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Why Marriage?
Hey Cupcakes,
Every week relationship expert and Advice Maven Tina Tobin of LuvEmOrLeaveEm.com has a different love or sex related question to explore. Last week’s question was “Is Cyber Sex Cheating?”
This week the question Tina posed is “Why Marriage?” as in “Is Marriage Played Out?”
In Hollywood and EveryHood people seem to be splitting up faster than people are getting together so this is right on time! Why marriage? We had heated discussions on My Site, Twitter, Facebook, And Youtube. So first, advice from Tina Tobin, and then your girl, moi.
This was fun. As “Miss Picky” from Tough Love on VH1 I can tell you exactly how NOT to be married! lol. What qualifies me to share thoughts and advice? My starter marriage of course, and my (formerly) atrocious choices in men! Oh– and my writings on my misadventures in love, sex, and dating like my debut novel Dare. Enjoy.
TINA TOBIN ON MARRIAGE:
ABIOLA ON MARRIAGE:
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The-Chocolate-Man
I believe in marrage!
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eks_07
ME AS A BLACK MALE DO BELEIEVE IN MARRIAGE. ID LIKE TO MEET A NICE FIGURED FEMALE WITH A GOOD PERSONALITY AND NO KIDS THAT I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE MY WIFE ONE DAY. EVERYBODY TALKIN BOUT THEY DONT DO RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGE BUT IM NOT TRYNA BE 50 SOMETHIN KICKIN IT AT THE CLUB, OR DATIN WOMAN AFTER WOMAN OR EVEN THESE OLD HEADS THAT CONSTANTLY HOLLAR AT YOUNG ASS WOMEN. I WANNA BE ABLE TO COME HOME TO A BEAUTIFUL WIFE ON THE DAILY AND NOT HAVE TO WORRY BOUT BEING LEFT ALONE IN S**T.
ANGEL-DEMON2
Im sorry to say but i dont believe in any of that above me. Marriage is played out, people dont seem to understand that you give your all and your life for this person. People will always make mistakes and sometimes backslide, but you take all you can until your heart gives out. You try every moment of everyday to make one another happy. The only time i would ever leave my wife is if she tried to kill me or hurts me physically in some type of way.
Bemealways1
I believe in marriage I jus dnt believe in forcing myself to stay with a man when s**t get really really rough im nt a ride or die type girl lol and im nt wit tht forgive and forget method. U screw me ova in our relationship then you shuld have cleanin up yo mess
CuteCookie25
I agree Tina. I think when people say that it’s a cop-out and a lots of people are afriad of the old ball in chain. But like I always saying “Marriage is what you make it”. The love and connection marriage brings is beautiful and sarced. I just believe people need to get a grab on what love and marriage is/and means, it’s not just legal protection but it’s a togetherness promised by two people madly in love. Yes, that’s old skool but love and marriage ain’t going no where people are just trying to rebel and look for some new and exciting. Well to all, “Mariage I’m sure can be beautiful and exciting”.