Comments on: Dating And Loving A “Baby Mama”

By: oak-tree

oak-tree — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 03:40:31 +0000

Me personally, I love to see a life, In other words saying, even if I am not the babis father, daddy however you say it, I am 21 if I can contribute to loving that child as if he/she were mine then I can and will! I have nothing but love for children, so if I have and a child wants, he/she will recieve if they’re in my life!

By: sweet_n_sexy_713

sweet_n_sexy_713 — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 18:45:39 +0000

for any man that doesn’t want to date me because of my children thats fine. I am a wonderful woman, I love God, and I love my children. I don’t need to beg any man for a chance because i have children. No one is perfect and everyone has a past. My children are not a mistake they are just a result of me having a past. God blessed me to find a man and he loves me and my children. He has three children of his own and i didn’t give a second thought to thinking of them as my children as well. Ladies remember, what God has for you is for you. Trust and believe in him and he will bring that special man to you in his own time. Never regret your children for some man. Your children are beautiful and a gift from God. Remember that. Men come and men go.

By: Nique1206

Nique1206 — Sun, 10 May 2009 00:36:12 +0000

To all the men who say that they can never date a woman with a child.. U need to stop thinking in an immature manner. Not all women with children have drama. The ones that do are immature and like to keep drama around them. Also, they like to have their baby daddy’s in their bussiness all the time and they like to see little boys who think there men fight over them. I dont want that or need that in my life or my childs.

By: ChocolateeMarilee37

ChocolateeMarilee37 — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 20:40:48 +0000

Its about how the situation is handled. If get with a ignorant person then almost anything goes!
A sound minded person knows how to handle said situations.
A concern about dating men with children is whether or not he and she have put closure to the situation, and can he fullfill his duties as a Father ONLY to the child, and not play captin save a hoe…
I always tell women, he is your child’s Father and thats it, if you have additional roles to be filled, get YOUR OWN MAN! or just be a woman to the man you have and maybe he will play those parts in your relationship… Its about letting go and accepting the fact that we have a responsibility… Don’t get it twisted!

By: CARA-MELLO

CARA-MELLO — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 16:38:38 +0000

sorry, can’t and won’t do it. but with SO many black females already with a child its hard at times to find one without any. I don’t care about her achievements, thats still some other niggas kid. you ain’t the father and she will remind you of that .

By: radman1

radman1 — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 00:47:14 +0000

Don’t know…I hate to sound harsh but to some woman having a kid is a bitter beginning or a beautiful start…Me as a single man to get involved with a woman already with a kid…I can’t do…to me thats a love with strings attached…the I can’t control and that erks me..so the thought of getting with some one with child…is a no go for me

By: COFFEE3270

COFFEE3270 — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 19:29:42 +0000

I have become friends with a wonderful man that hasn’t a clue about children. We have chosen to move slow to give him time to adjust to the always exciting life of parenthood.