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DEAR KAREEM: I Can’t Stop Sleeping With My Now-Married Ex!

By Kareem Jenkins March 5, 2009 5:41 pm

Hey Kareem,

My babydaddy is married, but me and him still mess around. He thinks I don’t know that he is married. He never wears his ring around me, and one day he slipped up and had it on when I came to his job. I looked at his hand a second time, and it was off. He always tells me he still has feelings for me, and even though I try to shake him, I can’t. What should I do?
Kareem Says,

Sweetie, I think you need to stop sleeping with a married man. He clearly chose to be with someone else besides you. He may still have feelings for you, or feelings for your vagina, but eventually this is going to blow up and end badly – with either you, his wife, or your child being hurt by his infidelity. I think you need to call him out on his marriage. You are playing the dummy role by not acknowledging what is clearly in your face. Which is: HE IS MARRIED AND STILL LIKES TO KEEP YOU AS THE SIDE PIECE. YOU ARE EASY AND CONVENIENT.

Got a question for Kareem? Email him at Kareem.JenkinsNYC@gmail.com

Being the other woman sucks. See how Kareem solves another mistress’ problem here.

Should you live with your ex if he’s the father of your child? Get Kareem’s opinion here.

TAGS: ask kareem, baby daddy, ex, father, kareem jenkins, married, mistress, relationships, sex, sleeping around
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  • stamped
    stamped
    3-9-2009 1:33 pm

    Move on Sister, no doubt your baby’s daddy character should be in question… He is using You AND HIS WIFE! This Man is confused….
    You have not lost anything…. In a minute you will hear his wife tell the story of his sorry Behind.
    If anything make sure you have your child support , legally , and child visitation plan ordered by the family court! I am certain that he WIll RESPECT THAT.

  • ms_real2008
    ms_real2008
    3-9-2009 1:11 am

    Basically Kareem’s right, i mean if he still has feelings for you, then he wouldn’t have married his wife or he would have divorced her instead of having you as his side chick. If he hasn’t left his wife, chances are that he won’t.
    Let that s**t go and find someone who will appericate and love you and your child. Karma is a b***h and do you really want to go through the drama of possibly being confronted by his wife? Its really not worth it.

  • CiaoBella83
    CiaoBella83
    3-6-2009 3:30 pm

    ROTFLMAO…Sounds harsh but she so deserved that…

  • Bwann26
    Bwann26
    3-6-2009 2:52 pm

    I like your Kareem’s advise and I agree with you Sierra3Leone3, people do get caught up in these type of things. But what people forget is that Karma is a B***h!!!!Her time will come and the man who she is married to will do the same thing to her and so on!!!!

  • Sierra3Leone3
    Sierra3Leone3
    3-6-2009 10:40 am

    Lmao, wow its crazy that people really get caught up like this! Kareem you sure told her! A man will never put work and effort into something that is readily available to him. Respect yourself and their relationship and let that married man be!

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