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How Freaky Should You Get In The Bedroom?
Over the past couple weeks, I’ve been seeing a reoccurring theme regarding relationships: what happens when sexual desires go unfulfilled?
On the Michael Baisen show, they set aside part of the show to talk about why men look to their mistresses to fulfill certain sexual desires his wife won’t touch. “Half the time, men don’t even ask the wife to do that freaky stuff!” Michael said. “They don’t bother, because they know they will get shut down.”
A few days later, I was watching a sermon on TV, by the first lady of a local church. She was talking about how she fulfilled her husband’s every need, as a good Christian wife should. She said (and I quote!), “I keep my man satisfied. I ask him, ‘How you do want it? Where do you want it? What position? I lay it on him so good, he can’t do nothing else but preach! ‘Cause I know there’s another woman waiting in the wings, but he’s too tired to go after her! He has no need for her!” As I heard the women in the audience give out their “Amen, sister!” I thought about it. Should women (and men) be willing to do whatever it takes to keep their partner happy in the bedroom?
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iconua34
a0It’s’cook the kitchen, lady in the streets’(Ima suthern gal) b) that’s how I got my husband. c)Bringing another into your bedroom(3sums) I feel is a damn setup for something to go wrong. Yes…FREEK UR SPOUSE!
slownsexy318
Ladies,Ladies,Ladies: Betty Wright says it best, a man want a cook in the kitchen a lady in the sheets, you can’t show your teeth to every guy you meet, its alright to be a little sweet, be a mother to your kids and U know What in the sheets,”No Pain, No Gain” i tend to live by that motto and I havent went wrong yet. I am a young widow though.
different_mentality
funny enoughihave plent ofmale friends married and umarried whohave cheated ina relatioships and they said the sex was good ..when i asked them why they cheated they usally said they didnt no the onest ones just admitted that they were greedy they admitted that had a good woman at home and still stepped out ..ladies dont buy into thAT bulls**t …i have had females friends that have fullfilled all there mans fantasies right down to even having a 3 some and he still cheated….
Kissmylyrics
Amen(o) in the medical field means without, and when we fast or there some type of abstinence from something we receive the greatest benefit. Even more than that in the dictionary, celebrity is located so close to celibate. Look at the word root.
Dude_stay_Fresh1
Yooo… When or If I get married.. My shorty will have to Put it down.. They are right, most guys wont approach their woman about certain freaky shyt we may want to do.. but thats b/c most woman arent experienced sexually or possibly they arent just into the supa freaky sex.. Me personally I say.. the freakier then better… I like woman who are wayy more freakier then me.. Now that keeps a dude around!!!!
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SpoilMeRottn_1
There is no limit to where you go with your husband/wifey. If you cant let loose and communicate your needs then youre not with your soul mate.
N_D_SKIES
you suppose to do what it takes, thats why it good to find someone like yourself when it come to sex, if you like head find someone that likes head not someone who doesn’t sex is 80% of a relationship if you don’t get that right then SOMEONE ELSE WILL.
LyRicAlLyiNcLiNeD
yeah do what u have to… no just to keep them (him or her) from going to get someone else to do it… but just because they want to… just as they should do for u
BabyGyrl810
simply put…hell yes!! u should do whatever it takes to keep ur partner happy…sometimes u need a little variety to spice things u and ur partner into you..especially if u have been married for years! ladies, fellas try almost anything atleast once with your partner…give and take…
BabyGyrl810
simply put…hell yes!! u should do whatever it takes to keep ur partner happy…sometimes u need a little variety to spice things u and ur partner into you..especially if u have been married for years! ladies, fellas try almost anything atleast once with your partner…give and take…like they always say…what you wont do another man or woman will!! and one more thing…talk to your partner!! that is so important…a lot of time your partner and you are thinking the same things but niether of u will open and talk about it…but anyway that just my opinion…