Let’s say you want out… now: Leaving in a hurry could be a really bad decision.  Unless the night was a COMPLETE mistake, you should probably give him a heads up.  What if you try to make a quick getaway and pull a Cinderella by leaving something behind  that could lead him to you? Even if this isn’t someone that you ever want to see again, let him know.  You don’t want him to think you’re interested and continue to contact you until you have to block his number.  Pull the “late for a meeting” excuse and jet.  The easiest way to avoid future contact without sounding completely rude is by avoiding giving out your contact information.

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You had fun? Keep it going without coming off as clingy: If this is someone that you like and want to see again, you want to let him know without seeming too serious too fast.  Throw on his dress shirt and get both of you some coffee.  Have a small breakfast together and leave.  Don’t stay for too long, and he will probably want to get dinner with you later that night.  This is when you might want to pull a Cinderella.  If you’re feeling adventurous, leave behind a little something (make up, scarf) that he will hold onto until you see each other again.

Unsure? Need some more time? Give yourself a few days so that you don’t keep doing the same thing then regretting it.  Make a plan for later in the week and see how you feel until then.  Use that time to try to figure out his deal and decide if it’s something that you want to pursue.  Just remember that one drunken night doesn’t make you obligated to see him again- It’s important to do what you want to.

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For most women, One Night Stands are never hard to find. We can get a man to pretty much have sex with us when ever and where ever. It turns out nature does know what it’s doing (sometimes, anyway.) Research has shown what many of us already notice: “Women experience an increase in sexual desire when we are most fertile,” according to Ask.com.

Sometimes you may want to meet someone and let your sexual desires out, even if it is not for actual intercourse, just for a hook up, or as black people say “get with him.” Hooking up has come to define sexual relationships for most of today’s teens and young women. It can mean anything from kissing and touching to oral sex or intercourse. Vagueness is its hallmark according to a story on Boston.com. Always know thy self and use a condom.

No Judgement Fridays: The Top Five Don’ts Of The Booty Call

Choice is key: This is a one time thing only, so do it when you are feeling extra free like on vacations, business trips and when you just need a change. The only must haves: extra cute with a tight body, i.e: Dwayne Johnson

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No Oral Sex: You can get kinky with positions, but it is never a safe idea to put an unknown penis in your mouth and vice-versa. The last thing you want to get is herpes simplex 1, a virus with symptoms including cold sores on the mouth–not cute.

No Cuddling Afterward: It is over, and hopefully it was great. Now, go home and take a shower. There is no need to have a tender moment with a one-timer.

Never Admit It: When you meet the next love of your life only discuss boyfriends, not booty calls and one night stands because the number of partners you have had matters to men. This one should never be spoken of and/or added to the list.

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Maybe this is your first time..maybe you’ve experienced this moment a thousand times before. The night has passed and you can see the sun starting to shine through the window. You look to the man next to you and may either smile or grimace to yourself. “What the hell was I thinking? And how the hell do I get out of here?” Even if you were fortunate enough to have someone really gorgeous laying beside you in the bed the thought of what he will think as soon as he opens his eyes could bring a woman to tears. With infinite choices sometimes the easiest exit is the simplest. This is our guide to a graceful exit no matter how nasty the night got.

Here are some ways to make a graceful exit no matter how nasty the night got:

Don’t Think Too Much or Get “Too Deep”
Here comes the first step of making an exit. Time for a reality check-you just slept with a stranger. No matter how many sweet nothings were whispered in your ear, or if he gave you his last name out of courtesy, you still don’t know this man. Many things are said when things go bump in the night. There is a remote possibility that things may lead elsewhere in the future but until he pursues that leave it alone. Realize that most men operate on a different level than females sexually. True some females can separate emotion from physical fulfillment but for men it almost comes naturally. As women we are innately emotional by nature(not a bad thing)! Keep the interaction very simple and uncomplicated. When you first wake dress yourself as if you’re just waking up for work on a Monday morning. If you start getting dressed and feeling self-conscious or slutty he’s going to read that through your body language. Conduct yourself with extreme confidence, own your actions, and accept your choices. You will feel better walking away. Exchange goodbyes, maybe add in a random “i enjoyed myself” so that he knows the experience left a good impression on your mind. If you haven’t already exchanged numbers or agreed to leave it alone at this point. Trust me, if a man knows he wants to see you again he will make sure he knows how to contact you.

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The “Walk of Shame” Doesn’t Have to Be Shameful
Don’t bother trying to clean yourself up at his place. Get home as soon as possible to avoid an awkward situation. Washing your face and combing your hair are the least of your worries. You need a proper pampering at home so you can relax. Washing your face does no good if you have morning breath and smell like a mixture of sex, perfume, and sweat. So you’ve gotten past the small talk and handled yourself super cool up until the point that you make your exit from the scene. Time to go outside into the daylight where people will see you most likely in your “club clothes” if you left from a party or club from the night prior. The reality is that this happens regularly in the world, and unless you let what people think or say about you hurt- you’re going to be just fine. Hopefully you’re returning from a fulfilling night of sensual satisfaction so carry yourself with a little bit of confidence. You’re a woman who knew what she wanted and went after it.

Having a One Night Stand Doesn’t Make You a Whore
So you get home and it’s time to shower and get on with your day. Take the time to pamper yourself and relax. Unwind and your mind will be more at ease. Having a fling overnight doesn’t make you a whore. Your personal conduct and behavior on a daily basis determines that. Don’t beat yourself up too much or allow guilt to consume you. “Good girls” have one night stands too! You have control over your emotions and feelings towards yourself. No one can make you feel inferior without you allowing them to. If this is unlike your normal behavior just chalk it up to experience, and take the situation for exactly what it was.

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As a great big “thank you” to the panty-throwers at every one of his concerts, singer Usher is going on a ladies-only tour starting on November 2.

The chanteur is launching his “One Night Stand” tour in Atlantic City, NJ with a set that will evidently appeal to his 100%-female crowd. When asked why those XY-holders weren’t allowed, Usher simply said that he “relishes the challenge.”

I can already think of at least 50 women who are waiting eagerly on Ticketmaster.

Do you wanna leave your boyfriend at home and check out the One Night Stand tour with your girls? Check out the dates below.

Nov-02-Sun Atlantic City, NJ       The Borgata Event Center
Nov-03-Mon New York, NY         Hammerstein
Nov-04-Tue Washington, DC       Warner Theatre
Nov-05-Wed Philadelphia, PA      Electric Factory
Nov-07-Fri Mashantucket, CT     MGM Grand
Nov-08-Sat Toronto, ON             Kool Haus
Nov-10-Mon Atlanta, GA            Tabernacle
Nov-12-Wed Detroit, MI             The Fillmore
Nov-13-Thu Chicago, IL             House of Blues
Nov-18-Tue San Fran, CA          Warfield Theater
Nov-19-Wed Los Angeles, CA    Club Nokia L.A. Live
Nov-20-Thu Los Angeles, CA     Club Nokia L.A. Live
Nov-21-Fri Las Vegas, NV          The Pearl
Nov-24-Mon Houston, TX          House of Blues
Nov-25-Tue Dallas, TX              House of Blues