Dear Kareem,
I’ve been dating my baby daddy for 5 years on and off. We are talking about getting married soon, but I keep finding and hearing things about him cheating on me. He says I’m the only one, but there’s something deep down in my heart telling me there’s someone else. I love him to death but I don’t know what to do CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME!!
Kareem Says:
I have always felt like you should follow your gut instinct. When you feel that something is not right about a situation, it usually is the case. I have gone against my better judgment several times in my life and regretted it each time.
You have been with him for 5 years and have a child together. You need to ask yourself: do the pros outweigh the cons? Is having him in your life really worth it? Take “love” out the equation and really make out a list of how this man benefits you, your child, and your future. Since you have no proof that he is cheating on you, all you can do is speculate and worry. If you really want to find out, hire a private eye to follow him for a month. Then make your decision.
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