All The Single Ladies Put Your Hands Up!

What’s the deal with being a “Single Mingle” these days?

“Sometimes you have to stand alone to prove you can still stand.”-Anonymous

Ladies, listen up! Were sexy, intelligent, and possess the natural ability to flirt! We don’t need arm candy to be the successful, happy, confident, and most importantly strong women we know we are. Our society today has casted a dark depressing shadow over the “Single Life.” This mirage presents us with the idea that now is the time to enter in the race and claim our prize of Mr. Right at the finish line. Wrong! It’s the time in your life to enter the race of self-discovery.

“I don’t need a man to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we’ll ever have is the one with ourselves.”-Shirely MacLaine

Our society has created an image from the subliminal messages produced by the media. Shows such as “The Bachelor, Tough Love, and Millionaire Match Maker” display a scene of women lost and whom the rays of love blind. Put on your sunglasses! Turn off that TV!

Relationships are compromise, but when you’re single it is all about being in control and taking care of you. You are the most important person in your life! You’re a sexy single, let’s indulge in the pros of being single and chuck the cons aside shall we?

1. You can do what you want, when you want. The only person you need to rely on is yourself. There is no man draped over your shoulders weighing you down. Do you want to satisfy your midnight craving? Hop into your car and drive to McDonalds. Have you’ve wanted to finish that novel you started last summer? Take a blanket to the park.

2. Single? Turn to your career. The time when you’re single is an excellent opportunity to expand your career and grow as a businesswoman. No worries about having ten missed phone calls asking why dinner wasn’t made and waiting in the fridge. The extra hours you put in will be on your time, and your time only.

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3. “My husband would kill me if I left the house wearing that!” Well, you don’t need to worry about that. You’re hot, you’re sexy, and you’re single. Zip up that little black dress, you’ll have the men drooling. Flaunt what ya mama gave you!

“If you are single there is always one thing you should take out with you on a Saturday night…your friends.”- Sex in the City

4. No need to become paranoid over the stress of remembering whether or not you deleted that last text message off your phone. To whom do you owe an explanation to for unknown numbers blowing up your phone? No one! Being single is the ideal time to go out and meet other singles. This opens up the door to an entirely new and exhilarating world filled with fresh faces and thrilling adventures. Press the “On” button next to charm and flirt away. Who is holding you back?

5. Alone time. Unfortunately society has placed the words “alone” and “lonely” parallel sitting on the same plane. Being “alone” is being in peace. Run a warm bubble bath, make yourself dinner in the nude, or crank up the stereo system.

“I celebrate myself, and sing myself.”-Walt Whitman

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