Do Athletes Make Good Husbands?

READ IT ALL THE WAY FIRST! Prejudging anyone because of sex, race, orientation, faith, age and so on is easy for those who act self-righteous as even I have done in the past. IT seems that we are hardest on those who get caught-up in controversy. News of others Infidelity, scandal of corruption, money problems, secret trysts, drug usages feed the fire. If the men/women involved each have different outcomes One party may have unrealistic expectations and can’t accecpt it when the other person doesn’t feel the same. Rape, Murder, Suicide, Addiction, Sex, Gambling are tempting and hard to ignore. Mix any two of these and someones always gets hurt. Age should give us wisdom but desires of the flesh can all bring out the worst in us. I pray for the families left with question left unanswered. The recent murders /suicide that made headline speaks for is self.
I pray for the 4 young boys who are now without a father (even if he was a cheater long-time)his wife who must now be stronger than ever through this tragedy. That said Facts; He was married, a repeat player with many women coming at him who saw him as $$$$$$$ this is how it is, She and he were of legal age. This lifestyle that led them to their outcome did not have to be. (Sorry it happen but now men need to check (themself) before getting young women all gased up in thinking they the next mrs, baller wife. FEMALE THINK WITH YOUR HEAD NOT WITH WHAT BETWEEN YOUR LEGS! How much money would be be able to spend on the jump-off, chick on the side if he had child support for four kids and a ex-wifey to take care of? I am not judging them as nobody is perfect but 2 wrongs don’t make a right. Big baller’s bewear; now the playmates are acting out and getting guns to shoot 2 kill. Guess wifey don’t have to get the frying pan to go up side players head, the crazy young thing will take care of cheating males. Don’t hater the messenger! Husbands bewear she (babygirl, jump-off) just might not cry boo hoo and go away quietly.

There are alot of cheaters and just because they are athletes don’t mean their going to change there ways probably just makes it worse..

To each his own …it is quite easy to be hypnotized by the lifestyle and the opportunitys abound 9 times out of 10 for most athletes.
Enter at your own risk.

Ask Doug Christie, I don’t think he cheats on Jackie!! And unless a woman is looking for a G.O.F.A.W., she is not going to try to get at Doug. (LOL)

GOFAW, Good Old Fashion A$$ Whoopin’

It is in error to generalize all athletes or anyone into a category of “cheaters.” I believe there are some who really love their wives, kids and family, thus they do NOT cheat.

When a person really loves someone, they go out of their way to ensure that the person they love is NOT hurt. The problem is too many people are looking at surface, superficial things instead of the “core” of a person. That takes too much time for some and SEX is too often the object of the game.

Hence, all the child support, baby momma/daddy drama, She is a w***e/gold-digger/just want money, he is a w***e/cheater/dogg/liar/getting shot by his jump off etc. We need to find out who we are and what we want, I PROMISE this will alleviate most of the trouble.

Running around making babies with women you don’t know (or getting shot by them), getting knocked up by men you “think” are good men or got money, only creates children who grow up with holes in their souls because they didn’t have their FATHERS in their lives. A child support check, Nikes, Jordans, Juicy Couture, Ralph Lauren Pole, Gucci shoes DO NOT…I REPEAT DO NOT and cannot substitute that time spent sitting on daddy’s lap, that embrace from a father, that affectionate touch from a father (which helps children learn BASIC TRUST).

We have really reduced the role of fathers in children’s lives to sperm donation and financial support (for those who get it). Too many men think that “check” is all they are responsible for…WRONG. KNOW THIS: FATHERS are the primary parents, not mothers. So when we grow up without that relationship with our fathers, we don’t know how much that damages us.

Whether we want to believe it or not, this is the MAIN problem plaguing our society…Men not understanding their roles and women not understanding the importance of man’s role as a father.

Now, how many athletes have grown up without their fathers? Many of which are good at their sport because they are seeking to prove they are worthy, be validated and/or PROVE to their absent fathers that they can “make it” even without them being their. However, NONE will just admit the rejection which often leads to rebellion, pain and even the tears shed because their fathers were NOT there.

Many men who grow up without their fathers, judge (to speak on something out of contempt rather than conviction) their fathers. And in doing so, they unknowingly(without consciously realizing it) do the exact same things to their children because anything we judge, we are subjected (if not doomed) to do it.

Too many try to fill that hole created by absent fathers with success (all gain is not Godliness), sex, drugs, alcohol, work, material things and they NEVER realize that none of those natural (tangible) things will fill it because that emptiness is on a spiritual level. Only God can fill and only God can heal.

God will turn the hearts of the fathers back to the hearts of the children and then we will see more healthy, successful and blessed relationships. Not just for athletes but for everyone.

I put it like this..its not just the athletes,you have rappers,singers,actors and regular people who cheat. So we should not stereotype any group because 9 times out of 10 that athlete was a cheater before he became famous..
~Be Breezy~

i guess you just gotta pick the right one…i wished i could marry me a baller……lol…but you gotta be able to take what comes with that life style though…all the groupies,rumors,long distance,and etc….but it takes a strong women with high self esteem though cause a lot of things probably will be

you rich and famous with plenty h0es waiting for you in EVERY city you go to while the wife is at home…….

the brother who can be a family man thru all that gets much respect…..

then again SOME of the wives are moreless kool with it long as its discreet….long as da wife is satisfied (materially/economically) they know wassup LOL

ps- i dont believe this is true for ALL athletes n they spouses though. if da love/relationship/family thang is REAL then thats wassup!!!

allen iverson’s wife looks baddd.but they’re are stars and they seem to think they can have any girl

Please define cheating??? B/c last time I checked it meant being unfaithful to you’re spouse. However is it called cheating when your spouse says its ok to go out and have sex with someone other than them. Example porn stars, strippers, escorts, and the list go on…So again, please define the word cheating????