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Why Do Black Men Love White Women?

By Hello Beautiful December 3, 2009 10:30 am

Russell_Simmons and white girl

With the recent Tiger Woods drama with his white jumpoff’s, it got us thinking why are black men so fascinated with white women once they become successful?

Some say a black man might like to take part in a relationship with a white woman because they are not familiar with the race.This gives the relationship in itself a kind of thrill, and makes it one to store in the memory box. The white woman looks different, acts different, smells different, comes from a different world.

A black man knows a black woman like the back of his hand, so this makes the black woman a bit of a bore.  They then seek out the unknown or thrill they think they’ll get with a white woman which they think will get them out of the  little box which they live in.

We found a website/blog that is exploring the fascination with white women and has started a dialogue for everyone to weigh in on. The site, afieldnegro.com, has put together a plethora of examples that may or may not be surprising in an effort to open up the floor to this discussion.

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TAGS: black men, dating, interracial, white women
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  • JoyceMB
    JoyceMB
    2-25-2010 4:43 pm

    Let’s stop people. It is understood that it has only been 60 years since black men were killed for even looking at a white woman. Emmett Louis Till was killed in 1955, at the age of 14, for whistling at a white woman. In some states interacial relationships are still being looked down upon. Black folks need a healing to begin with……we need to be freed from the Willie Lynch Syndrome: “good hair vs bad hair”, “light skin vs dark skin”. What’s sad is that I have actually heard men and woman of color say they want to have a biracial baby so that it would have “good hair”. Sad. These fools, yes fools, don’t realize that there is a chance that their child will have kinky hair too. I say, love you first and whoever is meant for you is meant for you.
    Sistahs, stay up and know that a man does not validate who you are. If a brotha wants to be with a woman of another race so be it. It’s his world. Brothas, understand that some sistas are taught to be strong mindedand have gone through some bad relationships. If she has too much baggage you need to let her go anyway, let her grow. Not to give an excuse, but it is true, men and women alike of all nationalities tend to put people in catagories hence the term “act white or black”. What is that? So, only white people can be educated and talk this bastard language called English. Only white people can invest in stocks and own major corporations and send their children to college without taking on 2 or 3 jobs. We need to grow people. I have dated men of almost every race and they were all the same, but the man I have now loves me and makes me feel so good. :) I am forever glowing. I told him in the beginning “I have some growing to do and we can grow together or you can let me go” that was two years ago and we are planning to marry soon

  • msmassie08
    msmassie08
    2-23-2010 12:47 pm

    I have nothing aganist white boys but can’t nobody ever replace a chocolate man’s essence. The way he walks, the way he talks, his inner strength. No white boy can ever come close to that. I just want and am more comfortable. Sorry white boys.

  • odoggz
    odoggz
    2-23-2010 11:46 am

    Personally, women are women. They’re mostly all programmed the same so I don’t feel you have to be stuck with 1 type (race, religion, whatever). On the other hand, I don’t believe many others, outside of black and latino, who can deal with me. I want to be myself, I want to be understood fully, and barely have any black or latinas who ‘get it’, so the next group probably will NEVER understand me. For that reason alone, I stay away from the other groups, but not for race issues. This is about ME not some stupid racial features. P***y is universal, headaches are universal, but if you can’t speak to the person I am, I don’t need you, whatever color you are.
    Now, the beef I have is all these black chicks trying to be a copy of white women, in an attempt to show the world she is “successful” or “independent”! I hate them! Do your faking of European features, voice training to sound all nasally and nonthreatening, whatever you to do to appear more “white”, in your mind… but If it’s all like that, why would a brother want you? He’d do better getting the real thing, a REAL white woman. Be yourself and no other groups stand a chance against you black women!

  • peoplestopthemadness
    peoplestopthemadness
    2-9-2010 2:17 pm

    Black men who love white women, want to marry white women, or want to just date them have mental and self hate issues….bottom line. God made the races to procreate amongst each other thus keeping nations unified. If everyone dipped into other races…everyone would look the same…No black race, white race, red race, brown race etc….just a plain race of people that would have everyone wondering what the hell is he or she mixed up with….everyone would be a group of MUTTS.

  • trisha_369
    trisha_369
    1-23-2010 3:24 pm

    @Imizcool damn son you went threw 25 pages to get to just 1 of my comments and over look all the ones who spoke some-what the same thing? HB didn’t post 1 of my comments to you and I don’t know why but,let me just say this your the dumba$$ and an ignorant one at that-I didn’t say I had a problem with white women dating black men. My problem is the ones who look down on black women and outline us as nododys as if the white woman or other race of women are so much better. If that was the case they wouldn’t cheat on they a$$ either as you can see Tiger,OJ,Koby,Lamar,etc and why is it a reason why you date outside your race instead of your inlove with someone who is of a differnt race than yours? Stop using these lame as reason that black women have an attitude,didn’t step up her game,don’t want a poor man,don’t support a brother,don’t understand nor comfort him,etc. When really its the other way around-SOME black men don’t know a good thing when its standing in his face-all his see is a reason to leave or want to leave. Wanting to be like Mike and have his cake and eat it too. So the next time you want to hop on that bandwagon of asuming a$$es-please read my comments real good and then respond because its people like you who are not welcome the half a$$ and asuming readers-who grab the cow by the a$$ and run with it before they realize its a bull. Just know I don’t give a rats a$$ who date who as long as you respect the fact that NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE THE SAME. I see its people like you who give the jail,prison,and cops a job. Attitude is within us all and not just our skin color you dumb ignorant a$$ fool. SLMAOAU! :)

  • kingcantona
    kingcantona
    1-14-2010 4:49 am

    i need lady in any part of the world am on line any time kingcantona42@yahoo.com is my I.D or call me on +233245039093/+233272661001

  • Imizcool
    Imizcool
    1-13-2010 2:42 pm

    All of the black women who want to race bait because black men love to date white women and women of other races, kill the noise. When black women cannot get the black man because of her attitude, she resorts to playing the race card, but the race card is losing its effectiveness.

    Trisha 369 and crammasters are the biggest race baiters. WhyDoTheyLeave is another racist millitant who think playing the race card will work to any effectiveness. If you guys cannot stand the thought of a black man dating let alone marrying a white, asian, hispanic or a middle eastern woman, then leave, cause you race baiters are not welcome. This is not 1930, it’s 2010 dumb asses.

  • CHl_BAD_BlTCH
    CHl_BAD_BlTCH
    1-10-2010 2:21 pm

    I say everyone stop dating within their own race… and eventually we’ll have one mega race and then their will be different reasons for us to discriminate against each other :D

    http://www.theblacklabelsociety.com

  • eyron
    eyron
    12-29-2009 11:47 am

    And oh, well said greywolf, I just navigate through the bull because ultimately, there is someone for everyone.

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