Diddy’s Stepson Sends Letter To Dad Al B Sure

Thats a v ery nice letter he wrote. I wrote a letter to my father but he never responded. Q should always remember that even if his father decided he doesn’t want a relationship with him in the future he has to always remember he is very fortune. He has a family who loves him which is more that most. I haven’t talked to my father since I was 7. I reached but he never reached out. f**k it. I have a mother who loves me. a grandfather who guided me and respectable male role models.

I grew up without my father and didnt get to meet him til I was 13 by then i had went through s**t in my life that couldnt be erased. I have learn to forgive he cause i didnt miss out he did on a great daughter, friend and loved 1

I have to say I agree with “msneed2know.” I grew up without my Father in my life. I was 13 when I got the chance to hear his voice on the phone. I never really knew him but when I did talk to him I feel in love with my Father because I didn’t have a Dad. My grandfather was the closet person I had to a real Dad & I loved him dearly. I never hated my Father for not being there because back then we didn’t really know what was going on we had so many loving family members that showered us with love. I Love & miss my father very much even if he wasn’t around. But some people have a problem with dealing with their father’s not being in their lives. I have my issues sometimes but I pray for a loving heart everyday. So if this is Quincy way of expressing how he feels about his father then I say Quincy express yourself to the fullest. No one know your pain but you. I applaud you. It is a beautiful letter straight to the point and also honoring your father that has given you unconditional love all these many years. Be blessed.

i HAVE to respond to this article cause it hitz VERY close to home for me. i too grew up witout my father. life wuz hard in a single parent home wit 3 other siblings and sometimez, when thingz got extremely hard, i would even be upset that my father wazn’t there to guide me tha way that i needed him to. hearing so much negative “press” about “dead-beat” dadz, i usually didn’t even think about tha circ**stances behind his “absence”. i jus assumed that if he wanted to be around, he would be around. i wuz told by my mother, society, and tha media that my father wuzn’t in my life because he didn’t WANTto be and i accepted this as a universal fact. i’m now 28 yearz old with 4 kidz of my own and i’ve learned dat I WUZ LIED TO. i can’t speak about my father’z situation cause i don’t know exactly why he wazn’t around, BUT i CAN speak for myself: see, i haven’t seen two of my kidz in over a year now and i KNOW it iz of no fault of my own. i’m paying child support (although, even if i wazn’t, tha Attory General will tell u that child support and visitation are unrelated and u can’t deny one right because another right isn’t being respected. at least not LEGALLY, anyway.) and i have a visitation court order but my childrenz mother has been denying my access anyway. i’ve gone thru every resource available for fatherz (there aren’t many at all, look it up yourself. and tha onez dat are available are HIGHLY ineffective or very costly) and even looked into a private lawyer (which costs more than MOST criminal lawyers). i’m putting 1000% effort into doing whuteva i can to get bak into my kidz livez but i seem to be hitting major roadblockz at every turn. in my situation, my WORSE FEAR is dat i will not only be unsuccessfully re-united with my children, but dat in tha process they will also begin to judge ME for my absence. will they give me a chance to explain? will they still love me after being gone so long? will their mother teach them to hate me? if i’m unsuccessful in my fight, will they care enough to even come look for me to find out whut i have to say or whut happened? and if so, how can i make up for everything that i’ve missed? how can i heal a hurt that i didn’t cause (especially without turning tha blame bak on tha other parent whose “side” of tha story has probably been drilled in tha kidz head already). i would have never considered this “side” of the argument until i wuz ON this “side” and now that i AM, i’m more open to understanding and hearing whut my father has to say. but i don’t want my kidz to have to go though whut i’m going through before they finally get a chance, IT’Z JUS NOT FAIR. luckily, MY mother neva really spoke down on my father but i wazn’t so careful in choosing a mother for MY kidz so by now, i’m pretty sure dat they’ve heard that their father “ain’t shyt” and will continue to hear that until i’m finally able to speak to them for myself but by then, who knowz the damage that will have been done. in light of all this, i jus wanna make sure to tell folkz, JUDGE NOT. COMMUNICATE. REACH OUT. once u become an adult, do the adult thing and get tha facts for yourself. u might be surprised to learn that errthang didn’t go tha way u were “told” it went. u neva know when it might be YOU lookin for some understanding one day…

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It’s sad to see a young man that has a living father close and yet he still feels left alone. Sadly that’s the story a lot of us had to deal with; either we knew our fathers and he didn’t want to be bothered or mom was out runnin’ around and couldn’t tell us who daddy was. Thank God for caring step-daddies! I wonder if there’s in anomosity between Diddy & Al B Sure? It takes a strong (black) man to take care of someone else’s children and for that I applaud all the “Diddy’s ” out there! There is definitely a disconnect between Quincey and his dad. I really wish they work it out somehow. Blessed love to them all!!!!

Boo, Hoo.. Poor kid! Im sure that he really knows the pain of not having a father around, like the other milions of kids- with no daddy. He has a rich step father, who has been there for him his whole life(his words not mine). In my opinion he was just trying to be Al B on blast for not being there when he was growing up, but whats with the pic though? I didnt have no daddy around when I was growing up, and theres no snap shots of us together ever!!

You are so blessed young man to have someone like Diddy who was willing to step up to the plate and love you unconditionally and helped to mold and shape you into a caring human being. His love, dedication and support has been a light in your life. You look happy inspite of your pain. God has richly blessed you in many ways. Remember to ask God to help you to forgive and move on. I know it isn’t easy but with God on your side you can’t lose. Let your experience be an instrument in your hands to help others who are going through the same things but don’t have the type of support that you’ve had. May God bless you in your endeavors and heaven smile upon you and your family.