantly adds on. just breeze past it and move on to the next thing. No disrespect or sarcasm intended.

Uhhhhm, ok, who the hell cares who he dates?

Looks nothing near like Kim. Furthermore does it even matter who or what ethnicity this man is dating? Women of all colors are beautiful and as long as you have a connection with that someone its a special thing. Color should be omitted we’re all human, bleed red and die in the end. Morbid but true.

Supremely:

keep doing you, sweetheart. it’s your energy…expend it however you like.

You are warned-this may be the longest post in Hellohaterz history. I’m sorry. It’s only meant for one person.

Ok Supremelydyvuh..Smh. First,I can’t believe that you actually sat there,copy & pasted my comment to word & then admitted to even doing so.Enough said about that.

I see that you repeatedly accused me & my post of being nonsensical, ridiculous, ignorant, etc. Well stating that over & over again doesn’t make it true & anyone with half a brain can judge by your attacks that it’s you,in fact,that has the problem.Sure,you tried to maintain your true feelings of ignorance & insecurity in the first comment by only letting a little show,however it was still apparent to anyone paying attention.(And of course to me who is use to the haterz). I addressed everything YOU said,therefore if you find it irrelevant,it reflects your initial thoughts as irrelevant, not my response. I also tried to be delicate of your feelings as I could see that this is such a sensitive topic for you.Yet you had the audacity to criticize the length or legitimacy of my response when your 1st & 2nd comments are indeed quite lengthy & lack any type of intelligence.You refer to Oprah as your guide to understanding relationships & then tell me to read a book? Lmao @ that one.

My response must’ve had you pretty upset to be laying your big a$$ across the bed daydreaming about how I felt after responding to you.Allow me to tell you how I felt so you don’t need to guess-k.I was hoping that you would actually see my point & there would be one less person fueling racism just because of who a blk man chooses to date.After that,there were no thoughts of you or hellohaterz until I saw the article title run across the top of my page while reading notes from all these sexy blk men on bp. So no, it didn’t feel good to tell you off because I wasn’t trying to tell you off. I also find the adolescence of trying to bring other women into this by saying I have a problem with them so high school.Can’t you fight your own battles?You don’t know me or social surroundings therefore do not try to make it seem as if I have an issue with any women just because you’d like them to cosign for you.

Next. How would a woman be able to hurt my feelings? That’s like me getting upset that you continually called me “allegedly” biracial.I laugh at you because I know that your jealous of my beauty over you & clearly have nothing to say about me so you insinuate that I’m wh as if it’s suppose to make me feel bad.If I didn’t have an ounce of blk blood in me I would still be a bad b!tch so..Should I run to the beach tomorrow morning so I can be darker than you,would that make you feel a little better?You see,you call yourself supremelydyvuh but you don’t really feel that way about yourself or you wouldn’t be attacking my ethnicity.I love every part of who I am inside & out so you not thinking I’m dark enough to be mixed isn’t going to have me laying on the beach just to get dark or never dying my hair blonde again because you think it makes me look too wh.

Yes I did say,”I seriously doubt if black men who prefer women of other racial backgrounds are running around telling black women that they don’t want to date them because they’re black” & I said it because the majority of blk men do not do that.You say it as if blk men are in a frenzy, they hate blk women & that’s simply not true.I also said that there ARE some blk men I’ve met that feel that way so I didn’t say it doesn’t happen at all. If what you say is true,there have been a lot of men saying they don’t date blk women around you-maybe they just didn’t want to date you so they said that.

You’re so right, I do disqualify any woman who gets so angry about Reggie B. dating Kim K. or any non blk that she post hate messages on the net. You can sit here & type another 6 chapters trying to justify that bs all you want but in the end it’s still comes down to the fact that any woman who cares what color the next man’s gf is,IS a hater or she wouldn’t spend her time whining..”Why don’t you like me?Oh you must hate all blk women if you don’t like me & only date outside the box & you must hate that your blk too.”Boo hoo.

You made so many assumptions that are not true & need so much correcting it’s impossible to wrap this up in a quick manner. Don’t put words in my mouth. I stated a fact that there are SOME blk men that feel that blk women are too materialistic & stop dating them because of it-ITS TRUE! Did I make it so??? NO, but you go ahead blame me for that too. You COULD stand to reason, but you obviously don’t or you wouldn’t keep making assumptions & twisting every word to fit you.The answer-AGAIN, I do not hang with those type of women, that doesn’t mean I haven’t experienced them. You say you run from guys that like lighter skinned women.. RIIAGHT :-/ You know that’s a lie too.I would bet anything that you’ve never turned a man down for that reason & I know I’m right.

*You said,-“Not only do you disqualify the experiences of black women you then turn around and justify men rejecting them by stating stereotypes about our collective behavior.

I simply stated the facts so if you don’t like it that’s unfortunate.As for experiences of blk women;So because some blk women have been hurt, Reg B. can’t date the Kim K. type? What you are saying is that blk men shouldn’t date outside because some blk women don’t like it & I don’t care what feel sorry for me spin you put on it, you are wrong.

*You-“You also lay blame on black women basically saying its all in our heads by stating maybe its that we get mad when we see black men with other cultures of women.”

Wtf are you even trying to say?And uh yeah,that’s the topic simpleton-Blk women getting angry & ridiculing blk men for dating outside of the race. I know what I said in my post but I’ll let you figure it out.

*You-“ But many of us don’t and your assumption is a very arrogant and sheltered idea about the reality of “our world as black women”.

I clearly stated the ”women I was referring to”.Do you understand that? Are you really trying to flip this to imply that I’m prejudice? Rhetorical question because that’s what you’ve been doing the entire time. You are trying so desperately to divide me from “blk women” (had to quote that since I’m not blk enough for you sista) & I know why. If you can make the case that I’m not blk enough to say these things & the “you just don’t understand” defense, than you think you can justify the prejudice behavior displayed by women that are constantly on here crying wh ho, wh gold digger & he’s a self hater if he wants her. There’s no justification in reality but you go ahead & make yourself & the rest of the jealous ones feel ok about it with your bs excuses.

* You -”No women I know dis men based on their shoes and cars because the women I know are not that shallow (like you said its all in who you surround yourself with, but yet and still this reflects more of your naive and stereotypical perceptions). “

1st, you’re a liar & we both know that so I’m going to say it without proof. Furthermore, it’s a fact that women do that, stereotype or not. Wow, “naive”? Ok,hun,sure I am. You keep that attitude though-I’m sure you’ll find a man that way.

*You -“ You really sound like you are repeating something you’ve been told by some brother who has had issues with sisters”

The last time I heard a guy say anything of this nature (not dating blk women) I was probably a teen. C’mon,if you actually spoke without all the insults & repeating,your comment would’ve been short.

*You -”All your friends are happy and secure and could care less or? They are all shallow and the reason black men don’t date their own women.”

All my friends ARE happy & secure & all my female friends are also blk & so are their men moran. You really thought you were on to something, huh? Oh, one is half blk, does that count in your racist eyes? Yes, you ’re correct, my friends & I don’t EVER dwell on issues such as this, nor are we gold diggers looking for a man to pay our bills. YOU are the reason blk men date other women. They also date other women because they are just attracted to other types women. How is it any of your business though? Throw in the OCCASIONAL guy who does it because he really doesn’t like being blk, ok, that guy is wrong & has issues but that’s not why most blk men date other women. Accept the fact that blk men love a$$ of every color & get over it.

*You-“You, NO CLUE WHAT YOU’RE TALKING ABOUT!”

You have yet to actually make ONE valid point against anything I said but you say I don’t know what I’m talking about. The fact is I don’t agree with you so you’re just going to keep saying that although it’s not true & not proven. I’m not wrong about a single thing that I said & you have yet to prove otherwise. You just don’t like that I’m right about your insecurities & I’m exposing you for it.

*You- “Other men do date out in other cultures. The thing usually their preferences when they do are white females.”

AND???

*You -”because most remain attracted and marry within their culture women of those cultures have no reason to complain about the handful dating/marrying out.

Are you kidding me? While the entire statement MAY be true, YOU ARE STILL JUSTIFYING THE RIDICULE OF BLK MEN & THEIR NON BLK PARTNERS. MORE EXCUSES! Did you ever think maybe those women wouldn’t spend their live getting upset about it?? Not everyone is bitter like you!

*You -(according to oprah) “Most men of other cultures ranked black women lowest on the poll for desirablity in dating.”

OK, what’s that have to do with a blk womans mockery of a blk man that likes non blk women? Stick to the topic I started.

*You-”There are black men on here who came before and behind me cosigning what I said.”

A few have, but I also read comments from sensible people that agree with my view. Again, your point? I didn’t know we were supposed to be taking a poll.

*You-“What if I were to make some ignorant statement like maybe the only reason black men date you is becuase you aren’t “completely” black and probably have a more docile personality and will lay down and be used as a door mat?“

I would say maybe some do like dating me because I’m so different than the typical wh or blk woman. As far as the stereotype that wh women lay down like a door mat, I know it doesn’t apply to me because I am biracial,not wh, & the only women I’ve ever personally experienced laying down for a man are blk (probably because I haven’t known many wh friends but I sure have known a lot of blk gfs that did) so it would just be ignorant to say so. Oh, correction, I once knew a wh girl that was a pushover.

*You- “And one more thing. “if you want shrimp you go to the seafood
section”? Wow, so black men are just a specific “taste” for you. If you are so universal why don’t you date across the color line. Why is your preference OBVIOUSLY black men. Especially as an alleged biracial person? Hmm? That’s what baffles me. I mean wow.

Humm, I was answering YOUR question about why WH people get on BP. I was NOT referring to myself. And YES, blk men fit me just fine. You see I like a certain complexion in most cases myself, that swagga, & so much more. Is it a problem for you? Afraid this half wh chick is gonna take what you want? Sorry you can’t let it go but my man & I like what we have in each other-we fit each others preference. Why is your preference blk men? What’s so baffling about it? For something as simple as that to baffle you,you must not be too bright.

* You -“You want to be able to act like us, walk like us, talk like us, date men who reflect us and who we birth, you want us to accept them massly rejecting us for women who look like you and not have a difficulty swallowing that pill?

I don’t want to waddle like you or talk like you or anything else. Are you implying that 100% blk women don’t speak in a proper manner like many wh women? Huh, downing your fellow sistas again huh. Anyway, you have no choice but to accept it because it is what it is-live wit it.

*Well maybe one day all of black men will switch gears, decide they don’t like any black women including biracial ones and refuse to date you and then you’ll get a taste of what so many of these women are feeling.

Been there, still not dwelling like you. Do you understand what I’ve been saying? I’ve experienced it, yet I’m not writing hate blogs or downing the women they like over me. Why can’t you & the other women that feel like you get over it too?

*You-“The issue isn’t about black men who like various types of women. The issue is about black men massly rejecting black women and marring our images as women to other cultures. Its something that stems from a slave mentality ( and before you discount it please do your research). Its deeper than who a man dates.”

Look, don’t attempt to give me a history lesson when I’m confident that I’m far more knowledgeable of the past, present & future to come than you & most others are. Which is why I made the statement that there are more pressing issues that all of us should be concerned with than this bs. The fact is, it IS about blk man dating non blk women-that’s why I made my 1st comment & why we’re still talking. Not EVERYTHING stems from a slave mentality. If so, then you shouldn’t be with a darker brother because you would’ve been a house n!gga just like me sweetheart. How about that? You’re not blk enough to be blk because you’ve got the wh mans blood in you. You aint nothing but a wigger because the wh mans blood must’ve been running deep in your veins for you t be that light. As a matter of fact, I think all this you’ve been talking is to make yourself feel blacker-then maybe the real blk folks will accept you more. Yeah, I see no other reason for a wigger to be acting so upset.

Ok let me wrap this up because your rambling has made this last far too long. I never said the world is colorless nor do I think it will be in the near future or maybe ever. Just another thing you said trying to make me look silly in the process of making yourself look that way. I honestly don’t feel I get more credit than any other woman regardless of her race. Once again you’re trying to be the mind reader of men, this time all men by saying they think my personality is a certain way-you really are so unaware because you’ve got all these ideas made up in your mind & refuse to open it to anything or anyone that doesn’t agree with you. You’d be surprised at my personality-trust that. No ,I don’t feel anyone is trying to imitate what 100% blk (not you because you’re not really blk). I already said that. No one cares what you wear so you can do what you want & no one would follow it, but let it become the trend & you’ll start to see it. People that think like you make it deeper than what it is-DON’T YOU GET IT??? I just read a comment where this REAL blk woman said ”Whew! Asian men are hot!”. I guess she hates herself too. Now I know you spent a lot of time looking up words, trying to seem smart (we know that’s the real reason you were in word-don’t we. Had to make those corrections & find new words huh) , but please go ahead with your oprah stats & excuses. Look into yourself & figure out why YOU can’t get a man. Work on it & when you finally find a man I’ll bet you won’t be on here bashing the Kim K.’s of the world or their bfs.

Lata hata

Why white women dont STFU when its the best time to do so huh?!!!!! acting like they know better, they have the nerve to come in here and say blk women should get over it!!smh..
how about you stay with your white men and leave ours the f**k alone?!!!!instead of throwing the p***y all the damn at them!!thnx..smh

and why is it always the dark skinned brothers who runs to them white women?llooool…just wondering

Rich sell-outs are hella dumb they prefer to share their luxury with a non blk woman because for them she is a gold-digga….hmmmm
well,what they dont know is that the white women are ” gold diggers on the low”!!but the house n****r cant see it…
too blinded by her whiteness!!!SMH

@ Norangel3

Girl, let them go!!! You are not an ugly chick!! From the looks of your pics, you look like you can pull any man you want. I wouldn’t worry about who or what a black man gets with. If a particular man doesn’t prefer you, please believe there are PLENTY of those who do. Nine times out of ten, they look waaaayy better than the ones who don’t prefer you due to your skin color.

They have their racial preferences and I have mine. It’s not worth it, girl.

LLS! Whew,you’d be really mad if saw who I’ll be with this wknd. Lol. He’s one sexy ass beautiful blk man & his…ahhh.You know a blk male friend of mine said that mixed women have the Wet-Est P. Maybe that’s why they love us so much. Oh no,its bc they hate themselves,that’s right.

I find it so sad that,you haterz out there keep putting blk men down by saying they are soo dumb that they let women use them-but you love our men right.Gtfoh
:-)

“(Oprah)Most men of other cultures ranked black women lowest on the poll for desirablity in dating.”

And so what???? F**k the statistics and NEVER live you life according to them. Thank God I don’t. Stats shouldn’t represent you. YOU represent yourself.
Why can’t most of us (black women) go out there and explore? If I had a nickel for every time I heard that sentence, I would be as rich as Oprah. That NEVER stopped me or any other confident woman from dating outside of black. To be quite frank, my BEST dating and mingling experiences were with non-black men. I did not grow up around a lot of African-Americans and I have been crushing on white boys ever since I was in grade 3. Now, In no way shape or form am I putting black men down. I’m just saying that we should NOT get bent out of shape seeing a black man with a Kim K. clone.

Supremely, this is in no way attacking you, but I just felt the need to let others know that black women (dark, light, or bi-racial) need to take their lives into their own hands and not let others validate them.

dontdeserveme, I agree with a lot of your points. I guess that makes me a self-hater, LMFAO. These discussion boards entertain me.

I had to jump back on here bc my last comment was ignorant & only meant 2 upset sum1 & I don’t want 2 take that route so I’m turning my b!tch switch off.

Cynamynqueen I appreciate your understanding what I said. I wish that the women bashing blk men & the women they date all had your attitude toward biracial people & interacial couples. Not to say they also need to date wh men,just be accepting of those couples & stop taking it as a personal attack on them.You are a prime example of a confident,secure,beautiful blk woman that knows her worth & doesn’t dislike a certain group just because of their skin. Oh & lls @ the guy on the other message board that said your wrong for dating wh guys but had the nerve to say he likes light skin girls anyway. He doesn’t even realize what he said.

@ dontdeserveme

Thank you so much and you are very welcome. You’re words were very kind. Yep, that dude was an idiot at first, but then he apologized. He did not realize how dumb he made himself look, but oh well, lol.

Like you, I just don’t see the point of getting upset over a black athlete getting with non-black women. I would be a hypocrite if I were to do such a thing. Jungle fever has taken over me for years, LOL. It’s been happening since the beginning of time and all the crying that black women are doing will not stop them, so what’s the point? Plus, I don’t think any woman should be bashed due to skin color. One will never know what they went through. Plus I have had numerous bir-racial women tell me the type of hell that full-blooded black women gave them when they were in school. That reminds me that NO ONE has it easy, but seeing that they overcame this is a wonderful thing.

Personally, I love seeing interracial couples who are deeply in love. It’s a beautiful thing to see that this type of couple does not focus on what others think. I can honestly say that being called a wannabe-white-girl, sellout, or a self-hater has helped me to develop a thick layer of skin. I have been called worse also, LOL.

Every time there is an interracial topic on HB, please believe you will see my a$$ pop up, LOL. I love voicing my opinion when it comes to this type of stuff.

Oh and don’t worry, I know your last comment was not directed towards me. All is good :)

Oh and you do have a valid point, if black women don’t care to date white or non-black men, that’s fine. To each it’s own. All I care about is seeing them happy.

Yes, she reminds me of another white woman that is with another black man only because of his success! Now, there you have it!

> You don’t deserve me- LOL…PA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!! Whew girl! You
> had me over here dying. Cracking up! Reading that rant puts me in the
> mind of a bipolar person I know and watching her on her manic. You are
> really pissed huh? Some sister has really given you down the road about
> being biracial I suppose. Its obvious in the way you WENT OFF. ROFL. Breathe girl breathe! Lol.I intend to respond, but I won’t have to curse you out and call you names to do it…lol.

I’ll respond to most of this here, what I miss I’ll be happy to inbox you on.

To those reading. Yes it long, and I do apologize. But I’m not the one who KEEPS writing NOVELS!!! Lol. I just respond.So, please bypass this next response you will see! Thanks in advance!

1) Yep! I copied and pasted. Had to just to get through the thing
> and appropriately respond to your book length post. And in return I
> wrote you book’s length. No one could have the hand strength to keep
> scrolling up and down…reading and responding, I would’ve gone
> blind…lol.
> 2) I never said you were or weren’t biracial and I never said I
> did or did not think that based off your COMPLEXION ALONE. I do believe
> I referred to your mixed heritage as alleged. What made me put
> “alleged” before it is your seeming lack of understanding of the
> issues of African American women, which indicates your seeming lack of
> socialization with them or your lack of it with mature ones. I also
> believe I said EITHER you are not OR!!! You haven’t been socialized
> around other black people. Your mindset comes off more like a non-black
> female who has been dogged and abused by sisters and is therefore
> defensive. That’s what made me question. It had nothing to do with
> what you look like, nothing at all! I’ve got family who have more
> black in them than mostly everyone here and look whiter than sour cream.
> Your complexion has nothing to do w/my assumption. I don’t have to
> personally insult you or your looks to get my point across. And this
> assumption you make that I am somehow jealous is laughable. You must
> EXPECT me to be jealous because you’re biracial and therefore in your
> own mind makes you seem to think you’re more beautiful (at least
> that’s what I get from reading your comments…so that is your
> mindset, not mine. I do think you are a beautiful female as I think many
> here are. I don’t have to hate on you in order to disagree with your
> point of view. So you need to save that drama for the next chick whose
> silly enough to pedestal you…lol). From reading what you said it seems
> like you think your mixed heritage makes you more beautiful than the
> next black woman. You keep referencing your own complexion and attention
> you get from it and go on to say I must have a problem? But if I recall
> I never mentioned it. I have no problem with it… why would I? So all
> that insecurity crap and jealousy mess you’re talking is a reversal of
> your own mindset (you seem to actually think you’re better because you
> are biracial and expect sisters to automatically hate on you??? Reading
> what you said it sounds more to me like you WANT me to be jealous.
> Jealous for what? What do you have that I don’t? We’re both female,
> both have v****as, and as long as men are men there’ll be someone to
> put something in them…rofl. Men’s taste vary from woman to woman. Some
> men will deem you more attractive than men and me more than you. But in
> the end love there’s always someone for everyone. I have no reason to
> envy you on any level. That’s your own mind talking but if you say so
> hon. I’ve never had a problem meeting a brother or dating one. Never
> had a problem getting a date so…??? What am I insecure about? And if you
> want to go there I would brag if I were you because dudes I guess get at
> you for your biracialness? Girl please, they are running over you all in
> the media, public figures males are screwing and dropping you all just
> like anyone else! You are not exempt. I see more multicultural chicks
> getting played now a days and dudes are bold enough to say they are
> basically the new play thing? I wouldn’t be proud of that were I you.
> Color has nothing to do with the level of how dogmatic a man will be
> toward you.
> 3) Racist? Lol, that’s cute. If you are biracial how am I
> managing to be racists toward you. I’m a lot of things but racists is
> not one of them. I am however a realists. I see the world in a real
> light, not a rose colored glass. There are issues among the races,
> racial divides than can only be solved through dialogue. I never said I
> did not see your point of view on this subject. I said YOU can’t
> discount the feelings and mindsets of “these” other women because
> you have a different experience. Yes, black men do tell black women they
> won’t date them because…(fill in the blanks). We’re not talking
> about the brothers who just date out. THAT IS NOT AN ISSUE. I never in
> anything I stated said Reggie Bush should not date out or was wrong for
> dating Kim K. As a matter of fact in many posts I’ve berated other
> sisters for dogging the girl. Kim K. is gorgeous and from I see, despite
> the haters, has a decent personality. She’s got her own and she’s
> progressive, why wouldn’t any man of any race find her attractive? I
> never said Reggie was wrong for it. But then Reggie also has never
> bashed sisters in the public eye like the men I am referring to.
> Everyone should be happy. EVERYONE. My personal issue has never been
> with dating out ( I certainly BELIEVE in it myself so whatever you say
> love). It has always been men insulting sisters in the process. Love is
> love. You should never have to justify being in love. But you should
> never have to tarnish the image of another group of people to do it.
> This isn’t about beating up black men who date out. That is the
> perspective YOU came from not me. I responded to what YOU said. You
> asked why sisters have to be so angry about it. I EXPLAINED to you why
> some are and where it stems from! But I did NOT say I justify women
> doing it. Hatred of any kind is both ignorant and intolerable. Just
> because I see both sides of the coin doesn’t mean I support one view
> over the other. ALL I did was respond from the opposite perspective to
> what you said. You call me a simpleton but I think you need to look at
> those fingers pointing back at you. It seems you missed the gist of my
> whole response, got emotional, AGAIN, and defensive and went on another
> senseless raging rant….(which did have me cracking up!!! Thanks for the
> laugh!).
> 4) My heritage is irrelevant. The only mixed culture in me is the
> same that’s in all other black people the world over whether from this
> continent or others. All of us have a combination of racial mixture with
> African heritage being the most prominent. My mother’s happens to be
> of mostly black, with some native American heritage in our immediate
> family. My daddy is as dark as Malik Yoba/Morris Chestnut. There may be
> some white in my mothers but I am not sure. That being said, my father
> is a dark complected man. I have cousins for who both parents are dark
> complected but some of them came out light, some are dark, some are dark
> with light eyes. My complexion is not telling of my racial makeup. And
> why is that even relevant, especially since I never said anything about
> complexion, hair texture or anything else. AGAIN, all I did was respond
> to what YOU wrote. What you did was apparently took some bad experiences
> you had in the past and projected your frustrations on to me. You asked
> a question, I answered. You disqualified that response from an emotional
> perspective and I responded.
> 5) Personally insulting me will not change the fact that your posts
> read like someone whose going off emotion and nothing more. Call me what
> you will because it doesn’t move me. You’re a female hon. How you
> perceive me is of no consequence. Whether I waddle or walk, I’ve yet
> to meet a brother who takes issue with my looks or my build. And as long
> as there are ones interested another female’s insult will not shake
> me. I am a 5’7’ female. So despite what you assume of my weight
> (lol, which I find funny because your assumption is wrong) waddling has
> never been an issue I carry it perfectly fine with a regular sway and I
> could probably tae bo and jog circles around your stick figure frame.
> Anytime you wanna find out holler at me…lol. Furthermore as far as you
> and fine bleep bleep black men and you getting hits on black
> planet!!!!pa ha ha ha ha! That’s funny. So, then you’re saying
> you’re basing your attractability off how many hits you get in your
> inbox? As far as dudes getting at you? And, they get at everyone. I see
> attractive men (BLACK and other) with the best and worst looking of
> women. Who approaches you has nothing to do with how viable you are.
> Video vixens and crackhead hookers alike get male attention. That is not
> a testament to your beauty…lol…so what is your point? You pointing
> that out is proof of your own lack of security. It is sad to have a
> beautiful shell and be empty inside measuring yourself by others’
> perceptions of you. I truly hope that isn’t your case…but from what
> YOU WROTE!!! I have to wonder.
> 6) Lastly…as far as what I said about other cultures of women
> walking, talking, carrying themselves like a black woman??? I never said
> that meant they speak ignorant or use slang or don’t use proper
> English. What I meant to imply was the inflection of our speech, the
> swagger in our stroll, that’s it. What you add onto that is up to you!
> No matter how properly we pronounce our words…there’s always a
> difference in the way we speak. It’s a part of the culture. That’s
> what I was referring to. But your assumptions tell a lot of who bears the prejudices and racists thoughts. You assume and all it does is tell where your mindset is. Don’t lay your thoughts and perceptions on me.
7) There’s more I can say but I will respect the posters who have requested and continue my response in an inbox message….this is already too long!
8) To the other posts for whom my responses were longwinded and bothersome, I do apologize…I promise this will be the last one!.
> – P.S. dontdeserveme- its interesting you have all this mouth and these personal attacks for me off what I said. WHY HAVEN”T YOU ADDRESSED ANY of the MEN who made the same or even WORSE comments. Some of them down right personally attacked you where I never did. Makes me wonder. I guess your reserve that angry courage and potty mouth for women so as not to loose that MALE attention you obviously so desperately thirst for? Things that make yuh go hmm???

Cymamyn- I respect what you had to say. I appreciate you’re perspective. And because of the way you said it I can feel where you are coming from.

A comment board is that and that only. And you can’t get an idea of my mindset from it. To be clear I don’t listen to stats but I used Oprah’s real live poll because it was an actual real live exercise on racial relations across the board. Though I don’t follow statistics I do believe multiple groups of real live men when I hear/see them speak their thoughts perspective about love and race. The whole point was to show dontdeserveme the reality of the negative mindset against women of color, the persistent issue and why black women seem to be processing this negative rhetoric. And the reason I acknowledge it is to understand it and disarm it.

I agree the anger is pointless. There’s no reason. But a person can’t just disqualify someone’s feelings or their anger because they don’t get it. That’s not how you accomplish racial understanding.

But again, hearing/seeing your take is refreshing. I agree with you as well. And its not just because you’re cosigning what I do or don’t think. I can accept people’s different perspectives. But intolerance annoys me.

And one more thing to don’tdeserveme are you deeming cynamyn as secure because she supported you and I am insecure because I tried to explain to you why these sisters do and say what they do? I guess if I said the same thing cynamyn said there would never been implied insult as to my size or me waddling huh. All you see is her face and you go on calling her beautiful and so on (which you are cynamyn, obviously inside and out by the way you present yourself here).

Oh! before you go off again…make sure you get on those dudes that got on you before me and the ladies who came after me….ill be waiting to see your big badness in full action?

Supremly you write too damn much. Get a room you 2 please.

“The whole point was to show dontdeserveme the reality of the negative mindset against women of color, the persistent issue and why black women seem to be processing this negative rhetoric. And the reason I acknowledge it is to understand it and disarm it.”

-Supremely

You said it perfectly!!! We should acknowledge the negativity, then dispel (sp) it. If we keep dwelling on it, then how will we be able to reach our fullest potential? Like you said Supreme and I fully agree, the anger is pointless. I think what annoys me is that others see ALL black women as angry and bitter towards life. They couldn’t be further from the truth, so I come on here to show them that those of us who are positive do exist.

I thank you and dontdeserve me for your kind words. I try my best to get my points across without offending folks. Hopefully you two will reach a common ground.

Leticia – my post are as long as what was written 2 me.

Ladies…let this coon go.

Lls, get @ u next wk supremehata. I’m starting my wknd early :-D !!!

don’tdeserveme- (supremehater?) you are such an adult…lol. I look forward to your next childish explosion. i’m still laughing at the last one. i shared it with friends. we all had a good laugh…lol.

i needed your comedic relief! lol. especially last week.

Cynamyn- I’m glad you do what you do. We do need a balance to the negative. And there’s no common ground to find with dontdeserveme. I have no ills or emotion. I state my opinions and leave it at that, no hard feelings on my part. lol. Its a comment board, definitely good for entertainment and watching people get riled up, but not worth expenditure of emotions…lol.

SIGH….well supremely there should be no hard feelings since it is just a comment board. Even though it is entertaining to read the BS that HB posts, I kind of see this as a trick to get black women crying over why a black man won’t accept them. The trick has worked, if that is the case. Needless to say that it is quite unfortunate.

I’m not saying that you or dontdeserveme are doing this. I’m talking about others who do this in life. It makes us look very unattractive, in my opinion.

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Cynamyn,
Take your a$$ off of black planet! This is for blacks who love blacks only!!

Well…. it looks like the silly coon below me closed his account. Why do fools like this think they can intimidate me? LMBAO.

Why is this even news? Who cares who Reggie Bush dates, marries, breeds with, etc…? That girl looks like the average type of girl that pro athletes date so why is this news? I have noticed though that the “blue eyed, busty, blonde” has been replaced by the “exotic” olive skinned women. I wonder if white women have noticed that they’ve been replaced?

I’ll be completely honest: Reg Bush is an average looking guy. Other than his big fat contract, I don’t see what women are fussing about. I mean, he looks like an average, regular guy.

He has the right to be an idiot if he wants to.

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@Supremelydyvuh

I know you’ve been checking back so eager for my response lol but I’ve been busy making these A’s so I can save your a$$ in the future-thank me later.

Here’s the bottom line: You got angry because I called out the Kim K. haters and clearly you are one or you wouldn’t have manipulated the less intellectually stimulated into believing that you were really upset about “race issues”. Chicks like you hide behind the race card to try to cover for what is actually bothering you-your fat, unattractive, could never get a guy of Reggie B. status and you are angry that Kim K., a non blk woman can get these guys-with ease I might add. So you can fool some with this bs about a blk woman’s history, but you will never get over on anyone like me-with the ability to look right through you(yes, I can see through all 300lbs of you).

Simply put, it is what it is-you are an insecure person that tried her best to call me out over Kim Kardashian and why it’s NOT ok for her to date blk men and nothing you said can validate that way of thinking.You can’t cover your true feelings with spittin basic history that everyone knows. You can’t hide your jealousy by insulting me. You are, however a waste of time. So you keep running around and posting about the men you can’t get and crying about why a bad b***h can, while I’m busy working toward making sure your big ass will have that next sandwich.

Spend some time figuring out what is important in life because while you spend all this time copy & pasting my comments, trying so hard to out do me, your world is crumbling before your eyes but you don’t see it because your worried about Kim K. & Reggie fckn B. SMDH. Are you even aware that WE HAVE NO RIGHTS in this country anymore?? Do you get that Obama is not our savior?? Do you understand that your skies are being sprayed with barium & aluminum damn near every day?? Do you get that this cartoon character you worship can’t save you because he’s not real. Wake up! I would laugh at you but you are so unknowingly pathetic it’s disturbing.

@Supremelydyvuh

I know you’ve been checking back so eager for my response lol but I’ve been busy making these A’s so I can save your a$$ in the future-thank me later.

Here’s the bottom line: You got angry because I called out the Kim K. haters and clearly you are one or you wouldn’t have manipulated the less intellectually stimulated into believing that you were really upset about “race issues”. I’m not going to address the meaningless nonsense your trying to sidetrack me and everyone else with when I know the reason you responded to me in the first place is because what I said struck a nerve.Chicks like you hide behind the race card to try to cover for what is actually bothering you-your fat, unattractive, could never get a guy of Reggie B. status and you are angry that Kim K., a non blk woman can get these guys-with ease I might add. So you can fool some with this bs about a blk woman’s history, but you will never get over on anyone like me-with the ability to look right through you(yes, I can see through all 300lbs of you).

Simply put, it is what it is-you are an insecure person that tried her best to call me out over Kim Kardashian and why it’s NOT ok for her to date blk men and nothing you said can validate that way of thinking.You can’t cover your true feelings with spittin basic history that everyone knows. You can’t hide your jealousy by insulting me. You are, however a waste of time. So you keep running around and posting about the men you can’t get and crying about why a bad b***h can, while I’m busy working toward making sure your big ass will have that next sandwich.

Spend some time figuring out what is important in life because while you spend all this time copy & pasting my comments, trying so hard to out do me, your world is crumbling before your eyes but you don’t see it because your worried about Kim K. & Reggie fckn B. SMDH. Are you even aware that WE HAVE NO RIGHTS in this country anymore?? Do you get that Obama is not our savior?? Do you understand that your skies are being sprayed with barium & aluminum damn near every day?? Do you get that this cartoon character you worship can’t save you because he’s not real. Wake up! I would laugh at you but you are so unknowingly pathetic it’s disturbing.

he cant never replace kim k lol jus look at his new girl

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