VIDEO: Did Y’all Have Sex Too Soon?
By Abiola Abrams December 14, 2009 12:15 pm
How soon is too soon to have sex in a new relationship?
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Kristylis
WHICH IS IT FELLAS? THEY SAY WOMEN ALWAYS CHANGE THEIR MINDS..BUTS SEEMS TO ME THAT MEN ARE JUST AS UNCLEAR AND CHANGE THE RULES OF THE GAME TO FIT THEM…SOOO EXHAUSTING…
RichardMann11
that holding out crap is the #1 reason for women saying they not getting satisfied sexually. you got to give it up to get urs, spread ur legs and get to getting fulfilled.
RichardMann11
I dont respect a woman more of less if she has sex with me on the first date. what determines my respect for her is and not sex. a person like that is a judgmental type person what wants you to adhere to their set of standards. sex is something meant to be enjoyed. I f you wanna do it do it, just deny urself of perfectly good pleasure. just protect urself and enjoy the sex
KK0407
Men say they respect you more if you waited.. LIES!!! Its all up to you and how you feel. You might dont hear from him again, but can you honestly say you care? It was good at that point and time no need for regrets. So if you meet a guy and he turns you on & he approaches you…. “Do you”, you only live once. Just protect yourself and have fun “Doing you”!! Dont let it all be for nothing..
QLEANQLASSY
trust me we have more respect when you hold your draws
Chocolate321
if a man were to judge me negatively based on a sexual encounter we are engaging in TOGETHER, then he aint the one for me anyway! why would i want a self righteous, judgmental jerk!?
Ayesha26
IT ALL DEPENDS ON U AS A PERSON AND WHAT U R FEELING AT THAT MOMENT..FIRST NIGHT CAN B 2 SOON..BUT SOMETIMES..IT GETS LIKE THAT….I MEAN ITS WHEN U R READY..ACTUALLY..IF U THINK 3MTHS OR 1YR IS 2 SOON THAN THAT IS UR BUSINESS….ITS WHEN U FEEL ITS RIGHT…BUT IF HE DON’T CALL U BACK AFTER YALL SEXED IT UP REAL GOOD THAT NIGHT THEN HEY LOL……ITS WAS 2 SOON…AND IF U DIDN’T CATCH HIS NAME IF THERE IS BABY MOMMA DRAMA GOING ON AND THE SIMPLE THINGS U SHOULD KNOW ABOUT A PERSON THAN YEA IT WAS TO SOON…BUT IF U JUST WANTED TO KEEP IT A ONE NIGHTER THAN NONE OF THAT APPLIES…PRIME EXAMPLE IS ME AND MY FIANCEE’ (AND YES I DO HAVE THE RING NOT JUST A TITLE) BUT WE HOOKED UP AS A ONE NIGHTER, THEN AS FRIENDS WIT BENEFITS, THEN BAM SOMETHING CLICKED AND WE R STILL 2GETHER 2YRS LATER, ENGAGED AND A GORGEOUS 3MTHS OLD DAUGHTER HE ALSO HAS STEPPED UP WHEN MY OLDEST DAUGHTER WAS 3MTHS OLD AND HAS BEEN TAKING CARE OF HERAND SHE IS OF COURSE NOW 2YRS OLD……NOW THATS A STORY FOR YA****
supamanluva4eva
There is no too soon. It is all about what you want. IF you want it now then go for it now. If you want it later then so be it. It nots what you do but how you do it.
MizDee_09
This is a good topic the first night should be out of the question, But women we need to take over an stop letting the men be in charge we have to know what we want if it’s a one nighter don’t expect anything else cause he’s most likely thinking ( well she gave it up to me this easy so she probably will give it up to the next man that easy) Word of the day EASY that’s what he’ll think of you..
shauna_mishel
LOl..
lmosak
God have mercy
MzBadAzzitGets
OH YEA MAKE SURE IT WAS A PROTECTED ONE NIGHT BECAUSE THEN IT WILL APPLY IF U END UP WITH A STD OR A BABY….THEN U NEED TO KNOW HIS BUSINESS…
MzBadAzzitGets
FIRST NIGHT IS TO SOON..BUT SOMETIMES..IT GETS LIKE THAT….I MEAN ITS WHEN YOU ARE READY..ACTUALLY..IF U THINK 3 MONTHS OR A YEAR IS TO SOON THAN THAT IS UR TO SOON BUSINESS….ITS WHEN U FEEL IT…BUT IF HE DON’T CALL U BACK AFTER YALL SEXED THEN LOL……ITS WAS TO SOON…AND IF U DIDN’T CATCH HIS NAME HOW MANY BABY MOMMAS HE GOT AND THE SIMPLE THINGS U SHOULD KNOW ABOUT A PERSON THAN YEA IT WAS TO SOON…BUT IF U JUST WANTED TO KEEP IT A ONE NIGHTER THAN NONE OF THAT APPLIES…DUECES****
msveevee1
The same night of meeting someone is too soon. But I’m sure alot of ppl are guilty on this one. It is what it is sometimes.