7 Tips For Successful Gold Digging
There are certain women that have “it” and when we say “it” that is an intangible quality that can not be defined; the french call it je ne sais quoi. This group of women can get men to do whatever, pay for trips, cars and even the mortgage. We are not talking about the average girl, beauty has something to do with it– but that is just a small part. Being a phenomenal woman is another component, but it really seems to be more about these woman’s routine.
Today is No Judgement Fridays, so here goes the 7 habits of highly effective gold digging:
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1) Spend time by yourself first: This is not for the weak of mind, so you really must feel like a million bucks inside and out. Men, especially rich ones can smell insecurity, so get yourself together.
2) Have Coy Confidence: Wealthy men have loads of confidence so you have to be confident and also play hard to get; never eliminate the chase factor.
3) Don’t Be A Hoe: Rich men like the rare, so if you give it to any and everyone you are cheapening your value.
4) Must Be In the Circle: You must frequent the places where the wealthy go; money attracts money.
5) Keep Your Look Tight: That is a key factor of your job, so recognize it. Gold Diggers are not allowed to have down time.
6) Have the Ability To Size Up Your Man: This is a part of your skill set; you always have to know what it takes to maintain that man emotionally, physically and spiritually. He is your meal ticket so his needs ALWAYS supersede yours.
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7) Be Honest: This one may shock you, but honesty is always the best policy. True gold diggers are not liars. They are manipulative by nature, not as a ploy; that’s just who they are and a lot of men have no problem with it.
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Peter_Black
I knew this gold digging chick. All of her time was spent on trying to get something out of a guy, Until one guy shot her in the head and kick out of the car. Literally. The only person shed a tear was her mother. Moral of the story is, get your own. Its not that hard for black women to get jobs. White people will hire a black women before a black men any day. Just get your own.
CHl_BAD_BlTCH
Lol I hate this term. Its like if you don’t want to date a guy thats making minimum wage you’re a gold digger!. Its not fair to say things like this especially given that some women never ASK these men for anything… I wouldn’t even consider a woman that always has her hand out a gold digger… I’d say she’s just trifling.
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I_Jus_B_Blaz_n
idk y the f**k they got these chicks up as gold diggers, for example.. kimora. she was doing well before simmons came and swooped her up. stupid ass BP,
0VancouverHurts
I might follow up on some of these tips….I hope I don’t fail!
Pocahontas_
LMAO @ Sylkee Feather! LOL! Way too funny! Yeah this article was dumb I just read it because I was bored..
TMAC_35000
LMAO!
najaca
Gold digging is the wrong word. Women should be with successful men, not necessarily rich men. The focus should be on finding security, not someone to buy you things. As someone who dates wealthy men, its not the money you focus on, but the ambition, the intelligence and the willingness to protect and build a family. That’s not gold digging. Its good to know how to get and keep a man interested. No woman should have to settle for someone that doesn’t have their stuff together. Everyone, male or female, should try to find a partner that is going to bring some sort of fulfillment to their life. Money is not the central point; but the ability to provide and protect the family is important. Don’t date a broke man, that can’t barely take care of himself. Definitely look for someone that has the ability to take care of himself and knows how to keep money in the bank.
ZMWright
Ya’ll gotta hear what this dude said about this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8KDqhbsdx0
Mr_Patches
Who approved this article?
Da_J_Rok
lol… heres a shovel…lol
CaliFemme23
This is extremely dissappointing when we have articles that teach women how to be disgraces, slackers and low class…yes, gold-digging is low class. Not one article on how to be a good woman or how to get along with your mate…but one on how to manipulate and sit on your azz and kiss a man’s azz to get what you want…HB needs to be shut down.
sylkiifeather
WOW…i wonder whats next HB…how to kill your husband and get away with his life insurance…
Stan_Vinyl
I know HELLO BEAUTIFUL is for the women… But is there not the slightest respect for our community as a whole?
I fight everyday to teach my daughters differently and coach my son on spending his money wisely and you counter my parenting by posting this article? There is always the possibilty of this frame of thought running rampant!
Gold digging is shameful, no matter on what level you do it. People become stock, the true capacity to be human begins to dissipate & the human experience decimates.
Black women should go for theirs by all means but to reduce the black womans mentality to mindless assessments of what a person is wearing thus and therefore what they may have in their account s just damn scary!
WestsideCartelAtl85
WTF? SMFH. So now Hello Beautiful is encouraging females to be golddiggers now? What’s next?
2BUTFUL
kimora is not a damn gold digger!..she helped build Baby Phat…and true it might have been wit Russels money but they worked as a TEAM>>>H8RS<<<<
mamangel67218
HAHAHAHA