Part of the

BlackPlanet.com Universe

  • Welcome HELP
  • Profile
  • Log Out
  • Login
  • Sign Up!
  • home.
  • Your Glam.
  • Your Man.
  • Your World.
  • RSS
  • Email
  • Print
  • Sphere
« Previous Post   Next Post »

4 Ways To Make Room For Romance In Your Life

By Hello Beautiful February 8, 2010 2:52 pm

black-couple-on-bench

If you want romance, intimacy and passion, activate your enthusiasm factor – your capacity for fun, humor and adventure.The first step: silence the negative self-talk that you are not good enough which in turn makes you view others as betraying you, ignoring you, or not loving you enough. The second step: turn on your genuine smile transmitting to all the people you encounter how happy you are to greet them. If you want to be irresistible, make the other person feel irresistible! It’s what you see in him or her that makes you special. Make the other person feel important and clever and it is you who will be perceived as clever and invaluable. Then you can mute that stern inner critic of yours.

Here are some ways to make room for romance:

* Feeling sad and lonely? Go where you feel welcomed: family members, friends, fellow volunteers or spinning class.

Why YOU don’t have a man this Valentine’s Day

* You already know that when you wait impatiently for that proverbial bus, it takes forever. Similarly, don’t focus on finding love by giving yourself a deadline. Just go about your business – work and play – and there in that relaxed, surprised, frame of mind you will encounter love.

* Imagine yourself lucky and you will see the opportunity that unlucky people overlook.

Click here for more.

7 mistakes single women make

TAGS: intimacy, passion, relationships, Romance
Share with Friends!
  • BlackPlanet
  • TwitThis
  • Facebook
  • E-mail this story to a friend!

Comments 0

% %

You must be logged in to post a comment.

ADVERTISEMENT

The Latest!

  • Alek Wek Jumps For Joy On Cover Of South African ELLE
  • SPOTTED: Chanel Iman Shops For Diamonds In Beverly Hills
  • BET Welcomes Chris Brown Back With Open Arms
  • Solange Cancels Concert In Exchange For Mommy Duty
  • VIDEO: Brandy Belts Out “At Last” In Her Bathroom
  • 3 Excuses To Skip Town

FAB OR FUG?

FAB OR FUG?

Check out TOCCARA's chopped crop and tell us if you think it looks FAB OR FUG!!!

ADVERTISEMENT

Hot This Week

  1. VIDEO: Wendy Calls Out Stacey Dash For Lying About New Reality Show
  2. Beyonce Admits To “Marriage Contract” With Jay
  3. SPOTTED: Queen Latifah & Her New MAN?!
  4. EXCLUSIVE: Lance Gross To Bloggers, “Eva & I Have Our Private Life!”
  5. Cheating Ex-NBA Player With STD’s Has “No Cheat” Clause
  6. Que & Dawn To Get Their Own Reality Show!
  7. Jamie Foxx Calls Gabourey “Notorious Precious”
  8. Stacey Dash: “The ‘Kitty’ Is Being Held Hostage”
  9. Angela Simmons Dumps Bow Wow For A Kardashian
  10. RUMOR: Reggie Bush & Kim K Split Up AGAIN!!
  11. Keyshia Cole’s Sisters: “Her TV Show Cut Us No Checks!”
  12. Biggie’s First Baby Mama Finally Speaks Out
  13. Does Chris Rock Have A Secret Love Child?
  14. GALLERY: Gabourey Sidibe Hits The NYC Streets
  15. LaLa: “I Know People Say ‘He Ain’t Gonna Marry Her’”

HOT CELEB PICS!

HOT CELEB PICS!

Check out 100+ of the HOTTEST CELEB PICS out there!

HOT TOPICS

  1. Jamie Foxx Calls Gabourey "Notorious Precious"
  2. Men Admit That A Woman's Natural Smell Is A Turn On
  3. GALLERY: Gabourey Sidibe Hits The NYC Streets
  4. Cheating Ex-NBA Player With STD's Has "No Cheat" Clause
  5. RUMOR: Reggie Bush & Kim K Split Up AGAIN!!
  6. SPOTTED: Queen Latifah & Her New MAN?!
  7. VIDEO: Wendy Calls Out Stacey Dash For Lying About New Reality Show
  8. Beyonce Admits To "Marriage Contract" With Jay
  9. Que & Dawn To Get Their Own Reality Show!
  10. EXCLUSIVE: Lance Gross To Bloggers, "Eva & I Have Our Private Life!"
  11. Angela Simmons Dumps Bow Wow For A Kardashian
  12. Keyshia Cole's Sisters: "Her TV Show Cut Us No Checks!"
  13. GIVEAWAY: Win A $1,000 Style Boost Shopping Spree
  14. Stacey Dash: "The 'Kitty' Is Being Held Hostage"
  15. Mashonda On Swizz & Alicia: "They're Made For Each Other!"

Hottest of 2009

  1. GALLERY: 100+ Super Celeb Sightings!
  2. Why Are Women Hating On Amber Rose’s Butt??
  3. EXCLUSIVE: Atlanta Housewife Kandi Burruss Speaks On Death Of Fiance A.J.
  4. UPDATE: Tameka Spits Fire At Usher’s Camp
  5. UPDATE: Pregnant Nivea To Marry Lil Wayne!
  6. Did Venus Williams Forget Her Panties?
  7. RUMOR: Kelis Sex Tape To Be Released
  8. EXPOSED: Nicki Minaj & Her Fake Assets (VIDEO)
  9. Lauren And Weezy To Raise Baby Together
  10. Is This Why Mary J Blige Slapped Her Husband?
  11. Keyshia Cole On Why She Parted Ways With Family
  12. The Game Calls Beyonce An NBA Groupie!
  13. Keyshia Cole’s Mother Attacks Chili From TLC
  14. Meet Keyshia Cole’s 22-Yr-Old Soon-To-Be Stepfather!
  15. Tyrese’s Ex-Wife Walks Away Empty-Handed
  • Newsone
  • The Urban Daily
  • Giant Magazine
  • Elev8
About Us / Privacy / Terms of Service
© 2008 Radio One. All Rights Reserved.