10 Signs Your Husband Is Cheating
One brave woman tells it like it is: the true story of how she discovered her husband was cheating and the signs she missed.
“I always thought I was smart. Not that I was necessarily so street smart, but after working for 15 years as a journalist, I did feel that I had a very good reporter’s instinct. And, well, everyone always talks about woman’s intuition.
So, imagine my surprise when, after more than seven years of marriage, I discovered that my husband was cheating on me, and … that he had probably been doing it since the very beginning.”
Clearly, I missed the top 10 signs:
10. When your best friend tells you over and over and over again that she suspects your husband is cheating.
9. When your husband complains that he is too tired to have sex.
8. When your husband calls you up at 2 AM telling you he is too drunk to drive home and doesn’t want to spend $100 on a cab. So instead, he goes and spends $800 on a swanky Beverly Hills hotel. (Keep in mind … he has never taken me there.)
7. When you just gave birth to your first child via C-section and your husband tells you he “has to work.” (Even the nurse picked up on this one. In my defense, I was postpartum.)
6. When your husband goes out of town for work and tells you that if you call his hotel room and “enter name of girl here” answers, it’s because he switched rooms with her since hers was better.
Read the rest HERE.
Sad to say … these are all true.
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EsidesFinest
BABY, THOSE “EXCUSES” WHERE CRAP AND YOU FELL FOR THEM. HE MUST HAVE HAD GOOD SEX OR YOU A GOOD HOUSE YOU DIDN’T WANT TO LEAVE CAUSE THOSE ARE THE POOREST ONES I’VE EVER HEARD. NUM 10 WOULD HAVE ENDED A RELATIONSHIP ALONE, IT DESTROYED SEVERAL OF MINE. (SOMETIMES SHE WAS TELLING ON BOTH OF US). AND NUM 8, OH MY GOD, BABY THIS IS THE OLDEST ONE IN THE BOOK OF THE GAME, NOTHING IS OPEN AFTER 12 AM MIDNIGHT, EXCEPT THE EMERGENCY ROOM, THE CLUB, WHITE CASTLES AND LEGS. THERE ISN’T A COP IN AMERICA THAT WOULD PREVENT ME FROM DRIVING HOME DRUNK AND I KNOW I HAVE SEX WAITING, UNLESS I’M ALREADY IN IT. I HAVEN’T MET A BLACK WOMAN THAT WOULD FALL FOR THAT LINE. THEIR NEXT RESPONSE WOULD BE, “WHAT HOTEL, I’M ON MY WAY. I’VE HAD WAY BETTER EXCUSES THAN THAT, AND STILL WAS SUSPECTED. LIKE EXCUSES FROM THE OTHER GIRLS PARENTS SAYING I’M JUST A FRIEND OF THE FAMILY AND LIKE TO VISIT. STILL DIDN’T WORK. NOTHING EVER DOES REALLY, WELL ONLY A FEW THINGS. (IF YOU WHERE WAITING ON ME TO TELL THEM THEN YOUR DUMBER THAN YOU LOOK, LOL, THE LIST IS SHORT AS HELL AS IT IS NOW) IF YOUR CHEATING ON A WOMAN AND IT’S NOT BOTHERING HER, YOU NEED TO BE WORRIED FOR YOUR SAFETY AT NIGHT WHILE YOU SLEEP, LOL. OR YOU COULD JUST BE HER EMERGENCY “DICK IN A GLASS”. THIS IS WHAT I DO TO AVOID ALL THE BULLS**T I CAN. SIMPLY LET A WOMAN KNOW THAT YOU AREN’T INTERESTED IN SETTLING DOWN, IF YOUR NOT READY. TELL HER DUDE, THATS ALL YOU CAN DO. HER RESPONSE WILL BE ALONG THE LINES OF ” WHAT ARE YOU A HOE, OR SOMETHING, OR I DON’T PLAY GAMES, I’M NO ONE’S SECOND TIER B***H, THE LIST GOES ON. THEN I SAY, HONESTLY FOR EITHER ONE OF US TO ACT LIKE WE DON’T HAVE OTHER OPTIONS, ANOTHER WOMEN FOR ME, OR A ANOTHER MAN FOR YOU IS VERY CHILDISH, YOU WEREN’T MY FIRST AND WON’T BE THE LAST AND THE SAME APPLIES FOR ME TO YOU. WHY NOT EXPLORE WHAT WE HAVE OPENLY AND SAFELY,(CONDOMS PEOPLE) TO SEE WHERE IT WILL BE FOR THE FUTURE OR WILL IT BE NOTHING AT ALL. LADIES HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU GOTTEN TO THAT POINT IN A RELATIONSHIP AND YOU THINK “THIS ISN’T GOING TO WORK”, BUT YOU LOOK UP AND IT’S LOTS OF SEX AND MONTHS LATER. YOU FEEL LIKE IT’S TOO LATE OR, WHY DIDN’T I SEE THIS IN HIM EARLIER. THIS IS MY LAST STATEMENT THAT I THINK WILL HELP WOMEN WHEN IT COMES TO MEN, TAKE IT WITH A GRAIN OF SAND OR HOWEVER YOU WANT, I COULD F**KING CARE LESS, I’M STILL THROWIN, LOL. NAW ALL JOKES ASIDE, GET A MAN TO SHOW YOU THE ASSHOLE, OR JERK IN HIM FIRST, WHETHER YOU PUSH HIS BUTTONS OR IT HAPPENS BY ACCIDENT, IF YOU CAN’T DEAL WITH THAT PERSON, YOU WON’T “CONTROL” ANY PHASES OF HIS ATTITUDE OR ANY PHASES OF THE RELATIONSHIP. YEAH I SAID CONTROL, CAUSE THATS ALL YOU CRAZY C**TS WANT ANYWAYS. YEAH I SAID IT, YEAH I SAID IT.
momono3
When your friend tells you over and over that your man is cheating, she needs to get some business. She may be watching your man a little too much.
when your husband complains that he is too tired to have sex, take him on his word and let him sleep. He may be telling the truth. But I would start making myself so scarce he would start being happy to see me.
If he is too drunk to drive home and needs to stay at a hotel, Hey! He’s not the only one who can be ‘unavailable’.
If you just gave birth to a child and he says he has to work, maybe he’s telling the truth. You and that new little one have to be taken care of. At least he has a job.
IF, you call his room and get someone else. He needs his azz kicked for this one because he couldn’t come with a better excuse. I say don’t even call him. Have him so worried about you he won’t even have ‘time’ to give to somebody else. LOL!!
blessedalwayss
she did’nt see it cause she did’nt want to see that after #8 that would have been a rap
trisha_369
She was in denial like most women/men are when they don’t want to face the fact that there partner is cheating on them. And #10 most of the time-the other woman/man-that your friends with is the very ones who they are fu^king. Its not hard to see and realize your partner is cheating…facing the truth is the problem…denial is a motherfu^ker.
swaggalicious30
WTF…this article is absolute BS…this broad was just stupid and ignorant and if her man did all that stuff then she deserved to get cheated on…LOL…it aint that much work in the world for her to sit up and let him stay in $800 a night hotel rooms…After 7yrs and all that crap he did shes a damn fool to even tell anybody that mess…not being street smart has nothing to do with plain old common scense which she obviously has neither!
Nostalgia09
these are clearly personal observations from her own unique situation. if you are a cheater, there are those tell tale signs that we ALL know about… You know, the obvious signs… but #2 was very funny to me…. 2. When you question your husband about the STD test you discovered he took — and he tells you it’s because he was worried that he contracted something from a public bathroom. lmbao!!!
CaliFemme23
Ok, yeah this was very silly…maybe I could agree with number #9, about being too tired to have sex…I have rarely found a man too tired for sex…but #10 is absolute garbage. Never trust the word of a best friend regarding your mate/spouse, especially if this person is a female…very messy…Everyone is different, so this chick needs to chalk this one up to HER being ignorant to what was going on.
Rei777
Those aren’t good signs at all. I won’t even validate this author by saying why they’re stupid “signs” (I actually read them all). Suffice it to say that this lady is a classic example of a sucker and probably shouldn’t be giving advice to anyone, especially not on the internet, where easily influenced people have access to as much stupidity as they can intake…
bleweyez
With the exception of #10, If a man that’s cheating is stupid enough to use these lame reasons then he deserves to be caught. Now to address #10, since when does the judgment of a best friend count when it comes to a person’s marriage? Most not all of the best friends are probably either single or mad that you are married to begin with. And when it comes to ending a persons marriage they should keep their comments to themselves unless they have personally witnessed this happening and not what they heard from someone. I had someone swear up and down that they saw me out with someone and they were totally wrong, now if the person I was with believed that then it would have ended that relationship.
WestsideCartelAtl85
More man bashing from hello beautiful. lol!!!! SMFH. This shyt is hilarious now.
Da_J_Rok
these are personal obsevations, and not clear signs because everyone dont experience situations like this so dont overly feed into this post…. #10 is a big and definate No-No!!! Cause them sideliners aint good and nothing but being in other folks business
Shamel_
I actually went ahead and read ALL of these and all I can say is these were so OBVIOUS (smh)!!! Love must be “blind” because even Stevie Wonder could see this is a CHEAT!!! Dude wasn’t discreet about a damn thing. She was left “wide open” and he went right on in!!!
Shamel_
Yeah, there are always “signs” or indicators that your significant other may be cheating. However, I always rely on the ONE thing that NEVER lets me down and that is called “WOMAN’S INTUITION”. Enough Said!!!
toodelicious4u
Some of this is true however, I think that this is only from her point of view and whats happened in her life. Seems more like I’m reading her diary rather than her making a point! I totally disagree with most of it because everyone has their own proof of a cheating man. My Ten are completely different.
blaque_thot
HOW ABOUT 10 SIGNS YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING?