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Some people will not like you no matter what so just BE YOU and give the haters something to talk about. Author of Dare from VH1's Tough Love & BET.
Is Going To Jail The “Hot” Thing To Do?
Hey Cupcakes,
It’s Think About It Thursday…
I recently have been dealing with a family member going through the system, but I’ll share that with you on another Thursday. Today I discuss youth in prison and the prison industrial complex with artist activist Damali Abrams, who also happens to be my revolutionary sister. You saw her afro float by for a sec on VH1’s Tough Love. Watch!
OH – And don’t leave me by my lonesome- leave me a COMMENT.
Some people won’t like you no matter what so just be your crazy, cool, weird self & give the haters something to talk about!
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Thanks for hanging with your girl. You know me as Abiola Abrams, Miss Picky on VH1’s Tough Love, the former host of BET’s The Best Short Films, the author of Dare, and the host of The Planet Abiola Show online.
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chic wit da black shirt and blu jeanz look good. i forget her name. chic @ 0:19 iz wild. dont remember her. reminds me of da cosby show. abiola got a hot body. damali looks nice 2. itz nuts da way ppl get busted fo s**t like evra damn day jus ta try gettin mo respect. lol @ abiola endin wit ‘word’ an da peace. i aint seen vh1 tough love or the best short films. hope i can find it online
davettalashley
You know what’s hot? FREEDOM! The FREEDOM to do wtf you wanna do whenever you wanna do it! Being locked in a cage like an animal – not so hot, unless you mean how HOT those little tiny rooms get when you have some ASS BANDIT breathing down the back of your neck and you’re locked in with this mofo.
WestsideCartelAtl85
Only dummies would think going to jail is cool. Losing ya freedom over petty cases isn’t the it thing at all. The intelligent brother gets no respect, while coonish azz thug gets all the attention and respect though.
newyorkstateofmind
jail iz wack only dum niggarz think itz cool 2 go there itz 2009 letz grow the the f**k up
GoinabilityINC
Going to jail is hot… A hot mess.
Macthaknife615
Going to jail isn’t the hot thing. It’s gettin’ shot. Going to jail is just the norm
DRACATTACK
Goin’ To Jail…A neverending story…the saga continues!!
BMarvB
These idiot rappers glorify that stupidity, and they go to jail and come out as some kinds hero and their CD sells like crazy.
What kind of example is that to set for our younger generation?
A_Lost_Man
You hit the nail on the head. Just like Chris Rock said, “Men who go to jail get more respect than men who’ve gone to college.” And we know how much women love bad boys (…and sisters, please don’t insult the intelligence of men by denying it…LOL).
Cmoore_78
Yeah, if you want to meet Fleece Johnson. MSNBC has this show call Locked Down and they interviewed Mr. Johnson. I think my nephew decided to pull his pants up after he listened to Fleece say that sagging pants was sexy to the “gay” men in prison.
I don’t know why this mess seems to be cool. Chris Rock said that folks get more respect coming out of jail than graduating from college and that is so sad.
It seems like all the rappers are going to jail or prison. I guess it helps their street cred. IGNORANCE, is expensive and we need to WAKE UP. Our kids look up to some of these rappers who pretty much brag about being, going to jail or getting time. That mess ain’t cute and Fleece Johnsonses are in there waiting to take some young, wanna be thug who thinks it is cool to go to prison.
blkmail2000
Hell no jail is not the hot thing to do how in the hell can you publish some s**t like this, This is just want want those cracker our young people to believe, this is one stupid as topic who ever came up with this is a fool.
Blue_AKA_LisaJsawoo
Are you serious?
P-TownFinest
Hell naww jail isn’t a good thing..When u go to jail that means u got caught…So therefore u was dumb..Only time going to jail is good is never..Cause u can’t get back that time ever..
shyscorpio1
when my dad was a young man in the south, he told of the horrible stories of being on the chain gang while workin in the Florida swamps.
when he got out he did his damndest not to ever go back.
if they took away all the pleasant things from prison and started giving them hard labor and chained constantly to each other and got rid of air conditioning, tv, sports, weight sets, private clothing, social cliques, and total segregation and clamp down on the rights of prisoners to have only shelter, food, health and earn any other perks, that would change the mentality of young dummies thinking they got it easier in their than out here. i used to work in the military brig and it was not a picnic for anybody including the guards, so ….?
Sketch-of-Bmore
What kinda dumb question is this?? and if anybody think that going to jail is a good thing or the new trend…….LET THEM GO and then see how they react when they complain about getting raped by BIG MARTHA/BUBBA
BlackTomCruise2
hell no!!…u come braggin 2 me bout jus gettin out the pen, Ima already know u on some dumb s**t!..lol..sorry wanna b thugs, gangstaz, whatever…goin 2 the pen is not impressive…
2daTopnonStop
Who would want to go to jail/prison/ youth camp, whatever!!!!
My Lord, I was in city jail for 4 nights and 3 days and it was like Guantanimo -flipping-Bay! I have dubbed it the horrible horrible horrible place. I didn’ t even do a full week so for those who are locked down for stretched out amounts of time…May Jesus be with them and keep them covered because….ewwwwww!!!
Jail is not hip, cute, or fun…AT ALL!
ashaheed
the only hot thing about jail/prison is getting out and turning your life around…
Anthropological
When I was younger I used to think that going to prison was the thing that hard and tough men did, but now all it seems to me that getting incarcerated is the ultimate in copping out, giving up and having mommy and daddy taking care of you!
A REAL man supports himself, takes responsibility for his actions and lives up to his responsibilities, a man in prison is really a child. No matter how many pushups how much weight he can lift, he is like a boy working out in his parent’s basement.
Arrielle2007
Aint shot cute about being locked up.