VIDEO: Why Do Men Holla At Us So Much?

I would never say to lady nice booty or boobs, or let’s go out…..All I say to them is “Nice Hair” or “You should be on Hair Care Magazine”, they respond by saying “Thank you”…works for me……..

I don’t agree with rude comments period, but how come when a nice guy like myself approach a woman (you know a d*** woman isn’t going to approach a man) catch a attitude. I don’t give you know dumb lines or nothing. I say hello..how are you ….I sware females are the worst!

Men holla at me all the time! Most of the time I keeps it moving because I’m tired of broke ass MF’s thinkn they can have what ever they want! Their disrespectful reaction is: F**k you than, you b***h, s**t, stupid ass, etc! the list goes on!!!! they know they need to stop! Gettn all mad cuz they caint afford a decent woman or because they too ugly for me to give them direct eye contact! LOL

That Top Model winner on #171 looks like a tranny.

I know the feeling. Yeah it’s nice to get compliments but after a while it feels like harassment. Even though one guy doesn’t know the other it gets old. Makes you feel like you did something wrong or something.

First of all, how many folks have met their spouse on the street…?

*sound of crickets*

Thought so. Probably because most men (as in 99.9%) of men that hit on women on the street really do NOT have honorable intentions. The men talking about how the woman might be missing out on Prince Charming is just trying to lure in the insecure women because Prince Charming had what in abundance *drumroll* CHARM. Usually the men on the street trying to talk to you have no class (let alone charm) whatsoever.

I am one of those women who leaves the house and never looks busted. Not because I want attention from men but because I know I ony have a young body for so long and I want to enjoy my own beauty. I keep it simple during the day and on those special occasions (e.g. Maxwell concert) I go all out with the glam. I never reveal all my body. Personally I find being covered up but wearing clothes that fit well have a way of making you look gorgeous AND classy which are two qualities I like to work in tandem with one another. Class is big for me, so no mini catsuits baring shoulders and all legs for me (women, PLEASE do one or the other: show legs and cover up the top body or expose shoulders and cover up the lower body…THAT allows an air of mystery to your physique but only allowing one visual sample).

I used to get hit on in the streets ALOT when I lived in an area where alot of men trolled for women (Venice). After 2 years of being harrassed, disrespected and threatened by insecure men I was like “Forget beach living” and moved out to another part of LA where I am happy to say I am NEVER approached disrespectfully. I see men looking at me, they try to talk to me but the WAY they talk to me is VASTLY different (which I have no doubt is because the median income bracket is triple than what it was in the old neighbourhood). They are ALWAYS respectful. I am happy to accept a compliment from a gentleman who approaches me as a woman, who greets my eyes and more than likely has seen me before at the grocery store, taking a walk along the Main Street browsing stores. But men who yell out to you, who don’t even look at you, who yell from CARS (ergh – soooo trashy let alone lazy!) or debate how fine your feet are with their boys can keep away. PLEASE keep away.

There are more women in the world then men so its all about the numbers. Men see more woman there type than women see that is there type so the ratio is greater for men to holla.

Stop f**king with niggas and mess with a real man, niggas don’t know when to shut the f**k up and act like they wasn’t raised with some home training, a man will never step to you on some bulls**t like that, I know I wouldn’t women are beautiful and until them niggas become men there will always be THAT NIGGA lol on the real though!!!

Why does Halle Berry look unhappy in some of her photos? Am I the only one noticing this?

All I can say is, I apologize for all the ignorant brothers out there.

Hmmm. Personally, I’ve never been one to do mcuh hollerin at women because at an early age I relaized that it best to like people who like me. I’ve seen gorgeous women who were with their children and I kept on steppin. Why? Because my mother was a good lookin woman and I always hated it when men would hit on her when I was there. But one thing I wish women would understand is how much control you have over this whole thing. Men are hard wired to get busy and mcuh and as often as we can. To achieve this you have to have thick skin and be very persistent. As a result of this we have a tendency to be results oriented. It becomes a numbers game. If you hit on 100 women in a week and collect 10 phone numbers that should give you about 3 out 10 chances to get laid (if your game is any good and maybe more if you are really smooth). And don’t forget that men are also “if it aint broke, don’t fix it orieted. So if “ooohh baby you sho look good” works 50% of the time then why change it. YA’LL NEED TO HAVE A MEETIN!

I wish ya’ll could be us for 1 year. I’d like to see how moral you’d be. How much you’d turn down. And how amazed you’d be at the stuff women actually will go for. Now for you mothers (especially single) with sons. You have a golden opportunity to help your sons become a blessing to someone’s daughter. Don’t spend so much time tellin your son “how cute he is”…Don’t let your frinds do it either. Instead, tell him how smart he is. Tell him that you want him to grow up to be MAN.It helps if you at least have a working idea of what one is. Stop callin him your baby all the damn time. Stop stylin his hair like he’s a pretty boy. Get a doll if you wanna do that mess. Stop bringin home men you don’t want him to be like and surround him with men you admire. EVEN IF THEY AIN’T YOUR MAN!!!! NEVER EVER LET HIM HEAR THAT YOU DON’T LIKE OR TRUST WOMEN. IF YOU, BEIN A WOMAN DON’T LIKE OR TRUST WOMEN, THEN WHY SHOULD HE? STOP TALKIN ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS TO YOUR GIRLFRIENDS IN FRONT OF YOUR SONS. THEY HEAR EVERY WORD. TELL HIM THE TRUTH ABOUT WOMEN, NOT ALL OF THAT FANTASY BASED CRAP BECAUSE MANY OF YOU WOULD CALL PRINCE CHARMING A PUNK AND KICK HIM TO THE CURB. IF HIS FATHER WAS SUCH A DOG, THEN WHY’D YOU GIVE HIM SOME IN THE 1ST PLACE? YOUR SON IS NOT YOUR MAN! IT’S HARD ENOUGH TRYIN TO FIGURE OUT LIFE/MANHOOD WITHOUT YOU PUTTIN ALLA YOUR MESS ON HIM.