The title of this article doesn’t mean your hubby’s keeping some wild secrets that you don’t really WANT to know about (well, maybe he is, but how would we know?). Instead, Parenting Magazine has compiled a list of 6 things your husband SHOULD be telling you, but doesn’t for whatever reason. Check it out below and see if you two have some communicating to do!

[From Parenting.com]

Men talk to me all the time about sex, which is only natural, since I’m a sex therapist and I make my living talking to people about their sex lives. But it’s funny how many guys like to talk to me when I’m not working, when I’m pushing my sons in their double stroller or watching them at the playground. Neighbors know what I do, and it seems to draw the men to me –and they open up about certain things that the guys who actually come to see me with their wives just don’t. Every time this happens, I end up saying the same thing: “Dude, don’t tell me, tell your wife.” Then comes the part where he shrugs and says, “Yeah, I guess you’re right, I’ll do that,” but you and I both know it won’t happen.

So I’m here, on dads’ behalf, to tell you the things they think, but won’t always say:

“I want to cuddle.”

Guys who were never big on cuddling (except, of course, in the early days when they were trying to get in your pants and convince you to stick around) are as surprised as anyone to discover that now that there’s someone else competing for your time and attention, they yearn for the physical and emotional connection that comes with a simple snuggle. Sure, all things considered, we’d prefer to have sex and then cuddle. And for some men, the cuddle is welcome because it gives us a tiny shred of hope that you want more (yes, even though we know we have to get up early tomorrow).

Too often, being a dad feels like one long, constant interruption, especially when it’s the end of the evening and we’ve finally made it to bed, only to have to deal with baby monitors beeping, desert-parched voices desperately calling out for water, and malicious talking Elmos digging their battery packs into our spines. It feels like there’s always something getting between us and you. That’s why cuddling is as much of a relief as finally getting off our feet for the day. It reminds us we still have you. Even if sex isn’t happening.

“Take charge in bed. Please?”

Okay, here’s the deal: As dads, we know that sex often feels like a chore on your to-do list. And because we also know that there are a lot of chores on that list (many of which we do our best to avoid), we end up lobbing a lot of sexual softballs in your direction knowing that most of them won’t be in your sexual strike zone. But after a while, all that pitching starts to wear us down. Sex may feel like a chore to you, but always having to be the one to initiate it starts to feel like a responsibility to us. And the last thing we need is more responsibility. Maybe it’s a function of how dads are genetically wired, but we can’t look into our children’s little eyes without seeing visions of college tuitions, spring breaks, trips abroad, and the little Picasso who’s going to grow up to be a starving artist. Even if these are years away, it feels like they’re right around the corner. The sense of long-term pressure and responsibility keeps us up at night, which gets us thinking about sex (since we happen to be up already).

So please, we’d love it if you’d surprise us by coming on to us. Get naughty with us, talk dirty, tell us a secret fantasy. Tell us you had a “sexy dream” last night. That’ll do the trick. You can act all bashful if you want, but when we ask you to tell us more (and we will), describe how you threw us down on the bed and made us your love slave.

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What’s something YOU shouldn’t tell your husband?

Okay, so the recession sucks. Pretty badly, for some. But does economic strife mean your relationship has to suffer? Not so, says The Frisky’s Jessica Wakeman.

[From The Frisky]

The drastic front page financial news is certainly a downer. As layoffs sweep the nation and more homes are foreclosed, tensions are running higher than CEO bonuses. But it’s not all gloom and doom out there – lots of Americans are saying that the recent economic downturn is affecting their romantic relationships in a positive way.

Take it from them-after the jump are 10 reasons why the recession is actually good for your love life…

1. Because there’s less pressure to show off on dates.
Pinching pennies is easy on the wallet and on the ego. By giving up fancy dinners out on the town, Justin, 33, in New York City, says he and his boyfriend find “solace” in their more low-key plans. He said he views their money saving ways as a “staycation” – a vacation where you stay at home – so there is “much less pressure on going out and being fabulous.”

2. Because a laid-off love has more time to spoil you.
You still come home tired after a long day’s work; your significant other has been job searching in his pajamas all day. Who do you think has more energy to dole out the TLC?

Alana, 25, from California, says that after her boyfriend lost his job, he made pampering his sweetheart his new job. “One day, I arrived home to find a hundred tea lights already lit in my bedroom, music playing, lotions out, and the bed turned down,” she says. “Everything was in place so that I could slip out of my clothes and enjoy a nice, long massage from my honey.”

Now doesn’t that sound nice?

3. Because you’ll finally take the plunge and move in together.
Deciding to cohabitate is such a big step for a relationship that it’s easy to stress over it. Wendy, 27, from Los Angeles, is dating an actor and they used to live separately – until they realized how much more they could save by sharing a bed and a lease. The recession “pushed us to move in together because sharing one bedroom is lighter on our wallets,” she says, adding, “It has also been amazing for our relationship.”

4. Because you can watch whole seasons of serial TV together.
Now is the best time ever to perfect the ideal spooning position – so make like a couch potato and rent TV series you can watch from start to finish together.

Michael, 24, and his girlfriend both work in entry-level jobs in financial services in New York City and he says there is a good chance that both of them might be laid off in the months ahead. So they’re preemptively saving money by going out on the town less and Netflix-ing old TV shows instead.

“We’re trying to build emergency cash, just in case, and as a result we tend to make our evenings together around just being with each other,” he says. “There’s been some take-out Chinese and “West Wing” evenings that have been totally fantastic.”

5. Because more free time means more time for getting to know each other.
Nine-to-five is a long time to be away from your new infatuation. Kate, 28, a journalist in New York City, lost her job earlier this year – exactly when she started dating a guy who had just returned to the U.S. from a year abroad and was also looking for a job.

“It was a great way to spend the first couple of weeks of a new relationship,” Kate says, bragging about eight-hour smooching sessions. “That’s when you just want to be around someone all the time-and we actually could be.”

What are five more ways the recession can help your love life? Click here to find out.