Rihanna: “We Were Dangerous For Each Other”

I just have to say that this girl is very BOLD to come in front of everyone and tell her story. I was in abusive realationship for 8 long long years and the only people that knew was my family. Yes, everyone thought I was stupid for staying but what could I say love is blind. NOBODY, NOBODY deserves to be beating by a man it’s not right! I had enough one day Thank God I never looked back but I have forgave him from all the things he has done to me. We still speak because we have a child together and he tells me all the time that he is sorry for what he has done and if he could change the past he would but I’ve heard that for 8 years! So the bottom line is once they hit you they will continue too if you let them! Don’t be envy like I was walk away!

I agree with Nightowl358…..there are 3 sides to every story his side, her side and the truth which we will never know.

Rhianna gave it as good as she took it. Her hands aren’t clean in all this.

I grew up watching my parents fight. Only it was not my father doing the hitting. I listen as my grandparents would tell him not to hit her back. She is a woman and the mother of your child. I remember calling the cops and them taking him away even though he was the one with his head bust open. My uncles use to call him a p$$y and tell him to beat her. But this man would not hit her back. One night he packed some clothes and took me to his folks house. I’ll never forget them telling him not to take me away from my mother. Go home and wrk things out. Two nights later she killed him in my grandparents house. Ppl said they knew she hit him but never thought she would stab him. Yes women do and will hit first

I want to CLEAR the AIR on MY COMMENTS-even thou this topic is SPEAKING of Rihanna and Chris…IM NOT just SPEAKING of Chris when I say MEN died at the HANDS of a WOMAN-just LIKE women DO. I am HOWEVER saying that SOME WOMEN do the SAME thing to a MAN and HE is LOOKED at or TREATED like its OK for HIM to be HIT or BEAT on or even LEAD to BELIEVE that because he is a MAN he SHOULD take the LICKS and WALK AWAY. Thats not ALWAYS the CASE-when MEN do try to LEAVE he at that POINT become the ABUSER and the WOMAN be the VICTIM and EVERYONE fall for the CRY WOLF line of the POOR WOMAN-become another VICTIM…when REALLY SHE IS THE REAL ABUSER. Lets FACE FACTS-men do die at the HANDS of a WOMAN…SO do WOMEN and we all KNOW that FACT-so WHY should WE over LOOK the VIOLENCE in WOMEN? We hear the NEWS MEDIA down the MEN and how they BEAT the WOMAN and YET-WHEN it HAPPEN to a MAN its LIKE its OK and that SHE had the RIGHT to HIT or even KILL him. WHY- because he is a MAN? Thats NOT a GOOD enough REASON for ME! They ALWAYS say in the news MEDIA what if it was your daughter,sister,mother,aunt,gandmother,etc? I say WHAT if it WAS your SON<BROTHER<UNCLEor GRANDFATHER,etc who died trying to do the RIGHT thing and WALK AWAY? Would YOU still THINK or SAY its OK for the WOMAN to WALK away free of CHARGE nor STEP up and SAY YES I DID IT and IM the ABUSER not HIM? I hope NOT! Its NOT FAIR nor is it RIGHT to DOWN the MAN and UPHOLD the WOMAN when SHE is DOING the SAME thing. I will KEEP saying it a MAN is NOT alway STRONGER than a WOMAN…thats JUST what the WORLD want YOU to BELIEVE. Its WOMEN out HERE that CAN pick a MAN up LIKE he IS NOTHING and BEAT his A$$ like she is MIKE TYSON. So PLEASE don’t get this TWISTED as if the MAN is the BIG BAD WOLF and the WOMEN are Little RED ROBIN HOOD. REMEMBER that VIOLENCE is VIOLENCE nomatter WHO’S hand it COME from.

@ rene1953, she said she DID NOT hit him. What part of that you didn’t understand? Do you have sisters?

I havent watched the whole interview but I know she is lying. She did hit him first. No excuse for him hitting her like he did. My question is how much abuse should a man take before he is justified in retaliating against a woman? I know i am stronger but if a woman is whooping my ass. When can I defend myself?