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For many of women’s sexual experiences, there’s an unfortunate tug-of-war that can occur between our desire for a man to use protection and his desire to, well, not. But there’s an additional component of consent that goes along with that decision and that’s actually keeping the condom on during the entirety of the sexual act.

Stealthing is the name for the act of removing a condom without consent during sex and, in case it isn’t blatantly obvious, is also a form of sexual assault. In fact, legislation has been introduced in California that would add stealthing to the official definition of rape in the state. Confused by this behavior or its implications on women’s bodies? Get into this episode of Listen to Black Women.

About Listen To Black Women

Listen To Black Women is a show from HelloBeautiful and MadameNoire that discusses the issues that affect us most while incorporating the voices of our audience and experts.

Each week, the show will gather insights from of our readers by asking them a series of questions related to the show topic. We’ll also be sharing thoughts from social media and the Internet at large as hosts Shamika Sanders, Africa Miranda, Keyaira Kelly weigh in with their opinions.

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