Can Men Be Monogamous?

Does religious preference play a part in monogamy? Your thoughts…

If you want your man to think about you and nothing else but you, do this. It never fails. KEEP YOUR APPEARANCE UP, ALWAYS ALWAYS BE A LADY AND DO NOT PAY HIM THAT MUCH ATTENTION. Treat him well, don’t get me wrong, but do not act like he is your everything or the intimidation will push him away. Put God first, not the man He put in your life.

@ DaRealReckLess- 93%? LOL

I agree with SyrexxG, because… it’s a two way street. If you aren’t willing to compromise and sacrifice with someone, then WHY are you in a relationship “(Sex, Money, Benefits, Children, Opprotunity)” anyway?
What ever happend to LOVE?

@syrexxg.. of course women can be monogomous.again,it goes back to how your are raised and what values are put into from your parents.some people grow up with both parents being committed to each other.so as a child,thats what you are going to want to do.why,because its special.nothing special about not truly being able to call your man or woman your one and only because they are sneaking around.its a betrayal when your believed to be in a committed relationship not sleeping with anyone else.
another reason,its absolutely NASTY and down right gross to be swapping bodily fluids with different people.Hell,im grossed out when I go to someones house,go into thier bathroom,and I dont see baby wipes on the back of the toilet.what im saying is,it doesnt matter how cute or gorgeuos a man or woman may be.you still have to be a clean and decent person.I find that the people who play of of thier looks to get what they want,usually are the ones that end up to be the nastiest.sorry,im a monogomous type of female and I demand the same from the man that im with.if he cant understand that program,i dont want him.In todays society,both men and women of all races are way to loose.Having a std,cheating,or possibly passing on a death sentence is not ok.ill keep a lock on mine until i come across a decent man with some common decency about his life and cares just as much about his life and body.until then,ill keep making money,play my playstation 3,go to museums,go on vacation,whatever.If you think that your that special,you wont be out here giving your body to a man because he finds you attractive.call me prude and old fashion.but im good..

Funny thing is how yall girls act like ya’ll don’t want it to. Champagne-73 says hell no well if her and others weren’t showing their assets on their pages guess married men and baby mama having guys wouldn’t be hitting her up all sexual like! S**t I just wanna hit it after looking at her page got four ass shot pics!

can WOMEN be monogamous and not f***k up, when the realize they have a GOOD man, which is rare?? dats the real question….women talk and talk, and complain about men being “dogs” and all that, but then they’ll f***k up, when they have a good man on their shoulders…..at this point, its just like “who gives a f***k!!!! just live ur life….if ur lucky to have a good woman, or man, just be happy and dont F***k up!!!! lol

If a man wants to be monogamous he can it’s a decision only he can make though if the person in his life completes him it would be very easy to do. But if he is not finish running no way but if he is done yes it is possible

A male friend of mine once told me all a man needs to cheat is Time, Space and Opportunity. I added to that depending on the male and his character will determine if he does it or not once those there things are aligned. I have heard people say that a man cheats because there is something he is not getting at home. I can not fully buy into that because I have heard men say, “yeah I have a good woman”. Those same men turn right around and cheat on the women they just said they knew were good. That makes no sense at all. Knowing how virtually impossible it is to find a quality mate why would those men put their realationship in jeopardy with their “good woman” just for a quick roll in the sack with Miss New Booty? I have heard men say their “good women” will not do the same thing a “freak” will do. My questions to those men is well how do you know that have you ever asked her? They have all said no they didnt. So ummm how can you say your women will not do what a freak will do if you have never asked her to do it? I know men that have justified cheating because it was just sex and not love. I promise you, your lady will not see it that way. Even though sex has nothing to do with love. To most women the fact that you slept with someone else is betrayal and they think how can you love me if you slept with her? Its crazy really and at this point I have no clue if a man can be momogamous. It would be nice to think that yes there are some men out there that can be but I am not sure how realistic that is in 2009. So I will just say I hope that if a man knows that he has a quality women that he would respect her and their relationship and not cheat on her. I will also say the same in reverse as it applies to women who have found their version of a “good man”. I think if you treat a person how you want to be treated things can work but the minute you start taking the other person for granted drama will soon follow. Male or female cheating is never the answer.

I think any man “CAN” be monogamous. However, I think the question is more so “Do they WANT to be”??? That is a relative question and varies from person to person.

Damn,we have a man on blackplanet that makes sense.Thank you BIGGUYNORTH for making sense.If you are going to cheat,call off your relationship or better yet,stay single.Whats the point of acting like a coward or scallywag with your tail tucked between your legs coming up with stories?It would be easier to tell the truth.Not all men cheat.Alot do,but not all.And you know what,if hes the type of man that you think dont have swagger or whatever you call it,sign me up.Oh,I know one,my brother and he sure isnt ugly.All the girls were after him,light,dark,white,didnt matter.He picked very carefully.He had supper fine chicks and dropped thier asses right back were they came from.He always liked the simple woman.A woman like his mother.Im not saying it isnt hard because alot of men and women have no self respect today at all.But all of us dont compromise to what the world says to do.Every man dont like fast ass.Some do want substance because they are substance themselves.No sir ey bob.I’ll wait ..

I think men can be Monogamous. I think that if a man cheats, its because he is not getting what he wants at home, at that is the case, he should get out of his present relationship before he desides to cheat. I hate cheaters, especially men, because it makes it hard for the few good men like myself to have any chance at meeting a nice woman. But dont forget woman cheat just as much as men do, so dont try and make this a one way question?