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Abiola Abrams

Abiola Abrams

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It is not easy being a haute mess, but I try! Some people will not like you no matter what so just BE YOU and give the haters something to talk about.

Is Cyber Sex Cheating?

By Abiola Abrams June 17, 2009 12:30 pm

Hey Cupcakes,

This should be fun! Once a week I’ll be giving you the chance to watch a reader advice question answered by 4 different writers and personalities. Today– is cybersex cheating?

I’m no expert in Cyber Sex… Only atrocious dating! Just kidding. But maybe if this is something your man or woman is into, maybe you can be into it together. Hmmm. And would it have killed me to brush my hair?! lol… Check it out…

Abiola from PlanetAbiola.com Answers

Author Maryann Reid of Marry Your Baby Daddy Answers

Tina from LoveEmOrLeaveEm.com Answers

Sarah of NoRicksAllowed.com Answers


What do you think? Don’t leave me by my lonesome, leave a comment…

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Abiola Abrams is the author of Dare, host of TV shows like BET’s The Best Shorts, and “Miss Picky” from VH1’s romantic comedy reality dating series Tough Love.

TAGS: Abiola Abrams, cheating, men, relationships, sex, videos
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  • dreameyes2007
    dreameyes2007
    7-23-2009 4:20 pm

    i think it is but thats just my opnion.1 devine you are so right

  • SnapshotNTime
    SnapshotNTime
    6-30-2009 4:03 pm

    Yes it is. Anytime you emotionally, mentally, physically, etc. give more to someone else than you give to your mate it is cheating. No if’s and’s or but’s about it.

  • Azrael3
    Azrael3
    6-18-2009 7:08 pm

    Any form of lust after another person (other than the person you are in a relationship with) is cheating.

  • midtowniron
    midtowniron
    6-18-2009 2:54 pm

    how is it cheating… so when u dream of doing it wit another is cheating…. is looking at a beautiful person and have a split thought of enjoyment cheatin cant cheat unless u r having sex… make up ur ming we r human n sum tymes ventin whatever u may not feel comfort n ya mate 4 what ever reasons may help b more mad at the sex then the fantasy… The Demon

  • Justmetta_07
    Justmetta_07
    6-18-2009 2:07 pm

    Yes, cybersex is cheating… deviating from ur commitment with ur partner by sharing ur most intimate thoughts with someone else is cheating… plus ppl say u will never meet that person, thats not always true.. if ur questioning it, maybe u shouldnt do it.

  • 1Divine_soul
    1Divine_soul
    6-18-2009 9:15 am

    Mr. Equan I def. have to disagree. CyberSex is definitely cheating..and all ppl should end up in Cyberhell that take part. If you have to fantasize with someone else sexualy you should always tell the person you are with about their insufficiencies…This is the reason the world thinks we men are Doggs!!! =-(((( very upset!!

  • fuller77
    fuller77
    6-18-2009 12:40 am

    cyber sex does not exist. it’s just something some jagoff made up because some bottom feeding college gave them a degree.

  • lilhottchick04
    lilhottchick04
    6-18-2009 12:13 am

    Whateva kind of sex you are having with another person besides your spouse is cheating

  • AnGeL_N_DiS_KiZe
    AnGeL_N_DiS_KiZe
    6-17-2009 11:46 pm

    I must agree with Wolfi_G on this one. it most certainly is. it may not be in the flesh but it still doesnt make it right
    starts off with an email. then a web chat. then a call then in person. these are all temptations. if you need to be intimate with a person other than your spouse whether it’s visually in person you might wanna question whether or not you’re with the right person or even ready to be in a relationship. there’s no such thing as an open relationship because sooner or later feelings and emotions get tied in and it becomes a conflict of interest. so think before you link. it just might bite you in the behind. anyways, love ya bp and i’m outta here… good night :)

  • Mr_Equan
    Mr_Equan
    6-17-2009 10:34 pm

    NO! Understand what’s going on when 2 COMPUTERS are communicating in an online environment. When you are typing and send messages to someone, you don’t really know who you’re sending it to. Anyone can post a pic and say it’s them. The fact is online communication is nothing more than 2 or more systems communicating. I know when I send this post, anyone who has a pc and internet can read it, but none of you really know who sent it.

  • tsg2814
    tsg2814
    6-17-2009 10:29 pm

    It is most definitely cheating!

  • ChannelJ
    ChannelJ
    6-17-2009 10:24 pm

    Is Cyber Sex Cheating? YeAH

  • Wolfi_G
    Wolfi_G
    6-17-2009 9:58 pm

    There’s no point in trying to justify it.

    -If you have to hide it, then its wrong.
    -If you don’t want your partner doing it, then its wrong.
    -If you have to ASK if its wrong….

    … yeah you probably shouldn’t do it.

    C’mon people. E-Sex is fun, but now is not the time to start looking for loopholes in your monogamous relationship. Get real!

  • day_nite
    day_nite
    6-17-2009 9:42 pm

    no it is not

  • Ten_A_Key_Dime
    Ten_A_Key_Dime
    6-17-2009 8:30 pm

    ….cyber sex is cheating…but in a different form i guess…you are lusting and thinking bout what ever your talking about

  • 313rdAssassin
    313rdAssassin
    6-17-2009 8:25 pm

    Grown folks cyber sex??? GROW UP PEOPLE!

  • DMY19151
    DMY19151
    6-17-2009 7:06 pm

    YES IT IS CHEATING……

  • EricaIsSincere
    EricaIsSincere
    6-17-2009 6:33 pm

    Cyber Sex, phone sex, its sex but its just n a different form So yes it’s cheating.

  • DAREALRECKLESS
    DAREALRECKLESS
    6-17-2009 5:10 pm

    YES! people these day try to justify ANYTHING!

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