Do You Have A Sugardaddy, Or Are You A Hooker?
When someone that you’re sleeping with is giving you money, a fine line between “well-kept” and “prostitute” is drawn. Hey, we didn’t make the rules – that’s just how it works. So what happens when you have a Sugardaddy? Well, you’re technically “dating” him, but if he’s married, you’re his mistress. So you sleep with him, and he buys you things, or gives you money to buy things yourself. But wait – doesn’t sex + money = prostitution???
Confused yet? The Frisky tries to clear things up. Read the article below.
[From TheFrisky.com]
This weekend’s New York Times Sunday Magazine had a lengthy feature on SeekingArrangements.com, an online dating site which matches affluent men (or at least men willing to shill out what money they have) with women who are willing to trade companionship and often sex in exchange for money, gifts, and other perks. Half of these sugar daddies are married, while the vast majority of the sugar babies are in their ‘20s. The best news of all for these guys? Sugar babies outnumber sugar daddies 10 to 1. Brandon Wade, Seeking Arrangement’s 38-year-old founder and chief executive, says, “We stress that these relationships are mutually beneficial. We ask people to really think about what they want in a relationship and what they have to offer. That kind of upfront honesty is a good basis for any relationship.”
Some of these men – especially those shopping for women half their age – are digging deep into their pockets to pay for an illusion: that despite their receding hairlines and wattled skin, they’re still enchanting enough to charm pretty young women…. Men may use money as a way to buy themselves out of the normal obligations of romance, like accommodating a woman’s emotional needs as much as their own. But despite the power and security that the money buys, it can also undercut the very ego it’s intended to boost.
In those cases where sex occurs between the daddy and baby, some of the women say that an attraction is necessary, while others are quick to ‘fess up that if not for the lavish gifts and money, the relationship wouldn’t exist. “It would be nice not to have the money involved,” says B.K., one of the sugar daddies interviewed for the story. “You always wonder: would she still want to be with me even without the money? Does the money make me more attractive than I really am?”
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memehoutx
If u go sleep wit a man u might as well get sumthing 4 it besides a nut that u kan get ur damn self..its dog chase the cat and prostitution (which the media calls it) have been here since the bible days…Expectionally if ur sleeping wit a married man and he’s having his cake and eatin it 2 u dumb a$$ b***he’$ betta charge his a$$ bekuz u betta believe when he get around the boys he’s talkin about him fukking the $hit out u and goin home wit the woman he so call luv..Im jus being truthful and u squares kan take it how u wana bekuz while he’s talkin that 4hit wit his boys im talking about how i break the $hit out of him every sec, min, and hr that i get the chance wit my girls..4real..
TchMeThere
BlackTomCruise….Betonce has her own money, and she had it before J, her career will last a lot longer than his too, so maybe he the one in it for the money.
meme22222
I’m with an older man, not because I want his money, but because I like him for who he is! I met him at work and he’s 17 years older than me. Guys my age (I’m 25) are way too immature for me. And we built our empire together.
najaca
I personally could not have a sugardaddy; however I do not see a problem with it. If both parties agreed on the situation, it’s no one’s business. However, I believe it is a temporary situation. Usually the man that wants a woman, does not want to emotional entanglements of a relationship, but enjoys the company of a woman, not only sexually, but as a friendship between two busy people. The woman should also understand that he doesn’t want a relationship; the benefit of the relationship is that you remain independent. However it’s bad when the wrong kind of women, that do not know how to make their own money and be independent want the full-time, long-term help of a man. That sort of lifestyle is shaky and it’s a stupid move. However, what is wrong with dating a man or woman, that enjoys your company and gifts you? I don’t see a problem. As long as both parties understand the perimeters of the relationship, it’s no one’s business.
The-Chocolate-Man
Mr. Will1 U r so wrong to pegg gold digging mostly on women. A lot of men r just as bad and only want to pimp women.
Women love to be spoiled, so does men. Its not about the number. It goes both ways.
The-Chocolate-Man
MMMmmmm!I personally like Rihanna because she is iconic/in many ways talent/attractive among other things. On the other hand although I dont think Rihanna is a lesbian-Gay. I do beleive the girl is either bi-sexual or bi-curious. Come to think of it, if she loves it both ways? That makes her even more intresting. Rishaan girl you are WANTEDDDD! The Bsharpp2 “Rihanna Shakee” on myspace/youtube about Rihanna/Chris Brown/Janet Jackson/Etc (even Oprah is in it) brakak it down perfectly about her could very well be bi-sexual or bi-curious. Check it out!
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onyx11_76
I think having a sugar daddy is disgusting, Having sex with a man for what he can buy you is just sad. It ain’t that much money in the world that would make me have sex with a man 30 years older than me that I am not the least bit attracted to him. I am doing just fine providing for my self and getting what I want and need.
BlackTomCruise2
I totally agree witcha ILLWILL, and hell yea its all about the money wit most women, I say most bcuz they still have some good women out there, unfortunately their like endangered species now days..lol..Ive had a several women come at me wit that “u gotta pay 2 play” bulls**t and these hoes dont even care if ya married or single, they jus wanna bleed ya ass 4 every dime ya got then move on 2 the next fool!….and they wonder we run clean thru em then move on 2 the next chic..haha..I learned the system from studyin women 2….its proven all the time wit these big time appearance mismatches….perfect example, and not 2 b hatin on em but we c this all the time…..these multi million dollar athletes, rappers, actors, whatever….wit these unbelievably gorgeous ass women, knowin damn well if it wasnt for their millionaire status or fame it never happen….hell Im still tryin 2 figure out if Beyonce really loves Jay or his money???….lol
shyscorpio1
i have a neighbor who lives upstairs from me who lost her job a few months ago. before that time she and her 5 year old and 6 month old were quiet as mice, then the job fell throw and losts of late night visitors started showing up and sqeeking her bed every night. then she ran into an ARAB dude who she fixated on and he could stay as long as he wanted. he was obviously the SUGARDADDY she was hoping for, but then as soon as he left, another customer would pull up and she make her money the old fashioned way, AS FAST AS POSSIBLE!!!
if this pretty 20 something black female doesnt keep her lies straight, that ARAB dude isnt going to settle for beating the crap out of her!
she is in serious danger if she doesnt get her head out her ass and drop the prostitution gig soon
ILLWILL_704
i think that golddiggin is more of a womans problem then men, thats why most men arent looking for relationships becuase these overly pampered overgrown female babies are in it only form the money hmmm ROBIN GIVENS HMMM LISA RAYE JUSSSST 2 MENTION A FEW ….AND THATS A VERY FEW. OH WELL PLAY ON PLAYAZ EVERY MAN AND WOMAN FOR THEIR SELF I LEARNED MY GAME FROM HOW WOMEN PLAY IT. IT TOOK ME TO GET PLAYED IN ORDER TO PLAY SO MY GAME IS STRONG AS HECK AND LOL IRONIC AS IT SOUNDS I LEARNED HOW TO RUN GAME BY WATCHING WOMEN DO IT TO US.