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No Judgement Fridays: 4 Tips For A Happy Menage A Trois

By Von-Anise McCoy October 23, 2009 5:04 pm

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When we think of a taboo subject menage a trois or threesomes (as we Americans say) are right at the top of the list. Most men will admit that this is their fantasy, even if they can barely handle one female at a time. Some women do it to please their man, yet some do it because it is their fantasy too. Whatever your reason, if you decide to go down this path there are certain things to keep in mind.

Be Safe: Condoms and dental dams are tools of this trade. There has to be enough to go around for everyone, so being a Costco shopper will prove to be extremely important.

Pay Attention: Do not let the lust, drugs and alcohol take over make sure that the safety tools are fresh for every mode of entrance. When people do things that society looks down upon they tend to use vices to get them through the experience. Keep your wits about you. It is in your best interest to know which penis is where and to make sure that when it is your turn you have a fresh condom on it.

Stay Busy: When your other partners are sexing it up, you have to be creative with your tongue, hands or even feet. This is not the time to lose inspiration or be conservative; stay in the game.

Set Ground Rules: Everyone does not like everything, so likes and dislikes should always be put on the table first. This is extremely important when we are talking about one girl and two guys. This is the time to list all of your sexual inhibitions so there are no surprises later.

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  • CHl_BAD_BlTCH
    CHl_BAD_BlTCH
    1-10-2010 3:22 pm

    Don’t! Not with your significant other! DON’T DO IT! Lol I had to learn the hard way. Me and my ex would invite one of his male friends to our bed every now and again and TO THIS DAY he brings that s**t up… Apparently I did or said something that implied I was enjoying his friend more than I was enjoying him… :|

    http://www.theblacklabelsociety.com

  • sorres
    sorres
    10-29-2009 11:06 am

    Threesome with a woman you real love is not cool…I can do it with some lesbo,that still like a man…It is also not cool with your girlfriend,i feel that,after everything you are going to hate her,depending on your rate of decency and conservativeness

    somebody said it all here…Two tango or a good company,Three a bloody crowd and there might be a riot afterwards

    http://www.tripleclicks.com/10162519

  • toodelicious4u
    toodelicious4u
    10-29-2009 9:55 am

    One girl and two guy’s in my opinion is not considered a threesome that’s considered running a train! To me it’s only a threesome when it’s two women and one man, or three of the same sex.

  • concreterosr
    concreterosr
    10-28-2009 12:07 am

    HB

  • momono3
    momono3
    10-27-2009 7:20 am

    CAN WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?

  • Brownting
    Brownting
    10-27-2009 5:59 am

    Dang! so much venom! so many opinions… it’s nasty! it’s beautiful! before a committed relationship! main chick getting the lion’s share! Jeez… what a load of BS….

    Take the broom stick out yow azz… there are many more things going on in this world that need our attention… that need us to get fired up about.
    So there are people that enjoy group sex… big deal! personally! it’s your business…
    As for the article being written in the first place? Why not? The says of sweeping untasteful things under the carpet and pretending it doesn’t exist is what contributed to sexual abuse and paedophilia.
    Yeah I said it…! Hide this stuff, it goes underground and some unsuspecting kid or low self esteem woman is going to pay the price.
    So all of you out there that are holier than thou, cheating on your spouses in thought or deed? destroying your partners self esteem by emasculating them or debasing them in public… all of you that are allowing yourselves to be victims for your children to learn how to be a victim… carry on throwing stones at other people… it’s easier than saying… I aint shyt either so let me live and let live!

  • SonyaM97
    SonyaM97
    10-26-2009 10:48 am

    Well, I think that a lot of men have this fantasy. If a couple does this and they’re in a committed relationship, they must be very secure with themselves – and the relationship. The women have to have an open mind and have some lesbo tendencies as well. I don’t think a 100% straight chick would do it as she would at some point have to get it on w/the other woman. Not judging anyone because I bet more people (who are good people) have done it but wouldn’t admit to it.

  • blakk_gangsta
    blakk_gangsta
    10-26-2009 8:12 am

    How can yall do an article bout sex and still manage to miss? Quit your day job and just start watching Fox news between the two of you I’m not sure who is worse for the black community.

  • arozendaghetto
    arozendaghetto
    10-25-2009 10:10 pm

    And what does Jennifer Hudson (Pic 1) and Ludacris (Pic 7) eating a whole box of Pizza by himself got to do with the Happy Menage A Trois article? LOL

    wow…LOL… you go Hello Beautiful

  • arozendaghetto
    arozendaghetto
    10-25-2009 10:06 pm

    Who asked for an article on this? LMBO!!!

    Well there you go. Menage a Trois Basics 101

  • HOTNWETLIPZ
    HOTNWETLIPZ
    10-25-2009 8:32 pm

    WTH is going on what are up with these articles. So now they are saying threesomes are good, dang we are all going to hell quick, fast n in a hurry. What happens to telling the truth about the situation, woman if u allow yourself to fall prey to this, it will ruin your relationship plain n simple. Personally I dont care to share anything and definitely not my man. What happened to respect and self worth I guess that flew out of the window, so we might as well have a huge orgy, “NOT” I’ve heard to many sob stories from my chicas than to fall prey to this nonsense.

  • sylkiifeather
    sylkiifeather
    10-25-2009 6:49 pm

    @ nanapeppa…i agree too. i would never do that with my man and set myself up for disaster…in fact, i couldnt really imagine doing that if i were single either…but to each his own.

  • Shamel_
    Shamel_
    10-25-2009 6:31 pm

    nanapeppa, I could not have said it better!!! That is exactly why my comment below I politely “PASSED” on that (smh)! Most women who do this do it to please a man and if I can keep it “100″ (I wasn’t going to say it but what the hey…) the few guys I know that have had threesomes DID NOT like that s#!t and felt like having a third party there was a COMPLETE waste. After all what is the other chick suppose to be doin’ while he is gettin it on with the other??? My point exactly!!!! 1Divine_soul, HB at it’s best ANOTHER LAME A$$ topic (smh)!

  • nanapeppa
    nanapeppa
    10-25-2009 5:47 pm

    All things sexual and freaky involving three or more individuals should be done prior to serious involvement (engagements & marriage) and never with someone you plan on sharing a life and creating a family with. Only a person lacking in self-esteem and self-respect will participate in such an act alongside someone they refer to as “boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse,” anyway. The home and bedroom is a sacred domain and should be cherished and respected. Once a third-party is allowed in, all decency, love and beauty is slowly bled out.

    Two’s Company… Three’s a Crowd – Period!

  • momono3
    momono3
    10-25-2009 4:34 pm

    I guess I just can’t believe anyone with a mugg like yours think they have a hater or a follower.

  • 1Divine_soul
    1Divine_soul
    10-25-2009 3:02 pm

    I thought this was about the wine: Menage a tois…this is so degrading AND I AM THINKING ABOUT DELETING MY ACCOUNT OFF OF THIS….WE NEED QUALITY AND REPUBLICANS WON’T EVEN SUPPORT SCENTED CANDLES!!!

  • sylkiifeather
    sylkiifeather
    10-25-2009 2:48 pm

    smh @ momono3…what the hell is your obsession with me? following me around HB attacking me lol. you seem to love to follow the things i say. you remember what i wrote a long time ago about kelly rowland and now this. again, i am flattered that my words invoke such comments from you. its not that serious…please move on. do you honestly know how pathetic you look lmao…

    nothing makes me smile more than a hater———> =)

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