Can A Man Change His Cheating Ways?
While we’re not sure what the real story is with Tiger Woods, it got us to thinking about the old saying “Once a cheater, always a cheater”. Unfortunately, it’s up to the cheater to decide the answer to that question. They have to make a dedicated decision to change and the only way to do that is to first identify the reasons for their infidelity in the first place.
Check out the five most common reasons for cheating from shine.com:
Unhappy relationship
Sometimes, people find themselves in a relationship that is bringing them down. Either they’re constantly being nagged, there’s a lack of trust and communication, or all three. This puts your relationship in the danger zone and you seriously need to rethink why you’re with the person. If you’re not happy, chances are your significant other isn’t either…which could lead to seeking pleasure elsewhere.
10 signs your husband is cheating
Lack of empathy
Occasionally, you might find yourself with an ice king or queen with a heart of stone. These people are typically closed off to feelings for different various reasons, which is normally a defense mechanism used when the person is insecure and afraid of getting hurt. Because of their tremendous fear, they end up cheating on you to avoid future pain. These people often tend to be serial daters whose vice is promiscuity in order to avoid commitment… Are you afraid of getting serious?
Need for excitement
These people are all about the thrill and will probably grow out of cheating if it has become a habit. They want a relationship and get attached, but lust for excitement due to immaturity.
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momono312-10-2009 2:36 am
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ThaiLuv12-9-2009 11:44 am
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Lahdeia12-7-2009 9:34 pm
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kbneville12-7-2009 3:55 pm
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momono312-6-2009 5:56 pm
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King Solomon had how many wives AND concubines (women you are NOT married to), yet God called him ‘a man after His own heart. But that’s right. King Sol was black, and black men love lots of women.
ThaiLuv
Yes, I do believe that a man can change his cheating ways if he is dilligent and prayerful enough. We are drawn out and entice by our own desires, so there would have to be a massive mental exodus of any internal or external stimuli that would cause him to be drawn to that lifestyle. Desires turn into inclinations if they are uncontrolled. He would definitely have to have a solid relationship with God and be determined to transform himself.
Lahdeia
You know, I have always believed when you don’t want to be with some one any more, or don’t want to be married to the same person anymore, a divorce or just break up will work, why cheat?
I simply do not understand it. If I am tired of you I think we should sit down and talk, before anyone cheats. I could never trust that person again, after the cheating has been done. I ‘m not sure if a cheater can change, because that doubt will always be there.
kbneville
Yes, a man can change his cheating ways. He just has to WANNA change them.
momono3
A woman goes into a relationship WANTING the man to change. But a man goes into a relationship, NEVER WANTING the woman to change.
toodelicious4u
I honestly believe that a man can change his cheating ways but, he wont do it when his girl wants him to he’ll do it when he’s ready. It takes that certain woman that can break him down and make him view life in a different way. I believe that if he’s deeply in love than he can change if he really wanted to.
momono3
A cheating man does not come in a particular ‘box’. Some men are handsome cheaters, but sometimes you can look at a cheating man and think to yourself “Do you mean to tell me that YOU have the nerve to be unfaithful”.