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Remember the ad that used to say – calling is the next best thing to being there. Well phone sex proves it!

(From lemondrop.com)

You’re chatting on the phone, when suddenly your guy asks: “So … what are you wearing?” The next thing you know, his voice is lower, he’s breathing heavily, and he’s waiting for you to …

“Er … touch your thingy. Tee-hee.”

Clearly, not all gals were blessed with a throaty voice, a sailor’s vocabulary, and the confidence to get hot and heavy over the phone. That’s why we asked “Chelsea,” a real live phone-sex operator, for tips on what guys like … and how to raise your phone-sex comfort level if you’re the shy type.

Get Comfortable

Part of the lure of sex chat lines is that callers are safely ensconced in their own environments, which puts them at ease and helps them open up about their fantasies.

Find a place where you can talk — or do other things, wink wink — in privacy. Turn out the lights, or fill the bathtub with bubbles — whatever makes you feel less vulnerable and more relaxed.

Sex Up Your Voice

To ante up the seduction factor, lower your register, and speak a bit more slowly than usual — think breathy and husky. This will help you get in the mood, and it keeps your nosy roommate from overhearing. A glass of wine or whiskey may help, but don’t overindulge. You want to sound sultry, not slurred.

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