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5 Ways To Make More Time For Sex

By Hello Beautiful September 29, 2009 3:00 pm

black couple and sexNo matter how much you’re in love, if you’re like many women who try to juggle too much, your sex life can go by the wayside before you even realize it. Here are some tips to keep your sex life active and fun:

1) Make physical intimacy a priority. Have sex first, not last. Make sure that sex isn’t last on the night’s to-do list. Instead of laundry, clean up the house, watch TV and have sex, it’s laundry, sex, TV, and more sex.

2) Make the most out of your time together. Sometimes, it is difficult to get into the mood immediately after grandma comes over to pick up the kids. If you know that you’ll have a little free time later, drop hints and seductively set the mood a little early. For example, send your partner a naughty text mail or email before grandma comes. This works well even with both partners are at home. Other ideas include: hold their hand while you are driving home or slowly help your partner undress.

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3) Have a date night! If you live with extended family, find a way to create some real boundaries to solidify your time alone with your partner. Try hiring a babysitter one night every two weeks, and go out to a nice dinner or visit some of the spots you enjoyed when you first began dating. Try to make your ‘date night’ a day in the middle of the week so you’ll beat the Friday night crowd and have more private time together.

4) Pay attention to your natural habits. If you’re a night owl and your spouse isn’t, join your spouse in bed for sex, then get up again to do things like read or chat with friends on the phone.

5) Time management.  Squeeze in unexpected bouts of sex when you and your partner both have a free block of time. Hotels are a great way to spend a free hour in the afternoon.

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  • ih82b12u
    ih82b12u
    10-5-2009 9:27 am

    I can put everybody’s mind at ease on this one. Three a.m., on your lunch break (of course, clean up afterward prior to going back to work), and shower sex is the best. Now, case close. lol

  • sylkiifeather
    sylkiifeather
    9-30-2009 9:48 pm

    @ I8ThaPussSoRite….i agree…sex gets boring after a while…which is why i dont ever see myself getting married (well one of the reasons lol).

  • kbsweetnest25
    kbsweetnest25
    9-30-2009 5:58 pm

    Sex is just want you make out of it; if its not what you want then you wan’t make time for it…You have to deal with Sex; love making just like you want your relationship to work. Not doing the samething ALL the time. Do some role playing. Go to the club-(not together) & meet up there in the club, but after which one of you seating on the other side of the room; can see one another. Then at which time if the other one is getting so many invites to either dance or drinks at which your turning them down, make your move across the room… at your partner for the samething…..make a night of making it like your first time seeing one another…. flint some, and watch the eyes that are looking for which you two turned downed…
    Take time to do alot of things that you do so hard to get a date for……
    Don’t make love at the sametime, same way…it gets boring. Get to know your partner body; the touch, feel of what they like and don’t like. ALOT WILL COME OUT ON TOP…. Trust.

  • I8ThaPussSoRite
    I8ThaPussSoRite
    9-29-2009 8:47 pm

    @ kb & sylki

    I like your attitude lol but its diffrent after you get married, the thrill is gone after a while unless you kno how to spice it up give space enough in between sessions that you miss havin it or your significant other is jus so hott dat you cant get enough lol

    I already kno im have a hard time with long term one woman marraige usually after the 3rd time witha girl ive explored every angle an im good with never sexin her again, now polygamy on the other hand i can get into lol

  • live_ent13
    live_ent13
    9-29-2009 7:26 pm

    This will be great for the person that I’m currently beginning to get involved with cuz we both do so much n we live n 2 different states that aren’t far away. But this will be good for the both of us cuz imma freak, but onli for 1 woman onli

  • sylkiifeather
    sylkiifeather
    9-29-2009 5:29 pm

    no its not just you kbneville lol. sex is mandatory.

  • kbneville
    kbneville
    9-29-2009 3:23 pm

    I’m sorry, but I shouldn’t have to make time for sex. That should be a given. But maybe that’s just me.

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