No Judgement Fridays: 4 Tips For A Happy Menage A Trois

By Von-Anise McCoy October 23, 2009 5:04 pm

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When we think of a taboo subject menage a trois or threesomes (as we Americans say) are right at the top of the list. Most men will admit that this is their fantasy, even if they can barely handle one female at a time. Some women do it to please their man, yet some do it because it is their fantasy too. Whatever your reason, if you decide to go down this path there are certain things to keep in mind.

Be Safe: Condoms and dental dams are tools of this trade. There has to be enough to go around for everyone, so being a Costco shopper will prove to be extremely important.

Pay Attention: Do not let the lust, drugs and alcohol take over make sure that the safety tools are fresh for every mode of entrance. When people do things that society looks down upon they tend to use vices to get them through the experience. Keep your wits about you. It is in your best interest to know which penis is where and to make sure that when it is your turn you have a fresh condom on it.

Stay Busy: When your other partners are sexing it up, you have to be creative with your tongue, hands or even feet. This is not the time to lose inspiration or be conservative; stay in the game.

Set Ground Rules: Everyone does not like everything, so likes and dislikes should always be put on the table first. This is extremely important when we are talking about one girl and two guys. This is the time to list all of your sexual inhibitions so there are no surprises later.

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Da_J_Rok

Da_J_Rok

10-25-2009 6:53 am

Thank u to everyone that took notice to my advice “Pros and Cons” If u really dig that please come check out this group.

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jazzwatch

jazzwatch

10-25-2009 4:54 am

Only prefer the one lady…no two guys and 1 girls or 2 girls and 1 guy…..it’s nasty (STD ,HIV)and if I was with 2 girls they might rob your house LOL; don’t want to share my lady with another guy; don’t want to see another guy naked or him with MY woman or they lady could have him and I’ll find a more SUITIBLE woman…..
Just1man4u

Just1man4u

10-25-2009 12:02 am

Only nasty azz losers do trois aint no puzzy in the world worth me attempting to do two chicks

Nasty as muther fkers that why there are so many fkn dieases being spread in this world everybody trying to be the next bad azz in bed

Your life before a good nut that what I always say one woman one love….
momono3

momono3

10-24-2009 9:34 pm

sylk, the only way you get attention is probably with a three-some. you are the jump off i’m sure, the one doing all the freaky sh!t his main woman don’t want to do. but you don’t care. you just want it to be ’safe’.
momono3

momono3

10-24-2009 9:28 pm

anyone only worried about ’safety’ only, has no self esteem.
KillaDymeGurl15

KillaDymeGurl15

10-24-2009 7:37 pm

If you are having a threesome just to please your partner…the relationship will fail. You shouldn’t do anything for anyone else especially if you really do not want to do it.
sylkiifeather

sylkiifeather

10-24-2009 7:09 pm

just be safe about it….
TASTYCHOCOLATE317

TASTYCHOCOLATE317

10-24-2009 5:21 pm

If thats what you want go for it. Everyone has some type of fantasy.
dabbs

dabbs

10-24-2009 2:52 pm

Diseases doesn’t anybody care?
Rei777

Rei777

10-24-2009 1:45 pm

Da_J_Rok should be makin some money off of this! That cat is everywhere! Like Ray Lewis on the internet! Oh, and the article? Apparently, Friday has been officially handed to the skanks with booty call rules and tips for a threesome. Yeah, I guess even skanks gotta blog too, huh?
Sketch-of-Bmore

Sketch-of-Bmore

10-24-2009 1:34 pm

Thank you MZ_KNIGHTOWL…..This is pointless really.
momono3

momono3

10-24-2009 1:29 pm

I guessthis is just a ‘man thing’ because if two men on one woman means the man is gay, then the same goes for two women on one man. Somebody is either gay or in the way and I don’t see a self respecting woman going for this one. I don’t care how much you ‘gaze into my eyes’ if you have your finger up the other woman azz, how can you properly take care of me? That other woman is just in the way because she sure as hell can’t do nothing for me. I got to have ALL the attention. She just gonna have to wait til tomorrow for her turn with you.
mike_diesel27

mike_diesel27

10-24-2009 1:12 pm

Gotta agree with you LastMan. If it’s 2 women and 1 lucky man, it’s a menage’ trois. But if it’s 2 dudes and some trick, that’s a train lol. I don’t wanna be around some naked azz dude anyway with a hard dick in his hand. That shyt is for the birds.
LastManStandingTall

LastManStandingTall

10-24-2009 10:51 am

This is only good if it’s one guys and two girls. Only homos tag-team one girl. They really want each other and the girl is there as a beard/barrier…(LOL)

Only a skank wants two guys. Double-standard? ABSOLUTELY!
momono3

momono3

10-24-2009 9:14 am

I am a pretty open minded person, but this one has me stumped. why on earth would a person want to get freaky with more than one other person in the room. LOLOL. I like Drake and Andre Wu, but one at a time, please.
hotballz72

hotballz72

10-24-2009 2:39 am

a menage can be a beautiful thing as long as u have the stamina and know how to use every part of your body to keep the females excited and interested. da j rok u got some excellent points.
MZ_KNIGHTOWL

MZ_KNIGHTOWL

10-24-2009 2:10 am

LOL CRAZY A$$ TOPICS AND ADVICE,,,
soveu34

soveu34

10-24-2009 1:50 am

Is that like some type of french pie recipe trois

First you put the egg whites in the bowl than be sure to seperate the egg whites from the yolk

than you mix the vanilla liquer

than you Wtf…. Oh hell naw I’ll pass on this recipe not for my trying toodles dont let your noodles hang too low lmaoooooooooooo
Sen666

Sen666

10-24-2009 12:19 am

Agree that I think the author haven’t really had a threesome or did relevant research into it. @Da_J_Rok: I agree, you should’ve written this article! lol But in all seriousness, the points you brought up in the things that could make or break a threesome. Details, details!
Da_J_Rok

Da_J_Rok

10-23-2009 11:52 pm

As much as I be on here Sylkii, they should cut me a check… lol
sylkiifeather

sylkiifeather

10-23-2009 8:05 pm

@ Da_J_Rok…you should have written this article…you make alot of good points.
kennyd4

kennyd4

10-23-2009 7:24 pm

IS THIS FOOL SPEAKING FROM WHAT SHE DID OR SOME SHYT SHE READ,CAUSE IT SOUNDS TO ME SHE DONT KNOW JACK SHYT.
Da_J_Rok

Da_J_Rok

10-23-2009 7:11 pm

I wanna give advice to the fella’s who are fortunate enough to be involved in this beautiful activity.

Always focus your attention on your main chic, try to keep a hand on her, constantly lookin at her and kissing her as much as possible.

Never let your sex face show affection to the jump off, or this could result in an immediate ending to all future acts like this.

Not only should u give your main chic the rights to the first orgasm, but yours need to be in her as well.

Stick with this and you can keep a constant rotation of sexual fantasies, and most of all a happy main chic, who will do any and everything for you
Shamel_

Shamel_

10-23-2009 6:19 pm

LMMFAO!!! WOW!!! This is just too much. To each it’s own but…uh uh (smh)!!! The statement “It is in your best interest to know which p***s is where and to make sure that when it is your turn you have a fresh condom on it” was enough for me to get off this page. LOL!!!
2daTopnonStop

2daTopnonStop

10-23-2009 6:01 pm

I read them just to see what other out of the box topic are you goingto give “advice” on!