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In 2011 it maybe necessary on occasion for a woman to be a little bit more aggressive. Just a little bit more assertive and ask a man out on a date. I am not suggesting that a woman should pursue a man. I still believe that the man court the woman. Ok? We good? Woman all you got to do is let the man know that you are interested and available. That’s all I am saying. If you can make sure the man knows that you are interested and available without offering to take him out for a slice of cake, more power to you. Today I am going to define for you what types of dates a woman should take a man out on and provide for you some tips to consider when contemplating asking a man out on a date.

TIP #1: Don’t Waste Your Time.

Stop dating married men. Please review my article “Why You Loooooove Dating Married Men”. Just stop it. No excuses. Every day that you spend loving someone else’s husband. or man, or boyfriend or is another day that you won’t have someone of your own to love you. Maybe you don’t want to be loved. Maybe you don’t deserve love. But if I find out that you are using these tips to pickup married men . . . I AM COMING FOR YOU! I GOT YOUR IP ADDRESS!

TIP #2: Identify your match.

Everyone should have or develop an idea of the type of person that they attract. If you see a guy that reminds you of an old boyfriend, maybe you will remind him of the new girlfriend that he has been dreaming about for the past few years! Matches are not initially perfect. A perfect match takes skill. Identifying your match could be something as simple as knowing yourself. If you are always at the library, one day you will meet a guy that is always at the library also. (Or maybe you will be out at the club and meet a librarian.)

To women that are having problems meeting men . . . I am going to tell you where all the single men are and there are NO WOMEN THERE! Ok maybe one or two women are there for every fifthteen single men. Can you guess this location? IT’S THE GYM!!! SINGLE MEN ARE AT THE GYM! GO THERE! ASK THEM TO SPOT YOU AND HELP YOU LIFT THE REALLY, REALLY HEAVY WEIGHTS! Ask them about weight training. Ask them about dieting. It doesn’t matter if you already know the answers to the questions. You are not asking the question for the answer anyway. It is called filtering. It is an ice breaker. Your mother and grandmother may have needed a man more than you do but they were a lot more fun than you are also. (My woman is old school, love her to death!)

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