Hi Kareem,

I’m a 33-year-old single mom and I have a few male friends that are interested in me. The thing is, I have about 1 or 2 that I would make my man, but I’m not sure on who. How would I know which one is right for me? Are there any signs? Tell me something.

Kareem says:

You need to find out which brother has goals that align with your own. What do they do now? Where do they want to be in 5 yrs? How do they interact with your child/children? Which one do you really have fun with? If you are sleeping with them all, think about which one is laying the best pipe (Note: Kareem does not endorse having sex with multiple partners).

The great thing is that you have options, which is something most sisters do not. But sometimes multiple options can be confusing. Step back and look at all of them. Then you can really get a good understanding of who each one is as a person.

Good luck,

– KJ

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