Can Men Be Monogamous?
Hey Cupcakes,
It’s Sexy Temptation Tuesday…
Manville is the recurring segment on The Planet Abiola Show where I hang with my boys and try to be quiet long enough to hear what men really think! It’s all in fun but we get to have a real conversation somewhere in there too. On this episode we talk about men, women, love, sex, dating and monogamy.
Of course, anyone can be monogamous who wants to be monogamous. Be honest in your relationships and most of all be safe when playing with the hearts and bodies of other people-and yourself.
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ahmad_moore6-20-2009 6:10 pm
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DAREALRECKLESS6-19-2009 3:44 pm
1 2 3 ... 7 Next »ahmad_moore
Agreeing w/ DAREALRECKLESS
Yea this is a meaningless conversation bc the fact of the matter is, Some women are just not going to change their perception for Whateva reasons. You never met a monogamous man or men thats all on you, you probably have but was blinded by the wants and needs u desired while all along u had that faithful, good man on the side of you that lacked in certain areas. Like I said it B4, there are always going to be temptation, Always.. but, its really simple not to cheat, like anything else it takes practice, repetitions, and with some.. A whole Lot of it 2…Lol
ncblue42
sure men can be monogamous.can women stop messing with men who are married/attached?I think that is the better question.
blurgh
you can only be monogamous if you choose not to settle, that means being every bit the man of your dreams as the man of her dreams.
If you punt and take the two-point conversion chick…the good but just “good enough” woman…nah you can’t be mongamous…because every other chick you “know” will try to one-up your B+ boo.
ldixon14
in a nutshell . . . real men do . . . ‘males’ that don’t mature and grow up don’t and never will . . .
educatoroflife
If people lived righteously, then monogamous would not be an issue for anyone. When God created Adam and then Eve, he did not say go and be adulterous. We have allowed ourselves to be bamboozled by the deceitfulness of the evil spirits of the world and falling prey to that falseness of why we are here. Our real purpose here on earth is to praise and worship God. Stop allowing yourselves to justify why you are doing things that hurt and demean people.
KY_Brown_Suga
I don’t believe that men cannot be monagamous. That man is hard to come by but its not impossible. for the people who are saying men will never change…quit going to bed with nasty men. the problem is not man’s genetic makeup, its the men your picking!
burgstyle82
Of course we can be, but who the hell would voluntarily do something crazy like that?
ANewStart74
If a woman think that NO MAN AND I MEAN NO MAN can be monagamous, SHE IS FOOLING HERSELF AS WELL AS LYING TO HERSELF.
Its not every man’s fault that you go to bed with guys that only intentions is to bed you then leave. Hold out and really get to know him. YOU MIGHT SAVE YOURSELF A LOT OF HEARTACHE AND HEADACHES AS WELL.
darius_rashaud
I agree with what Abiola said. “If you gonna do it, just wrap it up” and just be honest with yourself. IMHO, I think men are not made to be Monogamous beings and we are trying to defy nature. Thats why you have what you have, for how many thousands of years? We trying but it’s not working for 99.7% of us. The real question should be, can women just accept the fact that men love many women. And if they could, would be with as many as they could handle openly and have one big happy family lol…
g_money712005
u know what we only do what a women allows us 2 do. but a man is a man & a woman is a woman.b grown enjoy life just b safe & careful @ all u do… PEACE
Real_Love_Never_Dies
No Man can be Monogamous!!!!
I agree that the majority of guys cant be but there is hope that some guys can
miryeyah1
no
Mr_Spann
Can women stop messing around with each other?
pretty-cp
My apology misspelled word, meant “kudos”.
denisemg
its alot of women that are unmaterialistic…You just have to find the right one just like women have to find the right man…I think if your heart is into that person you will not cheat…I’d like to find me a monogamus man…cause I havent found a good one yet…
MzCheekz_8706
MEN CAN NOT BE MONOGAMOUS !!!
pretty-cp
Anybody has the will power to do so, but you have to be honest with yourself and whoever you want to be with. If you are not ready to be monogamous then be upfront with the person(s) that you are dealing with. Kutous to the one that says that he does that. That is the grown up thing to do. And yes in this day and time women are more open to just being “single and mingle” then going through a relationship. Nothing wrong with that. Only you and God’s spirit of change over you and your personal desires will determine when you are ready to settle down in life. To God Be The Glory.
topdiva89
men cheat .. men are not to be trusted. i havnt met a man yet thats willing to be with one women..Its like men are allergic to one women ..they gotta have 5 or 6
like its cute or sumthing..& when they get older they still dont change their mind sets so .. men are dogs regardless of age..race ..religion ..(they all are like dogs in heat)& women are emotionally more attached than men so ..we dont have a big problem commiting to one man (we only cheat when a man is not keeping us the women happy!!
antski02
If a man is truly happy he won’t cheat. Women cheat just as much as men and always have they just hide it better, well until now where honestly women now a days lack lots of common sense, not all women but most. Women don’t do the little things to keep their man happy anymore, its the times..
german_cutie_13
this is really a dumb question. how about: can women be monogamous? i think in nowadays time women can cheat as easily and as much as men.
tennis_freak
NEVER
WestsideCartelAtl85
Darealreckless just shut this shyt down. lol!!!!
Jeffrey1975
I would agree to a point. People, you must live a little life to understand life. In the past I was not faithful because I was ignorant of my woman’s feelings. So now, rather than get into a committed relationship, I choose to stay single and mingle. I am honest and up front to every lady I encounter and if they want to play, batter up.
DAREALRECKLESS
how many times are you going to go over this topic???
everybody already knows that men can be monogamous. women get cheated on because they are bad at picking men. everybody already knows that 93% of men are dogs and 93% of women are materialistic golddiggers. after the age of 17 i never cheated in any relationship i was in. so there you have it. LIVING PROOF! question answered. YES men can be monogamous. Can women be non-materialist?