There’s this thing that I do when I’ve stopped seeing a guy-I erase his number from my phone. Since I don’t answer numbers I don’t know I consider this to be my fool proof way to not having to hear said guy’s voice again (especially if it ended badly). Ok, the real reason why I erase numbers is so that I don’t call him in a moment of weakness, usually when I’m horny or tipsy.
Just because I erase his number doesn’t mean that he doesn’t end up back in my address book. Usually it takes a couple months of friendly calls: “Hey SG, I was thinking about you and wanted to see how you were doing.” Translation: “I miss you and want to get all in your business; this doesn’t mean I want you back though.” After a couple of these convos, I go soft and save his number back in my phone because after all, we are friends. (I know, I just threw up a little too!)
The problem with having a friendly phone conversation with someone you used to date is eventually they will try to play the friend card and call you under duress. Blind sighted, you answer the phone and what follows is one of the most excruciating conversations you will ever have…READ THE REST HERE.
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