Comments on: 10 Mistakes Men Make In Relationships With Women http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/ Sun, 21 Mar 2010 20:15:28 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: purpleangel198650 http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-358421 purpleangel198650 Thu, 28 May 2009 01:58:44 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-358421 first of up top when he said dont blame him cause the is the dominion over females hold on first of all a lot of men be taking Gods words around and twisting it to what yall feel like it should be it said men are the head of the house hold okey it doesnt say men control females though where in the good book does it say control NOWHERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! first of up top when he said dont blame him cause the is the dominion over females hold on first of all a lot of men be taking Gods words around and twisting it to what yall feel like it should be it said men are the head of the house hold okey it doesnt say men control females though where in the good book does it say control NOWHERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

]]> By: JAY-RBG http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-344521 JAY-RBG Sat, 23 May 2009 13:54:48 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-344521 males and females generally have differing mentalities so you might disagree with my opinions 1. i don't look for "mother love" from any female but i do feel that my mother is a good model for what i should look for in a potential partner. and that's a nurturing caretaker-i think alot of females lack in that department so they try to flip the script by saying men are looking for maids/mothers 2-4. i can't really speak on this but i grew up with a different mentality and being romantic/soft goes against that upbringing. i know i leave the social planning to my female cause i don't want to be somewhere i like and have a nagging broad behind me acting crazy cause she doesn't vibe with where we are at. 5. i don't think this problem is gender related, a lot of people don't handle criticism well(male and female) but especially females when it comes to looks (weight hair clothes etc.) 6. God gave man dominion over females-take that issue up with him if you have a problem with it(that's just how i feel) 7. why talk about problems if you don't intend on solving them? 8. a female with holding sex or not being up for it is not something i really care for but at the same time if a dude wants to have sex and you don't, please don't get upset when he starts stepping out on you. 9. i think most of us want to make our partners happy but at the end of the day you got to get off and fuckin gets most dudes off. once in a blue you got to cake but real talk who gon sit there every other night and hug and tease themselves for hours when they can fuck and get that nut in 10-30 minutes? 10. this doesn't apply to all men. personally i've been with females who made more money than i made held higher degrees etc. and i've never been intimidated because at the end of the day i don't depend on em and i'm still a man. if i'm not intimidated by a dude with money i don't see why i should be intimidated by my female. and besides pimpin is pimpin you just got to know how to play it. she make the money you control her mind by keepin her in lala land and makin her happy males and females generally have differing mentalities so you might disagree with my opinions
1. i don’t look for “mother love” from any female but i do feel that my mother is a good model for what i should look for in a potential partner. and that’s a nurturing caretaker-i think alot of females lack in that department so they try to flip the script by saying men are looking for maids/mothers
2-4. i can’t really speak on this but i grew up with a different mentality and being romantic/soft goes against that upbringing. i know i leave the social planning to my female cause i don’t want to be somewhere i like and have a nagging broad behind me acting crazy cause she doesn’t vibe with where we are at.
5. i don’t think this problem is gender related, a lot of people don’t handle criticism well(male and female) but especially females when it comes to looks (weight hair clothes etc.)
6. God gave man dominion over females-take that issue up with him if you have a problem with it(that’s just how i feel)
7. why talk about problems if you don’t intend on solving them?
8. a female with holding sex or not being up for it is not something i really care for but at the same time if a dude wants to have sex and you don’t, please don’t get upset when he starts stepping out on you.
9. i think most of us want to make our partners happy but at the end of the day you got to get off and f**kin gets most dudes off. once in a blue you got to cake but real talk who gon sit there every other night and hug and tease themselves for hours when they can f**k and get that nut in 10-30 minutes?
10. this doesn’t apply to all men. personally i’ve been with females who made more money than i made held higher degrees etc. and i’ve never been intimidated because at the end of the day i don’t depend on em and i’m still a man. if i’m not intimidated by a dude with money i don’t see why i should be intimidated by my female. and besides pimpin is pimpin you just got to know how to play it. she make the money you control her mind by keepin her in lala land and makin her happy

]]> By: SoularFlarez http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-342401 SoularFlarez Fri, 22 May 2009 23:38:40 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-342401 ps- get them fairytales, movies, porno-novels and soap operas out your heads!!!! LOL sisters PLEASE be your natural selves again because we still love you and cant do this without yall!! ps- get them fairytales, movies, porno-novels and soap operas out your heads!!!! LOL sisters PLEASE be your natural selves again because we still love you and cant do this without yall!!

]]> By: SoularFlarez http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-342381 SoularFlarez Fri, 22 May 2009 23:35:33 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-342381 far as #5, there's a way to do it.... suggestions, advice, etc....is one thing.....but no grown man wants to be NAGGED no matter how pretty you are....its annoying....................where is 10 mistakes women make in relationships ???............oh and females stop being paranoid/jelous/insecure....and stop listening to your stoopid ass friends....she cant even keep a man herself.....oh and women SAY WHAT YOU MEAN.....we dont have time for the lil guessing games far as #5, there’s a way to do it…. suggestions, advice, etc….is one thing…..but no grown man wants to be NAGGED no matter how pretty you are….its annoying………………..where is 10 mistakes women make in relationships ???…………oh and females stop being paranoid/jelous/insecure….and stop listening to your stoopid ass friends….she cant even keep a man herself…..oh and women SAY WHAT YOU MEAN…..we dont have time for the lil guessing games

]]> By: privatejetambitions http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-340351 privatejetambitions Fri, 22 May 2009 16:09:00 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-340351 @ pretti_mami83 Actually we ALL do have our faults. On this page there is a link to the 10 mistakes women make as well. However sitting by while these cats deny they fugg up on the regular is not an acceptable behaviour. Sometimes in order to grow & mature you have to ADMIT when you are wrong & that you have made mistakes so you can learn from them & NOT repeat them. Acknowledgment that you have a problem is the first great step towards fixing said problem. @ pretti_mami83

Actually we ALL do have our faults. On this page there is a link to the 10 mistakes women make as well. However sitting by while these cats deny they fugg up on the regular is not an acceptable behaviour. Sometimes in order to grow & mature you have to ADMIT when you are wrong & that you have made mistakes so you can learn from them & NOT repeat them. Acknowledgment that you have a problem is the first great step towards fixing said problem.

]]> By: pretti_mami83 http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-340051 pretti_mami83 Fri, 22 May 2009 15:01:21 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-340051 UGH!!!! i wiSH YALL WOULD UNDERSTAND US FEMALES DO HAV E OUR FAULTS TOO .... ALL DAY!!! CANT B ALL PLACED ON THESE DUDES UGH!!!! i wiSH YALL WOULD UNDERSTAND US FEMALES DO HAV E OUR FAULTS TOO …. ALL DAY!!! CANT B ALL PLACED ON THESE DUDES

]]> By: privatejetambitions http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-339781 privatejetambitions Fri, 22 May 2009 06:31:05 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-339781 I am in here cracking up reading all the comments from dudes talking about bytches & the other dudes talking about all men are NOT LIKE THAT!!! Clearly the author of the article has come up with a summation of traits based on her past experiences as well the past experiences of others. Clearly this person did NOT just make this schitt up!!! Yet & still most of the blokes on here will try & act like this list doesn't apply to them or the author just made this schitt up out of thin air! Boof!!! I'm one of those women that seems to be frequently mentioned the whole successful, higher sex-drive etc thing but yet & still I have encountered nearly EVERY mistake on this list at one time or another in my life. ALL from different MEN!!! Yet & Still blokes talk like the author conjured this schitt up out of thin air... BOOF!!! SMDH!!! When are BLACK MEN going to realise & be ASHAMED by the fact that the rest of America is SHOCKED & AMAZED that President Obama LOVES, HONOURS, & RESPECT his wife??? Think about THAT the next time you try to deny the truth of the state of relationships between Black Men & Women... I am in here cracking up reading all the comments from dudes talking about bytches & the other dudes talking about all men are NOT LIKE THAT!!! Clearly the author of the article has come up with a summation of traits based on her past experiences as well the past experiences of others. Clearly this person did NOT just make this schitt up!!! Yet & still most of the blokes on here will try & act like this list doesn’t apply to them or the author just made this schitt up out of thin air! Boof!!! I’m one of those women that seems to be frequently mentioned the whole successful, higher sex-drive etc thing but yet & still I have encountered nearly EVERY mistake on this list at one time or another in my life. ALL from different MEN!!! Yet & Still blokes talk like the author conjured this schitt up out of thin air… BOOF!!! SMDH!!! When are BLACK MEN going to realise & be ASHAMED by the fact that the rest of America is SHOCKED & AMAZED that President Obama LOVES, HONOURS, & RESPECT his wife??? Think about THAT the next time you try to deny the truth of the state of relationships between Black Men & Women…

]]> By: N_D_SKIES http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-328521 N_D_SKIES Wed, 20 May 2009 03:31:14 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-328521 OTHER REASON 1. MONEY ISSUE 2. CLUB LIFE 3. ORAL ISSUE 4. NAGGING 5. FRIENDS IN THERE BUSINESS 6. ORAL 7. SHARING 8. ORAL 9. WORK 10. HIS NEEDS ALSO OTHER REASON
1. MONEY ISSUE
2. CLUB LIFE
3. ORAL ISSUE
4. NAGGING
5. FRIENDS IN THERE BUSINESS
6. ORAL
7. SHARING
8. ORAL
9. WORK
10. HIS NEEDS ALSO

]]> By: everymansdream9 http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-328311 everymansdream9 Wed, 20 May 2009 02:57:24 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-328311 A tall romantic, the Bible also says for husbands and wives to submit themselves one to another and for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church. Proverbs 31 says a woman is to be valued. Being the head does not require being controlling to the point where a wife should not be treated as an equal. A wife is a helpmate (in the Bible as well) and is to be submissive, not controlled. If you break down submissive, it does not mean less than it means to subordinate oneself to the mission. A tall romantic, the Bible also says for husbands and wives to submit themselves one to another and for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church.
Proverbs 31 says a woman is to be valued.
Being the head does not require being controlling to the point where a wife should not be treated as an equal.
A wife is a helpmate (in the Bible as well) and is to be submissive, not controlled.
If you break down submissive, it does not mean less than it means to subordinate oneself to the mission.

]]> By: a_tall_romantic http://hellobeautiful.com/your-man/hello-beautiful-staff/10-mistakes-men-make-in-relationships-with-women/comment-page-3/#comment-324861 a_tall_romantic Tue, 19 May 2009 13:28:51 +0000 http://hellobeautiful.com/?p=245551#comment-324861 Only ones I'm trippin off is 5, 6, 8 and 10. 5 - I mean its not even like that if its good advice yeah I would listen and/or consider it, hell a woman is the same way. 6 - even the bible says a man should be the lead, not to say he runs everything but that's just what it is, its not a controlling issue, so I don't know where that comes from. 8 - Sex depends on the person, some women sex drives are higher than men, some women do want it all the time hell I know some, and some don't you can't assume its a mistake men make thats just people. Not only men. 10 - Why would I be threaten by a woman's success? Seems like this list is more of a stereotype than actual mistakes, I'd be happy for my woman if she was doing good not treaten Only ones I’m trippin off is 5, 6, 8 and 10. 5 – I mean its not even like that if its good advice yeah I would listen and/or consider it, hell a woman is the same way. 6 – even the bible says a man should be the lead, not to say he runs everything but that’s just what it is, its not a controlling issue, so I don’t know where that comes from. 8 – Sex depends on the person, some women sex drives are higher than men, some women do want it all the time hell I know some, and some don’t you can’t assume its a mistake men make thats just people. Not only men. 10 – Why would I be threaten by a woman’s success? Seems like this list is more of a stereotype than actual mistakes, I’d be happy for my woman if she was doing good not treaten

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